Zebrig Archive

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7	Alimony She's saying she's going to go for it and get it. We have 1 child together, at which I know I'm on the hook for child support. Fuck whatever the hell she's saying, GO TO A LAWYER AND LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY. Child support is just that to support the child, if you have kids you should pay child support. Everything else go to a lawyer, a good one if that is possible and listen to what they say, ask all your questions in regards to divorce. A divorce is the end of the marriage, it's not a you and h…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/23 09:39 AM
1	Is it normal to find your ex wife incredibly attractive ? joining a fighting club Don't forget the first rule of the fight club, we don't talk about the fight club!	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/22 09:34 AM
14	How does this make sense? JESUS on a popsicle CHRIST. STOP TAKING LEGAL ADVICE FROM YOU WIFE. Hire a lawyer, if possible hire a good lawyer. This is not a situation of you and her against something, this is a situation of YOU AGAINST HER, and you can believe she will do whatever she can to favor her side. Again hire a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/22 10:27 PM
16	She wants alimony and child support Fellas, from what I can tell, I'm totally and undoubtedly screwed. Any advice? Get a lawyer, if possible get a good lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/22 02:41 PM
6	Why would my soon to be ex wife lie and say "I don't even have any boyfriends."? Prepare yourself it will not only be that. She did nothing wrong, i repeat NOTHING WRONG. Even something as buying milk? she bought whole milk instead of almond milk? YOU are at fault for not telling/reminding her to buy almond milk, even if the milk was for her. All the problems in the relashionship? ALL OF THEM are your fault, or another person fault not hers. She won't take accountability/responsability for any of the wrong doings, you worked to much, you gave her to litle time, you suffucate…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/22 02:36 PM
4	planning on starting the process of getting divorced at the beginning of the year First of all go to a lawyer, he/she will tell you the best case scenario and the worst case scenario, then YOU LISTEN TO YOUR LAWYER, do what they advise you to. Then depending on what your lawyer says and advises you, think carefully and rationally your next steps, try to not involve emotion.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 05:00 PM
2	Should I get divorced? The times I am home there is nothing but constant arguments. This doesn't look like a healthy relashionship, but and this is a big but, before divorcing you can try couples counseling. I personally would inform her that the relashionship as it is, just isn't working so we can try couples counseling to try to better our communication and deal with alot of underling issues or we can divorce. This is if there are no other big issues such as cheating or things that big. If she or you have cheated, i…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/22 07:10 AM
1	So, how do I go about breaking it to her? First before talking to her about divorce, talk to your lawyer, LISTEN TO HIS/HER ADVICE. Only after talkting to your lawyer, having a new account only in your name, basically all your ducks in a row, then you can simply leave a letter over the divorce papers if you want. This way with a letter she won't have any way to fight or assault you if that happens, she won't be able to make claims of agression or abuse because you are not there. If she is mentally ill as you say, you can also go to her …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/22 05:27 PM
3	When to change attorney? Change your lawyer right away, it looks like her doesn't have your best interest in mind or just don't have the time to deal with all the things. Go to another lawyer, 1 you feel okay with and ask them all those questions, explain your case and see what you can do.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/22 05:05 PM
6	Introducing kids to new partner Wait at least 3 to 6 months, then introduce your partner, take them to places where they can mingle together but still be apart, like the playground where you call all play and eat an ice cream together but your kids can still play with the other kids, and your partner can stay with you and spend quality time. After that you can do boardgames when they are with you and invite your partner to play (they should already know your kids, and be friendly with each other). Don't force them to be with y…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/22 07:15 AM
13	What are some of the biggest struggles men and boys go through? The biggest strugles for men and boys in my opinion: You don't matter, what you do matters. (this is the opinion of many people, man and woman, that man/boys don't matter, what matter is what they do/provide) The weight of emotions, i heard it alot when i was small, just shake it off, go fowards it passes, crying is for girls, etc. So i didn't learn how to deal with emotions, so what i did was i shut them down(like a switch), i became almost emotionless as i didn't know how to deal with them(on …	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 01:02 PM
7	Who Should Leave the House on her terms. She choose divorce, she could have choosen marriage counseling or another 1000 alternatives but she chose divorce. i'm not feeling it anymore she says (50%/60% she has another person that makes her feel). But as she chose divorce, you choose to go to a lawyer and not get totaly screwed on the divorce, contact your divorced friends and find a good lawyer, follow his/her advice, if they tell you to do something you DO IT, this is no longer a relashionship this is now business, and in…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/22 01:50 PM
14	Who Should Leave the House Go to a lawyer, LISTEN TO HIS ADVICE.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/22 11:58 AM
2	Do men prefer women lower than them? They can be man, but maybe they are not the man for you? And by man or boy i am not talking about age but about mentality. What i say to my sister is, don't be with a person for everyone else, be with the person that makes it right, with the person that will support you and you will support him/her, be with the person that is happy for your achievements as they are for theirs.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/22 11:39 AM
1	Do men prefer women lower than them? Men prefer woman, boys prefer girls. Educate yourself, be your best self in all aspects of life and you will find a man for you, that will love you and hope the best for you. Quit educating, quit trying to be your best self in all aspects of life and you will find a boy, that will love you but won't want you to be better, won't want you to do more, won't want you to progress.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/22 11:24 AM
2	getting the number.. In service job, everyone will be friendly and flirty, IT'S THEIR JOB. And you will tip because they were friendly, and next time they will continue to be friendly and flirty. etc.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 06:32 PM
3	Will I be judged differently by women? Consult a lawyer, but don't sign or agree to anything without a paternity test Confirming you are the father.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 08:04 PM
1	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? First of all what do you consider a casual laid? A hook up? FWB? So this person is in collage, but as he ever had a GF? so we can see how social he is or isn't. And is he looking just for sex? Or for a relashionship? I don't even mean BF/GF, just FWB or similar. Most of the problems today is that the men don't shut up, they talk alot, they talk themselves out of pussy instead of into it. Then most often this kind of people don't know how to talk, they brag about everything, and don't listen as m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 05:04 PM
13	Is it ok to track my car's location? Don't talk to her about it, most likely she will lie AGAIN, she will gaslight you AGAIN, and try to manipulate you AGAIN. Talk to a lawyer and DO WHAT HE/SHE SAYS. Don't talk to your wife, and if the lawyer says you don't need to inform her then don't, she did this, now she can live with the consequence of her actions. And as the car is in your name you are legally allowed to track it, at least where i live, when you talk to a lawyer make sure of it. Go and get an STD test. If you have kids do a…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/22 08:21 AM
1	My male friends firmly believe when a woman cheats it's a man's fault. Is it possible that they are both "dating" or were "dating" a married woman? And to make themselfs feel better and okay with it, they decided to rationalize that she would only go looking outside the relashionship if she didn't get her need met? Because this is seriously a f*ck up mentality. And if you have or will have a future partner how do you trust this people? How can you be sure they won't try to ruin your relashionship by trying to seduce your partner? In my honest opinion i would cut ba…	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 09:25 AM
2	Am I just too broken? Nah, you aren't broken. You are hurt, at this moment you shouldn't be puting yourself out there. Are you in theraphy? it helps alot, dealing with emotions and traumas (personal experience), it will give you the tools to better deal with some of the sh*t. Don't go out dating at this moment, do things for you, go for a walk, hike, gym, read books, play with your daughter, etc. Do these things FOR YOU. Get better mentaly, physically and emotional, only then should you go out on dates. When you are …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/22 08:26 AM
1	Men: how many of you are willing to risk getting married? At this moment i don't think i will get married, i'm open to a long term relashionship with kids and all the stuff. But after witnessing and living some stuff i believe the only way i would get married is with a very strong pre-nup, and even then i'm not fully confortable. But i also know that i have issues, so maybe in the future if i frind ms right and all aligns who know? but it would need to be a long term relashionship where we knew each other completly, i see today so many people getting m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 01:34 PM