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1	Not having conversation Brother you are NOT WRONG. Having lived and gamed in foreign countries for decades where spoken communication was difficult/minimal I can verify that so much of our communication of VALUE and how we create attraction os NON-VERBAL. Yes, I have met, escalated with and closed women with mostly nonverbal attraction. Learning this level of "game" is crucial to becoming charismatic. BUT! ALSO! Those who did master the local language AND this subcommunication totally dominated far and above those who …	/r/seduction	05/08/21 03:59 AM
1	What to do when she doesn't want to go for the kiss..? Yes! "kino" escalation ladder. Start small and check for positive or negative response. Build up to the kiss. Touch is just part of this, but an important one. Here is one of the best Basic "Kino" Ladder presentations I have seen: https://youtu.be/IzO3NGU1Bgo You may find it helpful in understanding where and when to touch and where and when not to.	/r/seduction	01/08/21 03:35 PM
1	Why is showing clear interest considered so bloody off putting? Was this online only? Or are you meeting girls In Real Life too?	/r/seduction	01/08/21 03:25 PM
2	Is there an upper age limit on guys who can successfully cold approach? This is good! (M45) My one caveat would be that You don't have to go ONTO campus or pretend to be a student to pick up college girls. You just need to be near a campus or campus area. Hang out in the nearby coffee shops, bookstores, pubs, or just walk around. Have a purpose or reason to be there, even if it's just to go for a walk or enjoy a coffee, so you can come from a place of relaxation rather than being in the "hunting" mindset. Just take action when you see a girl you are attracted to and…	/r/seduction	01/08/21 03:20 PM

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