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ZenSawaki/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 05:46 PM
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I only watched the first few minutes. She starts immediatly talking about "evil" without even caring to elaborate on what such thing even means.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 05:07 AM
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The moment someone uses terms like "evil" and try to pass it as something objective they lose all credibility for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 04:00 AM
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I've heard that Peru had implemented forced conscription for men who are not employed nor in education. I was talked to a Peruvian mas who have been in such situation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/25 02:38 PM
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Yeah, I have General Anxiety Disorder. I don't give a shit about "normal" anymore because "normal" people don't show any indication of being any happier than me. I leave the house mostly for practical reasons, not for "fun". But when I do it's a bit of fresh air to see that real life has nothing to do with online echo-chambers. The other I been in a nightclub for the first time in years. It just reconfirmed it: going out isn't any better than staying at home playing viddya. But it was still refr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 03:53 AM
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I didn't. I am neurodivergent myself and barely leave the house, LOL. I don't think I used any demeaning word, did I?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 08:03 AM
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Also remember that feminist reddit is not an accurate representation of reality. Most women posting there are neurodivergents with mental health issues who don't leave the house. They are not a good representation of the real world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 01:38 AM
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Whenever a woman uses the term "real men" is ALWAYS manipulation. They are trying to get you do something or get something from you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/25 01:36 AM
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The point of this discussion is about sexual/romantic validation from women, which is not at all neccessary under any definition, not even from the one you are providing. In fact, having this sort of validation will not neccessarily make you feel less lonely if that's the case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 03:22 PM
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LOL.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 03:16 PM
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Even if it was important to some extent, to need this sort of validation is not a healthy approach. Also, people don't like you when you are needy. People can detect when you are trying to use them to fill an internal void, and it's repelent. Best thing you can do is to learn how to have this validation from within. This will entirely change the way you relate to the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 01:25 AM
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Being social creatures means that you need to live in a society in order to survive. You need a town, a city, a country, etc. Doesn't mean that you have to be needy for validation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 01:12 AM
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It's not healthy for guys to need attention from women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:32 AM
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No, you don't have to. You may believe that you have to if you give a shit. If you don't give a shit, you don't have to care about appearing "safe".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/25 03:30 PM
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Indifference has been working fine so far.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/25 04:01 PM
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Man, it's just an statistical fact that people in the military get cucked more and divorce more than the general population. They also commit more suicide among other things. People who still glorify military life are plain delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:16 AM
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In my experience, it's only mentally unstable, depressed, borderline-suicidal girls that look for men that are way older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:57 PM
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Only for sex but not healthy 30+ guy wants to DATE a 20yo girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:55 PM
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Ok but what do you get from that other than an inflated ego? Shit tests don't exist, or at least not in the sense Seddit believes they do. They are rare, most women don't do that, why should they? A woman who will be constantly testing you will only be a liability for your life. We want people who wants to add value to our lives, not to annoy us. A woman who needs to "test" his man over and over is extremely dependant will only drag you to her same level.
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:21 AM
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It's not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:37 AM
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Okey dokey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:36 AM
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100%. We create a projection in our mind that if I had this or that we would be happy forever. It's self-delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:34 AM
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Yeah, no idea why people here want everyone to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:45 AM
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Doing nothing and saying nothing. Leaving someone alone is the best to show respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:19 AM
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To inflate his ego maybe.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:40 AM
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Have you ever come across the concept of parody?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:18 PM
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Because you are poor and can't afford to date a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:39 AM
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It's a damn parody, dude. How is it so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:06 AM
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It's satyre, dude. It's a parody of the "high value woman" trend. Seems like this sub has a real hard time understanding satyre.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:04 AM
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They sacrifice nothing. The whole point of "sprinkle sprinkle" is women wanting to put zero effort into any relationship and expecting men to give them free stuff just because. That's what the Drizzle Drizzle makes fun of. And honestly if you don't understand that drizzle drizzle is satyre you must be retarded and not a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:44 AM
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Another retard not being able to understand parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:42 AM
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One good day you guys will understand that dating ups are not a representation of reallity. Also, drizzle drizzle is parody. Everyone understand this. Don't be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:39 AM
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Good to know KINGS are finally waking up and deciding to left poor broke dusties aside. If a woman can't make seven figures AT LEAST they simply are not real women. Kings stop accepting cofee dates, if this "woman" can't take you into the most expensive restaurant she is clearly not worth your time. BLOCK AND DELETE. Of course some pickmeishos will disagree but let's be honest brahs, we don't live on cuddles and kisses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:50 AM
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Or maybe forever. Look at all the genociders who had long-lasting wives.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 03:13 AM
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Also, don't believe that these feminist echo-chambers are a good representation of reallity. Most women IRL have no problem with misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:19 AM
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Maybe r/seduction will give better results, it's male-dominated.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:56 AM
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Being misogynistic doesn't prevent you from getting women. You simply do what you must do and have what you have to have. On top of that, if you are misogynistic or not is of no relevance.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:53 AM
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Yes, exactly the same way as we men will normally overlook a woman's criminal record for a good ass and pair of tits, women will overlook misogyny in the presence of other attractive qualities. We humans don't normally choose a partner based on moral quality, we do so based on sexual attributes.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:40 AM
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There are also women with those characteristics that DO date misogynistic men.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:32 AM
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Sure!
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:31 AM
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One of the men I met who had the most relationships has been beating more than one of his gfs, and has restriction orders from 2 of them. Of course there are feminist men who have no issues dating but that's not because they are feminist. They simply have what they have to have and do what they have to do. Being feminist or not doesn't make a man attractive. Incels also "like" women and still hate them. The line between like and hate is very, very thin.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 11:03 PM
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What is your definition of "healthy"?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 10:31 PM
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Not neccessarily. You can even be explicit with your misogyny and get away with it if you are attractive enough. There are several famous examples. On the other hand, you can go full SJW and "fight misogyny" and still get no attraction if you aren't attractive. Misogynistic men can also LIKE women as you say it. It has nothing to do. What you actually want is a man that you find attractive and is not misogynistic, but the key point here is that you find him attractive. If you find the man non-at…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 10:30 PM
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For getting women attracted to you. Now you may claim that there are other reasons to not be mysoginistic and you would be right, but when it comes specifically to getting women attracted to you, it plays no role.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 10:19 PM
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Now say this to the hIgH VaLuE trope, LOL.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 02:48 AM
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Nikki Six fucked every they with playboy models and was still a depressed heroine-addict with suicide ideation. Matthieu Ricard is a celibate monk is a celibate monk and he is labeled as the happiest man on earth.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 02:41 AM
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Most important aspect of dating is not who you are but how you present yourself. It's like marketing, it's not the quality of the product that matters but the way it is presented. If you present in an attractive way there will be women attracted to you regardless of your actual personality, but if you don't present well they will not be attractive regardless of how you actually are.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 02:37 AM
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Removing the misogyny is not neccessary. Being attractive and misogynistic is still more attractive than being non-attractive and non-misogynistic. Even in this sub there are many women in relationship with redpillers.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 02:32 AM
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Person A still holds truth. You don't have to be "non-misogynistic" in order to get women. The problem is that incels are unnatractive regardless.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 02:24 AM
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Feminist echo-chambers are not a reflexion of real life.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/24 12:52 AM
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No, the sub. It's an incel sub in disguise.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 09:35 AM
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Oh, the Incels are back.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 09:03 AM
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Right. There is no historical leader in history that stood out for lifting weight or having a jacked-up body.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/24 12:28 PM
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Because they live in a wolrd of fantasy dettached from reallity.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 05:56 PM
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Nope. The reason the body-positive movement doesn't focus on men is that are not interested in the movement because of fragile masculinity. Admitting that something hurts your feelings is very hard for the fragile man. And men simply don't support each other as women do.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/24 12:07 PM
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Self-hatred. It's a projection of their own pain. Healthy people don't enjoy seeing others suffering.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 01:27 PM
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Me! I am Argentinian and am familiar with some of those. Why do you ask?
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 06:58 PM
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Quit social media entirely, they bring nothing of value.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 05:03 AM
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Pearly should go back to the kitchen and stop telling her superiors what to do, LOL. According to her own movement. Honestly, his opinion is that women should be subservant to men, but she is the exception? she says women shouldn't be allowed to vote because their opinion doesn't count, but her does? she is also not a virgin wife, she doesn't even follow the rules she wants to impose on others.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 07:41 PM
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Sorry that this happened to you :(
/r/ExRedPill16/11/23 04:18 PM
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There is the voice tonality too. It says a lot about a person's headspace. Maybe facial expression too.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 07:53 PM
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Single moms rob them from the opportunity to spread their precious genes, LOL.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 01:13 PM
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Because they are afraid of people whose existence doesn't correlate with their standards. Why else? that's the only reason people hate each other.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 12:32 PM
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Whenever one of these people use the term "biologicaly" you already know they are talking bullshit. None of their crap correlates with any actual biology, they just want a "scientific" reason to excuse their obnoxious behavior. EDIT: The debunking makes sense.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 06:03 PM
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The "benefits" that you get from quitting porn and masturbation are 100% placebo. However, porn DOES influence your inner world and your gaze. OP's gaze is clearly influenced by fetish porn and will benefit from quitting.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 06:18 AM
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STOP. WATCHING. PORN. This is a belief that you very likely got from some weird porn category. r/pornfree
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 06:14 AM
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Yes. Having low self-esteem is a pre-requisit for falling the redpill rabbit hole.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 05:59 AM
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You definitely do have limiting beliefs so do CBT.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 04:25 AM
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Too bad I am not eligible. Also definintely not a sensation seeker. Looking forward to the results!.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:21 AM
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Hitler taking over Poland in just a week sounds like success to me /s.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:17 AM
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Maybe in the USA but definitely not in my country. So it's definitely not an universal thing.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 05:40 AM
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That's the data I saw. Or probabbly could be that they are just deciding to not date at all.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 05:24 AM
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Yeah. I've been in that situation and recieved the same bullshit generic advice from one side, and the typical retarded attacks from the other. My conclusion is that social skills are the determining factor. By far. Everything else is of secondary importance. Social anxiety is probabbly the worst cock-blocker of all, but at the end of the day you can work your way around it. Self-esteem is also very important. EDIT: What you have to understand though, is that this "sexual underclass" is in no wa…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 03:41 AM
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How do you know they are "lonely"? Loneliness is a feeling and has nothing to do with your relationship situation. I am single and don't feel lonely. Other people feel lonely while in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 02:53 AM
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They are more likely dating men in other age-ranges. The surge in "lonely men" has mostly affected men in their 20s, so it's very likely that women in their 20s are dating men in their 30s or something. Video games are better than dating anyways, so I can't blame them.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 02:51 AM
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Contrary to what redpillers want to sell you, women care little about those things. Not like they don't care at all, but they have a secondary importance. The most important thing for a woman is the emotions that they experience when they are in your presence. The logical details of your life are only of secondary importance. In fact, it's mostly men that care about those things the most. Work on how to be more charismatic, more filtratious, more charming, more assertive. There is material onlin…
/r/ExRedPill31/10/23 01:58 AM
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The only thing the Red Pill teaches is that men need to work hard to be valuable, while women are inherently valuable. Which is bullshit. Maybe you percieve yourself as lacking value but that says more about your own self-esteem than it says about reallity. They also encourage women to be wives, not promiscuous. And there is no reason they should stop doing whatever the fuck they want. If a woman chooses to be a Hoe, why should she deserve a high-value man? High Value people don't exist. "Value"…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 10:22 PM
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As an Austistic man, I think the main reason is that we have lots of trouble understanding abstract things that aren't purely logical. And sexual/romantic relationships are FAR from being logical. In fact, logic plays a very little role. And then the redpill comes, and the redpill makes logical sense. But something making logical sense doesn't make it true. There are plenty of things that make logical sense and are still bullshit. What Autistic men have to do is to develope the abstract, no logi…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 10:16 PM
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Yes, and this sub often falls in this type of delusion. "Just be nice, take a shower, get a haircut". Yes, there are some guys that are such a mess that actually need this sort of basic advice, but those things on themselves are not what will get you the women you like, they are just basic human decency. Most guys who fall in the redpill actually have deeper, more abstract problems (that the redpill doesn't solve either) that they should be working on. But until there's an alternative positive-y…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 10:12 PM
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Self-improvement makes you depressed because it's rooted in a sense that there is something inherently wrong with you, that being you is wrong, that you NEED to change. No happy person follows any sort of self-improvement. EDIT: As a Buddhist, "monk mode" is just terrible cringe, LOL. If you want to live like a monk then become an actual monk instead of larping as one. There is also nothing to be attained from living like that. Buddhist monks renounce worldly pleasure and posessions in order to …
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 01:56 PM
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So, you want to know if this is made on purpose, is this right? maybe yes, maybe no, but don't worry about it. It's not your business. Just do the best of your life in your current conditions.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 01:49 AM
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I don't think anyone with good mental health goes to 4chan, really.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 01:48 AM
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PUA still exists. Playing with Fire is a very popular one. And Owen Cook has been re-uploading his old pick up videos. But both of them are against the RP though. PUA is an extremely wide thing, anyone who teaches how to seduce is PUA, there is not one specific ideology.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 01:30 AM
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Not any advice in particular but the whole mindset behind. "You are not good the way you are, you have to become billionaire or else you die alone. If you ever get a girlfriend or wife she more likely already had sex with bazilions of men in college who were all rich and successfull Chads, she has more options than you and will cheat if you ever show any weakness. Never show your emotions or be vulnerable or else your wife will humiliate you and cuckold you with a giga Chad Tyrone. And remember,…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 01:18 AM
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Or just date poor women.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 01:15 AM
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Idk but one thing for sure is that it's terrible for your mental health. Get the fuck out from there.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/23 09:03 PM
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None. But at the same time they are so needy for attention that will fall for whatever girl gives them the time of the day.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 01:54 AM
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Nobody who uses the term "alpha" can be giving a wise message.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/23 05:28 PM
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"Simp" isn't a real thing, and only redpill man-children use the term unironically.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 02:19 AM
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and don’t forget that your real life might be harder, but it’s the only one you’ve got This.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 02:12 AM
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Sexuality is very subjective, there are infinite ways to approach it. There is no "norm" regarding sexuality. What this articles says is neither right or wrong, it will be true for some and not for others.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:35 AM
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Trust and personal connection is a prerequisite for attraction Nah. It's very subjective. Some people need personal connection and others don't.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 01:33 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 04:39 PM
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In my experience, people who have high body count usually live a promiscuous, irresponsible life. Promiscuous people are usually reckless, unreliable, prone to drawn into extreme experiences, prone to drugs and alochol, they have little self-control. In general, they are less trustable. (I am not promoting any sort of "purity", I am not even Christian).
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 04:37 PM
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LOL WTF I am 30 and am happier than ever and also in better shape than ever.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 04:17 AM
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Nah, don't hate yourself. You are good.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 04:53 AM
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Do whatever you want. It's that simple.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 07:34 PM
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Uber-prostitution. The same "be your own boss" nonsense, now in this case it's more like "be your own pimp". A system designed to exploit the vulnerable and the unpriviliged. As for the women who do this kind of work, I really don't care. I don't care about what each person does for a living as long as they aren't criminals. Also, I don't see how I would benefit from judging. The redpill guys have a problem with it because of their inferiority complex but I seriously don't see any benefit of eve…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 07:14 PM
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Or probabbly they had a mindfulness spiritual journey and realized that being in touch with the ultimate reallity is way more fullfilling than wordly pleasures like sex, and looking back to all the time they wasted looking for this meaningless pleasure would have been best invested in things that actually matter.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 07:09 AM
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I haven't have sex in years but I am still living happier than ever, and currently not bothering with looking for sex. You could call me a voluntary celibate if you want. The last year I counsciously decided to not have sex just to see what happens. Now I am indifferent to sex. Like, if someone attractive wants to have sex then maybe, but definitely won't looking for it.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/23 04:50 AM
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He actually has been exposed several times because a big chunk of his "lay count" is made up of escorts, LOL.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:18 AM
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This is the kind of shit that makes me wish to live in North Korea.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:09 AM
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Did you check Mark Manson and Todd V Dating? What about DrNerdlove?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:06 AM
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Yeah.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 05:56 AM
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"Even a broken clock gives the right time twice a day". Even the most ignorant person in this planet is sometimes right.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 05:55 AM
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But still live miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:31 PM
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Nah. I could approached hundreds of women and never had to resort to that kind of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:46 AM
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Wow, I can only imagine people who do this sort of things but live miserable, unfulfilling lives. Why else would they go out their way to do shit like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:17 AM
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This! Also your ability to hold eye contact, your sense of fashion, how confident you come out when talking to people. All those things are more important than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:10 PM
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Most people who throw the "just be nice" and other BP advice are usually just average dudes who happened to 1 or 2 girlfriends and believe they already experts on the matter. No man who actually fucks will give you this bullshit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:59 AM
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I can tell you for a FACT than your posture and bodylanguage have way more impact on how women percieve you than irrelevant stuff like your jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:17 AM
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Do you think these exist in mainstream advice for men? They existed in the PUA community.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:10 AM
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I just discovered this Purple Pill thing and it's very compatible with my views, so I am gonna anser (I'm a man). The things I agree with the red pill are not things the red pill discovered, just facts I learnt through life and the red pill is just telling the obvious. ​ If you are a man and want to pick up women you gotta figure out the system and work on it, no one will come to you by art of magic and accept you the way you are no matter how much of a sad loser you are. Life's not a Disney mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:41 AM
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Yeah, saw that shit happens. PUA is only good if you take it with a grain of salt and focus on having a balanced life IMO. Not surprising that all those gurus how have lots of sex in their 20s and 30s end up lonely losers latter in life. There are good famous examples.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 04:28 PM
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Yes, if they are saying that they plain lying. If you are an average man you won't be pulling Victoria's Secret models, that's obviously bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 01:48 AM
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This is the answer I gave to another similar question: The PUA community promotes a highly selfish and hedonistic culture, in which sexual pleasure becomes the center of your life. Some of the "couches" border on sex addiction, or probabbly they are just plain SAs. And definitely the juice isn't worth the squeeze. I've gone from a depressed anti-social guy to being able to hold conversations with women, dates, sex, etc. But at the end of the day it felt empty. In order to "succeed" in the PUA wo…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 10:46 PM
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Wow, that sounds like you were one of the heavily involved dudes. Share your experience if you want.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 10:45 PM
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Good question! The girl I better connected was a very excentric arsty girl, and was a stand-up comedian. It's hard to explain was I liked more about here because it's very abstract, something in her energy. Another one was a police officer and a martial arts teacher. Smoking hot body and took no shit from anyone. The kind of women a lot of men find intimidating. Too bad she only wanted a hook up. Another girl who lived in the USA and taught me how to make some American food. Those are the ones I…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 09:58 PM
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Don't worry, I am also not an English speaker. Well, I learn how to talk to women without creeping the shit out of them, LOL. And also general ideas of what is generally attractive for a woman. The most important lesson I got is that you don't have to be reactive and take everything with a grain of salt, specially rejection. I would say the main difference between guys who succeed in this area and those who don't is how much of a backbone they have. A man being stoic is definitely an attractive …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 08:22 PM
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Cool to hear! Don't know why people here are against cold approach, it's actually an awesome way to get to meet people. I met lots and lots of interesting people via cold approach, not only women. Imagine demonizing just talking. boils down to being assertive & being internally validated. Yeah, that's pretty much it. Gonna check David Tian, let's see what he has to share.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 07:04 PM
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Therapists don't do that kind of work. I personally found dating coaches like Mark Manson and Todd V dating to be usefull but for some reason they are nt liked here.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 06:20 PM
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What most in this sub fail to understand is that the reason guys get into the manosphere is because of need, because the manosphere provides practical advice. And the same time they can't provide any useful advice, they are not creating an alternative.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 04:31 PM
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"Just be yourself". "Join a club or other social activity". "Focus on getting to know her as a person first". "Be friends at the begining". All this things may work for a neurotypical extrovert who is naturaly social, but if you are an anxious introvert, a late bloomer or have Asperger this means absolute jack shit. You obviously don't have this experience.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 10:14 PM
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it’s because they have 0 social skills No shit Sherlock, because being a nerd has no correlation with having it hard at socializing. /s. The experience of a typical atypical unconventional dude is that they get problems getting women, and this is exactly why the manosphere exist. If the bullshit mainstream advice worked then the manosphere would not be a thing.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 08:49 PM
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No, it's stupid. it asumes out of nowhere that men who have problem meeting women have poorn hygiene or poor physical shape, which is not truth. Use your brain, if it was as easy as just taking a shower then the red pill would not exist. I am yet to hear about someone who went like "teheee! it was actually very easy, I just to take a shower and get in better shape, now I don't need the red pill anymore!". Stuff like this only works if you are completely neuro-typical, what is often known as a "n…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 07:08 PM
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Sometimes, but most of the time is just the typical normie "just get a shower bro" kind of stuff. The same useless advice given by mainstream media, that we all know it only works if you are a normie.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 05:44 PM
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✅ (Great to watch for leaving the redpill)✅ None of them is good for leaving the redpill, they all follow an equally dogmatic and narrow minded approach to life, except maybe HealthyGamer. Better yet, read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle and ditch every ideology, reconnect with real life.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 03:13 PM
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And it will be like this as long as more and more men find the red pill relatable to their personal reality. The solution for this is to create dating advice for men that is realistic, actionable and practical but without the toxicity. This sub fails miserably in doing so.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 02:38 PM
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Unfortunately there is no middle ground. You gotta choose betweeen the PUA "only bang 9s and 10s! your value as a person is tied to lay account!"; and the vague, unrealistic blue pill "just take a shower bro!".
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 02:36 PM
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Today it's becoming less acceptable in developed countries to be completely unemployed even if you take care of the house. But here in South America it's still ok for a woman to don't have a paid job and to take care of the house, as long as they are actually taking care of the house and not just pretending to do so to avoid working. But still, women making their own money and providing will not accept a man who has no money. We don't have those things here in Argentina, several people are unemp…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 04:37 PM
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Because I was a horny depressed loser in my teens and 20s and wanted to know how to get to talk to women without creeping them out, LOL. So I googled "how to talk to women" and there it was the PUA stuff.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 04:10 PM
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Not the case for me, but may be an usefull advice for someone else.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 03:55 PM
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I am from Argentina which is one of the most feminist countries in the world. Not traditional at all. Women make their own money but it doesn't translate to them being ok with their partner having less or no money. Quite the opossite, they rise their standards even more, because making their own money means they can expect more from a man, or at least they believe so. It's not uncommon to hear women saying that because they make their own money they are entitled to a man who makes even more. Why…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 03:29 PM
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Yeah, don't know why he is listed there.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:30 PM
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I mean a channel whose main purpose is dating advice for men. I've been checking some of those channels (Chad Chad, penguinz0) and they only touch the subject once in a while. Also they have the same stupidity pattern of the redpill, jusging people they don't like with stupid labels like "pick me" which is not different from labeling someone a simp. I am looking for someone similar to DrNerdlove, he used to give good advice but turned out to be a rapist.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:25 PM
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Would you date your partner if he was homeless? You are either all exceptions or live in a country that is radically different from mine.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:39 PM
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Of course there are relationships like this but it's not at all the rule, and it's also a very modern phenomena. You being in your 20s actually says a lot. Women making their own money generally doesn't translate to they being all right with men having less or no money. The oppossite is true, women making money usually have higher standards for men in regards to money, they seem to reason like "I make my own money so I can expect a man to make at least as much as me".
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 01:28 PM
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You are really blessed. Sexual desire is a burden, and the worst part is that you never got enough, if you fucked 1000 times you will want to fuck 1001 times. I wish convertion therapies were real, I would choose to be asexual.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 09:50 PM
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Ok but don't say you like the person, say that you like the xyz of that person.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 08:14 PM
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Is there any dating advice for men that is safe? Or is all the dating advice inherently toxic?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:29 PM
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As an exPUA, the most difficult part was to overthink every single aspect of reality as to how it relates to women being like this and men being like that. Maybe this overlaps with RP too.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:41 PM
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Am I saying this is wrong? No. Just don't believe that you are morally superior to those who focus mainly on looks or other things.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:32 PM
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That's true in your perception of reality but not in mine.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:30 PM
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To their "soul"? The actual Buddhist term is "Buddha-Nature" but if you want to call it "soul" it's also valid. That seems far more bizarre. It seems perfectly natural to be attracted to the person's various attributes at first, and then eventually love them unconditionally as you grow in love together. To love them unconditionally from the get go would be dilutional at best. See the Buddhist concepts of equanimity and loving-kindness.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:37 PM
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No, you can form relationships if you want, but you do so knowing that they are imperanent and conditioned. This actually makes your life better because you won't have unrealistic expectations. Impermanence is one of the most important concepts in Buddhism, it says that everything that exists will eventually cease to exist. Does it means you have to rennounce the world? No, it means you keep doing things but you know they are impermanent so you don't have unrealistic expectations. This brings a …
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:35 PM
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My point is that your relationship is an exception to the rule, the majority of women don't want to be the breadwinner in a relationship. I researched this same sub in the matter of money and the general consensus HERE is that the man must be able to financially provide to the woman. It's not a redpill thing, it's a society's thing. I don't think it's immoral to be attracted to a man because of his money. What is immoral is to lie about it. I have more respect for an honest gold-digger than I ha…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:31 PM
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Does that matter? Yes, that's what I want to know. Does she have to check all the boxes to meet your approval? No need to be defensive, no one here is judging.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:06 PM
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And are you the breadwinner?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:03 PM
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depression The figures on men abandoning their wives if they become seriously ill Depression is also an illness. Why do you believe it's ok to abandone a person of depression but not because other illnesses? Not judging, just asking. Economic issues are real problems. The point of a relationship is to endure problems together as a team. If economic issues can tear your relationship apart then your relations is worth jackshit.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:36 PM
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How is intelligence shallow? That's a new one to me It's shallow because it's conditional like everything else. That "inteligent" person may have dementia some day. Most people are not attracted to other people, they are attracted to conditioned components of their current existence.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:19 PM
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Being realistic, your relationship is an exception to the rule. The majority of women won't date a man that makes less money than them. I am not saying your relationship is shallow though, but it's definitely an exception in this particular area.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:16 PM
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As a Buddhist, yes. Romantic relationships are bullshit, they are always conditional. Sexual and romantic attraction are always conditioned by factors, and the attraction will only exist as long the conditions are present. If a man is a attracted to a woman because of his looks, then he will only be attracted as long as she has such looks. If a woman is attracted to men because of their money, she will only be attracted to him as long as the money is there. This is the Buddhist principle of cond…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:13 PM
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Having sex will no boost your self-esteem, if that's what you are expecting. In any case, buy a sex doll with that same money. It's a better investement.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:07 AM
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Sounds like a very sad way of living, always having to keep a front and overthink every situation. That's exactly why I left the PUA movement.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 11:45 AM
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No man, I ain't saying that you are spreading hate, I was talking about MGTOW in third person. Sorry if I wasn't clear.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 09:09 PM
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It's both funny and deppressing how everything in the manosphere reduces to getting laid. But hey, "they don't women in a pedestal".
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 06:55 PM
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Part of going your own way is recognizing women are just like men. Nah, everyone with a brain knows that. You can hang with them, but you don’t date or marry them You know, that's why celibate people have doing forever, and you don't see hordes of celibate people calling non-celibate people "simps" or "manginas" or whatever. It's completely ok that you choose not to date nor have sex nor relationships, but that is something humanity has been practicing for thousands of years, you are not more or…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 06:53 PM
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-It is nice to interact with women without trying to make it about them being women. It's amazing how much you can convince yourself is about a woman being "true to female nature" when a cigar is just a cigar. If a woman feels a certain way about something, I don't have to get all deterministic about it. Being free of the non-sense of having to categorize normal human behavior as "femenine" and "masculine" is very liberating. I'll add one more: Having female friends is awesome. Being friends wit…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 06:42 PM
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As a woman who has dated only men and has been swept off her feet by a man who only wanted sex I can tell you the "pickup" community gets it so wrong. Would you elaborate on why? They precisely teach guys to only look for sex.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 05:43 PM
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Did you get this from Mark Manson? It's good advice, not only for dating but for life as a whole. I don't date at all but Manson's advice is very good for life.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 05:36 PM
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Oh shit. Man, how did you get out of TRP after getting it force fed to you?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 04:43 PM
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I never been in the red pill, only in the PUA movement. I am lurking here because there is not "exPUA" sub. But a lot of TRP overlaps with PUA so is also relatable. I was a horny lonely deppressed dude at 20, and I wanted to get a girlfriend. So I just googled "how to get a girlfriend" and ended up in the PUA thing. I didn't get what I wanted it only made more lonley and insecure. Gladly I am out from that shithole. All those losers should get real jobs and earn money in a decent way of predatin…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 04:23 PM
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I don't care if she has kids. Also, having kids doesn't mean you aren't free spirited.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:44 AM
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I agree that this the present reallity of PUA but in the beggining it didn't use to be like that. PUA was just about dudes telling other dudes how to get pussy, there was nothing political about it. There was nothing about "modern women", "promiscuity", "divorce rape" and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:14 AM
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I remember following RSD when it was a thing. One of their core teachings was to not judge people around you, they promoted a live and let live type of mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:07 AM
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Here we have a clever woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:30 AM
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There is no difference. People's past is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:11 AM
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The reallity is that liberal women just want to break traditional gender roles for themselves, but still expect men to fullfill their traditional role. They don't want to be housewives, don't want to be mothers, they want to be independent and career centered. Is this wrong? Not at all. The problem comes when they expect men to be traditional. They expect men to pay for everything, to be career oriented, to perform all the traditional "romantic" gestures. They don't want to fit into traditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:24 PM
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men wanted to make the first move and buy shit for women. So nothing has changed there. No man wants to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:14 PM
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Right. This is just the universal phenomenom of projection, that most people do, regardless of gender. What we see as wrong in other person is just what is wrong in ourselves. Just don't ask in another person what you are not willing or unable to provide yourself. Is it too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:06 PM
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