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| 1 | Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrongWe can disagree then. Honestly, no worries. In my research, I learned how the laws view the dissolution. Its all about dollars and assets. They look at two separate issues: The partners and the children. For child support they create a base figure derived from the communal income. Then they apportion the support requirement based on each parents contribution to that income. Yeah thats usually the husband bearing the greater amount. But not always. Likewise they look at whether or not the other p… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrongHaving it hang over your head colors everything in your life. Its like awaiting a sentencing. Three smart things I did: I sought out a counselor. To help me sort out the wreckage of the marriage and to help me navigate the divorce emotionally. I got a good lawyer. The fourth one I tried. But I also didnt just hand the whole thing over. He was primarily paid to give advice and to review any documents before presentation or filing. I learned every thing I could about divorce in my state. I made th… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/16 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrongExactly. If the other person goes berserk, its a tough row. My ex did some stupid things. Most of them due to laziness. But then its a divorce. Its not a happy thing. But keeping your head is the smart thing to do | /r/MensRights | 30/10/16 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrongIts not a 1:1 comparison. Its about the attitude you have. Throw tantrums like "I'm gonna not work and you wont get anything!" Or try to "win" will do nothing but damage yourself and more importantly, your children. Coincidentally, you will also save a shitload on lawyer fees if you do this. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/16 12:37 PM |
| 17 | Jesus, when my paycheck is $2700 and $2676 goes to my ex, there is something seriously fucking wrongBingo. Thats about how things went for my Ex and I. Sure when it all went down I was mad and hurt and "Not Fair!". The best advice I got (that came from both my counselor and lawyer, separately) "What was a marriage is now a business arrangement. Who started what doesn't matter." I followed their advice. The support I have paid thus far has allowed her time to work on a degree and jump-start her life. I was terrified I was gonna end up living in my car with 99% of my pay going in her pocket. Bec… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/16 08:17 PM |
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