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12

Same. I have.... plenty.... um... of nudes floating around. Sigh. Im just gonna have to accept the risk and possibilities bc ive no alternative 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:30 AM
2

This is so fucking sweet. This makes me so happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:29 AM
11

Wow. I even enjoy sex. And i think the number of times ive had sex out of fear or just to placate a man child is probably equal or greater to the times i actually wanted it. Jesus. Why is life so toxic for so many women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:43 PM
7

They do. Its fucking horrible. Because the issues with Israel kinda make people afraid of regime change because theres always this MASSIVE existential threat. But the Hamas are a pack of assholes and corrupt. People dont even really like Hamas, unless theyre the ones signing up to fight for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:22 PM
3

Ive never known what to say to them when they're being creepy. Legit, exactly one week ago i started a new job. I was training with my boss and a guy from the old company that our company had hired on (my bosses are also super nice and didnt want to push people out of a job; our company also has way better pay and spruced up the working area) and i went to lean over the desk to write something. the old-company-guy goes "oooh youve got a nice little shape, girl a nice ass". I have a history of se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:08 PM
4

Well fuck that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:01 PM
3

Just all the ones in my life, but dont worry, i still get gaslighted whenever i talk about how sexually disgusting literally MOST men are and toxic masculinity is a real thing and needs to be rooted out in the masculine community. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:58 PM
53

Its just socially acceptable to blame women for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:13 AM
4

Its been a thing for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:48 AM
33

My dad (divorced) had this really cool friend (he was not cool) who would just STARE at me, up and down, like i was a platter of food. I was 12 and wouldnt hit puberty for another 3-4 years. I had never been harassed sexually before so i didnt have words to describe the looks he would give me. It scared the shit out of me and i was always afraid to be alone with him. He later got arrested for taking photos up high school girls skirts with a cell phone camera and digital camera. When my father wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:47 AM
9

Wouldnt it be nice if women were considered just as worth protecting/enforcing the law for as men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:34 AM
21

So the fucked up part is that a lot of places will be like "if you didnt want your wife/daughter to get groped, why didnt you go with her to the market??" After a certain time of the day too, women are just not to be seen outside, and any who are seen outside by single men are subject to harassment. Its so shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:32 AM
4

The second best thing is just for them to learn to keep their fucking mouths shut if theyre about to say something really stupid/sexist. It takes people giving them hell when theyre acting like bigots for them to do so, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:30 AM
76

Its so fucking stupid. A girl i was dating is from gaza and she said that laughing or talking too loud can get you shouted at by a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:27 AM
2

Lysistrata method.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:13 PM
22

Many times, weekend parents are that for a reason, and its not because theyre mature, good parents. Barring serious schedule difficulties or health/living situation issues/poverty, theres no reason why parents shouldnt be able to handle their own damn kids at least half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:13 PM
26

As a black woman evolving in a mostly white male environment (academic scientific research in biology), I really confirm that. Not only you realize that they are not so intelligent, smart and hard-working, but also you see them supporting each other in their mediocrity and being favored. Oh my god if only I had more upvotes to give Im white, but i was a woman in a combat arms in the army and this is EXACTLY what i see. So many are so dumb. But theyre all friends. And because of their [fucking mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:23 AM
8

I dont want NO scrubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:38 AM
67

And why people who use "it's just a joke!" as an excuse to be a bigot are even dumber than other people think they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:54 PM
26

The only upside to the latent, unconscious narcissism that comes with being a man in a patriarchal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:53 PM
4

✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:10 PM
13

I dont know. I think theres a far greater emphasis on your fitness as a woman in a male dominated, physically-demanding job. Men tend to be a lot more quick to cast a woman off if she is anything less than perfect. They give eachother far more chances and benefit of the doubt. I was constantly having to prove myself but they always accepted each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:43 AM
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I think in general, relationships are not meant to be forced. People should not have any kind of intense focus on forcing intimacy, it's very weird and doesnt allow for a bond to naturally form from the roots of emotional chemistry and common interests. I feel like its equally unhealthy for a man to pursue a woman he barely knows just to put his dick inside her. Yet how so many men tantrum when they get told, "no, I barely fucking know you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:22 AM
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Which is hilarious because I was a woman in a combat arms branch and I was stronger than most of the men in my unit. My chain of command literally could not fathom this, so I was investigated for possibly being a man masquerading as a woman. This. Literally. Happened. In like 2017!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:20 AM
16

Remember-- Married men live longer than unmarried men. Married women die sooner than unmarried women. I think that says enough on its own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:16 AM
17

Theres a 70-odd year old woman with grandkids who I see regularly doing yardwork and climbing the huge oak tree in her front yard and chopping down dying branches/sawing them apart on her front lawn. Shes an absolute beast and is prior military. My own 70 year old grandfather could not have done that. He couldnt have done it at 50 either, and he was a green beret. He had health problems, yes. But that's the point: being a man does not make you automatically able to do ANYTHING physically special…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:14 AM
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So many (not all, but ENOUGH of) men think they're the solution to everything when they are really just the problem much of the time. "If there arent men, who's gonna protect you from.... men???" They literally think no women exist who can do fireman shit. I can do fireman shit. I know lots of women who are fucking jacked and fit as hell. They also tend to completely not believe it when they have a fit woman right in front of them doing the exact thing they said she couldnt do. They are just rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:09 AM
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Yes!!! My wo-man! We should start calling ourselves "woahmen" because we make people go "woah!" 😆 I had very similar numbers in the army, but you had me beat on bench by like 20lbs! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hn7qug/so_this_happened_im_actually_taking_it_as_a/fxagf0p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:07 AM
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I was 165 lbs and jacked in the army (I'm 65" tall, 170 was about where my frame would top out at. For reference, a green beret who was my therapist was also 165lbs at his heaviest and most fit, so these numbers are pretty standard for highly fit males, and standard for me bc I was in a combat arms unit and an officer), literally one of the fittest out of everyone in my unit, trained with hauling 200 lb men around for shit. One time I did like 12 pull ups during PT and I happened to have committ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:02 AM
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Hes getting there. Lol. We can call it progress, even though the bar is on the floor haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:58 AM
11

😊❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:56 AM
6

She was as much a perpetrator?!? What the fuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:56 AM
29

Lol as if exposing children to hard core porn is somehow the exact same thing as a woman reading a book??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:28 AM
12

Sex work IS real work, it just happens to be real work that is fully endorsed by the patriarchy since it denigrates a womans status automatically as being "beneath" a man. It's like how lobbying is legal but totally fucks the people over because it commodifies our legislature to the highest bidder. Sex work commodifies a womans body and more often than not shes forced or manipulated into doing it out of survival or abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:17 PM
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I dont think it's most, but it is a massively significant amount and it shouldn't be. I think most women are ambivalent and arent "woke" yet (not to be cliche). Like, theyd know what you meant if you said "the guys at my job never take me seriously unless they're asking me to dinner, and even then, they flip out if I say no/dont like them like that" but if you said "institutionalized sexism is preventing me from getting a better job and sexual harassment in my workplace is endemic" theyd be like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:03 PM
15

My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:01 PM
159

How is that not sexual harassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:50 AM
213

You even have to be careful with women. Not every woman is an ally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:50 AM
11

Shit I should watch queer eye bc I'm ready to never deal with men again unless I need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:06 AM
5

Omg I feel this in my bones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:06 AM
15

Oh my God that was me. I used to date down because I thought theyd be better people. They didnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:05 AM
17

Its fucked up, how difficult it is, but it's awesome how much better you are after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:04 AM
27

Same, except I'm 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:44 AM
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Women are raised as lesser or unworthy, they internalize it, men are treated as greater and more worthy, they dont even realize how entitled they are and neither do the women. They all just go about like its normal. Undoing that programming is going to take global sisterhood of kind, supportive female friends who know the truth, so they can elevate their sisters who still struggle with the blinds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:44 AM
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"I cant feeeeel anything 😭" Ok so You gonna take care of a surprise baby? Are you gonna birth it, too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:40 AM
14

Internalized sexism. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:19 AM
83

Jesus christ I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:18 AM
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Ew I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:17 AM
45

The next saddest thing is that an actual dildo is a better partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:13 AM
38

Wow that is awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:12 AM
73

And then...... Drake. Search Drake and Millie Bobby Brown controversy for the details on that, it is grooossss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:11 AM
65

Holy shit this I remember discussing some problematic comments with my gf made by her (ex) husband whom she has a kid with, and she immediately got really defensive and was interrogating me for it. Like yo dont shoot the messenger, wouldnt you rather him not being creepy with his niece?? I dont think shes like a "pick me" type of person, but regardless, it was depressing when I thought back on all the men in my own life who had said creepy or creepier things and it was... literally.... every sin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:09 AM
5

Wow that is fucking insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:30 AM
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SAME I have only recently realized just how messed up and skewed life is as a woman. We constantly have to prove ourselves and ingratiate ourselves to men. Men have every right and ability to discard what we say without consequence because a network of even more men back it up without any thought. Women in the system have to become gender traitors in order to maintain their status, and even then, they are still not safe because men will never consider them an equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:57 PM
13

Holy shit gaslighting basically fucked me up for years, it is not something to be trifled with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:54 PM
3

Omfg some people are pathetic What a fucking loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:56 AM
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When someone politely pushes back on something you initially meant in good faith, it's a good time to pull back and stop trying to force your perspective of their experiences on them. I'm gonna try to show you the other perspective/why that person reacted the way they did. I didnt learn or grow much from being verbally, sexually, or psychologically abused by the various pieces of shit I allowed in my life (or whom I had no choice in working with/for). It has actually set me back in my growth con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:53 AM
2

It seems to me that all the animals are fearsome mothers (only one idk about is the owl) The bear is also wearing a crescent moon which is goddess symbolism as well as the down-pointing equilateral triangle being an ancient feminine symbol ^_^ And we've got further goddess symbolism by embedding a sort of "all-seeing-eye" shape within the other triangle Truth be told I've been studying ancient, pagan and "occult" spirituality, so I get really pumped when I see it in passing :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:35 PM
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This is awesome! I love the imagery with the (mama I think?) Bear =)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:21 AM
4

A universal truth best observed in rural areas. 👵🏽👵🏾👴🏽🧓🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:23 PM
63

Yo dont you know anything about old people?? They get up at the ass crack of dawn and have dinner at 3pm, dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:58 PM
8

Omg yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:36 AM
13

You got this. Dont give in. You ARE better, and you are doing good favors for your future self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:53 AM
27

Unfortunately this is the case for the vast majority of straight couples I've seen....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:28 PM
11

Understandable but if you dont laugh, you'll cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:28 PM
1

Hell yes! That's what I was referencing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:13 AM
7

Strict doesnt mean without opportunities or that you were treated like you were lesser or had no future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:42 PM
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She got the scholarship because she was worthy of the school. She made those dumb ass decisions or her own accord, true, but we can draw an obvious conclusion that she did not think herself to be worthy for the scholarship, and chose an unworthy man over herself. Therefore, she has less worth in herself than she does her men. She has less worth in herself than some people see in her abilities on paper, who decided she was worthy of that scholarship. She was there for it when she got the grades, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:08 PM
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I dont doubt it. All I can say is, you dont know what it was really like for her behind closed doors. Maybe it only comes down to having been treated as though your greatest ambition will be finding a man. My parents doted on my brother--a lot, so much he literally doesnt realize it--but i was still pushed to have good grades. My parents simply never gave me any direction beyond the one I was already required to have--finishing high school. They never explored careers with me or gave any guidanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:44 PM
15

Jesus h. Christ. The ultimate karmic irony would be if you turned out a lesbian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:26 PM
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Standards for men are so, so, so, so fucking low dude. We gotta go on strike, because its fucking ridiculous. He is a med student, so at least not a total loser. But how the fuck does someone alter their whole career for someone and and then their partner totally takes that for granted??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:59 PM
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Oh my God this hurts to read. Jesus this subreddit should be mandatory reading for all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:59 PM
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It screams woman with no value in herself. And quite frankly, if your parents do not treat you as valuable, how are you supposed to know what value in yourself is, or means? I would be willing to bet dollars to doughnuts her parents doted on her brother and were proud of her accomplishments only as far as it got the parents attention and praise. She didnt know her worth, and that is not her fault, at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:57 PM
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Hahahahaha. Asking a mediocre person to think for someone other than themself? Theres a reason they're mediocre. I agree, in a perfect world, he should be able to say "hey I'm not in this for the long haul at all, and med school is more important. You shouldn't be throwing your whole life on this." But shes a big girl, dude. That's a hard lesson to learn, but damn. Ultimately she made that choice. What's disgusting is we are brainwashed/taught from birth that our most fulfilling moments of our l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:53 PM
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All of what you said is accurate. We gotta lift each other up and help each other find our own power, strength, and get our confidence back, because most men certainly are not gonna fucking do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:32 PM
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Lmao same same. I think your choice to wait a little was kind. ^_^ theres not many people who deserve to have their birthday ruined. Luckily that was yeeears ago. He still messages me every now and then on whatsapp... I have him blocked everywhere else 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:25 PM
6

Well. Std transmission rates are surprisingly really high for the geriatric communities, there may well be never a time when you're unfuckable. If course men might try to say you are while in the process of literally trying to fuck you. I've seen that one before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:17 PM
4

Um so I'm a woman but low key I already have a tiny crush on my moms lawyer that I havent even fucking met yet... shes like at least 10 years older than my mom 😶 Older women are nothing short of absolute diamonds, I will fight for this concept lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:15 PM
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I dont understand why or how someone could rationally report the OP? Like, I have seen most of the studies that image refers to, it is at least mostly true to what the studies say. So dudes are reporting it because a collection of studies makes them upset?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:12 PM
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Bruh! I dated some guy and I was gonna break up with him like after his birthday, because mine was coming up and hed already gotten a bunch of stuff and i felt AWFUL about it Anyway 2 days before my birthday his dad dies, out of fucking nowhere. It horrible, super traumatic for his whole family. Dude tbh super awkward because his parents were divorced and remarried but his mom was crying and her husband was just like 😬😶 But yeah anyway I ended up staying with him way way longer because of that..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:03 PM
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I mean theres nothing inherently wrong with having sex with a guy who's also willing to have sex. Only if it tends to lead to catching feelings on your end, which sucks....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:56 PM
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Hooo boy. I cleaned the apartment, did laundry, cooked, and payed/bought the groceries because I was staying with my bf at the time between my lease ending and going to military training, i was trying to help out while I was there. I asked him to please put his dishes away in the dishwasher instead of the sink. I have a THING about touching nasty moist food. I hate it, it's disgusting, makes my skin crawl. I can deal with all the other stuff. Anyway, he completely flipped out, literally looked e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:54 PM
5

I didnt know about either of these and it really opened my eyes about how much stock anyone should place in someone else's actions toward, or opinions of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:42 PM
2

Wow that's awful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you see the light though! Never ever push yourself harder for someone who treats you like an object and wont see your worth. Theres someone out there for you, and damn good thing you didnt end up with this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:39 PM
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It feels good to be able to talk about, and I appreciate your empathy/sympathy, but I bring it up only to highlight how absurdly common it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:35 PM
2

Hear hear lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:14 AM
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But licking a nipple for more than 5 seconds is literally impossible how can you expect anyone to do that so damn selfish of u now please suck my penis for 20 minutes thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:45 PM
79

I'd be down but one time I told a man I didnt want to have sex with him and he had a tantrum and then held me down and raped me so I dont date men anymore. They are literally too fucking psycho and unstable. The irony that women get this stereotype astounds me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:42 PM
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Trauma therapy helped me Once you're woke to how much the system benefiting men relies on us agreeing with the propaganda teaching us to doubt ourselves, it is SO much easier to dismiss it all. Like "oh it's all fucking wrong and I actually was right... this nagging feeling I couldnt place was actually dissonance between being told I'm useless, worthless bc I'm inherently irrational, and the demonstrable facts that I am worth even more than these mediocre bastards who walk around entitled to eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:38 PM
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That's very possible. I see a lot of men who are resistant to the idea of therapy but want their gf to do all those things so I think we're both noticing a certain dynamic. I think a lot of women arent becoming independent the way they need to be though, as most of them still unconsciously believe they inherently need a man and they are inherently worthless without one. I had a massively terrible subservience complex that got worse with time in the army and I've just now only been able to extrac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:16 PM
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Holy shit same same, but different. My dad was "watching" (he was reading the paper) my brother and I swim and I started struggling and about to drown. My brother, with no prior experience other than good instincts, noticed this and dragged me to the edge of the pool. I was 4, he was 8, and neither of us could swim well in deep water. My mom came out, and told my dad to keep an eye on us. He waved her off, she went back inside to talk to her friend, and my dad immediately resumed reading the pap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:30 AM
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Thank you for sharing that. And thank you for the kind words. This whole thing is just disgusting. I fear the exact same things you do. You literally only matter if they're getting their dick wet. Men treat us like shit and then get super pissed off when a woman decides "ok well if I'm gonna put up with this no matter who it is, I might as well make sure they have a decent fucking job before they expect me to abandon mine for their kids and house" And the gas lighting/victim blaming combo. "Wow …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:22 AM
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My dad continuously fucked with my brother and I for years, lied to us about our mom doing stuff and making her look bad. My mom and dad had "agreed" not to tell us about my fathers serial infidelity because my mom was worried it would affect our relationship with him. My dad, playing the fucking victim, agreed to that for about 30 seconds, then first chance started telling us our mom was the one who cheated. That was bullshit. The full story is, she began dating again after finding out about ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:07 PM
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OH GIRL THIS, THIS SO HARD!! But then they go, "my bitch cunt ex turned my kids against me!!" Man Child, if you were present in their life at all beforehand dont you think your ex would have had a difficult time "turning your kids against you" ?!?!? She didnt turn them against you, they never had much of a relationship with you to begin with, and when they lost you, they basically hadnt lost anything except some temporarily stability Sucks to suck when you profited off the labor of your woman an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:00 PM
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Sometimes I read something so perfect I just have to savor it for a bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:56 PM
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Look at me I'm such a caring dad! My kids LOVE me and TOTALLY arent electing to not see me per the divorce order!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:55 PM
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Because they want someone who's high value but doesnt affect their ego/make them feel bad about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:54 PM
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They have emotional intelligence for eachother. Plenty of bros with close relationships talking about what they want in life. Not giving a shit about womens goals isnt the same thing as no emotional intelligence. And nowhere do I say anything about... whatever that means, whatever you said about villains and shit. Men arent dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:50 PM
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Hahaha Ah. Trigger warning!!! My ex bf, considered by many to be a stand-up guy with a good head on his shoulders, raped me because he was pissed off I didnt want to have sex before he went to class. I hadnt showered that day, I told him I felt gross. He was like, "I don't care! I'm horny!" I told him, "it's not about you, I feel gross. I dont feel comfortable having sex when I feel gross." Yeah he held me down, took my gym shorts off while I was telling him no, and raped me on his couch. And th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:32 PM
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Yo this has woken me up further. I get it now when people say misogyny hurts everyone. I dated a guy who, after taking a shit, pulled nearly 3 feet of TP off the fucking roll I was like "um are you.... ok?" I thought maybe he was having stomach issues. But it didnt sound like it nor did he mention anything. He was like "yeah I have to wipe tf you mean?" The wad of tp in his hand was nearly the size of a classroom globe I was like "nothing that's just a lot of toilet paper..." he asked me how muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:22 PM
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Oh my God fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:07 PM
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Literally dont even need a full square. Half a fucking square. Blot dick. Drop in toilet. It is not difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:06 PM
3

Ding ding ding mother fucker ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:05 PM
20

Maybe he didnt wash his underwear. Guys can sometimes drop 1 or 2 drops of piss in their underwear after peeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:05 PM
40

Mommy digger is a decent ass term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:02 PM
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They have plenty of emotional intelligence they literally just do not give anywhere close to any fucks about you as an individual with goals and dreams like they do Because women arent supposed to have goals and dreams. We're supposed to drop all those things to take care of Their Kids and Their House.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:02 PM
1

Tell me about it... I think we've all been there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:59 PM
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🔥 I would like to thank the academy, my mom, and jesus christ. As well as Inanna, and Horus. In all seriousness, this wasnt a dick size joke (just wanna clarify). People of all sizes can be unsatisfying, and generally the pride someone has in their sex comes before the fall of realizing theyre not that greag. It then makes them struggle to save their ego and blame the "hard to satisfy woman" as the whole issue, instead of their obvious lack of emphasis on giving a shit about how their partner fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:59 AM
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This is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:42 PM
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I wasnt talking about evil. And there IS a correlation between people with wealth and power and being narcissistic and/or psychopathic. It is scientifically shown. And also, the point I was trying to get at in the post you had responded to was that someone can be a little narcissistic or self involved without being abusive. I'm just saying, its pretty typical for rich people to think they're "All That and a Bag of Chips". Of course theres poor people with awful personalities. That doesnt disprov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:38 PM
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I have a question about this method. I feel like that's kind of arbitrary? I think theres other ways of being able to judge if hes not a piece of shit yknow? May I have some insight as to why you've chosen a month?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:04 PM
3

Eeewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:00 PM
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I laughed too hard at this... because, accurate. I spent like 4 month sleeping on a floor mattress. Idgaf if my SO has a floor mattress. But if his or her sheets are greasy and smelly, it could be a damn tempurpedic and I would run out of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:55 PM
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They're hard to satisfy because his penis is not satisfying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:53 PM
3

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:47 PM
16

Same. I've experienced it too. I was in the army. They literally did not consider me a human being. I was harassed relentlessly for existing and trying to do my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:37 PM
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Yet simultaneously we are frail and helpless This shit is like when racist conservatives spout "these LAZY Mexicans are taking all of our jobs!!!" How can lazy people also be such hard workers so as to steal your job? How can women be weak and fragile yet so evil and powerful? I am so done today and its 6 am lol Ima get off the whole internet for a while, but I so grateful this sub exists. Having a refreshing stream of people who have gone through things similar to what I've gone through is nice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:08 AM
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If we're being honest, id been thinking about this. my internalized sexism was telling me "how could a someone belonging to the gender championed as more rational and reasonable spew this shit without seeing what they just fucking said?" Dude I'm gonna need to mediate after this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:04 AM
35

Omg so right. The worst thing man haters do is deny men sex, that is literally most awful and terrible things guys deal with and they never shut the fuck up about it. And child support. How dare a man be forced to pay for the fucking kid he created and has not the skills nor desire to care for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:05 AM
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It's so true. It is reflected in media. I've seen it in real life, as I used to work in a male dominated environment. Its reposted, reblogged, and forwarded on every damn site. Men literally conspire with eachother on how to get their buddy out of shit he caused himself so his wife won't fucking leave his ass, or so an assaulted woman cant get help or justice. so he stays free to do it again and again. They would rather participate in cover ups and lie for one another than help an innocent woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:02 AM
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I am also far too respected. Strange men yell aggressively, comments about how sexy I am without prompting. I never have to turn down 6 figure job offers or promotions in order to maintain my thankless childcare and house care duties. I want and thoroughly enjoy back breaking labor with no days or nights off while my husband, the provider, pays only for the bills and treats for himself, giving himself well earned weekend playtime with the boys at the lake, while am once again stuck watching and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:00 AM
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Maybe she is, but is that really any surprise for people with money and power? I don't want him to be abused of course, I'm just wondering if it's possible she could be narcissistic and he could still be prioritizing his family by choice, as narcissistic tendencies arent exactly rare when it comes to these fucking people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:52 AM
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How the fuck does something like this escape someones brain without them realizing what the hell they just fucking wrote "Men will be men" is a disgusting paradigm and we've been saying it for years, this dude just openly talking about how the mass treating women like shit fits that paradigm, and then somehow manages to think this is how it should be?? Showing a clear indication that he does not consider women worthy of equal treatment? Does this fall under /r/SelfAwareWolves ? And a "simp" is l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:50 AM
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I still dont know what it means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:46 AM
14

And yet the denial of humanity for women by men is continuously denied. They literally gas light everyone until people give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:46 AM
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They also said "society puts way too much responsibility on women for how men behave" and girl that was like mini dose of enlightenment, like I knew that and have been trying to describe it for fucking years but that is literally it, in a nutshell, in 12 words lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:28 AM
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I hate how sometimes we are the lesson learned. Sometimes, I would rather be the lesson learned than learning the lesson, because the realization that I have been the mistake one and have caused pain or hurt someone is so awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:26 AM
3

Oooohhhhhh this burns for some reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:14 AM
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I have a friend with a really big heart who has really embraced the "men have it so much worse" propaganda. It so shitty bc she is otherwise a very bright and sweet human who works her ass off every day. She feels for the struggles of men (and honestly, there are some, like let's be honest, but what we're against here is the denial and gas lighting that men do about the struggles of women, especially since we have less agency to varying degrees depending on location, in a system ran by men) but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:02 AM
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And then they also hang all the "providing" they do over the head of their wife who, as a SAHM, has sacrificed the rest of her fucking career ro take care of the kids and the home. And that providing being, of course, food and board and nothing more, while their wife is working literally 24 hours a day 7 days a week with no breaks or days off. And he comes home after an 8 hour work day and goes "I cant help with dishes, I'm tiiiiireddd"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:58 PM
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we sure as hell aren't responsible for a dude being unable to manage his own emotions LOUDER FOR EVERYONE IN THE BACK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:30 PM
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And if that fucker isnt checking himself into a goddamn hospital, hes saying that to manipulate you into staying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:29 PM
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"Why don't girls like meeee? I can hate feeeeemaaales just as much as those good looking dudes with real social skills and social hobbies can!! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee " "Have you considered that women dont like you because you hate them so much...?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:01 PM
8

Oh my God I'm sore from some shit, and laughing hurts but it was so worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:58 PM
19

Hahahahaha oh wow, wtf. Not at you, at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:41 AM
9

When men finally see equality with women and they flip out bc it infringes on their rights to control others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:58 AM
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Wait does this mean I get an opinion on whether men can have vasectomies? Because in that case, EVERYONE BE GETTIN SNIPPY-SNIPPY OPERATIONS!! Or else I dont want my tax dollars going to testicular cancer research
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:56 AM
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Username related hahhaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:33 PM
12

Jesus he-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:36 AM
2

Ugh yes, all true, along with all the shades in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:40 PM
1

Thanks. It has taken me years to be truly comfortable talking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:39 PM
1

I got choo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:38 PM
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Too few of the ones that arent terrifying wont call out the ones that are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:56 PM
10

I was in the military and even though I was good at my job and competent, it becomes very apparent very early on that you are utterly powerless in the nepotism boys club, they will use you for everything you're worth and you're worth next to nothing if you're not sucking their dick as a woman. You will never be their equal. So glad I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:13 AM
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I get that victims gotta take the risk to leave but I hate the victim blaming. Idk I think I'm just being sensitive and I hate pain, anyone's pain. Honestly this post is killing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:06 AM
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Dude society fucking programs us to be like this. We get taught from an early age that our goals do not matter. We get gas lit constantly if we want anything for ourselves that is apart from having kids. And her husband probably gas lights the shit out of her too. I dont blame her but I am praying she wakes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:04 AM
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Holy shit this is so fucking sad She literally is working full time as his partner keeping house and home and he only gives her enough to cover the cost of materials basically, all her actual labor is fucking free!!! What the actual fuck!!! This poor woman I hate reading this shit because it's so common, it kills me inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:02 AM
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Lol in my experience every guy I've interacted with is just laying in wait for the moment to fuck. This guy has just had the curtains pulled away so he cant be secretive or subversive about laying in wait anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:56 AM
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Trigger warning, SA. I dated a guy who, I came to realize, didnt want a girlfriend or a partner, he wanted someone to be better-than. He wanted someone to make him feel powerful and big. He wanted someone he could bully easily. He was easy to figure out bc he wasnt very smart--i actually preferred this in a male partner because it makes me feel physically safer--but then I dated the same type of guy later but better-looking, and therefore had a lot more experience manipulating women. He ended up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:49 AM
3

Wow this is fucking insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:24 AM
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Thanks for writing this OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:22 AM
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But if a dude was writing so many bros would be like "ay got I'm! Fuck that bitch!" Etc 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:18 AM
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And then they sit and complain that all women care about is a mans money. Seems like it's the opposite; all they care about is the money they spend on women so they're the ones complaining a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:10 AM
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Aaahhh. Ok. That makes big sense now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:06 AM
2

Ah. Perhaps. I remember reading somewhere that dv rates were a lot higher in same sex couples, however, women are definitely not afraid to commit. The uhaul stereotype is real lol (if you dont know what I'm talking about, it's just the stereotype that lesbians move in with eachother or, "uhaul" together, somewhat quickly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:22 PM
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I see I see. Tbh when do dates with my gf i always offer to pay if I'm the one asking her to go. She 9.9 times out of 10 she wants to split it but I figure if I'm the one wanting to do something, it would make sense for me to at least be willing to pay for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:18 PM
3

😭 whispers yes....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:15 PM
8

That is so messed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:08 AM
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Sorry this is long but I'm kind of having a come to jesus moment right now and its nice... I'm not gonna lie, FDS came across as almost like MGTOW but women, but then I stuck around for a bit and read the posts and i see now that it is really a sub for women who have woken up to the realities of sexism inherent to our culture. I still have qualms with certain stuff (like truly, why cant people split checks? Maybe it's because I'm dating women too) but for the most part I see it like this: The wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:15 PM
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Oh man. This hits home..... my gfs always texting a guy whos in love with her. She keeps making excuses for him. He got engaged recently and is still texting her. Fuck this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:04 PM
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I legit read an AITA where a father of an adult daughter in therapy killed her fucking therapy dog because it got hit by a car and he didnt want to pay the 4k medical bills--now, I know at first you're like "hey who knows their financial situation was like" but then he goes on to say that it wasnt so much about the money and they could afford the surgery, but that he thought she no longer needed the dog as she "seemed to be doing much better" and the dog was 3 years old so it was basically middl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:36 PM
6

You and /u/Fiebre have encapsulated this so perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:31 PM
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I fucking horked because I was laughing so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:30 PM
5

Nice, thank you so fucking much, seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:32 AM
6

Oh fuck yeah I've been looking for something like this for months How do I get involved? I just wanna make sure I get to a reputable page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:47 AM
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I cant find this post on reddit. Where is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:30 PM
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There a plenty of men whose lives do not revolve around obsessive thoughts of destroying beautiful women, however, it is such a huge amount that do. Like holy shit. It's enough men that this guy felt fully comfortable casually describing disfiguring a fucking kid because he feels hes not allowed to fuck her--and also because of his own insecurities about his appearance, and how his lack of sexual fulfillment apparently makes him feel lesser. Our slanted and imbalanced society grows these people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:28 PM
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Yo and its societal. I was just talking to my gf about how this insanity is normalized. This is NOT normal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:24 PM
6

What's lemurian sisterhood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:23 PM
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Unfortunately I think self awareness costs the high price of introspection and admitting mistakes, which, when it comes to these guys, the cost of abandoning their sexist superiority complex is too high a price to pay for self awareness...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:40 AM
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Preach, girl. It is fucking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:36 AM
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Tbh I think a lot of men grow up with unrealistic expectations of what it's like to actually have to work for something, regarding seeking and maintaining relationships. I was discussing this with my gf. A mutual acquaintance of mine is her husband (they are separated). Since before he was born, his family was prepping and planning his future, college, etc. Since him and her have began separation, hes been complaining that its sooo hard to find someone to date, but he also doesnt have any friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:34 AM
4

Hey we all have our guilty pleasure TV shows 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:17 PM
4

Some folks like the idea that their SO is an "extra child" because it makes them feel valuable or wanted. Which of course stems from low self esteem and high insecurity =( They want someone who needs them more than someone who loves them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:44 PM
0

Is it possible he is heavily depressed since becoming unemployed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:41 PM
6

This is so sad =(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:33 PM
1

I suspect people do this because they want you to give them a free ticket to touch your boobs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:24 PM
1

Wait what? Really? Is this true?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:24 PM
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