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| 1 | How to survive the life without your kids?You can do this. Sometimes it might not feel good because they are kids. They might be tired or distracted by a toy. Be consistent and reliable and you build a strong foundation. Good luck 😊 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Should I see a psychiatrist?Sounds like you both do things to trigger emotional responses. Find a psychologist who specialises in marriage counseling for ADD couples. ADD is on a spectrum with bipolar and has similarities. Also sounds like you both might have an anxious attachment style. If you can do counseling now to repair the trust between you this will ultimately help with your coparenting and divorce. If you want a good relationship with your child you will both need to have an amicable relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | One year after divorce, I'm fighting Parental Annihilation.Good luck. It’s hard to choose the higher ground but worth it every time. Your ex is not worth it. I found talking to a therapist about my ex and my anger helped me a lot. Stopped me from caring about stupid petty things my ex did and focus on the kids every time. You got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How to survive the life without your kids?Please don’t do that. You matter so much to your children. Your love affection energy and interest in them will light up theist world. I have a friend who killed himself this way after divorce. It really fucked the kids up. They will love with it for a long time and it becomes a defining part of who they are they have to explain at school on Father’s Day birthdays Christmas. WHere is your dad? They have to repeat the story and everyone in the community knows. It is not an easy way out for you or… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How to survive the life without your kids?I am so sorry. That is really hard. I grew up without my father because he found this pain unbearable and chose to not have anything to do with me or my sister. I tracked him down when I was 16. We had a very difficult relationship. He did a lot of awful things (abused my sister). Before I knew about the abuse I grew up feeling not worthy of a father and that there was something wrong with me which is why he never came for us. If you show up with love every time they will want to be with you. Al… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | One year after divorce, I'm fighting Parental Annihilation.Please don’t question your daughter. She will further withdraw. The best thing you can do is get some practical advice from a social worker or psychologist that specialises in coparenting conflict. What your ex did was not ok. What you want though is to create a space your daughter feels safe to be herself and express herself. The best way you can do that is to check your reactions and make sure you speak positively about her mum. You don’t need to wax lyrical. Just make sure you call her mom or… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 01:11 PM |
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