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For the most part I try and it works, just this one got me because the affair started when I had thought our marriage was good
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:26 PM
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Concerned I wouldn’t say, I don’t get into her affairs or personal life. Why I wanted to confront is because all of this had transpired while we were happily married so I thought. Our whole divorce was because I was the problem. But I just really wanted to cuss her out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:25 PM
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Ended that friendship that night
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:22 PM
3

Absolutely! And I’m sorry to hear about your messed up situation.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:21 PM
4

I ended that friendship and a couple others that were in the group with him too
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:19 PM
2

I’m going to take that advice going forward
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 06:18 PM
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Absolutely! They are two beautiful young men. They are with me 24/7. We agree on 50/50 custody but it more like 80/20
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 04:20 AM
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And tbh I’m winning, I’m in a relationship with someone the treats me and my boys like kings! It’s just caught me off guard
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 03:16 AM
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There been many opportunities, to rekindle but I always been hesitant. She would told me that I was the only guy she been with but I always thought it was bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 03:15 AM
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Yeah I’m in my feeling, but because at the time this started, I had no clue, I work 12-15 hours days to provide, she keep the house and was going back to school. And was doing this the whole time. It’s gut wrenching. Not to mention she started to be spiteful saying our our is mine now
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 03:14 AM
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Believe me I want too, I want to blast her so bad, her own words were this. “I’m human so what, I can go back now”. She also told me and to dig the knife deeper that our 1st son isn’t mine.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 03:13 AM
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Thank you man
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 02:52 AM
4

Thank you man
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 02:51 AM
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She filed a complaint for divorce and submitted my response that’s where we at in the process. Waiting on her settlement agreement offer
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 09:11 PM
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Crazy how similar this is lol. Are you me from the future.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 05:56 PM
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Week to week. But tbh they stayed with me more than her with this plan. And I fine with that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 05:36 PM
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When I put my foot down, then she’ll start saying see that’s way I wanted divorce, you’ll never change. Etc
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 04:39 PM
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I’m trying to, my lawyer is waiting for her to approve my settlement offer. But she tell me she hasn’t spoken to her lawyer since she filled for divorce in December. Only spoken to a paralegal.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 04:25 PM
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Solid advice. I’m at that point. But just for clarification. I wasn’t served two months in. That’s when she first brought up divorce and we went through a rough patch for 2 3 months.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 08:35 AM
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No prob, I respect that. Thanks for you opinion
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 11:46 AM
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I would like to know your story so if you have time can you pm me
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 11:40 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 05:03 AM
2

How long since y’all been divorced
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 03:34 AM
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Ah, see I thought I was having a breakthrough or something. Good to know it prob just a psychological thing
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:42 AM
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Has she tried at any point to reconcile or just have a intimate night with you?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:40 AM
4

How’s the relationship dynamic now?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:36 AM
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Noted. I’ll get in that mindset. But like she come around, and just come up and kiss me and ask for a hug. I’ll hug her and tell her to take care of herself. She’ll leave crying.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:35 AM
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We are separated. She is a full time student, and works part time. I still helper her with her bills and credit cards. Only because she made me a user on them, but never used them.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:34 AM
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We had one kid out of wedlock, then got married. After the first time. We had lots of sex, and after her first pregnancy they said her chance again were slime to none of getting pregnant. But I remember like it was yesterday. She told me to come home from work early and surprise me with a positive pregnancy test. I was happy but I knew in the back of my head. And yeah. I was shocked that I got served at work. A week before Christmas of this past year.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:32 AM
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So you guys have it another shot?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:25 AM
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We were together for 5 years. She wanted to marry year 1. I told her it’ll take me time. So I married 4 years down the road. The only reason she told me because I went through her Apple Watch she left unlocked. And she had been entertaining a convo with a dude that was flirting with her. She wasn’t saying nothing to flirty but wasn’t stopping him ether. He offered a date with her and she said sure thing. Also telling him all of our problems. So I confronted her and she basically said why do you …
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:18 AM
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This is the first time for sure. 2 years ago she wanted a divorce after just 2 months of marriage. Made it seem it was more about me being the prob, but later told me she was fighting the emotions of like women too. I manage to convince her to stay. Kind the same thing now but she actually went and filed for divorce and I was served at work, all embarrassed.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:04 AM
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I felt that. I caught her on some lies before.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:02 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, that’s a laugh I needed. You probably right tho lol I caught her in several lies already
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:01 AM
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I need to get that
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 11:14 PM
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You’re right
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 11:13 PM
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Sorry, about the late response, by change, she wanted me to make more time, show her more affection, make her feel more wanted. I work a lot, and that’s no excuse, I know I can do better of showing it, but between that’s and raising (1) (4) two young kids. I’m not gonna lie it gets hard but doable for sure. I don’t drink, or do drugs, I would vape, but kicked that habit 7 months ago.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 07:38 AM
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I M26 wife is 25. And I started today, just talking when need to, just communicating mostly about kids. We set boundaries, and she tried to cross them this morning, and I respectfully denied and referred back to the boundaries that were set. I don’t drink or do drugs. I use to vape but quit that habit.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 05:45 PM
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My attitude, stop being quite when there something wrong, make her feel more wanted
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/23 12:24 AM
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