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Yup I am completely divorced from trying to fix or find the reason why a man doesn’t want to be with me. It’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:20 PM
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My trauma rarely affects my life anymore because I have a good therapist. Anyone who’s rejecting me because I have trauma has worms for brains. I could also see her point though, it doesn’t matter why they want to stop seeing me. They won’t see me again anyway so why add another unnecessary conversation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:44 PM
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Dying is just the worst case scenario but many women have developed severe life threatening health issues during pregnancy. For example I have a friend that developed kidney failure, and this only started during pregnancy. The pregnancy triggered the disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:59 PM
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Pregnancy is often a life threatening process and we can never predict how pregnancy will go for us
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:59 PM
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The influencer bubble had burst a long time ago already. Ads for products do not pay much anymore, and a lot of brands have taken a step back from relying on influencer hype. Some of these influencers have went back to working their regular jobs or have started businesses of their own because ad money wasn’t paying well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:55 AM
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There are even people with 1 Million followers who don’t make any money from that 😂 followers don’t mean anything anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:27 AM
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I stopped reading when you said 20k IG followers has more worth. Followers mean absolutely nothing in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:53 AM
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Okay, so you think men love to go older? Where’s your evidence to support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:59 PM
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It’s men that are ageists. They throw out women once they’re too old even if they are old themselves. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:19 PM
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There are statistics to back up this fact about women. Look it up. I’m a woman myself. Your flair says that you are in the Lesbian community, perhaps it is different there but in heterosexual communities it is true that women prefer their age group and men always prefer younger no matter how old they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:43 PM
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Bigots? That’s a little dramatic. But most women are a little bit ageist in dating and there’s data to back this up. Men are far worse though. Most men will not give a woman over 30 the same attention as a 21 year old. Also as a woman in my 20s still I can say that most of us don’t like older men. Maybe 5 years older but 10+ years? No. At one point when I was younger, around ages 18-25, I dated an older man who was in his 30s. Most of my female friends and associates would have a chuckle and tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:57 PM
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It’s just a female sex story podcast. OP probably hasn’t listened to it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:01 PM
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How is that misandrist? It’s a female sex podcast. They just tell slut stories 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:00 PM
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Social media does not reflect real life but it really does give people ammo to say how they really feel behind anonymous screens. Also, if you aren’t a psychopath, real-life human interaction induces more empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:59 PM
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I personally have run into men who have done exactly that. Lots of men don’t even try. I also knew a basically illiterate 30 year old who was always preaching to me that going to school is useless and not needed. He couldn’t even spell yet he was lecturing me about my degree being meaningless….like alright bud. Now tell me how am I supposed to find the lack of mental drive and the willful ignorance attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:22 AM
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Yes this is pure projection. When a woman is into a man the last thing on her mind is OTHER MEN LOL. When women say men aren’t keeping up they’re talking about a specific demographic of men who reject well paying jobs, education, and overall self improvement. It’s not hard to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:01 AM
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This shouldn’t be confusing. Attraction will ALWAYS be looks based but overall desirability is survival based and wealth falls into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:56 AM
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This is arguably the same for women. I did not pull any quality men at 18. I wasn’t ugly but I failed to maximize what I had at the time. Furthermore what confuses me is the fact that men always argue that younger is automatically more attractive which is just not the case. Plenty of 20 something women are objectively ugly and can’t do anything about that unless they get a surgery. The only thing that an “ugly” young woman might have a leg up on a beautiful older woman is that she will likely ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:18 AM
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Not weird, it is more often true than not that women tend to find their male peers the most attractive. No matter what age group women are in, the men that they find most physically attractive moves along up with it. While men tend to always be attracted to women ages 18-30 no matter how old they get. It’s a real phenomenon. Can I find a 40 year old physically attractive? Maybe, in the event that he could pass for someone in my age range or he’s exceptional in the face + fitness category then of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:02 AM
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This is just an opinion though. All you did was provide me with your rating. I can say the same thing about older men. Not attractive to me unless there’s money involved and I’m not even 21 anymore. I’m 28 but the men I’m most physically attracted to are in my age range. Even a 40 year old man is going to have a hard time being attractive to me unless he’s very physically fit, has no baby mama drama and has a good income to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:12 AM
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You’re the one coping man. Okay maybe you’ll have more options if you have the money but if you don’t it’s gonna be harder. Most women like men within 5 years of their age range
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:58 AM
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Wasn’t it founded that Autism happens from faulty/old sperm? (This is not an anti autist comment, I have autism myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:49 AM
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I’m confused as to why women in their 20s are seen as the epitome of beauty when I meet lots of sloppy looking women in my age group daily. Yet you say they’re of equal attractiveness to a good looking 37 year old? How? Ugly is ugly no matter what age unless they get procedures done there’s nothing that could do anything to fix that. The only thing an objectively ugly 21 year old girl has on her side is her age and usually that means NOT being overweight. So tell me what made her attractive if s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:45 AM
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Younger women do not want to settle down, nor do they want a man a decade plus older than them in the meantime. Unless he’s a celebrity or loaded. Only then does that change things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:40 AM
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Men don’t want virgins either? just look at r/deadbedrooms half of those men married their wives because they were virgins, now they’re somehow shocked that they have a dead bedroom….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:12 AM
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Only male virgins deserve to marry other virgins. Period. But also, if you want to go there, there are porn stars who have still managed to get married anyway. Maybe to other pornstars or a “manwhore” type of guy. There’s someone out there for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:19 PM
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Men: complains about being sexless and single Also men: I don’t want all of these whores throwing themselves at me 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:57 PM
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What’s stopping men from wearing a little bit of sunscreen and some light makeup? This is what Kpop boy bands do and they have no issue attracting massive attention and being sexually appealing to women. Theyre wearing makeup, they’re just not using lipstick and tons of other crazy colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:00 PM
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Most women on onlyfans make less than $500 a month and this is a real statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:58 PM
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If he comes from a background where it’s not important, or he simply can’t afford to attend a four year university, why would it NOT a the smart choice to just make $25/hr to be a club bouncer? Or to join the fire department/police force? If he’s fairly fit looking and can intimidate people with his masculine traits this would only be the next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:57 PM
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No smart woman would do this. At least a job has a security net behind it. If I quit working for 10 years and then suddenly my husband leaves me I would really have no other option to turn to. Yeah sure just find another husband but most men wouldn’t just create a stay at home wife out of a woman he’s not in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:46 PM
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Then congratulations you’re in the minority of men who wouldn’t reject her. But she does have a harder time dating because of her weight, and men’s standards regarding a woman’s looks are usually way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:43 PM
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Or maybe they communicated suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:42 PM
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Experiences are mind reading? Yeah no. IMO most men also do not appreciate a woman approaching them. There’s literally a comment above this one where a man is explaining that he’s not attracted by the women approaching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:29 PM
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What is “average” to you? Average and ugly women do not get flights multiple times a year. I’m an “average” woman that takes care of herself, is physically fit and goes to the gym etc. and I never had a guy doing all this. Unless the man is old and balding and the woman is like, freshly in her college years. Then yes, maybe, an older man would go to such extensive lengths for a young woman because men prefer younger. But for an average woman with an average man her own age? No. He’s going to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:27 PM
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Except I’ve had years of approaching with no success so why would I continue doing something that clearly doesn’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:23 PM
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Well 4/5 women in the US were actually touched sexually as kids so I don’t believe it’s an irrational fear, it’s something that HAS actually happened for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:17 PM
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Right like they complain about being sexless but then they complain when a “slut” throws themselves at them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:17 PM
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Men could just skip school entirely to become blue collar workers anywhere or even a security guard. For a decent salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:15 PM
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You’re shooting out of your league or your standards are too high. There are lots of women who won’t mind having a stay at home husband. I have a friend who would love a stay at home husband, she works 50hrs a week and wouldn’t change a thing about it but! She isn’t physically fit and is overweight so men reject her. Now my question is would you date an overweight woman to be a stay at home husband? If you say no then your standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:13 PM
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Again another reason to justify why women shouldn’t approach. You just admitted that you’re not attracted to the women who approach you. So either 1) those women are punching above their weight 2) you have high standards for physical attractiveness in a woman 3) you’re subconsciously not allowing yourself to believe that a woman would like you enough in the first place. All three are common problems with approaching people randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:10 PM
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You don’t see “ugly” or fat women outside ever? Again, your genetics pose 0 correlation with the argument at hand. Tall and NT? You’re autistic? I’m an autistic woman, almost every NT person thinks we’re weird regardless 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:06 PM
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It’s still suspicion on the man’s part. This is why women don’t approach men. I’ve tried it this way for years and it’s been proven to me time and time again, men do not like being approached. They will think you’re crazy/suspicious or that something is wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:04 PM
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Average women don’t get this much attention. This woman is above average at least. No logical man is going to spend that much money on flights just for an “average” woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:03 PM
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It’s because men are constantly thinking that getting laid = dating success when that is NOT the case at all. Having the ability to get laid means nothing. So even when women approach them and they have those hidden feelings of resentment they will still have sex with her regardless, discard her and then still see the sexual attention as a “success”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:01 PM
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This has never happened to me, you act as if this is every woman’s experience. We also have no idea what the guy looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:56 PM
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So? My mom is beautiful too so how exactly does this correlate. Still, men get taken seriously more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:55 PM
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Men are not subjected to sexual assaults more than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:44 PM
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This is the same thing that men do. When they say women could just start an onlyfans for money I’m sure they’re not imagining a fat bald woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:42 PM
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Women have to fear for their lives nearly every day that they won’t get assaulted. I’d take people leaving me alone 100% over having to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:41 PM
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No it’s not. In fact, the very mindset that a woman might have it easier because of sympathy points is a huge reason why a lot of women have a harder time. Men have more career options than women, don’t have to deal with pregnancy wrecking their bodies and almost killing them in some cases, hormonal issues, period pain, sexual harassment etc. Women deal with harassment 10x more than men daily and we have to keep our head on a swivel hoping one of these guys won’t actually physically harm us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:39 PM
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Well you really don’t know how or where OP is approaching so this opinion is moot. Hypergamous behavior would not have much to good looks, there are a lot of handsome men who have nothing else to offer but their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:34 PM
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A lot of men view women approaching them in the most toxic light. A lot of men would wonder “why is she so desperate that she has to approach me first?” or “She approaches men? She must be a slut” Men and women are not the same when it comes to this, I used to approach first but I quickly found out it either makes them feel like you’re needy/desperate or a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:32 PM
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No, I’ve approached men in the past and it had ok results. It’s just not effective for women seeking something long term to approach, so I stopped doing it. It gets us thrown into the desperate or accused of being a slut box.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:26 PM
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As a bisexual woman myself my opinion is that men need to collectively fix how they approach women to combat this problem. Even women that approach me are 10x nicer than the men that have, despite being more selective and picky. There are usually a few commonalities within the men who slide into my DMs or cold approach me irl and these are: 1) Getting too sexual too fast. For example sending nudes, dick pics or asking sexual questions within the first few weeks of talking. 2) Asking extremely pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:04 AM
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Women are harsh about looks, it’s the truth. But women are also mean amongst other women about looks. It’s not that women ONLY do it to men, it’s just that women are socially selective beings in general. For example there are lots of women who are “mid” looks wise to other women but a man wouldn’t mind dating her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:35 PM
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I understand your point, but women are far more likely on average to deal with sexual harassment from men. This often leads to discouragement and a defeatist mindset even amongst women that are conventionally attractive. Even for me personally, I’ve had no problem attracting men, but the vast majority (who approach) are still basically ONLY looking for sex. For example, I could be having a normal conversation with a guy about something minuscule and then one minute after the guy will try to pivo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:31 PM
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And your proof of this is? Attractiveness is important across the board. Everyone, male and female, wants to appear physically attractive to their partner. Furthermore physical attractiveness does nothing for a long term companionship….you can be physically attractive to someone but your personality, lifestyle, demeanor etc also has to be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:20 PM
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Most decent men are afraid to just cold approach women out of nowhere…. even dating apps. Because of this, us women end up with getting 90% approached by the overly sexual types. Most women do not approach at all as we are 1) socialized in a way that does not allow this. 2) most logical men would wonder why a woman is approaching them and wonder WHY that woman is so desperate for a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:19 PM
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Women have more options for sex, not serious relationships. We have to filter through the guys who are leading conversations with sexual context way more often than men do. This leads to us rightfully being discouraged. The amount of men that my friends and I have to block due to sending unsolicited sexual messages is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:58 PM
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Okay but who supports this market for “whores”? men. It’s men that support it. You should be equally as angry at men for keeping that business afloat. It’s only fair. Even before the internet, porn was a multi billion dollar industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:47 AM
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You sound incredibly bitter. If you don’t like that type of woman then that’s fine but the law surrounding divorce has no correlation with how many women are OF models. OF is pretty much a product of internet clout culture and this shitty economy/difficulty level of finding jobs. It is also the product of MEN being huge supporters of the porn industry. Inversely, this is not true. Women aren’t the main reason the porn industry is making record profits. Not to mention the fact that most girls who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:25 AM
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Please, women are not “innately nurturing” that is simply junk science. Women are not inherently any more or less nurturing than men and there’s a lot of evidence to support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:31 PM
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This makes no sense. Women getting paid less than men holds no correlation to the number of women in the workforce. It only skews the population of working women to be denser in specific professional occupations, which has already been happening for decades now. Why do you think most teachers are women? Most nurses are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:53 PM
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Women are having less sex and pursuing less relationships because of the abortion ban too. Unfortunately the governments plan for it to skyrocket more births just….didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:51 PM
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The point is it’s still harder even when you’re not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:47 PM
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They were more “loyal” because expectations were a lot stricter back then. For example in most religions divorce was not allowed, so even though a couple could be separated, they would just never get a divorce. Also, women weren’t allowed bank accounts and credit cards without a husband (my grandmother went through this, which is why she did NOT divorce my grandfather until the year my sister was born despite them being estranged for years and him having 10 children outside of the marriage). Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:42 PM
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This isn’t even statistically correct. Stats show that after a divorce or spousal death, men are more likely to remarry compared to women. Women who are divorced or widowed usually don’t want to be with anyone else afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:38 PM
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Social media has warped everyone’s standards of beauty. The most beautiful woman in your town would be seen as out of this world before the internet. Now that everything is on the internet, we’re exposed to a lot more good looking people than we would have ever seen in a lifetime prior to, this includes surgically enhanced features. So now anyone who isnt like that is considered “mid”. Beauty inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:34 PM
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So you want a virgin? It’s fine if you just want a virgin. But experience is experience no matter how many previous partners there were. Whether it was 3 partners or 20 partners nothing physically changes about the vagina if we’re clean. This is why if I ever were to get married I’d just lie. I enjoy relationship sex better anyway. It’s more intimate and more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:44 AM
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Care too explain why too much dick ruins a woman? You can enjoy sex when you settle down with one man, just as much if not more as a hookup. Personally for me, hookups are not as satisfying or as good as sex with a man that I am actually in love with and sharing my world with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:46 AM
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Men do the same thing though. Men only choose “Stacy’s” for relationships every time, get used and abused by them, then have a few average, kind women on the side to trauma dump on and vent to, or sometimes use for sex too. Same stroke, different paint brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:25 AM
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So then you admit it. Dick “ruins” women and the term “ran through” infers the notion that men are not to be slept with. I also find it very funny how whenever men say it must be fun to be a woman, I ask why and they almost always say because they would be able to sleep around more. Double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:59 PM
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