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Like with everything in life that's unfair, the difference between the haves and the havenots. I was a havenot up until around 30 and for the last 30 years after that as a have. There are some guys that gals go after and some gals that guys go after. This is first usually noticed in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:54 PM
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Just have a feeling that a lot of women are being burned by the same socially successful narcissistic men so that they are not available to other regular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:51 AM
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There is being lonely and feeling lonely. Being lonely is absolute. Feeling lonely is relative. If one is talking about sex, then generally it is easier for them mostly. However, wanting more than only just sex then it becomes somewhat harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:58 AM
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There are also many incompatible relationships where one person is being used and abused by the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:19 PM
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I think it's more about being or feeling needy, especially if one is or feels like they are missing something in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:14 PM
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On the one hand I am reading in groups like this and others how hard many men have even finding a woman and how women are so privileged etc. when it comes to being able to freely choose out of many men. OTOH, I am reading in other groups how some men easily get women and end up mostly using and abusing them to the extent where they ruin their lives very badly but women seem to mostly be falling for these men. There's an obvious societal/social disconnect going on between these two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:17 PM
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In abusive relationships the abused person tends to have a lot of empathy for the abuser at first while the abuser has no empathy whatsoever for the abused. It has become a very one-sided relationship where the abused loves the abuser and the abuser hates the abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:07 PM
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Some shows makes those watching it hate the woman and like the man even though the man may have done similar or worse things than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 09:39 PM
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Even singles events are dominated by attached dancing couples being there and crashing the party floor. Even a singles events, couples like to show off. Very expensive food and drink not included in the pricy event entrance ticket. Bouncers were facing the guys and they were standing between groups of guys and groups of girls. Then, there are escorts trying to pick up new clients with their current clients in tow jeaously looking while she is trying to get new guys. (I figured what was going on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:52 AM
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Some don't even know what's good or bad for them. I remember being rejected by someone for a superficial reason (scarry legs) only for her to end up with someone who keeps breaking her arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:32 AM
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Maybe more on the aps than irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:28 AM
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Isn't everyone different. One might find someone unattractive while others might not. Unless everyone is going for and only looking for "beautiful people".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:27 AM
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Someone who is able to crack/break into a so-called stable home/marriage and bag/sack its top dog male would experience some kind of powertrip/rush in her ability to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:19 AM
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Life is unfair. Someone's husband (m) and someo else's wife (f) cheated together. The cheaters both got divorced from their former spouses and then married each other. The cheated on husband later died of a heart attack and the cheated on wife later died of cancer. The cheating couple is enjoying life to the fullest guilt free travelling all over the world in their retirement enjoying their new life while leaving behind a trail of sorrow and destruction for others in their old families affected …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:07 AM
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Sometimes when two people have been very long together as a couple since they have been teenagers and they have hardly ever experienced sex with anyone else or they were both virgins sometimes curiosity comes in as to how it would be like/feel like to have sex with someone else/others. Some would be curious about sex with someone else. Also, some who have had a lot of sex with different people may start longing for those days sometimes, especially if they are now in a long term relationship or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:59 AM
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Do shorter guys have to somewhat compromise regarding sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:32 AM
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If she is in some dating scene/situation/club, then she should expect to be approached by all different kinds of guys trying to shoot their pickup shot. She could put a sign around her or print on her shirt, "No ugly guys wanted!/need apply!". But it can also make her feel uncomfortable in herself, if all she is or mostly is attracting are creepy guys. It does take guts to do it and to think about it (ie the guy trying and thinking he has a chance). Some guys have more guts than other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:39 PM
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Would you have preferred to have had a date with the waitress/host that day instead? Women can either like you when you are with your SO or they can change their behavior once they see you with your SO and not like you where as they liked you before she arrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:29 PM
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If a woman is getting any attention from a guy who she doesn't find attractive (physically and/or personally), she will not like it. If they guy persists despite several indications to the contary by the woman, then this is considered creepy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:26 PM
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Isn't creepy an uncomfortable gut feeling that one gets from someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:17 PM
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Not all involuntary celebates are "incels" even though that is what the word "incel" is a combined short form of. Just because one is an involuntary celebate doesn't always mean one is mysogynistic, sexist, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:13 PM
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It seemed that it was the best time for me but that was from around 20 to 30 years ago. Sometimes one has no choice depending on when one first lost their virginity. If they lost it in their late 20s then their 30s become a period of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:20 AM
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I am currently married and it was around 1 week and around 2 weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:52 PM
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Former virgin who lost it later and sometimes still feels ptsd from it, even though it has been almost 30 years since I lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:46 PM
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It also made many males around him in the royal court jealous of the female attention that he was getting so that they all plotted and killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:44 PM
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Sexual conversations are ackward and lacking especially when other guys in school or at work with sexual experiences start bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:44 AM
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One may like wanted attention and sometimes dressing a certain way gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:30 AM
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When one is a virgin everything feels at least ten times harder to do. It has a kind of negative overshadowing self-conscious domino effect on almost everything one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:26 PM
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Do you remember what happened to Rasputin?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:12 PM
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Sometimes is helpful to bear it all out to her and other times it is not. I know both a guy and a girl who both each liked someone different. They kept their eye on them even though both were dating different people. At the end, both ended up marrying those they were after but after being patient and waiting and seeing them with many others before. However, there was no guarantee that they would get the people who they were after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:51 PM
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You are right. No one should advocate for any kind of rape or hate of anyone especially women in general just because they feel overlooked by them. This is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:20 PM
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I have lived the first half of my life so far as a virgin and the other half as a non-virgin. I still sympathize with the virgins. What I do remember is that it wasn't the women who made my life hard as a virgin but it was the non-virgin guys in school and at work who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:15 PM
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Are rapists desperate men who have never had sex or are they abusive criminal predators who take what they want by force?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:03 PM
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There is nothing wrong with someone being celibate, especially if it is something that they chose by their own choice. However, some find themselves celibate not by choice but by many social and/or economic factors that weigh down against them. I don't think that this is any women's fault. I believe that it has more to do with social and/or economic inequality between men and its implementation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:00 PM
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In life, you got to realize that there may not just be just one girl of one's dream out there. I have gone for a certain type and know that there are many of them. If one doesn't work out, then there are many others who may work out. Just wanting one person very badly doesn't always work out the way that we would like. Do you know her personally or do you worship her from a distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:46 PM
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Unfortunately, many have been condemned through no fault of their own into social and/or economic poverty by the societies in which they live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:40 PM
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My handsome rich friend has access to any extra money that he needs anytime thanks to his family, especially his parents. Things have been very easy for him as a rich playboy who women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:22 PM
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One is seen as attractive (sexual successful) and the other is seen as unattractive (sexually unsuccessful). Over the years I have gone from sexually unsuccessful to sexually successful. However, this doesn't mean that any women are at my door and trying to break/bust in order to get me like they are doing to other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:21 PM
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It could be once they are over their child bearing age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:15 PM
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But are 98% of men tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:12 PM
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Aren't men more flexible regarding the women that they would date given that there are more men looking than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:57 PM
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We may think that ideally we will do a, b, and c when faced with x. However, irl when something really hits us as x, we could find ourselves doing d, e and f instead. I thought I was going to lose my virginity to another virgin in marriage. Instead, I lost it to a libertine outside of any marriage. (LOL)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:50 PM
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Intellectualizing things usually hurts people more irl because some ideas can hinder one/restrain one more than it can help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:45 PM
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These unattractive guys are probably going for girls who are just like them. There are all kinds of girls. Sometimes it's just finding the ones who click with you. The problem could be that you don't click with the girls who find you attractive. I have seen girls chase guys that don't pay any attention to them because these guys are also chasing other girls who don't pay attention to them. Then you have guys chasing the girls who don't pay attention to them, etc., etc., etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:38 PM
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Those two guys are opposite extremes and they must be catering to/attracting in specific niches of women who go for their types. What one has to decide on is what kind/types of women one likes and one wants to attract. Then work from there in trying to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:35 PM
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But it is usually one of its goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:17 PM
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True. I have been on the r/virgin group on Reddit reading some of their posts. There are male and female virgins on there. Eventhough, most on there want to meet another virgin to lose it, none really are doing anything to further potentially engage with their fellow virgins beyond the group. Most, despite wanting to lose it to another virgin, usually end up losing it to a one night stand stranger (for women) or a SW (for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:12 PM
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It tends to show that they are holding their virginity for the right person who will hopefully also be a virgin. This is a choice that they have made. It seems to be voluntary but also circumstantial since they are waiting for another virgin. The sad part is when some of them desperately go for a very uncaring much older stranger random guy who takes advantage and very painfully takes their virginity. They pump and dump them. There are very few virgin on virgin losing it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:39 AM
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Nothing wrong with getting a SW for those who badly need it. SWs have existed for thousands of years in all societies and cultures. Overall, these same issues are nothing new. At least people are more now into the open and are not afraid to express their feelings, frustrations and pain on the subject. Some already spend thousands on porn, so a few hundred on a SW shouldn't be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:36 AM
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Some can deny it all they want but my previous observations and experiences tend to support this. What is happening is that other guys are paying the price for the sins of other men. Reminds me of the story about a woman complaining to her female friend: "All men are jerks!" Her friend says back to her: "Of course they are all jerks. Duh! You only date jerks. You only like jerks. You only have sex with jerks. What do/did you expect?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:10 AM
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I don't think that non-virgin women overall think highly of virgin women, unless I am mistaken. It is known that non-virgin men and women mostly do not think highly of virgin men and actually are probably the biggest shamers and mockers of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:03 AM
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...or how they treat them. It's the abusive guys who damage women the most physically, emotionally, mentally, verbally, sexually, etc. However, these guys are always able to easily manipulate and move on from woman to woman doing their damage while still getting sex, love, attention, affection, etc. from women. For guys who have not done these bad things to women this baffles/confuses them since it seems that these guys are the ones who are paying for the sins of these abusive guys who are enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:16 AM
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I seem to remember that the guys that my sister and her friends dated were generally assholes who mistreated them. I was sometimes invited to their get togethers and they also came over when my sister had them over for parties, etc. I was usually the only guy without anyone there. Sometimes, I asked myself what I did wrong to be the only guy without anyone. Eventhough, these girls were with these guys, they were silently suffering at times. I know this from what my sister said to me and her frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:00 AM
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It is interesting how overall the opposite sexes see or treat virginity differently. Many men see female virgins as sexually desirable (positive). Many women see male virgins as sexually undesirable (negative). Virgin men are in a similar dilemma as people trying to get a job for the first time. Lack of experience usually becomes a barrier to getting a job. Because they lack sexual experience, they get no sexual consideration. Because they get no sexual consideration, they lack sexual experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:47 AM
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Albert Einstein was just as interested in the same subjects, etc. but he was also a ladies' man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:40 AM
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There are even agencies that offer their favorite stars if money is no object. trystagency.com
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:26 AM
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I have always found it attractive and I have had my fill of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:14 AM
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There's the wandering dick syndrome (a physical/mental thing). Also, attached guys experience/feel it. Some act on it and others do not. Men get erections looking at women who they find to be attractive. These men can be single or attached to someone (else). Didn't they say that men think of sex more than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:31 AM
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There are both men and women who cheat. Sometimes, it is all about who cheats first and/or who gets caught first who gets the blame for cheating. Some of us have wandering minds/eyes whether we think about our exes or others who we come across as we live our lives. Sometimes we fantasize about others as well. There are a lot of temptations out there, if one is willing to go for it. When some feel somewhow deprived/lacking of something in their relationships then one may come up with excuses in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:22 AM
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Yes, people in love can see their life situation with rose colored glasses. We might do the same thing when we catch some kind of break/advantage in life. We all go through different experiences from the positive to the negative in life. The more sympathetic people in life are usually those who have gone through similar life experiences and know where you are coming from. Unfortunately, some people in love like/love to rub things infront of those who are not. Life isn't perfect or fair. I rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:42 AM
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I think that I might be hypocritical if I could switch sex to be a woman. As a woman, I wouldn't want any man touching me in any way. However, as a man, I would want to be with a woman which I am with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:06 AM
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In other words, "They don't give a fuck (pun)." (Unless they really like you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:41 PM
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"What is good for the goose is good for the gander."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:37 PM
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I do not thinks so. He appears to be very vain. However, he is not sparing himself from anything since he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:31 PM
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Maybe our fathers for having an urge that resulted in us. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:07 PM
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For some similar attracts and for others opposite attracts. With my wife and I, it seemed that opposites attracted. We are very different from each other. What she can't/won't do, I can/will do, etc. When one of us is down over something, the other is the opposite about it helping them up. I always thought that it would be similars for me who attracted but it ended up the other way to my surprise. It can be either way depending on the persons involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:47 PM
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😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:11 AM
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Yes, it's a part of their showing off to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:05 AM
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Some men are also getting facials, manicures, pedicures, waxings, brow plucks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:57 AM
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My cousin is a rich metrosexual man who dresses and treats himself better than his wife. He goes to the gym, exercises, is on a slimming diet, gets massages, peelings, facelifts, browings, tans, saunas, facials, manicures, pedicures, waxings, gets his hair done, buys the fanciest of clothes, shoes, etc. Meanwhile, his wife does not do as much as him looks wise. He always has to stop and look at himself when he passes a mirror. It seems that he does this more for himself than his wife. His wife h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:52 AM
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Women are very big buyers/spenders of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:46 AM
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We all want more or less the same things in life but somehow we are either helped or hindered in this by others and/or by our own selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:42 AM
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Sometimes just knowing people's intentions and indulging them can be thrilling to the person in the knowing. If someone knows that someone else can be manipulated with money, then some will use the money they have to also get what they want without feeling used. Sometimes, there's a thrill in knowing that someone is stealing from you but they don't know that you know. That's where the thrill is. Years ago, I was selling something at a stand and some poor/homeless lady stole something from it. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:32 AM
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It is great that you have experienced the fruits of your hard labor materially. I remember reading about someone who was in the opposite situation than yourself in that he didn't have a lot of money but had no problem with women. He was also unhappy with the imbalance in his life. People in general would like a nice social and economic balance in their lives. Appreciate what you have because we usually appreciate it more when we miss it or don't have it anymore. My wife at her work is friends wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:17 AM
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Maybe they see more in her than just the physical/superficial that others have negatively judged her for. Liking/loving someone is something that cannot be intellectually understood or explained. I have always found fat women to be personable/bubbly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:01 AM
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Men are very competitive with each other. Many men want to be the tallest/biggest/strongest/handsomest/richest/smartest in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:46 AM
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It becomes more of a competition bewtween guys of who looks more muscular, who can life more, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:43 AM
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People used to find people through family and friends before which was a better vetting process that worked very well at that time. Also, school and work are other places as well where people naturally interact with each other first which can potentially lead to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:40 AM
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Some guys who are single watch too much cuckold/cuck porn where the less attractive husband gets cheated on by his very attractive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:38 AM
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I read about a woman who got out of an abusive relationship and said that she found her new life with her new bf who wasn't abusive to be ordinary, boring and dull. You are thinking about what the man is doing to attract her. Perhaps, we should ask her the question of how and why she was attracted to the men who abused her over and over again since it appears that it's the women who are making their choice. In terms of dating success, I always found that by sticking to one type of women I always…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:28 PM
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"Body Count"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:24 AM
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There is no guarantee about anything. What you put in doesn't always equal what you get back. There are guys who train in the gym who have women flocking to them and there are guys who train in gyms who do not have women flocking to them. The same goes for guys who don't do gyms as well. Some have women flocking to them and others do not. When women are presented with so many gym guys who look almost the same physically, is she then looking for the guy with even more muscles or is she looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:57 AM
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They get hurt because some women really can't read men very well just like some men can't read women very well. People reject people over superficial things that they can see, but one cannot really see things relating to the real inner person until they really come out later. I was once rejected over something physically (my legs) being too intimidating (laugh at this superficiality). However, her bf that she got right afterwards has broken her arm (cry) a few times according to a friend of a fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:13 AM
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Toxic men tend to be tricksters who mostly reveal their toxicity after they have the woman emotionally attracted to them. Also, they come in all shapes and sizes so you really cannot judge them based on their looks or physicality alone. What happens is that they treat them very nice at first and then become the opposite later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:09 AM
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It sounds like they are already asking a marriage like type of question and this would be a turnoff especially on a first date. Wouldn't this be similar to asking if one wants children on a first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:20 AM
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I remember a fwb who was not exclusive telling me that she hated that some guy that she had sex with who had a condom on withdrew from intercourse, took the condom off and came on her face. She said that she did not consent to it, but he pulled a very fast surprise one on her. I asked her if he asked her permission to do it and she said no he didn't. She was upset and this was the first and last time she had sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:50 AM
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The fupa can be a big killer in terms of hiding its real size.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:26 PM
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Porn and its emphasis on large size and fellatio has a lot to do with men's insecurities. One of its messages is that if you don't have the biggest, you're not going to bang the cutest chicks. I have heard stories of SWs rejecting guys who are too big for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:14 PM
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In a sense it is true because I have been referred to by different women as to having a whole range of different sizes. It could just be based on their previous experiences of sizes as a basic reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:08 PM
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With a 63% to 14% inbalance, there is a larger demand by males for a smaller supply of females. Thus, there are 4.5 (63/14) males competing for every 1 female. Thus, the females have the advantage due to the lower number of available ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:00 PM
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One of my cousins was the tallest and most handsome guy in the family. He is the only one who never really had any relationships or got married out of his brothers. I remember him being very upset when his youngest brother got married. Instead of them understandig why he felt this way, his brother withdrew his wedding invitation to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:52 PM
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Having too much of anything even a good thing can easily make it into something that feels empty, unfeeling, unappreciative, meaningless, repetitive, unsatisfying, etc. Also, sometimes I can't exactly remember what I did that I would like to remember and have sometimes drawn blanks or blurs. I remember the before and after part more than the act part which defeats its purpose to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:48 PM
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I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:36 AM
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Is it the word "young"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:46 PM
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Do you think that they are resentful of this fact? Do they see this desire as a weakness? It is interesting how the testicles are symbols of both a man's power and vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:39 PM
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Generally, it would seem natural that most men will immitate and follow other men who they consider to be examples or role models. Men do learn from other men. Those who don't have a father/father figure may find things harder. If men have any female role models, they would be made to feel uncomfortable by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:24 PM
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"Around 63% of young adult male are single and only 14% females." Does that mean that somehow 86% of females are hooking up with 37% of males?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:23 PM
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I seem to remember that when I didn't have any significant other in my life, it was mostly the men that did have significant others (and not any women) were those who were making me feel bad about it and made me feel somehow inadequate compared to them. This was mostly from those guys at school and at work. These guys also liked to brag and they also liked to trash talk about their gf's behind their gf's backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:08 PM
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Since I am also in the Reddit group cunnilinguscentered, one usually finds there women complaining that they are not getting oral as much as they would like and men complaining that they are not giving oral as much as they would like to. Also, there are men there who do not like to receive oral. However, I have not read about women not liking oral on there as much as on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:41 PM
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It's about things in society that control people like ideas/beliefs since you did say that there was more at work than just strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:49 AM
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Some women need more than this in their lives while others do not. Everyone is different. Yes, some women are living a lust life that many men are envious of. They wish that things were the other way around. It seems to be a situation of supply and demand. There are maybe more guys willing, able and available for instant sex than there are women, so it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:41 AM
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One can be cruel enough if the circumstances puts them under certain strains/conditions. Many who think that they wouldn't do something may surprisingly do something that they never thought they would do under duress.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:30 AM
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Also, who survives hardships more like wars, slavery, etc., the stronger or the weaker? Almost every human invented endevour is made so that a few can control the many whether through money, jobs, laws, society, economics, government, politics, religion, weapons, education, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:24 AM
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Some women by taking male enhancing hormones like testosterone can also develop such strength. Some women only consider men as sperm producers. With cloning on the horizon who knows what will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:20 AM
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Many people I know are in this earning category given inflation and money losing its value. However, they also have more debt as well than others I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:16 AM
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Dating was just as hard back then for some and not for others. The difference is that people met more irl through family and friends instead of through the internet. Going out more to meet people made things different. Now we want everything fast/instant and at our finger tips through the computer and internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:09 AM
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Have you seen the cunnilingus centered Reddit group?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:02 AM
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Isn't it similar to women comparing breast sizes and many women wanting larger breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:01 AM
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Oral can take a lot of hard work in order to pleasure someone to orgasms. Sometimes one feels like one's mouth and tongue are going to fall/drop out but one should not stop and give up. Thus, it requires focused dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:58 AM
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With regards to size it depends on both the man and women involved. Sometimes a smaller size can be more comfortable than a larger size due to the skill of the user and the anatomy of the receiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:50 AM
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I have somehow also heard before a similar but reversed saying/thing regarding greater male fellatio expectations from smaller breasted females.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:45 AM
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I am a kept man. What do I know? My wife makes more than me. She owns the house, etc. I do everything that she can't or doesn't want to do. That's how it is for me. Actually, I can't really complain. (Ad Lib)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:05 PM
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They don't realize that those on the top want those on the bottom to stay there. Otherwise, those on the top wouldn't be able to keep their competition in check. They would lose their positions to those on the bottom, if they weren't gaslighting them. Profiting from keeping people in a misery/suffering cycle is a big business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:23 PM
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Generally, it's all about clicking/vibing (likeability) with someone. Either you click/vibe (like) with someone on one or more levels or you don't. For casuals, it could just be one thing. For more long term, it could be many other things. Increasing one's likeability level usually results from the positive energy of liking oneself/charisma that one can project onto oneself and others. Visualizing what one wants to project of oneself when one gets up and when one goes to sleep may help. Smiling …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:14 PM
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They should know that unless one is a thief, one doesn't usually go about directly grabbing something that they want. There is usually an order of operations of positive/comfortable social communications/interactions between people that may lead to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:58 AM
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Many women have said that they liked me because they said that I cared. However, this did not mean that I was only friend zoned for it since I was having casual sex with them. They said that it was like a breath of fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:49 AM
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I wouldn't mind having female friends if I am already attached to someone. However, I don't know how my SO and the other women would feel about it. Sometimes having women friends can help a single guy build up his confidence in talking to/interacting with women that may help him find someone, especially if he is not already after one of his female friends who may not be interested in him. OTOH, I wasn't able to keep being friends with someone who I liked more with and she just wanted to be frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:42 AM
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Theoretically, the men on the bottom could take things away from the men on the top. Theoretically, they would prefer the men on the bottom to take from the women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:13 PM
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The same could be said about any minorities as well. Everything depends on the good will and trust between citizens in a country. If this fails, chaos and civil war could result. Our societies are very fragile. Unfortunately, there are many social and economic strains that many citizens are experiencing these days. The world is under the imbalances of increasing populations and decreasing life sustaining resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:04 PM
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What are discord groups? I have never been in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:42 PM
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I remember how depressed I felt after looking through women's fashion model magazines that my sister had. There was a constant bombardment of a certain female type in it and it made me feel uncomfortable even though I wasn't female. I just found the messaging in it to be negative. It was like, "If you don't look like this, then you aren't beautiful." Instead, it's variety and differences which makes things interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:32 PM
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It depends how you see or experience things. Some may think that women are superficial preferring good looks and height in men. I have mostly found them overall to be the opposite and more reserved in that they want to get to know one more on a different level such as the emotional/comfortable rather than just the physical before they open up and trust one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:22 PM
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"I am who I am. Take it or leave it."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:05 PM
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When I was younger, I used to believe things that now as I am older I don't believe at all. Since everyone is different, why are we making social and economic boxes in the West that exclude many people who don't fit into a predetermined box? There is beauty in variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:04 PM
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Through my experiences IRL, I have learned that the world is a big enough place that you can eventually find people who like you for who you are. If these people don't like you, then those people will like you. The hard part is finding the community/people in which you can click with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:57 PM
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Unfortuntely, some men are unfairly paying for the sins of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:22 PM
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I remember taking an ex of my ex who was feeling upset like myself for having been dumped by the same/my ex to a singles get together. We were both looking for someone. However, I was a male and she was a female. We weren't attracted to each other. To make a long story short, I found someone that night who actually went after me out of nowhere and she didn't find anyone and she was upset. I paid for the cab for my ex's ex to get back home since I took her there. I left together with my new hook …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:22 PM
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It is what it is. It was no different even 20 years ago. I remember that when I was into dating, there were many more rejections than acceptances. It was something like 10 to 20 rejections for every 1 acceptance. So yes, it was mostly negative based on numbers but any success was a success. It can be hard to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:59 PM
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I have provided transportation and paid for hotel/motel rooms and room/food service for casuals/meet ups during the day and/or night. Besides sex, shelter and food are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:55 PM
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Never judge someone unless you are in their shoes. And even then, give them the benefit of the doubt. How many times have I thought to myself that I wouldn't do something only to do it when the opportunity came by. Always thought that I would have sex after marriage and that I would marry within my religious group. Well, neither of both happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:21 PM
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A woman can get the attention of hundreds if not thousands of men online by showing off her physical assets. There are men online who try doing the same but they overall do not seem to be anywhere close to being as successful unless they are very very exceptional. This must sometimes feel empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:16 PM
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Even that show "Virgin Island" says 1 in 8 are virgins. Also, heard 1 in 8 have herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:24 PM
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Is that why there are more thruples and threesomes these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:21 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. It makes the world go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:10 PM
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Unfortunately, some men only learn or know about women through pornography which gives them a twisted/incorrect mindset/misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:02 PM
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Just get a feeling that it may be some of those over the top who would like to divide people sexually, socially, economically, etc. so that people are at each others throats. Why do people hate each other? Because they are having a hard time and are blaming the wrong people for their difficulties/woes/problems in life. There is a lot of hostility out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:49 PM
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Such very close differences could potentially lead to a civil war if there is some very determining defining divisive event that sets it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:37 PM
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It occurred right after WWI. Women were able to do jobs that they didn't before to make up for labor shortages in the war industry. Also, due to WWI soldier deaths, there were more women than men left. Women getting more rights also had to do with women wanting recognition for their social and economic contributions to their society. It's about time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:32 PM
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Why has it gotten this bad between the sexes? (I think that some men are paying for the sins of other men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:23 PM
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Ever since patriarchy replaced matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:21 PM
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Do they want a return back to matriarchy? Perhaps it will solve many of our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:57 PM
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Like everything else it varies from person to person. There can be abusive good looking and not so good looking guys. There can be non-abusive good looking and not so good looking guys. It all depends on the person. The reason why many other guys may think that it's mostly the abusive good looking guy is because they figure that the lady mostly puts up with/overlooks the abusive guy's bullshit is because he's good looking. However, it mostly has more/mostly to do with a woman's emotional attachm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:50 PM
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Is our society becoming more like an efficient/productive bee colony bit by bit? Most members are worker bees who are females and the head of them is the queen bee. She gets to reproduce. The males are a select few drone bees who are chosen to mate with the queen bee. Afterwards, they are left to die off. It could be that we are transitioning back from a patriarchal society to a matriarchal society and we are experiencing some pains/pangs in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:36 PM
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Whenever I did have any casuals, I would be the one who traveled to meet them, especially if they were in another town. I also paid if we needed a hotel or motel for the day or night. I would also pay for any meals or breakfast after a hotel/motel night.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:32 AM
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The key to having a woman sexually satisfied is to look after her sexual needs first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:18 PM
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To those who really appreciate them, their physical presence is already a big enough turn on. Everything else extra is just icing on the cake. I do like pillow princesses that I can pleasure. If one is stimulating them, they do get easily lost in the sea of pleasures of multiple orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:12 PM
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Find that the first thing to do is to stimulate the clit manually and/or orally in order to bring orgasms which also results in vaginal wetness. Then proceed with intercourse, if mutuallly agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:27 AM
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Sex with someone has to go beyond what solo masturbation can achieve since otherwise why bother doing it with someone. Thus, it's also about focusing on the other person and they focusing on you. When you do yourself, you get a double feel of your hand/fingers rubbing your sexual organ(s). When someone else does it to you, it's not your hand feeling any more so now it turns to seeing/feeling the other person doing it to you. The sexual pleasure of doing it with someone is usually a half for you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:06 AM
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A female exfriend of mine who was a virgin befriended another girl who took her in her car on a trip for a day. She visited several of her different boyfriends each of which did not know about the other. My friend was in shock. My friend did not know if she took her along just to show off how many boyfriends she had. She also noted that her friend was not really happy or satisfied with any of them. Thus, she kept collecting more bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:41 PM
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Ever noticed that busy restaurants attract more people to even there being lineups than not so busy restaurants that are mostly empty? Popularity attracts more popularity. I remember telling someone who had trouble attracting people to his restaurant to just have his family and friends sit around in it and it started to attract more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:16 PM
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Actually, the more I think about it the more I start to remember. Yes, some do size one up. I guess I was thinking more about specific numbers than just general size descripition which some did do. I have been told to be all different sizes. I remember one of my exes emailed me and wanted to see me for an encounter. However, she was married at the time with her long time bf. I met her when she had broken up with him after he was charged for being a voyeur after being caught by another woman. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:37 PM
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I joined a dating service many years ago and one of the ladies on it told me that almost ever lady on it was going after the same guy on it. Was I supposed to be sorry for all of the ladies because that guy did not choose all of them for a date? It was based on a catalogue system where one would include pictures and information on oneself. Then any member could pick from the catalogue who they wanted to meet and if the other person agreed then they could both meet for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:57 PM
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Yes, but the hetero male mind is attracted to the female form which looks pleasing to the eye. It may be that some women don't mind certain men looking at them but do mind other men looking at them according to whom they prefer. However, their presence out there in general makes life overall more pleasant/wonderful/beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:43 AM
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I seem to remember when dating that I usually had to go through being interrogated by at least 10 different women in person at a neutral place like a restaurant in order to at least find one to have a relationship or hookup with. To me, it sort of felt like it was like being interviewed for a job. Usually, there would be around ten rejections for every one acceptance. Am I to guess that some more favored guys get an easier and faster seal of approval that doesn't require such a process?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:27 AM
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Yes, it is all about producing insecurities rather than reducing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:21 AM
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Wnen one is heavily invested so much in something, it is very hard to break the connection/chain and restart new again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:46 PM
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I am not a "real" man. I am a "kept" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:39 PM
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For some it's quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:23 PM
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Porn may be somehow sending the meassage to those who watch it but who haven't had sex that their dick is somehow not good enough/worthy of having sex because it doesn't measure up to a porn star's dick. In real life, I have never had any woman take out a tape measure and measure my dick size before or after sex in order to compare my size to any standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:22 PM
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I think most women who are into them would like to try different ones. Just like a man who likes different, clits, labia, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:17 PM
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Just like anything else, there are also pretty dicks and ugly dicks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:15 PM
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I have heard stories of guys who blew sexual opportunities because they were anxious thinking too much about their dick size so that they couldn't perform when they needed to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:13 PM
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Same here. I lost my virginity around 29 years of age which is considered late. Before this I hardly ever had any real intimate female contact on any level. Then over the next ten years, I had 5 short term relationships and 6 casuals. Then for 9 years, I had one longterm relationship that led to being married for 10 years afterwards currently. Thus, I have been on both sides and I am now at my life half point between being a virgin and a non-virgin. Within that 10 year period, I also met many ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:50 AM
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Having a car is very helpful whenever one wants to be able to meet up with someone, especially at a moments notice and sometimes someone from out of town. It usually helps to make one flexibly available. There are car princesses, pillow princesses, etc. who like to be spoiled, indulged and serviced. Cars can also provide a private place for doing it as well. The independence that cars provide is important to many different lifestyles. Whether one currently has a car or not, at least being able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:19 AM
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For men things appear to be two tiered. For the men on the top, it's great just like for the women. For the men on the bottom, it's not that great at all. This divide is very evident to the men on the bottom tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:14 AM
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I had much more exposure to different social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:53 PM
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I do not think that I have ever been one of those favored guys. Some guys try to intellectualize why they aren't getting any sex but this is just another exercise in frustration. Half of my life has been virginal and the other half so far has been sexual. Thus, my life has been a contradiction/contrast of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:27 PM
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If causal sex came knocking on their door many would change their views of it. I used to believe in sex after marriage when I was a virgin (in order to make my virginity more palatable). However, I lost it when the opportunity came and it wasn't in any kind of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:10 PM
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Is a "Chad" a subjective or objective concept/construct?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:45 PM
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Many are never satisfied with what they have and want more thinking that it will make them feel better. The saddest realization is when they have almost everything that they ever wanted or dreamed about but they don't feel happy or fulfilled. Getting things more easy than others can result in one not appreciating what they have to the point of ingratitude/being an ingrate. Part of the thrill in life is the voyage on the road to getting there rather than already reaching there. Appreciating what …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:44 PM
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I have had several long term relationships and when they ended they all took an emotional toll. On the otherhand, all NSA causuals that I had did not take any similar emotional toll afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:35 PM
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I have had several relationships and most ended not so well. This can take a toll. I have also had while single NSA casual and none of these had the same bad ending effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:56 PM
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A former female friend who wasn't into men described to me how she viewed piv as an agressive alien invasion of her body (parts). She was a virgin with regards to men but not with regards to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:48 PM
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There's also the +6" third leg requirement as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:41 PM
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"Going on Tinder and finding the tallest and most visually appealing man to fuck". Handsome and tall seems to be what most young women are looking for according to what is being said online. My sister married such a guy who was also college educated. What's a guy to do if he hasn't got any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:40 PM
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Also, other men will hire a pretty woman first rather than another guy for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:22 PM
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It would appear that women who are more economically dependent on men usually end up more vulnerable to being abused because their economic options are more limited. Also, abusers come in all shapes and sizes so there is no way in telling who is an abuser and who is not until they start to abuse or have a history of prior abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:04 AM
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The problem being that a lot of money is being made off of people's addictions which are destroying and bankrupting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:38 AM
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It is also interesting that it's usually the women who need men to economically support them are usually the ones who get trapped in abusive relationships due to having limited economic choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:29 AM
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Love is blind. Different men see the same woman differently. Some may find women that others don't find attractive as attractive. I accepted all of the women who I have have been with in my life as they were/are with flaws and all because I also have flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:32 PM
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Mine was mostly circumstantial but somehow I convinced myself that it was convictional. I was able to do it by convincing myself that I was a virgin who was religiously holding it for marriage. I totally failed at this and lost it outside of marriage and religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:33 PM
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Some will use findng the right relationship or marriage to have sex in as an excuse for their virginity. I did it in the past and was even part of a religious group that only promoted sex in marriage. Again, it was mostly to hide the fact that I was really a virgin since a virgin in waiting sounded better/more palatable. However, I did not lose my virginity through marriage even though I supposedly wanted to through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:24 PM
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Who does a bad rift between the sexes benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:08 PM
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There is always a risk that when changing for someone whom they may think is better they could actually end up with someone who is worse in their treatment of them or in different ways that cannot be seen/noted at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:01 PM
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No, it's more about the contradiction about what happened to me regarding it. It felt like both an acceptance and a rejection. Why don't you believe it? She was very tight and a size queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:46 PM
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I guess that you don't believe anything I said. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:33 PM
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If you are a guy, are you such a well-knowing/all-knowing ladies man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:32 PM
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I assume that you're a guy who is just trying to bust/burst my balloon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:31 PM
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A problem for some is that they may not like those that may like them and those that they may like may not like them. There's the scenario of a girl chasing a guy she likes but who does not like her while she is being chased by a guy who likes her but who she doesn't like. It happens all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:15 PM
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Bringing two strangers together is usually hard to do unless there is something in common that they can both relate to that draws them together closer to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:10 PM
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You are just listing physical characteristics only. Meanwhile almost every other guy may be doing the same thing. If every guy is hitting the gym and they physically all look similar, what is going to make one stand out more than the others? Is it going to be extra more muscles? They may want to get to know more about one, especially if they are wanting to date. They tend to go for an overall well-balanced person. They will also like one on many different levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:52 PM
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Beginning to think that this situation resembles a sandwich. On the top layer are the guys who are on the top. On the bottom layer are the guys who are on the bottom. In the middle in between both layers are the gals who are in the middle. It is still the guys on the top that really rule/dominate even though those in the middle layer think that it's them that rule/dominate and those on the bottom layer think that it's those in the middle layer that rule/dominate. It is necessary for those on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:35 PM
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They will probably be drafting most of these disenfranchised males into their military for any wars. In Nazi Germany, they were mostly recruited in the SA stormtroopers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:19 PM
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It's all about the few controlling the many. Most invented human endeavors have this purpose behind it whether it's politics, laws, money, jobs, religions, weapons, schools, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:30 AM
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Getting an unexpected and surprising compliment can disarm a person. I have gotten some compliments from females that took me by surprise and unfortunately I froze and said nothing back in the days when I needed and could have benefitted from responding back like in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:27 AM
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There may be a jealousy factor involved. Some guys like to make comparisons and take accounts of body counts, dick sizes, big conquests, pretty pulls, different positions, different kinks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:19 AM
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Also, there is usually a NSA aspect to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:11 AM
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People do like to try to win over people. They do it in different ways besides just with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:05 AM
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It may be an observation made by those who are not in the "know" about it. In other words, some men who are not having sex may think this (as well as maybe some feminists too).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:02 AM
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How are countries like China dealing with the problem of there being hundreds of millions of more males than females due to the evil of anti-female infanticide?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:32 AM
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For a society to function smoothly, there should ideally be a social and economic balance in people's lives. However, some have more of one and less of the other. We hear a lot about economic poverty and how almost everyone runs on a platform of solving our economic problems. However, there are also many social problems as well that don't get the same attention but are equally important. In my early days, finding someone to be with was something very difficult for me. Things did not get better i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:29 AM
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Someone once said that evil is banal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:15 AM
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The answer to this may be that assholes appear too good to be true at first and then act like assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:10 AM
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Like with everything else, it can vary from person to person but overall less skill means less skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:08 AM
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Basically, in order to win someone over, they ususally have to be liked by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:04 AM
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If he treats a woman badly or abusively then he's an asshole in my books.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:00 AM
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A girl complains to her friend that all men are assholes. Her friend responds to her by saying how can she complain when the only guys that she ever dates are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:57 AM
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Used to be me in the past but I never considered myself a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:53 AM
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It may appear this way on the surface since in order for these men to abuse them, these abused women must have initially liked these men in order to have been with them somehow. Whereas, those men who do not like women may not like them because they feel that women don't like them. I don't favor either group of men because of their bad behavior towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:49 AM
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Some abusers know how to lure and then surprise their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:33 AM
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They come in all shapes and sizes. That is why they are hard to detect until they pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:31 AM
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I was rejected by someone who was intimidated by my muscular legs. She ended up with a guy who often breaks her arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:26 AM
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Interestingly, I had more sex with her best friend than with her. I had sex with her first and only once as stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:00 PM
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Unless her best friend who told me that she told her was lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:28 PM
7

Unfortunately, millions of young men, many of whom were virgins, in the 20th century died in the first and second world wars. Also, in many other wars as well. This even continues to this day. It's very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:24 PM
2

Unfortunately, many people in our society are being socially and/or economically being cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:19 PM
3

Love and dating are not logical. They don't make sense. One can offer 100% and still get 0% back. Those one thinks are the best can get treated the worst and those one thinks are the worst can get treated the best. Everything flies out of the window. In the past, people met each other mostly through family and friends. I am thinking of trying to be some meeting coach for those having meeting difficulties. I have been in both worlds and understand where they are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:10 PM
2

Also, one's friends can influence one's behavior. How many times have kids preferred their friends over their parents, especially teenagers. Friends are cool and parents aren't cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:04 PM
10

Generally, boys need a positive male role model in their lives. It could be almost any male who can make a difference. Even having a father doesn't guarantee that they are a positive role model. However, alot of influence in one's early life has to do with the people that one hangs out with as friends. These people can influence one for better or for worse. Much crime can come from group/gang affiliations/memberships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:02 PM
5

Because generally in an ideal perfect world commitment would come first before any sex, but somehow for some special guys they will break this order and have the sex first expecting the commitment to follow. It usually never happens because these playboys are already thinking/planning on having sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:25 PM
9

Just because one gives them the best sex of their lives doesn't always guarantee that they will come back for more. I gave her the best piv she ever had but she was fixated on a kink that she preferred to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:11 PM
2

Indications of someone who is spoiled and never appreciates anything that others do for them in life. Life is not fair in that the most undeserving usually get what the most deserving should be getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:56 PM
15

Desperation can breed behaviors that are not very attractive. If their only sexual outlets are porn, strip clubs, etc. then they may appear to be creepy because they don't know how properly relate to or treat women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:43 AM
8

There is an order that one usually follows in order to make things go smoothly and comfortably for those involved. Sex is usually not one of the first things discussed at all unless both are only looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:31 AM
1

There is something natural in the male brain (hetero) that finds the natural curvature of females attractive. That's just how it is and it starts at a young age for males. Nothing to apologize for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:23 AM
14

There are some guys that once they get their girl friend, they can be anything they want. Sometimes, their true colors show up and they are abusive to their gf's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:16 AM
25

In other words, they can afford to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:12 AM
0

I remembered being "friend zoned" in the past and my response at the time was "no thank you".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:11 AM
1

While women get much attention from men, it is important to note whether it is positive or negative, wanted or unwanted, etc. Just quantity alone (rather than quality) attention does not make for it to be comfortable for them and can be overwhelming for them to experience this most of the time. Meanwhile, men usually do not get this same attention response unless they are somehow/somewhat very extraordinary/outstanding and men would feel that any such attention from women would be more than welc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:44 AM
1

Unfortunately, if things continue as they are eventually there will be a fall/fail of our society in both social and economic areas. There is a great deal of both social and economic poverty problems. Many don't have any sufficient livelihood and/or love in their lives. Once people in a society start to hate and not trust each other things could fall apart. Now a days, the only thing that most people have interest with each other when one goes out is the money in our pocket that we might use to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:16 PM
1

I am someone who went from being a man who had next to no attention/affection from women for the first half of his current life to a man who has gotten attention/affection from women for the second half of his current life. Thus, I understand what's currently going on with regards to this situation. I still suffer from a form of PTSD left over from my first half. It feels like I was moved from one world (darkness) into another world (light) which was shocking. It actually felt like I was invited…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:04 AM
1

All they have to do is post a nude picture of themselves online and hundreds/thousands of men will go ga-ga over them. It doesn't matter whether these women are married or in a relationship already. They like to show-off/tease and to see how many men just fall for them. They love the attention to attract. Obviously, they usually aren't looking to date anyone since they are usually already attached. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:08 PM
2

On the other hand, there are some very abusive guys who have done so many bad things emotionally, verbally, physically, sexually, etc. to women and these women continue to stay with them at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:57 PM
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