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| 15 | How to avoid coming on too strong?How do I curb this behavior? Before sending texts etc. just ask yourself "What value does sharing this add to the other person's life?" or "What value the other person can add to mine". If the answer to both of those is none then don't do it. Edit: I find the answer to curbing most excesses is having an effective filtering method. If A then do B else don't do it. If my particular filter does not work for you just make up your own. The trick is to have one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Self-reflection time. Things you know you shouldn't have done, yet you did them/said them/thought them lately.I might be way of the mark but I can tell you only from my own experience (I have had to travel over seas a lot for meetings recently) that I never view these trips as fun. If someone were to mention to me that they "could" come along my first though would be, "why on earth would they want to?" and I would probably come up with a dozen reasons why it is a bad idea. If instead you say you want to go because you really want to see this city or for whatever other reason then you will likely see mor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Ever see something in the media and think, "I'm glad I discovered RPW before I thought this was a good idea"?That is why I don't share my shower with anyone. gross!!! Edit: I admit I have Mysophobia so I might be biased, but even so, It is not a toilet | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/17 01:58 PM |
| 2 | How entitled should you be?Entitlement refers to what you think you are owed or have a right to. However one of the basic tenets that TRP tries to teach is that no one owes you anything. That is the whole basis of self improvement. you do not not have any intrinsic worth and therefore have no right to expect anything from anyone. Your worth comes from constantly improving yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What percent of men are Alpha?Lets take a look at prehistoric societies for an (possible) answer, since that is where our evolutionary roots were set. First some assumptions: 1) we will assume Dunbar's Number ~ 150 for humans is correct 2)About half the population of adults was male.I know In fact that males births in primates and many other species are fewer than female but for humans this is close enough 3) Life expectancy after age 15 was about 7 decades. this is based on observations of current hunter gatherer societies … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/17 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Don't Ask Men to Commit: Femininity is MysteriousI am just as emphatically opposed to being GPS tagged. So don't do that either | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 11:33 PM |
| 14 | Don't Ask Men to Commit: Femininity is MysteriousHow do you feel about sharing your password with your partner? Bit off topic but you should never do this anyway. It is not a question of trust. Accidents happen. maybe they write it down somewhere or maybe someone hears/sees you give them the password. maybe someone sees the text/email you sent them with your password etc. etc. Point is the fewer people that know, the better. especially since most people reuse passwords for everything (don't do that either). Just like I always wear a seat belt … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 11:04 PM |
| 2 | New Relationship - How do I make it last?In any long enough time frame (which is what I assume we are talking about) it is not really possible to appear interesting without being interesting. Always shocks me how few people my age (millennial) and younger take the time to read anything. Be informed about current events for starters but over time try to gain both a breath and depth of knowledge on various topics so you can hold an informed conversation about anything and everything and not be a wall flower. Have opinions about things wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Work is Hard for Men After the HolidaysYes. The difference between things I do for fun vs things I do to deal with stress is that for the later I pick activities with immediate gratification while the former can be immediate or delayed. Also it helps if the activity is relatively simple. So for instance taking point 1) All this requires is a set of ear or head phones. At first my mind might drift back to the stress full situation but over time the story will slowly pull me in. It is also why I like fantasy or Sci-Fi. Both these genre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Work is Hard for Men After the HolidaysTo the men, what helps you relieve stress when it is something that cannot be solved and is just the situation at hand? 1) Listen to an audio book. This is usually Fantasy, Sci-Fi or something else that requires suspension of disbelief. 2) Read a book (same as above but sometimes an audio book version is not available) 3) Shoot some aliens/fly around in a spaceship/Play some star craft etc. 4) watch a movie that I have been meaning to watch or else have seen before but really like. These are in … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/17 07:35 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...This does not necessarily assume monogamy. It does however assume that most males and most females at some point in their lives get together in pairs and decide to pool resources and raise young together. This last comes with the underlying assumption that even if hypergamy sometimes results in a male raising someone else's child it would be infrequent enough to be worth the risk. likewise the risk that the male might not stay and help raise his offspring would be offset by the low risk/reward r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 08:49 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...I don't think neoteny is indistinguishable from actual youth. It's just an adult with flatter face, less hair, bigger eyes, maybe behaving more playfully. It also results in a slower development cycle which means you end up looking younger. well anyway as to the rest of your post if we turn the idea that neoteny resulted in bigger brains and higher intelligence on its head and instead assume that perhaps selecting for intelligence resulted in bigger brains which needed longer to develop leading … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 08:38 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...Why would there be selection favouring young - obviously there is, but why? Older age would be a better signal of fitness. this is an excellent point! I don't think I have an immediate answer that fully satisfies my own curiosity. one avenue to explore might be to see how other pair bonding animals select their partners with regard to age and how this compares to organisms that exhibit more opportunistic mating strategies. if pair bonding animals are selecting younger offspring then chances are … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 08:06 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...What do you think could've been a driver for neotenous traits? I suspect there was no driver specifically for neotenous traits because they are indistinguishable from actual youth. What was probably being selected for was youth and this resulted in neotenous traits. there might have been many things pushing for selecting a younger partner. As I mentioned before, menopause might have been a factor, but there might have been others too (as you pointed out menopause might not have been a sufficient… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 07:38 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...Well by definition the average person looks their own age so if you select someone who looks young chances are you are selecting a young person and not someone who is older than they look. this is because if the majority looked younger than their age then that would be the new norm. So how do you go about selecting for neotenous traits? you can't really since it is indistinguishable from actual youth, and actual youth would be what you usually get if you do this. so what I am saying is that you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 07:03 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...Hmm I see what you are saying. I can come up with only one objection. In order for natural selection to take effect there needs to be a short term and immediate pay off for every successive generation. Only any added intelligence payoff from neoteny would be unnoticeable until it accumulated over many generations. At the same time there would be an immediate cost added in time and effort of raising the child for longer. also conventional wisdom tells us that it is usually men that are more inter… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...I would take what I said about male attraction to youth being linked to menopause with a grain of salt. After all it was just a thought I had that fit the puzzle, I don't actually have a lot of evidence for it. Here is another thought I will throw out there, again with little evidence aside from the fact that it fits. in other words, please take it with a great heaping spoon of salt just to be safe. It seems plausible that neoteny might be linked to intelligence in humans. As we are finding out … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 09:04 AM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusRight, I know the idea that women only find 20% of men physically attractive was from the survey. I assumed the idea that women are only attracted to looks first then money and status was your own add on. I did a quick google search (nothing comprehensive), but the numbers seemed a bit of a stretch at a glance. I did not look at the underlying studies, just scanned some news articles etc, so i might come back to it after the holidays also, if we accept that only younger women fall into this patt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 07:22 AM |
| 3 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusIf women only find the top 20% of men attractive and since most men can't compensate with money or status (by definition being rich or having status puts you in a small minority) would this not mean that only slightly more than 20% of women in relationships would identify themselves as happy? I think this might be the first and easiest test of your hypothesis. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...It serves the function of neotenized brain. well that would be the end result, but, I suspect, that is not the reason we select for it. The goal here would probably have been to select a partner with more years between her and menopause which would result in more kids, presumably. which, i guess, answers my own question about what function it serves. this would then add selective pressure on women to appear and act younger. But I don't think its childlike behaviour that men find attractive. It w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...Alright so while I agree that there is evidence that at least men do select for neotenous features in their partners, I don't think that there is much evidence that the selection goes beyond physical features (bigger eyes, smaller nose etc.). I mean take the rather rapid development of language and other higher cognitive functions in our evolutionary past. language for instance developed very quickly in humans which lends evidence to the idea that there was great evolutionary pressure for such c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/16 10:21 AM |
| 15 | If I don't see it ending in marriage, is there a purpose in exclusively dating someone?This is hard to answer without knowing why you don't see yourself marrying this person, but here is a story from my life that forms a good analogy. When I was about your age I had only a vague notion of what I wanted to do with my life. I knew I wanted to major in something related to math and that I wanted to do research. However I was not at all sure what exactly I wanted to spend my life researching. To answer this question I set out and took a few courses in algebra, analysis, physics, I eve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/16 08:11 AM |
| 2 | MisconceptionsThe way I think of it is this. maybe it will help someone else too: Just because we agree that all creatures must follow the same laws of nature does not mean it is useful in anyway for tigers and alligators to share hunting strategies. TRP and RPW are like that. they agree on the "laws of nature", so to speak, but RPW is NOT a restatement of TRP. they advocate different actions because because men and women have different winning strategies for relationships. just as tigers and alligators have … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/16 07:50 AM |
| 1 | "We agree with /r/TheRedPill in its description of male and female nature" -> "Most responsible teenager"...I feel that a lot of people are confused by this fact. To put it simply RPW and TRP are based on the same core truths (lets call them axioms). However they are not restatements of each other. that is to say that they are logically consistent but not logically equivalent. Well maybe not consistent either since we are not as rigorous as we could be in the mathematical sense, but close enough RPW takes those axioms and uses them to arrive at conclusions designed to help women better themselves part… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/16 06:55 AM |
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