Zhai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. But telling them "I have a boyfriend" means that they are being shit tested /s	/r/seduction	02/08/23 12:51 PM
7	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. She bailed because there might be an expectation that she will need to sling pussy for the festival. And some women don't want to prostitute themselves, especially for so little. Plus festival, big crowds, drugs might be involved and you are a stranger. If you didn't bang her already and we're just talking, your proposal although nice was DOA.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 12:49 PM
2	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. I heard gentleman on the streets of London, lol	/r/seduction	02/08/23 12:46 PM
23	Anyone ever get threatened by a boyfriend of a girl they hooked up with? Feel bad for champs that try to domesticate girls that belong to the streets.	/r/seduction	02/11/22 08:05 AM
2	Do you think that most women would expect a traditional date before a hook up? I'm European and I had one date closers after simple beer in a pub dates. Americans are simping heavily with those dinner dates. No wonder women abuse the system for free food. Plus how are you supposed to be in mood to fuck after you had full meal. I want to go to sleep and digest in comfort.	/r/seduction	14/10/22 06:56 AM
6	drug abuse gets you laid. Has anyone noticed this? People who are prone to risky behavior attract other people prone to risky behavior to engage in risky behavior? What a revelation man. Of course when you are open to more experiences you not put yourself out there more but are willing to have risky history. That's exciting for women. The other day I was winging my friend that climbs mountains, does Crossfit, doesn't drink and has a good job. But the girl was more interested in my ayahuasca ceremony in Equador. You want to attract women? Be exci…	/r/seduction	01/10/22 07:37 AM
1	It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourself Exactly. In a loud club a woman will make judgment in 1 second about you based only on looks.	/r/seduction	30/09/22 10:03 AM
1	things were going great and I told her my love for her Take a break from contact, go out there and meet other people. Then you can come back.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 11:28 PM
1	Was I rude to my FWB?(25F)(28M) Yo, you both are weird. Hiding in closet?	/r/seduction	27/09/22 05:51 AM
11	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Serious relationship is you treating her like queen and getting king treatment back. If you don't feel that a woman you chose to be with is worth treating special way, what are you exactly doing?	/r/seduction	23/09/22 08:22 AM
1	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. If you need to start a fire in the woods - do you use some nice dry twigs or trying to light on fire a branch you just found in the lake? It's not supposed to be work. Put your offer up, if she needs convincing - save energy and time and go to another girl. You are risking your resources for a person that might develop attraction or not. Not even mentioning that you will be dropped the moment she finds someone she finds attractive that will give her attention. Plus reward will be ok sex at best.…	/r/seduction	20/09/22 08:28 AM
10	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Agree - this is seduction sub. He is good at seducing. If you guys just want a girlfriend, go to r/gettinggf . Let the man be. If he finds time to do hobbies and women, what's your ass jealous about. Personally I wouldn't muster enough libido and personal interest to bang 50 girls in a year, but I understand some people are built differently. Not even mentioning, that some people have great conditions to do this stuff (looks, location, good paying job, natural extrovert). You have no idea how ea…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:49 AM
26	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) Yeah, but he is there. Sucks for you though - what are you going to do about it?	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:43 AM
1	Why do girls always ask why am I `quiet’? Because they want to have interaction with you, dumbo.	/r/seduction	09/09/22 10:17 AM
2	How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner? Walk before you run man. If you have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. Start sending CVs to some bigger city and relocate. I know it's not easy but if you have comfort of your job now, there's no risk involved. Worst can happen is that you get an offer. To get friends best recommendation is to join local groups for your hobby.	/r/seduction	30/08/22 06:25 AM
2	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... What if you meet best-er?	/r/seduction	29/08/22 07:47 AM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? "Oh honey, I'm a virgin"	/r/seduction	28/08/22 07:54 AM
1	why doesn't game translate well within america? It's all about your shiny red mobility scooter	/r/seduction	22/08/22 05:28 AM
1	If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ? There is a lot of sex available for women, but it's mostly low quality sex. They try to screen you first if you know what's up and will not just jackhammer it.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 06:13 AM
1	How can I learn to talk to women? Walk before run. You don't start a video game and use cheat code to teleport yourself to the last boss. You will not win. First, start chatting girls up without sexual indication. Just get comfortable having a small talk. That's it. If you are at the party, just say hi, are you having fun, how do you know the host. That's it. You can make observation about her outfit or something that is happening around you. It's incredibly hard to get comfortable in these situations mostly because you are afra…	/r/seduction	16/08/22 08:00 AM
9	Guys, I think fucked up... Don't stress. You went out and failed. That's OK. You just put some time into practicing some skill. Do you think you will win a fight on your first day in martial arts gym? You will do nothing, you will be beaten. Keep going out and enjoying yourself. Just by sheer exposure first you will have random small talks wich will evolve into flirts with time. You are just now in sucky part, but it's integral to the process.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 07:37 AM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? Because a lot of men have a hobby. A lot of womens hobby is basically finding a long term partner.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 06:09 AM
0	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? Good luck bro out there. You gonna need it.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 06:07 AM
6	What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s? Give up. embrace gayness.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 07:23 AM
1	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? There is a reason why best advice for people starting from zero is to get into social circle/circles. Do you really think it's going to end well if you don't know how to interact with people on platonic level and you go for trying to dealing with women in sexual context? Level 0 - get colleagues Level 1 - get friends Level 2 - be part of a social circle(s) Level 3 - start interacting with women in sexual context or with sexual intent. Walk before you run.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 08:27 AM
4	In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions? Don't give him a reason to leave it for later. His best biological years are now.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 09:56 AM
13	Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps? Did you try climbing/bouldering? Pretty social sport with fit girls and everybody is chill.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 12:31 PM
5	any advice on how to better my chances with white women? In eastern Europe you being black will either veeeery help you or will make it impossible. Just go through numbers and it will happen.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 12:17 PM
-1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? speak 3 languages Europeans: that's cute	/r/seduction	06/07/22 06:42 AM
2	I tried being an asshole (mildly). it worked and it's pissing me off What do you call "being an asshole"? If you are just sassing her behavior or pick on wording she used, that's just being playful and challenging. That makes you exciting to them, as long as you are able to also laugh at your own mistakes.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 04:18 PM
12	Not getting laid? Go travelling ! Not everybody will switch keyboard layout to type one special character amigo	/r/seduction	05/07/22 04:08 PM
2	Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day? Easier when travelling. Just talked once to a Spanish girl afraid to jump off the cliff into the water in Thailand. Invited her to lunch, met in the evening at a party. Went back to her place and then fucked for next 3 days like crazy. Good times. Just keep approaching brother.	/r/seduction	03/07/22 08:45 AM
1	How do you actually flirt with girls? Which one am I? Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy	/r/seduction	01/07/22 06:55 AM
1	How do you actually flirt with girls? Insinuate sexual stuff but leave enough room for interpretation that she wonders if you meant innocent thing or dirty thing.	/r/seduction	01/07/22 06:54 AM
3	I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the year That's going to be problematic when you get a gf in a month.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 08:40 AM
8	I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong. Then don't be "balding" either go get a transplant or embrace it by shaving it. The worst you can do is see it receding and don't do anything. With thin hair and receded hairline you look sicklish. That's not what you want to communicate with your looks. Either save it or shave it. I let go. But once you go bald, and I can't stress it enough, you have to start working out and put on some muscles. Don't sit and cry, just fucking do something. a baldie	/r/seduction	14/06/22 03:27 PM
2	I did it!!! It's great to have that rush, isn't it. Soon it will become normal for you, so enjoy my man!	/r/seduction	10/06/22 09:13 AM
1	You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for that Gym is not good for pickup. Unless you have top level extravert personality and you befriend everyone there, so women see you are not creepy. Bouldering is chill and as you move from one problem to another you might struggle in the same place as others. Conversations just naturally happen since you are figuring out the same thing.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 08:25 PM
7	You are enough to take action as you are right now. You don't need to be perfect or maxed out at everything, life's too short for that Go try new hobbies. Go to bouldering/climbing gym. Bouldering is very social and girls are mostly fit. Join some hiking club. Attend salsa class. You can also enlarge your circle of friends by going to martial arts class (recommend BJJ) and they can invite you to parties.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 10:03 AM
1	why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person? Oh sure, but it's a fraction. Not all of them.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 09:32 PM
3	why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person? Close to 100% of girls on tinder is open to dating. I would double check these numbers - big chunk of that are validation seekers, bots and insta advertisers and straight up whores. 3 of them are not into really dating. Last one is not everybody's cup of tea.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 02:13 PM
1	How to find one night stands while traveling You are asking for advice how to meet women and now you want to organize 4 somes? If your looks aren't 9+/10 forget about tinder when travelling. You will be put on backburner and will get reply in a week when you already move to another place. Sure, you can swipe on toilet, why not, but it's much more effective to chat up people at hostels - you are literally skipping the line by putting yourself right in front of her. Source: backpacked SEA for 6 months and South America for 4 months. Stop bei…	/r/seduction	17/05/22 01:30 PM
1	How to find one night stands while traveling Stay in hostels and engage with people "hey, where are you guys from?". Arrive, plan some visit to museum or other attraction, ask people if they are going as well (both men and women, don't be a creep that is only looking for women). Take charge of the organisation, women like leaders. Make decisions on the spot where to eat, try to be accommodating. Problem solving is attractive. Have fun.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 11:53 AM
1	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? It's not like all European women are trad wife materials as well. Especially in Eastern Europe. Materialism is everywhere. I also wouldn't blame it on feminism - feminism itself isn't bad. It's the femifavoritism - mangled, opportunistic version of feminism that ruins mindset and expectations of women.	/r/seduction	16/05/22 07:45 AM
1	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? Man, I don't know what to tell you - I didn't have that many problems. I've met some nice women in my life. But I'm also more selective about my relationships since I had only 2 LTRs. Also - I tend to value more character of a girl than her looks (it has it's downsides for sure). If we are vibing well, I just want to get intimate with that woman, even though she isn't looking 8/10. I live in Europe if that changes anything.	/r/seduction	16/05/22 07:26 AM
8	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? This is good example of thinking, that will not really benefit you long term. Brah, did you maybe took a look at what women you try to connect with? Did you take a look how do you carry yourself when dating? Being bitter will be actually beneficial for getting ONS, but long term I don't think that's a path leading to your internal happiness.	/r/seduction	16/05/22 07:06 AM
23	What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating? You know you are good at seduction when you manage to seduce everybody - getting everybody to like you AND respect you. It's easy to make people to like you if you give them free shit, clout or other value. But they won't respect you. Same the other way - you can try to intimidate people, and they might "respect" your dominance, but they won't like you.	/r/seduction	16/05/22 07:02 AM
6	Girl sent me a friend-zone text. How was my response? Would like to know for learning purposes. "She saw through the ruse?" So you were misleading her, or straight up lying. Check your choices OP.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 09:31 AM
3	Girl sent me a friend-zone text. How was my response? Would like to know for learning purposes. If he wants to get to know her more - he can do it as friend. You don't need to bang people to get to know them more. His phrasing doesn't support his stance.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 09:29 AM
96	Dating is pretty bad right now, dont beat yourself up for lack of sucess. Dating is bad, but if you walk into 3 rooms and in each of them it smells like shit, maybe you should check your own shoes.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 12:09 PM
1	I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in return So if gifting didn't work for you, stop that and see if you see an improvement.	/r/seduction	29/04/22 09:27 AM
3	thanks rseduction "Shut. Up. About. Cars!"	/r/seduction	31/03/22 11:18 AM
20	Just experienced the worst cock-block of my life Plus what if someone took a shit there before or vomited. Stupid idea.	/r/seduction	19/03/22 08:16 AM
10	Camgirl wants to meet up She wants to up sell you on her package. Sure, you might smash, but don't dilute yourself that she does it because she digs you. Be better than that, king.	/r/seduction	06/03/22 12:45 PM
0	What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”? Oh stahp eeet, you silly goose.	/r/seduction	17/12/21 06:42 AM
15	[deleted by user] I think people just see that it's a 21 year old girl that has been with the same boy for 6 years since they were teenagers. What you describe is ok, but for matured people with some experience. OP's case just screams that it's gonna end in clusterfuck. Opening sweetheart LTR to bang a guy at work. It's like two bad ideas combined.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 09:41 AM
1	[deleted by user] Amen.	/r/seduction	07/11/21 09:37 AM
2	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? I started convo with my now gf (she mentioned having dogs in her bio) by saying "I bet your dogs will love me more than they love you after just 15 minutes of interaction". I made out with her within an 1,5h of meeting on the way to the dinner. Just be ballsy but funny.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 07:06 PM
8	Conversations with an average man with an above average sex life Easy to see - make him put 5'9 in a profile and see the difference. Should be doable OP, isn't it?	/r/seduction	07/04/20 06:10 PM
2	How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work? Limit your availability, drop hints that you are seeing other girls - you can leave tinder icon on main screen of your phone.	/r/seduction	28/06/19 11:45 AM
0	How to change your mindset when trying to talk to women? How do you become the kind of guy who doesn’t worry about failures anymore? Seduce everyone. Crash and burn so many times that you don't care about it. It's gonna be awkward sometimes, but you are in rising your chance of success by 100% by trying.	/r/seduction	22/07/18 03:55 PM
9	Got drunk last night with my buddies at a club. Got a girls number, but I don’t remember her face or name. You just ask "oh by the way, I have no idea what's your name". She gets pissed and tells you "Tara" and about to explode. "nah, I mean your surname".	/r/seduction	15/07/18 06:04 PM
15	Is it true that you shouldn't hit on girls in your class,gym or work? Work - don't shit where you eat. Gym - befriend them and let them come to you. But I wouldnt hit on them directly. Class - whatever man, go for it.	/r/seduction	15/07/18 03:20 AM
1	What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction. What?	/r/seduction	14/07/18 04:57 PM
2	What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction. For me a girl expecting me to pay for her is a red flag. Got taken advantage of in the past - never again.	/r/seduction	13/07/18 10:32 PM
9	Best reasons to give her the excuse to come over to your place? Hey want to just have a quick coffee? (more obvious bullshit if it's late night) Hello Luke cage	/r/seduction	07/07/18 01:13 AM
1	Is it not normal / detrimental that I never 'chase' women? Your text back killed it. If she flaked, you shouldn't have said what you did. I had good success in similar situation by saying - ok, let's meet, but first beer/coffee is on you, as a punishment (devil emoji). Then she knows, that although playful, it wasn't cool what she did. Now there is a condition, although small and not important, to the meeting.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 12:34 AM
5	My experience as obese man Idk, it feels like in this post we assume that you were born into obesity. Dude, hit the gym. Don't do it for chicks. Do it for your health.	/r/seduction	03/07/18 10:21 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life Appreciate your concern, but it's not about being ugly. It's about being photogenic, my face just doesnt come out right on pictures, I always make some goofy face. No worries though, I have found a workaround.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:26 AM
2	Girl didnt sleep with me cause I was a virgin and was too nice i guess. Agree. Steer away my brother. Women can do what they want, but making out with three guys one night is a bit too much.	/r/seduction	29/06/18 05:52 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life I don't think it's a fear. I just know that I require a skilled photographer to make a proper photo of me. That's all. Anyway, my IG already got me laid, so I think I'm doing alright.	/r/seduction	29/06/18 02:38 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life I am just not photogenic. And my both Instagrams are photography based. I'm actually jealous of people who are able to celebrate themselves by posting tons of selfies. I have a gay friend that has great example of Ig - work out selfies, concerts etc.	/r/seduction	28/06/18 02:40 PM
1	Why do girls do this Tell her that this will not work between you two and she will go crazy about you. She got hit on by baseball players etc but given up by some schmuck? What does he have that he feels that he can be better than vips?	/r/seduction	17/06/18 12:48 PM
2	Study reveals how you think of the outcome of movie “500 days of summer” gives insight into your dating life Just because you love someone it doesn't mean that they have to love you.	/r/seduction	22/05/18 03:12 PM
1	Do I have to give up my nerdy interests (Classical music, Weird al, Beatles T-Shirts, Community Theatre, playing the ukulele) in order to be sexually desirable to attractive women? How does it feel to come to "all star"?	/r/seduction	15/05/18 02:11 PM
1	Do I have to give up my nerdy interests (Classical music, Weird al, Beatles T-Shirts, Community Theatre, playing the ukulele) in order to be sexually desirable to attractive women? How does it feel to come to "all star"?	/r/seduction	15/05/18 02:10 PM
3	If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move." I would say, that in this regard I like to model myself after doctor from doctor who, as geeky as it sounds. Grab her by the hand and go for an adventure. There is always some place with live music, or you can crash gallery exhibition where they serve wine and cheese. Be kids sneaking in. That's the exciting stuff. Ignoring women, misbehaving and exploring world should embedded in your lifestyle.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 11:58 PM
127	If you are with a girl and don't know what to do next, ask yourself "How can I make this fun for us?" rather than "what's the right move." Yup, went to a bar, she was a bit shy, so at some point I called change of bar. Got to other place, ordered drinks. Then I saw board games, picked up domino. She won first round, but couldn't come up with her prize. Then I won, she asked what do I want for a prize, I just leaned in, whispered to her ear that I want to make out with her and collected my reward. Just be 5 years old when hanging out together.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 12:40 PM
3	She always talks business Slightly offending her is the only way to get her man. What would you say if it was your sister? You would roast her. This girl has all the guys being nice to her, you need to stand out by showing that you don't give a fuck and just want to have fun.	/r/seduction	30/04/18 12:43 PM
7	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends Google "Zyzz transformation". Plus it's other way around. Ripped guys are hot. Being ripped is achievable. Sure, some have to work more for it. And even then - you don't have to have chiseled abs to be attractive. Just put on some muscles.	/r/seduction	24/04/18 09:45 AM
3	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends Then you have to work on yourself more. Not everybody has a chance to bang a supermodel in his life.	/r/seduction	24/04/18 09:34 AM
3	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends I have average looks - average is miles better than straight up ugly, you can visit stylist to help you to pimp yourself up. Take a look at Netflix show Queer Eye. See the difference haircut, hygiene and proper fitting clothes can make. Going to the gym should be obligatory for men - there are no excuses. average height - average is miles better than short no status and no money - it doesn't matter that much, but explore. Look where you can make extra cash. Try picking up programming - the most …	/r/seduction	24/04/18 09:30 AM
17	The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriends These guys got girlfriends by grinding their way through. They probably met through friends, continue to meet from time to time, after a month they build up courage to ask her out, he invited her to a movie for first date, didn't get to kiss till 3rd date after expensive dinner. Then they continue dating, nothing exciting but each of them thinks "this is fine for now, I guess". She thinks - "he isn't annoying me that much", he thinks - "sometimes I get sex and she is ok". After 3 years it's time…	/r/seduction	24/04/18 09:17 AM
4	Getting more of a chill, laid back vibe instead of scholarly and serious? How did your fleet do at Kingslanding?	/r/seduction	20/04/18 05:55 PM
2	As a woman doing pick-up, I’m struggling with rejection. Why do you think I’m getting rejected? And what else can I do to improve my approach? You can see how I’m doing it in the video here.. It's because shes a woman, trying to hit on people. Not because shes Asian, calm down. I would be alerted as well. Sadly if I would be approached by her I would be wary if she isn't a hooker or a girl that will lure me and rob me with some guys. These things happen. Sorry that it is like this, but I traveled a bit and heard stories. Thank other women for creating this way of thinking. You are cute OP, just lower your energy. You have to sort of steer these guys into doing pickup on you.	/r/seduction	19/04/18 06:24 AM
2	Getting out of the friendzone. This. Balls to the wall.	/r/seduction	31/03/18 06:21 PM
1	Why Are Hot Girls Hard To Pick Up? It's Not What You Think.. Thanks, dad.	/r/seduction	22/03/18 03:18 PM
13	Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world. Pareto	/r/seduction	15/03/18 09:25 AM
1	These girls are angels. Yall ever pick up anyone like this? I feel like I havent lived up to my potential with women still even tho I have improved tremendously. Do yall ever get that feeling? I read somewhere - people attach to edges. If you are smooth, other people will have nothing to grab onto. Imperfections are cute and make people real.	/r/seduction	05/03/18 01:43 PM
5	She texted me this. "If you're hungry, i can come over and cook for you <3" He is right, though. When men finish, hormones make us think clearly. When women finish, hormones make them want more.	/r/seduction	27/02/18 12:10 PM
0	I cant keep conversations over text Basically watch Seinfeld and be Seinfeld.	/r/seduction	13/02/18 11:59 AM
2	How can you max out your looks? What are the best things to do? It was just a joke. But yeah - one thing you should do when you decide to shave your hair off is to put on some muscles.	/r/seduction	26/01/18 11:25 AM
1	How can you max out your looks? What are the best things to do? T-shirt jeans is a good combo - wtf. It makes you look more easy-going and like you don't try too hard. Still - it needs to be clean, plain shirt. Think how Hank Moody carried himself. Plus you can show off muscles a bit better.	/r/seduction	24/01/18 07:57 PM
3	How can you max out your looks? What are the best things to do? Hair(including facial) should be clean and neat. (long or short, whatever). No neckbeard. Cries in bald.	/r/seduction	24/01/18 07:53 PM
20	If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with women Plus realize that sometimes you just don't have a chance - you are not her type, something might have upset her before your interaction, or she might have not nice personality. These are all valid possibility. Just always do your best and that's it. The rest is out of your hand.	/r/seduction	06/01/18 09:01 AM
7	First day of the year and another chance I throw down the toilet. I recommend books "power of now" and "the subtle art of not giving a fuck".	/r/seduction	02/01/18 05:49 PM
1	Why does society condition men to be beta males instead of alpha males? Our fathers were either beta as well or not involved enough to pass and cultivate right mindset.	/r/seduction	25/12/17 09:55 PM
9	How NOT To Kiss Girls: Tips From A Serial Female Kisser Another tip if SHE is a bad kisser and goes into your throat with a tongue as if she was looking for her lost car keys. Just keep slow tempo, power through, narrow your lips opening and keep at it. Keep forcing slower tempo until she gets it. If not, then oh well... Lost case.	/r/seduction	04/11/17 11:55 PM
7	The 8 Commandments Of Self Confidence Make a wallpaper out of this shit.	/r/seduction	24/10/17 11:55 AM
4	I cannot look at a girl the right way https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tS0fQAsSbPA/V6tvU8Rr28I/AAAAAAAAUps/n9TT-Lw5ha0lwaLm7rC2pQ8drifYf_f2gCLcB/s1600/worst-thing-she-can-say.jpg	/r/seduction	21/10/17 10:13 PM
3	The Seduction Blueprint (Free PUA Book) It's 12 bucks for me	/r/seduction	12/09/17 07:59 AM
4	I got rejected at the club today, but I'm so proud of myself It gets intense right before 2 am. I call it "house fire hour". Because you basically grab anything that stands next to you and you run away.	/r/seduction	10/09/17 09:58 PM
-2	How to seduce a mans mind.? Looks and memes.	/r/seduction	02/09/17 09:30 PM
1	Introduce yourself to her twice. Instant opening. What does it say about you if you need to put girl down or lower her self-esteem in order to get on with her?	/r/seduction	06/07/17 06:11 AM
1	Introduce yourself to her twice. Instant opening. This is a good advice. Plus negging? I thought that seddit grew out of this bullshit.	/r/seduction	05/07/17 10:36 AM
7	Seddit vs other PUA platforms You can have hobbies and job, but you still have to go out there. Women are not going door to door asking who is a good catch.	/r/seduction	30/06/17 10:05 AM
3	Girl I cold approached on the beach today suddenly cried and revealed that her boyfriend just died yesterday. Fuck man, you basically want to wipe her tears after losing 7 year long boyfriend with your dick. Be nice and don't game her, are you a sociopath?	/r/seduction	05/06/17 04:52 PM
50	If you're a girl who likes a guy, ask him out. Please! How so? What is different. Are women getting stoned by a mob when they get rejected?	/r/seduction	29/05/17 06:04 AM
2	Why Not Telling Your Crush How You Feel Means You'll Never Be Successful In Life Don't shit where you eat.	/r/seduction	16/03/17 09:51 AM
2	Confidence learned from a mole. Dude, shave it fucking ASAP. My hairline started receding towards center leaving not even a regular "peninsula" of hair in the front. I could have still style it for ok effect but I had to use product and anything like water or hats would ruin it and it would look REALLY bad. So I just shaved it off. Now I just buzz it every 4-5 days or so. The key is to hit a gym and put on some muscles - it makes tons of difference. It's easy to be confident when you look like call me maybe model. It takes a l…	/r/seduction	13/03/17 08:33 AM
11	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss "I had fun tonight" "Yeah, me too" "Actually it was so good that I want to kiss you/make out with you" There is something psychological in this moment of anticipation between saying out loud your intention and actual action that makes them go crazy.	/r/seduction	13/03/17 07:17 AM
1	How to respond to any shit test Oh OK - I thought I was 5'7" with 175 cm. But it's 5'9" actually. Still - it's a normal height. That was a shitty shit test on her part.	/r/seduction	10/03/17 08:59 AM
4	How to respond to any shit test First of all - what was she teasing you about - isn't 5'7" average? Your answer was pretty bleak IMHO and too defensive. If you want good advice - look into improvisation. Agree and escalate. "Yeah, I don't want to brag, but I was an extra in Hobbiton scene", "Yeah - that reminds me to put coins in a meter for my pony" or some shit like that. Piggyback line from u/pacg is best though.	/r/seduction	10/03/17 07:47 AM
1	Fact: Women like Muscles That's true, but I feel like you don't need to have big muscles and too much of them actually puts women off. First of all you can be intimidating looking to some. Second - a lot of girls are skinny fat since they don't exercise, and if they see you in ultra shape, they will feel bad about their bodies and will be reluctant to engage with you. THAT BEING SAID - don't let that stop you from going to the gym. I think a great middle ground are sports that build muscles and give you toned look, for …	/r/seduction	24/02/17 07:44 AM
1	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. If you call it "trying to be a cool dude" then you are already starting with a wrong mindset. All I have right now, is just a snapshot (although detailed) of your life. Keeping track of approaches in excel file seems excessive to me and borderline autistic, but I imagine that if you approach every fucking day, there's no way you're going to keep it all in your mind. Plus, computers were made to reduce load on our memory. I think that majority of criticism here stems from fear of other guys that …	/r/seduction	19/02/17 04:43 PM
42	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. Dude, you even eat lunches alone and hangout only with people that will propel you forward? No judgements, but I feel kind of sad for you since I imagine living this life myself. But if it makes you happy, then keep at it. Not sure if I would want to be your friend though - I would always have in the back of my mind that I'm just a tool for you to do or achieve something. Cutting down stress, reducing work hours and limiting distractions are always a good advice - so props for that. Sometimes I …	/r/seduction	18/02/17 02:06 PM
1	Want to ask a girl out, but you're don't know if she'll say yes? Here's the secret... Go to climbing gym. Seriously, it's the most social sport I've tried. Everyone is talking at the gym between climbs.	/r/seduction	16/02/17 08:32 AM
1	What is the purpose of life? Purpose of life is to find a purpose. Then you will understand.	/r/seduction	06/01/17 03:37 PM
0	Depressed because I feel like I'm missing out on fun with women at an early age. First carts of the train passed you. Are you going to cry about them or are you going hop on those that are coming your way?	/r/seduction	31/12/16 09:16 AM
1	Tonight fucking sucks, but pain = gain. Dude, at least you approach. 80℅ of guys don't even do that! Cherish failures because if you keep at it, you will see less and less of them.	/r/seduction	23/12/16 04:53 AM
18	She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence. Are you calling money a "fuel units"?	/r/seduction	03/12/16 01:19 PM
6	Practicing the art of conversation Hey OP, please practice formatting of posts. It's terrible.	/r/seduction	23/12/13 06:11 AM
1	Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins] That's what I'm talking about - you need to secure each other. If she's 7 meters up high, she has to trust you. It also works other way around unless you are too fat for her to keep you balanced.	/r/seduction	18/12/13 05:06 PM
1	Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins] Good ideas - action dates with thrill that increase trust. In my case it's wall climbing. Shit ton of trust and adrenaline. Afterwards pancakes at my place and we are done.	/r/seduction	18/12/13 09:37 AM
3	"You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test? Or simply put - sarcastic response to sarcastic statement?	/r/seduction	26/12/12 12:10 PM
2	This needs to happen. Call vs. Texting. Pros and cons of each I don't call since over the phone I sound like pregnant suricate defending its nest from cobra.	/r/seduction	07/12/12 12:30 PM
1	Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tips Well, idea seems great but I have hair on my back. I rather stick to my 11th Doctor costume.	/r/seduction	02/10/12 09:41 PM
1	Seddit, The movie "Crazy, Stupid, Love." has a lot of stuff about picking up girls. Is any of that movie actually true and useful? Be fit. Go out and try. Get used to rejection and enjoy the company. Don't be negative in conversation. All the basics are there.	/r/seduction	08/09/12 11:34 AM
2	Wtf is wrong with me? Take it easy. Let your mindset get used to it. Remember - this girl is not your only chance for happiness or sex. Let yourself make mistakes. You will make it. It's just part of a grind.	/r/seduction	30/08/12 03:57 PM
3	How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man? You get access to other women (her firends) - plus. You will get bonus points on very start since she will advertise you as cool guy - plus. During party you can easily take her out to the dancefloor and have good time. Other women see it - they want to have your attention too - plus.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 07:11 AM
1	You are your own HB10 - Act like it. Hot Babe, sidebar	/r/seduction	01/08/12 08:49 AM
1	Read List for Beginners v2 /r/fitness link is wrong	/r/seduction	17/07/12 02:45 PM
2	Life isn't a movie. Although I like the contrast in your post, I made out with a girl in the rain recently (but we had an umbrella, doh!). She got cold and guess how did she try to warm up? By pressing her body into mine. Super hot.	/r/seduction	16/07/12 07:24 AM
9	Johnny Bravo's response to the "I have a boyfriend" line. The thing is... some girls are afraid to be alone and it's the only reason they are in their current relationships. If you persist past initial protest, she might be interested - it's kind of a shit test. She feels like she informed you that she has a boyfriend and later can rationalize her behavior and put fault of being seduced on you when things go wrong.	/r/seduction	14/06/12 10:36 AM
1	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) Little tip. There is an easier way to get kiss than shooting blindly and doing this without words risking very awkward moment. This worked great with 3 girls: when you go for a stroll around the park or just walk around talking and a moment of silence comes up, just stop in some place without much people nearby while still holding her hand. She will probably ask "what's wrong". Then you just look her straight into her eyes and tell her confidently "I want to kiss you" with a smirk on your face. …	/r/seduction	09/06/12 06:48 PM
0	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) /r/seduction	/r/seduction	09/06/12 06:35 PM
2	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) I was in similar situation - go for your goals, get attractive to women (not just physically). The only thing you can regret it is that you didn't do that earlier. Stop waiting. You don't need more time. Just go for it.	/r/seduction	09/06/12 06:31 PM
15	A guy challenges me to a fight. I will lose. How do i decline without looking like a beta? Once again - how wrestling in real life settles who is better at Smash Bros.? Logic fails me here.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 09:04 AM
1	Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now? My female friends sometimes tell me to try a pick up one of their friends. When I mention "but she has a boyfriend" they just tell me to not care about it. Couple times I've been told that some girls "are in the market for new boyfriend" while being in long term relationships. WTF women? I wanted to be a good guy but I can see girls staying with their boyfriends just because there isn't anything better around at the moment. Women really are afraid to be alone. Personally I feel like OP. It's har…	/r/seduction	21/05/12 07:49 PM
4	How can I escalate when a girl randomly compliments me? I'm sorry, but this shirt is not for sale. Said with straight face and with official voice. Credit goes to IT Crowd	/r/seduction	19/04/12 08:58 AM
12	"You always wear the same clothes" Just dropping by since I've been indoctrinated by MFA - t-shirt under casual shirt should be a v-neck so it doesn't show and making you look sloppy.	/r/seduction	25/03/12 06:52 PM
2	[FR] Picked up a gorgeous girl, had fun without F-close This is SO much better reply than usual. Thanks for the specifics. Upvote to you kind sir.	/r/seduction	23/03/12 04:31 PM
1	[FR] Picked up a gorgeous girl, had fun without F-close Could you provide more examples of "challanging" conversations?	/r/seduction	23/03/12 06:21 AM
3	Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the Friendzone You should have grabbed another girl when she went to bathroom. Imagine if she comes out of the bathroom and sees you having fun with another girl. It sends strong signal - "I came here for fun, not for you. I can have fun with anyone".	/r/seduction	21/03/12 01:00 PM
1	Advice from an experienced, natural 68 year old man. Never divorced with a wife who is still dreamy-eyed for him. Upvote for you. Not because I agree with you, but other views also should be welcomed.	/r/seduction	19/03/12 05:48 PM
27	How To Not Care What Other People Think Of You Not-give-a-fuckland is a great place. Once you get there it takes effort to go back. Don't be afraid - cross this line as soon as you can and enjoy the ride. Go to open mic event, try stand-up comedy, go to karaoke bar and perform sober (then get smashed and sing even more). Once there you will be wondering why did you spend all this energy on stressing over your "image". Be the party on legs. Before people didn't pay attention to you actually. Your image in their head is like a etch-a-sketch th…	/r/seduction	13/03/12 08:17 PM
2	Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity? Had the same approach after being blown by my ex. I changed my mind after meeting this girl in France. French girls like to kiss a lot but thanks to that they know how to handle bj. It felt like putting my dick in a cloud, seriously.	/r/seduction	05/03/12 07:23 AM
2	Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity? Some people like it to be just about physical relief. What meaning do you want sex to have with a girl you just met at the club. It has none. It's about wanting to get off with person you find attractive - how can you romanticize it is beyond my comprehension. Sure, in LTR it's totally different, but normally - no.	/r/seduction	05/03/12 07:19 AM
3	TED Talk: Paul Zak: Trust, morality - oxytocin (how to get girls to trust you) There is a chemical reaction in female body that when you hug her for 10 seconds and more, there will be released a wave of calming hormones. I will post link to the source later. That's why when there is a tragedy and women panic, strong hug usually helps them to ease the shock.	/r/seduction	18/11/11 07:17 AM
1	Would anyone like a subreddit of text conversation transcripts of flirting and talking with girls? Subscribed	/r/seduction	17/08/11 06:16 AM
70	(FR)15 rejections in a row You do realize, that by doing 15 failed approaches you made 15 more steps than majority of people who read about seduction? Personally my friend, I consider you a hero.	/r/seduction	12/06/11 08:57 AM
3	The Dos and Don'ts of renting a movie and dinner. I can toss in Black Dynamite or MacGruber.	/r/seduction	17/01/11 05:44 PM
0	So Seddit, what is your best move? http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/EC/75.html	/r/seduction	25/11/10 05:49 PM
60	So Seddit, what is your best move? Use eye-eye-lips triangle technique. Don't talk, just look into one of her eyes, then into another, and then drop to her lips. Now repeat 2-3 times, and then start slowly getting your face close to her while looking into her eyes. Show her, that you are not shy, that you are alpha male and you don't take your eyes away. Then right before your lips touch stop for a few seconds. Enjoy the moment and then if she didn't already kissed you, give signal to a cab and when it will come near look on it's…	/r/seduction	25/11/10 05:23 PM
2	How to mesmerize women through conversation and build strong attraction - Part 1 (too long for one self post) Saved with a power of a hurricane.	/r/seduction	19/11/10 03:39 PM