| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 525 | One of the ballziest approach i've done | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 03:44 PM | |
| 7 | Texting first | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 02:29 PM | |
| 5 | Acne destroys my confidence and looks | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 03:57 AM | |
| 5 | Trying to date a virgin | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 03:26 PM | |
| 2 | Will being as bad kisser turn off girls? | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 03:19 AM | |
| 2 | My Dilemma | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:17 AM | |
| 0 | How to stand out from a group of friends going after the same girl? | Zibilicious | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 02:05 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Went to eat outside at a crowded place and crashed a pair. Hilarity ensued.Lol right? Op's post is like the essence of what the sub is even about. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 22 | Went to eat outside at a crowded place and crashed a pair. Hilarity ensued.I feel u op, I would 100% go up to random people for fun. I'm glad you did that, always great hearing about beautiful social moments <3 | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Well... today I cold approached....I went through something similar but I didn't actually approach. A cute girl sat next to me on a lat pull down machine but I didn't have the balls to chat. You should be proud you actually did it! | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup)Gym is a hard place for that! Good shit man. Takes solid balls to do that haha | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | PUA is more similar to martial arts than studying academic subjects (like history). You don't improve by reading and debating, you improve by doing and recognizing different things work for different people. What works for one guru may not work for you. Try and test to find what works for you.Check out a Ted-x talk on youtube about the law of 20 hours. The speaker basically says, 20 hours of DELIBERATE practicing will be enough to make you "decently" good. The speaker also makes a note of the importance of "learning just enough to correct yourself", meaning, that you shouldnt be learning too much as that'll hinder the rate at which you practice, but understanding enough so you know how to correct yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | No one values me. Im invisible.Woah dude, that was helpful af. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 09:44 PM |
| 2 | The apocalypse openerI have a even better one I tried out last night. My friends were telling me to approach this group of girls but I wasn't interested in any of them. But since they kept nagging for me to open them, I did... Here's how the conversation went. Me: Hey girls, I think yall look absolutely gorgeous tonight! Them: Thanks (coldly) Me: Like you guys are sooo pretty I wish I could have your heads hang above my bed! Then they look at me with fear in their eyes and disgust in the mouths and walked away rapid… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 09:34 PM |
| 10 | How do i stop being Needy/desperate/boring and bland? And i have very low self esteem.You seem like you need to cleanse your old mindset and make room for a beautiful new mindset to grow. If you aren't already doing these things, they may help you to purify your pessimistic views. -Eat healthy, if you eat clean and well, your body will naturally feel more comfortable and thus lifting your spirits up. -Meditating, once a day, 5 minutes or 10 a session to clear all of your thoughts. -Hit the gym, it'll boost confidence. -Travel alone or go for walks alone, close off other thoughts … | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneWoah, that was brilliant. Love your metaphor of the panning for gold too. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Girl Very Flirty in College ClassHonestly, there are some girls who are just naturally flirty AF. Ex. I have this co-worker who has dated her BF for like 2 years and they are super madly in love. Yet, she flirts and touches and hugs every guy at work as if shes interested. She would look in to your eyes with her big bright green eyes and pretend like shes so interested in what your saying. But the reality is that she's just like that. She's naturally flirty with EVERYONE. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneshes born in america apparently, half asian half white, just look bit more asian. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneim 20 and shes 19 | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneTry and go to their place if not, yeah just do your car. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've donegrab digits, and then send them a text asking them on a date if it's not good enough to ask in person. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI mean I think you need to let them know your interested in order for them to not think your just tryna be friends lol. Don't think of it as losing power, your throwing a lead and if she is interested she'll nudge on to it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:46 AM |
| 10 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneIf I go in with the mentality "It probably won't work" it probably won't, self-fulfilling prophecy. If I approach a girl and have the mindset "She likes me" my success rate skyrockets because my confidence skyrockets. I'm a keen observer to people around me, guys and girls alike. I can tell when someone looks at me with interest, curiosity, boredom, and disgust. Typically, I prefer to approach girls who does not seem like she wants nothing to do with me, but rather girls that are more interested… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:29 AM |
| 8 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneTo be honest, the first time I tried to fuck a girl that happened to me too. Try to be in the moment, as cheesy as that sounds, but enjoy that the foreplay like your in a beautiful romance movie haha. Start playing her pussy and try to make her cum without sticking your dick in first. If your goal is to please her without using your dick first, it'll probably get hard fast. Try things and see what makes her moan during foreplay. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 8 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI totally fucked up in that approach. It was very awkward and it did not go smooth. But once you get a girl's number, the best thing is to say something straight up like "I think you were cute and very interesting, would you like to get a cup of coffee sometimes?" You need to make sure the girl knows that YOUR INTO HER. Don't set up a weak "friend date" make sure she knows that you want her sexually. When you text her make sure she gets that part, or else you'll be in the friend zone easily. And… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 20 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI'm the furthest thing from a Chad haha, I'm asian and I'm very unintimidating... | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:13 AM |
| 40 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneHer Ex boyfriend LOLOL | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:12 AM |
| 11 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneNiceee, I totally agree after that experience lol. Now that mindset is straight up imprinted in my brain because I never would have thought to fuck a random customer walking in. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:12 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneI'm asian, and I'm not that good looking. The best thing I've got going for me is that I'm 6'1 and I've been working out for 2 weeks. Also, I am very amiable lol, not intimidating to anyone in the slightest. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:08 AM |
| -1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneThat's exactly what my friend said to me once I told him. He literally said "Dude you sound retarded asking that." and I was like, "Yeah... I know. I was challenged and I had to win my challenge." Not gonna lie, the approach was shitty, and super awkward... | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | One of the ballziest approach i've doneLmao, when I told my other friends about what I did they didn't believe me either. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Acne destroys my confidence and looksI heard the side effects are devastating | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome self consciousness??Yeah, I work out daily, sleep decently, and keep a healthy diet but yet acne still prevails. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome self consciousness??I have pretty bad acne and have tried going to dermatologist and tried many face washes and nothing is working out, it pains me so much. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I did pickup and made a comic about it. Issue 2 is out today!Wow that was fantastic! I would totally read more | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 11:58 PM |
| 4 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleWow. I'm not good looking enough to ever have success with these apps, so none of this ever applies to me. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 04:22 AM |
| 2 | What is your biggest insecurity ?I'm sexually inexperienced so I fear that once we get to that stage I'll be embarrased. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Calling all FL wingsI'm at Gainesville. UF is always a hot spot | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Words to use instead of "wow" or "crazy" in convo.Just occasionally repeat what she says. "So my dog bite my shoe!" "Bit your shoe?" | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 06:22 PM |
| 5 | How to be the most charming man possibleFor me, it's gonna sound super weird But, I BS a bunch for comedic effects. For example if I was asked where I was from I'd tell them mexico or something even tho I looked totally Asian. But of course you need to do this smiling with great energy or else it's just odd. Also only lie about things that are OBVIOUSLY not true, you want them to know that ur just fucking around and it really creates a fun flirty atmosphere. Don't do this excessively, and know when to stop, once the vibe is set, focus… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How to not be 'weird'? My friend gave me this vauge advice"Never ask a fish how to catch fish." | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Demoralized.Holy shit I'm the exact same. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 06:26 PM |
| 5 | I think I pinned down what the source of my AA is.I remember when I was in my college's food court, this fat Indian dude approached a group of decently attractive girls sitting on the far corner of the court. His approach was cringe worthy, his pickup line was stupid and the girls just smiled and one of the girls (the one he was interested in) said she had a boyfriend. People were watching, I was watching, I didn't laugh at him, no one laughed at him. From the bottom of my heart I was thinking "Wow that dude got some massive balls". Guys wish t… | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 09:36 PM |
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