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| 21 | how do you get over doing all the work? | Comprehensive | Zillah345 | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 05:41 PM |
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| 1 | Girl too funnyGirls love a guy who can appreciate their whimsy. Keep being you don't change. If she likes you she'll keep you around. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 4 | How tf do you actually build sexual tension ?If you want a relationship or a fwb you can't rely on a continuous emotional spark. Sometimes. You take it for what it is. Have your own fun. Text and call these girls back and never overthink it. Matter of fact, go blank. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?Yeah, I was kind of expecting a few of the, you know, shrug your shoulders, that's just how life is, and you're being straightforward with me but I have been with women who have wanted me back and I think that's the best feeling in the world. I agree with you that we need to put in a lot of work and effort, but for me, personally, it's not worth it if she doesn't also value me. I think women need to put their foot forward but that may not happen until more men decenter women in their lives while… | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?Bro I remember when I said at a party I never came from a titjob and all of a sudden a few girls there got excited. "Oh you haven't had a proper one." One girl met me out back later, still didn't come but it was nice. You right about that technique tbh I don't try it consciously though. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?Historically maybe, presently google shows 76% of men in the U.S. reproduce and about 80-85% of women. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 04:37 AM |
| 2 | I want to try going to a club but I have some questions..25 ugly 6'1 female friend From the sound of it you have more than most. You'll be fine. Height isn't everything, but it gets you in the door, and then your personality and social skills are next in line. It sounds like you need to consider what places you're comfortable with being yoursekf. If you're honestly not comfortable with dancing, then don't dance. Find another way to get out your comfort zone, where you'll still be talking with women, without performing in a way you hate. Plus, clubbing… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:49 AM |
| 5 | how do you get over doing all the work?Had a girl who loved me, who put effort, but I lost my love for her after she got comfortable. Stopped growing. Shame really. I'm over it though. Onwards and upwards | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:38 AM |
| 0 | how do you get over doing all the work?No diss on your theory happy it works for you, but most women who approach me have a few screws loose and even more bent nails. I'll just get the 100k 6-inch height extension in a few years and change my name to Chad Thunderwick. Thanks anywho~ | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?Run the numbers—it comes out even. The sum here makes sense. I can't decrease my opportunities, in search of self-value, but I can test the temperature of the water before diving in. I'll adjust the ledger, then maybe report back with the findings. Once they publish us in a scientific journal of seduction, I'll even let you put your name first. All this makes sense, I go too far with relationships that I shouldn't. Relieve the pressure a little, let it boil and steam. I'll pick the girl who cook… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | how do you get over doing all the work?I mean, seduction tactics are still necessary for girls met organically, in groups, etc to get to a relationship. Not necessarily sex, but leading, date planning, and value all come in handy. I've no success with a women of value in both regards, so I press on. I'll struggle but I'll come out the otherside with what is meant for me. I think after reading these comments, I'll likely switch the dating pool I have entirely, focusing on girls outside my interests, and cutoff relationships quickly if… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:32 AM |
| 0 | how do you get over doing all the work?There is a power imbalance, and perhaps it contributes to why women grow less. In my experience lots of women do not take accountability, or learn, because life provides for them in a way that is counterconductive to change. If I can't get laid, guess what? I learn, workout, flex social skills, etc. Change for that goal. And its the same process for women, but I don't see it, nearly at all. They're capable of course, I'm not talking about genderwar nonsense. I'm talking about the women, who desp… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:28 AM |
| 2 | how do you get over doing all the work?Fair enough. I pride myself on getting shit done. Creating what I want. Taking charge. I probably shouldn't continue with girls unless they're showing similar self-growth and reciprocal care. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:24 AM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?I would like some proof of that figure if you have it. I'm honestly doubtful that 60% of men never reproduce. There are plenty of average and underaverage performing couples that pour children into this world like oil in the ocean. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | how do you get over doing all the work?Indeed. Some users on the sub will tell their story, make every right move, and still be hanging on a thread because next turn is on the woman, and she inevitably says no. Then people tell OP it was his fault. It was not. Sometimes people just don't connect, or like you said, women won't choose you for whatever reason. Gotta move on. I'm confident, certainly, and have value in places a niche of women find attractive, but still they're not extending the same self-love, growth, and responsibility … | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:22 AM |
| 2 | how do you get over doing all the work?Yeah I'd say the women determines sex, guy determines relationship, but if your intent (like mine is) to get into a relationship, which is also the endgoal for women, then it lines up fine. He's saying I'm doing something wrong, which again puts all the pressure on the man. Women have to earn their keep as well. I think if I am doing something wrong it's not valuing myself enough, but that would be me in a position where either I have fewer opportunities for relationships, because I approach les… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 02:14 AM |
| 4 | "what are we?" - "I think we are going too fast!" - I need some adviceI mean ask her to be your gf or move on. Personally I prefer a women who can set a boundary like that, but from the sound of it she may be a bit messy. If you want the relationship its fine but if not don't lead her on. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 02:57 AM |
| -1 | What to dm on girls insta?Block and move on | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 09:53 PM |
| 13 | How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay?If you get a gay accusation it means you're doing everything right. Brush it off. Women are so familiar with straight men being poor at convo, dressed messily, and nonchillant anything outside that familiarity is met with the immediate, "wait, you're gay, right?" It actually hurt me the first time I heard it, but afterwards I realized it was a pleasant omen. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 11:16 PM |
| 7 | LR(Lay Report) Flanked by Spanish milfsQue bueno mi amigo, este primero pero no ultimo vez que tu coger españolas, y si, milfs saben mas. | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 01:29 AM |
| 5 | 25 year old virgin in NYC, I need helpYou might have to consider not getting laid casually, but opening your social circles to include the potential for serious relationships. That is if your goal is to not just get laid but find a partner who you can also sleep with. Usually, for when a man isn't initially attractive or capable of easily developing quick & flirtaious flings, there is still the possibility of slow-burning or building repotoire with a single person you're interested in, and seeing if they reciporcate. The usual advic… | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Latina women concernsin my experience race has nothing to do with a person's personality, culture may but not to the extent that there is a wholly negative trait about any group. white women lie plenty too. everyone does. maybe if you dated your own race you'd also notice that. you said it yourself, you only date one race, and now you're projecting a negative trait on that entire race. that's literally no different if you dated only white women, they also all lied to you, and then you saying "all white women are lia… | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to seduce a girl longterm?Whats the best way to have a loving relationship 😢 asking for a fren | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 12:52 PM |
| 1 | My BF wants to introduce toys into our sex life?Chat can we ban this guy | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 12:25 PM |
| 0 | ‘what do you do for work?’Highkey you have to make that shit sound like an AI resume interview doublespeak talking point. Great examples of that here. But also talking about work is 90% the time a boring ahhh topic so you're best bet is to make it interesting ash. I was a tutor too, so I would say "I'm a tutor, my kids love me, but man do the parents reek." And try to tell a short story about some drama. That worked but then they would ask boring followups like which topic, do you like it, etc. I would stop talking to th… | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 12:52 AM |
| 5 | 10 keys to hot chicks in your bedWhich part do I get the good sex yes | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Age gap dating and the perception around itIts another new thing that's easy for people to hate on, because everything everyone does is wrong. No one askes WHY it's wrong. The WHY is what matters. If you feel like them being a few years older is a problem just cuz it's probably fine. If you feel like being a few years older demonstrates a maturity gap or an actual material problem then you decide if it's for you. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 02:57 PM |
| 5 | What to do when you live in the middle of nowhere in Europe, do I suffer or hope someone just walks in my lifeChurch or parent hookup or arrainged marriage like if you're rural their should be a system setup if not you could try imagining a partner | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 04:34 AM |
| 2 | 100% serious: should I give up?Give up actually join a monk's temple and find content | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:59 AM |
| 0 | 100% serious: should I give up?Yes | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:58 AM |
| 0 | 100% serious: should I give up?Yes but are you a different animal, and the same beast? | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:53 AM |
| 2 | I need to hear from big city players if you don’t mind.Boston advice pls and thank you | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Any guys in here that date a lot or pull a lot?Then lose | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Any guys in here that date a lot or pull a lot?You don't choose temptation. Are you seriously incapable of controlling yourself? | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Any guys in here that date a lot or pull a lot?Bro is 37 saying hot girls are always asking him out or they are hypothetically so he'll always be cheating. Idc to be honest seems like the person id ignore | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Any guys in here that date a lot or pull a lot?AI or Bait guys call it | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Can I approach at work?Coworker relationships happen naturally. Do not force it. Vibe it out and let them lead. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 03:21 PM |
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