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| 1 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.I used to just invite them to my place for wine and tappas, relaxed environment, good music, good wine and cheese. I am now married and locked it in the exact same way. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 10:40 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?If a women is not interested in you or does say she has a partner, why would you continue to harass her? Fuck sake man, there are like 2.5 billion women at an appropriate age, just find one who is keen lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 02:39 PM |
| 5 | How are strong silent men Alphas?An example would be posture, how they sit, the way their feet are positioned, what kind of jewellery, colour of shoes matching the belt, the type of clothes, the hair cut, the facial hair, if they smoke cigarettes or cigars, how do they flick/ash their cigarette. Everything you need to know about a man can be determined by how they present themselves. When talking, their sentences are short but hold weight, they ask open ended questions until they are ready to close so that they don't have to sp… | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How are strong silent men Alphas?Because when they aren't speaking they are ralking with body language and when they do speak, their words are filled with charisma and charm | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What's better?bluntly asking a woman if they want to go on a date?Or asking if you can take them out?I always say the following, "I think you are gorgeous, let's find out if we click, be at mine on Friday at 7 and go from there" If the response is limited, I just say that I wilp pick her up and I lead, I don't allow any room for her to think I am any less of a man. | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Bar specific tips?Things get lost over text, all good dude, I am 34 and been around a bit, I am just confident now, I don't worry if it leads anywhere or not but I just enjoy myself. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Bar specific tips?I don't understand your reaponse, please explain? | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?I live in Australia bro, none of us are wearing masks anymore, I think there was 1 covid case in qld but we don't wear them anymore | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?Works for me, if I liie the look of a girl grabbing dips and cheese etc, I'll say something cheesy or something with a oun in it, if she laughs then I'll execute next phases | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Dancing with girls at clubs and festivals... advice is neededOk dude, here's what I do, just do what your body tells you if you sre vibing with the music your confidence will show, I can't dance for shit but I just have fun, I don't care what other people think, I just go for it, if you want to meet a girl with the same vibe, do you bro. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 10:10 AM |
| 4 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?Dude, I have no idea where you live or what financial status you have, however, my advice, go to your local grocer, go to your local music shop (yes it is a relic but some awesome vibes with music work well) go to places you visit every day, you'll meet someone with an instant connection and can use that as an ice breaker | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Bar specific tips?Dude, this comes down to a whole heap of things, how you are dressed, how you position yourself, how confident you are, if you can hold her attention. Stop giving a fuck about the potential for rejection, stop caring what other guys she might be seeing, stop caring what other people think, you are a man, go and fucking talk to the woman man, are you a hunter or a gatherer? | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Got laid in a LibraryHaha I had to check and then lol'd | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 5 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themThis is how I approach a woman surrounded by her girlfriends. I acknowledge her, I converse sightly but pay more attention to her girlfriends. I ask them what their job is have they travelled and their dreams, I don't talk about myself but just ask questions. If I notice one of the girls on the defensive, I engage her too. Once I have more attention from the others, I engage the girl I like, I give her my undivided attention, I don't talk to any other girl but her, in that moment, she is my worl… | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to cold approach a girl on a call?Bro, if you are a lawyer, you should ace this, it is cheeky, subtle and romantic, "omg, he wrote this message for me" "he noticed me" "oh he has a good job:security" The "bitch" defence is now lowered. You simply just wait for them to have a shitty day or a confidence day and they'll message or call depending on the day. Sidenote: don't fucking sue me, I am not a pickup artist, I am merely giving my experience and discussing, research into the game is always recommended before proceeding to take… | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to cold approach a girl on a call?For the stats guys, 18 cards handed to a woman on the phone that catches my eye, 18 of them have resoonded over 4 months. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to cold approach a girl on a call?Even if you don't have an official business card, just print a bunch off with like a portfolio, it is different, carry a pen, write a cute/witty/assertive message, so far I have a 100% success rate on getting call or message | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Is there a way to cold approach a girl on a call?I have a business card, I make an appearance of smiling back, writing a brief message, "I think you are gorgeous, keen for a drink? Call me" And keep on going about my day. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful?I literally stopped giving a fuck aboutnwhat people think about me bro, I am 34, was in a 10 year relationship and a 4 year relationship since I was 21, I started dating and found that I just am a confident person because I don't give a shit about being rejected, I call women darling, babe or honey, I am an aussie though and is the norm, I started talking to the bartender girls at my local to build up my confidence, now when I see an attractive women shopping or out, I compliment her and just co… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Hero's JourneyCan I share this? This literally summarised my own concept, holy shit, this would have to be the first time someone has had such a similar mindset, the next question is, at what stage is the threshold until you decide to take action? If we can tap into that before it is too late, too many irreversible mistakes, the potential is phenomenal. | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What to do if a girl says she’s busy this week?This one is super easy bro, if you are going to be a nice guy and fan girl her, you'll become friendzoned, she will send a message out of guilt after she is done frollicking saying she didn't feel a connection blah blah. If she is heading away, ask if she would like to go to dinner earlier if she doesn't, she is not interested, if you are still thinking that she is interested after rejecting that just say, "let me know when your back and we will try to tee something up" | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 41 | Hung out with 2 cute girls last night and had a great time! Afterwards, I I learned a lot about myself/seduction in general. Posting to log my progress.Give the guy some slack bro, he is working out his game my man, not here to shut doen esch other but build each other up. All the best ~Z~ | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.I did this in my last relationship, even made her get there 4 or 5 times before I even entered her, ahe still found her ex more attractive because he did less but did them when it counted. If I had of seen this post before that I'd have saved myself thousands on wasted time. Now I just tinder and assert myself. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to make dates "man to woman" any tips? Keep getting "I felt a friends vibe" from girls.I generally invite women for a "cheeky drink" the environment is more relaxed, If they are sexy af, "your photos don't do you justice" is my opening line,l. I dress sharp, wear aftershave, I get in close for a hello kiss on the jaw line between her chin and ear so she can smell me, my left hand on their waist, get a sense of closeness, this is her imagination. I have a table reserved always prior to going or I arrive somewhat earlier, give the bartender a 50 to save me a table and drinks wheneve… | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 10:03 AM |
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