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Haha, I'm even worse. I always say that if I want something, I want to have it yesterday. My SO, on the other hand, is really good at delayed gratification.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 11:46 PM
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My SO kept saying he likes me better without make up until he figured out that when I don't put make up on my eyes, I still have a BB, a little highlighter, and some blush on. Now he says he likes when I "even out my skin tone." He doesn't care for cakey make up, doesn't like dramatic eye make up, no bright lips. Mostly because he doesn't like wearing make up, which will happen if we kiss. And we do a lot of kissing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 03:08 AM
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Model Pranksters made a video of a guy walking for three hours. He was verbally "harassed" 30 times by both, men and women.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 05:14 AM
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You are too funny :))) These mid-rise and low-rise jeans/pants are a curse. Can't stand them. :/ Actually, my mom also wears regular size capris :) they run to her ankles and the rise is usually not so low :))) but they don't look like capris on her.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 07:15 PM
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Interesting! I always thought that, capris make short legs look shorter. You can use some tricks like high waisted capris (although not with a long torso probably)or matching your skin tone capris to elongate the look, but by default anything that "breaks" the length of legs isn't recommended for shorter limbs? Curious because I have a very petit mom and I'm the one who shops for her most of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 02:43 PM
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In Russian this analogy has a direct opposite meaning. It shows the woman's power over her man: wherever the neck turns-the head follows.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 02:49 AM
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The warmest winter coats are fur or down filled. Down filled coats don't have to be shapeless and ugly, there are fitted feminine designs: http://m.bluefly.com/cole-haan-black-quilted-down-filled-maxi-coat/p/334431101/detail.fly?pcatid=cat20010 Boots: I'd go with UGGs. They are so warm due to their natural wool! There are very nice designs: flat boots, wedges, stacked heels (probably not a good option for every day walking), ankle boots, tall boots. Their leather is also treated for water resist…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 08:35 PM
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Yep! 10 years. I am not attracted to men younger than 40 (men born and raised in America mature later than men in my culture). So, when I was younger, I didn't mind bigger age difference.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 09:12 PM
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He is nine years older. I did put paragraphs and they do show up on my display. Not sure what the problem is.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/14 04:58 PM
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I contacted my SO first. He took it very well and "sounded" very excited to hear from me. He didn't respond to all 400-500 requests he was getting daily, but to quote him, he liked that my profile had personality. I really doubt he took me as being desperate because I knew exactly what I needed, not just a warm body of male origin. :) I also suspect he knew what a catch he was and how hard it was to resist temptation contacting him ;) If you hope a quality guy who is sought by hundreds of matche…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 05:22 PM
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I'm a huge believer in online dating. Worked for me every time (two times, the only two LTR I've had). I realize that my approach to online dating is completely different from most but it worked for me because I know EXACTLY what works for me. In my profile, I am very honest and very particular about laying out who I am, what my beliefs are and what I seek in my partner. I'm very sarcastic, so I don't hide it in my profile. Some people don't understand my sarcasm, some understand but don't like …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 01:13 PM
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My mom lives in Germany and we visit often. Yes, we (my SO and I) are aware how expensive it is to eat out over there :) I don't eat at Burger King or the like, but my understanding there is a value menu. But yes, it was, like, $12 or close to that for the entire family.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 10:35 PM
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Judging by your use of "kilo" you are anywhere but in the US :) In US fast food joints have worked really hard to bring most calories for a dollar. I don't really know the prices in Burger King (the example used in Food, Inc), but for the amount of money spent per meal there, the family couldn't buy the same at the grocery store. For a few bucks at BK you can get meat, bread, veggie. Then the same family went to a grocery store and couldn't get the equivalent ingredients for the same amount of m…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 08:50 PM
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When I was single, it was cheaper for me to eat out and bring leftovers home. Simply because buying groceries for one produced a lot of waste. Say, if I bought a head of cabbage, I either had to cook that cabbage every day for a week, or cook enormous meal and freeze it (but not all meals are good after freezer), or simply let it rot and throw it out (but no meal consisted of just cabbage, a whole bunch of ingredients had to be purchased as well). For me, cooking for one was definitely when I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 06:57 PM
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You are talking about accepting being a beta loser. But it feels like you are putting blame on your wife only. You seem to not have a problem forgiving yourself (by possibly moving on and rewarding yourself with a new partner or plates to spin), yet you want to punish her (by possibly leaving her while she wants to work on your marriage) for your failures. When you become a real alfa, you'll realize that it was mostly your fault the marriage got this bad and you'll have no problem forgiving your…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 04:49 PM
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Actually, according to the author of the book, it's for a reader to learn to speak his/her partner's primary love language. Now, what every reader decides to take away from it is a different story. But clearly, in OP's case merely understanding how her SO expresses his love for her isn't making her feel much loved. Btw, OP, it's not very clear, your SO prefers to express love in gifts or receive it in gifts?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 01:23 AM
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How interesting! Based on responses, most couples discussed the five languages so that they can understand when love is expressed towards them? My SO discussed the languages so that we can express love in the language that's understood by another. For instance, he accepts love in acts of service. It is important for me to hear words of affirmation. So, we do what another person needs. I think you should talk to him, especially given that he brought the subject up in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 11:43 PM
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Um... I see what you mean about "prescribing" communication. However, practicing communication before problems arise usually helps to prevent many problems.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 04:19 AM
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My SO introduced me to five languages and discussed them with me before going into relationship... I guess he decided to use communication instead of trying to figure it out on his own. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 03:14 AM
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Done. All of my answers were pretty well defined in a given option.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 02:55 AM
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I hope your surgery goes well! (It's so sweet that you are going to take care of your SO while you'll need care yourself by fixing him dinners now).
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 04:00 AM
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I follow the same rule! :))) If I haven't used something in a year (that all four seasons)-I obviously don't need it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:54 AM
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Same here. Most female gamers our guild has experienced talk in a baby voice and form armies of puppies to follow them. The guild now has a policy of no single female gamers.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 01:55 PM
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We joke around all the time. We often set each other up for a joke. So, I always feel like we are on a sitcom. We laugh a lot. What's amazing is that when somebody hurts my feelings, he can say something so funny, I'd start laughing and life is instantly all better. We both enjoy physical contact, to the point that when he drives his stick shift, he'd use his left hand to switch gears while holding my hand (and occasionally kissing it) with his right hand (I don't encourage that though). We also…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 12:47 AM
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I love stockings! I live in FL and I wore them to work from fall to early spring with high heels. I feel like bare legs are too intimate for the office setting. Also, when you undress at home... oh, so sexy! One of my favorite outfits was a high waisted pencil skirt that went slightly below the knee, silk blouse, stockings (not sheer though), and pointy high heels. I doubt I looked like a 60+ lady :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 08:11 PM
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I'm sure that's exactly how she felt-discarded. That's why she left. Based on my personal experiences and experiences of people I know, if you don't compromise on what you need to be happy, then you are not going to get a compromised version of happiness. My mom taught me that it's best to be happy alone than unhappy with someone else. That's why most of our relationships (be that friends or life partners) tend to enhance our happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 02:36 PM
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I mentioned that my dad was a good husband until he wasn't :) my parents had an awesome marriage until my dad screwed up. Mom could never forgive him for that. So, for the last five years of them being together, when mom refused to leave him until he got back on his feet, they lived like good friends. Mom didn't nag him, she didn't blame him. She just stopped loving him as a man. Basically, one bad act doesn't cross out all the good acts in the past. They were happy together until they weren't. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 02:17 PM
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It's so awesome you are thinking and planning this out at 18! You need to decide how many hours you do want to work. I assume you'll get student loans. How much will it take you to pay them off if you work FT, PT, if you take a couple of years off to have children? Would it be better financially to have a BA/BS degree and less debt in student loans? (I'd like to add as a side note, that no debt or less debt is making you a more attractive partner, IMHO.) I withdrew from Masters in Accounting pro…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 02:01 PM
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My SO thrives as a leader. He is not a control freak, so he delegates a lot and he is amazing at picking the best person for a task. He decides on the project, budget and time. I am in charge of finding vendors, negotiations, scheduling. Except for technology. Since it's his passion, he sees it from A thru Z. I don't do his hobby for him :)) What does keep him up at night sometimes is an occasional anxiety about his financial responsibility for our family. The only two things I can do to help is…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 01:35 PM
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Mom is happily remarried. She married a beta, but slowly, we are observing him turning into a man with alfa characteristics. Mom is absolutely amazing at making men believe in themselves. My dad is married to a woman who loves him dearly and he is being a good husband to her. Last time I saw my dad, he said that he would always love my mom and "it's not because she gave me you and your brother." He loves her for the Woman she is. I tend to think that people pick partners they deserve.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 01:18 PM
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I feel like we are walking in circles :) On the plus side, we both greatly value a strong committed relationship, so we're just arguing about technique. There is nothing wrong with marriage certificates or any other document used to add legal penalties to our future selves should commitment be lost. It's a delicate balance between preventing poor behavior (i.e. our husband leaves us for a younger woman) and encouraging bad behavior, much of which we actively fight against here on RedPillWomen, s…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:52 PM
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"I personally don't see how not committing to marriage..." You implied it, I simply responded to your statement. We don't live in fear since we took precautionary measures. You buy car insurance and life insurance just in case events out of your control happen. Do you constantly fear of a possible car accident? Are you living in fear you might die tomorrow? I never implied that our situation is better than marriage in general. I have acknowledged it is a situation that works for us. I also said …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 05:05 PM
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While some commit to marriage, we choose to commit to each other. I guess that's why it means more to us. We are not against marriage, it's just not a good option for us. I do respect people who are able to maintain stable family (with a marriage license or without it). I also respect people for calling quits on a marriage that is toxic (kids or no kids). My SO and I made a major lifetime decision after a lot of consideration. It is a right choice for us that we are not ashamed of. Therefore, wh…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 03:09 PM
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Thank you so much! The credit goes entirely to my SO! I also doubt our kids will be bullied because of us not being married. It's not like we live in the '60ties.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 01:24 PM
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What I meant is that to provide a stable family for children requires stable relationship and commitment, not necessarily marriage. There are marriages that exist simply because it's expensive and messy to walk away. We don't have any obstacles to walk away from the relationship. Neither one of us feels trapped. We know that if things come to it, we can walk away without any damage to our finances. Maybe for some people it's not a big deal. But for us, it is. We very much appreciate what we indi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 01:17 PM
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Poor wording on my side, sorry. Prenups can fail. Judge can decide prenup is unfair especially if one side has much more wealth than the other. But with adequate representation from both sides, I'm sure you will be fine. Also, if you put provisions for child support, my understanding, it will be thrown out. In our case, we decided against that, saving money on lawyer fees especially in case if we decided to split up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:52 AM
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I see your point. Unfortunately, marriage doesn't mean a stable home. We are expecting right now. This is a planned pregnancy and we are planning on having more kids. It's not like stable home demonstrated to children by showing them the marriage license. We plan on being involved in our children's activities. In fact, we are semi-retired so that we can spend most of our time raising our children. So, hopefully other kids at school wouldn't bully ours seeing both of us involved. But even if they…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:27 AM
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Could have some comfort food delivered to him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 03:16 AM
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Haven't heard about it being flawed. Both sets of our parents are divorced and remarried. Their SOs are also divorcees. His siblings are on their second/third marriages. He is the only one who hasn't been married. (I'm widowed). It's all anecdotal, of course, but he did once joked that he's not ready to get married because he isn't ready to split up :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 01:58 AM
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My SO and I decided not to get married. Both of us have assets (he has significantly more) so, in case of a divorce it could become messy. When we researched prenups, we found out they don't always work as intended. So, if we say to each other that we are not in this relationship for the money, then there is really no need for us to get married, thus putting our assets at risk in case of divorce. Also, you don't have to be married to get child support. So, we don't see a benefit in getting marri…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 01:29 AM
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It's YOUR drive that has changed. Since then, he SUBMITTED to having sex more frequent than before (not lately due to a car accident, which is understandable). And you are still not happy? I could justify him being frustrated with you. But your frustration with him is kind of selfish and unreasonable. On top of that, your constant sexual advances that he has to say no to due to his low sex drive could eventually lead to his low self esteem. If that happens, sex could become even rarer occurrence…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 02:06 PM
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I see your point about loyalty. If I'm completely frank, if it was my family member or friend, I'd be upset as well. Also, I'm glad you advised your friend to get his wife into therapy. I'd also recommend to check her hormone levels. You also said she just wants to play games on her phone which could be a way of getting away from reality. But like I said, maybe having a PT job is exhausting her personal limits. Maybe that's as much as she can possibly do. For some people, like myself, intellectu…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 07:15 PM
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I believe everyone has a different level of endurance. I'm that "lazy" woman. I worked as auditor 35 hrs a week and when I got home, I laid on the sofa with a blank stare in my eyes. After three years of work, knowing that I wanted to have children, I made a choice to quit my "career". I didn't want to be too tired for my children. I didn't want to eat out all the time and have maids cleaning my house, all of my income would have gone towards that because I knew I wouldn't be able to do it all. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 06:40 PM
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I learned the biggest loyalty lesson from my mom. My parents were a very loving couple. Dad achieved a high rank in military and my mom was that fabled wife that stuck with her husband through thick and thin. We lived a very comfortable life, enjoyed a lot of things not many families could enjoy. Until one day when we lost everything in a very bad business deal. On top of that, we found out that dad had an affair. Anyway, times were really rough. Dad became severely depressed and financially dep…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 12:03 PM
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Apparently, not everyone knows it but never use fabric softener/dryer sheets when washing towels. Towels will lose absorbency and will become prone to stink like mildew. I have towels that I have been using for over ten years that are still like new. (This applies to cotton towels, I'm not sure about synthetic blends ones-I never use those).
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 10:06 AM
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1) take any beef roast, slice very thin (some stores can do it for you, ask then to slice it as thin as they can). If your slices are too thick, use tenderizer. Use a roasting pan or casserole dish. Alternate: layer of meat, salt, pepper, white onions (optional), mayo, sliced mushrooms (optional), mayo, repeat until you run out of meat. Last layer: a little bit of mayo and lots of cheese. Bake at 350-375 for , idk, 45 (?) min. You'll know when it's ready! For those who are not opposed to veggies…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 07:16 AM
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