ZoeToidtheOmniscient Archive

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1	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers Truely good men with a crippled self image due to dismissive neglectful parenting don't get anywhere near a woman without making him flee/freeze in response while the woman runs the other way. It takes many years to reprogram their wiring to make them feel safe in their bodies again. I'm not saying it's unfair or anything, it is what it is, but dating apps and social media are making things worse for sure. Women are offered sex and relationships, men have to work for and ask for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 09:59 AM
1	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers What if the reason is extensive trauma due to dismissive neglectful parenting that cripples a man selfesteem to the point that even getting close to a woman makes him flee/freeze in response and the women run the other way? Dismissed by parents, rejected by women, ridiculed by peers. Women with the same still get plenty of action as sex is offered to them, they don't have to put their selfesteem on the line like men do. I'm not saying it's unfair or anything, it is what it is, but more and more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 09:48 AM
–	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers .... worse, even when you did finally score that desirable highly attractive smart girlfriend on you arms like I did, she will use your subsequent lack of not many friends and romantic/sexual relationships against you. This is obviously not something any person would broadcast early on, but when she eventually finds out that you're not thát socially savvy as she is, she loses respect for you, despite knowing your trauma history causing a general lack of (romantic) success early in life due to ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 07:53 AM
1	It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones) ah I get it now, didn't before. you're right, you're stating a fact and I'm going mansplaining the why of men having such fragile ego's, sorry. my point about those overbearing dismissive mothers/women and absent fathers still stands though. I see it this way, it's women's nature to sooth absorb calm and guide men's 'agression', always has been, it becomes a problem in relationship dynamics where the balance should be equal but often isn't and only balances out after multiple breakups/hard lesso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/25 06:29 PM
3	It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones) You want to make the point that the balance is tipped in favour of men, well no, it's more like EQUAL as someone suggested earlier. Might surprise you, but not all men have fragile ego's they're not aware of, there are sensitive i.e more 'feminine' men who are accutely aware of their own psyche and social dynamics and taught by overbearing mothers to not ever upset a woman and cater to their needs, bc 'your dad is such a loser, don't ever be like him!'. These men are taught to hide their ego's a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 04:57 PM
5	Despite what women tell you they are the biggest enforcers of stereotypical masculinity My highly educated gorgeous ex gf did exactly that, she couldn't understand why a average looking guy like me with significant trauma history did not have as much sexual partners as she did, bc in her experience getting sex is nothing more than wearing a tight top and short skirt and walk around the block till the man she finds attractive comes up to her to offer her some casual sex, be nice and dress well, that's all there is to it! So why would that not work for me?? It must mean im lazy or no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 05:57 AM
3	Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid. You have to go back much earlier, childhood ... When your sense of self as a man is damaged due to emotionally unavailable and immature parents, and you don't realize this early enough to do something about it, then you will be rejected and 'friendzoned' by every woman around you i.e they damage your selfesteem even more, not their fault, it's just how you present yourself to her, as her having higher value than you. Women don't like that. How the F@$@!# should you have known that when all the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 01:59 PM
4	Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid. It's sad but also the sad reality, because (average and above) women get laid regardless as they set up the requirements for men to have sex with them, to which men have to adhere to i.e do lots of selfdevelopment. Women can just be, men have to become. I've met some of the most unambitious unattractive lazy women who get laid on a whim just for having lady parts, they get their sexual needs met and the men bail soon after with regret for being blinded by the lure of pussy ('where are all the go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 10:15 AM