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ZollJo/r/seduction04/10/19 10:14 PM
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ZollJo/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 11:52 AM
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Hei man, it takes courage to open up like this even to yourself. Congrats and respect for that. So, I had a similar thing. I am above average looking and can talk very well. Therefore, they stamp me as a seducer. Honestly, sometimes I had the feeling they just using you for validation (through sex or attention). In my development, it helped me to let go. I got self-sufficient and learned to be ok alone. So, if some girls says I'm a player, I will shrug, smile and say :”If you say so” and move on…
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:45 AM
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Is this a trick question? Of course you do it. It's a win-win and can even evolve into a win-win-win, if you know what I'm saying. ;)
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:23 PM
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My kneejerk reaction would be "Me too"
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:07 PM
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Hei, nice to hear. I was expecting a revenge-story, but this is really wholesome. You made peace with your nemesis, something that even most superheros can't accomplish. Congrats and all the best.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 08:28 AM
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Why would you disturb fucking sharks ? ;) Honestly, very good work. Thanks for the explicit and well written words. Inspiring to get shit done.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/20 08:29 AM
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I think this is basically a calibration-topic. Say what you feel in a context proper way. Even for a good looking guy " I want to fuck you, you little slut" will come off to strong in many scenarios (for a alternatives with the same feeling behind it :"I want to feel you. / I really want to taste you./ Let's go somewhere more private/...) . It's not a fast working advice but ,imho, you gotta develop a feeling for the mood and phrase accordingly. If something was too strong, apollogize. I like to…
/r/seduction12/08/20 01:17 PM
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In my subjective opinion: It's a cologne from the sexshop Amorelie and it's called : Eau Yes. Received a lot of compliments for it.
/r/seduction29/07/20 07:58 PM
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I really enjoyed reading your thoughts. I agree. Loving others is in my opinion a much healthier way of living. Thank you for this part: Basically recognizing that our time is finite, we don’t own anyone and no one has to comply with our wishes. This rings very true. I think somewhere in my mind I was expecting of her to love me back, because I felt we matched so perfectly. This is an illusion. I hope you have an amazing day. You are an awesome human beeing.
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:13 PM
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Cut your losses before they cut you. This one is obvious. There is always another route to take. I felt that. Just recently cut off an affair I had a crush on (I know, terrible) . But that wishy washy shit was eating my soul.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 01:03 PM
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I feel like you got a beautiful worldview. Thanks for the impulse. That readiness and need to love somebody has to be accompanied by the acceptance to no be loved back the way you love. I'm talking to myself. Otherwise I think this can lead to obsession. Or maybe we have to just let go of the need for a reaction. But wouldn't that no also mean to let go of empathy? I defined myself as a man who goes through the world with an open heart and accepted the possibility to get hurt, still it's difficu…
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:58 AM
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I can relate. Just yesterday I broke contact with my crush. We had an affair/friendship that was so wishy washy with no clear rules or boundaries that it absolutely confused me. ( Telling me no sex ,just friendship and then flirting and touching me 10 minutes later leading to sex later) I feel played. And yet I think I used her because I was too lazy to reach out for new girls and interactions. I rationalized my behavior with covid, but really I was just too lazy to find someone new I could focu…
/r/seduction16/06/20 01:48 PM
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It's so funny that there are multiple layers to seduction. The act is the same but the motivation is different. No judgment for any of these. Beginner: Texting her/him to get validation and because of the anxiety to talk face to face. Intermediate: Does not text her/him, because a guide told her/him so. Probably feels bad because of denying her/his emotions or does not feel anything at all because s/he supressed her/his emotions in the act of supressing her/his anxiety. Pro: a) Does not text her…
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:59 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. And you are definitely right. I will look into the video. Thanks again and good luck to you.
/r/seduction01/02/20 08:47 PM
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Hei, nice summary! Very good mindset. Keep it up!
/r/seduction09/12/19 06:21 PM
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Hei man! Glad you are doing this. If one has the free time to do it, one should do it. I did something similar for around 2 weeks and in my experience it gets really easy around day 5-7. You just stop to care about other people and start to enjoy for your own. The second week was a real blast. I was kind of cheating tho, because I had my F+/Winggirl with me about half of the time. So kudos to you for going by yourself. All in all great experience BUT I would strongly recommend you to take good c…
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:55 AM
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Flirt and escalate and then say no.
/r/seduction26/11/19 11:45 AM
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Hei man, it's not a genetic thing (at least just to minmal percentage). It's socialisation and modelling. For me I at some point realized, after some girl called me an asshole while laughing real hard, that I treat most people on partys like I would treat a little sister. Sometimes this slips into my profession as a teacher and I diss some of my pupils but that didn't bite me until now. So maybe this thought helps you to become more relaxed and a little asshole-ish. Because, come on, she's your …
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:34 PM
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My dickish answer: It isn't. It only SEEMS to be. Seduction happened since humanity was born. More brutal in ancient times to more sophisticated in todays age. Sexual attraction is a combination of physical appearance ( body language, clothing, hygene) and behaviour. So, the first one you easily change. If your balding, just shave your head. If you don't have a beard, shave or use minoxidil. Go shopping with some female friends or ask some guy friends that are stylish. Most people feel validated…
/r/seduction22/10/19 01:03 PM
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Word! Would've written almost exactly the same.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:17 PM
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I think in a german book called "Lob des Sexismus" there was something similar. I paraphrased it as :" She's always thinking:" Please don't be a fuck up...pleeeeeease" " and it's my reality for a while now. To realize we are all alone and scared goes a long way for empathy.
/r/seduction07/10/19 05:00 PM
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Basically Eckhart Tolle's "Be in the now, not in your head" in laymans terms. I agree.
/r/seduction26/09/19 07:24 AM
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Wouldn't catch a STD for a threesome, but congrats anyway !
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:11 AM
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"Wow...it's dead in here. Who are you ?"
/r/seduction20/09/19 01:31 PM
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Smile, eye contact, hug and if receptive kiss on cheek. Talk about the first thing that comes to my mind. "Hei I like your style today"/"These pink shoes ? Alrighty! come on barbie lets go party ha ha ha yeah"/ "You got some positive energy on you, what did you do today ?" (Real life examples )
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:22 PM
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Well, this answer may seem to simple, but: get abundant. Where do you put your focus ? On girls or yourself ? If you put focus on yourself and do what you enjoy, you will get abundant. And with girls and sex, you are abundant if you go go go for it. In the end, if you force a abundance mindset in your head without changing yourself, you are just hiding yourself behind a shell. And if you ever meet a girl you like, you gotta keep that shell up 24/7. Just not worth it. Better yourself. Focus on yo…
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:46 AM
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Hetero Guy here, so this is just theory crafting. I would go out to events/partys with a lot of homosexual and bisexual people. (At least in my city there are such events and communities) Hang out there and get to know some people. I think if you want to be with a girl, a homosexual girl would be easier to find than a bi one. Good luck :)
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:53 AM
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Habit, my friend. Get into the habit of doing and out of the habit of thinking. I get simliar vibes from friends that are programmers. You use your head the whole day and you are good with that. But when it comes to social situations, most of it is doing doing doing. That does not mean to just aproachrobot or go caveman (which will prob. work better than robot) but to just get in a good mood, walk through the streets and if you see a girl you like and you get this tight feeling in your chest, sa…
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:38 PM
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For me personally it comes down to the old saying :"let go". Men often posses a mindset of conquering a woman and she now belonging to him. She is his property. For some men this works, because they do not have the urge to fuck other women so they just fuck each other. If you want to fuck other girls tho, you got to let go. In some of my friends the fear of some of their chicks fucking others is deep down rooted in the believe that fucking many girls yourself is wrong. So this might be something…
/r/seduction09/09/19 08:17 AM
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Tinder is a bonus. If you got your life in check, go out and talk to girls normally, tinder is a plus to get to know the girls you have normally no overlapping life with. In smaller towns this is not necessary, but in larger cities you could be into the same stuff but never meet. So yeah, tinder is great, if you don't take it too seriously. Cheers to you comeback man.
/r/seduction08/09/19 06:30 PM
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If I had a gold, I would give it to you. Excellent post backed with experience. Love it. Thank you and all the best to you!
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:49 AM
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Why tf would I want to do that?
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:24 PM
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In my honest opinion....Seduction and pickup makes men wear masks of cool and imply that fucking a lot of girls is the solution to your life problems. Often though, there are some deep ingrained insecurities about females and masculinity. So you absorb all that stuff society, your peers and pickup tells you. Hide yourself. In my reality, women can sense that. They may fall for the hookop or fuckbuddy relationship. They even get into a long term relationship with you. But if you are fake, it won'…
/r/seduction20/08/19 09:14 AM
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As long as you stay authentic and are open about everything, there should not be a problem. I assume you asked because it may become a awkward situation, if you see her after you hooked up. That's just a limiting belief. It only gets weird, if you pretended to be somebody you are not and lied about stuff. Women are really easygoing if you are real with them.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:49 AM
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Thanks! :) I am a huge fan of listening to my belly and most of the time he is right. Cheers
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:26 PM
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Na, I don't think so. It may be the easy way, but I think standing up for your own feelings shouldn't be covered by the alcohol excuse. Just my 5cts.
/r/seduction13/08/19 06:14 PM
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Hei,kudos to you for writing in here.In my opinion you are overthinking things. If you want to get close to him, do stuff with him. Texting is inferior. Go bowling, eat somewhere, play volleyball or whatever. Touch him a lot. (not possible over the phone) Look him in the eyes a little longer than normal. He may be just afraid to fuck things up, so he is keeping you at bay. Follow your feelings and if you think you could kiss him you probably could've 5 minutes ago. Good luck and have fun
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:39 PM
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I recommend you to read Mark Manson - Models. He describes the healthiest way of seduction in my opinion.
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:41 AM
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