TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Zombie3185960 Archive

View 0 posts and 66 comments by Zombie3185960 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

I'll never forget watching this trainwreck at my previous job of a male coworker trying to flirt with a female coworker by talking to her like she was a dude bro friend. His banter attempts were always competitive in nature, like he kept trying to one up her no matter what she said and clearly thought he was being impressive. For example she'd mention that she did something, and he'd eagerly explain how he did it even better somehow, or she'd talk about a hobby and he'd start trying to school he…
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:57 AM
5

Maybe she wants to fuck lol. Women won't chase hard if they're wanting you to love and respect them, because either you will or you won't, and seeing if you'll do some of the chasing is part of that vetting process. But if she just wants to take your dick for a ride and be done then she has no reason to care what you think about her.
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:05 PM
0

Probably because thousands of years of neuropsychology evolution involved women giving signs of interest, the whole "dropping her handkerchief" concept, and then waiting for the man to approach and court her. This is still overwhelmingly going to translate in modern online dating psychology. A woman liking your profile is just her way of saying she thinks you're attractive and you're welcomed to approach and court her. It doesn't mean you don't have to court her or make a good impression and so …
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:04 AM
12

Some women just get extra aroused hearing their partner's voice during sex. As long as you don't say anything flagrantly weird you're fine.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:32 AM
1

You're having a borderline psychotic breakdown over your knee being touched by a girl's knee but you're wondering why anyone would think you could be a "simp"?
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:23 PM
3

At some point just for the experience you need to actually answer with "seduction" in a deadass serious tone while making hard eye contact.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:58 AM
4

It's a no. If a woman is interested but genuinely busy she will make a follow up suggestion or give a time frame.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:39 PM
1

The impression of yourself that you're giving via messaging/texting doesn't match the version of you that shows up to the dates. There is a major disconnect there and in their perception you "catfished" them somehow. That's by far the most likely explanation if you really keep get ghosted over and over again many times after one date.
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:01 PM
56

Damn you are so close to having the epiphany that "gaming" is just charlatan BS and that it's better to just be yourself and find chemistry with someone naturally.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:52 AM
3

This is what you say if you want her to chop it off lol.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:49 AM
3

Nothing is more awkward than a nervous insecure person desperately trying to seem "normal" so most important advice ever is to embrace that you're a little weird and just own it with a sense of humor, women who find you attractive will think it's cute, but if you're stressing trying to forcefully fake your way through interactions it'll make most women uncomfortable.
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:05 PM
14

Find some women you think are homely on tinder who obviously interested in casual sex, use protection and get some practice with them. They'll be excited if you're even remotely attractive and it'll take pressure off your mind knowing they're not your ideal so who cares if they never talk to you again. This probably sounds crass but it's a win win strategy.
/r/seduction01/02/22 01:30 PM
3

Faking abundance is just one option as far as strategies to not act desperate. It's not a super complicated thing but some people, like guys on the autism spectrum, make it complicated in their heads, and then they cope by making out to be like a complex board game with special strict rules. If you need to use that method then it is what it is, but the bottom line is really simple and straightforward, just don't act desperate, ie don't act like you need the woman in order for your life to be com…
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:41 PM
107

You gotta know how to walk the fine line between funny and hurtful, which requires pretty advanced social, empathetic and perceptual ability. If you screw it up it'll backfire horribly.
/r/seduction28/01/22 10:18 PM
5

Idk man I've seen it more than once. Obviously still shitty behavior from both women and OP was right to walk away, but some lesbians in love with their straight/bisexual best friend can get mad jealous and territorial.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:35 PM
33

Maybe the friend is a lesbian and has a thing for OP's date
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:17 PM
2

Ask open ended questions, it's a cliche because it actually works. If someone is giving short, vague, boring answers to multiple open ended questions in a row you can feel confident that you're not missing out anything in moving on. If they have some level of interest then the conversation will start flowing. This is true even with people who are shy or reserved. If you ask a shy person yes/no questions they might give yes/no responses even if they were interested.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:03 PM
38

You can't build sexual chemistry right away when talking to a woman for the first time. That first 5 minutes the goal is to convey that you are not dangerous/insane and are easy/chill/fun to banter with about something. Mentally healthy and sober women do not build sexual chemistry until that is established first. I don't care how attractive a guy is, is if he is hinting at sexual interest as his intro in the middle of a grocery store, park or frankly anywhere that is big creeper energy.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:22 AM
21

Totally disagree. It was when he gave her the "I want you" sexy look back that she went for it. She waited 3 hours for him to initiate any kind of physical interaction and he didn't do anything the whole time. The moment he showed sexual interest she went for a kiss. OP acted like he was the woman the whole night and she finally took on the man's role at the end as a last resort.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:56 AM
10

You need to look at the situation a different way. This isn't about you controlling her life. This is about you controlling your life. Are you okay with the situation? If not, then you need to create a boundary establishing that you are not okay with it. You don't like the way it makes you feel, and you clearly aren't comfortable being in a relationship with someone who would get so flagrantly obsessed with an opposite sex friend. The thing about boundaries is that they will filter people out of…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:50 AM
2

Emphasize nonsexual physical affection and closeness. Every opportunity be touching her shoulder, back, sides, lower legs, hand, etc. Always sit close enough your bodies are touching. Loooots of cuddling. She is just overwhelmed by the new highly stimulating sensory experience. She needs to process it gradually. Eventually nonsexual touching won't be a big deal anymore, and then she can go through the same gradual processing of sexual sensory experience.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:07 AM
1

This is assuming you mean that she has expressed clearly and verbally that she thinks you're a couple and not that you mean you just think so. That said: Dive into it with physical affection that isn't sexual. Cuddling, nonsexual massage, drawn out hugs where you're basically holding the other person with you face against them however your heights line up, etc. Communicate clearly but in a chill way that you'd like to cuddle with her and that you don't expect sex, or that you'd like to massage h…
/r/seduction18/01/22 02:31 AM
0

Try wellbutrin/bupropion as an antidepressant. Its side effects are increased libido, weight loss and increased energy. So it's the best of both worlds for someone who is depressed lol.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:05 PM
2

In a playfully seductive way, with your face close enough to hers that you don't have to say it loudly, ask if she's feeling you the way you're feeling her while gesturing with your keys in your hand in like "you wanna?" sort of way. "So.. you feeling me the way I'm feeling you right now?" slightly gestures with keys in a playful eh, eh? kind of way. You're initiating in a flattering way but she's still in control and not being coerced, it's still playful and lighthearted but very flirty, and yo…
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:13 PM
2

Fwb from the woman's perspective is same as a man's lol, it means you don't have any obligations to each other and it goes both ways, meaning she isn't obligated to prioritize you at all, which she wouldn't want to since you don't prioritize her, either. So that means she doesn't initiate or communicate or anything really unless she actually feels like it and it's convenient at the time. And you are free to be the same way back. That's fwb. If you're getting fussy because you feel that she's not…
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:55 PM
41

Try unironically imitating austin powers by yourself to see what it feels like. Notice how he's not a manly man, not a dbag and not the dark brooding mr serious, either. Yet he still projects confident, flirtatious, fun, playful, sexual energy that is masculine in its own right. Obviously you won't be doing an actual spot on austin powers impression when the moment comes and you're flirting with a woman, but just get a feel for what that energy is like.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:23 PM
22

Pre nut clarity lmao
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:25 PM
15

On the last day you work together let her know (while giving her your number if she doesn't have it) that you've had a little crush on her for a while but wanted to be professional and if she feels the same way to let you know. Smile and say it playfully and casually but also be sincere, like not over the top silliness but not super serious, either. Like in that middle ground it would genuinely be nice but no worries if not kind of way. Thing is after a year if she hasn't shown signs of interest…
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:39 AM
1

I worked with a guy for 2 years who was obese (but pretty tall) and had an extremely homely face. But he had major dad energy, very genuinely friendly, funny as hell, knew how to walk the line between confidence and teasing everyone but not being a dick, and very protective of women and younger employees. He got hit on by very attractive women ALL the time, and was in a LTR with a pretty hot woman as well.
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:33 PM
1

Istg this is why the gaming mentality is just LTR suicide. You've been dating for months and when told she was sick enough to need to cancel a date you just didn't speak to her for a week, let alone ask how she was feeling. Instead you're still hyperfocused on trying be cool with feelings. No wonder she called you stupid and ghosted.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:16 AM
2

THIS After a certain point women wait for you to ask them out and if you don't they assume that you're just texting/messaging them when you're bored and want attention but aren't really interested. Once a woman thinks that's the case she'll start moving on.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:48 PM
2

I mean do you want to get laid or nah. If a woman is actively pursuing you and you want her you better cut the childish bullshit and take her up on the offer. It's a big deal for a woman to initiate and chase and if you start playing coy she's gonna next you into the next dimension bro.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:57 PM
12

Want to know a wild secret? Women's limbic systems are developmentally more advanced than men's and they can perceive all sorts of subliminal things that most men can't when it comes to communication. If you have repressed anger towards women (which, you absolutely do) most women can perceive it. They can perceive very early on that you harbor hostility towards them, even when talking online/text, even in the first 5 mins of meeting, even when you think you're giving a smooth/nice/charismatic pe…
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:17 PM
3

You're way of thinking is as though you are a woman, like you're just waiting to attract a woman with your looks and charm and have her pursue you. That is traditionally and instinctively the woman's role, not yours. If you act that way you'll give off gay best friend vibes. You need to actually flirt with and court women, you do the pursuing, the woman's end of it if she's interested is to give you increasing green lights ie encouragement, returned flirting, making openings for you for example …
/r/seduction11/01/22 05:45 PM
2

Was she drinking and/or smoking weed at the party? You never know if someone is genuinely feeling it until they interact with you totally sober. There's a reason the bar/club is such a popular pickup location choice.
/r/seduction11/01/22 05:38 PM
2

Some people flirt by teasing. Some people who flirt this way suck at it and don't have the social skills to walk the fine line between playful and rude. Think of the older guy who is forever shit talking people he likes but with a smirk and a wink, and gets flustered and defensive about how people "can't take a joke" when it backfires. This is a personality trait that can manifest in anyone, though, not just the stereotype of the middle aged man. This woman would be a dream come true for men wit…
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:51 PM
8

You made the right decision. Imagine a guy spending 20 forced minutes demanding a woman he just started seeing dye her hair a different color. Pretty psycho.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:15 PM
3

You give her your number, don't ask for hers. Trying to get a number from a cashier you literally just met in that moment is so creepy and rude. Any situation where the woman has to be all friendly because she's getting paid to do customer service and you've talked for a whopping 40 seconds, it is always a bad impression to ask for a number and you'll either make an awkward cringe scene or get a fake number at best. But if you give her your phone number that's showing interest and respect at the…
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:12 PM
4

This because if she is really hung up on the number and it's a deal breaker it's better to break things off and continue your quest, rather than get invested over time only to have her suddenly "realize" you're incompatible seemingly out of nowhere. From your perspective it's not about the number, it's about not letting something fester until it bites you in the ass. It's like if someone wants to know if I've ever done drugs. If the fact that I experimented with psychedelics back in the day is a…
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:46 PM
8

You basically have to be your own father and develop an inner voice (so to speak) that on one hand encourages you to be your best self both ethically and as far as self respect and confidence, but that on the other hand can teasingly (yet seriously) shoot straight with you when you know need to let something go, make something right, "man up" and be brave, etc. People who grow up with mentally healthy parents naturally develop these inner "voices" both a paternal voice and a maternal voice. This…
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:31 PM
1

Depends on how and where you game I guess. If you're at a bar by yourself and not drinking then you're clearly there just to hook up. This will probably lower the number of women willing to interact with you, but on the other hand the women who do interact with you are more likely to be open to the idea of going home with you, since that's obviously why you're there. When people drink alone at the bar they can still passively save face with the pretense that they were only there to drink and rel…
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:42 AM
2

If she can get off just fine on her own but not with you then it means she's not entirely comfortable with you. 100% a fact whether she admits/realizes it or not. Something to try is her masturbating while you're making body contact such as laying on top if her or you wrapped around her in some way. She might need to close her eyes or just not be facing you directly. The idea is for you to be very present with her yet while she can feel less pressure mentally to perform or be less self conscious…
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:00 AM
10

If person A thinks person B is boring, it means that person A needs way more stimulation in life than person B. That's all it means to be boring. You just need to focus on potential mates who prefer a relaxed chill life as well.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:12 AM
3

When you have disordered anxiety your brain will try to come up with explanations for it, hence the thoughts like "maybe she wants to talk to someone else more" etc. You have to make a willful conscious effort to remind yourself that the anxiety is just a physiological experience, that it's your brain having a minor malfunction and setting off mechanisms like elevated heart rate, sweating and other nervous system changes of the fight/flight response. You don't have to give it a reason. You just …
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:55 PM
5

Bruh stop projecting male psychology onto females. They don't think the same way you do. "What about your friends?" isn't a shit test, it's her not wanting to be seen by your guy friends as someone who stole you away when they wanted to have fun with you, ie not wanting them to see her negatively due to "bros before hoes" mentality, and she just wants you to reassure her that this is your idea and your friends don't care, which is what you naturally already do because at least your subconscious …
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:00 AM
7

Don't be discouraged by the negative nancies here, it's a great idea and you should go for it. Volunteer/charity type groups also tend to have a lot of women and would give opportunities for you to display protect+provide traits in modern ways and settings.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:21 AM
1

He's undecided between you and another option he's trying to go on a date with. I can almost 100% guarantee it. Neither of you are off the market yet so be chill and act accordingly, don't full stop going on dates with men who interest you while waiting for him to decide if he really wants a 2nd date or not. Don't get invested yet. You already reassured him you'd say yes if he asked and gave him more positive encouragement after in talking. Now chill.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:59 PM
1

Nope nope nope on out of that mess.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:34 PM
1

Only skimmed but as an ex smoker I'm just gonna say, nicotine addiction is a serious beast and withdrawal is torture, chemical addicts can really only focus on getting the fix when withdrawal hits and nothing else. So if she wasn't planning to be out that late and withdrawal hit her it's not at all surprising that she couldn't focus on anything other than getting a cigarette (not even you, no matter how much she liked you). If she also noticed you seemed to be pissed off (she probably did) that …
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:57 PM
1

The critical error was that you panicked hardcore the first time she expressed a need. She needs to have some deeper/serious "getting to know each other" conversations in the mix when she is considering a potential mate. You initially responded really well by acknowledging the need, not downplaying it and casually but respectfully implying that you would likely address it on the next date. Perfect. But then you just totally panicked and scared her off, because you demonstrated that probably goin…
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:49 PM
4

Like women the way some people like fine wine. A person can appreciate fine wine, be very interested, love that there are so many to choose from, savor a glass, be willing to travel research and invest more in trying new ones, etc but they don't spend their life in a state of low key dread and terror that they might never drink fine wine again.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:58 PM
1

A partner who occasionally takes some initiative in spicing things up with mutual pleasure in mind is a very good thing. Just keep in mind she might be intimidated by some toys, remember porn sex is desensitized women who are faking everything. Toys that are more tame like a vibrating penis ring are a better way to surprise her and gauge response versus something like a monster dildo.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:52 PM
6

Best pray a mentally healthier man doesn't start holding normal conversation and ask her out on an actual date while you're acting like a malfunctioning robot.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:47 PM
2

This might actually be a case of them just not finding you physically attractive at all. They obviously genuinely like your personality a LOT to be trying to hook you up with their friends. Look at the one friend's insta to see if she's conventionally attractive or not as a clue. If these women are like "you're great but maybe you're a better match for my fat homely friend" that means they think you're unattractive but actually do like your personality.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:22 AM
2

You oscillated between acting like you were her brother and acting like you were wanting to hook up quickly, almost no natural in between behavior to gradually build up romantic and sexual chemistry. Like oh, she's dolling up for me, but I'm not going to acknowledge it, I'll just act like we're competitive siblings instead, then I'll ask her back to my house. Deep down you knew you messed up trying too hard to "game" instead of just acting natural, and your kneejerk reaction was to blame it on h…
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:11 AM
14

The purpose of a shit test is to see how someone handles not getting their way, being given a boundary, experiencing an inconvenience, etc. People who think a shit test is about being disrespectful to someone tend to be people who fail actual shit tests. So it's important to know the difference. An example of an actual shit test is being 5 minutes late but offering a quick apology. Did the person get irrationally pissed off over 5 minutes? Did they start blowing up your phone? Do they start inte…
/r/seduction09/01/22 01:31 AM
-1

Most of the time the woman can't even really explain it even if she was willing to. Chemistry is a mostly subconscious process for women. When they know, they know but don't always have some specific reason behind it. If you're following basic common sense like good hygiene, being respectful, engaging in conversation, etc and she's not feeling it, it's not a "reason" situation ie you should've done/said something differently.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:39 PM
82

Simple scents are the best, you should be able to easily describe the scent, such as sandalwood or a fresh citrus scent or a softer clean laundry type of scent, avoid anything that has teenage boy axe body spray character ie chemical nondescript overbearing stuff. Scent is a big deal to a lot of women, 100% true.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:09 PM
19

If you've been friends for quite a while and she hasn't given you obvious green lights of interest this is going to go badly.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:05 PM
8

Your post is all about your own emotions and it doesn't seem to occur to you that they're talking about their own end of a hypothetical connection so that might be a clue.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:19 PM
2

Women process a ton of subliminal detail about a man in person and this has way more impact on whether or not she's feeling you than any online interaction can possibly ever have. This is why getting to the actual date as soon as possible is important and why you don't want to start feeling invested before actually meeting. The in person interaction determines nearly everything and that subliminal processing is often not something simple and straightforward. So it's not like you said xyz wrong t…
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:17 AM
6

Psychologically healthy women will start giving increasingly obvious green lights when they are receptive to sexual escalation. The best strategy is to mirror your escalations to her level of green lighting. If she stands closer you can stand closer. If she goes for an arm touch you can go for nonsexual touching. She will get very close to your face and linger if she wants you to kiss her. If she brings up sex in conversation she's letting you know it's okay for you to match her, ie she makes a …
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:48 PM
6

He surrenders to the process of courting his way into a woman's pants in the whirlwind romance manner. He doesn't concern himself with pride or logic, he doesn't care if he looks silly or desperate, he doesn't care if what the woman wants doesn't make logical sense to him, he doesn't care how ridiculous or complicated or crazy some of it might seem. He surrenders to the process and does whatever it takes to sweep her off her feet (and into bed). A "casanova" man is the type who loves the chase a…
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:34 AM
7

What exactly are you expecting to happen tho. Like you remain unresponsive like a lobotomy victim while she ambushes you in a parking lot and sucks your dick?
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:16 AM
3

It's a much bigger deal for a woman to initiate, they're not socialized to initiate, it's culturally taboo and they're not instinctively wired for it, either. So of a woman is interested enough to initiate ie show obvious interest first, anything less than full blown enthusiasm on your part is a rejection. Women comfortable and willing to make first moves are psychologically different and the usual pick up tactics don't have the same effects. It's of course totally okay to reject the woman if yo…
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:23 PM
1

It's a good idea to have some variety in your hobbies/interests so you can have some common ground with a partner but also some areas of your life that are just yours. Think categories like outdoors/indoors, group/solo, competitive/noncompetitive, relaxing/intense, etc in addition to more specific variety. If you have at least one thing that both of you can enjoy then it's something to build initial connection with. If you have at least one thing they wouldn't be interested in at all then that's…
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:47 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter