Zombie989 Archive

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1	How many of you are not just going out with girls, but with hot ones? The head turners. The ones that give you "that feeling" in your gut just by looking at. Ideal self, without regards to outside factors, such as income range.	/r/seduction	10/09/14 05:46 PM
2	How many of you are not just going out with girls, but with hot ones? The head turners. The ones that give you "that feeling" in your gut just by looking at. I just got married to one who is, in my opinion, smokin hot. The only reason I come here is to help out a bit if I think my experience might. I think everyone is capable of getting a smokin hot woman in much the same way as everyone is capable of being hot, or having a sexy personality. You just have to realize who the attractive you is, and be that all the time.	/r/seduction	10/09/14 04:52 PM
1	Getting girls invested in you? Oh, solid. Make plans for a brief date in the middle of her work week. If she does it, it'll be refreshing for her both mentally and for the possibility of relationship. If she says she can't, that's fine. Just go on a date with someone else that night. It doesn't seem like she's investing because this early in, she probably is limiting her investment. She's basically looking to see if your established value matches up. See other people occasionally. This not only gives that sense of value to yo…	/r/seduction	08/08/14 07:13 PM
2	Getting girls invested in you? Basically, if she wants to get together, that's cool. If she has to flake out, you set the terms of what will make it up to you. Be reasonable and don't be creepy. Mostly, don't leave the fate of your relationship or whatever in her hands... remember, though, that what happens to her and what she does is up to her. You just need to not get in the way of her wanting to do those things with you.	/r/seduction	08/08/14 07:04 PM
1	Getting girls invested in you? Your comment reminds me of an economic view of sex based on exchange rates (this theory is very complex, dealing with supply and demand not only for sex, but marriage as a separate commodity). It's not the position to which I subscribe, but I'm curious about your comment. Please expound on what I said that made you think of this, and its implications?	/r/seduction	05/08/14 11:18 PM
3	Getting girls invested in you? Sex is a huge investment for women. That said, they have a subconscious tally, and they may use it to "pay back" your investment and get out. Not all girls do this, but if they feel like you're too invested in them, they get scared. One way to avoid over investing is to keep the ball in your court prior to sex.	/r/seduction	05/08/14 11:10 PM
6	Getting girls invested in you? I don't have any sources on this, however, if every interaction is a date, you get a lot of practice. I'd advise asking the sorts of questions that you find make her talk a lot, but don't let her turn you into one of her girlfriends. If she says something that sounds like she sees you as someone who will listen to her and be there, cut it short. In fact, I can't count the number of times I've said, "you know, I don't have a vagina; tell that to someone who does." Get her to feel the need to impr…	/r/seduction	05/08/14 11:05 PM
4	Getting girls invested in you? You have a good point. I had thought of this, but then you have to wonder how they hooked up in the first place. I get the feeling these aren't all cold contacts. If they are, then his meeting to sex time is low, and his success rate is through the roof. Either way, going to bed is a big investment to her (in a lot of cases) and I generally wouldn't let a girl take me to bed unless she's invested enough to stick around.	/r/seduction	05/08/14 10:56 PM
60	Getting girls invested in you? If you're escalating, you're investing. Investment is any work it takes to move the relationship forward. Ideally, two people invest equally into a relationship, and then are stuck because neither one wants to lose everything they've invested. I make sure I'm close, but I don't do anything to form a relationship. I act like I'm already in one. Relationships, strangely, follow some laws of physics and thermodynamics. 1 - forming a bond takes more energy than maintaining a bond that's already been…	/r/seduction	05/08/14 07:01 PM
1	Why are you here? I'm here for entertainment purposes. When people ask a question, it gives me something specific to reflect on and remember when I encountered a similar situation, and how I handled it (often, the many times I've been in a situation, and the many wrong ways and one right way). In truth, I've wooed myself a beautiful woman, and she loves me so hard it makes me think about the future, which is so vast and full of the unknown it can be scary. In less than a week, I'm going to ask her to marry me. I'…	/r/seduction	26/07/14 08:47 PM
5	If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back? "You wanna make it up? Alright, come over Thursday, and we'll cook dinner together." I don't ask when or how; the ball is not in her court. If you want to make it up to me, I set the terms; this is not a negotiation. That said, I'm fair and up front about what cuts the mustard for making it up to me. "And don't sweat tonight's reservation, I won't let it go to waste." If I haven't told this girl I'm seeing her exclusively, I've already told her I'm seeing what options I have. Chances are, I'll w…	/r/seduction	25/07/14 09:15 PM