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That is what I was curious about. Sure, it's shitty to talk about people behind their backs like this, but I'm pretty sure 99.9% of the world's population does this in some form. And most of that is trash talk that goes to fulfilling some kind of group quota of perceived "coolness." (which is, again, stupid and childish) Having another guy sitting there and assuming he is "in on it too," feels weird. If they were saying it to these dude's faces, that would be something different. Both are dickis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 10:44 PM
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So you were sitting at a table full of women (and you) and they were labeling other men "creeps" among themselves or to the men's faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:49 AM
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Toxic Femininity: "There is no such thing as rape because I have a gun and I'd shoot the balls off any man who touched me. The only women who are victims allow themselves to be this way." Any woman saying, "I don't need feminism because _______," and showing a laughable lack of understanding about the historical and theoretical underpinnings of the movement(s). There are two...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:47 PM
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uhh, where are these messages coming from that demand you cry all the time? I don't want to cry either, at least not in front of people. It's a very intimate, private thing to me. And I am not sure why you are connecting dots from crying to homosexuality in this. This seems like two different posts, to be honest. Also, who are all the women who project their emotions on you and get angry when you fail to conform. I don't know women like that so I'd like to know more about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:27 PM
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To Girls: Guys worry too. They get nervous about asking a girl out, or looking a certain way. The fears are there. To Guys: She worries too. Girls get nervous being around guys or asking them out. They worry about looking a certain way. The fears are there. To both: Be excellent to each other. Treat the other like a human. Give without expecting anything in return. Be prepared to get your heart broken. A lot. Honestly? It's about open communication and dropping manipulation tactics. Some of us d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:33 AM
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Some women like assholes, regardless of what they look like. I went through that phase in my early 20s and outgrew it fast. That is the key: outgrow. I wish I hadn't wasted that time, personally. It's the flip side of, "Guys only date bitches." Sure, some guys do. But many grow out of it. Or marry the woman and divorce later when things turn to shit. We are all young and dumb at some point in our lives. And then there are those who like assholes and never stop liking assholes. I don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:30 AM
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I have never felt comfortable with it. (Woman in her mid 40s here.) It's unwanted and usually a display of "YO, I'm a guy! Look at me!" Because if he had an ounce of intelligence or wit, he'd walk up to me and talk to me like a human--not whistle at me like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:28 AM
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I think it happens in all relationships. But, as you grow into a more wise adult, you learn how to manage it. You communicate with your partner about it, and you work together as a team to figure it out. I have seen couples work through it when they are good at communicating and not assholes about it. I have never seen it work when one or both shut down and refuse to address it. It's a maturity thing. If you can talk it out and find a working solution, then great for you! Maybe you learn that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:26 AM
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It's a shit-ass lazy excuse. We also put men and women in space, create smart phone technology and VR, and create music and compositions that make humans weep. All without blaming or attributing it to "biology." For me, it boils down to this: If you consider yourself just an animal who is incapable of overcoming the basest of urges (including murder, rape, violence, pissing in public and whatnot), then consider yourself an animal. But don't pretend to fan yourself and clutch your pearls when peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:20 AM
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Mine definitely changed. I had a very narrow idea of what I wanted when I was in my teens and twenties. I often wish I could go back and take a second look at guys that I brushed off. (Who later turned out to be amazingly funny and smart.) I think it's a maturity thing, hence why I struggle with TRP. It comes across as Weird Science, "let's make the perfect girl for our teenage sensibilities." Most people don't limit themselves so severely. Sure, we all have likes/dislikes, but as you get older,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:14 AM
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Great hells!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:10 AM
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What's happens when you find out that submissive wife actually poops? Is that a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:20 PM
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Dear lord no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:45 AM
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Not if they give off body signals and make comments like, "Oh, (BIG SIGH), I never get the chicks. I'm so sad for myself. Are you sad for me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:43 AM
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Yeah, it does. Either you are really naive to think it doesn't and need more worldly experience and wisdom, or, something else. I honestly don't know what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:41 AM
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Who are the "feminists" who are alienating them? I don't alienate other women and neither do most feminists. Do all Christians alienate the LGBT community? Or just the assholes? Feminist assholes do exist. And sadly, people base all of feminism on one or two experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 03:39 AM
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More like I know what I am not attracted too. Assholes. Guys who don't get simple societal constructs. I've been attracted to and dated men of all heights, sizes, cultures, races, etc. when I was a twenty year old, I had a list and criteria. But outgrew that simply over time. It's honestly better to ask what I don't like. And no, never been attracted to someone I hated. I get that it's a popular romance novel cliche, but usually in the real world, loathing someone that much (to call it hate) tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:51 AM
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That the vast majority of RP folks have no idea what feminism is. They over simplify it and/or lack understanding of theoretical, historical, and contextual underpinnings. That some BP folks have the same issues. That RP folks generally seem younger--judging from hyper focus on womens' ages for example--and an obsession with high school-esque clique-talk. Many people here in PPD communicate articulately. But you get the occasional, "I'm a guy and I am probably 15. And Soc's and Greasers just don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 05:19 AM
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It is. But they need to tell themselves they are something new. Or they line up to suck Howard Stern's schlong because he said a thing once about libertarianism. No progressive group in their right mind would crap out, shovel, and eat the anti-woman shit that is spewed there. Any RPer who tries to cloak it in any other way is a big, fat liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 02:33 AM
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How does this account for the plethora of men who become abusive, both physically and emotionally after marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:17 AM
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As a BP member, I don't hate non-feminists. But they usually fall into one of two categories: 1--have no idea what in the f**k feminism is or have a distorted reality of it. 2--are anti woman in general. I don't hate #2 in general. Hate suggests strong feelings. It's more Ike lack of any deep emotional feeling at all. Apathy. Or even small amounts of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:08 AM
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Gaslighting women who were raped in the U.S. because they weren't "that girl in India who was gang-raped by 47 guys." That's a great example of rape culture. That women have to meet a quota of unwanted dicks being forced inside them before it's considered rape. That only "certain kinds of women" (e.g., virginal and chaste) can actually be raped. That a woman has to have a certain amount of bruises covering X% of her body to be considered a rape victim. That if a woman is unable to say the words,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:23 AM
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Maybe at the base level dudes think they hate other dudes. Maybe most of them are grown up enough not to behave like assholes. I tend to go with the latter--that most men rise above any base animal urges that they "biology" tells them they must have. Because most aren't raging dipshits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:15 AM
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Mine was a different scenario. My husband had been engaged before and proposed with his grandmother's wedding ring. (Grandma passed long before.) They split up and she gave the ring back. He used the same ring with me. It's a family heirloom. So, not sure that counts. No, it didn't bother me. If it was a ring he specifically picked out FOR another woman based on what he thought she liked, yeah. It would feel like, "Yeah, here's your ring. The other one said no, but yeah. You want it?" I'd rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:11 AM
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Women and men are impacted by media. It's a pretty simple premise, isn't it? Women thinking that they will be able to convert that "bad boy" into great partner material--only to end up in a co-dependent, abusive relationship because they are convinced they can change that man! But, most people do outgrow these life tropes because they get out there, experience life (the bad and good) and learn how to communicate with other human beings. I write fiction and "real life" never translates well to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:07 AM
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"The general positives I listed about older women, CAN be true." "To me it seems like guys who go on about the positives of older women are just grateful that theyve got lower standards." Sooooo, general positives about older women CAN be true. Buuuuuut, guys who GENERALLY go on about the positives are not true. And this all means older women are overrated. (Generally) Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:55 AM
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And "fun" doesn't equal: omg, AWALT, Bruhs.. poor me. I am no chad. That is so much the fucking opposite of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:53 AM
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I know only a little about Aspergers. Have people told you that this might be making you come across as "creepy?" It seems extreme to think you have to write off women forever here! If someone just understood things a bit better? I don't mean to oversimplify, just curious. I want good things for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:51 AM
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I liked it when I was 18 and it was the early 90s. But over time, it was just annoying as fuck. I could care less about her bring a prostitute. Whatever. But as if George from Seinfeld can be that sly. WTF ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 05:46 AM
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I guess it's up to the parent here. If the father is being respectful, good. She needs to see what that looks like. (Though the daughter will likely get more from watching how her father treats her mother and modeling that relationship, IMHO.) Some women enjoy being treated that way. Some do not. If you are a men who likes that kind of woman, well, there you go. If you prefer something different, then seek that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:47 AM
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I watch it to get off or with gal pals to make sick commentary about. I share things I like with some friends. Most of it is a turn off because doing some guy reverse cowboy in stilettos just to get that awesome camera angle is like cold water in the face. Looks soooo uncomfortable. And some women just lie there. They are being boned by a dude and it's like, "yeah... uhhh huh.. hmmmm..." Cum shots are vile. Sets the gag reflex off. But there is porn that isn't created just for a guy's aesthetics…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/17 06:39 AM
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Victim blaming is,kind of shitty, no? and no, most women aren't out making junior high school notecards that list "playahs" and "cads." (Lol what is this, a medieval erotic fantasy novel. "You CAD!!!!!")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 06:03 AM
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If the men marching with all the women across the world are indeed "beta fucks," then they are massively attractive, hot, and fuckable. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 09:11 PM
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I think this hits home for me too. I sum it up to maturing into adulthood. Children look at the world in absolutes. People who are stuck in the junior high school mindset of "I can't get the hottest girl/guy interested in me, therefore women/men are shallow beings who cannot possibly perceive my excellent contributions to the social world. If only someone would .... just..... see..... me." I'm not mocking it. It's tough to be in this phase. But people do outgrow it. And they mend from disappoint…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 11:09 AM
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And that isn't just bad science. It's embarrassing science. Until you learn the basic fundamentals of scientific inquiry, your limited experiences accounts for your limited experiences. And if all you ever see from all women is the above (including your mother, grandmother, other female relatives, and every single person on the planet with a vagina) then there is absolutely no reason to engage in debate. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 10:57 AM
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I wasn't discounting women in my sentiments, but if you desperately need that articulated for scorekeeping, then consider it articulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 06:19 AM
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But the assloads of bullshit pussy and n-count equations I see on TRP is real science, I take it. And if we're discounting self reporting then TRP falls apart as it exists SOLELY on, "But a thing happened to me so now I've proven TRP hypotheses."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 05:54 AM
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Someone teach this guy communication skills. Please. Be succinct. Be diplomatic. "Sorry, I just didn't feel any chemistry here, but wish you the best." Not that effing difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 05:51 AM
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But Goldman and Sachs sounds like a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 08:01 PM
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I'm not obtuse. I'm wondering if you're trying to use some magical douchebag formulas to figure out the pussy universe. And I'm kind of laughing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 08:00 PM
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The first one is definitely TRP. Bruh has a mullet. Fassbender has game and doesn't need to be associated with RP douchebags. The Charlie H. pic looks like a poster that RP dudes have in their room and they kiss their fingers then put those fingers up to charlie's sweet lips before going pussy-hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:09 AM
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Jon Gosselin is, we all know, the lord of all RP dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:08 AM
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In some made-up fantasy world, people create algorithms and mathematical equations for N-counts and how many times a woman rides a dick, or sucks a dick, or looks at/touches/thinks about dicks. And in that fantasy land, the numbers are meaningful and shit. But here, on planet Earth, away from Bullshit Mountain, grown-ass adults give little-to-no shits in any way about how many people you have fucked. Or sucked off. Or given a handjob to. OR groped in Vegas while taking E for the first time. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:02 AM
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So blue pillers like me can't live like rappers and get all the dick? AHHH! Noooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:47 AM
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quoted text My question is, have you ever known a man who was financially successful, yet had trouble dating women? Yes. For a few reasons: He wasn't interested in dating Was shy and socially awkward Was an asshole quoted text Trouble dating women doesn't mean he is an incel, it means he has a reasonable difficulty getting a girl on a date or securing a second date and sleeping with women. He has very little female attention. "Securing" a second date? Are we talking about relationships or a hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:41 AM
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I have to ask if you are in the U.S., because this is coming across as someone who doesn't understand general American culture. And is simply regurgitating Red Pill rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:33 AM
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Meh, you move on, I guess? I think I have been the one to dump a guy after sex to be honest. Sorry. I knew it was shitty. But I'm not an asshole like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 11:55 PM
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Absolutely. Higher N count than him. He had skill regardless and was absolutely willing to try new things and listen when I explained how I liked things. Honestly? Turned out to be a better lover than any other man I'd been with. Still going strong after 10 years. It was nice that he wasn't a pretentious dick. He wanted to please me. And I enjoyed pleasing him in new ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 08:15 AM
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Because the TRP men who DO use the "Biology" excuse act like complete asswipes. Apparently, they can button their shirts, operate a computer, use a cell phone, and not jack off on public transportation. But they can't control some of the other urges. It's apparently far too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 08:11 AM
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Why do people dislike assholes in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 08:09 AM
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I think many young women (think junior high and high school) go through a "bad boy" phase. And most of us outgrow it. Some don't and post memes like, "If you love him hard enough, he will change his bad boy ways for you" on Facebook. To which, most women facepalm and want to slap someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:21 PM
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Because we're not in junior high. (Most of us, I assume.) And I'm not sitting around in someone's basement playing Truth or Dare or spin the bottle? Because really real fucking adults don't over-simplify this shit? Because every single woman may be different? Because even an attractive man who seems to fit the description of the unicorn-mythical "Chad" might not act, behave, and respond like the embarrassingly stereotypical "Chad" that I see hyped up in TRP and maybe some guys, regardless of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:20 PM
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Pay for your own paternity test. Then do it. End of story. Don't make me, a taxpayer, pay for your paranoid, insecure bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:17 PM
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I know men and women who go, "Oh ICKY EWWW!" when an older man dates a younger woman. And when an older woman dates a younger man. I don't give three shits as long as it's legal and consensual. Besides, as a woman who dated a younger man (by 10 years), it was great for a while, but the age difference did muck things up in the end. He was a great guy, though. And many guys I know who tried dating super young women, most realized they enjoyed banging a younger woman, but being in a relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:15 PM
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This kind of seems like a "captain obvious" given to me. Yes, women like sex. Yes, I'd rather have a guy who is fucking amazing in bed, even if he is not some magical Chad asswipe. (Points if he's not, honestly, because "Chad" doesn't fucking exist) I'd add that a woman's enjoyment of sex also hinges on knowing how to please HERSELF and being confident enough in bed to make suggestions, to take control, to know how to tell a guy, "Here's what I like and here's what gets me off." From what I read…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:10 PM
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I think "tone deaf" hits the nail on the head. Either they don't know the implications of this language--e.g., if you are unable to conceive and carry a child, if you are not exactly 99% feminine in all things, if you think for yourself, then you are not worthy of male attention--OR they know exactly the implications. Either one is fucked up. And it's one reason why I consider most red-pillers to be a lost cause. Either they ARE that ignorant and lacking in social IQ, or, they roll around in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 10:06 PM
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I could be more Red Pill, if he went to a message forum to get free advice on how to defend himself against rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 07:18 AM
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Feels a little too "all lives matter" to me. The differences between men and women is recorded historically with a severe skew toward men as privileged. Of course we all want human beings to be respected. But de-politicizing the gender disparity isn't my thing. May not be others' thing either. But perhaps some will enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:23 PM
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I'm pretty sure we all read it. There is no debate here. Just blatant insecurity about experienced women who threaten a man's masculinity. It's not even what is read between the lines here. It's that obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:20 PM
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Wow, it's like you literally pulled this from some backwater Texas sex Ed class where we talked about passing around chewing gum. Unless you are in high school. Then it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:18 PM
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Damn. I didn't realize I was supposed to only go for the top tier pussy magnets in the world. Why didn't someone explain this to the ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:17 PM
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You essentially just said, "know what you are talking about," to the original poster then pretty much proved his point within your own reply. So, yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:15 PM
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Well or these are the only women they want. Especially given the posts and near fetish level obsessions with "land whales" and "women over 28" and "hotties."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 04:12 PM
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I think most adults who know how the world works give no effs about N counts. Men who are obsessed with this in women....my only guess is that there are severe social challenges there and a lack of confidence. The fact that TRP men actually turn this sort of thing into part of a theorem for relationships (with a straight face) speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:48 AM
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Depends on the turn off. He has bad breath, you diplomatically can bring that up. It's fixed. He finishes in 2 minutes and never "gets" why it's an issue if the woman didn't get off, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 03:15 AM
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So,is this a debate? If so, what are the blue and red debate points? Or is this just a bunch of losers who neeeeeeed to use the term "land whales" and require a bigger audience besides TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 01:49 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 01:44 AM
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I'm sorry, but if a man is using an N count to assess a woman's crazy level, that reeks of insecurity and mental instability to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:10 AM
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Why does a woman want to "incentivize" a man to marry? Is he a potential client hoping to enter into a business deal with me? Or is he a human who may or may not want to be in a long term relationship with another human being? If a guy isn't into marriage, then let him say so in the first weeks of getting to know a girl. She makes up her mind to stay or go. If she stays thinking she can change his mind through "incentives," then she's playing a game where she will be hurt in the end and is likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:08 AM
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I didn't "stick it out" because a guy was hot. If i stuck it out, it was because I wanted to give a guy a fair chance, regardless of what he looked like. But I definitely did not go on second dates with Chads/hot guys if they were raging assholes. Case in point. I went out with a guy who was pretty good looking. Had his life together. But he was rude to the waitstaff. I left in the middle of the date and made sure the waitress got a tip on my way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:03 AM
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I don't argue that dumb women fall for Chad. But I'd also argue that stupid men fall just as often for the female version. And yeah, I think most are very young and or very immature and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 12:01 AM
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Every time I hear the term CHAD I think of some dude obsessed with his "guns" who oils up in front of the mirror and gyrates to Taylor Swift. He maybe lasts 4 minutes in bed and can't hear a woman's moaning over his own internal soundtrack which is something akin to Monster Truck noises and the Wave at the Superbowl. I argue that CHAD is a dumbass. And who the hell wants to have a one-night stand with that douche?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 04:54 AM
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Couples who are meant to last work hard for it. It's not magical every moment you are married. You argue, you fight, you have disagreements. Life takes over. Maybe some do get complacent. But, if you are with a partner who is in it for the long run and knows how to (and WANTS to) communicate, you discuss this. You work through it. This is the point that is missed. You work through it. Sometimes, that work doesn't pay off. You don't get a guaranteed perfect relationship marriage. Sometimes, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 10:55 PM
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I care about human rights. I believe the government should Stay out of regulating my reproductive physiology. I believe in separation of church and state. I am against capital punishment. Am not blue or red. Myabe purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:38 AM
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The quote does not explain the low level of feminist literacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:34 AM
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So first of all, feminism is overly concerned with wear women are at the top. Do we have 50/50 fortune 500 CEOs? Are all the world leaders half women and half men? Why aren't there more female neurosurgeons? Feminism is looking at who is breaking barriers, not who is at the middle or the bottom. Who says feminism is overly concerned with where women are at "the top?" I'm struggling to come up with specifics that state: "in order to be a feminist, you must be concerned with becoming a Fortune 500…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:35 AM
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Yeah, I struggle to think of experiences in my past where I slept with a man and this magical rainbow of unicorn love and deep feeling and NEED and awe-inspiring connection manifested. It helped deepen an already existing relationship, yes, but by the time that sort of connected-ness started happening, we were already monogamous and heading toward long-term. It always seemed to be some kind of urban legend in my mind. Other men warning you, "Don't be THAT girl who falls in love after having sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 07:15 AM
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Having dated feminist men and non-feminist men, I found the feminist men far less combative and narrow-minded. (Then again, most men I've known in my life are generally feminist and only a few had overt anti-sentiments.) The feminist men were more open to sexual exploration, more open about wants and needs, and were capable of having conversations about sex, sexuality, relationships, and whatnot. I found that the anti-feminist men I knew would have kneejerk reactions whenever someone brought up …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:55 PM
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Perfect answers, imho. Get the government the eff out of these things; mandatory paternity testing is a no go for me. I don't know how much paternity testing costs? I seem to recall seeing advertisements while flipping through Jerry Springer type daytime channels and it seemed affordable. (But court-ordered or "official" types may cost more?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:46 PM
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Yes, this is true. Living in a smaller, more liberal-leaning college town makes a huge difference. These things are discussed pretty freely, but not in a cram-it-down-your-throat way. It's a conversation. Drive 5 miles east into hick county, USA, and you can't even say the word "feminism," without someone shitting a bald eagle out their ass that will fly out and kill a Syrian family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:41 PM
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I rarely deal with shitlords. That's why when I come to reddit and see men asking these insane fucking questions about "hot chads and hot ladies," claiming that women are pretty much dead to the world after 28, and bitch about ladies fucking men for fun, I wonder where they all come from. I teach college students, including males, 100+ per semester, and I've never come across some overt asshole Red Piller or MRA asswipe. If they are there, they stay quiet about it. But in my circle of friends, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:35 PM
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So this debate thread is essentially speaking to guys in their 20s. Because most people, men and women, who reach real adulthood, find that "trying too hard" over-simplification of mens' biological urges to be one big, fat bullshit cop out excuse. In short, if you're a grown up, these types of over-explained and overly-labeled scenarios are laughable at best. Sure, we have biology, but we also have men and women who put robots on Mars, write Pulitzer winning prose, and create works of art every …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 03:59 AM
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I was never introduced to more drugs than when I began hanging out with the richer kids. There was this perception of, "We can get away with it. We're rebels."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 10:59 PM
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Yeah, I totes can't tell the difference between the guy who I listed as "booty call" on my cell phone and, "Guy's name who I am genuinely interested in." Without the labels, anyway. I need help like that. My brain, especially during PMS, gets all shitty and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 09:58 PM
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I've seen non-white women age just as gracefully =)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:08 PM
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On Vikings? Lagertha definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:05 PM
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Grey'S Anatomy is interesting, but it was more a Supernatural joke. McDreamy from Supernatural is actually kind of an asshole. I did enjoy the character arc of Alex Karev. And the dude playing Owen Hunt played Vorenus in Rome, so there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 05:38 PM
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Mmm upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 05:37 PM
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How am I supposed to gauge sexual market value based on pics? And why does the first guy keep showing up in other "who do you pick?" Scenarios? All I can do here is process of elimination. 1 looks like a two pump chump. 3 is way to effing happy to be surfing. 2 looks educated and slightly geeky which can turn out very well in terms of sex. Either not experienced and okay with you molding him a bit, or, he has a secret sex machine side that he is dying to let out. And he could totally GM my next …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:25 AM
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I can see the first two points. The last one not so much. Some guys who are intimidated and afraid of a woman's past partners aren't very experienced at all and may have no "real relationship past" to get over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:05 AM
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This is one of those examples of "Hey, this is the kind of post I expect from TRP guys," to which some say, "OMGZZZ, we so never sound like that." So thank you for adding to my screen shot arsenal for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:03 AM
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Yeah #1 just.. yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:01 AM
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Hell I'd do the ladies too and I am pretty dang hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 03:00 AM
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I'd say Rollo but he just keeps making the shittiest decisions. Not that Ragnar is any better. The top guy just does nothing for me. I don't know why. Too high school jock maybe. Can I pick Lagertha instead? Total girlcrush there. (I haven't caught up yet on Vikings so no spoilers please!) P.S. Sorry for hijacking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 02:58 AM
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Dr sexy M.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 09:58 PM
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Lol there is really nothing more I can say here that you haven't already figured out. =) good luck being a non-chad in a world full of elite chads. I'm sorry this is your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 09:58 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:20 AM
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Raised religious. Pretty much knew from a young age (7 or 8) that organized religion didn't speak to me. It wasn't a slow process. No. What was slow was "coming out" years later (instead of earlier) for fear of being shunned by family. And no, I am having a very difficult time associating my (or anyone's) agnosticism to a group that asks questions like, "Omg, should I bother dating women after 28 cuz' they be old, fat, used up on the CC and don't have the bod, dudes?" Coming to atheist or agnost…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:17 AM
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No attack perceived. It's been nice having a conversation with you. =). If we are being honest, these so called radfems seem highly counterproductive. For everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:05 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 08:34 PM
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An Alpha Beta is a holler back to Revenge of the Nerds, a show where guys lamented how the "hot guys always got the hot girls," in a comedic, hyperbolic way. Because there was, in their mind, no way a hot chick could fall for a guy who was not "hot," but smart, funny, engaging and interesting. And even then, in the 80's, it was a joke. Because the real world after 18 isn't exactly like high school. It is for some who choose to live and exist by those rules and confine themselves to "Awww. I am n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 08:34 PM
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Yeah, now I'm wondering what he's like in bed. And yeah... no... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:54 PM
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Because the guy is funny? Has great RPG games? Plays X-box and kicks ass? Knows what he's doing in bed? Isn't an asshole to her? Has great eyes? A nice smile? Doesn't do creepy shit to turn her off? Doesn't make her try sushi if she doesn't fucking want to? Doesn't brag like an idiot all the time? Is capable of giving her an orgasm? I don't know. How much space do you have here? Or are we talking about Alpha Betas from Revenge of the Nerds getting all that 80's pussy? Just because of amazing hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:53 PM
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Hahahahaha. I mean, I look at him and he seems cute in a goofy way maybe? But meh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:50 PM
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I don't do Tinder and from what I've heard it's a bunch of people looking to fuck all the time. If a woman dates an asshole, that's her choice. Maybe she'll outgrow it someday. If a man dates a complete bitch, that's his choice. Maybe he'll outgrow it someday. These are conundrums that have been around for a long-ass time. Your parents wondered why asshole hot guys get all the girls (and why women who are hot and bitchy get all the men). Their grandparents too. Probably going back to the caveman…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:48 PM
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Maybe some do? I'm pretty sure I'm not panting at the coffee shop saying, "I'm so hot and I want that hot dude right there!" I think mature, thoughtful people evolve beyond this. I honestly can't think of anything more "high school" than, "OMG, that hot chick wants that hot dude, yo!" I think most people agree there needs to be chemistry, whatever that looks like, but the "hot dude/hot chick" definitely game me bad 80's high school movie flashbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:41 PM
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I don't ignore it to be insufferable. I honestly hadn't heard of it before in this way. And it's so laughable that I'm not sure what blue pill folks are supposed to say about it? Besides, "LOL, wtf?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:37 PM
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Actually, I'm not attracted to Sienfeld. I guess he has interesting hair, but not my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:36 PM
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Still cute. I married a guy who looks like Seth Rogan. =) I do think some women may be super into looks, though. My experience and tastes are my own. =)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 05:37 PM
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Thank you for the response. I need to look into these in context. Looking at things straightforwardly, it's kind of ridiculous that people claiming to be "feminists" are actually (and authentically) calling for the end to the male gender. This isn't feminism to me, but some kind of misandry. I don't visit blue pill often, but haven't seen this sort of thing there. (I will keep an eye out for it now.) As to why feminists don't decry this enough, I guess my opinion is that this is so over-the-top …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 05:36 PM
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Who wants to be with anyone who is angry or uncooperative? What kind of asshole is that? I met my husband when I was 33. I'd been in two long term relationships. First guy was a great friend, but we were terrible as romantic partners. We broke up to salvage our friendship. Still friends 20 years later. Second guy had me snowed. Cheated on me with a dozen women he met online, but hid it well. I found out a week before we were supposed to get married. That's 12 years between the two. None of the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:48 AM
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No. It's horrible. It's painful. I've never seen a woman in my circle receive some kind of status marks for being divorced. They may go out and have a drink when it's finalized, but mostly? It's difficult. And it sucks. And when you have mutual friends, that makes it harder. For them and you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:37 AM
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This is difficult because even celebrity men who don't have "the perfect body" or "awesome amazing symmetrical features" have something charismatic and appealing about them. They have presence that makes them all above average in some way. All I can do is try to guess what most people would consider average? Seth Rogen? (Though he's still a cutie!) Louis C.K.? Even then, appealing. Charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:35 AM
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1). I agree. I didn't (as you put it) RIDE the CC a lot, but a little. I didn't learn how to have good sex until I met a lover who showed me how to please myself, how to ask for what I wanted and how to please him. (Different techniques.) It required unabashed communication. 2) Some don't; some do. This is situational. I've met some men who know how to form an actual relationship after riding the pussy wagon for many hears. And I've met guys who still have no clue. 3) Unless the woman is looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:30 AM
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I'm guessing you live in the south where this kind of approach to life--slogging through like sloths who no longer care--is the norm? Or maybe it's because I live in one of the top three "fittest" states in the nation. I have a very hard time believing that "EVERY SINGLE COUPLE" you know is fat, lazy, ugly, and has no fashion sense. Either you're swimming in hyperbole, or you're living in an extremely unhealthy part of the world/country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:12 AM
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I don't think it's a red pill/blue pill thing. I think it's an age thing. At 40, I'm supposed to give three f***s about my husband gaining 20lb since we met? Or that he's losing hair? Or that he farts in front of me? You mature and reach a certain mental level and "appearances" become trivial, stupid, insignificant aspects of your relationship. Sure, it's nice when my husband dresses up for a function. He looks great with a new haircut or a freshly groomed beard. His new glasses make his eyes su…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:07 AM
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I've never heard of feminists calling for genocide. And genocide of what, exactly? I'm asking as an academic and a scholar who has a pretty solid background in feminist theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 06:58 AM
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lol. My thoughts exactly. Someone's bad at math. Or heard from someone's friend's cousin's best buddy that a feminist said a thing once. And that means "all feminists." or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 12:38 AM
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Feminism isn't a label you slap on a person and suddenly they must adhere to a list of accepted traits and actions. My feminist pals and I have a shitload of discussions about this stuff. "Damn, I watch Game of Thrones, I love it. Wtf. All the boobs! Rape! What do we do with that?" And you talk it out and realize most of your pals feel the same. You recognize the shittiness and criticize it, but you can compartmentalize and enjoy some god awful crap like America's Next Top Model. What I see in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:20 AM
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Lol. This is one of the dumbest things I have ever heard. Too many dicks might be three. It doesn't take a goddamned rocket scientist to assess penis size by sight or feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:11 AM
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So few guys have any dick game. So much yes with this. And honestly, guys with larger penises tend to be lazy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:08 AM
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Great fuck, thank you! Yay that people have preferences. Weight, age, penis size, whatever. But if a guy won't STFU about how small or incompetent he thinks his dick is, then it's a huge turn off. "I didn't give a flip until you just droned in for ten minutes about your dick size." Actually, the same can be said for guys with bigger dicks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 01:06 AM
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I had sex with a male virgin. Awesome experience. I got to show him what I liked and how to do it. Suffice to say, he became quite the lover (for what I, personally, needed. I'm sure other ladies offered their opinions too.) Women who balk at virgins need to expand their horizons a bit. =) Just my opinion! (And I know, only semi-related to this topic.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:41 PM
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I might have done this when my child was younger? Maybe subconsciously? I don't know for sure, but I can't say "no" either. I honestly don't care that my child is 9 and does dressing/selecting of clothes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:39 PM
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Wow, interesting topic for discussion. It made me think a bit. I won't address everything, but what comes to mind is Aileen Wuornos. There is some interesting academic writing about her, namely that she doesn't deserve to be considered having "killed in self-defense," because she doesn't fit the mold of "pure victim." (Kind of going off your "good, innocent, pure..." theme in the first sentence.) When it can be proven that women are "good victims"--meaning they didn't start the fight (like Rihan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:36 PM
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There's really no way to reply to someone who doesn't "believe" in gender oppression or gender constructions. I'm sorry you have had experiences that lead you to believe this. The world is so much bigger. I wish you the best, but there's no changing the mind of someone who simply cannot see these things. I kind of wish I had that ability. It would certainly make it a lot simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 10:29 PM
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I think most men would take a bit of insult to being told they are incapable of controlling their own "biological imperative." Because biology. If men really lack that much self-control then I see no issue with women dominating in fields where men are the majority. It sounds horrible. I'm sorry you are struggling with this so much. =(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 05:14 AM
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Why are men being pressured to be more manly? Who is creating this oppressive space for men? To make sure they should be bigger in every way? Car, paycheck, muscles, those discreet spam emails they get about other things? Why are men pressured to act manly? To not be too sensitive? To fit a hyper-sexualized, hegemonic masculine mold? To sacrifice everything without complaining? It's not feminism that creates these rules. Look harder. Could be patriarchy and bullshit rules that men have historica…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:53 AM
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Actually feminism was for old white middle class women who fought hard for how things are today. But forgot the multiple dimensions that we desperately needed as a society. Third wave changed some of this, but some thing may have taken things too far. Fourth wave is still finding itself. But in the face of, "Feminism sure sucks," we will see the shape it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:47 AM
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So men can write sonatas and operas, put astronauts on the moon, create technology that allows us to communicate on the internet, paint images that move people to tears, theorize quantum physics and what? They can't control their genitals? It's not Disney altruistic. It sounds like an excuse men make the grab women by the privates and then blame her for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:45 AM
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So the 2 out of 30 mechanical engineers I have is too much? What is the line for "too many women in STEM?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:42 AM
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Being a SAHM can be looked down upon. Can be by certain feminists, I suppose, but these are conversations that feminists have today. And they don't look like this: "Yo, SAHMs are teh suck, right?" "Yeah, totes." They are conversations. Many feminists discuss the SAHM thing, the "what about wearing make-up" thing, the "should I wax my privates" thing, the "I love Game of Thrones" thing. It's not a ruleset you sign up for when you begin to see the world through a feminist lens. It's discursive. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:41 AM
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All feminists make grand, sweeping generalizations? Irony....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:13 AM
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Nothing wrong with personal testimony, but it applies to one person's experience within the context of that moment, environment, situation. If we're talking real research, then this would likely fall under qualitative methodology. And while interviews, observations, and personal experiences can be considered one element to research, triangulation is extremely important here. Meaning you need other approaches to produce better understanding. A good link: http://www.qualres.org/HomeTria-3692.html …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 04:10 AM
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