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See, men actually have to try now and y'all are losing your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:54 AM
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Know your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:06 PM
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"...if you do not act reckless still pretty safe..." is BS. Tell that to children and babies who are raped. Tell that to CORPSES that are defiled by men. Tell that to women who die from "honor killings" by trusted family members. Tell that to pregnant women whose number one cause of death is violence from their partner. But you would rather twist yourself into a pretzel telling women just how safe yet paranoid we are. You are the reason cops don't believe victims. I'm done with this conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:47 PM
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Your example, while detailed, is a survey, not actual statistics. Who compiled it? I found the information I did in various places. The issue is that 91% of violent crime is committed by MEN. Yes, men are also victims. Yes, women are also perpetrators (9%). That is awful for every individual victim. But throughout this post, men are saying "we're afraid of men attacking us, too" and ignoring the irony of telling women that we're paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:31 PM
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Incorrect: <image> https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,(1)%20This%20US%20Dept%20This%20US%20Dept).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:10 AM
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Monogamy and sexual morality works well for men, not women. Why do you think women have been leaving those ideas behind over the generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:08 AM
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His wicked sense of humor. Thirty-one years later, he can still make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:56 AM
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Let's say there is a girl called Alice and a guy called Bob. Bob spent considerable free time harassing and stalking Alice. She told him no every time. Bob claimed himself as a Nice Guy™️ while blocking Alice's route to her car. Alice eventually kicked Bob in the balls so she could get to her car. Bob continues to believe he was the Nice Guy™️ while Alice tells everyone she knows that Bob is creepy. Are you OP identifying with Bob just because your Alice wouldn't date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:25 PM
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Not at all. His height has no bearing on why I found him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:18 PM
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My husband is 5'5". WOMEN are not one hive brain; we all like different things. I feel like I say this here rather a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:07 PM
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You know tons of age-gap marriages, or you are GUESSING there is a significant age gap due to your prowess watching celebrities on TV?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:02 PM
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But men on apps aren't indicative of ALL men's behavior, just a subset. Your post is the opposite of scientific. Let's see some data to back up your claims, not just "vibes."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:54 PM
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That is exactly the kind of world many of these men in this sub want: for women to sit down & stfu. We aren't doing that anymore, and their heads are exploding. Thanks for being an ally! And for just having common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:34 PM
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Men are not a marginalized group. Women forced ourselves into male-dominated spaces to achieve equality, to have the same access to business and banking as men did/do. You wanting to whine to women about your sad little life is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:31 PM
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Nope. You don't get to barge into spaces not meant for you just because you throw a tantrum. You are not a woman with ADHD. I am. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:12 PM
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OP: "I want to muscle my way into a cancer support group even though I don't have cancer or know anyone with cancer but I feel like I have a right to be there and want my opinions heard." Do you even realized the level of entitled you are reaching? Think stratosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:03 PM
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That is the word OP used THROUGHOUT his post: get. Maybe you can't read, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:03 PM
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Women aren't your clients and we aren't your whores. JFC you guys have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:02 PM
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You don't GET a woman. You keep mentioning all the things you want to GET from women: getting a date, getting a relationship, getting sex. Women don't exist to GIVE you things. I suspect this is a huge part of your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:44 PM
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Thank you for your kind words!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:42 AM
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What does that have to do with literally anything I said? He's a classical musician, not a rock star.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:17 PM
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I've been with my husband for 31 years. As a professional musician, we had some very lean years. They don't joke about "starving artists" for nothing. At no time in my life did I think about dating someone else who had more money. The thought never even came into my head. Other women are different and their choices are also valid. Stop thinking ALL WOMEN are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:42 PM
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Women are really good at faking it. It's how we end the experience we don't enjoy and avoid violence at the hands of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:04 PM
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That's what therapy is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:57 PM
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I have read through all your "one size fits all" nonsense. Also, at this stage in my life, I don't want to guide someone through sex; I want them to know what they're doing by now. Other women are the opposite and would love someone inexperienced they could guide, but I'm over those years; I want us both to have a good time & get on with life. A LTR is good for learning about your partner and what pleases them, so you don't have to fumble through experimenting like you do someone new. Most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:33 PM
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Tell me you've never pleased a woman in bed without telling me you've never pleased a woman in bed. 🤦‍♀️ What you aren't understanding is that, while people have different preferences, certain anatomical parts are FULL of nerve endings; do you even know how to find them? And for the record: porn WILL NOT teach you how to please a woman. Like AT ALL. So maybe stop thinking that all of that watching you've done is the same as experience. And the whole "start slow, be gentle but firm" is NOT going …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:17 PM
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Then you need THERAPY, not free chat bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:31 PM
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Yeah, it's really terrible that women want rights. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:23 PM
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You aren't talking about making sure everyone has access to food; you are talking about artificially manipulating gender outcomes in order to coerce one gender to serve another because the latter is too lazy to improve on their own. That is diabolically unethical. And perverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:04 PM
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Why are YOU not understanding that increasing the number of options is not going to help EVERYONE? There will STILL be people left out. I imagine with your charming personality, you will be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:23 PM
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There are men (and women) for whom NO ONE will find attractive. The fact that I have to write this out for you is indicative of your lack of critical thinking. Not everyone gets paired up. Not everyone WANTS to be paired up. There is a statistical number of the first group that will be (like the other commenter put) gay, or ACE, etc. You are making a HUGE assumption that every lonely incel is going to attract ten percent of the population, and the problem (in your eyes) is that there just aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:10 PM
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OP, go read your #2 again. Even if it were ethical to IVF your way to more female births, women STILL aren't going to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:15 PM
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Men don't swipe right 80% of the time because they LIKE the women they are swiping right on; y'all just want to get your d*ck wet and any hole will do. That's NOT flattering nor will lead to any sort of relationship. That's a hook-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:47 PM
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Source? Edit: You are (no surprise) completely incorrect: https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/suicide-death-rates-by-sex-who https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6505054/#:~:text=Results%3A%20Case%20mortality%20rates%20of,as%20compared%20to%20the%20unmarried. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:38 PM
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Says you. More women are happy now with the freedom to choose our lives than ever before. Why do you think so many 1950s housewives took prescription drugs (like barbiturates) and day drinking to get through their days? Newsflash: they weren't happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:16 PM
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Gay men feel safe. There is no ulterior motive for them to befriend us. They are the only men who literally want nothing from us but whatever we want to give. There's nothing wrong with het men having a skincare routine. But het men can ALWAYS pose danger to us. You will say "I'm safe" but ALL MEN say that and many clearly aren't. We have to vet you thoroughly to be sure. Also; my husband is my best friend, for 31 years. These things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:52 PM
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The point is, we CAN have ridiculous standards because the alternative is a good life on our own. We don't NEED to settle for what we don't want. Why are you complaining? Men can absolutely have this, too! Cultivate a life with friends and hobbies and charity work and a career and don't compromise your values on who you want for a partner. What's the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:10 PM
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Dude, that's how women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:32 AM
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The types of men who were lured to Tate are men who think they have an inalienable right to women and power. You all miss the "good ol' days" where women had no money and no power and were dependent on settling for the worst among you just to survive. Aww, poor baby; women have their first taste of freedom and independence and the ability to be choosy, like men have ALWAYS had, and your heads are exploding. You KNOW you won't be chosen so you throw tantrums. Newsflash: women AREN'T going back. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:07 PM
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Of course you, a man, can't possibly imagine the hate and vitriol we experience DAILY, either in person or online. 🤦‍♀️ Must be nice living in your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:38 PM
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It's not a minority of men who hate us, who harm us, who take advantage of us; it's quite a few. And it's easy to say "two wrongs don't make a right" when you are the privileged party. If you can't handle women's truth, then don't talk to us. Easy-peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:56 AM
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One, he is not temporarily disabled, it's permanent. Two, he does tell me things and I have seen him struggle. That's what THERAPY is for! And antidepressants, if those are appropriate for your medical situation. And I have no idea what your disability is, if you have one or not, but his is a lot worse than "my voice isn't too loud." He went to the ER THREE TIMES last month, twice in an ambulance, because part of being a paraplegic with high level of injury means his BP can SKYROCKET in seconds …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:46 PM
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Well, his story should encourage you. Have you joined any groups for your particular disability (mutism? You didn't say)? Forums were (and continue to be) a huge support for my husband; he talks to people who can understand the frustration of traveling in a wheelchair, of curb cutouts blocked by cars, of literally everything being HARD. They can understand him in ways I can't, and offer suggestions and their experience with things. Maybe Discord? There are people with your disability who are dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:48 PM
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Maybe try some grammar; it's hard to understand you. But I guess BkP is all doom and gloom, so I can't help you. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:41 PM
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You asked for advice. This was my advice, based on the experience of someone I love. If you want to give up completely, why are you here ASKING for advice? You can live your life any way you want to, and at no time did I "chastise" you, but if all you wanted was to complain about how no wimins will ever want you because your voice is soft, then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:39 PM
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We need more context on what kind of disability. But my personal experience is with my husband. He is 5'5" and just an average dude, just like I'm average. He dated a lot before me, all of whom were taller than him. It's his kindness and wicked sense of humor/sarcasm. He makes people laugh and feel good about themselves. Several years ago, he had an accident that left him paralyzed from the chest down (T3). He is still as popular as ever, because he gets out and does shit. He goes to metal and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:45 PM
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You: It's not fair women can make money as prostitutes! Me: You can do that, too. You: random complaining about how wimin have life so much easier I don't wanna!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:55 AM
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What's stopping you from sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:43 AM
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Do you think those men crying about being single cared one iota that FOR ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY, women were subjugated by men because we couldn't support ourselves? Do you think those men cared one bit that women were basically forced into sexual servitude (marriage) for survival? Where was the sympathy then? Individually, I care about people, but as a collective, I don't care that men don't have free access to women like they used to. If your happiness depends upon my subjugation, then no, I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 02:58 AM
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He DIDN'T apologize, he only made excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:38 PM
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I find lots of men arousing who are neither "masculine" nor "hot." This is all crap RP tells you. Also women? Not a monolith. Some women prefer athletic, buff guys; some of us don't. Variety is the spice of life!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:00 PM
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Ok, but women get demeaned and called "girls" while men are called "men." This happens WAY more than you could possibly imagine. It's not my fault you decided to make a post at 3am when you're grumpy. I'm 54; not a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:46 PM
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You mean us women? Met him in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:44 PM
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I'm a GenX woman, married 31 years. At no point in my life would I have dated a man who cold approached. I mean, just wander off with a complete stranger? No. I don't think I know any friends at that time who would have done that. Probably someone, but a tiny percentage. It was warm approach at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:22 PM
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Ninety percent of sexual assault victims are women. The majority of those occur at or near the woman's home. Eighty-five percent of domestic violence victims are women. Women should always vet any person who comes into their life/home, especially if children are present. The fact that a 29-yr-old man doesn't think this could be a problem for women ALMOST EXCLUSIVELY just shows your ignorance, privilege or both. And yes, MEN can be victims, too! So perhaps it's a good idea for EVERYONE to vet who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:31 PM
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Who are YOU to determine if our "complaints are valid"? Do you even hear yourself? You probably consider yourself a "nice guy" even though you just wiped out the collective experiences of all straight women. YOU are the men we complain about. You are the reason we say not all attention is good attention. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:21 PM
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Oh no, women have always hated men but this is the first time in history we are able to stand on our own and not need to be married unless it's our CHOICE. Like I'm happily married, but that is my CHOICE, not my life sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:02 AM
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"Turnips" like him is why feminism is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:08 PM
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I heard that in Bowie's voice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:07 PM
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This entire OP is nothing but a "gotcha" question to supposedly prove that women are the ones who discard their Chads and settle for someone they dislike. Like, could you be more obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:47 PM
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100%. The misogyny here is breathtaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:05 PM
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My husband of 31 years is 5'5". He dated plenty before me, all of whom were taller than him. He's funny and kind. That accounts for a lot. Don't let the incel echo chamber scare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:04 AM
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Married to my short, kind man 31 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:02 AM
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Like you ever gave a damn about women's issues before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:41 AM
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"Just focus on MEN yet again! I'm sure we'll get some rights for you one of these days...". Women are DONE propping up everyone. If men are lonely, that is a YOU problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:05 AM
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Men can benefit from a more egalitarian society: just as women want to shed the shackles of gender expectations, that can be true for men, also. But feminism did not arise to make both genders better; men already have benefits that women are pushing to also have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:42 PM
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Feminism is about WOMEN; it doesn't exist to solve the problems of men, it exists to raise women up to the freedoms men innately have by "virtue" of being born male in a patriarchal society. The "male loneliness epidemic" is not our problem to solve. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's the reality. There was another post here (by a woman) asking just what men want to solve this supposed epidemic. Are they lonely due to lack of sexual partners? We're not volunteering for pity sex, sorry. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:40 PM
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Exactly. Not to mention, sometimes timing is wrong. I knew my husband as an acquaintance for a few years in college. He was married to someone else and honestly, he was just some guy I'd say hi to in classes but didn't really give him much thought. He left for grad school and a few years after that, I ran into him at a party with mutual friends; he was already divorced. I was lamenting that I couldn't find a decent guy and our friend goes, "go out with him!" I was like, huh; I never really "saw"…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:46 AM
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Yes, unfortunately we are exposed to comments like that a lot. It's a lot of men who think that way, but I don't think it's a majority of men. Nothing about the men I know irl would suggest that they would think like that person. Maybe it's just a loud vocal minority who hate women, bur unfortunately, they're ruining it for all the regular guys when women are tired of dealing with AHs and just opt out of dating altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:47 PM
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I'm married to my husband of 31 years. I've mentioned over and over that he is short (5'5"), average looks, nerdy (professional classical musician) and not rich (professional classical musician). He dated plenty before me, all of whom were taller than him. That's because while I think he's cute, he has a wicked sense of humor and is kind (not the same as nice.). I tend to get downvoted for stating his stats for some reason. I think it's because many of the angry menz here don't want to admit tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:35 PM
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Statistically, men are far and away more likely to harm women then other women. I never ever said all women are safe, but 99 percent of sexual assault perpetrators are MEN! Your one little example doesn't hold a candle to the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:21 PM
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You are incorrect; 99% of sexual assault perpetrators ARE MEN. Women make up 91% of victims. So yes, it IS the men. https://www.humboldt.edu/supporting-survivors/educational-resources/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,identify%20in%20these%20gender%20boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:02 PM
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And so do we!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:36 PM
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How do you want women to hold other women accountable for some imagined "dating transgressions' with men? You want us to bitch at other women for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:23 PM
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What does that mean? Hold women accountable for what? For choosing to stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:21 PM
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We keep telling you; patriarchy hurts everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:20 PM
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So do that. Men absolutely should be open to therapy and self-help, not to gain a relationship but to be HAPPY. But women aren't going to do it for you; why should we? We are losing our rights daily and the violence against us increases DAILY. We work same hours as you and then get to birth and raise children AND clean the house! We have enough on our plate. I have wonderful men in my life, and I encourage and help them to be better and happier individuals, but societally, you all need to start …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:13 PM
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You don't fight in wars to protect women; you fight in wars because rich men are bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:00 PM
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Why is it your job to tell a woman that she's not good enough? How on earth is your opinion of her relevant or wanted? Women have every right to be unrealistic and delusional, same as men; they have to accept whatever consequences arise from that, like not finding a partner. But women in this sub tell men over and over that many women don't want a relationship, and are HAPPY to live their own lives and just hook-up when the urge strikes. I have never ever seen, in this sub, ONE EXAMPLE of a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:34 AM
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I appreciate your comments. Feminists like myself are constantly pointing out that patriarchy hurts everyone. Many men benefit from patriarchy in a variety of ways, so while they complain about strict gender roles, they don't want to give up all of their privileges and have true equality. I think those types of men are having the hardest time with social change because they don't care about LGBT+ or women but want what we can offer them without realizing that now, they have to offer something wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:26 AM
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"Societal coddling of women"? Are you for real? JFC EVERYTHING is against us, from social expectations to legal rights. If anyone is "coddled," it's MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:47 PM
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Let me tell you, as a "Tom boy" woman, not into "girlie" things, it has NOT been my experience that it's acceptable to be this way. I have been harassed and criticized since childhood. I have had a random man at my workplace tell me I should wear makeup. So stfu about "I have it so worse because I'm a boy" nonsense. You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:43 PM
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I think a good chunk of men aren't realistic, also. The attitude of "I deserve this" permeates everything; I can read it in the comments here. And most women (not all, some do hate all men) give specific examples of things we encounter from men. Go to any woman's sub, it will be in excruciating detail what exactly men did to women for us to complain. THAT'S the difference. I have never once said it's "all men," but it is an astronomical number of you committing everything from harassment to stal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:39 PM
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You know, WOMEN pay taxes, too! And men get the benefit of hiring all the time; why do you think DEI policies were put in place in the beginning? Because white men got hired just by virtue of being WHITE and MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:39 PM
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What many men here don't want to acknowledge is that this experience is true for many women, too. The entire notion that any woman at any time can find a man is just a lie you tell yourselves about how you have it worse. There are plenty of lonely women; what is your solution for them? I would say that lots of PEOPLE are lonely today. My problem with RP is that, it's set-up as "You do these three things and then you're issued your woman-appliance." Men IN THIS SUB will bitch and moan that they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:37 PM
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This. So much this. I said mostly the same in another post in this sub, and got DOWNVOTED by the sorry menz who think it's their inalienable right to interrupt women anywhere and everywhere just because they want to. READ THE ROOM, PEOPLE. If she has earbuds in, is actively doing something, then LEAVE HER THE FCK ALONE, unless she's giving you some clear attention that isn't "is this guy going to follow me to my car."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:50 PM
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You, a man, was talking to another man, not hitting up a random woman in the wild for her digits. BIG difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:16 AM
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No, it's exactly how we feel. You don't get it when we tell you this because men think ANY MALE ATTENTION = YAY AMAZING! To understand the ick we feel, being approached by randos who demand our attention when I'm just buying groceries, straight men need to feel the same unwanted attention from other men. THEN you'll get how we feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:10 AM
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So, your experience getting approached by men you don't want is 100% EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN ARE TELLING YOU WE EXPERIENCE! Talk about missing the point completely. And were you happy that you are getting so much attention? That's what the dude-bros here keep telling women, how LUCKY we are that (undesirable) men keep harassing us everywhere. Maybe think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:41 PM
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OMFG do you even hear yourself? Women in this sub have been yelling to the rafters for men to GET SOME THERAPY and CREATE YOUR OWN FRIEND GROUPS. Now here YOU are, saying the same things that we have and acting like it's your own idea? Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:21 PM
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How precisely do you want women to support men who aren't getting laid? What exactly do you think WE can do about it? Go on, please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:36 PM
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You are willfully being obtuse about the issue being discussed: sexual relations between men and women. So NO, no one is owed ANYTHING regarding that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:01 PM
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So as a man, be proactive with influencing other men. I'm not sure what you want us to do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:00 PM
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Not having sex as much as you want = disenfranchised? LMAO you guys are so privileged, you don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:56 PM
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Men. You're already crying and whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:50 PM
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But those "values" shouldn't be determined by gender. I believe no child should ever go hungry, but that has NOTHING to do with the conversation at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:45 PM
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YES! This is the essence of the problem that certain men seem to misunderstand: wanting to be left alone is NOT an attack on you, it's freedom for US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:39 PM
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Says who, men? Women in this sub are telling you over and over that's not true, but you think you're psychic and can read minds? We are TELLING YOU it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:43 AM
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DING DING DING! This man gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:15 PM
1

"Come to the bargaining table"? LMAO no wonder you guys are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:12 PM
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OP overestimates how many younger women want to get married and have children. Why do you think there's a drop in fertility rates? Because many of us don't wanna anymore, and we have options not to. Also, teen pregnancy is down, but GenZ women are choosier than their foremothers: https://www.prb.org/articles/are-the-kids-alright-how-gen-z-girls-well-being-compares-with-their-mothers-and-grandmothers-teenage-years/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:53 PM
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🤷‍♀️ Nothing is a guarantee in life. You sound like you want to wallow in misery instead if taking responsibility for your personal relationships. I can't help ya there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:24 AM
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Oh look! Another post blaming women for something that patently isn't true because OP isn't having as much casual sex as he wants. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:22 PM
2

Because it takes work to keep your friend groups close. My husband has this; it's not like only women have friends, but many men don't prioritize them and then complain that they're alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:13 PM
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I can't believe that the men in this sub expect women to date men they aren't attracted to. The menz SURE AREN'T doing that. 🙄 It doesn't matter if a woman's standards are as high as the sky; that's HER problem, not YOURS. I also think men here overestimate how much women desire a relationship vs staying single for a while and just enjoying life. If she's happy living her life, she might desire a relationship someday, but why hurry into something? She's ALREADY happy. This is what women keep tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:45 PM
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I didn't say it was easy; I said why should women change what they want because men are complaining and many women are happy single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:52 PM
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So? That's our right to be picky or stay single. What's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:49 PM
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I mean, I'm married, as are LOTS of people. But yeah, if a woman is happy with her single life and just wants to hook-up with Chad to scratch that itch, then what's the problem? You seem to think that men only see hook-up culture as awesome and women are hard-wired for relationships, but that isn't accurate. Does Chad care that he's sleeping with a woman who has had sex with other men? Probably not. Why do you think she cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:48 PM
12

And men are willing to sleep with attractive women. I don't see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:43 PM
10

It's not a pickle for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:41 PM
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I guess he gets to sit around "in peace" while she's wrangling 2 young kids and making him dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:10 AM
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Men who are insecure are the ones who want to lead women around by the nose. You have a full-time career. You created two human beings. Why is his opinion the one everyone follows? Is it for everything, even if you have as much education/experience on the subject? What does HE do to bring you peace? Listen, it's your life, do whatever you want. But your own op sounds like you had to "convince" yourself to submit (yuck) to his way of your lives. And no joke, you are really doing a disservice to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:07 AM
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I feel like this is yet another iteration of telling women to "choose better." I can't wait for the sequel post of "why are women so picky?".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:53 PM
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That's because to them, women aren't people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:29 PM
0

Sounds pretty judgemental to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:31 PM
7

Right? That poor woman had no good choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:23 PM
2

And you think WOMEN are getting any empathy at all in this sub? Bah-ha-ha! Maybe since you ALL came from women, YOU could show some empathy and gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:03 PM
13

Hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:45 AM
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No worries. Most people can tell by the obvious signs, but some are just clueless. I was sitting in a military pharmacy (ie, crowded af) with earbuds in, playing a puzzle game on my phone, and this grown woman taps me incessantly to tell me she's playing sudoku, do I want to help. Like, no? Isn't is PAINFULLY obvious to everyone that I'm completely turtled in on myself just waiting for my meds in the chaos of that shitty pharmacy? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:09 AM
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Yeah, I DON'T want to talk to random people out in public. I am definitely not advocating for the "Let's all talk to everyone!" movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:26 AM
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You would think so, but then tap tap tap on my shoulder to make sure I pay attention to some inane rambling. I usually look at anyone who does this with utter disgust and loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:37 PM
13

Perfect explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:29 PM
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Men don't ALLOW us to give a fake phone number. They call while we are standing there to check if we're lying or brushing them off. Women aren't the problem here, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:16 PM
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You know a lot of us are introverts and happy living our lives without constant interaction, right? Not sad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:10 PM
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Ugh, if I'm at a coffee shop reading, do not interrupt me! I'm READING.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:08 PM
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On this thread, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:23 PM
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Well, not everyone in life will get to experience that, unfortunately. But that doesn't mean a life alone and loveless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:14 PM
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Men always say this, yet IT'S NOT TRUE. Women might be able to partner with some gross penniless dude tomorrow, but not a man she necessarily wants, SAME AS MEN. MEN could have a partner tomorrow also, but she may not be the person he's looking for. You will literally do and say ANYTHING not to take any responsibility for your own life. Stop blaming women because you're lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:11 PM
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Just because a person hasn't experienced romantic love does NOT mean that their life is "devoid of love." There are lots of ways to bring love and happiness into your life: spend time with children, volunteer with elderly, become close to others in your family of origin, join a hobby group, hang out with coworkers...I'm not saying that's perfect, but it's what many women already do, which is why people remark "Women have such great friend and family networks, they're supported by lots of people!…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:42 PM
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You will be learning and experimenting together. It's not only religious people, but I'm sure that many wait for marriage or at least serious dating before they have sex. Less pressure for you that way, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:33 PM
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I would encourage the man to look for women that are similar in experience and circumstance. Religions are full of people who are waiting until marriage before having sex. You would be among women who understand all the reasons that you waited. I think it will be harder for that man to find he is compatible with a 30+ woman who is sexually experienced. By 30, women know what they want; few will be willing to guide a virgin through not only sex but the dance of a relationship (not all; some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:19 PM
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You can want whatever, but his language towards his future bride is problematic. He says if SHE wants a baby...where is HE in this process? Is he informing his potential mate of his expectations (not that she still needs to cave to them) at the start of the dating process? Even other men were taking OP to task on his wording. It's not about being a SAHM, it's about a man informing his wife what she's allowed to do that is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:35 AM
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I'm sure prince whats-his-name absolutely would have kissed Snow White if she wasn't gorgeous. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:51 PM
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I married the band geek. Maybe people do whatever they want, not what "society" tells them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:42 PM
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So is she just a walking uterus to you who doesn't get to make her own decisions about her career and her financial health? The more I read this sub, the more I'm thankful that my husband isn't like the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:16 AM
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But he is not a SOURCE; he's just some dude giving an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:38 PM
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Just because some dude on YouTube says something, does not make it a source. You need peer-reviewed studies. This is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:28 PM
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All that tells me is that you have a lot of reckless drivers and unsafe roads in your country. I have found resource after resource stating troubling facts about femicide in Argentina, and how now the newest regime wants to remove the word "femicide" from your penal code, presumably because it looks as horrific as it is. Saying you have an astronomical amount of car accidents "but women murdered by their male partners is less" is NOT the flex you think it is. Also, blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:46 PM
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"Rage boils over amid Argentina’s unrelenting femicide crisis" https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2021/2/24/rage-boils-over-amid-argentinas-unrelenting-femicide-crisis It is disgusting that you think an "unrelenting femicide crisis" is BS and that there is no need for feminism. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:59 PM
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It's amazing to me just how many twists and turns the men in this sub will go through to blame women for literally everything on earth. No accountability whatsoever to the MEN who LEFT the mother single, who left his CHILD. Nope. It's always and forever among the cretins here that it's her fault. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:53 PM
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Seeing your post history, I'm not surprised that you cannot fathom how women could be infinitely happier staying single. Maybe talk to a woman one day dude, and listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:28 PM
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You must be living in some sort of delulu land. I'm not even going to try to use logic with you. Good luck with life!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:46 PM
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Same, yet I'm a woman. But I left the church and stood up for myself. You can, too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:29 PM
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Not all women scream, either. When SHTF, I tend to hyper focus on the tasks and details (ADHD) and basically shut down the emotional side. My husband even commented on how good I am in a crisis (and we've suffered through a few), but it's not like I'm doing anything special; it's just how my brain works. Maybe stop thinking what you see on a screen is the entirety of real life and step outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:56 AM
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If it's acceptable to judge women as "whores" and "ran through" because they engage in the exact activity that men do without stigma, then yes, I will judge the crap out of you for going to a brothel. If you want sex acceptance, then be prepared to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:20 PM
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It comes from MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, as well as the lived experiences of my friends and family. I am so sick of the men in this sub (#NotAllMen 😒) who think that women are just too stupid to know when a guy is actively harming us and so blames movies for us being wary. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:06 PM
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Are you confessing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:04 PM
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Statistically, men are more likely to experience physical violence from other MEN. Not the gotcha you think your comment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:03 PM
3

Clearly he's not getting matched with the women he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:49 AM
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Then your looks better be top-notch, my guy. Beautiful women don't need to settle for some dude who never leaves his house and is mid at best. Far be it for be to agree with RP, but you better be making good $$$ and working out at the gym a lot. I mean, why would they choose YOU if they are bombarded with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:35 AM
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Having toys, some are bi, there are a lot of women who don't need men to enjoy themselves. Also, sex just isn't as important to a lot of us. Being "celibate" sounds like some religious description, whereas many of these women are perfectly fine not having sex for great swaths of time. We don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:06 PM
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Oh, we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:38 PM
3

If society depends on the entrapment of half of it, then it deserves to collapse or evolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 PM
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I mean, you were "sold a lie," but that lie was BASED on the entrapment of an entire gender. If I was told I could have a clean home, hot meals and sex on demand but it required Black people to be coerced into this life or left destitute, I would be pissed on their behalf, not lamenting why I can't get that action anymore. Maybe the men complaining the loudest are individuals who should be left behind when society progresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:26 PM
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Does constant complaining actually get them laid? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:22 PM
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I'm just saying what is likely from her POV; that if your ex (for some miraculous reason) came back, you'd go right back to her. Maybe you weren't clear that you were over her, maybe new woman is insecure, maybe a little bit of both. Something to consider: is the issue that you don't hate your ex (which is a good thing imo) OR that when random conversation comes up, you steer it like "Yes, I've been to that ice cream shop; it was (ex's) FAVORITE!", "Yeah, (ex) and I wanted to see that movie but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:12 PM
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The vibe I get from your post is that, if your ex never moved away, you'd still be together. That does not bode well for a new relationship. It's like, if not for logistics, you would not even be on this date with the new woman. I really don't think you are over your ex, which is no one's fault, but I completely understand why this woman decided to dip out. Having said that, I'd rather be with someone who is civil to their exes rather than hostile; they just need to have firm boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:33 AM
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Same. Basically ruined my life not to be diagnosed until mid-30s for debilitating ADHD symptoms because I wasn't "jumping around like the boys." I think the consensus disregards how many girls are also left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:58 PM
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We don't just feel that way; it legitimately WAS THAT WAY. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:15 PM
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So women doing the same work as men should be paid less so men can get their d!ck wet? No wonder so many of you can't find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:29 PM
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You are mis-quoting. Lesbian divorce rates INCLUDE their divorces to Men before they pursued female partners. This is not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:42 AM
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Who you protecting us from, yourselves? Men commit 90% of violent physical assaults. Men perpetrate 95% of all serious domestic violence. Stats taken from US Dept of Justice. https://trueselfhealinggroup.com/statistics-on-domestic-violence#:~:text=Ninety%20percent%20of%20people%20who,of%20all%20serious%20domestic%20violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:38 AM
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👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:32 AM
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They are not thinking about children at that point (just starting a conversation before dating); it is 100% about men feeling inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:31 AM
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Pretty sure the OP doesn't actually know any women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:53 AM
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Like I love my family but when they ask if I want to go to some event, I'm like "Bye! Have fun!" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:34 AM
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Right? Like I'm practically a shut-in! I love staying home and reading or knitting while listening to audiobooks. My husband and daughter go to concerts and stuff and leave me home. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:28 AM
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OP has clearly never met an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:11 AM
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It's not "artificial hysteria" for anyone in a marginalized group: women, trans folks, Black or Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, etc. We have been fighting for our right to exist, our right to control our own bodies, our right have our voices heard. I think technology has allowed, say, the Tates of the world to spread their hate at a more rapid pace and targeted way, but those of us who are persecuted have always tried to rise up against our oppressors. I also think that there is some panic among the rulin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:38 AM
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I agree with most of your post until you said you don't think women naturally have these opinions. What opinions, that we are able to leave the kitchen and seek other education and employment if we want? That's not inflamed by hysteria; we call that progress. Otherwise, most of the other things made sense and you provided lots of references. The thing about manufacturing jobs disappearing is tied to the pervasive control the uber-wealthy have over the economy, and I think many of the social issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:04 PM
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Totally! My parents modeled bad relationship behavior (LOTS of yelling, manipulation, silent treatment) and early on, I did those very things. After I broke up with my bf, I reflected but still started making those same mistakes. By this dude (my husband), I learned that what I saw growing up was toxic behavior and to not do that. I use my words now when something upsets me. Even during the course of this relationship, I also had to learn not to say things that can never be taken back and to foc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:33 PM
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Agree to everything. My husband and I have changed a lot in our 31 years together. It takes work and you learn things over time, like how to disagree fairly. I also would not want to start with someone brand-new, teach them how to please me in and out of the bedroom, but I'm 54, so maybe someone in their 30s wouldn't mind inexperience. But I don't have the patience for fumbling around anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:14 PM
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I never said a man owes a woman kindness. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:31 PM
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Totally agree. No one is owed a date or a relationship because they were nice or helpful. It increases your chances, but it feels like exchanging currency. I can't believe how awful a person must be to even ask "WHY should I be nice to ___ if I can't expect a date?". Just be kind! Make the world a slightly less shitty place than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:44 AM
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Cries in American For Social Security, you have to have a decade (I think) of earnings to qualify for retirement, which gets pushed later and later. There is no money if one is only a SAHP. I worked for a decade before I got pregnant, but otherwise, my country only cares about the fetus, not the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:43 PM
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Don't forget a retirement account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:30 PM
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Hahahahaha! Single women are far happier than single men. This link references multiple studies, ALL of which demonstrate this: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/19485506241287960 Keep projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:11 PM
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This isn't lived experience for most people; it's rage bait for clicks and likes. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:59 PM
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Women on YouTube is NOT real life. This is the crux of the problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:48 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:32 PM
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Ok, then leave those women to it. You are not the status she's seeking and she isn't the partner you are seeking. Are you only looking at 10s? They have the social clout to choose; the rest of us are pretty reasonable. #ChooseBetter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:29 PM
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Hmm...maybe if you had a couple more negative experiences, you would understand what ONE DAY is like living as a woman. And yes, I threw in the "hun" on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:24 PM
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You are so off base as to be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:16 PM
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Oh hun, we don't have to seek out examples of men behaving badly; they are shoved into every aspect of our lives every single day. And when so many of us (women) are having the same experience, then yes, we are going to complain about it. However, social media uses algorithms to show you MORE of what you engage with! If all you see are mean women online, then it's because that's what you keep seeking out. Or just get off TikTok like many of us. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:14 PM
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You just sound racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:56 PM
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Conservative parties only have harsher penalties for Brown and Black people, not White. Conservatives also tend to blame women (and even children) for the audacity of being raped. So no, I won't be voting or dating anyone Conservative. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:08 PM
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But it's NOT stealthing; that's been commented repeatedly. He was not unaware of her removing the condom. He ejaculated inside her on his own. He could have said no to removingthe condom, he could have stopped and come OUTSIDE of her, but these were decisions HE made. She can lie and say she's on BC just like he can lie and say he had a vasectomy or that he's free of disease. That is shitty but it's not stealthing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:26 PM
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Agree, but how do you enforce that? Even women taking BC religiously have a failure rate of like 4%. And Plan B isn't like taking Tylenol; it makes one very sick for a few days. Who is paying for her missed work? If you don't want a child, don't nut in women. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:48 PM
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How do you know it's most? There's a difference between SAHD who does all the things vs deadbeat dad who holds no job, doesn't parent, doesn't clean, just sits on his butt playing video games. Women def don't want the 2nd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:50 PM
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I think it's more nuanced than that, and should be decided by each set of parents. My daughter screamed bloody murder from the second she was born; she wouldn't even be alone in the bassinet in the hospital. Then she became colicky and that only got worse. It made logical sense for me to stay home because my husband had the more lucrative career, but I sacrificed things that I will never get back, things he did not have to sacrifice. My best friend, otoh, her infant son went to any and all peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:38 PM
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But then you talk about why she wants to go to the office when her staying home is what's best for the family. So which is it? Is it A parent at home is good, or only if the woman sacrifices her hopes and dreams to stay home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:28 PM
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Why can't the dad stay home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:13 PM
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Not in most states (and soon to be nationally) in the US! If a woman gets pregnant, even a young child who has been raped, it is accepted that it is 100% her fault. She must BEAR the child and shame and physical / financial / mental repercussions. Women are BEING JAILED for having miscarriages! JFC, if you don't want a child, keep your peen in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:11 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:35 PM
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So refreshing when the menz try to explain women's experiences to us. /s OBVIOUSLY
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:53 PM
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No she didn't. I'm a SAHM yet even I have other things to fulfill me then my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:49 PM
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When someone comes out with "99% of people..." and provides no research or anything, it is ALWAYS BS that they made up. So no, not believing literally anything you say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:44 PM
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Yes: men, please please go your own way. We good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:47 PM
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Hmm, where are your statistics? Proof? Anything but "vibes?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:45 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 This post is fake, right? OP clearly doesn't know happily single, child-free older women. They are out there, I know one. This post is utter crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:44 PM
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What panel? Where's your source? You realize that it depends on the demographic who responded to said panel. I didn't fill out a panel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:14 PM
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Actually, many of us DO approach men we're interested in. Maybe it's a YOU problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:54 PM
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Never thought of it that way. Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:46 PM
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The problem is so many men HERE aren't the type to just acknowledge what we women have said! You are not all Good Guys™️. There are so many comments that start with "But what if..." or "...that's not fair, I was...". So many of you HERE are trying to justify WHY you aren't accepting what we are telling you and just arguing WHY you think YOU are the exception. Many of you are the guys cat-calling women to make us uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:43 PM
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Misandry doesn't exist while society I a patriarchy. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:24 PM
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It's hard to listen to men when the statistics of rape and murder, on women BY men, is so abhorrent. Maybe stop killing us and we'll listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:17 PM
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So you are basing your entire philosophy on what you personally have experienced. Wow, what could be the issue there? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:05 PM
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Eighty percent of hunter-gatherer societies had WOMEN as hunters. Not only that: "The researchers also found that women played an active role in teaching hunting, and they used a wider variety of weapons and hunting strategies than men did." https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/early-women-were-hunters-not-just-gatherers-study-suggests-180982459/ Maybe the problem is the inherent sexism that is rampant, not the fact that there are single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:58 PM
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Here's an experiment: create a new account where you identify as a women, and see just what kind of harassment you get just for existing. Then you will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:13 AM
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I think that, for the first time in history, women can live our own lives like men have always gotten to, and it's amazing. We aren't property. We can open a bank account. We can earn our own money and get an education and control our reproduction (though that's being taken away brick by brick). It's FREEDOM that even our mothers never had, but men did. Some women are happy being married, having kids, but the truth is, many other women who got stuck in that life don't have to anymore, so there m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:11 AM
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I have a great relationship; 31st anniversary is next week. But if he died, I'd never do it again. My daughter (20s) is not remotely interested in a bf; she is working, has lots of friends she socializes with, is just living her life. A man would have to seriously offer her something worth changing her good life for. It's not that he might not be a great person, but she's happy NOW. Her friends are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:53 AM
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It doesn't matter if our standards are high! And who are you to decide what that is for ME?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:49 AM
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Do you know how many times men threaten us that if women pull away, all the men will go crazy and rape us anyway? It's a lot, more than you can imagine. We KNOW ALREADY it's "not all men," but it sure is enough of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:46 AM
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Ok, but what are you doing specifically to attract the woman you want? Like we keep saying, you aren't necessarily competing with other men; you are competing for time and energy in an already established, fulfilling life. Women support themselves now. We need more than threats or complaints to make us want to pair up with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:41 AM
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It's almost like women have been saying this very thing for years. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:37 AM
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"I want a woman to work full-time but I'm still going to call myself a traditional provider and want her to do all the gross housekeeping, child-rearing duties." --the men in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:26 PM
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WOMEN HAVE BEEN YELLING THIS FOREVER!!! You want US to "choose better" and blame domestic violence victims, and we tell you those men lie. They didn't start out like that. Pot, meet kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:40 PM
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Honestly, I had to stop watching them for that very reason. All of the drama was stressing me out! But yeah, I love my drama-free life but it's nice to zone out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:52 AM
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Your premise is wrong; women (and men) can have any expectations they want. We just have to live with the consequences (being without a partner) if they're very high. And yes, this is like one big incel sub now. All you guys do is complain about what's wrong with women. Some of you seriously need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:49 AM
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Those things listed have NEVER been women's mantra. Do you even know women irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:16 PM
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Then what was more important to you is to stick to traditional gender roles. Women who pursue are out here. My husband and I kind of both pursued each other, and I was the one to buy a ring and propose, not him. If women want you (for the most part), we will pursue, but if that switch in gender roles offends, then you might end up alone or perpetuating what men "claim" not to want to do anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:26 PM
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Like my husband. Single mom with graduate degree and career. He turned out amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:54 AM
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Absolutely. No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:51 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/03/01/the-enduring-grip-of-the-gender-pay-gap/#:~:text=Younger%20women%20%E2%80%93%20those%20ages%2025,in%20at%20least%20four%20decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:10 PM
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But you're ok with MEN getting paid more for the same work. See how hypocritical that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:56 AM
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"...inappropriately influenced by feminism..."? So you don't believe in equality and removing barriers women face. Gotcha. It's unbelievable that you call yourself a Democrat. Bet you haven't been over to that sub, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:02 AM
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What century are you living in? You think women don't have any pressure to earn a living? Buy a home? Save for retirement? Or is your solution to just marry some dude and serve him like it's 1953? If you think the reason that there are fewer women in STEM careers is becauseof lack of hard work, then I invite you to go over to the Women In Stem sub. The things they have to put up with from their unfair and even disgusting male bosses and coworkers is miserable. Same thing with women in the trades…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:45 AM
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Just an FYI, in case OP is under 20: people gain weight as they age, for all kinds of reasons (and not just women). If you are ready to dump your wife for gaining weight, then you should also assume if you have an accident or lose your hair, she should also leave. My husband and I, however, have a deep love and friendship and will stay together through thick and thin, unlike your shallow examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:47 AM
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One, I have absolutely shamed my female friends for having unreasonable expectations. Two, you can have any preferences you want, but if they are so narrow that no one can meet them (who is willing to date you), then STOP COMPLAINING about "the male loneliness epidemic!" If you are only willing to settle for that 1 in a million woman, then you are choosing singlehood unless you meet her. It is NOT the responsibility of other women to lower our standards and accept you when you would never do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:05 AM
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Your post is like 10,000 words; ain't nobody reading all that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:51 PM
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I'm not arguing with you about ND people being a good thing in a society, and for the record, I also am ND. But all that goes back to my point that no one is owed a date because they are ND, and it's not ableist to reject someone because they don't want to put in the work to adjust to that person's "quirks." I'm thankful my husband puts up with mine, but again, we are in a LTR, not just starting out. Do ND people deserve respect? Obviously. Do we deserve accommodations to be effective in the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:10 PM
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You keep putting words in my mouth that I NEVER said. I never ever referred to autism as a defect or disease; that's YOU saying those things. But it is a disability, even by your standards, because it limits how you interact with society at large. <image> For the record, my husband doesn't consider himself a defect or diseased, either. He is currently training for Paralympic tryouts. Maybe you have some bias, also.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:25 PM
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My husband also has a complete spinal cord injury. Also, I never called anything "a defect," but I called them both disabilities, as BOTH are recognized as such by the Americans With Disabilities Act. They are both eligible for payment under the Social Security Administration as disabilities. My point is, if your friend wasn't a para, would you be so knowledgeable about her condition? Do you think random people are? It's unreasonable to think that all the people are going to research literally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:33 AM
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I mean, are you out there educating yourself on paraplegia? What about blindness? The list of disabilities goes on and on; no one is going to spend their limited time randomly searching for this unless they meet someone with a disability first. The other thing is, having a disability and having a crappy personality aren't mutually exclusive. And there are many autistic women who won't date autistic men because the common complaint is that they (not all men 🙄) use their actual disability as an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:50 PM
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65% do. I already said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:28 PM
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I wasn't, either, but when 65% of women in casual relationships have an orgasm compared to 95% of men, yes, we feel used for your own pleasure. And the studies I linked in my other comment go on to say that it isn't biologic but cultural. So enjoy your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:23 PM
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Because statistics prove (as well as thousands of comments from actual women) that in casual sex, women are far less likely to orgasm: https://theconversation.com/the-orgasm-gap-and-why-women-climax-less-than-men-208614 And now that our reproductive rights are being trampled, why would women subject themselves to bad sex, possible pregnancy and all the financial and health risks that accompany it, just because MEN think we are privileged? LMAO get real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:21 PM
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"Being able to be used by men for sex...". FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:10 PM
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No one wants an arsonist to be a firefighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:59 PM
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Yes, thanks for explaining personal safety to women who are aware, from cradle to grave, that men want to harm us. Maybe you could spend some time chastising the men THREATENING TO RAPE ALL WOMEN AND GIRLS if they don't get their way in the dating arena. Edit to say the number of rape kits that get shoved in a warehouse, never to see the light of day, and the number of cops who treat victims like we ASK to be assaulted, is WHY we won't turn to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:12 PM
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Ha. Who are all those military and police protecting us from? OTHER MEN, by a large majority. I mean, women aren't going around starting wars and invading countries. And don't act like there aren't a significant number of women in those professions. There would probably be more if not for the code of silence around the sexual assault of female soldiers. My neighbor is one, a soldier assaulted by someone in her unit. Not only did her brass basically ignore the violence, she was forced to serve WI…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:09 PM
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Of course you don't want to continue to talk about the double standard of fat men disparaging fat women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:50 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I said. Maybe fit men have crappy personalities? The point is, fit, gorgeous ppl are likely to want other fit, gorgeous ppl. The majority of men complaining that all women are fat don't acknowledge that just as many men are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:44 PM
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Sure. You realize that men have been threatening and attacking women since the dawn of time, right? And now you think we should worry our way to dating losers for "protection?" No. Women will need to protect ourselves, as usual. In fact, studies prove that women are more likely to intervene (on a woman's behalf) than men: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10240636/#:~:text=Most%20studies%20focused%20upon%20the,of%20intervention%20behaviour%20being%20considered. So maybe men aren't the sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:42 PM
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I think it's the double standard of obese gross men thinking they deserve a hotty. Like, look in the mirror, bro. The obesity rates are almost even.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:29 PM
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See, along with financial security, women are learning personal security, and that means firearms and self-defense. You think you are going to go on a rape and murder spree? Be prepared. We aren't backing down. Also: way to out yourself, Mr. "It's not an endorsement just what I'd like to happen."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:24 PM
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So, your research is skewed. You only get this response from "women who are tipsy." Are they tipsy in their own apartment? Probably not, I assume you are meeting them out in public, like in a club or bar. So your sample size may lead you to believe that most women think this, but you are only asking women who go to bars and get mildly (or more) drunk. And from that group, you are probably only asking the cute ones. I never ever went clubbing, my entire life. I think I went to a bar once when my …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:44 AM
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Like what? A hundred? And out of say, 100 women (compared with 169.6 MILLION women in the US alone, as of 2023), you think you personally have your finger on the pulse of what women want? How they think? Your ego is breathtaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:31 AM
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So now you know thousands?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:24 AM
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Wow, you must personally know BILLIONS of women! Impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:56 PM
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I'm an American woman. I told you about my husband, and in other posts mentioned that he is 5'5", not rich, and nerdy (I actually got down voted for saying short men can be happily married!). I never made any list. While I am a SAHM (which he really likes), I also supported both of us when he went to grad school. This narrative by miserable people that only Chads get women is patently false. It takes out the reality that so many of the miserable ppl just have a crappy personality. Obviously, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:34 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:34 PM
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So is the 2nd man less attractive or *un(attractive? Because your post says both and that is a difference. My husband is not conventionally attractive, but his kindness and wicked sense of humor made me take a closer look and I find him cute. I was not the only one, other women dated him, but no one would look at him (or me) and think he's gorgeous. The personality made me stop and think, but I wouldn't date someone that I didn't find attractive; I mean, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:27 PM
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Feminism is not about making the genders equal; it is about removing barriers for women to have the same experiences and benefits men receive by nature of being born male. Feminism does not exist to lift up men; it exists to lift up WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:49 PM
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The information I referenced was found on all of WVa news organizations. It appears that TODAY they have clarified and those articles have been pulled. So I wasn't the only one who saw what was originally published. It sounds like you're upset about that! I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:27 PM
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As an American woman, I am watching our rights vanish before my eyes. I'm terrified for what will happen to my daughter, sisters and niece. Just TODAY, West Virginia has passed a bill that would allow medical personnel to view the genitals of young children for whatever reason, WITHOUT PARENTAL CONSENT. This is just ONE of the many things happening DAILY here. Is this as bad as Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan? Of course not. But respectfully, what do you think I can do about that? I can't get change…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:08 AM
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It's actually science.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:59 PM
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Just ask a Korean woman about their experiences; you know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:38 PM
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It's nothing but cell material; not a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:38 PM
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As in, it is THE INDIVIDUAL WOMAN'S DECISION what happens with her body. If she wants to end her pregnancy (the man is not pregnant), then THAT'S HER CHOICE, not his.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:43 PM
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It isn't offspring before it's born. Are you paying child support before your child is born? No? Then stay out of our bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:32 AM
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Why is literally every post these days "Women = BAD, and here's why"? Your own post makes YOU seem like the toxic person in this scenario. JFC, some of you seriously need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:30 AM
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How? The women lost their jobs so they could teach their children AND take care of their sick husbands, often getting sick as well. And not every woman was fired, just like not every man is outside on a oil rig. Lots of men work desk jobs and plenty of women work trades or nursing, which took the brunt of everything terrible about that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:29 AM
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You know they brought it home, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:22 AM
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"This isn't an attack on women" Also OP: "Female sexuality is narcissistic" 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:36 AM
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4B started in Korea by women who have little rights in a heavily patriarchal society. They have every right to say "enough" and pull away from the shackles they don't want. The fact is, these women have been harmed personally and as a group by men, and their criticisms are absolutely valid. It should be noted, however, that they are anti-trans. Women in America have seen our rights and freedom dismantled at a time when domestic violence rates have risen, and lockdown saw more women then men sacr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:13 PM
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It's more complex than that. It that woman in your example has been home for 16+ years, she is not going to be able to just wander onto LinkedIn and find a job. She may need education or retraining. She may need to start lower on an earnings scale all because SHE was the one to sacrifice her career for the benefit of EVERYONE. That's what alimony is for; child support is different and goes at least until 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:47 PM
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Those policies will affect my daughter, my niece, my sisters, the women in my community. I fight for them, so they have options. The planet cannot support unrestricted growth; the solution is a combination of immigration and taxation on billionaires, not forcing white women to birth the next generation of cogs for the machine. Screw the birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:54 AM
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The guy I replied to implied that regardless of how awful some of our prospects were, we still had prospects. That implies WE should lower our standards. Take it up with him; he's the one who started this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:52 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:54 PM
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You assume that everyone with a vagina is just dying to breed. This is not the case. And for the record, women don't care at all about the birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:52 PM
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This is what men say to women all the time. You complain our standards are too high and we should date ppl we aren't attracted to because "we're nice guys." I don't agree with that, attraction is what it is, but it's the constant double standards men throw out that I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:50 PM
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Women have been telling you this. Forever. You (men in general) want to change your public image? Not be feared as a group? Then call out your own people when they say or do bad, problematic things. Women ALL know that all men aren't rapist-killers, but we ALSO know that the vast majority of you EXCUSE this behavior in your friends and colleagues: "He was just joking", " Don't be so sensitive", "Did you lead him on?", etc. You have PROVEN that you as a collective cannot be trusted regardless of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:20 PM
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I have. Alimony isn't free money because she's a woman; it's compensation for the parent who lost their income to care for children. Just because women typically are the ones to make that sacrifice doesn't mean alimony is granted to them because they have a vagina. It's because the SAHP's free labor needs to be compensated in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:57 AM
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No, it's for the person who lost their career to stay home. If that is a man, it's for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:29 AM
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And how many of those women were SAHMs or worked part-time to take on most of the childcare? Alimony mostly goes to women because WOMEN are largely sacrificing their careers and future earnings for the benefit of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:04 PM
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Men place emphasis on women's looks above all else, no matter what the circumstance. It's been proven that beautiful women get hired and promoted at jobs much more than not-attractive women, regardless of ability. Men who cold approach women in public are basically saying "I want to have sex with you" because you are basing the possibility of any interaction on how she LOOKS, not how smart she is, or how crazy, or how incompatible you might be; your premise is COMPLETELY based on her outward app…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:34 PM
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What you don't know about women could fill volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:07 AM
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Calling for women to be passive and any of us not are "toxic" is telling way more about you, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:51 AM
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WTAF is this crap? This reads like an incel manifesto or something. How is this post even allowed? There is so much misogyny here I could vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:47 AM
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The world is bigger than YOU. Calling women gold diggers is something seen ALL OVER men's comments. This doesn't have anything to do with living by yourself. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:06 PM
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But it's ironic that many men still believe this trope when society is built on the free exploited labor of women, yet you all believe we're taking from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:45 PM
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They call women gold diggers while simultaneously depending on the free labor women provide with regards to more housework and child birth/raising.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:42 PM
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Well, since young women have been exposed to this dynamic since the beginning of time, now the FO portion is here with drops in het relationships and an ever-dropping birthrate. At least the young women won't have to accept this, and rising numbers of older women are divorcing their husbands and freeing themselves. Good luck, young dudes! Your older men brought this on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:22 PM
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Completely false. There are women everywhere who bust their asses cooking, cleaning, working, raising the kids and putting their makeup on only for their male partners to take them for granted and put forth zero effort themselves. Why do you think so many women are just opting out of dating now? It's less work for greater reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:09 AM
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You do; lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:27 PM
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Here you go, spewing nonsense about women's dating options that you don't understand. What's the alternative--decide at 25 to be single for life? Stalk the woman who isn't interested? You aren't giving any positive advice, just regurgitating red pill BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:17 PM
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That's a red flag. You can't find one thing interesting about literally half the population? You think we're alien beings? How are you going to relate to a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:13 PM
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Here's the thing...when we are all young and struggling and trying things out with dating, we are all weird and awkward at the same time. When you have not had 1 relationship before and you are now in your 30s, you are awkward and lack experience, but I don't. I have done all that decades ago. I don't want to start back there with someone who has no clue; I want a partner who can keep up with me. This will be a deabreaker for some women (me) and others may be charmed and want to be your first. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:08 PM
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What is it the men always say? Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:25 AM
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Sing it, sister!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:53 PM
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Maybe address your fellow men who berate women who choose to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:51 PM
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All women don't think with 1 mind. We don't all feel like your roommate. Date who you want. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:18 PM
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If you wanted something more then sex, then READ THE PROFILE. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:19 PM
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You understand consent can be withdrawn at any time, even during sex. So even if I signed a form (which I would never do), I can still change my mind. And yeah, it's over the top. I'd be out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:49 AM
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"Don't know their place" is crap racists say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:41 AM
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Men: learn what social cues are. If I've got earbuds in and am actively doing something, don't talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:08 AM
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100% agree. This is the heart of what women are embracing: make a good life for yourself. If a partner comes along and adds to it, great! If not, you still have a good life. Men should absolutely adopt this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:28 AM
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It. Depends. On. The. Women. I did answer you. I never said women are better at making friends; my husband has a huge, deep friend group, some for decades. I don't. I said all women aren't the same. You are blaming me for a contradiction I didn't make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:24 AM
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More women attempt suicide then men, but our methods aren't as violent, leaving more women still alive. Men have the ability to go seek mental health resources. You don't have to tell anyone you are doing it if you feel it crosses your social conditioning. You have the ability to use medications as a tool to improve your life. If men aren't choosing to help themselves, what do you want us to do about it? I've nagged my own husband and father to get seen by various doctors, yet they resist. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:25 PM
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Reddit subs geared towards women (TwoX, feminism subs) are clogged with men whining about "what about us". Those places aren't for you! You might be allowed in, but they are for us to discuss our issues. Would you go to a gay-centered sub and complain about your cis problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:22 PM
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Men are not a marginalized group. Also: I have never in my life seen any "He For She" things in action; that was just marketing. Women and minority groups don't have the same legal rights and protections white men do (although this conversation isn't about them specifically). Do you want us to march for billionaires, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:19 PM
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Not all women are the same? Women aren't a monolith? There aren't contradictions, just different women experiencing different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:15 PM
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I think women complain about men talking about the "male loneliness epidemic" not because men are lonely (most ppl these days are) but because men talk about it everywhere, especially in women's spaces, as if you want US to solve your problems for you. Women have a lot going on right now; we look out for the men in our lives (not just romantic partners, either) but it's not my job to get you a date; that's what you should be talking about with each other, just like women talk about things with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:46 AM
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Newsflash: Women deserve the same rights as men. Period. If you can come on to this public forum and bellyache about women, then stfu about women stating our preferences out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:01 PM
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You absolutely are blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:58 PM
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I've said it before: if society removes the freedom of me / my sisters / my daughter, then burn it all down. I'm not going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:57 PM
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It's not a solution for WOMEN. I'm going with NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:55 PM
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"Life and society were so much better when women kept their mouths shut and just accepted sexual slavery in order not to starve. Why can't we go back?" --OP Next you'll be lamenting the Male Loneliness Epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:49 PM
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You don't get it. Also, my husband is 5'5". What are you talking about, other than nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:11 PM
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My husband is not a Nice Guy; he is a kind man. They are not the same. If you don't get it, ask ANY woman; we have too many encounters with the former. Also; they both (Nice Guys & Bad Boys) suck imo. But at least with BBs, you know what you're getting. NGs pretend to be nice and your friend while having ulterior motives. At least BBs are honest. Edit: a word
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:09 PM
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My husband is 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:09 PM
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I was never into guys who encouraged heavy drinking, unprotected sex or driving recklessly. That's stupid to assume women are all the same because we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:42 PM
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But that's not how you are presenting it. You go on about tall, rich etc, and when I or other women say that there are lots of us with different preferences, you tell us (women) that what women feel or experience is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:39 AM
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My husband: 5'5", nerdy (classical musician), not rich, kind. We've been married 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:59 AM
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I think every person has both masculinity and femininity within their psyche, like yin and yang. They way each individual chooses to express those traits is based on things like their social circle, personality, beliefs, etc. There are infinite ways to express those characteristics, and really, calling something a "male" trait vs a "female" trait is based on social norms, the way assertiveness is praised by society in men but condemned in women. That's not biology, that's social acceptance or st…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:00 PM
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Xena, warrior princess! And I was thinking that, too: masculinity is not just the purview of men, and femininity is not just for women. Also, there are more than 2 genders (I'm not debating this here) that also have masculine and feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:37 PM
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Yeah, you aren't a feminist. I can tell by your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:27 AM
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Women aren't having casual sex because of "social stigma;" they aren't having it because the risks on women have skyrocketed. Birth control is getting harder to find (Indiana just cut condoms and IUDs from a bill seeking to expand bc access, stating to use "the rhythm method"), many men don't want to wear condoms, and the rest of the healthcare / abortion nightmare. Then there's the documented orgasm gap. If women aren't even having a good time, WHY would they put their lives and freedom at risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:07 PM
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I was pointing out OP's hypocrisy of claiming all women assume men are A or B, while this is a common theme that men in this sub claim that women are A or B.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:59 PM
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Many states have already outlawed abortions before 6 weeks, when most women don't know they are even pregnant yet. And you all act like an abortion is as easy-breezy for the woman as getting a Starbucks! JFC, it is expensive, * it is *painful, you will miss work, it definitely can cause depression, and you fling it around like you changed your mind after the server took your food order. Once the penis enters the vagina, your choices are over. The burden is now on HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:13 AM
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I have seen multiple times in this sub alone men that divide women into 2 groups: wifey material or hoes (not my description). Maybe before you complain about women, talk to your own peeps. Also: Women are not a monolith. Some like "bad boys." Some don't. Some don't like men at all and some do. WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:48 AM
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This sub is breathtakingly misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:58 AM
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This is a book review, not science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:54 AM
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Obesity is an entire science, it is a symptom of greater disease in the body. There are plenty of women who eat well and exercise regularly and gain weight due to hormones, medications, other systemic diseases, etc. You have no idea about her exercise habits from looks alone. I'm not debating this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:53 PM
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I just want to point out that while I don't know why someone who doesn't like to be active would pursue someone who does, if you are just going by "looks" with the couples you see out in nature, you wouldn't know if she exercises or not. There are many reasons for obesity that don't correlate with activity level, especially from medications. Opposites attract? No idea, but my husband is really social and I'm not and we've worked it out so...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:40 PM
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If 80% of violent crime were perpetrated by pandas, everyone would be suspicious of pandas. You would pass pandas on the street and not know if that panda was going to cause you harm because statistically, if you were attacked by anyone, it would be by a panda. This has no bearing on how I feel about the victim of that crime, I have no idea how you inferred that. No, 80% of pandas don't commit violence, but 80% of violence comes from pandas, so it would behoove everyone, even the nice pandas, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:58 PM
1

And who is threatening you? Are women committing all that violence? Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:33 PM
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Like he walked right up to the point and still didn't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:44 PM
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This should be put on posters everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:36 PM
3

Very good explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 AM
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Also a SAHM. These guys have no clue the amount if work it takes to successfully run a home, parent the kids and solve literally all the problems with no sick days, no paid anything, no Social Security for all of this free labor. While I love my family, I told my daughter to always earn her own money. Money = choice and security. And a retirement fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:30 PM
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Better than being constantly threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:44 PM
1

Absolutely. Why should we have to keep rising above? It's called irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:22 PM
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Well, it's not my job to fix it. If they don't want to wallow in loneliness and despair, men are going to have to fix their own issues. Or accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:30 PM
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You have NO IDEA what life is like for lonely women; speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:28 PM
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Not my mother unfortunately. But I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:02 PM
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We're criticizing the audacity of sub-par men publicly criticizing those women. NONE of that would have happened if the men didn't start it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:58 PM
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YOU GET IT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:12 AM
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Most of the "men bad" posts are experiences we women have actually had with bad men. Most of the "woman bad" posts are from whiners who hate that any woman they want won't sleep with them. They are not the same. Also, no, I really don't care about a society built on the unpaid labor and subservience of women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:54 AM
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I know that account! I follow her (I totally forget her name tho). They ALWAYS look like the sad losers they are while criticizing some amazing woman for not being amazing enough for their lofty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:16 AM
2

So what's the problem? You can't talk to each other after you run around playing sportball?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:13 AM
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Completely wrong. My husband has many male friends, some for decades, and they call each other, text, go out to eat or to a concert, whatever. He (and they) make the effort to stay close and connected. If you don't, that's on you. My brothers-in-law are the same, play sports with their friends or other stuff. It's not all men, just the "woe is me, women are bad" crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:22 AM
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If you can't inspire one person in 40 years to love you, that's on YOU, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:19 PM
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This sub is yellow, leaning toward red flag. I can't count how many MANY posts are basically "women = bad, but they should all date us anyway." I have to admit, it's like I can't look away from the catastrophe it's become. PPBro subs are also 90% "I want a woman slave to use and abuse for my own purposes, but not a gold digger." Red flag there. Even some of the men there are starting to complain how incel-y they've become.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:17 PM
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Not sure what the point of this post is. Sure, there are lonely people, but what do you want us to do about it? You aren't entitled to another person's attention or affection just because YOU are lonely. That's life, and sometimes it sucks. Also, isolated from society is not the same as no girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:58 PM
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"Build-a-Bitch" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:36 PM
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"Why won't women just be happy being slaves to men?"--this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:32 PM
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Absolutely what women have been saying for a while. Singledom is a choice many women make willingly. Isn't it better that a woman chooses you because she likes you rather than she's desperate not to be homeless?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:44 PM
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What do dildos have to do with anything? You never wank off? Dildos allow women to get what they need, when they want it, while being discerning about who they want to date. No need to jump into bed with any ol' dude when you can fulfill your own needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:16 PM
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"You have a lot of choice." Why don't you eat all the food you ever come across? Look at everything in the grocery store! Amazing! What about the spoiled meat or rotten apples? That's food, why are you so picky, why don't you try it? How about that dumpster FULL of food items! You should really try stuff rather than decide you don't want it beforehand. What do you mean, you hate tuna? There's a TON of tuna here and it's good for you. Just make the decision to eat what's available and good for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:47 PM
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How many of these posts are made by young boys who have never in their lives dated any girls? Like, what even is this premise? Something I see a lot of by men is the idea of hanging around the woman they desire, even as a friend, in the hopes that she will wake up one day and declare her love. That's the opposite of this post. I casually knew my husband around college before we dated; he was in fact married to someone else, we had a few classes together. Honestly I never really gave him much tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:42 PM
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So your entire rant, sorry PREMISE, is that women need to know exactly what they want in a relationship. But these women have made it clear that they don't want to be in a relationship because of a variety of reasons. That seems pretty obvious to me that THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AND HAVE TOLD YOU. You just refuse to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:49 AM
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I am married. I love him but have been very vocal that I would never do it again. My daughter and many of her 20s friends aren't interested in dating at all. There is a huge number of women of menopausal age who divorce and are happier single and say they will never partner again. Just go to women's spaces, it's all over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:40 PM
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We are, and now the menz are threatening to r*pe us all "for civilization" if we don't lower our standards and start popping out babies with unappealing men (see: another post on this sub). I personally was even told that French and Ukrainian women subjugated themselves during war, why do I think I'm special. So, you (men in general, not all men) can't expect women to stay with losers who are literally threatening violence against us for having standards, yet tell us to "go our own way."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:28 PM
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Hahahaha we are armed and prepared. Go ahead and try to terrorize us. And who is "sweaty?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:38 PM
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Ew. I have a husband (30 years), too. You're the one obsessed with women sacrificing themselves "for civilization."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:50 AM
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You may not know this, but there is a growing collective of women who, if things really turn towards Taliban-levels, are 100% ready to unalive ourselves. We will NOT be slaves to men; dying is vastly preferable. This is what men never get about the man vs bear debate; there are MANY things worse than death. You think you are going to enslave me because you can't entice literally one woman? We are armed, we are prepared and we are willing to DIE. I couldn't care less about a "civilization" that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:01 AM
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I couldn't finish this fairytale of "hardworking men choosing the best providers for their daughters." What a load of crap. Fathers chose a prospective spouse based on what benefits HE could garner; the daughters were chattel. If civilization depends on enslaving me, my sisters and our daughters, then burn it all down. We aren't going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:29 AM
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Novels aren't real life; they are 100% fiction. I'm not going to run into a vampire prince at the grocery store, but my husband could absolutely run into some woman with an only fans account. I'm not against all porn, but there is a problematic portion with the making of it and I do think a line should be drawn between watching a video vs. interacting with a real woman you could go out and meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:43 AM
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Women don't need to be told that men are abusers; a VAST MAJORITY of us have experience with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:15 PM
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Someone needs to take a count of just how many posts in this sub are men nagging women to lower their standards and date men they don't want to. I feel like it's A LOT. NO ONE needs to lower their standards for choosing the person they are looking to share a life with. It's not like pizza toppings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:27 AM
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Actually, in some states, there is barely any evaluation on the children who are homeschooled, especially if it's claimed under the guise of religious preference. That's how some of these kids are unable to read and are victims of violence, because no one is checking up on them. Knowing how extreme some people's ideology is, there is no way I would just let anyone raise my kid. Pre-2016, there were more standards in place in public education (US). Now, it's pandemonium. But that's going beyond t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:24 PM
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You have no idea about women's options or whether it's even worth having random sex with men in our (US) climate where our bodily autonomy has been taken away. Keep repeating your rhetoric; THIS is why we have no empathy for men who spout nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:58 AM
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What, do you think friendships fell out of the sky for women? They require WORK to maintain. And my husband of 30 years also has a ton on male friends, some of whom he's known for decades. He also WORKS at maintaining those friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:14 PM
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A few things... First, the fact that you basically state that the only reason for a girlfriend is because you are lonely and she needs to fill the spot left empty by your floundering social life, is gross. You've got many paragraphs describing how difficult it is to keep male friends, get enough guys together to party, so insert woman here to get that off your plate. Where is the desire for her specifically? Where is the "I want someone to share my hopes and dreams with, to make a family with"? …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:33 PM
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My husband and his male friends are super close; he's know some of them for 40 years. For fun, the go to concerts, grab dinner together, sometimes go to a non-violent sporting event (like cycling), and are all each other's support. I have no idea what guys you hang around with who all want to maim and murder, but that's not many men. Of yeah, 80% of them are Army.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:40 PM
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We don't have to be neurotic when we've got statistics and experiences to back up our very logical fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:16 PM
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For a lot of women, family and friends DO substitute for a romantic relationship, and these women are happy. I'm not talking about women who can't find a partner they want, but there is a growing number of women who actively choose this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:53 PM
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We're going on 31 years. My philosophy is only 1 person can lose their shit at a time; someone has to steer the boat! But yeah, the accident was several years ago and it's made him more relaxed about things. I mean, once you survive something catastrophic, leaving the cap off the toothpaste really isn't important. Good luck with your relationship. For the record, I also call out women who think men should just "man-up" and be robots. That's not healthy and I hope women can lose the patriarchal a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:53 AM
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Look, I'm not going to tell you how to live with your relationship. I will tell you that there are times where my husband is going through shit (like when he got into an accident that left him a paraplegic), that I absolutely want him to confide his feelings to me. Of course, that's different than the year he hated his job and wanted to dump on me everyday about his toxic workplace. I couldn't handle every single day of complaining and encouraged him to see a therapist, which he did. Maybe you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:13 AM
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I feel kinda sad for you OP. If we weren't able to share our deepest emotions, I wouldn't be married to my husband for 30 years. He absolutely can be vulnerable with me, just like I feel safe being vulnerable with him. You don't have to change your opinion, obviously, but you are missing out on true connection with your partner and that's sad, for you as well as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:07 PM
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I mean, if you are shopping around 3rd world countries for the best you can het, why shouldn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:20 PM
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I wish I had a nickel for every post I read where some man berates women, then tells us to lower our standards for men. I would be rich indeed. Here's some news for you OP: men ALREADY think we are below them in every way. They think we are less intelligent, less capable, less attractive, less everything. Women live our entire lives dealing with mediocre men who look down at us. Why do you think women are opting out of dating, marriage and procreation at ever-rising numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:17 PM
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Sit this one out, Junior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:28 PM
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Women hate the double standard that so many men have. They want to have lots of sex but hate that in women. They want conservative women but expect sex immediately. They think they can be fat and old but expect women to be barely legal and thin with large breasts. It's the double standard. And yes, you can have any standard you want, but be prepared for others to judge you on it like so many men judge women for having any standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:28 PM
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Yes, extreme cold affects them also. Wow are you naive to think that isn't a common tactic in abusive relationships (general tampering with birth control). That's spelled out everywhere when you Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:11 PM
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Wow are you uninformed. States like TX are in the process of passing laws to PREVENT INTERSTATE TRAVEL to women or girls suspected of being pregnant. Ask yourself how they are going to determine that. And let's talk about the number of states who are trying to give women the death penalty for having an abortion. Just stfu about things you clearly aren't aware of and that you are privileged enough not to be bothered by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:03 PM
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Heat alters the molecular structure of oral contraceptives, rendering them ineffective. It's hard to find info just searching randomly but it's a specific tactic that men use and many women have experienced. This is why we say LISTEN TO WOMEN. Go to women's subs and this will come up as one of the ways men have tampered with their partner's BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:59 PM
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You realize you can Google this. They microwave them, which makes them ineffective. That's if the man is trying to be sneaky. Sometimes men just dump them in the bin or hide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:00 PM
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Or just, not fuck men. Leave you all to the pit you've made. Of course, the threats to rape and control us pop up literally everywhere, so maybe we aren't going to be compliant. Should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:05 PM
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Only a man would say that pregnancy is one of the easiest things to avoid. You clearly have no idea how ALL METHODS of birth control can fail, how no small minority of men stealth a woman mid act, how many times women have had their male partners tamper with their birth control, how many women are coerced or outright assaulted. Basically, you have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:02 PM
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You leave out men who stealth, who tamper with her BC pills, coercion and assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:45 PM
5

For a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:44 PM
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They killed WOMEN, not witches.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:02 AM
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The last time there was a concerted effort to accuse women of being witches, tens of thousands of women were brutally murdered. Maybe stop and meditate on your hatred towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:13 AM
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What you don't know is staggering. I'm not going to spend the time to do your research for you, feel free to just Google all the ways the world is setup as if men are the primary gender and women, the other HALF of the population, is sort of an "add-on." Like, only recently did car manufacturers start including female-shaped crash dummies in their crash tests, resulting in a statistically higher proportion of injury and death in crashes to women. This is ONE THING I remember off the top of my he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:22 PM
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Says the MAN. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:02 AM
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"Or, you can ignore the actual experience of women and what we say and just substitute what random men tell you we think instead, because no one should ever trust what women say about ourselves, our experiences, our likes, our dislikes, etc." This sums up every post I've seen on this sub, and most of Reddit for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:25 PM
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This entire post is about "the bad mom who raised her sons wrong" instead of the AH who left.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:58 PM
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Dude, the only 100% guarantee against pregnancy is abstinence. ALL other forms of contraception have failure rate: condoms, oral pills, IUD, vasectomy. But you are criticizing the parent who STAYED instead of the one who f*cked off. Where's your vitriol for THEM?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:54 PM
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That's the general attitude of this sub: "Women need to lower their standards" "Women don't like nice guys" "Women are misandrists to worry about all men" and yet, when anything bad happens, you blame women for not being prescient in their choices. It's literally no-win for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:51 PM
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Men: Women choose poorly. Also men: Why are women so picky? Maybe you just hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:07 PM
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"BuT wOmeN aRe So eMOtiOnAl!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:26 PM
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Wow, way to tell on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:24 PM
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It's because we either knew these men or they are friends of friends, mostly like that. I'd bet the minority are cold approached. And yes, average ppl just living our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:07 PM
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Some of you really need to go outside. All around you are average couples, most of them equal in looks. But I guess that wouldn't fit your narrative of hate all women, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:04 PM
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No, what I am talking about is our invisibility, how men will literally walk into me on the sidewalk or grocery store. I am talking about the disgust they display when an unattractive woman would talk to them for any reason. And yes, men are not the only ones home alone. Your anger says a lot more about you than you think. It's obvious why you aren't a feminist. No surprises here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:40 PM
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You literally told me that what I have experienced in my life is not true because you thought 1 woman 1 time was cute. And btw, I'm married to someone who DOESN'T mansplain my life to me, and is also a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:01 AM
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Thanks for mansplaining my life experience to me 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:07 AM
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You should see how men treat those of us older / not hot women! We're lucky when they only ignore us and aren't outwardly hostile. So maybe save your condescension
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:55 PM
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MANY women are in this situation. Why do you think we are complaining about the lack of an attentive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:25 PM
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But for women it OFTEN is a burden, especially if the man just gets himself off and rolls over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:24 PM
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Why? Just because our labor was unpaid doesn't mean birthing children, raising them largely alone, cooking and cleaning aren't WORK and SACRIFICE. And in rural communities, women worked on the farm also.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:04 PM
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Where has it been debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:58 PM
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https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/living-alone/#:~:text=The%20study%20found%20that%20unmarried,but%20it%20also%20raises%20questions.%E2%80%9D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:26 PM
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Go outside. Look around. There are couples everywhere (my own included with my 5'5" not rich husband) that are both average. This is a online dating problem, not a real life problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:24 PM
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So what you're saying is, the world is built on women's unpaid labor. Now that women want what MEN have been given by virtue of being born with a Y chromosome, the menz are screaming into the void about the planet burning or something. The reality is, it was ALWAYS about a class war. Women are opting out of the indentured servitude and working like men. Maybe go yell at a billionaire CEO for putting us all in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:22 PM
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🤣 The happiest demographic in the world are older, single childfree women. But sure, wait around for your "Gotcha!" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:17 PM
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You clearly have no idea what women want, which is varied because women aren't a monolith. Plus I'm married; I don't hate all men. But I am proud of my sisters who realize that whether to partner or not is their CHOICE, not an act of desperation because they have no financial prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:58 PM
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You clearly haven't been over to TwoX if you think women are all dating the same 20%. More and more women are just opting out of relationships and are finding their own joy. Why does that bother you? Go find your own joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:59 PM
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Why are we angry? Seriously? Women are being FORCED to carry pregnancies they don't want, that aren't viable and might not have been desired in the first place. That's where we are NOW, and where we (USA) are going in approximately 2 weeks is terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:50 AM
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"...my body is not the make a wish foundation." LMAO I want that on a t-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:12 PM
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Ew. No, my body is not for charity. Gross. Nothing like a man for thinking women only exist as an appliance for his happiness. Also, why did he wait until 2 weeks before reaching out or trying therapy? We don't get to achieve all our dreams before we die; that's life. Edit: some rambling about already went to therapy? Idk, answer is still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:09 PM
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Not for this straight woman, married 30 years, EQUAL PARTNERSHIP. The crap you guys come up with.....🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:22 PM
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When will the man make the woman's life easier? Why on earth do you think men are sole providers in most modern partnerships? I sure wouldn't accept a man being the "family leader"; we are a TEAM. Maybe these are the cause of your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:37 PM
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Women are not a monolith. There are plenty of aggressive women out there; my sister is one. They used to call her personality "Type A."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:10 AM
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Maybe you need a new therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:23 PM
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Again, try therapy. It works if you want to improve yourself. And I don't care what manosphere BS you read, the vast majority of relationships are not due to cold approaching. Women are careful, probably more so than in the past; it's better to be a friend of a friend, involved in an activity, something besides just walking up to a stranger and being all (jazz hands) "Here I am!".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:17 PM
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Wow do you have some male privilege to say this kind of stuff. Did you continue reading the comments you reference, where inevitably those women described how toxic MANY men can be when told "no?" Did you see how many women in STEM talk about the way they are treated by male students, professors, coworkers, supervisors? Did you see the latest TikTok video of a woman and mom who is divorcing her husband and she's so glad everything is amicable between them? He killed them both (Jennifer Sheffield…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:05 PM
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But why are you scared to interact with any women? We aren't an alien species. It's by making us so "other" that is ruining any chance for you to befriend any of us. What you are claiming is an actual psychological disorder called gynophobia and can be treated like any other phobia. It's not a healthy mindset to think that you can't interact with half the human population. This is why women beat the drum for therapy, but you can probably find more information about getting over your fears online…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:42 PM
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Women are allowed to have standards. They are allowed to be high as long as the woman is ok with the consequences of those standards (like being alone until someone meets those standards). You are seeing a shift because men have ALWAYS been allowed to pick and choose, but for perhaps the first time in history, the tables have turned and you are experiencing what women have for millennia. Sucks, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:28 PM
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I've been married for 30 years. He's not perfect (neither am I obv), but he's my best friend. He's also 5'5", a professional classical musician (so nerdy), not rich, cute but not gorgeous, and wickedly funny. He's also kind; kids and random animals flock to him. We've had our issues as any couple would, but being friends has helped us overcome the tragedies we've faced. He had no problem dating women before me, and I am the only one who was shorter than him. But he is comfortable around women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:24 PM
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Men don't care what women tell you repeatedly that we want. Men don't care when we share our experiences being happily paired up with men who don't meet this weird 6-6-6 formula they've concocted. Men want to blame women for having literally ANY standards and use this mythical formula as a reason to both disdain women for what you are convinced we want, and to just throw up your hands and say "Welp, why bother with any of it since I'm not six feet tall." Though I'm not sure how many men irl are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:58 PM
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I don't think OP knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:07 PM
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OP really has some disdain / hatred for women. Also, absolutely not. I also would not expect my partner to take one. If trust is that low, then we're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:27 PM
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They do tell us that. They actually have passed laws to tell us that. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:09 AM
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What's the phrase? Something like "luck is when preparation meets opportunity. " Many things in life are out of our control, good and bad: our genetic gifts, where we are born, any disabilities we might have, etc. I've been with my husband for 30 years. We met in university, in the same major. BUT! He was married to someone else. I started college at another school in another major. Maybe it was luck or kismet or whatever that he got divorced and I changed schools and majors in order to meet him…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:28 AM
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I think there's nuance, too. Like, I don't remember the last time I was out in public and noticed anyone who smelled or had bad hygiene, but if you look closer at someone, when you think there's the possibility of that person (a man if that's your preference) and you might be intimate, you start looking closer to see how clean his hands and nails are (many UTIs and bac infections come right after sex with men; how germy are their hands?), do they have bad breath, does their skin or hair look gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:24 PM
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So you are fine with the fact that the vast majority of violence against women is from someone they know? That's OK because it isn't "stranger violence?" And as others have said, the perpetrators of violence are overwhelmingly MEN. So...not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:58 AM
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Women were basically "sold" by their fathers to make marriage contracts that would strengthen his business partnerships. In what deluded world do you think women have been able to choose their mate before the last 70-80 years? 🤦‍♀️ And even until the 1970s, women still chose a mate based on survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:21 AM
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She was completely in the white supremacy camp with easy access to weapons at home. Stop acting like she shot up the school because she was a feminist. Edit: The stats are that in the US, 96% of school shooters are MALE; only 4% are female. At least be clear on how much violence is committed by MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:19 PM
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Going to a bar and having some dude who clearly despises me but wants to fck and so any warm body will do, is not the complement you think it is. And I'm married, anyway, so no, I'm not on the apps, which is why women all throughout Reddit keep telling you guys to *go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:46 PM
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"I'm not trying to be a misogynist" but proceeds to be a HUGE misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:19 PM
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You have absolutely no idea about the lives of ugly women. We are not only invisible much of the time, the rest of the time, men are aggressively hostile towards us if we so much as dare to speak to you. And guess what? EVERYONE has mental health difficulties these days due to a burning planet and burgeoning fascism among other things. You can absolutely try to date whomever you want, you can decide to nope out of the whole thing, but don't act like this is a "men-only" situation. Women for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:18 PM
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What's stopping you? Try to date whomever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:05 AM
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Men don't "give women affection;" you prey on us. You GROPE us and touch us inappropriately and unwanted. That IS NOT affection; that's sexual harassment. Maybe this is why you think the wimin are getting "love and affection" when we are all creeped-out and touched out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:12 PM
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You realize that it is NOT women's job to give physical affection to any random man who wants it, right? Like, I'm supposed to allow myself to be mauled and pawed everywhere I go so you don't feel lonely? 🤮 That's a hard NO from me. Women also get most of our support from other women. My husband also has tons of close-as-brothers male friends, and they are all invested in each other. Male friendships exist, but if yours aren't what you want, then find better friends. Stop putting the onus on fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:56 PM
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Wow, do I feel sorry for your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:06 PM
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What's your source? Because Sports Business Journal claims that male WNBA fans make up 54%, a far cry from your 78%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:00 PM
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So obviously my husband and brothers-in-law aren't like this; we KNOW it's #NotAllMen. But go over to TwoX and read the vast array of women who have experienced this. It's way more men than you think, and they aren't going to just tell you "Of course I expect sex for TGI Fridays!". You have taken a tiny sample size of your friends who likely won't put up with that shit. Go see what the masses of women have to say. These are OUR experiences, and we will say most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:39 PM
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I think you are missing greatly the social expectations of cis-het dating. Most of the men complaining here about paying want a woman to pay, split all expenses 50-50, yet also want her to be their version of trad where she is also catering to them, sex on demand, doing all housework and child-rearing while keeping a full-time job and splitting all bills. They are shocked Pikachu face that women now can earn our own money and have no need to serve some deadbeat man if she's already handling ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:08 PM
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Infatuation doesn't last for 30 years like my marriage has. While it's healthy to lovw yourself and not settle for someone who doesn't fulfill you, OP has some crazy sexist attitudes about women, which is probably why he's lacking in that womanly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:11 AM
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It's not worrying to women if we are happy being on our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:24 PM
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You are you going to have sex with then, men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:18 PM
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It absolutely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:17 PM
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The issue isn't that OP prefers women who are bare-faced; the PROBLEM is that he finds women who already wear make-up and then TRIES TO CHANGE THEM by complaining that they should wear less make-up. You wanna wear lifts? Go for it. But wouldn't you be annoyed if women then told you to stop what you want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:27 AM
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Wearing make-up is the equivalent of wearing a nice suit. It makes you look better than ratty sweats, but neither inherently changes the person underneath. Same with make-up. But a partner who nags me to either always wear the suit or only wear sweats is controlling and I'd drop them like a hot potato. And ther ARE men who wear make-up, too, either a touch of concealer or some brow gel and eye liner, or even foundation, tinted lip balm, etc. Stop acting like women are ruining everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:18 AM
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My husband could not care less how I look: dressed up & makeup, holey sweats and ratty hair, he loves me and tells me I'm beautiful when I know I'm not. I could paint myself purple and he'd be "Cool, babe. Want tacos for dinner?" What I would not put up with is a partner who wants me to change how I express myself to suit him! Which is why OP is getting down voted to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:14 AM
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Wow, you must be a lot of fun. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:28 AM
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That was how we were taught / what was considered proper grammar back in the '80s (I used the Turabian style in school). It took a long time for me to stop doing that! I think when texting first started and Twitter counted characters, why use 2 spaces instead of 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:21 AM
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My husband is 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:40 AM
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That was my thought. A single mom already has more than enough on her plate, and it's proven that working women still do the lion's share of household chores. She is probably worried a single dad is looking to offload his kids on their new mommy. I am not saying that is true, just what the perception might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:38 AM
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No, it really isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:30 AM
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💯 true. I didn't even need to hug a guy for him to stalk me for a year. It's not women's job to fix men's problems. My husband has many friends, even since HS; these guys talk to each other, check in, help out each other all the time. What is stopping other men from leaning on their male friends and family?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:13 AM
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100%. Women absolutely know why the birth rate is declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:24 PM
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