Zookinni Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Why most marriages fail I think you hit the nail on the head. Marriages that are successful depends on a myriad of things including your choice of a partner, environmental circumstances, financial situation, your genuine care, affection, and interest on the other, your communication. I do have to agree that marriage is an institution to raise a child. But wouldn't that be more of a reason to actually take marriage for seriously than just willy nilly get married with a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 07:36 PM
3	How do y’all feel about the wade Wilson situation I'd like to point out the Chris Brown Situation where it's the same thing in that there are women who still drool over him and there are men who didn't bat an eye. It just goes back to a whole cultural and societal issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 02:22 PM
6	Why is there a belief that a lot of men have it easy? Based. The biggest obstacle any person must overcome is the self. When you have a narrow view on the dating scene, you're bound to only see the things you yourself want to see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 04:28 AM
1	Chasing women is a huge waste of time. I'd like to correct you in that it's more about caring less about sex with a woman and treating them as human beings. Imagine being constantly chased by men since basically your period starting (because it's our society and a lot of men do that) and there's someone who comes along and doesn't treat you like another piece of meat to be had. I would think you'd be interested in that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 05:04 PM
–	Chasing women is a huge waste of time. Adding on to this; I would say that porn is the reason for this addictive mindset. Especially, when one grows up watching it. Imagine growing up watching porn, being "satisfied" and provided dopamine by your brain each time you ejaculate. This warped view of sex will carry on to adulthood and without realizing sex has this disgusting value and it's really hard to detach yourself from it. Not impossible but difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 05:01 PM
13	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else I suggest you read actual accounts of why women get abortion. Science Vs. Podcast on Spotify did a great segment on abortion. They did a story on a planned parenthood where they had women write an anonymous note about their personal story. Abortion isn't an easy decision. It never is. And if you assume that women have that mentality then it's a personal warped view that you need to deal with. Just start there if you have no clue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 09:09 PM
20	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Regardless, why do you think women decide to get abortion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 07:14 PM
21	Women want to split housework and childrearing but don't want to compromise anywhere else Have you considered why she wanted to have an abortion or are you so wrapped by the idea of the father entitled to having a baby and seeing it as unfair for the wife to go against the man's wishes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 07:08 PM
1	What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married? What a sad life if you really think about it and pretty disgusting how you and your friend are viewing all these women in your lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 08:08 PM
-4	If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women. Homie is just pointing out what issue comes with imitating your homies success. Also, Iff you can't tell someone is lying to you then you aren't listening closely enough. Learn to read a room.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 12:00 AM
1	If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it? You just said women enforce toxic masculinity. All I'm saying is you are surrounded by toxic people. Either respond/correct and have an honest conversation or surround yourself with better people. You seem to know what women love, when it just seems like normal traits of men that have personality. Most of those things can get to a point of toxicity. It doesn't necessarily mean they are toxic masculinity. Learn to read the room when trying to be confident, flirting, being ambitious, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:54 PM
1	If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it? Nah, I'm telling you to push back when you feel there's enforcement of toxic masculinity towards you and others or find new people to surround yourself with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 06:36 PM
1	If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it? You're just surrounded by toxic peeps. Either you start pushing back on their beliefs or you find new people to be surrounded with	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 03:40 PM
3	Men are becoming less masculine and women are to blame The definition of masculinity and feminity isn't something that's black and white and for me it's good reason. The older generation of what it means to be masculine is so fucking toxic it doesn't feel right to even be that kind of a person. I might be changing the goal post, but I like to think masculinity is something that should evolve over time to something more kind and caring towards the self and others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 03:10 PM
1	The bluepilled meme that "communication solves everything" is just a lazy catch-all phrase It's called compromising my guy. Communicating allows you to feel heard and you can move forward and find a solution with your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 03:42 PM
-1	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Pretty dismissive to say it's projection. Genuinely tell me what you have in common with a 20 year old when you've gone through 10 more years of your life than them. I think you're right in that there are other reasons but I'm talking about a more subtle and underlying reason as to why a person might be interested in someone who's much younger. Let's talk about your reasons of interest: More attractive. Since we're talking about age here, are you saying age plays a factor in attractiveness? And …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 11:52 PM
-2	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Wanting a less emotionally mature person to date. A person at 20 might be an adult but a person that age has definitely not lived life enough to be mature. The agenda is to find someone easier to manipulate and control. That age gap is there. I would argue that age gap as an issue only really matters more around 20-30, while 30/40 or 40/50 is a bit less different. Even then I would still be sus about a 10 year gap in the relationship later in life. No 10 year old is not an adult but "if legal" a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 11:05 PM
0	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter The truth is you know there's an agenda for the older partner in a huge age gap relationship. Also, what do you mean by if legal? Why use 20/30 as an example instead of 20/10?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:03 PM
5	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? I read that as, the desire for sex is different for men and women. Men have their needs but it's as simple as wanting their partners to be attractive. So women have to put in less effort if they want sex. my partner will just touch me a certain way and I'll be aroused. Whereas, sex for women is complicated. If men want sex from their partner they need to do more than just touch them or say they want sex. Honestly, the reality is it's a lot of effort. The question becomes whether you're willing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:12 PM
5	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I would say that the reason a majority of married people never cheat and have sex because they're not caught up with this whole debate of what women want and have legitimately built a relationship with a person. In addition, those successful marriages are definitely founded on respect and communication. I also think a lot of the people who cheat are just shitty and lack selfawaress about themselves and their impact on others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 06:18 PM
1	Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy? I guess we're talking about two different aspects of getting into a relationship and maintaining a relationship. Regardless, sexual successfulness should not be used as an indicator of potentially getting into a long term relationship. That spells out trouble. Why is sex so centric and important to you? I understand the necessity for sex, but I don't think you should let it drive you for a LTR. I think you miss out on the importance of your compatibility with your partner. Like damn slow down; y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:25 PM
1	Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy? I'm not advising you at all to have a number in mind. That's reducing another human being to a number so that you consider yourself a sexually successful man. There's no correlation, nor happiness that comes with viewing another person as a number so that you can be in a mutually LTR. if you're looking for an advise, I would say disregard sex in the first place. Sex will come along in a mutual loving LTR. Best thing you can do is literally listen and pay attention to the person you're dating. Le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 07:10 PM
1	Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy? Bro that's some skewed ass view of how to be in a LTR. There's no need to convince a lot of women to have sex with you to choose an LTR. Just because you've slept with a lot of women doesn't mean they'll line up in front of you for your choosing. The type of woman who wants to be in an LTR find it disgusting for a guy to have such high n count. From a woman's perspective who want LTR, your purpose of dating them or being with them essentially becomes this shallow desire of being part of your n c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 06:43 PM
1	What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-Thread How would you personally describing simping?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 06:17 PM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Lol there was a greentext post about this guy who's girlfriend settled (I mean that in the nicest way because getting into a relationship for both parties is about compromising and growing yourself) with him and he finds out she's been with 43 men. Dudes were up n arms about it and just goes to show how delusional dudes be. All I'm saying is talk with your partner and then talk to yourself be honest and learn to accept the decisions your partner made and your own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 04:20 PM