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| 17 | 28 years old female virginYou decided to reach out to a bunch of people on the internet asking for advice on how to live a happier and healthier life. A therapist is someone who is specifically trained in guiding a person in figuring out how to live a life that is happier and healthier. Find a therapist who specializes in sex-related issues and on the first day, just read this post to them. | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | First Date: How To Turn A Boring Conversation Into A Captivating OneAnd I'm just making a joke. Mentioning that for some.... Excel is fucking awesome. Index(match ()) shatters vlookup()! That's right....I said it :). | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 04:51 AM |
| 4 | First Date: How To Turn A Boring Conversation Into A Captivating OneScientist here. I legit would love to talk about Excel. I once shared a wonderful moment with a girl as we both appreciated the magic that is a pivot table. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 02:02 PM |
| 8 | hey boys, sent my buddy some dating advice earlier -- figured it might help some of you out tooTell your buddy someone on the internet is pulling for him. Life is really hard sometimes, but you gotta keep getting up and going after the love you want. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 06:58 AM |
| 6 | I've been seeing a girl for a couple weeks now and am determined to keep it casual. What should I do for Valentine's Day?Why not ask her "How do you feel about Valentine's day?". Talk about general feelings about it. She might think they Valentine's day is a stupid tradition. Or she might think it's important, but only for significant relationships. I'm sure you'd be cool with either of those answers. And if she actually does expect something big, well, that's also important to know so you can tell you that you're not feeling that yet. | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | I have a date next Thursday, is there a way to give my confidence a boost by the time the date comes?Look forward to having a good day :). | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Being short - how to take advantage of it?I'm 5'5" so i know what you're talking about. Here's the deal, your height is your height. It's your body. It's a part of who you are. And because of that, you should embrace it on its own terms. As long as you think "how can I turn this disadvantage into an advantage", you are essentially making your self-esteem contingent on another person's approval. Which is not a path to happiness. Frankly, you don't have a height problem. You have a body image problem. Even if you did succeed at finding a … | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 03:05 PM |
| 1 | What attracts women based on 9 years and 600+ dates (Warning: It makes NO sense sometimes)I've also never put stock into the "I'm average body wise". Because most men suck at determining their own attractiveness. You might think you're average, but I doubt it. I know I think I'm average, but my gf thinks I'm sexy as hell. So if you've got women interested in you, then you've got an attractive body. Or at least, you know how to be attractive in your body. And I say celebrate that :). You're hot, be proud :). But you are totally right in terms of forgetting about the women who shoot yo… | /r/seduction | 03/05/16 12:34 AM |
| 24 | What attracts women based on 9 years and 600+ dates (Warning: It makes NO sense sometimes)5'5" here. Think we should tell him to check his privilege :). Frankly, I've never put much stock in the height thing. There are many more character traits that remove women from my dating pool than height beliefs. | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is sharing insecurities (in a non-needy way) with a girl a good idea?Let's practice. Tell me one of your insecurities | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 11:47 AM |
| 5 | 12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social SkillsI'm just so happy reading this right now. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Top 5 Psychology Books to Succeed in Life, Love and BusinessSorry that I didn't make it more clear. By that point, I had entirely forgotten which books were in the video because I was too excited thinking about the books on my list. The journalism comment was talking more about the general state of popular psychology. Sorry about that. Regardless, my list is my list. I have vetted the research in my listed books long before they were even published. So I feel very good about endorsing the advice in those books. You can have your list that includes none o… | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Top 5 Psychology Books to Succeed in Life, Love and BusinessAnd in the time it took for you to be mean, you could have helped them out. If I wanted to be judgemental, I could say that you'll never find human connection if your first instinct is to be condescending instead of helpful. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 01:41 PM |
| 8 | Top 5 Psychology Books to Succeed in Life, Love and BusinessCognitive neuroscientist here and I'm gonna disagree. Here's my list. Thinking fast and slow - Daniel Kahneman. Quite simply the best pop science book out there. Kahneman wrote it after reading Malcolm Gladwell and thought "this is bullshit, maybe an actual scientist should write a book on decision making". And given that Kahneman essentially invented the scientific study of risky decision making back in the 70s with his colleague Amos Tversky, he was just the guy to teach you how your decision … | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 01:38 PM |
| 7 | A 'workout plan' to become a pickup beast.I enjoyed your story. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:59 AM |
| 2 | A 'workout plan' to become a pickup beast.No, this sub all pissed off entitled wimps who think destroying someone's work is equivalent to creation. There are plenty of other subs for you if you don't like where this one is going. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Your FearYou don't understand! I'm like, really really afraid of spiders. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Tips for the ACTUAL DATE itselfThat's something to talk about. Bring it up, but don't apologize for it. Something like "I usually listen more than I talk, how about you? What do you think that says about people?" | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 02:41 PM |
| -1 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.OK. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 07:34 AM |
| 2 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.You are most certainly belittling me. And you are doing it based on assumptions. If you're going to be condescending and assume you know better than me, at least own it and don't apologize for it. Frankly, I really don't care what you think. Because you're not interested in learning anything. You've already made up your mind that I'm inferior to you and nothing I say is going to change that After all, you based everything you previously stated on the fact that I was a student. Turns out I'm not.… | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.You are exactly what I don't get. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.And in sure ten years ago, you would have said similar things in relation to the times of ten years before that | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 01:05 AM |
| 14 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.Here's what I don't get about people who look down on students. Liberals view students with derision when they value capitalism and conservatives view students with derision when they value socialism. In short, students can't win. The older group is always smarter just because they're older. And that's stupid. If you think my status as a student is important, then you are searching for a reason to maintain strong sweeping generalizations. And as I've said earlier, strong sweeping generalizations… | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 11:47 PM |
| 30 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.Exactly. The world is complicated, and broad sweeping generalizations are stupid. | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 09:08 PM |
| 19 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.Yeah, I'm gonna say that the skyrocketing levels of depression is much more about the fact that the stigma of mental health being removed, and now many more people are getting depression treated. You really shouldn't make broad sweeping statements like that. And capitalism ain't all bad. The soviet union wasn't capitalist and that place fucking sucked for people. | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 08:34 PM |
| 15 | Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number?I feel like a lot of conversations would be a lot more fun if people followed the "yes and" from improv. Basically, if someone says something to you, they are giving you material to work work. So you must immediately agree with them, then add your own material. That's what I loved about your post Her: you're gonna have to work you: yes because you have a sordid history that I'll need to vanquish. Fill me in. I love this response because it seems freakishly like the beginning of a unplanned conve… | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, what do you DO?I love magic. I mean the performing type, as in magician. That being said, it has never once gotten me laid. Ever. Because here's the thing, most hobbies are really boring to most people. I have no interest in learning to be a stamp collector. That being said z if I ever met a passionate stamp collector, I'd be fascinated to hear him talk about it. Because that's what makes a hobby cool. It's not what a person does, it's that they decided to do it. Side rant b of frustration. The fact that there… | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Is anyone else... tired of it?Here's the thing dude, the game is only won by leaving. You can't truly date and game a woman at the same time. The reason you were feeling somehow unfulfilled by fwb and hook ups is because everyone involved was playing a game, just passing the time and having fun. And that's totally fine. It's fun. That's why it's a game. But rest assured, it's nothing but a game. You want to have a real relationship? Get used to being wrong. And get used to being right. But most importantly, get used to knowi… | /r/seduction | 10/09/14 01:20 PM |
| 0 | To the PhDs here - how was your college/campus experience?27 year old grad student here who also feels out of place with undergrad parties. It's not about age. It's about positions in life. When I'm at an undergrad party, the differences in our priorities, life responsibilities, and also the relational positions of authority make it hard to beach that barrier. That being said, when I meet an undergrad who's so clearly worked and bled for something they're passionate about, we connect very quickly, again, regardless of age. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 12:16 AM |
| 11 | To the PhDs here - how was your college/campus experience?27 year old grad student here who also feels out of place with undergrad parties. It's not about age. It's about positions in life. When I'm at an undergrad party, the differences in our priorities, life responsibilities, and also the relational positions of authority make it hard to beach that barrier. That being said, when I meet an undergrad who's so clearly worked and bled for something they're passionate about, we connect very quickly, again, regardless of age. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.If a woman makes fun of you and zings you good, how do you react? Zing her back or congratulate her? But I'll kill the subterfuge. Basically, I'm wondering if you ever stop gaming and let yourself to be truly weak and vulnerable in front of another person. | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.It's OK. I forgive you. | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 05:03 AM |
| -2 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.Wow. Wouldn't want to be friends with you then. And for the record, I'm a dude. Have fun being the coolest cat in the room though. I'm gonna go get a beer. | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.Gonna be honest, that sounds exhausting. When was there last time you were with a girl and told them that they got the better of you? And meant it. With no back handed compliment. Just "damn, I got nothing." | /r/seduction | 06/09/14 03:06 AM |
| -8 | Oneitis? Now is the time.You're using these girls. At the very least, admit that. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 09:15 PM |
| -10 | Oneitis? Now is the time.You straight up said that you're not giving a shit about these other girls. You're becoming a sociopath who treats women like shit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 2 | I'm tired of girls telling me I'm too, "goofy". How do you get rid of this appearance?That's cool, because you're also hilarious haha. That made me snort a little. | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of girls telling me I'm too, "goofy". How do you get rid of this appearance?You're a bit indecisive | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 11:53 AM |
| 42 | I'm tired of girls telling me I'm too, "goofy". How do you get rid of this appearance?This is the only answer you need. If you're silliness is an indelible part if your personality, don't change it. Find a silly goofy girl who'll own that shit with you. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 08:21 PM |
| 3 | What is your Iron Law?sometimes people can come to similar conclusions independently | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:33 PM |
| 3 | 5 questions to help qualify someoneYeah, and Strauss ripped it off too. The cube was developed by psychoanalysts who were trying to create stories designed to invite people to open up. Hell, even Freud and Jung modeled a ton of psychoanalysis on related work. Strauss had nothing to do with the invention of this game. | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 02:50 AM |
| 3 | 5 questions to help qualify someoneThe article flat out states that you'll never see this in any peer reviewed journal because its basically psychobabble....but its fun. It's a game. That's it | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 02:46 AM |
| 13 | When a girl says noProbably why there's such vehemence against it. Absolute terror at becoming friend zoned. As yoda taught us, fear is the path to dark side. Fear-anger-hate-suffering | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 11:44 PM |
| 19 | When a girl says noHe is the darkness that flaps in the night | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 11:41 PM |
| 14 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeFucking up sucks but that's the only way to learn. And its also how some of the best memories are made. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 04:22 AM |
| 2 | How to Kill College and Earn a Kick-Ass Social Circle (Plus the under-discussed art of Bro-Game)Yeah. Who wants to hang out with someone who thinks they're too cool for school? Cause I got a news flash for you Walter Cronkite.................you aren't. I need to go watch zoolander right now. | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 02:06 AM |
| 3 | 3 Effective Methods That Can Make HER Ask YOU For SEX...No, instead you were real mature and said "nuh uh!" If you're gonna disagree with criticism, then address the criticism specifically in a point by point basis just like they did | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 03:56 PM |
| 3 | A quick note on online game/text gameI agree with the English teacher. | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Please do not post the Russell Brand videoMaybe if instead of posting it, someone did a "break down" where after an event in the video, they paused it and explained what can be learned from it. That would protect seddit from being awash in woo woo garbage and give interesting content at the same time. | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Lets get TofuTofu's kickstarter to $10,000 so the community always has a free PDF of the book!One reason I might enjoy winging is for ideas on how to have even more fun with friends. That the fun also involves women is icing on the cake. But to each his own | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Girl's perspective: how to avoid needy/clingy girlsTheres a line between having game and being a conniving manipulative sociopath. try not to cross it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 09:33 PM |
| 3 | I went from being socially awkward, to getting a date with a celebrity crush of mine. I know you guys usually hate posts like these, but I wanted to thank you!We'll make believe you can fly | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What to text after a long time of no talking?There's a difference between a future hatched chicken and a "chicken that wandered off and you're making zero effort to look for it". Most girls you don't see consistently, you don't see. So try to connect with the ones you might not see again | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:45 AM |
| 2 | So I joined an Internet dating site whats the best way to approach a random beautiful stranger over the internet?This string of comments was fucking beautiful | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 01:16 AM |
| 7 | 3 Steps to Creating Much Better ConversationsRead and implement the book how to talk to anyone. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 03:26 AM |
| 13 | What do you say after kissing a girl?Lines are stupid. You guys are kissing! Whatever is happening is working. So toss the crutch of canned lines away and enjoy her. You're there to have fun, not be James bond. Next time, kiss her, flash her a genuine smile, take her hand and go somewhere more private. You're not here to win the game of "most suave". Both of you are just there to have fun. So be fun! If you are desperate for a line try a fun but aggressive compliment like "I knew you'd taste good". | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 10:14 PM |
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