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For me the subtext should be super direct but I like to do it through innuendo
/r/seduction25/12/25 07:34 PM
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I mean you said it yourself, the guy was qualifying himself and losing his composure. There are more variables than just looks so it's not exactly conclusive
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:14 PM
1

No em dashes, no emojis... Not everything long and structured is AI
/r/seduction29/10/25 06:33 AM
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It means her emotions aren't stirred when she looks at you and thinks about you. She might like you and respect you and even admire you, but that deep stuff just isn't moving. You can't talk her into it. Don't try to persuade her or pressure her, that'll just make her uncomfortable. What are your dates like? Are you taking risks to escalate things sexually? Is there any teasing or physical touch?
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:34 PM
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Dating is emotionally risky so we put up walls to protect ourselves, but that makes interactions formal and boring. Someone has to take the lead in breaking down these walls, which is a delicate and risky task, but that's why we have teasing and touch - break break the walls down, so we can communicate at a level typically considered "uncivilised", which is precisely what makes it so intimate and exciting. A guy who can do this effectively without causing offence or discomfort is someone who can…
/r/seduction21/10/25 02:12 PM
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A guy's behaviour absolutely determines if he's a "nice guy" or not. There's nothing less hot than a guy acting needy and spineless, even if he's physically attractive.
/r/seduction14/10/25 12:20 PM
2

https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0BX4PJRCP?source_code=ORGOR69210072400FU
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:15 PM
1

I think sometimes they're just trying to get something out of their system and move on. It's naive to think that all of their behaviour is entirely down to what you do. It's not like "men act, women react", y'know? If things don't go your way it's not because you did something wrong, it's just because women have their own reasons for doing what they do
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:29 PM
13

Holy shit the audiobook is 19 hours long. Better be worth it!
/r/seduction12/10/25 04:35 PM
14

If you read them purely so you can get girls, then probably not. It's a transactional mentality which is only ever gonna get you so far. A healthier mentality is to genuinely enjoy the beauty of the books you read (or music or art or travel of whatever you care about), and share that with others. You can be clunky and stumble over your words but you'll still radiate magnetic energy that women will want to be around.
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:43 PM
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Man I don't know you personally but I'm pretty sure this isn't the real you, this is an act you're putting on, following instructions that you've picked up online. Putting on a performance isn't confidence, it's the opposite actually
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:04 AM
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Hello, I'm the same as you. This is gonna sound bad but the truth is that it never goes away. But that's not the problem, the problem is that when the part of you that needs validation is activated it takes control of you and you become its puppet. The other extreme is that you "act rationally", which is a lot of the advice you'll get, which is all well and good but our hangups aren't rational and they don't go away just because we correct them, they just get repressed and collect energy until y…
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:51 AM
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Shouldn't have any issues touching them on the shoulder then
/r/seduction12/09/25 07:22 AM
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I was trying to answer this by writing specific advice you can follow but I couldn't because I don't think you lack knowledge or the intelligence to figure it out. I think most guys know what to do by instinct. But women are scary and there's nothing I can tell you that will make that fear go away. You gotta feel the fear and do it anyway, there's no other way around it
/r/seduction11/09/25 07:44 AM
1

You start in non-sensitive areas like her shoulder or the middle of her back. If she likes it she'll make it clear, then you can slowly move to more sensitive parts like the forearm and hand or the knee if you're sitting down, but only as she reciprocates. Don't continue if she obviously doesn't like it. I can't tell you there's zero risk to it, but you just gotta get comfortable with that. Either she goes off you or the temperature turns up to 100. You gotta get her off the fence, there's no ro…
/r/seduction10/09/25 07:59 AM
35

Touching, teasing, personal topics, that kind of thing. Start gentle and escalate as she reciprocates
/r/seduction09/09/25 02:57 PM
35

Except they can generally tell that you like them and that you're hiding it, and when you're obviously hiding something she still doesn't feel that safe 🤷‍♂️ In general you're best just being authentic and true to yourself
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:45 PM
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A lot of men treat women quite delicately and are afraid to deliberately move them emotionally. Women understandably put up boundaries and to move her emotionally you have to break these boundaries without making her feel unsafe. That not only requires tact but also an acceptance that she might dislike you. A lot of guys can't tolerate that risk so they play it safe, and safe doesn't move emotions.
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:23 AM
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All of these things can be applied to the first date too, so why not filter out the true yes's from the no's right at the start by seeing how you vibe with her?
/r/seduction05/09/25 11:53 AM
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Anyone can use evolutionary logic to justify their hangups. It sounds like you're just trying to turn your anger towards women into something "genetic" so that you don't have to take responsibility for it.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:54 PM
6

Sounds like a bunch of made up hoopla
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:08 PM
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Entering your 'world' rather than you entering hers I like this
/r/seduction13/08/25 12:42 PM
33

It's not nice-vs-bad, it's nice-vs-authentic (at least when it comes to the Nice Guy trope). Nobody's suggesting you don't be a good person, but you can say no and set boundaries and make your needs a priority along the way.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:22 AM
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I generally agree with accepting your insecurity, inexperience and flaws, but accepting them doesn't mean capitulating to them. You have to develop a relationship with your anxiety and still act in-spite of it in order to develop it. For example I would never tell a girl that she's way out of my league even if I did feel that way. Instead I would accept my anxiety about it, and make it my goal to approach anyway with my best foot forward. Your anxiety isn't authentic, it's what's repressing your…
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:05 AM
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I think you've reached a point (that many of us do) where you have taken so many L's that have to prove to yourself that you can get at least something. Of course the more important it is that you do it the more you're gonna feel inner resistance. I think that happens because on some level you know you're not doing this because you like it, but because you just feel like you should do it. I would take some time to reflect on what you want and why you want it, visualise what a good interaction wo…
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:23 PM
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Can't believe nobody's mentioned "No More Mr Nice Guy" yet
/r/seduction14/07/25 01:11 PM
2

Does your energy say "I need you to make my life better" or does it say "I want to make your life better"? Do they feel a sense of obligation?
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:39 AM
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I really recommend No More Mr Nice Guy. This taught me more about deep, authentic empowerment than anything else.
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:06 AM
12

Models isn't a pickup book
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:03 AM
6

The term "friendzone" isn't about being friends. It's a polite way for a woman to reject a man. If you think it means you're actually friends then you're mistaken. Even worse, if you think it means that "friendship" stands a chance of turning romantic, you're wasting everybody's time and you're setting yourself up for pain
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:58 AM
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Sometimes both being a nice guy and "self-improvement" come at the cost of authenticity. You should be a good person and you should be the best person you can be, but if you're doing it transactionally then you're not going to get anywhere.
/r/seduction04/07/25 02:43 PM
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It sounds like she's on the fence and you gotta get her off. I think you should ask her out one more time, and if it doesn't work out, move on. It'll probably make her more interested anyway.
/r/seduction02/07/25 12:56 PM
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They're in a superposition of finding you attractive and thinking you're a creep. It's on you to not be weird so she comes down on the side of attraction
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:57 PM
31

Like Robert Glover says, "women don't wanna fuck guys they've gotten to know; they wanna get to know guys they wanna fuck"
/r/seduction04/06/25 05:07 PM
14

We can only meet others as deeply as we've met ourselves
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:03 AM
2

One does not simply walk into morror
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:40 AM
1

The women aren't bees, they are the garden, the relationships you have with them are the garden. You're not a farmer trying to get as much sex as efficiently as possible; it's possible to just meet women, get to know them, be playful, cultivate good feelings between you, and just let it grow without impatiently gunning for the close. If you cultivate the right environment around you they will enjoy being near you and things will happen naturally and spontaneously.
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:11 PM
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It's like gardening as opposed to farming. You gotta stay patient, slowly and gradually cultivate your relationships with women, don't be too hasty to eat the seeds, so to speak. Just cultivate love and respect and good vibes, and when the time is right you can pick the fruit and you both share in the abundance
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:51 PM
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Perhaps you're attracted to her because she represents your unlived life. As they say, if you don't do it, you'll try to marry it. You gotta see this as your cue to step up your lifestyle
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:41 AM
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No more Mr nice guy by Robert Glover
/r/seduction19/01/25 05:19 PM
1

After reading "No More Mr Nice Guy" I have to disagree with you. Being a "nice guy" is a coping mechanism for an inability to be authentic, and women can feel it, and they're not attracted to it. Working on this has made me much more attractive to women, with little change to my looks, money or social status.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:57 PM
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Nice guys aren't always good, and dangerous guys aren't always bad. I think the idea that women are attracted to bad men is a projection of the nice guys. They don't know how to be assertive or dangerous when they have to be, so they see people who are as bad. Women don't like assholes, they like good guys who are assertive and can stand up for themselves. Nice guys don't have a strong sense of self, they grew up feeling unworthy and so they chameleon themselves into being whoever they think the…
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:45 PM
2

Seconded. This book helped me immensely
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:14 PM
1

Best one yet
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:35 AM
1

Do you have any book recommendations?
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:07 AM
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A 22 year old guy shouldn't even have women on his mind? Are you nuts?
/r/seduction20/04/24 08:03 AM
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Hey, I've been working pretty hard the last couple of years on developing my authenticity, I know the struggle. If you're a reader I would recommend these books: Models by Mark Manson (should be popular in this sub) No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover (dropping your nice-guy front and allowing yourself to be more of who you actually are) Running on Empty by Jonice Webb (explains how emotional neglect in childhood forces us to repress our feelings and try to be more who we believe we "should" be…
/r/seduction07/01/24 08:08 PM
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Although I agree you have to keep things sexual, I think you were over-doing it. Putting "sexual pressure" on a girl doesn't mean touch her all over her body while she just sits there. Not only does that make you seem perverted, it's also just plain rude and ungentlemanly. What you should be doing is be sexual in your language. Make some dirty jokes (note, not crude, childish ones), slowly break through her boundaries, while keeping her comfortable. Once she's comfortable, then you can make touc…
/r/seduction09/03/14 10:01 PM
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Don't take this personally but I think this is a pile of bull. Social interactions are too dynamic and fluid to learn them in a college course powerpoint style fashion.
/r/seduction21/12/13 12:58 PM
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