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I know a few pretty tall girls who dont struggle much. Whether guys on average dislike it i cant really know. Locker room talk rarely shits on tall women. If they do , i myself cant relate at all. If i could manifest the perfect woman out of thin air shed probably be 6' - 6'3. I do like em tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:53 PM
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I'm tall ish myself (for a woman) I prefer slim average height guys Ironically, taller women are rarely height queens. Its always the 4'11 ones bullying short kings. Tbh, i feel you on that one. Im quite tall and im into taller women. Im really not into "towering" over her, its heavily overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:29 PM
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24 but i like to talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:54 PM
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Looking at your replies in this thread. Im curious, do you think there are any hardships whatsoever in being a man? I dont mean individual stuff, i mean general rules that apply to pretty much everyone. Like for example the fact that because women are physically weaker , they fear being abused (men fear it too but we dont really walk around with that fear everpresent). Do you think men have any struggle that is inherently ours? Or do you think that its a lot easier for us and we just make up rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:43 PM
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Not sure I personally have no dog in this fight so I can provide a more clear and balanced perspective Dont do this..... Youre posting it , you have an opinion about it. Nobody buys it lmao There isnt really much logic going on here. I know youd like an iron clad reason that you can disprove(evolutional wiring and all that crap) but there really isnt one. Its like a gag reflex. Honestly , she goes down in your eyes quite a lot after hearing a high n count and ive never ever met a man that doesnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:36 PM
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Blackpill content is brainrot (not saying there arent some truths in it but still it destroys people). But i have to say, those forums dont cause bad interactions, bad interactions cause those forums. As someone who grew up with a major issue(not ugly or short but i had a very unattractive feature) and who was often shot down and ridiculed because of it. Following your dick often leads to many humiliations. If you never had some major unattractuve features you really dont get that. I can tell yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:35 PM
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Yeah i was a little shit too lmao ,at least you found a better way to deal with him. Parents here either beat kids or some reinforce negative behaviour. There is a saying where im from : "You can always spot the ones who werent hit". From personal experience i can tell you that getting punished is better than reinforcing bullshit. They just grow up to be awful and entitled. Hitting is probably not the ideal way tho(almost certanly hah). Some middle ground would be ideal but as you say, with boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:11 PM
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Destiny brought a girl to debate the FreshAndFit guys and she used the same example. She said that mens emotional issues mostly come from childhood because we show emotions differently. Girls are easier to raise "emotionally" than boys. Its easier to comfort a crying kid than to comfort a little shit that breaks stuff and screams, its like rewarding negative behaviour. So boys emotional outbursts are just seen as "boys will be boys" not as cries for help. As you said a girl cries, boys punch stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:44 PM
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Yeah i know they are not all evil im just venting. Hell, most comments of support here were from women lmao. Although the advice for young stutterers to not approach while she is friends is real, that creates scars that will never fully heal. Teenagers often dont really look past obvious issues, they are not developed enough (doesnt mean it cant happen) You really think those feminists writing all men are trash actually believe that crap. They be having bfs and husbands and they are just venting…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:20 PM
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Wholesome lmao. But seriously tell him to check out Lee Lovett, he has a Youtube channel. The man is a self cured stutterer and he spent 15 years fighting it. He has a book called "Stuttering and anxiety self cures" , he use to give pdf copies for free on the internet. Not sure if he does anymore but he can find pdfs online. https://speechanxietyanonymous.org/pwss-archive/ There are many people who stopped because of his methods(the people in the link are only the members that are part of his or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:39 PM
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So how does this work? Isn't Chad a REd Pill / incel concept? Nope. All guys know this, we just dont really hate on them like incels do or let the fear of them ruin our lives. One of my friends was pretty average looking, tall - but not white or athletic, had a super attractive woman - like a 9 or a 10 - head over heals into him because excelled academically in university, dominated classroom discussions, and wasn't the pump and dump type. Yeah as i wrote above, a Chad is not someone that has th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:10 PM
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And one damn study has many people losing their shit because they find a study that agrees with them. Not because its a good study. If you want facts on something it has to be analysed for years, measure a large chunk of the population , fuck ton of studies done, multiple factors considered....... I can whip up a study on anything and show you "HA! WOMEN ARE ... LIKE STUPID AND SHIT, SEE THIS STUDY CONFIRMS IT". Doesnt make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:30 PM
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There are studies on vaccines causing autism, on why "hoes aint shit" on anything. What you are reffering to is a study that took 500 cancer patients from 2001 to 2006 in New York. 500 people can give you a general idea, a push in the right direction or conpletely mislead you. In a world of 7 billion. Also i said women dont like doing emotional labour for men, i didnt say that women dont take care of their man. I wrote that if it takes too much to keep you happy as a man (if you have low self es…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:45 AM
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Yeah, moat start as kids and stop as kids. I started after a massive growth spurt in 7th grade (5'11 -> 6'4). Got many issues like flat soles, curved spine, tilted pelvis , gamer neck and that damn stutter. Mine lasted until 20-21 . But by the time i left high school i could hide it well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:23 AM
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Thx for the kind words. If your husband still struggles with occasional stutters and fears , check out Lee Lovett. He has a book (you can find it online, he used to give em away for free, i think there are still pdfs to download). He has a yt channel, i never joined his site or skyped with him but his methods helped me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:10 AM
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Oh thanks, it stopped in my case. Mostly worked through the shit but yeah ,some stuff sticks with you forever. Like with every struggle i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:04 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Does he still stutter or does he talk less?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:54 PM
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Sorry to hear that. There is a reason why women deserve more affection. You need it more. We want it too but you dont get much and you learn to deal with it , we are just built different as genders (although our suicide rates should maybe throw us into some deep thinking about it). Dont settle for someone that doesnt give you affection. Relationships can work if the man is not shown too much affection (as they sadly have since forever) but when the man is the one not showing it to the woman, yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:24 PM
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Oh if he doesnt have huge issues now then he can have good self esteem. But while you do stutter..... no. Stutters are fed by shame and bad self esteem. Its why when people laugh at you you stutter more. And rhe worst part is that its like calling an anorexic person fat. They mostly blame and hate themselves(although i do hate those bitches form high school now but back then i hated myself much more). Its the reason why most stutterers have that fake chiselled smile and are always apologising. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:16 PM
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Mens emotions are not really that important in a relationship and definitely not nearly important as the womans. People with low self esteem need constant validation. Men are willing to provide that , women arent. I stuttered and was in a stutter support group online(stuttering always means terrible self esteem). The vast majority of men struggle extremely with dating, meanwhile the women dont really. They all find understanding partners( the partners find them). Women just dont like to deal wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:59 PM
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The issue is rarely the girl you like its almost always her friends unless some dude is really ugly then yeah she is also often an issue. I stuttered when i was younger and you know how highschool girls are. So yeah i have like a billion. I tried asking a few out. Got many imitating me, laughing at me, a lot of "Say Grand" because i had issues with Gs and Rs and words that start with "GR" were the bane of my existence and so. if some stuttering kid sees this ,for the love of god dont ask her out…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:41 PM
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Yeah probably, i know i dont, its just that only Incels talk about "Chads" (even though all men know this) and they do it with a really shitty tone. I should edit that "men" part and put "incels" but frankly most men do envy them hah Maybe thats why we get so many women here asking what a chad is and the list those: aggresive, huge dong, abusive, mysogynistic....... Like in my book Henry Cavill is a pure Chad and the dude is nothing of those (maybe the dong but im not sure)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:25 PM
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Not sure if that means that we are less social or just worse at it than women. Most old unmarried men i know have friend groups (where im originally from, sports club ultras are a popular choice and they are always drinking, teasing the workers, ripping jokes etc...). Most are not alone but the sad reality is that no matter how many friends a man has he is lonely without a woman and there is no way in hell anyone can tell you otherwise. Not sure how it is with women. Maybe you could shed some li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:10 PM
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Not really a red piller but all men know this and the answer is simple. Chad is a very hot dude that women chase , thats it. He doesnt need to finesse, to impress(he does but he does it by existing) to this to that he just looks really good and can fuck all the time. He wont be hated for being an asshole ( he be called assertive and confident) he wont be walked over for being nice (a real gentleman), hes not abusive (hes passionate)............ I dont think its a thing about points the way you p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:16 PM
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Men dont cope with making up the wall, the wall is real (although not as much as men would like to believe but its still there). You never really lose female priviledge completely. There is a point in time where pretty priviledge doesnt apply to you as much as it did and that is true in most cases. It doesnt dissapear but its a lot less prominent. If the wall means losing all priviledge then yeah, its not true but in my book its not that. Men cope by pretending we dont hit the wall even though r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:58 PM
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Pretty privilege exists, that’s how I know y’all are straight up in denial about women caring about looks or y’all would acknowledge that the more attractive you are the more of a Dick you can be. Yeah as i said different rules, we do know lmao. We truly do know its just that whenever anyone posts something here (in this case me) all women assume its some Quasimodo looking fucker and trying to put him (me) down as ugly and coping. Strategy for men is important, you are a woman you dont need to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:40 PM
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Oh yeah but im using the average dude for example. Growing up id consider myself an average dude(kinda extrema ups and downs thb) ,i consider myself above now but well i cant say for sure since my opinion means jackshit. Henry Cavill is also waaay too fucking nice but im not worried for him in the slightest lmao. Extremely attractive and unattractive people have different rules, its just true. especially those using niceness as pussy tokens. i also want using that as an example. I know it happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah but its a scenario that a fuck ton of men have,as i said me included. Its just what happens and most dudes resonate with it. If i write a post about being married for 20 years and my wife cheated on me, it would be made up but a fuck ton of incidents happen. Not sure if its a general rule (cant really make a statistic on the friendzoning of nice guys) but it happens often enough and once you learn to not be nice it stops happening. Cant say that i understand why. Im not a red pill "Hardcore…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:46 PM
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The thing with "nice guys finish last" is that it is extremely oversimplified. Men just say women dont like nice guys and attack any woman that says it isnt true. To women it sounds like "we think you only love abusive assholes and bully good men" which is hillarious. Women, frankly you dont understand dating as a guy. Theres a billion things you have to learn to not fuck up.Worst of all half those things are very counterintuitive. The nice guy thing is what most of us realise is bad through exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:06 PM
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I genuinelly believe this and the funny part is that with men, its the complete opposite. Frankly i believe you think that but on a subconscious level you do it to be pretty to men. A lot of men work out, dress well for the sole reason of attracting women consciously but subconsciously they simply feel better about themselves for looking good. Its such an amazing powerful feeling when you genuinely look at yourself and just feel "attractive". Like for a moment you dont need validation from anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:52 PM
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How? She said that its easier to find the one when youre ugly. No its not , its ten times easier when the woman is attractive, only that attractive women tend to be too picky. That doesnt make it harder for them. They make it harder for themselves. She also starts with presumptions that young hot women want to find a LTR and that men dont take young hot women seriously wich is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
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I didnt know what your point was with that higer education statement so i assumed you were objecting to the comments i made about the average woman not being a phd? If that wasnt your point then im sorry can you elaborate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:57 PM
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You mean the average Jane part? Still, the average woman doesnt have a phd. And the averge woman with a worthy phd will let daycares and nannies raise the kid. As it usually goes with "power couples". And it seems to be working fine with them, higher income couples are less likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah but thats your one sided explanation. Men are supposed to bring more, men do bring more. Women will often work part time and still consider it as "we are both equally working". Women break apart vast majority of marriages and money is always a top reason. You cant expect the man to work more ,so he can make more and then also expect to go halfsies in home(although if the man expects you to pay halfsies while you take care of kids more then he is the POS) . I dont think its fair to just blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:41 PM
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Its not really the 50s anymore. Men do housework and raise kids, women work. Yes , the man is expected to work more, the woman is expected to be with kids more but the tides are shifting. People shit on modern marriages but they have their pros too. Also most women arent Phds and high end lawyers and so. I doubt that the average Jane working as a cashier really things that she is sacrificising a career by finding a partner. Frankly the differences are quite simple. Women dont have near as much s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:55 PM
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You are starting with the presumption that young hot women want LTRs. Also when addresing an extremely attractive young woman thats submissive and agreeable....... thats just nitpicking hypotheticals. Like men who shit on scenrios with women who were ran through by 70 guys but now want them. Cant say it doesnt happen but its extremely rare. Very hot people (especuially women) are usually entitled af. I worked with a cousin as a security guard at a club (i have zero experience im jusy big and bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah but a good chunk of women just simply wont do it. They can but they wont. I used Miami party girls as an example not because they are the only ones who can do it , they are one of the few ones that do it. Most women just arent getting dicked down every week byvrandom Chads in their 20 and then look for a BB in 30s, thats just unreasonable. Red and blackpill have many truths in them but they shouldnt be used as absolute/100% truths the way they are used rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:54 AM
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if men stopped dating and fucking whores, women would stop being whores right? Yes.There is absolutrly no way it happens tho. Pussy has some voodoo magic shit. Some men can be convunced but most are gonna go for it If you think that anyone can find a 24yo virgin without her being a coservative religious woman..... good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:30 AM
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Daliban member 4life, 6th keyboard warrior battalion reporting for duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:28 AM
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More like they say they have their pick of women. I dont believe that they have their pick of <25 yo conservative religious virgins. They are rich and fit (at least the taller guy is). They can pork Miami party girls. Aside from those virgin women not liking manwhores and usually going for religious guys themselves.Can you imagine telling a conservative dad that you will marry his daughter and fuck "bad bitches" on the side. He'd start shooting at you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:21 AM
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Not a red pill dude but i watched the guys Destiny was collabing with (FreshandFit). They say that modern women are not marriage material, that its irreversible and that men need to adapt to the "market" and become fuckboys if they want to enjoy life because women ride the cc and after the wall they find a beta to have a family with that cant make her happy because she is used to millionaires and basketball pkayers while shes young and pretty. So she ends up despising him. [ i have to say that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:05 AM
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Frankly, my intuition says no but it would depend on the woman. If we really click then id maybe look past it but i know that deep down id hate myself for it. Insecurities are bound to be there and well im not gonna lie to you about being a 50+ bodycount bona fide fucker. Im not sure how i compare with other men but i know that i dont want too be compared to 30 guys. I dobt have grandiose delusions that im a god in bed or something like that. I just wouldnt want a woman that wants other men whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:41 PM
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The vast majority of men also dont hate women. Is the idea that every man that struggles in dating is just a horrible bitter woman-hater also a cope to feed your own anger and sense of victimisation? Hard truths cut both ways, i dont think the scene is as bad as its painted to be but women lie and victimize themselves just as much as men do ,if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:17 PM
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There are exceptions ofc but many guys get shot down for not reaching that "label". As u said above i thought that was a meme until i spend time in the US. Can you seriously tell me that 5'11" and 6' make any real difference to a 5'4" girl? I mean there is no way in hell that one of those heights is much more attractive than the other. Its just the "label" of being 6' that matters. That is what should be changed (according to me ofc). Guys who are 5'11" but say they are 6' also get shot down les…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:17 PM
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First off you genuinelly dont get how different it is to be an ugly man than an ugly woman, search for "post wall tiktoks". Women who are not attractive anymore tell their experiences and they are never treated bad, they are just ignored like men are with the occasional fun poking. I know that women have a harder time with those than men because thats kinda the default male experience. Ugly men are hated with a burning passion. You approach a woman and she is disgusted and insulted that you thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:09 PM
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Itll never be changed. Women will always prefer a man taller than her. What i think could be changed is the "label" nature of height. Like a 4'11" girl will call a 5'11" guy a manlet for not being 6 foot. Even though he towers over her. But if that same guy tells her that he is 6' she will be fine with it. Im originally from a tall country and from the tallest region in that country(google height of dinaric people if you need proof). Im 6'5.4" and im pretty much wasnt the tallest anywhere. Not i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:56 AM
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Regarding the red pill and sexuality. How is it reasonable to expect every woman to fuck the man on the first date to show that she is not exploiting him but to hate on women with body count? I personally mind a high n count(like every honest dude)dont get me wrong but i think its bad to advocate them to have sex with everyone and their mama whike advocating that women who have sex with everyone and their mama are bad. Like ,they are bound to have dates with men they want to get to know and TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:04 PM
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Incel is a dude that wants to get laid but cant. Lets keep it there. One of the reasons why the "manosphere" is on the rise is because people like you just call all of them incels and anyone with a brain can tell that its not the case. So its natural to assume that youre lying your ass off to avoid providing any real criticism. It will just lead more and more men into the manosphere. All you get by calling everyone you dislike an incel is that you look cool for a second in a reddit thread. Its l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:29 PM
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Im east european (balkans) from a muslim background(Bosnians are not that religious) and i genuinelly never ever heard anyone say that irl. We are not as conservative as middle easterners or caucasians but we are more than you western folks. As i said if you had to choose an instance of broken home or loving home on an r/ask poll, men will say loving home. Maybe thats where op gets the "tons of cases" but reality isnt as simple as one trait. That was
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:47 PM
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The problem with pill debates is that its always extremely nitpicked hypothetical scenarios. Ladies what do you think about short guys? Yeah its an unattractive trait and you will have a hard time with women but very rarely are you gonne be purely judged for that. Like if you ask any woman if she wants a short or tall guy all are gonna choose the tall guy but reality is rarely that simple. Men ,if you could choose would you rather have a woman from a loving home or from a broken one? Ofc its gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:28 PM
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He said Mexico (which is part of the west) The west is usually looked at as US , Canada and West Europe. Im East european (technically west) but im not considered a westerner. Yeah but maybe chasing the dull trad marriages is the best thing you could hope for when youre a unattractive man. Like husband provides all, wife provides pussy, hotel trivago. A lot of eastern cultures still have that "work contract" view of marriage. Definitely not a pretty marriage in my book but if you dont really hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:05 AM
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Bruh i think this is a troll post made to bait r/ IncelTears and r/JustNeckbeardThings and subs like that. Also OP uses impregnated in his responses. You cant be serious and use that lmao Y’all can’t handle eastern women. They don’t want weak men. If y’all can’t even handle your own women. Why do you think you can handle the lionesses overseas? Yeah but the standards are different. Look standards for men are extreme in the west. In some other places they are not. I dont really oppose if someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:53 AM
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Not hard to admit but quite frankly it still fs with my brain. I was a covert stutterer (someone that stutters but not too noticeably)and i couldnt deal with it what so ever. I had girls interested in me but i pushed them away like a douche because of my extreme insecurities. I had a crush in high school and i remember her coming to me and playing with my hair once(i was a long haired metalhead- in fact i still am lmao) and i couldnt utter a damn word. That shit will haunt me forever. The weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:42 PM
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Balkans(southeast europe) Street violence isnt really a thing where i live. These situations happened in bars. Not mugging or gunpoint stuff or anything like that.I still count that as defending a woman from attack because ,well i did. Now dog attacks are fucking common. We have stray issues. I swear i had interactions with like a billion fucking dogs and my country also has no laws regarding muzzles and so , now every idiot with a Pitbull is a life threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:26 PM
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How many women have you genuinely had to defend from an attack? 2 (4 if dogs count) How many women have run away when you have been attacked? 1 Didnt run away but did nothing. My point was that the question was absurd. That it made no sense to ask someone to go through so much shit just for a quick "HA!!!! I TOLD YOU ".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:38 PM
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No. Thats on women. If i could ease her burden then yes but if she just made me do it for the lolz or a "see what i have to do" then no. Its simply different roles. If someone attacks a woman a man is supposed to protect her. Meanwhile a woman will run away when her dude is getting his shit kicked it. What is he supposed to do when someone starts punching her . Ask stuff like "Ok you have to take a beating for me and then ill protect you". Or telling a housewife "ok ,you have to work for 40 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:27 PM
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I said be kind not be a sucker Kind people have boundaries and wont sit around doing favors in the hopes of being chosen Thats kinda how it ends up. I have no idea why but women react positively when the guy is not kind. Most of us assume that the other gender likes what we do so thats why so many guys go out of their way to be very nice and then get stuck in the friendzone. The first rule you learn is - stoo being nice. Some guys do get gfs by being nice but thats really rare. Studies show it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:16 AM
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Women will accept a kind man with manners This is the way to go to be friendzoned a billion times and then killing yourself after years on 4chan. This doesnt work at all. Youll walk her dog while she goes for different men. Now onto porn and instagram body standards. That works on women not men. Instagram and porn ruin girls because they set unrealistic body standards and make them hate themselves (i remember being with a girl who thought her v was disgusting because it looked kinda loose, woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:44 AM
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Men are more rigid when it comes to selection based on looks. But the standards are pretty low. Come on. The standards for women are to be alive ,groomed and not obese. Thats it. Not jaw lines, not height, not v shape, not cheek holes(or whatever theyre called) not amazing hair , not boob size, not ass size, not muscled arms....... Everything goes. Some things are preffered but not required. Im saying standards as in what is something you are very likely to refuse someone for if they dont have i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:04 AM
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Ugly women get treated like bad people as well Nowhere near the same. A guy is simply gonna say that a girl is ugly. Women will go around it and treat him like a creep,incel ,wierdo......... Looks open doors, personality lets you stay. Yet if all doors are barred shut personality means jack shit. Its important to keep a relationship but it wont get you one. Standards for male looks are much harsher but the male priviledge there is that you can impact it. The female priviledge is that no matter h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:35 PM
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Sweet baby no 1/10 man wants a 1/10 woman They may use her as a fleshlight under the darkness of night but they will not want date her Well this is precisely the problem. Ugly women get treated like ugly women , ugly men get treated like bad people. You dont have that knowledge. Someone has to show you. Yet everyone you interact with just tells you to fix your personality. That you are a bad person. They either lie because they dont want to appear shallow or they lack any form of empathy to feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:50 PM
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Oh god no. That is a hell loop. Maybe i would have been but im from a third world country that was destroyed by war when i was born so i didnt have the luxury to wail in self pity on the internet(i didnt have internet at all until i was 13 and no good internet until much later). I do have insight into what its like when people who dont have major flaws try to tell you that its your fault and never offer good advice because they just say what worked for them. As a former stutterer i know very wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:35 PM
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Yeah that kinda sums it down. Its just that standards of attraction are much lower on the other side. A 1/10 woman will be attractive to 1/10 guys its just that she doesnt want them. Well better start wanting guys your level or you are in for a tough fucking ride. A 1/10 dude can increase his attraction via all i described above and then date down. As a man you do have ways , its just that youve never heard a positive word about yourself in your entire life so you dont think its possible. Ugly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:25 PM
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Im not a black piller nor a red piller. Yet i do think theres truth in all of those. Average or even above average men just get lost in a bunch if hypothetical scenarios on the internet that make their confidence plumet down like crazy and fills them with bitterness(she only wants me after she got railed by the Chads and she knows they dont want her) and so. Yet the truth part still stays. Do you have any idea what kind of a dude you have to be to be pursued by women. And i dont mean them smilin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:11 PM
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I dont k ow what that is. I googled and it said it means Pumpkin spice late. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:07 PM
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Developing dick disciplitne is really hard(pun intended). But lets be real, if we let women do the chasing itd be like the blackpillers are preaching. 4% of men would get all women and the rest would fill cum jars. We should meet half way. Dont stop the chasing but dial the horniness down a little
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:59 AM
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There is the video on yt called "Being ugly, my experience". The dude was with a girl for 7 years that pretty openly cheated on him, forced him to walk behind her 10 meters out in public, insulted ,demeaned and belittled him on every whim and that shit went on for 7 fucking years. I think it was like 3 and he broke up and then she asked him to get together and 4 more years of shit. It gets much worse. There are women getting beaten that dont think they deserve anything else. Being unatractive(or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:51 AM
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It is "personality" believe it or not. Its also looks but they are intertwined. But it is a little more complicated than "all pretty guys have good personality and all ugly guys have bad personality." Plenty of ugly dudes get women. When youve been served hostility and rejection whenever youve tried to approach a woman... that shit has to cut deep. on top of that therell be rumors that youre a creep ,wierdo incel because they want to save face. Ugly men usually have troubles developing social sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:36 AM
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People dont want to look weak. Men dont want to be compared to all the other guys a woman was with(dont want to be number 38 to someone) and older women hate that they cant compete with young girls. You just cant say it. The thing is that we are always dealing with hypotheticals online. When you genuinely meet someone and you fall for them its not as big a deal. Its always in the back of your brain but you mostly dont obsess over it the way you would in a made up online scenario. Online its alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 PM
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Honestly i dont buy it. Id never forgive a woman for cheating and no matter what Red Pillers say about alpha chads i dont think that women would ever forgive a man after cheating, no matter the status. Maybe they stay with him because they are spineless worms that are after his money. Weak and pathetic men stay with women because they dont think they can find another. I dont think you are ever over it. I think that itll be on your mind on your last dying breath. The feeling that you arent enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:15 AM
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Oh definitely. Its never ever happening. I was just saying that we cant just blame women on their egos and unrealistic standards. A 2/10 fattie girl has the options of a 8/10 man (or at least thinks she has because men will fuck anything and she thinks that means she has higher value) If you constantly have people throwing themselves at your feet you are bound to think you are the shit. And can anyone really blame you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:39 AM
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Anecdotal evidence can often be misleading. According to the washington post 28% of men are virgins or havent had sex in a year and 18% of women. Niw how many of those have been celibate for years 5%? 6%? Who knows. When dealing with big polulations 5% is a lot of people but 95% are still the absolute majority. If you surround yourself with the 5% you may think they are the majority. Statistics are there for a reason. Thats why we dont use the "hes broke, short and ugly but he has a 8/10 gf " as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:38 PM
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To be fully honest with you my opinion irl and my opinion here are not the same(this is a fake account too ). The vast majority of men do care a lot. You cant admit it because it makes you look weak and women run from weakness. Men admit those things to other men. Its often soulcrushing but as i said you cant admit it to women because it gives "incel , wierdo, creep, weakling" vibes and women run like hell from those Most men will just tell a girl what she likes to hear to get laid. Not what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:26 PM
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Thats probably true. I just read that study a few days ago here. But there is truth in it. A lot of male attraction gies beyond looks and well if you date online you judge people purely on looks. If men are judget by only looks they are fucked. Standards for male looks are extreme. Anyone under 6 foot is short, slightly balding and youre done, have to be fit af....... You have to be an 8/10 to appear average. But if you approach women irl you can show wits, confidence ,charm...... thats appealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:31 PM
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Well thats fair lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:14 PM
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Well i tried to elaborate it. I dont think its fair to simply brand 99% of men as raging mysogynists. Because most men do care to some extend. There are reasons for those opinions. We value different things in the opposite gender. There is stuff thats unfair to us too. Why is it that we always have to be the ones initiating everything ,paying for everything,taking care of everything........... Would it be fair if we called all women sexist because they look for men like that while us not caring …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:13 PM
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Yeah that has truth to it. But its your fault as well. Majority of women never approach first, dont choose where to go out, always expect him to pay, to carry conversations, to make her laugh and all they offer in return is to kinda exist near you. Act like a prize, youll be treated like one. If a guy objectifies a woman that he genuinely has a partner in. Someone to grow together with , to support each other mutually.... If he treats her like an object then he is a god damn piece of shit. But m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:40 PM
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There has to be a reason for the standards being almost opposite for men and women when jt comes to n count. Yeah sitting at home and writing all men trash circlejerk is easy and makes you feel good but you wont clear up anything like that. Maybe its simply that exchanging partners builds confidence. We all want to be desired and when you genuinely are desired you are bound to be more confident. When a confident person is in a relationship they wont take crap because they know they have options …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:36 AM
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The nice guy trope has become a meme for undateable/fuckable men and has become synonymous with "creep,wierdo,incel" . Why would anyone want to do that to themselves? Women constantly go for men with the traits you described. Its only natural that more and more men will adopt those traits in order to be more succesful with women. Stop rewarding borderlineASPD behaviour with sex and the men will adapt to whatever you value. This cuts both ways. Guys blame women for their sky high egos and extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:59 PM
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I have no idea about oxytocin and im not gonna pretend i do. But i have to give my beef on this. Maybe its simply that exchanging partners builds confidence. We all want to be desired and when you genuinely are desired you are bound to be more confident. When a confident person is in a relationship they wont take crap because they know they have options and arent afraid to exercise them. Women tend to like cocky and confident men and the same isnt true the other way around(there are exceptions b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:30 PM
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Nobody can tell you that there are a set of rules and if you do them it will work 100%. But it does help if you take good advice and get experience. Women can give good relationship advice to men but dating.... not so much. Its just that dating depends almost solely on the man. Be honest when does a woman approach first, ask a man out, pick out the place, take him to a place, make up fun activities........ A good chunk of women have an "entertain me" mindset. Almost every man goes through that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:57 PM
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Honestly i think that most people who post the circlejerk just mean that women arent honest about it and that its damaging. If a man thinks a woman is ugly hell say that she is ugly. Maybe not to her face but hell say it to someone else. Its cruel and he most likely does it with the intention of mocking her but he outs himself as the asshole there. When an ugly guy approaches a woman she also wont say to his face that he is ugly(understandable ofc). But when she talks to someone else about it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:23 PM
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