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LESSON LEARNEDZumaQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:41 PM
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Omg I can’t stop laughing. Sexist, racist, bigoted, biased! Welcome to our world, asshole. Except, for us it’s reality and not just a show. Also, shaming the show for being sexist, then throwing shade on a gay man, an “older” single man, an “older” single woman and a childless married woman. Classic 👌🏻🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:02 AM
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Definitely! Going to such lengths to control her and make her dependent on him, he probably has antisocial personality disorder. He’ll definitely do this again to the next vulnerable woman he suspects will be an easy target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:41 PM
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“I supported his streaming dream” … Sis, no. Ignoring that many red flags over the years, she was basically inviting him to keep screwing her over. And she’s s thinking about taking him back! What did he ever give her but grief? He even had pictures of her sister, for Christ’s sake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:56 AM
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How can she not be sure wether to tell her sister?? Does she honestly believe her sister can be happy with that guy? If after only one month, he tried to cheat on her sister with her, he’ll surely try again soon with a different woman, if he hasn’t already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:17 PM
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I do not understand how a man could be satisfied with living under these conditions, and be even proud of it. How can standards be so low? Do men even have any idea of what does and doesn’t look acceptable / nice / cozy? I bet he’d expect a woman to happily have sex with him on that … bed(?) on the first date, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:33 PM
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Every time I read something like this, I am shocked how men manipulated women into thinking this is okay and a sign of the living together “going well”. Ladies, stop accepting exploitation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:14 AM
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FDS has made me aware of LVM behavior in movies and books and it’s honestly astounding how frequent it is even in stories that are supposed to be romantic. I wonder if that’s part of the reason women tend to accept such behavior, as it’s clearly depicted as normal. Even Mr. Darcy, who used to be my dream man, has shown some LVM behavior and I am crushed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:42 PM
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I am disgusted. Men feel restricted by not making rape jokes? They consider it a “kindness” if they don’t? And believe they then deserve “kindness” (read: sex) in return? Not making sexist jokes is the absolut minimum of human decency and respect and does not deserve anything in return, it should be a given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:37 PM
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I feel the same! My NVX used to play FIFA for hours, scream at the TV, get angry with me when he lost and even damaged furniture by throwing his controller. Never again. My boyfriend, however, plays video games on and off, probably about once a week for about an hour, then he gets sick of it. Sometimes we play together and that’s always loads of fun for the both of us. I like to play video games myself. So his gaming I don’t mind at all. All in all, really depends on the time spend on it and how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:49 AM
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I’ve only discovered FDS two weeks ago, but it’s already helped me so much reflecting on my personal relationship standards and red flags. It has also helped me to enforce boundaries in my current relationship, even though that will still need some getting used to. Yesterday, my partner pushed one of my boundaries which I calmly but firmly told him. Even though he apologized immediately and said said he was ashamed, I felt really guilty about it and almost apologized to him for mentioning it. I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:40 PM
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Of course it’s okay to let her go. It sounds like you spend a lot of time worrying about her, which costs you energy. Unfortunately, you can’t make her see the problem, if she’s oblivious about it. If you should want to, you can always go back to being friends with her and supporting her once the relationship ends, which will undoubtedly happen eventually. If by then, you’ll have moved on and won’t want to be her friend anymore, that is fine too - do what’s best for YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:08 AM
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This is heartbreaking. We live in a society where men can neg, gaslight, abuse and rape women left and right without having to fear any consequences and oftentimes women blaming themselves for it happening to them, while women can’t even tell a man “I’m not interested“ without having to fear for their safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:57 AM
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Imagine the women going back to a regular job at one point. Take the nurse for example; nurses are highly sexualized anyway - who’s going to take her seriously, if they know about her OF? She is most likely going to be looked down upon and slut-shamed. Men working with her would feel entitled to sexually harass her. And I don’t even want to image what a former subscriber of hers would do if they were to stay at the hospital she’d work at. They’re ruining their reputations and their future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:04 PM
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Exactly! My comment was not supposed to be only about feeling protected, maybe that didn’t come across as well. When there’s no attraction / chemistry, it can’t really work. You need to be attracted to your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:13 PM
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These posts always make me both smile and cry my eyes out at the same time. Sharing a love like that is what every relationship should be about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:37 AM
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I’m sorry your family is doing that to you. Your feelings matter, they should respect that. If his height was that big of an issue from the start, and your body send you such clear signals about it, a relationship absolutely couldn’t go well. You’re right to stand your ground. Him being short and coming across as delicate and feminine means he can’t physically protect you, even if he does offer financial and possibly emotional security. At least I would feel that way, it’s important to me that a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:26 AM
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If this has happened that many times already, I doubt that it’s just forgetfulness. Maybe he would rather see you as a nurse because it better fits the image of you he’s made up for himself (as nurses tend to be seen as nurturing and also sexy!), rather than accepting you as the girl boss who’s going to be a doctor. Maybe it’s his way of trying to push you into realizing that being a nurse would be a “better fit” for you, because that’s what HE wants for you. Another possibility could be that he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:40 PM
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There are too many women and girls, especially in their teens and twenties out there who believe they need a men because society expects that as some kind of “milestone“in a woman’s life. You don’t! If you’re truly happy in your relationship and he treats you right, that’s awesome. But if you’re not, don’t put up with bad behavior just because you fear being single could be seen by some as some kind of failure. Focus on yourself and your happiness. That’s when you grow, not when you’re in a bad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:46 PM
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This is hilarious but also so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:23 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree! Especially the penis shoving and, sadly, the kissing. It is sad that being affectionate seems to be widely used just as a tool to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:21 PM
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