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| 1 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?That's what is recorded in a limited data set, doesn't mean it's completely conclusive and that every woman who made an accusation was recorded, confirmed true or false, taken to court, etc. There's a good amount of women who will just lie to destroy someone's life, it's hard to determine who, what, when, and where in a complete sense like that, just have to be somewhat careful around women and try to prevent getting falsely accused (eg. don't treat her like shit, dont have sex with her then imm… | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Communication and self reflection, it's something that you can be honest with yourself to stop yourself from doing if you become unnecessarily (key word there) turning into a jerk. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?This, I used to be sheepish and shy around cute girls when I was literally looking down at them. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | FR: Turned my high school mate's 42-year-old mom into my regular fuckbuddy (18M)Young with delusions and AI erotica fan fiction | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 01:59 AM |
| 6 | FR: Turned my high school mate's 42-year-old mom into my regular fuckbuddy (18M)Called it at 18 year old asian guy | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 01:37 AM |
| 6 | ‘what do you do for work?’It is good enough but kinda describing your job gives you more to talk about (if she has social skills lol.) | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceYou can do both, for women and for yourself, it's a sweet deal. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:23 PM |
| 14 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chancePeople love throwing out the "fat guy with hot girlfriend" trope as if it's a common thing. Also self improving to be more attractive to women is valid, "cuck shit" is really just wanting/watching a dude smash your girl which is a completely different thing lol. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:20 PM |
| 18 | How to get women in the gym"Hey, I always see you around here, what's your name?" | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Best hobbies or jobs to get girls?See thats the thing, a good amount of women if they hear you live with parents might not want to date you. I agree its reasonable to save money but 40+ and doing that can be an even bigger issue for more women in that age range. Also I added that in alongside the other unattractive factors, like being a gamer isnt bad but 40+ in moms basement while being fat with 0 girls changes a lot. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 03:20 PM |
| 18 | Best hobbies or jobs to get girls?You might need some of this though, you dont want to end up like those fat anime loving gamer dudes 40+ with no girls, living in moms basement. Maximizing what you can do to attract women can be helpful, but overdoing it in a harmful way can only hurt (eg. taking steroids to get muscle, selling drugs to get lots of money, etc etc) | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 04:33 AM |
| -3 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Same thing for the most part, whore can be used to describe a woman considered promiscuous | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 04:21 AM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?When I say craziest things, I mean things uncommon for me like a girl cheating/leaving her boyfriend to go hook up with someone I know, or a girl going with someone I know and doing a bunch of drugs, not the typical I meet girl I take her back home and smash. Even then that's besides the point and idc if you believe it or not. Also I'm not demeaning whores, I literally said they are fun people. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:59 AM |
| -3 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?There is a difference between "all" and "tons", also I didn't say I was preying on them lmao wtf. Acknowledging nightlife has a good amount of promiscuous women isn't predatory. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:49 AM |
| -1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?I didn't say that all of them are whores, or that every woman who shows up is one. I've been backstage many times, seen the craziest things that lead from nightclubs to "other rooms", I'm not necessarily "hobby", I've met a couple misogynistic DJ's (the "all women" type) throughout the years so idk what point your trying to make. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:40 AM |
| -3 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?I didn't say that all of them are whores, or that every woman who shows up is one. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:35 AM |
| 4 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?As a DJ as well yes, tons of whores, who tf cares about it being “derogatory”, tons of girls in nightlife who want to fuck the DJ just because he’s famous. Thats what whores do (no hate, they are very fun people!) | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Yea I was gonna say the same with that original comment, I think since a lot of these hot girls get to be in major cities making tons of money from social media, you would have to somewhat match that income or better. Of course there's girls who look 9 to 10's and don't have a need for luxury but they get taken pretty quickly in the dating marketplace (they're pretty hard to get basically, depending on who you are as a guy.) Money is always an important factor, women do care but there's always e… | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What you REALLY need to improve at Dating. And expensive courses are not going to help you at all.Sure, I’ll try to be quick, kinda in a rush, you are not the first to not maybe believe me lol. I first noticed this in high school, girl was super into me first day but when she found out I didnt have a car we rarely talked. Another girl kinda the same but I jokingly asked her for some chips/food a couple times, she gone after that. I noticed acting broke was funny around my hood friends but a push away for girls. Fast forward, I worked in/around the music industry in LA for years, I would meet… | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What you REALLY need to improve at Dating. And expensive courses are not going to help you at all.Idk my experience has been the opposite, being super social and funny but broke didn’t get me anywhere romantically. I’ve seen this a lot with my peers too. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Help guys to stop thinking of girls!Focusing on you can help you get girls so convert that energy of wanting women into self improvement as well as pursuing women too (balancing them out how you want, but I wouldn't recommend 100% only going for girls all the time every time like a horn dog.) | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 04:30 AM |
| 9 | For those who have done cold approach, have you had women be mean and immediately tell you to go awayYeah, You really don't know what's gonna happen, one time a girl approached me to dance with me and her fridge friend shoved me away hard. Some women are just terrible people. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 09:40 PM |
| 7 | This subreddit is full of creepsThis is the equivalent of “stop asking questions, start seeking answers.” like wtf is OP on about lol. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Confident ugly men get put in the friend zone for the most part (unless you’re going for ugly women), confidence surely is important but everything else matters just as much | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as "out of your league"Fame is a huge attraction trigger for women, if Pedro Pascal was never famous and just worked at Wal-Mart that would be the end of all those girls crushing over him. That “anxiety touching” of other women would get him fired, women would read an article about this old man touching women coworkers at Wal-Mart and talk about how creepy he is lol. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 04:19 PM |
| 12 | There is no such thing as "out of your league"Imo it’s like 2-5 out of 700 people I may know where the guy is ugly af and the girl is hot af, its rare and uncommon (sometimes it doesn’t last, right now its only 2 couples I know), guys should self improve as much as possible to improve there chances of getting a hot girl (or even an average one, dating can be insanely difficult when you hit no attraction triggers for women) with some of these ugly guys I know like 3 have good money. OP is fairly wrong, most women who are attractive aren’t ha… | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 04:13 PM |
| 18 | Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women?Depends on what you mean by success (like getting numbers/socials? actually hooking up with them?) but by and large no, never met a guy like this ESPECIALLY if you’re talking about beatiful women. I worked in night life, been around different major cities, different countries, never seen an average LOOKING man have this unless he had good money/social status/clout. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What Are Some Common Misconceptions That Guys Have About “The Game” or Seduction In General?Online and IRL experiences, listen to dating podcasts that have many women on it and they talk about what the kinds of men they like. I have a tall friend from London who looks above average as a dude, is fit, girls take a lot of interest in him when we go out and flirt HARD with him (hes got little to no game, never seen this happen to an ugly guy, improbable to happen) The guy who looks ugly will more than likely looksmatch another girl or someone uglier. A confident ugly man getting a hot gir… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some Common Misconceptions That Guys Have About “The Game” or Seduction In General?Its very improbable for a woman to find a short fat guy with severe acne, receding hairline, and crooked yellow teeth to be attractive. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 09:05 PM |
| -2 | What Are Some Common Misconceptions That Guys Have About “The Game” or Seduction In General?If you’re ugly, game doesn’t work, looks still matter unless the woman is attracted to another aspect of you that she knows of (eg. being famous, looking wealthy) edit: I meant to say game doesn’t really work, uglier you are the harder the game, you can still get ugly girls tho | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 06:58 PM |
| 6 | How come for some guys dating and relationships are easy while others struggle ?I used to have very clear/good skin, my looks were on point at an early age (being funny helped too), then acne hit and all the girls I was getting where gone/disgusted by me. It can really suck when you're on the other side of those "god given perks" | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | How does a minority have success with dating?You asked this question before bro (If I remember correctly.) Looks, money, social skills/personality, now a days even clout, improve all if not most of these things and you get success. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | As a minority male what type of women should I be aiming for?I cant say exactly but can give estimates, also have to factor in social life and how often you meet women (when these attraction triggers are established, I know a dude with none of these and got rejected about 900 times so having a good foundation can help reduce rejection.) To start, income is a tricky one because that can depend on where you live/what you do but I think around 70k+ is a good area. Muscle mass/body fat depends but girls like a lean muscular athletic look (like Brad Pitt in Fi… | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | As a minority male what type of women should I be aiming for?You bypass this statistic if you hit a lot of attraction triggers for women (looks, status, personality, money) | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?I could've phrased it better but I mean I need to improve my looks/money more in regards to dating/being able to date the women I want. I think being vulnerable is a roll of the dice with women but I do believe most women will be repulsed by it depending on what you're vulnerable about and how you say things (I think she will react differently to "I lost my job" vs. "I lost my job and I'm scared... I don't know what to do, I want to cry!") I think looks/money will make it so she doesn't react as… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?Yea I was always vulnerable when it was relevant and we’ve known each other for a while, never was it up front, no girl ever stayed which is fine since Im not that great or worth staying for tbh, I still have to improve looks/money for the most part. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 09:30 PM |
| 15 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?The “vulnerable” aspect of Models from what I remember really didn’t work well with women at the time, I was usually just shit on, but I was also uglier/not that great back then. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How should I handle the “if you mistreat/hurt her you will get it” threat from her friends[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?<image> Question mark at the end of the sentence, I'm literally not denying anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?He asked a question that is commonly asked by people in RP communities so I'm sure that is what that pin is for. I never said it was just a "handful", there for sure are some RP dudes that genuinely hate women. It's my first time hearing the term "enjoy the decline", idc about it really, have fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?Yea those dudes are weird af, there's always extremist types in almost every group. If I was an anime fan, I might talk about or love a show, but then there are "those other types" of anime fans with the crusty Sailor Moon shirts, no wife, no GF, just Hentai in mom's basement types. That's how I look at some of these more extreme RP guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 04:59 AM |
| 12 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?Then yea you don't understand RP correctly. It's simply understanding the truth/reality about dating and intersexual dynamics, hence the name "red pill" as a reference to The Matrix. If you take this knowledge and become a manipulator, then you're just a manipulator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How does the RedPill see male teachers?I think its fine as long as you know how it affects your positioning in the dating marketplace. I also think you can still be more attractive/bump up more in the marketplace if you do good/excel in other attraction triggers (looks, personality, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Does the behavior of online incels make you less willing to give a chance to a virgin man?How can women tell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 02:48 PM |
| – | What is the equivalent of Big D Energy for women?Women in general won’t allow it and will cry misogny if we ever made a movement like “Big D Energy” for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 11:29 PM |
| – | Women do not have ridiculously high standards in menYeah any girl I met that said they don't care about men's money, later start complaining that they have to provide for men or if my homie(s) are poor his girl makes remarks like ("why couldn't you buy something like that?" or "see college can get you paid") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:30 PM |
| – | Women do not have ridiculously high standards in menOr just watch a dating podcast(s) and see how for every 3000 women, maybe 5 would have what OP says as standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity?I would say so yes, I think the percentage of men in relationships who watch porn would be drastically lower. Men generally still lust after other women even when they have one locked down. I would say if they knew %100 that they wouldn’t get caught they would do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you date a slob?Yea, I will give her a chance to clean herself up and she would need to make it a habit. If both fail then maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a trans man that passes well?they/them are about to come for you 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Rather than maximizing your looks, do this insteadThese are all outliers compared to a majority. I have an obese friend too with a hot gf, he is somewhat clouted in EDM music and has rich parents. I would say his social status (He knows tons of people from his college and is somewhat successful in music). I also have a twig like friend who is married, I know a couple of twig like friends that run major labels/know people in EDM and "get" hot girls (tons of clout sucker women in this scene that will want to smash/be with you for clout). We can g… | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 11:28 PM |
| 12 | Rather than maximizing your looks, do this insteadAll of it is important, a confident ugly guy will still get as rejected as a shy ugly guy. A confident ugly guy is probably just more annoying to women (unless he offers value in some other way) | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 05:29 PM |
| -2 | Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virginB has the flexibility to change to get women, he can “looksmax”, he can practice talking to women more, although older and autistic he can make things happen a lot more than A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?If your personality is terrible and pushing away women, it should and can be changed. People can definitely change their personality. Authentically improving can mean nothing if it isn't factoring in what women are attracted to in general, I can get really good at a video game because I love gaming, women aren't attracted to that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 08:23 PM |
| 10 | Would a world without "Red Pill" or lonely men be better?This reads as "just be yourself" which for a man who's struggling to get women, is awful advice. The Red Pill has a lot of good self improvement advice. If you want to date attractive women, you have to self improve to increase the odds (depending on the kind of guy you are). As someone who was a broke musician with "meh" looks, it was nearly impossible to date another broke musician girl, because almost all of them would be with someone more successful (I've seen this with my friends/peers as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Sometimes they dont get to have sex with said attractive woman, lots of situations where a girl will hold off and a guy will simp (eg. friendzoned guy, guy just pays for her stuff and gets nothing in return) Best thing you can do is self improve in all aspects (looks, finances, social life/social skills, personality) and keep talking to women. Do not show this level of desperation as other commenters have pointed out. If you choose to pay for a prostitute just know that there is no genuine desir… | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Conventionally unattractive men with really attractive girls doesn't always mean the two are dating, I was very unattractive working with super models in LA and sometimes guys kinda looked at me weird. Also, just because a beautiful girl is fucking with a nerdy dude doesn't mean that it will last or that it is common, I know girls that have dated guys just because the guy asked and she said yes only to break up with him after (like the meme "gave an ugly guy a chance"). Ugly man dating beautiful… | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 02:10 AM |
| 0 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failI agree witht this point, I would say Red Pill highlighted aspects of my life that I was suspicoius of (eg. this guy became super successful and now has girls, girls like successful men more than average ones. or this girl wants to know me now because Im with a celebrity etc etc) Red Pill shows a lot of uncomfortable realities about women that I never knew about, I was always treated “low value” as an average “not successful” musician by women before I learned about red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:21 PM |
| 8 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?Meh, from what I've seen, most feminists stay/are around established "chad" men, or if they are in late 30's and unattractive (fat and/or ugly) they settle with an average guy. Growing up with, going to school with, and meeting tons of feminists, even if they dated Carl from Wal-Mart they always ended with Chad/someone like Chad or just stayed single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:32 PM |
| 13 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?This by 1000, I’ve seen how some “feminists” treat highly successful men versus how they treat an average dude. One of my hardcore feminist friends made a comment about how a girl my age bought me a drink and how it “wasn’t ok.” I think feminists in general want power, they dont care about most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 04:08 PM |
| 10 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Growing up with a lot of them (Hispanic), the hood/ghetto types where usually very masculine and had detrimental attitudes/behaviors (always fighting, bad behavior, getting in trouble, doing drugs, joining gangs, etc.) It was rare to meet hood Hispanic chicks that where nice and kind. The average girl, if you start talking to her, might smile, be receptive, engage in convo and etc. but hood chicks might not really show you this, especially since a lot of them want to be "hard". Also, be VERY car… | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:28 AM |
| 17 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Go to Hip Hop parties/events, you can approach them but know that they might be way more aggressive than other girls | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 03:50 AM |
| 5 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?A couple times yea, gym is risky though, bc if they accuse you of being a creep, you might be kicked out I picked up a girl playing Pokemon GO while she was resting, talked a bit about the game, got her insta Some openers (have confidence to lead the conversation), "this is kinda fun huh?", "how is that machine? I kinda hurt myself last time", "is it cool to work in with you?" or my favorite "yo, you come here a lot too right? what's your name?" but with all these be prepared to lead the convo, … | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:14 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Starting out as platonic friends is a good strategy for a romantic relationshipIt's possible to fall in love with your female friend(s), her "feeling deceived" is her own problem, it's not a foreign concept to meet someone as a friend and develop feelings for them. Way bigger problems that exist than "omg my friend likes me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?Did you tell them you where a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedI dont think you have to hold it off, in my experience I think relationships are harder if you dont have much money. The women around me and most that I met do care about money (I live in US), its also been statistically proven they do in general prefer men with money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedI think you can still date if the opportunity presents itself but being broke can make her lose attraction to you for sure (especially if you can’t spend money to make yourself look good or take her too good places, etc). Its easier and more probable to date when you have more money generally speaking. Try making more money and dating at the same time if you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | What is more important, status or money?Sure, I only really see it in the music world/music industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 05:22 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Airlines allowing women to avoid sitting next to males is a step in the right directionLMAOOOOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypesThe man can keep that mask up indefinitely, it's very easy to fake confidence and display charm/charisma while absolutely hating yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:26 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer men“6th sense” 😂🤣😂🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:26 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menFix the undesirable traits to the best of your ability then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 02:18 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menMen, just lie about being a late bloomer, how’s she going to figure out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | What is more important, status or money?This, money is way more important than status. With status if you are poor and cant provide for a girl she will just be with you for the clout. If you have no status, most women who aren’t clout chasing will be ok with it considering you have all the other things in place. (money, looks, personality) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:13 AM |
| – | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women?Yea I feel that, you never know when someone can just become bad/reveal who they truly are, that's one thing I hate that some Red Pill men do. Like there are men capable of hiding all the red flags lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:12 AM |
| – | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) traditionally seen as "feminine" that you find attractive in men? Men, what's something traditionally seen as "masculine" that you find attractive in women?We won't know if that women was or wasn't worth our time until maybe a couple months or years when she decides to leave because we were vulnerable about something, rendering all our time, money, and energy that we put into the relationship worthless because of this vulnerable moment. Not saying every woman is like this or this WILL happen, but you open the door to that being a possibility once you do become vulnerable. Unfortunately we don't know how a woman will respond to our vulnerable moment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Ffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Are you worried you might be in a dead bedroom someday?I would definitely leave/divorce, unless there is a good reason the bedroom is dead/temporary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 07:57 AM |
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