You’re talking like a sperg dude. It’s not about logic. Women see kissing as a form of affection and emotional attachment Sex without kissing sends the message “You are unattractive, I’m having sex with you because it’s better than nothing” Which you shouldn’t say, even if it is true.
People make a big deal about the 80/20 thing, but is it hard to be in the top 20% of ANYTHING? You’re in the top 20% of guitarists if you can play one chord right
Maybe if you had a really filthy beard they wouldn’t want to punch you in the first place. I imagine I wouldn’t want to deck a grimy homeless guy. Who knows what could be in there?