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Don't expect to kiss or try to on coffee dates
/r/seduction04/04/24 07:48 PM
1

Plenty of very attractive dudes being left for successful/wealthy men. The grass is always greener. Maybe look for women who are more sapiosexual. I'd put these fears/thoughts to bed though and focus on being/improving your amazing self.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:42 PM
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We can't tell you without first seeing the nude
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:23 PM
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"blunt" "cold" "intense" "intimidating" "tomboy" Are you perhaps stoic in your facial expressions? Maybe try smiling more or try to be more warm and expressive? Are you short (not physically) and sarcastic in a lot of your responses? Try smirking or winking with your jokes maybe and don't be extra abrasive but joking around/teasing is good. I remember I was chatting with a girl at a party who came off very serious and deadpan. It was hard to tell what she was joking about vs. what was meaningful…
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:57 AM
5

Tow that shit ASAP
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:31 PM
2

Doesn't matter why, refocus your energy and keep moving forward. You can try reaching out one last time in a few weeks but consider her a lost cause.
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:30 PM
49

There's a million different reasons why a woman would react angrily towards an approach. As long as you are not being offensive in your approach then it's more a reflection of them than you and better to move on.
/r/seduction17/06/21 06:30 PM
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"Hey :) I know it's been awhile but how are things? We should catch up sometime soon. I'd love to pick things up where we left off ;)" Assuming he enjoyed your previous encounters, you're gonna make his fucking day with that. I mean you could just send him a 'hey :)' text and I bet he'd jump at the chance. You don't need much effort to get a guy into a casual relationship so don't over think it. You got this :)
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:42 PM
1

If you're attracted to them then assume it and go talk to them. You'll find out soon enough if your assumption was true
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:33 PM
1

Your expectations need to be reevaluated.
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:34 PM
1

Not saying this is 100% you or your problem but something to consider in general. ​ This sounds like an all-to-common problem that goes along with "game" or "gaming" women. It's great for flings but not relationships. Why? You aren't being your true-self when you game women. When the game wears off, the person they thought they met vs. the real person they met are not the same and they lose interest.
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:35 PM
2

"Have you ever hooked up on a flight before?..." could be a start or at least a gauge of the moment
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:16 PM
2

Not a female but honestly sounds like you're a really good looking dude that girls may want a little slap and tickle from but aren't emotional interested in. ​ To create something longer term definitely wait on the sex and focus on getting to know each other on a deeper level (in addition to the fun flirty vibes). By waiting on the sex you will automatically weed out those who are not interested in something more serious. Or you know, be up front with them on what you're looking for.
/r/seduction31/07/19 02:27 PM
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Maybe she doesn't really know what she wants or she's playing with you. Doesn't bode well in my experience but you have more information on the situation so I'd suggest not getting feelings or expectations and you won't get hurt. Easier said than done
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:22 PM
3

You're in the friendzone IMO
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:14 PM
1

Night before mention it but confirm day of
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:58 PM
26

Agreed, my version: "you sound like quite the traveler, what was the last adventure you went on and why was it awesome?" The last bit you can leave out, depends on how the conversation is going/person you're talking to. Sometimes it comes off as more of an interview q than natural conversation
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:21 PM
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Who cares. If you're interested, just go say something and you're already different then 99% of the guys she sees. Win or lose it's about getting in the game and getting off the sidelines.
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:43 PM
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I mean there are exceptions to every rule so it boils down to you and how you judge the effort/reward. I asked a girl out in an elevator at my work (big building) she said she had a bf. I didn't know who she was but the boot camp instructor I knew worked at her office so I mentioned it. Before I could get two words out she knew about the whole event (me asking her coworker out) because this girl told her. The instructor gave me her coworker's number and we dated for a year. It was an amazing yea…
/r/seduction27/04/19 05:20 PM
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If she says she has a bf, move on. She'll waste your time and energy
/r/seduction27/04/19 04:20 PM
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2 things ​ 1 - you can't succeed if you don't try 2 - sucking at something is the first step at getting good at something ​ You're almost there guy, just work on that inner game more and create OKRs (Objective and Key Results) such as: Objective: Get a phone number/Talk to women Key results - measurements to meeting your objective - Approaching 5-10 women this week - Say at least a few things to each with the goal of an actual conversation leading to a number exchange
/r/seduction14/04/19 05:56 PM
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Oh wow I almost fell for this but got super annoyed at her insisting I send her masturbation videos so I stopped talking to her LOL. Thanks for the tip!!
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:12 PM
2

One that you enjoy and are passionate about. Don't have anything that tickles your fancy? Perfect! You get to try a whole bunch of new things. The best part? If you're smart about the things you choose to try/pursue, they might also naturally include women whom you now share a commonality with and might just be what you're looking for.
/r/seduction05/12/18 09:04 PM
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Setup after work drinks across a few groups and see how your interaction with her is. Don't make it for HER otherwise you won't have as much 1v1 time. Note this may technically be a work environment depending on the AMOUNT of people from work who show up so just keep that in the back of your mind. ​ My point is, you won't know shit until you are out of work and together. Would likely be a much different story if she wasn't an introvert. ​ Throughout this entire process you need to actively ensur…
/r/seduction20/11/18 09:03 PM
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Don’t stop gaming her, even when you think the deal is done. I got comfortable with knowing she was into me and I stopped being the funny, cocky, busy guy who got her in the first place. As I look through my texts with her the past month I am cringing at how I just stopped gaming, I was asking her boring questions like ‘wyd this evening’ and asking her what she had for dinner. Ffs Dull! Compare at the start it was all teasing, jokes, innuendos, electricity was flying. We were texting like an old…
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:57 PM
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Wtf why am I only now hearing about their security breaches
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:06 PM
2

Next time wait like a month or two hahaha but dude it's part of the business, it happens. If anything admit it, laugh it off, and try and play it like it's because she's so hot/beautiful/xyz you had to double check nothing changed.
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:07 PM
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This is super subjective. I have noticed as I have gotten older, I am more interested in women who put more of/equal effort in vs. those who want me to chase them. But too much of anything is never good and that goes both ways.
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:12 PM
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This. Tell us how it helps you if you are going to share something to help others. Makes it more meaningful and sends a more powerful message.
/r/seduction30/07/18 04:37 PM
14

Funny you say that. I've been to South America and Central America a bunch. In Guatemala I remember specifically the people were OBSESSED with Asian/Korean food/culture. They were non-stop bumping Kpop and Chinese Food was a treat to them. Small sample size though
/r/seduction22/06/18 06:16 PM
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Would need more info. If you like him then strike up the next conversation. If he likes you, you'll probably be able to tell soon into talking to him.
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:22 AM
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It's called peacocking but only works if you already have game which clearly you did gj
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:49 PM
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I suspect it's because you're playing this as a game. A winner and loser. You're competitive and make it a challenge to overcome. I'm not sure if you're looking to change anything, seems like you're doing well. But if you do, you need to change that perspective and re-evaluate what you truly want.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:19 PM
2

Attention. They want attention.
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:31 PM
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Cross the physical barrier. Use physical contact to signal what you want and escalate based on his reactions. Or just do something epic like be in a robe when he gets back...
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:09 PM
1

Be confident in yourself KNOWING that you are merely 20 vs. her 25. Don't be immature and brag or self boast - she's already gone through plenty of guys like that. Be interested in her and ask questions that make that clear. Having said all of that...this does SEEM like a booty call. So have fun with it. Act like you've been here before.
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:19 PM
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Whenever the situation is kind of weird to "randomly" hit on a girl (morning commute, library while she's clearly busy study, etc) bring up the awkward part of it first. Example: You see a cutie on the subway reading a book you know and let's say you like the book. "Hello, excuse me but you know how it's weird to talk to someone on the morning commute?" "Umm heh yea?" "Well what if she's reading one my favorite books (name of book) and is really cute. Can I still talk to her and ask her out for …
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:22 PM
3

Redefine success for dating. It shouldn't be matching with cute girls, it should be approaching the hot ones that you want to date.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:23 PM
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Sounds like you are using apps or a site to get dates? Stop. At least for awhile and then later you can use it as a backup. Your primary method for finding dates is to approach in person. You might even date less women for awhile but thats ok. You only want quality, not quantity. Check out the book Models, will be a good start.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:09 PM
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I would think it is but women man. If it was me I would assume she wasn't interested and move on but he likes her and wants to find a way to continue. But you're saying he should over think it and not continue. Doesn't seem helpful to OP at all.
/r/seduction13/02/18 06:07 PM
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100% agree
/r/seduction13/02/18 05:59 PM
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Don't overthink it - some women just prefer not to give out personal info until they are more invested. Continue as if she likes you.
/r/seduction13/02/18 03:05 PM
2

Well its really about what you're looking for, your location, age and looks tbh. Tinder is a crapshoot but you can still get laid. Bumble I have found to be the biggest waste of time but that is just my experience. Hinge and CMB have been on average the most consistent. I've gotten into The League (anyone really can I bet) which hit or miss. At the end of the day, those apps should be the backup plan.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:10 PM
1

Bumble is the worst App out there IMO but I suppose it also depends on your location. My last attempt on that app the only hot girls I matched with all secretly had kids that they didn't mention until we started making date plans. And the rest are flakey AF. I deleted the app within two weeks.
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:58 PM
1

Change your your perception of what is success when meeting a woman. Seems like sex is your metric when maybe making a more powerful/deeper connection with someone should be your goal.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:51 PM
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This has nothing to do with pity. The goal isn't to get someone to pity you, it's to reveal something deep about yourself and open up to create a meaningful connection. When I read what you wrote, I didn't pity you at all. If you want a meaningful connection with someone you need to open up. If you want a one night stand, you don't need a meaningful connection. I think you want the former but the choice is yours.
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:22 PM
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I think you should be pretty upfront about this with anyone you start dating and like. For most guys, we would be confused and put off if you pushed us away from making a move after thinking that you liked us romantically. Open and honest communication will be key in all relationships but especially so for you in the beginning of dating someone. A major reason why people often stop dating is because of differing expectations. If a guy likes you and thinks you're into him, he's going to think tha…
/r/seduction29/11/17 04:26 PM
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Honestly, everyone should really have a therapist. You don't need to have a special problem in order to benefit from having someone to talk about your issues and help you be a better person. Now if I could follow my own advice...
/r/seduction29/11/17 04:04 PM
2

Gotta have a date to get a date. It’s kind of binary, if you pull one girl, you’ll get others. If you can’t pull one girl, you get no girls. 0 or +1
/r/seduction15/11/17 02:47 AM
2

Watch a documentary about Navy SEALS together. They are generally super type A guys and often perfectionists as well. OR you could do that adult thing and be honest with her that I️t bothers you.
/r/seduction13/11/17 02:03 PM
10

Umm not all girls enjoy being manhandled. Sometimes the ones that do also don't like it all the time. But yes definitely go down on women more.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:49 PM
6

When I need to talk about something "boring" to a girl, use that to make it lighthearted. Example, I worked in finance for awhile and would always joke to girls that I would explain what I do (when they asked) but they had to promise not to fall asleep. Then I make an engaging explanation about what I do and then bring back the sleep thing to keep it lighthearted and fun. To add on to the "engaging explanation" I would make it interactive. Many women don't understand the finance industry, so to …
/r/seduction30/05/17 09:37 PM
1

Stop being so convinced that you can't approach women. For one, women smell that from a mile away and it's incredibly unattractive to them. And secondly, it's untrue. Those who say they can, and those that say they can't are both usually right (I heard Will Smith say that once). In another way, if you don't think you can date her, why should she? Before chasing tail though you need to work on yourself. You are so negative. Put women on the side for a bit but don't neglect entirely. Do however, m…
/r/seduction20/05/17 12:54 AM
4

So basically read the book Models by Mark Manson? Awesome book - you've summed it up well
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:15 PM
8

You did well. I wouldn't have waited unless you generally were fine there by yourself. What did she say in response?
/r/seduction03/04/17 07:50 PM
4

You're putting her on a pedestal and once you've "achieved" her interest you think you can continue up the pedestal to someone else. First off, you didn't "achieve" anything. Redefine what you think success is. For instance, instead of getting her number it should be creating a deep connection. Also (going out on a limb here) it kind of seems like you're scared that if you go out with that person you will lose their interest in you and you are afraid of that rejection. Rejection is good - reject…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:44 PM
1

Champ, sunshine, little one (if she's significantly smaller than you), but the best are nicknames that mean something to you two. Examples in my past that was specific to the girl: snowflake, spider-monkey.
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:53 PM
1

Well done sir - thank you for sharing, great read!!
/r/seduction12/01/16 06:19 PM
1

I like this and will add/reinforce. Don't let her possible reactions dictate your actions. Speak and act honestly in how you are feeling whether or not it will upset her. I am a bit concerned that she is so obsessed/dependent on you and you her. There seems like a lack of commitment to yourself from yourself to be honest: "making other people happy makes me even happier." You keep going down that path and you'll probably end up in a relationship you are not ready for nor want merely because you …
/r/seduction12/01/16 05:08 PM
5

Seems like a good read but those NSFW ads...
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:54 PM
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Note to self...go to this guy's gym. Seriously though this is great thank you! I think the big take away is smiling when making eye contact and making yourself so friendly without coming off creepy.
/r/seduction12/11/15 06:51 PM
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for 12 months a year Did he...? Did that....? I'm going back to bed
/r/seduction12/11/15 12:36 PM
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It's tough and I'm no pro so hopefully someone else can weigh in but I've tried sending pics of stuff that's going on in my life that they "might be missing out on". Nothing major - just like, "I made this delicious pizza bread (show pic) it's sooooo good! Want me to fedex you a piece? ;)" Aside from dick-pics, I would try sending a cool photo here and there. Could be a nice view from wherever or a common interest/hobby. And in case I wasn't clear before...do NOT send a dick-pic.
/r/seduction07/11/15 06:02 PM
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