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There are assholes and verbally abusive people everywhere in the world. That doesn't make them all a narcissist. You're like a second grader who learned a new word and repeats it without knowing what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:34 AM
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Most relationships end over money. So no. It's very important actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:41 PM
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That's fine. If you use something she's heard before, it's going to turn her off and out you as a fuck boi. I'd rather not deal with the trouble, but if you have solid lines, you can finesse her out of her panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:21 AM
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While I agree with you. If your authentic self is enough to attract women, cool. If not, PUA will be useful. At the end of the day, you have to use the tools that work best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:16 AM
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Ime, women never know if you're putting on a front unless you're obnoxiously bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:49 AM
10

Casual vs long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:04 AM
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Delete this 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:53 AM
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Agreed. In the moment, I'm being romantic because I genuinely like her. But it's still a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:47 AM
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PUA has a place in RP. Personally, I never saw the point. If you're friends with a Chad, you know he doesn't need game. It definitely helps, but 9 times out of 10, she's fucking Chad because he's tall and handsome. Instead of learning PUA, I opted to hit the gym. The ROI from fitness is much higher for attracting women. Imo women hate PUA because of the fakeness. Yeah, it may work sometimes, but using a bunch of recycled lines is a vibe killer. Women want you to be authentic. Which is difficult …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:42 AM
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👑
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:26 AM
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The girl I lost my v-card to was like this. Literally worshipped the ground I walked on. Honestly... I loved it. She set the tone for the rest of my relationships. If she's not obsessed with me, I dont want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:24 AM
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Exactly. They need therapy, not another relationship. But they love slutting it up without accountability too much to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:38 PM
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Like... a lot a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:13 PM
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This is not even close to my experience as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:08 PM
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But I have come across many dysfunctional women who view dating as a way to fix their own lives, as if men are a tool to make themselves happy, instead of self work and reflection. This is a big one. They use men to fix themselves because they are extremely troubled and broken. Instead of going to therapy or self-improving, they use men as crutches. My ex bragged about only being single for 3 months since high school. She hated herself and couldn't be alone with her thoughts. I've encountered so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:06 PM
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Bad argument. But it doesn't matter. Those of us who are childfree will continue to be. Those who want kids will continue to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:24 AM
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I have no idea either. All I got from this is that she's a conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:15 PM
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I have acute rejection sensitivity. I physically feel pain when rejected. Overcoming it has been... tough. Nonetheless, it's necessary. As a man, you need to become comfortable with rejection IMMEDIATELY. Because you will experience it a lot in life. Luckily, during my fake it til you make it phase, I was a huge flirt. So, I became comfortable with rejection. For other men, you need to decenter your ego. Your ego is like a separate person, but also you, with all of your bad qualities dialed up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:10 PM
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Sure. I never wanted kids. So that seems unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:21 PM
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Did hell freeze over? I upvoted a lillth post. What is happening? I don't like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:18 PM
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Well 🤷‍♂️ those are the only options. Either my kids will be raised in a better world, or I will remain childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:16 PM
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Same. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:53 PM
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Why bring a life into a world you know is terrible? That's needlessly cruel. Having a child should not be done on a whim. If the conditions for your child are not satisfactory, more people should opt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:51 PM
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And thats the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:44 PM
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Love bombing isn't cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:51 AM
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Suck it up and put on their big girl pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:48 AM
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Yes. Women can enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:44 AM
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This! They don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:42 AM
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I absolutely believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:33 AM
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Nah. Due to the state of the dating market, it's more beneficial for a man to prioritize short-term vs. long-term relationships. Who controls the dating market? Women. Men are just reacting to the incentives women create. This is quite obvious by the fact men get offended if they’re called husband material Being a husband used to mean something. But not anymore. Modern husbands get the leftovers after she's had her hoe phase and been traumatized thoroughly. A suckers deal. I think this shows how…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:25 AM
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Exactly. I've never been with a girl who has fewer bodies than me. The girl I lost my v-card to was younger than me and had multiple bodies already. In high school! That lets you know how dire things are. Now, I always assume the women I meet have 20+ bodies, and I'm never wrong. 10-30 bodies sounds average for modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:08 AM
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Oh, trust. I know. I've had enough run-ins with Tinder chicks to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:27 AM
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Women LOVE being used as sex objects... by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:06 AM
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When is the last time you experienced mutual love? My last relationship. You havent. Wrong. You have a disorder from your post history that makes socializing difficult, and finding deep love dificult. Wrong again. Why are you stalking my post history? Please get a hobby or life. I promise its not that serious. Its your life. My life is fabulous. Your bad advice is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:58 PM
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No. I'm simply being realistic. Modern women get around a lot. You are statically unlikely to be the best she's ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:54 PM
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In these things, nobody considers the possibility that you're better than her ex and she knows it. Unlikely when she's boinked 25 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:00 PM
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When in love I and many women think only of the guy we are in love with. Complete bull crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:59 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:27 AM
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Because it would be if I had to BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:26 AM
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The cost of an unfulfilling relationship. For one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:15 AM
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Costs outweigh the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:03 AM
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Let's assume you're right. Being a beta bux is the best strategy for me to find a relationship. I'm still not doing it. I'd rather die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:51 AM
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Never once said that. You didn't have to. It's pretty obvious that's how you see yourself. I am not the "default" by any means and never struggled with this. This is a personal problem unique to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:50 AM
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My point is... you are incapable of independent thought and action. So why should you have rights? Wouldn't it be easier to be a sex slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:45 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:34 AM
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Why should women have rights if they have no autonomy? 🤔 wouldn't it be easier for you if someone did the thinking for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:31 AM
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Absolutely. Hell yeah. I'd call it her hoe-fax. Gotta check the mileage before commitment is on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:10 AM
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Yup. This is why the last girl I hooked up with cried afterward. The fact that a complete stranger could fuck her so passionately flabbergasted her. She'd never experienced anything like that. Sure, it was an ego boost, but it was actually heart-wrenching to witness. No one had ever loved or cared for this poor girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:03 AM
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In other words... I'm an npc with zero autonomy. It's not my fault my brain doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:53 AM
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What are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:52 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:51 AM
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I'm pretty happy but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:05 AM
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I'm sure you have a reason for feeling that way. I don't agree, but I'll respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:51 AM
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AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:45 AM
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Just be 7 ft bro. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:38 PM
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Am I supposed to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:34 PM
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Pleasing a woman is easy. Can you add and subtract? Then you can please a woman. It's that easy. Women will literally tell you how to get them off. So there's no excuse. Then why are so many men bad at sex? BECAUSE THEY DONT CARE ABOUT YOU! Literally, that's it. The men you are fucking don't actually like you or they would try to please you. I had a conversation with a coworker, and he happily described how he uses women to masturbate (his words, not mine) during sex. It honestly made me want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:31 PM
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I'm just repeating what women say. Don't shoot the messenger. This has nothing to do with RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:10 PM
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Women from all walks of life. Online and offline. Young and old. Ones I know personally and ones I don't. Rich. Poor. Ugly. Beautiful. They all want a man with resources. Every day, women say they want such a man. I have never in my life heard otherwise. So, how is it shocking when I repeat what they want? They want a meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:09 PM
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January... I just told you... what more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:01 PM
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Ad-homs simply highlight how lacking your non-existent argument is. It's pathetic, really. Judging by the upvotes, others feel the same way. Come back when you actually have a rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:00 PM
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Are we supposed to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:55 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:53 PM
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Truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:32 PM
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Glad you agree with me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:31 PM
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An exception does not disprove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:30 PM
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I mean... the term MILF exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:42 PM
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They do. Every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:33 PM
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Because that's what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:29 PM
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Very true, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:01 PM
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Women can't experience love unless they have sufficient resources they can extract from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:43 PM
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There's that victim complex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:29 AM
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Shit happens 🤷‍♂️ unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:11 AM
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They dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:27 PM
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I'm more judgemental of women, but I also treat them nicer. I'm pretty cool with most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:41 PM
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That's because yall have a victim complex and persecution fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:29 PM
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They're self-aware. They just want free stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:58 PM
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Being dumb comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:57 PM
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I... I think I love you 😦
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:54 PM
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Who you voted for (or didn't) shouldn't be your whole personality. I agree. But who you vote for is a reflection of yourself and values. So it's understandable if people aren't interested in people with opposing values and views. Moderates are not the devil. But they'll happily side with the devil. Give us a chance! No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:52 PM
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I'd sooner be castrated than fuck a conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:46 PM
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This is my experience as well. If I was more confident as a teen. My body count would be 100 by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:03 AM
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Pick Me because women always have more options than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:44 AM
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No. You can always make more friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:20 PM
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This is terrible advice, but you believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:46 PM
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There is no correct way to be vulnerable. Either she's down for you or not. If she can't handle the first option, dump her. Obviously, don't burden shift. But if something can impact yalls quality of life that much, it's valid to express it in dire terms. The correct option is to find a better woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:40 PM
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In my experience... it's a little of column A and B. Vulnerability is rewarded in a healthy relationship. If you can't be vulnerable with your girlfriend, dump her. You're dating the wrong girl. After crying and being vulnerable with my exes, nothing changed. However, there are plenty of women who view men through a weird hyper masculine lens due to socialization. In their eyes, men can't be soft or vulnerable because it's unnatural, feminine, or bad. If you value your sanity, avoid those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:15 PM
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In the beginning? No. I have no desire to see her that much, even if we hit it off. If I'm seeing her once a week, we'd have to be dating for 3+ months at least. My preference is 2 or 3 dates a month. That doesn't mean we can't see each other, but I'm only planning 2 outings. I treasure my personal time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:00 PM
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Can't relate. Even when the first night goes well, I need time to decompress. I have no urge to be around someone 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:52 AM
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Eh... most women are drowning in matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:42 AM
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Holy! 8 dates in 2 months? That's crazy in the beginning stages. I usually do 1 or 2 dates a month. My social battery would be depleted 24/7 if I attempted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:29 AM
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I'm not a doctor. What do I know? Imo, the effects of anti depressants make it an undesirable option. I'd only use them as a last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:10 AM
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Whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:05 AM
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Hm. I see where you're coming from. But at the same time... is finding all of that uncommon? Seems pretty basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:17 AM
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To me. It sounds like women lack the tools to filter for the men they want. How would your OLD experience change if only men who wanted a long-term relationship and planned dates were allowed to match/swipe on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:52 PM
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Yo. You're too loud. Ugh... guess I'm going to the gym today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:45 PM
1

What does Quality entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:44 PM
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Disagree. Women just suck at finding these men. There are plenty out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:42 PM
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Nah. They all had vastly different taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:37 PM
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So far, they listen to every genre. But conscious rap is the way to my heart. The women I date never have similar taste in music.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:33 PM
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Pure cope. Women have unlimited options nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:12 AM
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I've tested it a few times and it works amazingly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:02 AM
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As someone who's dated multiple onlyfans girls... they immediately go into the "fwb only" category. Truthfully, these women will easily find men for relationships. Sex work will deter some guys, myself included, but there's always a simp who doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:57 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:38 PM
0

Succinct and perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:54 PM
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"A communist society is characterized by common ownership of the means of production with free access to the articles of consumption and is classless, STATELESS, and moneyless, implying the end of the exploitation of labour." from Wikipedia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:02 PM
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Fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:37 PM
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This. Also, being the best they've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:57 PM
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Women handle rejection better than men. But that doesn't mean they handle rejection well. I've had at least 3 women try to grape me because I rejected them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:57 AM
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50/50 everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:33 AM
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If you're sick of it. Stop talking about it. Let them be delusional then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:31 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:38 AM
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Sure, bud. You don't know how movie dates work, but I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:45 PM
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Hmm 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:05 PM
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No one is saying that, though. Its not that women want an abusive man. It's that if a man is attractive enough, they will willingly tolerate bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:58 PM
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More "leads" objectively leads to a more difficult job of filtering Only if you suck at filtering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:46 PM
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Yes? What is the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:43 PM
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I'm so tired of talking about this. If you're uninterested in older men, fine. Not every woman feels that way. For the women and men that don't, let them date and stop crying about it. We all have different anecdotal experiences on this topic. So dont apply your one size fits all logic to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:39 PM
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The truth is they don't care about being accused of cheating. They want to protect and cover for dishonest cheaters. Mandatory testing forces them to be honest. They want an out to be a bad person. Because they are all sneaky and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:31 PM
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That's the best you got? 🤣 You obviously get no play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:54 PM
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No. It's not. Hypergamy is dating up in socio-economic cases. Which men don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:11 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:18 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:42 PM
1

🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:11 PM
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So, the solution is to do what TRP advises? We knew this already. But the thing is... once a man has options, he will use them. This doesn't solve dating. It simply turns average men into fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:50 PM
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If you want to believe incorrect information, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:15 PM
0

Any act not done with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:49 PM
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Dating up. Socio-economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:19 PM
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I am 🤣 we can do the nasty afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:18 PM
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You're supposed to talk AFTER the movie. The movie gives you a shared experience and topic to break the ice. Yall act like yall have never been on a date before. But considering who I'm talking to, that's entirely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:17 PM
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My last Netflix and Chill date was a few weeks ago. I had a few more lined up, but I dropped the ball. Regardless, it's not dead, and women are always DTF. I went on a cinema date 2 months ago? I enjoy them, but the price of candy and food is outrageous now. It's pretty easy to spend $50+ at the cinema, per person. Yeah, no thanks. I'll just buy the tickets and sneak in snacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:16 PM
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Men are not and cannot be hypergamous. Anyone who says for looks doesn't know the definition of hypergamy or attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:01 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:23 AM
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Can I get a TLDR?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:36 AM
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Yeah. There were some misses. But for the most part, the women who've approached me were attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:46 PM
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Thank you! You get it. I'm saving them from unrequited love. It's a win-win. This seems best for a casual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:12 PM
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Oh, relax. I'll be less available, for example. Nothing crazy. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:59 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:31 PM
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what percentage of women meet the I want to make you my wife and devote my life to you standard? In my experience? Maybe 10% or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:30 PM
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It works until she catches feelings. Being an asshole would dissuade her from doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:25 PM
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I do. I'm always honest, but I'm learning that being a good person isn't the best strategy to get my duck wet. Sometimes, you gotta be a little toxic to keep her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:20 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:15 PM
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For real
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah. Chad is a synonym for hot guy. That doesn't mean he has to be muscle bound, but most women love muscles. So Chad is usually an athlete or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:09 PM
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I'm tired of women asking for commitment. My solution is to treat them like shit. I won't go full asshole, but toxic enough to make her second guess dating me. When you treat women too well, they catch feelings and want commitment. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:05 PM
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I want whatever op is smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:05 AM
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I think its the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:39 PM
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Men prefer to date up, too. But women aren't open to dating down. Because women confuse fucking up with dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:29 PM
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... so what? Not to be mean, but what does it matter, and what does it change? Nothing. Even if all men woke up tomorrow and were unbothered by their partners' success, it wouldn't change much. Women still overwhelmingly prefer to date up. Men being supportive of Girl Bosses won't magically make women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:10 PM
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Disagree. Men are different and require different approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:35 PM
1

Hey, that's me!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:32 PM
0

Women want to get married?! SHOCKING!!! OP are you new to Earth? This is all women, not just progressive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:27 PM
3

Apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:46 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:32 PM
4

Or just require the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:04 PM
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23 lmao. You're a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:57 PM
2

I'd say it's 50/50 jealousy and concern. A lot of guys who date young girls are creeps. However, when the relationship is consensual, they still get upset at the man. Which leads me to believe it's a lot of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:56 PM
1

I date them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:01 PM
1

I choose whoever I'm more compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:52 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I've been up to. I just need a consistent fwb and I'll be set. But they always catch feelings and ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:01 PM
2

I agree. This is why I support men pumping and dumping women. Many women treat men like a credit card. They don't actually love men, they love what men provide. If women use you for money, use her for sex #equality. Alls fair in love and war. Relationships have become extremely transactional. Not even relationships... women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:43 AM
-7

So mad lmao. These incels are preaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:36 AM
9

Nah. He's 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:35 AM
1

Older men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:00 PM
6

Girls I met from tinder and OLD would say that a lot. You're 20+ and never went on a date? That let me know immediately what type of time she was on. A lot of women don't go on dates. They just meet up with Chad, get high or drunk, and get some dick. Once women started commenting on the quality of my dates, I knew I had to do less. Because another guy was doing a lot less and still smashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:59 PM
2

Yes. But you should also acknowledge the prohibitory cost of children. Yes. Women want families. But if she can't afford it...? Many are choosing not to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:08 PM
2

I don't want a naive gf tho. I would've liked that in high school. But now? I'm not lying to these chicks. They can get with it or get left 🤣 no time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:35 AM
0

Yes. Lying is necessary sometimes. But women eventually get tired of liars and manipulative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:23 AM
3

This
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:47 AM
2

Yes. Hair has a purpose. But it's inconvenient, so screw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:37 AM
5

What? 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:00 PM
2

Sure. I have a decent self care regimen. I frequently argue with girls because I like to shave, and they don't. That's cool with me, but I'm not eating hairy kitty. I'm pretty sanitary, so I expect my partner to be as well. Not a neat freak by any means, but I will not deal with filthy people or places. She can go above and beyond with her hair and nails because women care more about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:11 PM
1

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:58 PM
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Oh, most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:49 PM
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Idk I'm pretty happy. Yeah, a relationship would be nice. But I enjoy my own company so I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:19 PM
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This proves TRP was right all along. The same way men see women as sex objects. Women see men as success objects. Notice how OP emphasizes her career and money. If a woman cannot extract resources from you, she won't desire you. At this point, I wouldn't fault guys for going to a pro. You're going to pay for it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:15 PM
1

Join the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:13 PM
1

Are you not familiar with taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:28 AM
3

K
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:44 AM
1

It's a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:38 AM
3

Who said it was bad? Just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:33 AM
1

Yeah, that's nice. But if you both are having a good time, what's the problem? Yall are missing the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:30 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that. But don't act like you're the reincarnation of Jesus in the process. Especially when you are failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:07 AM
1

I'm a socialist. I'm pro choice. Pro maternity leave. Pro the government staying out of people's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:30 AM
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Look at the data. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:15 AM
2

That's what I'm saying. All these guys want a submissive woman... for what? That shit is boring. If you want mind-blowing sex with the added bonus of feeling desired, a switch is where it's at. That lil bit of aggression hits different 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:14 AM
1

I broke up with a chick in high school because of this. She didn't have any hobbies or intellectual curiosity. The only thing she did was mindlessly consume media. As a result, she never had anything interesting to talk about. Nor could she hold an intellectual conversation. I will not date a woman without hobbies. She has to have something outside of the relationship to occupy her time. If she needs 24/7 contact, I'm not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:21 AM
2

I can't list every red flag but just look for signs of abuse or toxicity. Poor emotional regulation, lack of self esteem, and whatever else. Once you are good at spotting the signs, it becomes easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:02 AM
1

Damn. Did we date the same girl? 😂 The sleepy sex felt too rapey to me. So I never did it. But she was adamant about it and tried to force it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:46 AM
2

My ex and I did the same. But I'd be lying if I said I didn't want her to initiate more. Free use was fun for a while, but it gets boring. Idk, I think submissive women are overrated. Nowadays I need me a switch or a brat. Something with a little edge and zest to keep things fun and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:44 AM
1

I'm not a hoe 😌 so I deserve one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:23 AM
0

Anywho. Your opinion is irrelevant. I need to shower and clean up. Nice chat. Let's not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:10 AM
-1

Since I know what I'm thinking, doing, and planning... I know whether my intentions are good or not. Not you. But feel free to continue assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:59 AM
2

It's a compliment. You're thinking way too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:47 AM
-4

Do you think I care what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:40 AM
1

So what 🥱 I'm not wifing up a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:40 AM
1

Probably them fucking and dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:35 AM
7

They seriously say the wildest shit. Even when reality is in complete contradiction. This is why I don't trust a word that comes out of a woman's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:24 AM
6

a partner's income tends to be less important to you the more you earn for obvious reasons. For men? Yes. For women? No. It's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:21 AM
23

Sounds like a good thing. Weeding out the bad women. It's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:16 AM
-2

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:54 AM
2

This is why I encourage women to be as slutty as possible. It's a win-win for me. I get to bang slutty women for fun and settle down with my chaste good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:48 AM
2

I think that's the way it should be. High n people should date amongst themselves. There are men with differing opinions? No freaking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:45 AM
-2

Real life is not Reddit. Don't let these stupid ass conversations fool you. Young women are DTF. Period. Shoot your shot. I got a nice lil 23 year old coming over tonight. There's nothing wrong with age gap relationships unless they have bad intentions. If you are both happy, there is no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:36 AM
3

I'm just repeating what women say all of the time. Don't shoot the messenger. If I didn't know, they wouldn't be fucking me. So I must know something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:31 PM
1

Why are you so hot over this? It doesn't matter. I'm not shaming anyone. But the average person is not masturbating daily. My libido was only that high during the peak of puberty. This goes doubly for women. Women are not as horny as men. If a woman has to masturbate daily, she is an extreme outlier. Also, Reddit is not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:26 PM
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No. That's just how women work. Their sexuality is completely self-centered. Women love the way you make them feel. Which is why they say stuff like: you need draw out her feminine side or energy. Basically, women have a reactive sex drive. A smart man realizes this and acts accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:19 PM
1

Exactly this. These women are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:03 PM
1

It's def not normal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:53 PM
2

In my experience, it's the exact same. Women with high libido love to fuck as many men as possible. If they can't, they use toys. I'd say my libido is pretty normal, but I've met women that needed to masturbate daily. My libido is nowhere near that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:05 PM
5

Basically, when you're in the dessert, everything looks like water. But when you have abundance, you can be pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:55 PM
2

That isn't my take. It's yours. Whether you realize it or not, you are communicating that you don't know what to look for in a partner. This is what you've said (simplified): I want to be a teacher (I want a boyfriend). However, I don't know how to add or subtract. You see the problem? How can you be a teacher without knowing addition and subtraction? You haven't completed the first step of knowing the fundamentals (knowing what to look for). So when you say, "vet for what?" It means you don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:18 PM
4

You think you do. But you don't. & there is. But you need to learn to vet first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:01 PM
1

Okay then... do this instead: enjoy yourself. Don't worry about meeting people or finding a specific place. Just enjoy yourself with this caveat: it has to be outside. Whether it's going to the gym, gaming, music, whatever. Do things that you enjoy away from home. If you like anime, go to conventions. If you like art, do a paint and sip. Just nurture your hobbies and interests! Once a week is fine, but aim to go out at least 3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:00 PM
8

If you don't know the answer to that, you shouldn't be dating. Seriously. You don't even know what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:51 AM
8

As long as it works 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:50 AM
5

It can help. But it isn't required. My friend Brianna is a great example of this. She still does therapy, but before that, I taught her how to vet. Once she learned how to establish and enforce boundaries, judge character, and identify flags... she found an amazing relationship. She's still with the guy. All it takes it a little effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:47 AM
0

Well then, you need to find that space. Could be a book club. Could be a bar. Could be a comic shop. Idk. But you need to find a good place to meet others. But don't take that as an excuse not to be social. Be social to the family guys, young people, whoever. Unless they give the indication that they aren't interested, befriend everyone or at least chat up everyone you meet. You will find success eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:42 AM
4

You need to learn how to vet. That's it, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:31 AM
2

The trick is to not give a fk what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:25 AM
0

I agree with you, and I understand your frustration. The solution is mind-blowingly simple: be more social. Just be fun and nice. Make an honest effort to get to know other's, and they will flock to you. Eventually, you'll befriend a cute girl. Example: My coworker and I chatted briefly. After that, she would sit next to me for lunch every day. I treated her like a friend until she gave me a "green flag" by saying she likes me. I knew I could play a bit more aggressively and flirt. She reciproca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:20 AM
1

Giggitty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:37 AM
1

Similar. I'm open to dating someone different, but they'd have to be open-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:32 AM
3

Fact: Sex doesn't count if you pray afterward. I'm still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:29 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:26 AM
0

Slay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:25 AM
1

Doggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:24 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:24 AM
4

I think it's the opposite. A lot of men are clueless. No self-awareness or emotional intelligence at all. We're in this situation because a lot of men don't know how to take a no or put themselves in others' shoes. Women suffer as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:21 AM
1

Yeah. Once you're happy and chilling, time zips by. "Time flies when you're having fun."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:50 PM
1

It's easy and everyone could use more friends, so 9 times out of 10, people are cool with it or want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:47 PM
1

I'm fine with waiting a month or two. But every woman I date usually asks after the second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:52 PM
1

Depends on the man. I like to take my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:43 PM
2

There are women that want a traditional relationship and don't sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:37 PM
0

If you've ever met a modern woman, you know they get around. There's a pretty good chance she's promiscuous in 2023. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:21 PM
4

Thank you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:10 PM
1

Quite shocking. If you want to learn anything you have to do it on your own nowadays. Republicans are actively trying to destroy public education.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:28 PM
1

I'm trying to decenter money and work from my life. This shit is wack. I just wanna enjoy life with friends and pursue my hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:26 PM
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If you don't get out of here with this stupid ass shit OP. If you blame others for your failings, it's because you're a loser. If you're an adult, take accountability for yourself. I don't support shifting the blame for anyone: man or woman. Handle your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:40 AM
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😐 No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:30 PM
1

Both ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:34 PM
7

AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:22 PM
1

Be more social and outgoing. Women adore me. But because I was so shy and inexperienced, I held myself back. Now that I'm older and give negative fucks, I do much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:12 PM
9

She wants you to be a traditional man to a modern/promiscuous woman. No thanks... Alternatively, she's looking for a guy that offers more than Netflix and Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:08 PM
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Not the most romantic but a normal date I planned. I usually plan something more extravagant, but this was last minute. I was seeing this new girl for a few months, and Valentines Day was coming up. For V-Day, I booked us a couple's spa day. Massage, facial, pedicure, the works. It was a spa package for about $500/ea. It was nice. They served us Champaign and snacks while they attended to us. After that, we had reservations at a Ramen restaurant because she mentioned loving Asian food. I wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:37 PM
1

I have female friends that I don't want to fuck. I've never been as thirsty as the average guy, so maybe that's why. I don't see the problem with having female friends. You just have to be realistic. Your male and female friendships will never be the same but that doesn’t mean you can't enjoy a woman's company.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:42 PM
6

Dating women is a skill. Dating men is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:35 PM
3

I agree but I think more men are wising up to it. Especially the younger generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:10 PM
7

Nah, it's called having standards. I'm not romancing a chick that doesn't do the same. I made the point. You can cry about it or do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:55 PM
6

There are plenty that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:56 PM
3

If you know better, you do better. Once you understand most women are incapable of romance, you can avoid them. I would never take a woman seriously if she didn't court and romance me like my exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:55 PM
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YES! YES! YES! I've said this for the longest! Women don't even like their boyfriend enough to take an interest in his hobbies. If you have to ask strangers on the internet what YOUR boyfriend may like... you're a shitty girlfriend. Not only that, you don't know anything about him, which exposes how little care and interests women have for their boyfriend. They don't know the first thing about romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:49 PM
12

Women will call you sassy for wanting to be romanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:41 PM
5

Systemic, not individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:35 PM
3

Dating women is a skill. Dating men is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:17 PM
7

Just world fallacy. Only someone extremely naive could say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:11 PM
6

Never seen that before. But I've seen numerous men opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:09 PM
9

You can only afford to have this mentality if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:04 PM
3

Just world fallacy. Trying won't magically make women fall for you. If she deems you unattractive, no amount of effort can overcome that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:00 PM
1

Yeah, if you have the autonomy of a box, it is. Apparently, women have no boundaries to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:32 PM
0

Negging is stupid. I simply told her the truth. If you see yourself as a perpetual victim, that says more about you than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:30 PM
0

Good. I don't have those fears because I have healthy boundaries and vet well. A woman would never be successful if she tried to use me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:07 AM
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I think you're just upset because your low self-esteem was highlighted. A person with a healthy sense of self does not have these fears. But go off Queen. It's not about what you said. It's how you said it. It's very telling of your psyche. Don't shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:56 AM
2

OK, well, that changes things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:14 AM
0

OK 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:13 AM
-2

Because you assume these things will happen TO you without any hint of accountability. You don't view yourself as a competent person able to avoid problematic situations. You view yourself as an object at the mercy of whatever bad thing happens to you. A person with autonomy would recognize a problematic person or scenario and leave. But your thought process is: bad thing happens, and you just take it. Are you a person with autonomy or a cum receptacle at the mercy of whatever bad man comes alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:11 AM
0

I'm saying, logically, you should be drowning in options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:02 AM
1

This sounds like a personal problem. At the end of the day, it comes down to filtering. Women suck at vetting men and filtering out the bad ones. If you could pick with 90% accuracy, the men that would treat you right and fuck you right, you wouldn't be saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:00 AM
1

You're gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:56 AM
0

My female friends are mid, and they'll have like 300+ matches. The gaslighting never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:55 AM
-2

None of these "fears" have a basis in reality. This is what happens when you see yourself as an object instead of a human with autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:50 AM
-1

Nah, OLD for men is not the same as OLD for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:50 PM
1

Hell yeah! I'm fucking awesome. My ex wasn't my twin, but we were pretty close. Best relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:44 PM
5

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:21 PM
14

You have to follow rules 1 & 2 for it to work: Be attractive Don't be unattractive But most men are viewed as unattractive by women, so yeah, it doesn't work. As a mid guy like myself, you'll have much more success with warm approaches. Meaning, you both are somewhat familiar with each other and not complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:34 PM
1

Stoicism isn't for women. It's for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:28 PM
-2

Because they are the problem. After my long-term relationship ended and I took a break, I was surprised to find the same exact women on dating apps. I know they were active because their pics and profile changed. It was honestly shocking... I had a whole relationship and stint of self-improvement, and these chicks were still single? They had to be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:27 PM
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You may think this is a flex, but it’s not. To you. But your opinion is irrelevant. As long as I'm happy, I see no reason to change. Good luck, I doubt you’ll have much success. That's yall favorite go to 😂 I'm doing just fine ma'am. But even if I wasn't, I'd rather be perpetually single than successful with sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:58 PM
6

Yes. A man with standards and self respect 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:47 PM
7

Guess I'm a child then 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:42 PM
2

No shit. I'm not going to ruin my chances of getting ass for no reason. If they like the relationship before finding out, I see no reason to ruin a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:41 PM
-3

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:38 PM
4

That's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:34 PM
1

Wooow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:53 AM
7

Is this sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:37 AM
6

Pussy cartel
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:36 AM
7

When you're right, you're right 🤷‍♂️ Women feel like they shouldn't be judged negatively for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:32 AM
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Don't do it. You're betting on the wrong horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:21 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:20 AM
0

Women like to pretend they're mind readers or have a clue. I wouldn't have cared if she wasn't so obnoxious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:14 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:18 AM
2

Exactly. I don't say a word. Red Pill? What's that? You like the Matrix? 😂 They have no fucking clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:10 AM
0

Lmao. I dated a chick that thought she could sniff out a red piller and misogynist 😂😂😂 I cannot express how much fun it was watching her head explode when she found out the truth. If I told her to jump off a bridge, she would've done it because she was that down bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:32 PM
1

Nothing. You get nothing in return. But if you want a girlfriend or wife it's something you have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:21 PM
2

We're not talking about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:06 PM
3

Let's be honest... ugly women know they're ugly. They don't need anyone to tell them. In my experience, it's not like men hide the fact or the women are oblivious. More often than not, they knew what they were getting into and just wanted som dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:50 PM
4

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:47 PM
9

You're assuming she doesn't want to be folded like a pretzel. Which isn't the case. Ugly women like sex and have needs too. A lot of the time, they use sex to get their foot in the door for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:35 PM
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Slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:53 AM
24

Exactly. Men are success objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:37 AM
4

If women had to pay for the first date, it would cut down on A LOT of bullshit. Not just bad behavior, but hoe behavior, and bad matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:36 AM
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Only because Superman doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:59 AM
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I'm very serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:57 AM
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Really? This is news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:38 AM
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Tbh I'm only slightly exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:06 AM
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The average woman wants Superman. Perfect in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:03 AM
1

In the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:14 PM
1

Notice how it says women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:30 PM
0

Hypergamy—the tendency of women to try to marry “up” noun the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. So not only are you wrong. You look like a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:06 PM
1

Women dating up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:10 AM
1

The entire premise is that it's sex specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:37 AM
1

Bro, dont let these basket cases coerce you into sex. No means no. One girl had a full-on, sobbing, mental breakdown in my bed. One thought she was so attractive that my consent didn't matter. Don't give in to their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:20 AM
5

Well they're going to have to get a fucking hobby. I'm not out here fucking left and right either. I go through year+ dry spells. Oh well. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:00 AM
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Bro. For real. The shift happens so fast it will give you whiplash. No means no until a man says it apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:35 AM
5

Then, enjoy the collapse. Fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:22 AM
2

None of that matters. If she wants to screw you, she will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:21 AM
3

If a woman makes you wait for sex, she either doesn't trust you or she's not attracted to you. I am extremely introverted, and I suspect I have ADHD. This combination makes it difficult for me to befriend people. This is because I don't even know if I like you until 3+ months. Much less be romantically interested. In every relationship I've been in, it takes the woman 2 dates at most or 1 month if I'm being generous to ask for sex and fall in love. That's too fucking fast for my autistic ass. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:20 AM
6

It's a rapist philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:46 AM
8

Amen. I'll drink to that. Let this shithole burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:44 AM
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You are not entitled to a woman. It doesn’t matter if society collapses and the human race goes extinct. You still aren't entitled to a woman. You are not entitled to a woman if you're monogamous. You are not entitled to a woman if you want children. You are not entitled to a woman if you're a nice guy. You are not entitled to a woman if you alone can repopulate Earth. YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO A WOMAN! Fuck off with this rhetoric. I try to defend RP and then yall say batshit insane stuff like thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:34 AM
2

I tried bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:18 AM
1

Attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:56 PM
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If a man does NOT have the Hero Instinct--the need to be needed and like a protector by the woman in his life--what does that mean? It means traditional gender roles are not for you. Which is ok. Its not for me either. Is there anything that can or should be done about it? What do you think? Find a gf that likes you just the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:03 PM
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Of course it doesn't lmao. A guy would never tell you that. This is strictly guy talk. Why do you think men always say women fuck assholes and bad boys? Because we are friends with these guys and they tell us what they truly think about the women they fuck. My friends are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:24 PM
1

Repeating yourself won't magically make it true. But yeah, good luck thinking that way. You won't keep a man long anyway with that mentality 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:06 PM
1

Nah, only someone who sucks in bed thinks that way 😂 absolute rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:42 PM
2

Hoes will do anything to justify being a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:38 PM
0

Oh. I see. Youre still wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:38 PM
1

I have a penis Mr. Bot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:35 PM
0

So all men are damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:31 PM
0

So you're advocating for mental illness and fucking said women with mental illness? No thanks...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:28 PM
3

When most women are hoes, that's unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:26 PM
0

Where are you getting this from? I've never once heard a man say he wants a porn addicted gf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:59 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 You're right but you're also wrong. Yeah, most of the guys online are unsuccessful probably. But successful guys are the most sexist and misogynistic assholes ever. You have no clue. My Chad friend explained it like this... when you are constantly fucking married / women in relationships, it let's you know that women aren't shit. You think these guys online are bad? You have no fucking idea how much disdain and disgust attractive men have for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:20 PM
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Real. When your social skills atrophy its awful. Coming from someone that wasn't social in the first place, i basically had to become an extrovert after the pandemic to reset my social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:03 PM
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No. They wouldn't. You don't understand men at all. Men want INTIMACY! Not just sex. Sex without love is scratching an itch. Its unfulfilling. Sure, in the short term its fun, but eventually you get bored of it. I was friends with this girl, A. She was a certified nympho and fucked anyone. She was madly in love with my best friend but he didn't take her seriously. He brought her around the team and everyone got a turn. Except for our nerdy, virgin, friend D. He wouldn't touch her because there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:59 PM
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Wrong. Men do not like or want sluts. I will never advocate for the woman I love to be ran through and have low standards. That's disgusting. And your logic is ass. Of course incels can exist when whores exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:35 PM
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My dad was a Chad and my mom was a Stacy. So I'd say the odds are 100%. Edit: The funny thing is. My mom is probably the most red pill and misogynistic person I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:29 PM
2

Facts! This has been my exact experience. As long as she loves you, she will fuck your brains out. Promiscuous women are a deal breaker. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:14 PM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:12 PM
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You can become a sex god/goddess from experience with one partner. Sex is not rocket science, it is not difficult. If it takes you 10+ bodies to become proficient at something a monkey could do, you're either lying to yourself or half brain dead. I know plenty of whores that starfish. This narrative that you need a slutty woman for quality sex is not based in reality. Its just a way for promiscuous women to justify their slutty behavior and add value where there is none in the eyes of men. Do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:11 PM
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having multiple sex partners doesn’t devalue women or make them whores. Yes it does. That's the very definition of a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:01 PM
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This is absolute horse shit. My ex had 1 body before me and that didn't stop her from being adventurous in bed. You do not have to be a whore to love sex or be adventurous. This is hoe math if I've ever seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:58 PM
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I mean yeah... obviously. It's only going to get worse. You see how angry people get about wealth inequality? It led to the French revolution and guillotines. Inequality in general upsets people because unfair circumstances suck. The same principle applies to dating. It's frustratingly uneven and this causes people to become resentful and hateful. Even if they didn't start off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:45 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:37 AM
0

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:35 AM
1

You're acting like I invented the term practice girl. Relax honey. Nothing I'm saying is new. You can believe that if you want, but it doesn't align with reality. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:12 AM
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They love double standards until it doesn't benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:13 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:49 PM
4

"Recreational use only." You never heard of a practice girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:18 PM
0

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:42 PM
-2

Freedom of speech bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:37 PM
4

Right. Stop trying to shame men into dating hoes. We dont want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:57 PM
1

You don't have to if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:19 AM
-1

I'd prefer living in separate houses so I have no problem with this. I'd think she was being overly emotional, but that's the standard setting for most women. So whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:17 AM
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Until you get one. We all thought that way at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:14 AM
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That was my point. If i was alone forever, I still wouldn't go there. Trust, I've had some loooong dry spells, so I know how it is at rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:07 AM
2

What? You wanna die alone? Yes. Or do you get women? I do alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:04 AM
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I could never touch a woman again and I'd still never go there. But if you wanna suck some dick, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:54 PM
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Its both. They are fucking Chads left and right but have higher standards for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:50 PM
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It doesn't matter 🤷‍♂️ men and women will never see eye to eye on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:45 PM
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Hello fellow bitcoiner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:05 PM
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Never said anything about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:52 PM
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Cop out to justify your selfishness. If you are unwilling to care for your partner and assuage their doubts, you're a bad partner and care more about yourself. Asking for the test has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:51 PM
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Then you don't love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:23 PM
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Wrong. Gaslighting 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:12 PM
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Just do it behind her back. There's no reason to engage with these vaginas and their hysterics. Fuck their feelings. Get that test done, King.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:11 PM
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If you love your husband you should be ok with giving him that certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:07 PM
-1

If you didn't cheat, there's nothing to worry about. Men should do whats in their best interest and getting certainty is better than offending her. Yall can take the gaslighting nonsense somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:03 PM
3

I'm Barack Obama and I support this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:00 PM
2

No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:00 PM
4

Yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:56 PM
1

It is but it brings me great joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:13 PM
1

Not being the town bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:14 AM
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That's great! This is the world women want, so celebrate it. You should be happy. No, I dont want women to settle. If you find most men unattractive, don't date them. No one wants to be settled for. You're missing an option: share an attractive man. If he checks all of your boxes, be polyamorous. You have nothing to lose. He gets what every man wants: variety. You get a high value man. It's a win-win. Being "single" means fucking Chad when its convenient. Look, if you're going to fuck him anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:24 AM
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Precisely. I don't fall for the gaslighting anymore. I do what's best for me at the end of the day. Fuck their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:08 AM
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Exactly this. I understand everyone has intrusive thoughts and insecurities. My job is to assuage the insecurities of my partner, up to a point. This is why I'm ok with women going through my phone, i have nothing to hide. If it comforts you, go ahead. But you better be prepared to be on the receiving end of this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:00 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:55 AM
-1

Do it behind her back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:53 AM
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I only shame thots and MAGAts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:21 AM
5

Worse than today by orders of magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:04 AM
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This is why I stopped caring about women's opinion. Once TRP exposed that shame is the only weapon they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:52 AM
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What if dying alone is my plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:50 AM
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Nope. They always lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:37 PM
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The trick is to be the perfect gentlemen. Then, when they find out, the contrast of your beliefs and behavior fries their brain. How can a woman hater treat me so well? 🥲 Its honestly hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:52 PM
1

No. No. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:31 PM
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They told me to my face im one 😂 and it started quite a few arguments. But they still stuck around. I like to phrase it like this: collectively i have a negative opinion of them. But individually I treat them well, if they treat me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:03 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:09 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:39 AM
3

Well, that's been my experience 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:58 AM
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I partially agree. This is a side effect of the internet. Information, ideas, news, trends, etc... everything moves so fast now. It wasn't like this in the past. We are living in a world that wasnt prepared for this level of rapid advancement. This is a large part of why western institutions are failing. Soceity is progressing rapidly and these boomer institutions cannot keep up. Most of our law makers are 70+ years old and have no clue how the internet works. The same effect is extended to dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:57 AM
3

Women don't mind misogyny as long as its not harmful. A woman wont turn down a guy she likes with a little misogyny sprinkled in. It's like seasoning, it keeps things interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:46 AM
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The best way to get the truth from a woman is to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:38 AM
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Ugly women are complete cum dumpsters and they love it apparently. This revelation was shocking to me. I've met many unattractive and obese women who had sex like their life depended on it. We always talk about men seeking validation, but ugly women do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:33 AM
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Hell yeah 😂 iykyk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:24 AM
3

This is exactly my experience and why i avoid high n women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:12 AM
0

They're also lowkey super freaks. I love women like that 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:09 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:00 AM
2

Pussy isn't worth becoming a different person for. Plus shitting on people isn't nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:50 AM
2

I think we all go through a phase of pretending as a part of discovering ourselves. I will say, my asshole phased attracted a lot of attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:20 AM
3

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:18 AM
3

Average guys do not have access to Stacy's. Be for real. Most of us are fucking and dating perfectly average women. Why tf would a stacy fuck an average guy when she has unlimited access to Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:00 AM
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Because they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:01 PM
1

Sure. Cry more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:00 PM
1

No. My life is boring. Sure I've traveled and a bunch of other stuff. But its mostly monotonous days at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:02 AM
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It absolutely does. You cannot do manual labor for decades without destroying your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:45 AM
12

Cry more. She's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:14 AM
0

This is sad. I have no words. Men are really trash nowadays, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:13 AM
10

Triggered. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:11 AM
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This is the favorite retort of every stupid person. I agree. Education != intelligent. But it's the best qualifier we have and its strongly correlated. I'm tired of people saying this and encouraging idiocy. There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that 'my ignorance is just as good as your kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:09 AM
1

Same topics. Same thing. Plus, they both spawned from RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:02 AM
1

Because its all within the manosphere and its all tightly connected. Its not like Black Pill is about investing or herbology. It's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:55 AM
1

True. But I dont think that changes much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:42 AM
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-Material needs I'm poor asf. But I'm not dating any woman who wants me to provide for her. She pays her bills, I pay mine. We come together to do cool stuff. Simple. -Emotional needs I actually agree. I didn't realize how bad it was until I went on a group date recently. The guys in the group couldn't even hold a conversation without saying something stupid or toxic. These men need therapy... badly! I tell guys to work on their personality, trauma, and emotional problems but they are so stunted…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:42 AM
2

That's debating RP. But ok. Go off Queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:16 AM
1

Yup. Being a hypocrite isnt the worst thing, so what. Plus, me engaging in hookups is not the same as a woman. For one, I'm not fucking a whole football team of women. It actually requires effort for me to find a fwb. I can't just lie on my back like a woman. I have 2 fwbs max and I may hit up another girl if its not too much work. I don't have the time or energy to fuck 5+ guys a month like yall. Also, if women don't care about my body count, why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:13 AM
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TRP literally covers all of this. Why are yall here if you dont even know the basics of what you claim to disagree with? Self improvement is a core tenet. You should be saying this to Black Pillers. But at this point, I've long since accepted none of you actually know what RP is about. Ignorance is bliss as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:44 PM
2

I've left some fire emojis but thats about it. I don't say anything crass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:11 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:20 PM
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Yup. Couldn't be me though. I have no intention of having kids. Especially not taking care of someone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:09 AM
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Why does a woman having sex disgust you when you have hookups yourself? Because that's the why I'm hardwired. Ask God. Do you plan on never being in a committed relationship? I have multiple times. Currently, I plan on staying single and hoeing around. If I'm in the mood for a relationship, I may try again in the future. What will you do when you are no longer attractive enough for hookups and have no relationship experience? You're assuming a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:43 AM
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You can only say that because you have no idea how soul crushing the male experience is. And this is coming from a guy that is somewhat successful, it still fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:30 AM
0

The latter. Easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:29 AM
2

How do you define ran through? I told you we're past that point. Is the sky blue? Yes. Do you think your partner having a sexual history is worse than being alone? Yes. I don't mind being single, plus I can reliably get hookups when I need a little razzle dazzle. So I'm perfectly happy with the status quo. Why do you care either way and what influenced that stance? Because I have no intention of taking a woman seriously who I am disgusted by.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:25 AM
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I assume every woman is ran through until proven otherwise. 9 times out of 10 I'm correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:15 AM
3

Manipulation game on point 👌 I'm taking notes, King.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:06 AM
8

We're past that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:48 AM
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The effort and trouble required to get a woman is greater than the benefits of having one. Being single is less stressful and more beneficial. Additionally, dating is so skewed in women's favor that they are entitled, insufferable, and ruthless. They want their cake and to eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:44 AM
3

Women are thots. Juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:28 AM
1

Porn mags, strip clubs, play boy, vhs, etc. Men have consumed erotic material for ages. This isnt anything new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:27 AM
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Men aren't meant to do shit. You're a grown adult woman, pay your own bills hobo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:29 AM
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They raise their standards for provisioning. In other words: Beta Bux. You have to bring more (money) to the table than her Chad ex. Chad doesn't need to bring anything to the table, take her seriously, or provide for his bastard kids. But you, the average guy must offer her more, because you dont excite or turn her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:47 AM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:20 AM
1

It's not. None of you are doctors so stop pretending you know anything. Men have used porn for ages, but suddenly its a problem now? Please fuck all the way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:18 AM
1

At least women can have sex. Ugly men are way worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:28 PM
1

I mean thats kinda the struggle of being ugly. Its not a gendered experience. It just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:51 PM
2

Same subject i started with and ended with. Your attempts to deflect show you have no argument. The only thing you're exposing is yourself. But go off sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:50 AM
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I wish i still felt this way. I haven't felt butterflies since high school. It always takes me significantly longer to like a woman than her to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:27 AM
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No. I don't care because I'm not dating her. Eventually I'll get to know her and it'll come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:22 AM
2

If its obvious that men don't like you, leave. Why are trying to convince men that dislike you to give you a chance? That is a mental illness. Date people who like you! Crazy concept, I know. Do you want to marry someone who resents you? Because we all know how that will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:18 AM
-2

Yall try to tell men how to feel about sluts every week. How are women this delusional? They don't like the truth, so they lie to themselves. When men say they dont like you or want you... believe them. Or dont... you're in for a rude awakening either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:42 AM
1

Mad asf 😂 imagine being this triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:05 AM
6

So you proved his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:59 AM
1

Yup. This is why I say, if a woman doesn't give me an enthusiastic yes. I'm not interested. I know how women behave when they are actually attracted to you. Once a woman fucks you like you're the only man on Earth, there's no going back. Never settling for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:47 AM
1

Honestly, I try not to ask. But my friends are fucking assholes, so they'll answer the phone when I call... even while balls deep in a girl 🤦‍♂️ so yeah... anything I know is against my will. The wildest thing was probably smashing a bunch of baddies in one day. Smash one girl, kick her out. Call another over, smash. She calls her friend, threesome. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:16 AM
3

Bro. You have no idea. I was a hopeless romantic and virgin in high school. He single handedly changed how I view relationships and women. There were days where I lamented being single and sexless and he would call women up to fuck me. They did it without hesitation. A Chads life is so far removed from the average man, it's unthinkable. The one RP rule I will defend until my death: women break rules for Alphas. If you are attractive enough, rich enough, or high status enough... she will never te…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:23 AM
4

Looks are 90% of the equation. They are most important. However, plenty of attractive and average guys talk themselves out of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:51 AM
8

That doesn't change what he said. He's still right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:45 AM
1

He's 6'2" I believe. Very fashionable because he sews and designs his own clothes. Lightskin. Very fit from years of doing martial arts. Dreads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:35 AM
2

Yes. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:29 AM
0

Idk why. Its not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:35 PM
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AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:34 PM
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This is such obviously bs I'm not even gonna entertain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:33 PM
1

If you say so 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:30 PM
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The majority? No. Enough? Yes. Andrew Tate is a household name now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:33 PM
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Wow. I see what you're doing. She's cooking. I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:36 AM
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Its true for all women, all of the time. AWALT. The only reason women appear to be faithful is because they all know about TRP and pickup artistery now. They know the playbook so they've adjusted. Before that, my friend (the typical Chad type) would smash married and taken women all day everyday. These women are not loyal. They simply know 90% of guys only want to fuck and won't take them seriously. So monkey branching is no longer worth it, unless he is a Chad's Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:33 AM
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Nah. Thanks to social media and OLD, attractive men are a swipe away from most women. I've been friends with a few Chad's and their experience with women is completely alien.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:21 AM
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All heterosexual men are attracted to the same few women. Nope. We have the data to prove we arent. We men like to complain about it, but how many of us would date a fat, ugly woman like Lizzo? My cousin exclusively dates fat women. He's a notorious chubby chaser. And its not like he's ugly or has no options. He was a pretty good football player, tall, and handsome. He just likes em big. Some guys are into that. The attractive few date the attractive few and the rest of us settle or remain singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:13 AM
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You can date whoever you want as long as they like you back. If you are an experienced man and want a virgin, more power to you. Just don't complain if it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:08 AM
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Yeah, my guy friends would clown me for fucking a young chick. But a relationship? The insults would be nonstop. I don't see anything wrong with a casual situationship. A relationship is off limits though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:03 AM
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I feel you. I don't mind smashing a young girl, but they are so damn annoying and childish. There were a few that I humored, but after getting to know them... pass. Not worth the headache. Occasionally, a solid one will come around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:56 AM
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She can if she dates strategically. I'ma stop you right there. That's exactly the problem. That's not how women date. Which is why they end up in the same cycle of trash men 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:36 AM
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Tried that. Same outcome. She showed up to my job unannounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:33 AM
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Well then your experience is very different from mine because that's not how it went over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:32 AM
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She certainly can. But judging by the dating pool, that's not gonna happen anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:30 AM
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Always the same outcome. I can't give out dick this good to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:28 AM
2

I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:29 AM
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Tinder. When I was 25, I had 17 year olds sliding into my DMs. Now that I'm 29, it's mostly 20-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:26 AM
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That's what most people do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:18 AM
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Same. If you're fucking her right and treating her right, she will be insatiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:53 AM
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No. I tell every woman I date that sex is important and if she cuts it off, I'm leaving her. But they've all had much higher libido's than me, so it's not a problem. I'm also child-free, so no need to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:40 AM
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By what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:49 PM
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Imagine saying something this cringey and hateful. Yikes. If anyone shouldn't have kids, its you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:24 PM
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If you say so 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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Its both. There are a lot of creepy guys who can't take a hint and shitty women who hate unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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I'm hearing a lot of yapping and no actual solutions. Thus proving my point. You don't have to believe rp works, as long as it works for the men using it. It worked wonders for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:18 PM
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They want indirect communication when flirting to give them an out. But if the attraction is mutual they want direct communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:00 PM
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Useless because you have nothing worthwhile to contribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:09 PM
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🥱 children these days. Not gonna waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:10 PM
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Stating facts != bitching. Just because you don't like the truth, doesn't make it so. If you don't care, why are you here? Last time I checked, RP is for men only. Yall feel compelled to infest male spaces like vermin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:48 PM
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You do realize a big reason RP exist is because men weren't receiving enthusiastic sex. Men noticed the way women lust after Chad but gives the average man the bare minimum. What is at the top of every sex and relationship thread targeted at men? Enthusiasm! Men don't want a woman who finds them unattractive. Where you got that idea is a mystery to me. If a woman doesn't soak her panties at the thought of me, she can kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:40 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:07 PM
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Whether yall like it or not, it works. Yall rehash the same advice like: be yourself. Which we all know doesn't work. We have said since the beginning, that if you don't like RP, provide a better alternative and men will use it. It's been decades and women have less than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:08 PM
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They don't think at all*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:55 PM
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You want me to link you some posts? Little girl, no one cares about you or women in general enough for that. You denying reality won't change anything. Edit: Also, Elon Musk? Fucking Ew. Capitalist Pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:39 PM
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Yes. Thats what most men do. Go outside and touch grass. That still doesn't change what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:05 AM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:17 AM
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No where did I say that. I'm just speaking to the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:17 AM
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Until yall are 35 and single. Then yall start posting on askmen and tiktok, "where do all of the single men my age hang out?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:29 AM
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Because if you dont, TRP will. Then you'll have to wade through a bunch of fake alphas and toxic men irl. A rising tide lifts all boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:27 AM
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Thank God for women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:24 AM
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This is what they fail to understand. A rising tide lifts all boats. When men do well, women do well. Because THEY'RE THE ONES WE'RE DATING! This gender war is melting people's brain. They think it's a zero sum game but it doesn't have to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:22 AM
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Women started it. Thirsty came from women. Women were the first to mock men for being loving partners. Not to mention being called corny. Simp came about because men saw how women responded. Women have made it clear they only want attention from certain men (chad). The rest of us are simply acting accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:44 AM
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As it should be. Praxis and experience was more valued than theory and talking back in the day. Now everyone wants to sit on podcast, talk shit, and never actually put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:53 AM
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Absolutely 👏🏻 if men aren't treating you well, its because you haven't earned it. They always want the wife, princess, and grand romantic gesture treatment but don't want to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 AM
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Difference is: I'm telling men to do it in response. Women are going to women. You can either play the game or not. But not playing doesn't help you in any way. If this was a different generation, i would advise the opposite, but we know how relationships work these days. I see no reason to put yourself at a disadvantage for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:38 AM
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She isn't the only one. 30+ bodies is not uncommon these days. Especially with the amount of women into kink and bdsm. I've dated women from Tinder who loved gangbangs and all types of stuff. I've had underage girls shoot their shot with bodies in the teens to 20s. That's why I said assume every woman has a hoe phase. Yall think I'm being toxic but life has taught me the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:55 PM
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Yup. Fellas, remember what Kanye said: one good girl is worth a thousand bitches. He was absolutely correct. Don't make the mistake I did and chase thots for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:51 PM
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Then why are women so miffed about being in casual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:43 PM
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Yup. I just ended the relationship. But considering the quality of women I've met since then... it was a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:14 PM
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Save some pussy for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:13 PM
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You're projecting. That's not how men work. It's how women work and we have the data to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:12 PM
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You are objectively wrong and any guy who doesn't think style and fashion matters has probably never touched a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:08 PM
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Holy shit! Is that you Uncle Vasiliy? I haven't seen that name in a long ass time. Your post on TRP lowkey changed the game and my life. When I bemoan the current grifters and podcast bros, its because they weren't around for your Golden Age wisdom. That was when RP was worth its weight in gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:02 PM
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Now we both know there's a big difference between a hoe phase and just vibing / dating. My ex had a past: 1 guy. My other ex had a hoe phase: 32 bodies. Those are not in the same universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:52 PM
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Good for you. The last girl I told this to cried in my bed all night 😕 I'd rather not repeat that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:46 PM
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For some men, sure. But when i say it, i mean your actions have consequences. If you tell men that being interested/passionate is "thirsty" and bad. Naturally, men will stop showing interest because they dont want to be perceived negatively. However, when that comes around and bites you in the ass, don't complain about it. Now that men treat you like you're not special, its a problem? No. You asked for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:42 PM
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Idk women are the ones who constantly bitch about this. Men not wanting to date high n women. Men not wanting to date older women. Men not wanting to settle down. If they didnt bitch so much, i wouldn't assume they care so much. So yes, he's holding her accountable by gatekeeping commitment. She can still be a "fun" girl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:28 PM
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How is a man she’s not compatible with not dating her holding her accountable for her actions? Idk what you are talking about here. What does dating around do to make you less of a good partner? I mean there's a long list and I dont feel like rehashing it. Either way, it doesn't matter. Why would you want to date someone who doesn't like you? If a guy feels some type of way about body count, avoid him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:22 PM
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Accountable for their actions. I talked about this already but my coworker was upset because men treat her so indifferently now. She hates nonchalant men. According to her, men used to yearn for women and make love songs and shit. I told her too fucking bad. Women have made it abundantly clear that those men are "thirsty" now. As such, men don't show interest like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:17 PM
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I'm just being honest. If you are a man whose dating in 2023, you should always assume she's had a hoe phase until proven otherwise. Treat her like a gun. Every gun is loaded and should be handled accordingly. This philosophy has served me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:54 PM
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Ma'am. I am completely lost. I'm unsure what you are asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:34 PM
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Yes: They have a vagina They are alive and breathing Its 2023 Don't get me wrong, this isn't the case with every woman. But its enough of them. Edit: I actually responded to the wrong person but it still fits so I'm leaving it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:32 PM
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I'm not talking about going on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:25 PM
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Idk what kind of fallacy this is but its a stupid one. Being in a relationship does not a stop a woman from having a hoe phase. Statistically they are likely to break up anyways, and then she's free to ride the CC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:10 PM
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As if those men want to date you. Those women are for recreational use only, not commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:05 PM
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Yup. They get absolutely feral when men hold them accountable this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:39 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:17 AM
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I didnt say anything about not liking the women youre with so idk how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:12 AM
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While I agree sex work is work. Its not seen as a respectable line of work, so its understandable. Personally, I think it sucks but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:09 AM
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I'm too old for this shit. I'm not dealing with subtleties and cues anymore. If she wants me, she can make it clear. Otherwise, I'm moving on. My coworker (20F) came up to me and said, "I like you." Boom. It's that easy. Meanwhile, you have grown ass women unable and unwilling to communicate like an adult. I wont lose any sleep over it 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:35 AM
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As a man, you should always have multiple options available because these women are for the streets. They always have simps, exes, and other options in their back pocket. Never put all of your eggs in one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:22 AM
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Based and reasonable take. I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:20 PM
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I absolutely get resentful when I have to pay for everything. But that's because my parents have a 50/50 marriage and I want that same quality of love. My parents taught me early about reciprocity. Plus, I hate traditional gender roles. It's not about the money, its about the intent. Are we a team or not? Should we care for each other or not? Should the relationship be transactional or not? If your partner loves you, they will not let you carry burdens, especially financial ones, alone. Point bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:06 PM
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At what? Sleeping around or finding a low n woman? While I didn't do it purposely, this is exactly how my last relationship went.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:16 AM
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Nah, a lot of guys do this. Maybe not as excessively, but it's a common strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:15 AM
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Game is game ✍️🏻 let me write that down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:13 AM
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Sort of. I'm hooking up because I can't find any quality women. Commitment is off the table for the foreseeable future. I don't take any of them seriously. It's okay to have preferences OP, even if it's for body count. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. At the end of the day, you have to marry and date her, so don't settle for a woman you dislike. If you want a low n woman, that's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:10 AM
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But not how much they matter. I didnt realixe every romance movie had the same plot. Be serious. Yes, and why do you think that is? This isnt rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:53 AM
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Blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:57 AM
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No it wasn't. Women go out of their way to avoid saying looks matter. They've only admitted it recently because we have the data and proof. Have you never seen a romantic movie? Soceity peddled lots of toxic ideas that women supposedly love, like never giving up and relentlessly pursuing a woman. So no, it wasn't right in front of anyone. If it was, TRP wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:26 AM
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Yup. I would say personality is the icing on the cake. At the end of the day, it's better to be attractive than anything else. The ROI of looks is astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:52 AM
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Didn't I just say looks matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:36 AM
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Of course we know looks matter. We were lied too about how much they mattered. Looks are 75% or more of the equation. If you are an attractive man, you can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:19 AM
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You're absolutely right. I don't blame them for being picky. But if you're going to indulge in hedonism, dont complain when it inevitably goes wrong. Don't complain when men dont take you seriously for marriage. You made the choice to live that way, knowing how men perceive it. Don't get mad at men for the choices you made. Your actions have consequences. If you're picky and going after the top 10% of men, realize it's not going to be easy and the pool is small. Dont cry about there being no "ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:33 AM
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Like i said. Non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:53 PM
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They're allergic to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:07 PM
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Bingo. I got into it with a coworker because she was upset about men being nonchalant. Back in the day, men used to YEARN for women. According to her. I told her too fucking bad, those days are over. Those men are called thirsty now. Women don't seem to understand that their actions have consequences. Men will adjust accordingly. Women treat romance as transactional? Men will do the same. Men get called thirsty? Men act nonchalant. Women sleep with Chad on the first night? Guys stop planning dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:17 PM
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Wow. You deserve a platinum award for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:02 PM
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There wasn't a moment. I found trp accidentally. After reading it once, I knew it was onto something. If it wasn't true, how did it accurately predict every interaction with a woman in my past? The hateful language and right-wing slant were a turn-off, so i avoided going too deep. But I am a man of science, so I committed to trying it, to test the results. After trying it, I began to see results and the rest is history. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:35 AM
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I'd rather not date another virgin, but it's not too bad. A virgin has the excuse of not knowing how sex works, so I give her a pass. But there are 30+ year old women who don't know how to please their man, what pleases them, or how to have sex. Yikes. I put no value or importance on virginity. I put value on body count. Hypersexuality as a result of trauma is very real. Avoid those women like the plague. I don't expect women to be virgins and I dont want a slut. My goal is to find a woman with …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:17 AM
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I've had all 3 and interdependent is definitely the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:39 PM
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Can confirm. Am 30 with a 22 year old fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:29 PM
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Bro. If you're 30+ fucking younger women, keep it to yourself. These weirdos become so hostile when this topic comes up. I've had women younger than 18 hit on me. They can deny reality all they want, but it wont change. If you can bag a younger woman, keep up the good work and be quiet about it. Nobody has to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:22 PM
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Yes they do. They fuck them regularly. Never met one who didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:25 PM
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Literally every college aged woman I've met and or dated has fucked an older guy. Yall are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Well... either way, I'm not financially or emotionally prepared for a relationship. It's not sabotage so much as me knowing its not the correct time. If I was in the proper place, I wouldn't mind a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:08 PM
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Cap. Most people fall into stereotypes or they wouldn't be stereotypes. You can only talk that way because you have zero clue what the male experience is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:35 PM
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Stereotypes exist for a reason. There's always an inkling of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:16 PM
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Spare me. You don't know what is going on in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:02 PM
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Finances and life will always be a mess and are a mess for everyone. Not everyone. She's pretty accomplished and successful judging by her career and degrees. I highly doubt she wants date a broke guy. Maybe she would take you out on dates and make it better 👀👀 I wish it worked like that. Women only take their boyfriends on dates. During the courting phase, it's all up to the guy. What if she makes it less annoying and you enjoy certain parts of life and dating again? Idk... I'd be happy, I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:45 AM
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Oh if you’re unable to that’s totally fine. Yes. My finances and life are a mess rn. Also not sure why you think it’s fanfiction that my family doesn’t have lots of divorce in it? It's not the divorce, its the whole thing. That's not how women behave. Maybe 1 or 2. But a whole family of uber successful women dating men for their personalities...? Not a chance. Yes it hurts. Yeah. I'm pretty numb to it by now. I'm usually more annoyed at it being a waste of time and energy. I just find it sad tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:03 AM
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Take a chance with the girl it might actually work out and make you happy. If i was in a position to take such a risk, I would. But I'm not. My parents are lifelong partners and divorce isn’t common in my family. This sounds like fan fiction but ok. If she likes you once again go for it it would be deeply upsetting if you don’t take this chance and could miss out on someone great my guy 🥴😭😭 I’m not even arguing with you please try it even if initially it’s just to prove us wrong on here. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:44 AM
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This is delusional I don't make the rules, I just follow them. I'm actually being super rational. You’re right about being the one to sabotage the relationship. Technically, you can't sabotage something that's doomed to fail. Think of it as expediting things. I quite literally used to have this problem [...] and I was like what in the fuck are you doing? I'm sorry that happened to you. But hypergamy exists for a reason. They probably did the math on the odds of you being different and said it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:21 AM
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I'm experiencing the same and its amusing. Especially when they find out I'm childfree. It's game on. I know they only want a beta bux so I'm not interested. We agree to be fwb and when they ask for more, I tell them I'm not ready. They usually ghost me after that but it's fine, I had my fun. It was just my turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:57 AM
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Ideally: I would treat her differently. I would worship the ground she walks on and treat her like a Goddess. Wouldn't even look at other women. Realistically: I'd probably sabotage the relationship because I don't believe a woman could be breadwinner and love/respect her husband. I was talking to my friend Brianna about this not even an hour ago. I just matched with a woman on okcupid whose a solid 10 and way out of my league. In an ideal world, I would wife her up. Princess treatment. The whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:41 AM
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Can we PLEASE discard this notion that women who use dating apps are some alien species of women separate from the rest? It's ridiculous and untrue. AWALT. Besides that, I agree with what you've said. But again... we run into the same problem: no third places. Soceity is becoming increasingly atomized. Most people have few or no friends. Its incredibly hard to meet people in today's world. Your next suggestion is undoubtedly going to be men should approach or put themselves out there. But do I r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:17 AM
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You're right and you're wrong. The problem is that 50% of couples meet online. Probably more since the pandemic. We have no third places to flirt and meet women. This type of dynamic DRAMATICALLY alters the dating world. Just have a look at r/tinder and see most guys have a <1% match and date rate. Meanwhile women are swimming in dick. As society becomes increasingly atomized the dating market will become increasingly bifurcated between the haves and have nots. If you didn't meet your wife in sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:54 AM
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I'm a socialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:57 AM
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This is exactly what I did. I had enough experience with women to identify the bullshit and avoid it. I incorporated the gems 💎 and my success increased. Don't become a bitter incel and you'll flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:56 AM
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This is it basically. Or in other words: an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:49 PM
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No. There's only one definition. Yall just know fuck all about RP so constantly make up your own definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:47 PM
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Wrong. That's your opinion not the correct definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:46 PM
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TRP created the term HVM. As such, there is only one definition. I'm tired of people here making up definitions because they know nothing about RP. A woman may have a differing opinion on what a HVM is but that's all it is: an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:45 PM
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What's wrong with those things if they're true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:37 PM
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I learn a few nice things about women here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:52 PM
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Escorts and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:18 PM
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I agree. I'm saying women are maladjusted. A sane person wants the one they love to be kind to them. But these women respond to the opposite. You choose the love you think you deserve and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:26 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:24 AM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with transactional love if both parties are happy and benefit. Its a symbiotic relationship. So when they stop benefiting you, leave. If she gets fat. Leave. If she nags too much. Leave. If she has a high body count. Leave. You are free to draw that line wherever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:06 AM
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A mentally healthy person does not want their partner to dislike them or be indifferent to them. Maybe if they are asexual? But regardless, its not a sign of a well adjusted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:05 AM
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Nah, there's nothing wrong with being kind. These women are fundamentally broken and need therapy. If kindness if a turnoff, you need to address your trauma. Men aren't the problem. Women are just batshit insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:37 AM
2

He was right until the attractive part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:58 AM
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Around 2010, I followed dating culture a lot. Social media was just becoming big and nice guy had no negative connotations. I remember so many guys online and IRL struggling with the fact that women didn't respond to niceness. It seemed insane. Naturally, people are nice to others they like. But women absolutely hated it. I'm not saying being nice is the only requirement to get a girlfriend. Obviously, there's more to it. But it was like the male collective consciousness learned a hard lesson. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:51 AM
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The earths population wont start declining for another 60 years. We are fine. This is sensationalist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:46 PM
1

Yes, it is considered manufactured capital. But I would argue that is a moot point under communism because there is no cash to be produced from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:25 AM
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Dude, there is no condescension, this is basic stuff you can Google. I just told you, Star Trek.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:02 AM
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Capital is money. A factory generates capital as the means of production. But under communism money is abolished, like Star Trek. You obviously have no idea what you are talking about or what these words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:55 AM
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There is no capital in communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:37 AM
1

I constantly see women complaining about men not approaching because we're not masculine anymore. Women seem the care quite a bit when they are perpetually single as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:46 AM
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Exactly. If resources were distributed equitably, everyone would be living much better lives. We have the means and resources to improve the lives of most people. We just choose not to. Poverty is a feature of Capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:32 AM
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Communism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:27 AM
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Population collapse is over exaggerated nonsense. Its a none issue. In fact, its a good thing. The only people upset by it are the 1%. The population will continue to increase for at least 60 more years before declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:26 AM
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Because that doesn't mean he'll know how to please a woman because he knows how to tell a joke. Those traits dont translate to being proficient in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:21 AM
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How would you even know? People don't ask about n-count according to the women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:54 PM
3

This is why I can't take the women here seriously. They will tell you the sky is green to avoid the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:01 PM
9

Not even remotely true. Go outside pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:45 AM
1

You can't be salty and mad because you don't practice what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:44 AM
1

It gets better, trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:30 PM
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If I was serious about having a future with her? Yes. If not? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:28 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:12 AM
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Fax. I see this everywhere. I would say it's the experience of most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:55 AM
2

This is why I say men settle more than women. Most guys have nowhere near the amount of experience and options the average woman has. They find one half decent girl in a dessert and latch on forever. I was surely going to make the same mistake until I found TRP. Now, I play the field as much as possible. Yeah, it can suck and have long dry spells. But I would rather do that and commit to a girl with certainty than commit out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:54 AM
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I agree. Given the state of the economy, I would hate to be a provider. I've told him the same thing, but he has a Captain Save-A-Hoe complex. I was done with her when she stayed home all day and didn't feed their kids. I don't condone violence against women, but if you let my newborn starve all day for no reason...? I'm turning into Ike Turner. The DINK lifestyle is perfect for me. It's a mixed bag, honestly. Guys who idolize being a provider usually want to control women and use money as a mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:40 AM
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Thank you. I agree. Hate is something I do not tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:41 PM
5

That's what 99% of RP wanted prior to RP. We were good wholesome boys who aspired for the type of love you find in a romantic comedy. That's unrealistic drivel. In today's world, women are sleeping around like crazy. Most men do not want a promiscuous woman as a serious partner. Hence: spin plates. If you can't get what you truly want: a high quality wife. Settle for the next best thing: banging sluts. Not only that, but before you can get into an ideal relationship, you need to be an ATTRACTIVE…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:34 PM
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Worst take here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:24 PM
1

That's not submissive that's being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:19 PM
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Don't confuse femininity with being a doormat. Men like and value feminine women. What we don't value are women with no agency, opinion, or will. All of the women I've dated were incredibly submissive. Imo too submissive. It gets to a point where you're so dependent it's annoying. I don't want or need to think for you. I want a feminine PARTNER not a submissive doormat. If something serious happens, I need to know you are capable of handling it like an adult instead of deferring to me. I will no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:15 PM
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I used to do things like that until he became a Trump supporter and said he agrees with Kanye on killing the Jews. After that, I had to cut him off. If he's gonna end it, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:00 PM
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Honestly when's the last time you even saw a single income family? My best friend does HVAC. Makes $25+ an hour and provides for a family of 4 (including his wife). However, to make ends meet, he works 60~ hours/week. His wife refuses to work, school, or take care of home because she's a depressed, dependent, mess. He's miserable and frequently tells me he wants to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:45 PM
1

This is also why a lot of attractive men frequent sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:40 PM
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You can't take what the women here say seriously. They don't actually know anything about RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:38 PM
1

I don't buy this rhetoric that sex is dangerous for women. Reality doesn't support that. Women are fucking like rabbits in today's world. Whatever concern they have for safety is irrelevant based on their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:20 PM
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Reality doesn't support this theory however. Women are fucking nonstop, just not below average men. Nothing will stop women from being "liberated" and fucking the Chad of their dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:43 PM
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Yet they give it up with no hesitation to Chad. Which let's you know, they don't actually care if the guy is attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:38 PM
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They are legit insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:33 PM
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You wish it were that close. Last time I checked it was unfavorable to 70% of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:00 PM
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No one is doing studies on how shitty conservatives are. But you don't have to believe me, just interact with a woman (but I guess that's kinda hard because they don't want to be around you). You will eventually lose count if you use Tinder and count how many profiles say no conservatives. No one likes you. The only stupid thing here is you. Look how salty you are, its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:43 PM
1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:10 AM
1

Only in your daydreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:09 AM
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If liberal men are so dangerous, women would not date them. What do we see in reality? Hordes of women refusing to date conservatives. Yeah, that doesn't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:41 AM
3

Yes, you are. It's YOUR body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:39 AM
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Abortion. Turns out men who don't want women to have rights are more likely to treat them like shit. Conservatives are just a pathetic lot in general. No one outside of their little cult wants to be around them or likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:30 AM
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Because they don't support taking away women's rights and making them second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:55 AM
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Your butthurt post is indicative of everything he meant. The estrogen is strong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:13 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:12 PM
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Yeah, it's easier getting women as a lefty than a righty. No woman wants to date a man who wants to take away her rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:11 PM
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Americans are pretty brain dead when it comes to politics. A lot of Americans hate "left" politics, but if you don't brand it as such, they fully support it. On top of the capitalist brainwashing. Most people here can't define socialism or communism but hate it with a fiery passion. We're just... so stupid. I hate it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:09 PM
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If you've ever dated a woman. You know this mentality is incredibly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:32 PM
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This is my ideal relationship. I had something similar with my ex. Traditional relationships suck, dunno why any man would want one when they can have this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:21 PM
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False. There are so many examples of men sticking their dick in crazy because she was hot. Or women here admitting they fucked hot guys who they hated. Personality is not a deal breaker, looks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:02 AM
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Please listen to this op. You're going to open yourself up to a lot of hurt by continuing down this path.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:00 AM
3

Sounds like my ex. Extremely codependent and always in a relationship. She was only "single" for 3 months since high school. TRP overstates how easy it is for women to get into relationships. It can happen at the snap of a finger. These women are not lacking for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:58 AM
1

Your personality is irrelevant if they don't find you physically attractive. So again... looks > personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:38 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:52 PM
1

Looks > Personality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:46 PM
1

Nah, they hop from guy to guy instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:34 PM
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That just means they were unwilling to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:57 PM
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It absolutely does. When a majority of wealth is concentrated in a few hands, it always has dire effects for society at large. This has been proven time and time again throughout history. The 1% having 60% of the nations wealth means its harder for you, I, and every other "peasant" to start a family. Remember, that used to be possible on 1 income. But now it's not. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:05 PM
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I've seen men get fit at 50+. It's not a problem. You can always pay to get your hair fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:31 PM
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I agree. Capitalism should be abolished. CEOs given the death penalty. Wealth redistributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:29 PM
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Right, there's also very little wealth inequality between "peasants" today. 3 people have as much wealth as the bottom 50% of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:28 PM
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Aways blame the capitalism when you've had the most prosperity and advancement during the capitalist society. This is completely false. Capitalism makes people POORER. After all it's hard to just blame the peoples that voted for this shit, it's hard to accept they're lied to and basically impossible to make them accept that no matter the system, no matter what revolution happens, no matter what kind govern it's upon our heads, a pawn continues being a pawn. Defeatist and untrue. A system that va…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:26 PM
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There is none. He has no idea what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:22 PM
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It just does not mathematically make sense. So many men have this fantasy life trajectory of sleeping with dozens of women and then locking marraige with a virgin woman. This societal view won't be possible if many men embraced this lifestyle. Literally, no one expects this. And the fact that so many women here keep saying this proves yall are only capable of arguing in bad faith. We don't want a virgin. We want a woman who isn't promiscuous. That's it. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:04 PM
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Woke-ism is code for: my brain stopped working a long time ago. Anything I don't like is woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:47 PM
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You can, but women are such a drain that they will stall any progress made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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Waay ahead of you. All of the women my age have kids and want marriage. I'm here for a good time not a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:43 PM
2

I guess. But you can always fix stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:42 PM
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I hope so. Every woman I match with or meet wants to settle down IMMEDIATELY. I'm like, chill... let's not rush anything. I understand you had your fun in your 20s. But I was single or in a committed relationship. So now I want to have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:06 PM
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Precisely! Same for me. This is when RP says it reverses for most guys. I'm starting to see why. Most women in their 30s have kids. We're child free, good money, good health/physique. The world is a man's oyster at 30. The world kicked your teeth in at 20? Now at 30 you know better and can do better. I'm planning to hit the gym harder than ever and go after goals harder, since 30 is around the corner for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:02 PM
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Next year, I'll be in the 30 dating pool, and it's going to suck. Everyone wants to settle down, and I'm just looking for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:55 PM
1

I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:53 PM
1

or are you all actually sociopaths. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:24 PM
1

Humanity would die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:34 PM
1

Nah. Women are more looks oriented than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:41 PM
1

They matter more than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:35 PM
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I've dated enough promiscuous women to know they make bad partners. Low n is always better. Plus, you never hear a man bragging about high n women, as if there is any upside to dating them. Don't make the mistake I did and take a slut seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:29 PM
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Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:03 AM
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Yawn. Garbage take from a person of similar quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:00 PM
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Not a paradox at all. That's just life. Sure, I'll give you the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:41 PM
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You're just ignoring the part where women fuck them over? Thus validating my point. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:39 PM
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Absolute bullshit. I've been in this space for ages, and you will always find guys in the comments discussing how they were divorce raped, used, cheated on, etc. The young guys see it as a fad, but this has been happening with older guys for the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:02 PM
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Yes, and men are unwilling to meet those standards when they view it as too much effort for too little reward. So, as we are seeing across developed countries, birth rates are collapsing, mental health problems are increasing, loneliness is increasing, sexlessness is up, and most people aren't having a good time. Shits fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:46 PM
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Those guys only believe that bs because they've been taken advantage of by women, and it leaves them jaded. Which makes them more susceptible to gifter influencers who reinforce their negative perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:42 PM
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Guys are literally asking for the bare minimum. The bar is in Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:23 PM
1

You mean taken advantage of by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:22 PM
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Stopped reading after that Boomer ass participation trophy comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:21 PM
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Yes. Who wants to get married to the town bike? No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:10 PM
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I've dated the community bike and virgin, both were pleased with my performance. It has nothing to do with insecurity. Guys have higher libido, love variety, and want to experiment to find themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:05 PM
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But in every discussion about partner count, it is claimed that every sexual partner makes it harder to pair bond, increases probability of divorce, increases risk of infidelity, increases risk of STDs, and makes you more repulsive. ...for women. Not men. So why would average men want casual sex with all these risks just so that they can be "run through?" Shouldn't they be glad they're spared the terrible curse of casual sex? Men can't be "run through," they are high value, players, or Chad's. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:01 PM
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Yeah, after dating very submissive women, the novelty wears off fast. I want a partner and actual adult, not a sex slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:50 PM
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It's always the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:48 PM
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Yes. I don't even have my own kids, so why would I want to be bothered with someone else's?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:33 PM
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Everything is getting more expensive. It's ridiculous. I'm so tired of this shit. I just want to go live alone in the woods at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:00 PM
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That's fine 🤷‍♂️ it'll only be until next year. By then, I'll be debt free with an emergency fund and savings. I can survive being single for that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:10 PM
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I'm 29 and broke as shit. Technically, it's not stopping me from dating because I've met women who don't mind. Some women are into building together, and I appreciate that. But it's extremely demoralizing for me and kills all desire. I'm working my ass off now, so I can go into my 30s financially stable. I don't plan on dating until my head is above water. The most I'm comfortable with is friends with benefits because it doesn't require as much emotional and financial investment as a real relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:22 PM
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My ex used to constantly slap my ass in the most disrespectful way possible 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:16 AM
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I have an irrational love for afros. They make me fall in love 200% faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:12 AM
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Give me one order of death by snu snu, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:10 AM
3

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:08 AM
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Only white guys like anorexic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:08 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:19 PM
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She took me to an Afro futuristic night at the planetarium. Followed by dinner and a gaming lounge. Honestly, I had to stop myself from crying because it was the perfect date for my nerdy ass. It felt amazing to be so understood by someone. She planned it all without any input from me, which meant she really paid attention and cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:14 AM
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I'm basing my appearance off of ratings I've received as to remain as objective as possible. If I had to rate myself honestly, I'd say a 6. Which is close to the ratings I've received. So, I don't think my interpretation of beauty or myself is skewed. When I say these women are stunning, I mean they have hourglass figures and low bmis. Cute to beautiful faces. Interpret that how you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:10 AM
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That is a real answer. Google the average male height and that's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:03 AM
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She was a Republican. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:31 AM
1

GigaChad. Oops... I mean GigaStacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:30 AM
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If you're speaking about me, you're way off base. If you're talking in general, then yeah, I guess. But either way... 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:26 AM
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Yes. That was one of them. But I used many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:22 AM
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Depends on the app. On one app, I can't get 3‐7+/week. On Tinder? 1-3/month. Some months, I get no matches at all. Other months I can go out with a new girl every weekday. From what I've gathered, I'm either a woman's "type" or I'm not. A girl could be an 8, and I'm her type. We'll match and hit it off. Another girl could be a 5, but consider me subhuman. It's not consistent at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:20 AM
1

Always have been 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:07 AM
0

A lot of assumptions, and all of them are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:13 AM
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What was the relationship like when they were making substantially more? Like any other relationship, nothing really changed. Do they pay for things? Yes. I do 50/50 with every girl I date. Did they ever look down on you for not earning the same amount? Yup. When we first started talking and she found out how much I made, she made some snide remarks about it. But I shut that down pretty fast and humbled her by ending it. Eventually, she came around and realized she was in the wrong. The relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:09 AM
1

That's being generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:58 AM
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I would've sent a picture if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:37 AM
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Average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:43 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:15 PM
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As if I care. People post anecdotal stuff all the time. Believe it or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:09 PM
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I suppose. I'm not hideous, but that's about it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:07 PM
0

Nah, I'm pretty vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:05 PM
2

Lies. You must be hot asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:04 PM
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If you’re regularly attracting 8’s You’re definitely at least an 8-9 I wish. I'm skinny fat with an average face, average job, and average height. Maybe I'm overestimating these women? But they are usually better paid and more attractive, so idk. I’m a 7 and couldn’t get an 8 if I tried. What do you consider an 8? Just to see if we're on the same page. I'm mostly talking about looks. Maybe you just have body dysmorphia Maybe. My ex did mention this once.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:02 PM
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Have you dated a person that you were not physically attracted to a lot and had that attraction grow over more dates? Yes, and it turned out to be the best relationship in my life. Look... I give women a lot of shit for doing this, but I kinda understand now. Would I want to date a woman who didn't find me attractive initially? No. But I understand what women mean when they say their attraction grew for their average/beta boyfriends over time. Because initially, I wasn't that attracted to my ex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:25 PM
1

If only you knew 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:11 PM
3

Honestly, I think they're too nice / lenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:04 PM
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What if I'm a 5, but the market keeps giving me 8s? Am I still a 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:01 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:57 PM
0

Incorrect. I think I'm a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:56 PM
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I've posted pictures on rating subs and photofeeler. I always get 5. On a good day, I'm a 6. So I'm pretty average. Despite this, I've managed to date women who made twice my salary, were stunningly beautiful, and all around had more status/value than me. I'm just a chill, fun, dude. Women seem to like that. I can hold a good conversation and drop quality dick. So despite my remarkably average looks, I do ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:55 PM
1

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:45 PM
0

Every single woman with a rape fantasy is sick? Yes. They are degenerate perverts who should seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:43 PM
1

Nothing will convince me to date another hoe. I'm all for women being sexually liberated. But I do not want a partner with significant mileage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:41 PM
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Disagree. I'm a solid 5 and I pull out of my league due to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:33 PM
0

I agree and disagree. Having a partner did make me happy. But it also made me realize a relationship would not fix me or my problems. So, in the short term, it made me incredibly happy. In the long term? Nothing changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:28 PM
0

It's pretty sick actually. Not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:07 PM
8

Excellent post. This has been my experience as well. Women with sexual trauma were waay more likely to have these types of kinks. Look... I'm all in favor of kinky sex, but as a man, it felt weird dealing with women like this. It felt like I was an outlet for their trauma. Should we be having sex or should you be in therapy? Idk. It was just difficult to get in the right head space to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:58 PM
-1

Fr!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:40 PM
0

There’s a common trope on PPD and elsewhere that it’s young men who are introducing sexual violence fetishes into their relationships because of what they see in porn, but it’s clearly the other way around. It’s not men who are reading 50 Shades and watching 365 Days. THIS! THIS! THIS! Women love to bitch about men consuming porn. But every woman I've been with desired some weird rape, dom/sub, pet, bdsm, cnc type shit. These women have brain rot because wtf is this, and why is it so common? I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:39 PM
0

Not surprising considering how many women I've dated with rape, cnc, and bdsm kinks. My only reactions is: wtf is wrong with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:31 PM
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This kind of happened to me, and I said no. Now that I'm older, I'm more open to it. IF the couple is cool and not toxic, I'd be down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:11 AM
2

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:09 AM
1

Completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:08 AM
1

It does not go both ways. Women are not expected to be providers. They expect to be provided for. Sure, there are women who are the breadwinners for their household, and I applaud them, I know many single mothers. However, my point still stands. Men have the societal expectation and pressure of being breadwinner. For this role they receive nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:06 AM
1

🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:01 AM
1

Oh, my bad. I didn't see the kids part. But I still think that's excessive depending on how many kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:07 AM
1

If you're being ghosted, it's because you're a shit person. Most women will not turn down a tall white guy. By all accounts, you are the most in demand type of guy. So if you're having trouble, it's not your looks. It's your personality. Which proves my point once again. Personality is just as important. I've never been ghosted, and I never get sexual with women. They always offer to get dirty after the first date or shortly after. You guys are investing all of your skill points in looks and sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:03 AM
1

No. You just repeated what I said like a child, without adding anything important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:40 AM
1

Because it's true and my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:34 AM
1

Yeah, I think that's on the upper end of 300k. I'm looking at listings near me, and you can get something for 2k a month, give or take. Or maybe I'm being overly cheap. But saving an extra 300-500 a month would be amazing for me. Also, people tend to buy family homes together, not as a bachelor. So yeah, my circumstances are a bit unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:33 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:04 AM
1

Nah, unless you're living in NY or Cali, it doesn't require anywhere near that nuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:02 AM
2

2500 is absolutely insane. You can find a good home for a better price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:59 PM
2

You must have an assload of debt or you're shit at a managing money because I make a little more than half that in a major city and I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:47 PM
1

Yes. I don't like having my time wasted. So it's on my Tinder profile, and I tell them immediately. "I'm not looking for anything serious. If that's cool with you, I'd love to continue getting to know you. If not, I totally understand." Something along those lines. Women usually say it's fine, they're not interested, or we can be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:30 PM
1

I think yall are just salty and mad because you get no pussy and want to blame it on looks and women. Sorry champ, you're just a shit person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:20 PM
9

They never say the quiet part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:54 PM
3

I think women are sincerely trying to help with advice like this, but they have no clue what its like to be a man. So this advice is akin to telling a turtle to just fly. Which is why, as a man, you should only be taking advice from other successful men. Because they understand the male experience and can offer the best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:50 PM
1

Why even type all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:44 PM
7

Yes. You hit the nail on the head. All Women Are Like That. They all like the same table with slight variations in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:08 PM
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Or... you're lying to aid your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:06 PM
0

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE! My best friend is the breadwinner for his family of 4, and he gets nothing for it. His wife stays home all day and plays video games. She doesn't cook, clean, take care of the children, or walk the dogs. Obviously, not all women are this bad, but none of them are worth taking care of. Women truly believe they should live a life of comfort and zero responsibility because they have a vagina. That is a woman's default state. They think men exist to slave for them. How is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:58 PM
1

Because the new generation of RP guys are such defeatist pussies. They cry themselves to sleep and think it's game over if they aren't a 6ft tall, millionaire, celebrity. Yall can think that if you want, but there is plenty of pussy and fun to be had, and I don't intend to talk myself out of a good time. Have fun moping, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:28 PM
1

This is why I no longer follow TRP. It has become black pill now. The quality and community has degraded incredibly. You don't have to believe me, it is what it is. Looks aren't the end all be all. Looks only get you in the door. If you suck after getting in the door, she will drop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:19 AM
2

Nah, I've had myself rated numerous times on subreddits and other 'rate me' sites. I always get a 5. I am objectively average. Trust me, no one has ever accused me of being attractive. I'm not hideous. I'm just OK. You're right, they can't tell I have a nice personality through my photos. But with OK-ish looks, women are willing to give me a chance with a good bio and photos. Once we match, the conversation is what really sells them. From there, every woman I've taken out has told me I plan amaz…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:02 AM
3

I partially agree, but the problem is... SMV vs. RMV. Your league is who will commit to you. Being used as a hole or side chick by a very attractive and well to do man doesn't put you in his league. Women have high SMV but low RMV, which leads to them being pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:28 AM
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If you're watching Matt Walsh, that explains why women aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:12 AM
1

29
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:05 AM
-1

I fit all of your criteria, and I do ok on dating apps. As far as I can tell, it's because of my personality. I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm fun, a good listener, and not toxic. Which women seem to love. I have no problem attracting women who are 8s and 9s. What am I looking for? At this time in my life? A fwb is ideal. Not open to marriage or anything serious. I've met women from Tinder that I seriously considered marrying, but I'm too young and have goals to accomplish first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:28 AM
2

False. I'm a 5 and slay. And this isn't my rating. I've posted my face on rating sites, and I'm universally average. On a good day, I'm a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:22 AM
42

Yeah, this is my experience as well at 29. I'm attracting more and better quality women. However, I'm over dating and women. I no longer have that young, idealistic view of relationships. This leads me to be much more cutthroat when choosing. If I catch a whiff of a red flag, I'm gone. I have zero tolerance for the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:13 PM
1

No shit captain obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:03 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:51 PM
30

I have a similar story as OP. Chad smashes every girl in the vicinity. This is why I don't buy the BS women sell about their attraction not working like men's. It absolutely does. But you have to be a top 10% man in terms of looks. In other words, women don't find most men attractive. Don't let women gaslight you about their sexuality. They absolutely experience lust. Women CAN BECOME attracted to average guys, and most do. However, this is in a passive sense. Women actively lusting after and fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:31 PM
1

Women shouldn't be here at all. RP is for men. Why do women feel compelled to ruin every male space?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:47 AM
3

You guys aren't going to convince anyone when rp offers tangible results, and the best you can do is: just be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:39 AM
8

They don't want to get over the RP rage stage. This is really what it is. They'd rather bitch and moan instead of putting in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:20 AM
9

It's dying because every idiot knows about it and thinks they're an expert without doing any of the work or internalizing any of the core tenets. In short, it's been diluted into trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:18 AM
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Agreed. I'm glad I got into RP during the early days when the content was good. I never watched any of these "RP Influencers" because the first rule of RP in the old days was not to talk about fight club. Anyone with a YouTube channel talking about this violated the first rule and can't be taken seriously. Now look at it: circle jerks, trash content, and women have infested the place. It's all bad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:15 AM
1

Depends on how dumb and how much it negatively affects the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:32 PM
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Yeah, that happens, but it's not related to emotional labor. When Chad fuck-zones them, they become crazy. So, in that scenario, the woman would need emotional labor to deal with being Chad's play thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:27 AM
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Yes, it happens with women. But a lot of guys bottle up their emotions, are depressed, or have zero emotional intelligence. I think it's more common for women to say this because A LOT of men don't know how to manage their emotions. Men aren't socialized to be in touch with their emotions, which leads to them trauma dumping on their partner or doing any number of toxic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:24 AM
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Emotional labor is real. Of course, you want to comfort your partner, but everyone has their limit. I've had healthy and unhealthy relationships. The thing is, a well-adjusted person doesn't require much emotional support. I've dated traumatized women, and they need constant daily attention. It. Is. Exhausting. I do not fault OP. I've been there. After a certain point, these people become energy vampires. My advice is to know yourself and know your partner. How much emotional labor can you toler…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:20 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:45 AM
1

Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:10 AM
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I don't take women seriously unless they have a positive relationship with their dad. There are so many women with daddy issues out here, and they are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:54 AM
0

They don't care until it negatively affects them. They are fine dating a man with a shotty moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:41 AM
1

Where can I find these mythical cougars?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:15 PM
1

Who tf cares about those idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:02 AM
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Not a good time for a relationship. I have bigger problems and fish to fry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:26 PM
2

29 23-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:19 PM
2

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:59 AM
1

It's more like anybody. Obviously, you want the person you like to like you back. If they're interested in someone else, it indicates they're not interested in you. I've definitely missed out on a date because of this. I took it as her saying: I have plenty of guys to choose from that are competing for my attention. When in actuality, she meant: I have so many guys chasing me, that must mean I'm good girlfriend material, doesn't that make you want me more? It did not, in fact, make me want her m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:55 AM
5

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:24 PM
2

Actually, it's pretty easy to find the probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:58 PM
4

Why have standards if you want to be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:56 PM
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It be like that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:48 PM
9

If your standards result in you never finding someone, maybe they can become more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:47 PM
11

96% of women would never date a man shorter than them. Does that sound like a lot of variance, or insanely, astonishingly uniform preferences? AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:42 PM
1

Some of us enjoy the sport of it and the entertainment value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:34 PM
1

A & B are average. C is below.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:17 PM
2

Are there really guys like this in 2023? I thought everyone was having kinky bdsm sex. Who cares about toys nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:16 PM
1

Immigrants will not stop the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:18 AM
7

You can accomplish the same goal with more parties. The 2 party system stifles progress to maintain the status quo that most people hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:51 AM
4

Yeah, it's more prevalent than people think. I made the mistake of thinking it never happened unless you're an old, rich, white guy. Turns out the opposite is true. Personally, I don't understand the appeal, but whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:44 AM
8

Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:43 AM
1

Nah. Nothing needs to change. Empires come and go. If society is so bad, it disincentives people from having children, it deserves to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:28 AM
-5

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:10 AM
1

No one is having kids with these birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:26 PM
1

Sure did 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:25 PM
1

I think there's some truth to what you are saying, but it's not as widespread as you think. Men are going to the gym because looks are important, and it's a great way to improve yourself. Those niches still exist, it's just harder to enter because everyone is online now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:17 PM
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I don't think the goal is to make your partner feel insecure or jealous. It's more like having a cool toy and not wanting to share it. Territorial? Maybe. It's the realization of: Oh, my bf is attractive, and other women want him. Dread should illicit mate guarding in women. For example, I used to plan elaborate and fun dates for my gf. Her friend was dating a guy with no job or will to leave the house. She got fed up and left him to 3rd wheel on one of our dates. After that, she was hooked. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:07 PM
2

That's not what you said tho. I dated a woman who made 3 times my salary. She was terrible at managing money and always in debt. I dated a woman who made significantly less but owned a home and was frugal. Which do you think is more mature? You sound like the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:52 PM
0

Society will crumble, and the remnants will be anti-religious and anti-conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:41 PM
2

Money has nothing to do with maturity. But managing it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:38 PM
1

My anecdotal experience is that dread works. The problem is how it's utilized. I'm in favor of passive dread as opposed to TRPs active approach. TRP is right about shit test but incorrect about women using them. Most women don't shit test. The ones that do are a particular kind of woman, and they are better to avoid. Frame is one of those things where iykyk. If you don't... you'll never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:32 PM
11

Women cry about shaving and being hairless, but I love it. I love eating 😸 but too much hair ruins the experience. I shave and would prefer if she did as well. If she doesn't shave, oral is off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:18 PM
2

There was only one definition until women hijacked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:06 PM
2

Nah, this is the sexual free market. Nothing needs to change. Women should only be with guys they genuinely like. Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:04 PM
42

This guy is preaching. This is why TRP is so transformative. One of the best things I learned from TRP is that shame is a woman's greatest weapon. They shame men for everything. Once I understood this, it was like seeing behind the matrix. Women shame men into behavior they deem socially acceptable. You're a man-child if you're a bachelor, marry a reformed slut like a real man. Screw that. When a woman tries to shame me, I don't back down. Her opinion is irrelevant and idgaf. Maintain frame and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:13 PM
3

It's a debate sub, not a self-help sub. So yes. I'm using it as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:08 PM
3

It's not your physical features, as others have said. I'd definitely say you're more attractive than me, and I do fairly well on dating apps. So if it's not your looks, that narrows it down to 2 things. Your personality sucks or you're too shy. I was the latter, once I put myself out there and approached more women, my success rate sky rocketed. I'm assuming it's the same case for you. In such a scenario, you simply need to fish more. Explore every avenue you can to meet women and you will get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:04 PM
2

I have no incentive to help random women. My female friends had terrible dating experiences. I wanted to help them find a good partner because they deserved it. Plus, by not knowing... it allows me to identify women with a history of picking terribly and avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:50 PM
1

Most? Nah. But I've met a few that did like em that old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:41 PM
2

A HVM has the MOST opportunities out of anyone to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:17 AM
2

There is, but why would we reveal that? I've only told my close girl friends secrets like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:29 AM
2

Everyone is going to say: don't have sex until X time. But that is only a stopgap. A better solution is learning to identify green & red flag character traits. This way, you can properly vet, and discard the men with bad intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:20 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:08 PM
1

I'm probably one of the few guys here that would prefer to wait 2 months or so. But I'm looking for a fwb, not a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:12 PM
1

Exactly. Younger women can be pretty damn predatory. One of my high school teachers had to leave because underage girls threw themselves at him. They would openly discuss in the middle of his class wanting to blow him. It's always assumed that the man is the nefarious actor, but in my experience, women know what they are doing and enjoy the taboo aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:31 AM
10

Narrator: Because women are not, in fact, strong and independent. They prefer being dependent on their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:19 AM
1

You are 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:35 PM
2

If these men have no intention of getting involved with said women, who cares. They can believe and say whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:30 PM
-2

Just because you a hoe doesn't mean every girl is 🤣 my exes had the same morals and we got along great. But even if you were right, I'd be an eternal bachelor and spend my days ruining women's lives for amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:20 AM
0

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:55 AM
3

No u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:02 AM
-1

We do. If we don't have similar morals and values, it's not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:54 AM
0

Morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:10 AM
-2

So my question to the men who seek ‘traditional’ women is, are you a traditional man? What does traditional mean? I just want a woman who is not a hoe. But that's a challenge for modern women. Do you earn enough money to be the sole provider of your household, and pay for leisure activities for your wife and children? No. I don't want children or a stay at home wife. Are you able to provide your wife and children security and safety from physical threats? Yes. Are you fit enough to take on more …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:02 AM
3

The fact that SO MANY women are here and know about Red Pill shows that it works. The women here have admitted so in several posts. Just because these "Red Pill Guru's" are hateful idiots doesn't mean you need to be. Take the good information, utilize it, and throw away the bad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:16 PM
1

Name checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:49 AM
3

This is the perfect way to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:18 AM
14

So you must be the Chad Thundercock guy I keep hearing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:17 AM
1

I'm in my 20s. All of the women I've met from tinder were 25 and under, and all of them admitted to fucking men significantly older (30+). My female friends have all hooked up with older guys. When I talk to random women on the internet, they all say they prefer older men to various degrees. I could go on and on and on. This isn't an isolated incident. This is an indisputable fact, women like older men and when presented with the opportunity they will happily fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:58 AM
2

They don't have a problem with community dick if it's the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:49 AM
1

Lol, no need to be salty. No, it's the case because women do exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:28 AM
1

Nope. Just because that's the average age gap doesn't mean women wouldn't or haven't dated outside that range. If those same women are dating and fucking older men when they are single, it's irrelevant, and that's often the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:56 AM
2

Traditional women want their cheeks clapped too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:46 AM
1

Idk who Rian Stone is, nor do I care. I can't speak for other red pill men, but in my experience, all of my exes have enjoyed our time together. So... a good boyfriend, at least. Good sex, companionship, and no strings attached fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:44 AM
3

It's simultaneously incredibly important and irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:36 AM
4

Nah, most women I've met are fine with 5-10 year gaps. The ones that strictly like older men have dated with 10+ year gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:34 AM
3

Never met a woman who preferred younger men, but there's an infinite supply who want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:25 AM
0

You always hear these exact same non-arguments word for word from people who've never read a piece of theory in their life. MuH hUmAN naTuRE. This is why I don't argue about leftist theory because 99% of people don't actually know what the words mean. Or they just regurgitate untrue talking points without doing an ounce of critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:46 AM
0

Not my fault you've never read a book 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:15 PM
-1

You're so deep in the propaganda that you don't know fact from fiction. I suggest you go read some anti-capitalist literature or watch prominent figures like Richard Wolf explain what it actually is and isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:41 PM
0

Nope. You can have a planned capitalist economy and an unplanned socialist one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:37 PM
1

If you say so, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:25 PM
1

Guillotine all the capitalist and government officials.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:50 AM
1

Do you know what that word means? They were never communist. China had a strong communist party, yes, but it was ultimately overthrown by capitalist. Now, every idiot thinks China is socialist or communist because they put it in the name without doing anything that's actually socialist or communist. I could call myself LeBron James, but that won't magically transform me into a 6'9" basketball player.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:41 AM
1

This is sarcasm, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:40 AM
0

Pretty much all ideologies need someone to demonize. Not really. Only the ones built on hate and sand. And sometimes there really is an external enemy. Just not the ones they pit us against.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:36 AM
9

China is state-capitalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:31 AM
2

I shouldn't have laughed, but I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:29 AM
2

Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:28 AM
7

I got some bad news for you, bud. Fascist require an out-group to demonize. Once they are done attacking trans people, do you think they'll stop? Nope. The goal post will shift to: all gay people are the problem. Non-religious people are the problem. Non-whites are the problem. And so on...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:26 AM
6

I doubt it. I think you'll always need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:01 AM
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Karl Marx warned us, and he was 100% correct. When you commodify human relations, it will always end badly. We are witnessing birth rates plummet across the globe. As well as relationships crumble, and violence accelerate. How is it possible that across so many cultures and countries, the same social deterioration is occurring? Capitalism. It's destroying us and the planet. We have no sense of community outside of work, so groups like RP and MGTOW crop up. An atomized society is also more violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:02 AM
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So you mean to tell me, out of 111,000 men, she couldn't find one that lives close to her? Ma'am... respectfully, please stop. You aren't going to change my mind, and your assumptions don't align with reality. It's okay. We all know women only desire the top tier of men. It is what it is. I simply wish more women were honest about it. They are willing to dumpster dive for relationships, but only the most attractive men turn them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:53 PM
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Ah yes... all important things people base a relationship on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:16 PM
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It's Tinder. You can only judge based on looks. There are no "additional criteria."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:46 PM
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No, she won't. Women don't find most men attractive, and her swipes prove exactly that. Less than 1% were attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:48 PM
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You should take that up with someone who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:26 AM
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Do you mind Yes. Your moral framework is not the same as mine. This is something you'll have to decide for yourself. Is it possible to "play the field" while keeping my virginity intact? Yes. You just mean going on dates with different women right? Yes. You gave me optimism by stating this so directly. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:25 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:09 PM
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Yeah, yeah, insecurity, blah, blah, blah. No one cares or believes that anymore. But as long as you're happy, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:03 PM
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You learn to vet for good qualities and red flags. Improve yourself. And play the field. Eventually, you'll find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:00 PM
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Incorrect. I have sex with hoes, but I'm not a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:54 PM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:39 PM
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Women will say anything to justify them being a hoe 🥱 I'm speaking from experience, so idc either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:37 PM
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When does it stop being a small subset of women? When 1 million women do it? 5 million? 10 million? The median number of sexual partners for a woman in a lifetime is 4.3. No one cares when the women they are dating and encountering have body counts in the stratosphere. And that seems to be the case for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:33 PM
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Well, get off Tinder. Problem solved. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:30 PM
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I don't see the word woman in that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:29 PM
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This is unrealistic for most women’s temperament. I don't care if you use a gun or a toothpick. The point is: protect yourself. Saying “no” most of the time to most people is disagreeable, by definition. Don't say no most of the time. Only when a boundary is crossed. This ain't rocket science. Don’t care if you think it’s actually secretly submissive: if she told you no a dozen times when you kept pressuring her, you wouldn’t call her super submissive or claim she gave you “unfettered access to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:25 PM
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Because women want Chad. They want their cake and to eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:03 PM
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Incorrect. The only thing that makes a woman perform better is genuine desire. The more attractive she finds you, the better she will perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:02 PM
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30% of woman can't because they are too ugly. Trust me. Looks don't stop them. In a lot of cases, it makes it worse because they feel like they have to overcompensate and sleep with more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:58 PM
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You didn't have to destroy him like that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:54 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:47 PM
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Precisely. This this this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah, I'm not one of those guys. I have friends and exes who were sexually assaulted. So I'm all in favor of a woman putting a bullet through a guy's head if he crosses a boundary. That's bs because my ex was like that and incredibly submissive. Once a woman knows she can trust you, she gives unfettered access to her body. Having boundaries does not make you disagreeable, it makes men respect you. If maintaining boundaries that keep you safe cause him to leave, good, he was going to hurt you at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:44 PM
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No such thing. Not that it doesn't exist, but it doesn't apply in this instance. A significant number of women and men use OLD, so you can't use that cop out and say it's only Suzy and her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:29 PM
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Doesn't matter either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:26 PM
1

When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:25 PM
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You do you ma'am. If you want the same outcome, continue to behave the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:24 PM
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Preach. Cuz I'd rather be an eternal bachelor than deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:45 AM
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I don't think you know what that word means 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:43 AM
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Literally never said that. Stay in school because reading obviously isn't your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:33 AM
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This is the unfortunate reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:04 AM
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No where did I say that. Miss me with that childish talk, little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:56 AM
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Women controlled entire craftsmen guilds as far away as in early Medieval period. One instance of women having a modicum of influence does not invalidate the experience of millions of women across the globe. There are women being killed and oppressed TODAY for not wearing a headscarf. Back in times and in specific locations Literally cherry picking a small instance to avoid the reality of the majority. Laughable. where women couldn't vote, most men couldn't either Regardless, it just proves my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:36 AM
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And nobody explains this to you but it’s really difficult to navigate dating and being used for sex. It's not. Women are just bad at vetting and establishing boundaries. It's REALLY easy to spot a manipulative man, and if you disagree, bring your date around your dad or guy friends. Which sucks, like really does but people lie and are so good at it, and are willing to do a lot of bullshit just to have sex. Hear me out... you could... not have sex with them. That'd weed them out pretty fast. OP c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:40 AM
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What do you mean never be a woman’s first good guy? Do you mean be a bad guy, or don’t date women who haven’t dated any good guys before? The latter. Am I the only one who didn’t talk about exes with the person I was dating? Yes. Lots of talk in this group about body counts too- also something I never discussed and now that I’m married, we still don’t. Neither of us cares or wants to know about each other’s sexual past. Good for you. Knowing how women get around today, I would instantly consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:30 AM
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I'm sorry but I don't believe this. Like... not even a little. Women are not "naive," stupid, or children. They know exactly what they're signing up for. I'm sure there are guys who hit it and quit it, I don't blame women for that. But if it happened 10... 20... 30... times? Nah, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:26 AM
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Read the sidebar rules if you're too lazy to read Blackstone's commentary. No thanks. Yes. To say that whenever men emerged, they instituted a system of power where women are "beaten, raped, and discarded" for "acting out of line", is to say that men are innately morally inferior. Which is a female supremacist notion. I literally never said that. You just assumed all of that and put words in my mouth. What I said was truthful, objective reality. Your denial of reality is not my problem. Britain …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:34 AM
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Before the pandemic, 50% of people met online. Now I imagine it's much higher. I don't think this is a subset of women. I'd love to be wrong, though. Either way, I assume every woman I meet had a hoe phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:28 AM
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This one, unfortunately. But I also live in a major city, so women here have unlimited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:19 AM
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This is a lie. Flat out. Having multiple partners does not make a woman better in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:59 AM
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If I had to guess... 60%+ I was NOT prepared for the type of women I encountered from online dating. It's easy to find women with 20+ bodies in their early 20s. I would say that's the norm because it wasn't hard to find women with 30 and 40+ bodies before 30. This is why I say women are full of shit when they complain about dating. They say they want relationships and not casual sex. But judging by their past, they are perfectly fine letting a small village worth of men use them for sex. If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:53 AM
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I don't think she's wrong or the men in the comments. This is something every guy needs to learn the hard way: never be a woman's first good guy. It never ends well. The guys in the comments are speaking from experience, although unfairly lashing out at OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:29 AM
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No. You're misunderstanding. They aren't mad, maybe jaded is a better word. This is a common occurrence nowadays, being a woman's "first good guy." I'll spare you the details, but it ends disastrously for every man. It's so common that I've seen Gen Z refer to it as: the start of a guy's "villain phase." Secondly, no, we don't expect women to right swipe on 111K guys. However, the less than 1% swipe rate shows, once again, that TRP is right and women only desire the top men. I'm not a black pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:23 AM
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I am not interested in female supremacist propagandist historical revisionism thank you very much. Lmao! In other words, you're completely ignorant of history. Female supremacist? I'm RP and hate feminist. You're just an idiot. Women are not "financially independent" right now as well; the people they voted for literally hold guns to employers to keep women in the workforce. Yeah, that's what happens when you live in a capitalist society, moron. It's not happening to only women. But compared to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:40 AM
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Except there never was equilibrium because women never had agency or power until now. Women couldn't vote, own land, get an education, be financially independent, etc. If they acted out of line, they would be beaten, raped, and discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:31 PM
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Nah. I've done it before, and it's not worth it. Red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:03 PM
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They'll put up with your shit when you're hot and toxic, not when you're ugly and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:41 PM
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I've done enough online ratings to know I'm solidly average. Yet dating is not a problem, I can easily pull out of my league. Which means being a 5 is not the end of the world. What I've noticed is that looks are not the problem for most men. It's their personality. Yall are toxic, insecure, abusive, and have zero emotional intelligence. Monk mode and self improvement is not exclusively for physical traits. You need to work on yourself internally as well. Whatever demons you have, deal with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:18 PM
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the ones who have it together That's the key. Many of them don't. Because being incredibly attractive is like having a superpower. Something something power corrupts absolutely. They don't call it pretty privilege for nothing. In my experience, these women fall into 2 categories: down to earth and batshit insane. There's almost never a middle ground. Just as their beauty lies on the extreme end of the spectrum, so does their personality. This type of pretty privilege encourages them to become em…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:04 PM
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I've dated stunning women, so trust me when I say: looks are not everything. I'll take a 6 I have chemistry with, over a 10 I feel nothing for. Every. Single. Time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:42 AM
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Being attractive is not enough for a man to put a ring on your finger. There are plenty of lonely simps who will do it regardless, but who cares. The fact that they are less attractive but more desirable PROVES this. If you lack the mentality to be a good mother/wife, being hot is useless. Hotness has diminishing returns. Being able to raise our daughter into a competent and kind human being is a thousand times more valuable than having a fat ass. I know guys who could only think with their dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:41 AM
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Why are they highly desired Because they have all of the qualities of a good partner. What do they get that other women don’t? Better treatment in general, instead of using her as a hole, like other women. Gifts, protection, acts of service, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:52 PM
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You're taking what a few guys said and assuming every guy works that way. Which is completely wrong. Men don't "settle" for wifey material women. They hoard them like a dragon with a pile of gold. These women are highly desired, which leads to multiple men vying for her attention. From my experience, these women are always in a committed relationship because men want to take them off the market as fast as possible. If you offer a man his dream girl, he will wife her up instantly. Unlike women, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:28 PM
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This is provably false because we have pictures from previous post and a lot of attractive guys are into RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:33 PM
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Talking and flirting are two different skills. Talking to women is what got them interested in me, but because I didn't know how to flirt, it led nowhere. Learning to add sexual tension without crossing boundaries or coming off as a creep is a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:08 PM
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She has different political views As long as she's not conservative, idc. She's emotionally immature It depends on how much. But this is generally a deal breaker. Drowning in debt and terrible with money I can manage the money. But being terrible with money is a deal breaker, so pass. Awful taste in music, fashion, food, in your opinion That's her problem, not mine. No sense of humor, boring personality, can't hold a conversation Deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:38 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:32 AM
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I followed TRP, but instead of becoming a man-whore, I accidentally found the perfect relationship. She was such an amazing girlfriend that she made me realize I was incredibly lacking as a man. Plus, the thought of getting married in my mid-20s was terrifying. So I broke up with her and went monk mode again. My goal is to self actualize and become a man deserving of such a girl. I've increased my salary by about 30K since then. But I'm aiming for a career instead of a job. Now that the pandemic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:16 AM
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Yeah, this is what it was for me. Women would show interest, but I was too shy or socially inept to make a move or understand. But thanks to TRP, I learned to escalate and understand IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:10 PM
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