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| 1 | Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism?What "all women want" is not necessarily what an individual woman wants, but having what most women want puts you in a better position to be able to get the kind of woman you do want. You then adjust your goals for the partner you're with, as you should. Once you're with a specific person, it ceases to just be about "what all women want" because you're not with "all women", you're with one woman. Or many different women individually, if that's your thing. You sound like you think I'm saying men … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Some glaringly obvious points about the Red PillCriticizing a philosophy or solution because it doesn't account for 2-5% of people isn't valid criticism if it was never designed for those people in the first place. Most philosophies make some assumptions because not setting up initial defining boundaries makes things exceedingly complicated. Redpill philosophy, with all its flaws, is clearly designed for heterosexual relationships. It doesn't take much mental effort to tweak the philosophy to suit your specific minority situation. Your first … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are modern men called weak?Re-reading over your comment I replied to, and the one above that, I missed a crucial point you made in error. They weren't saying "only tough love", they were saying "when need be." That's a huge difference. And yes, gentleness does come in many forms. Sometimes that form is not saying anything when you could. Your friend is having a bad day? Probably not a good time to point out any glaring personal flaws. But letting your friend continue to focus on negative things and not improve themselves … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism?Because women don't want men who can't control their emotions. They want men who can remain calm despite being emotional because in life-threatening situations (or even just difficult ones), you need to remain calm to get the best outcome. Have you ever seen a good outcome in a bad situation with two people who have emotional reactions to what's going on? Even if your last point were possible, it would be anecdotal. Which is relevant when we're talking about statistics. The majority of women los… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I've watched quite a lot of red pill and don't agree with what is said, but the girls body count topic messed me up.Sorry, been busy moving half-way across the country. You do exactly what I just said. Don't get into bed with men right away. Talk extensively over time before you sleep with them. Pay attention to how they speak, if they stay vague or go into detail, and watch that pattern over time. You've unfortunately been with men who repeatedly lied to you, so I'm sure you know what one sounds like. Oh, and if their actions don't line up with their words, they're lying to you or themselves. Good men won't … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Chances are "he motivated so many people to go to gym"is used to defend a YouTuberWhat would you have preferred I call it? My point was that the kids who were not the most athletically gifted (or practiced) didn't really enjoy gym. You tend to enjoy things you're good at, and dislike things you're bad at. Being fit was a taught policy the way interviewing is a taught policy. Everyone knows what the best results look like but no one teaches you how to get there. Maybe things have changed since I was in school, but trust me when I say that most 90s/00s kids were not excited abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Chances are "he motivated so many people to go to gym"is used to defend a YouTuberOh right, because everyone listens to their teachers in school. -_-;; Most people hated gym, except for the boys at the top of the athletic hierarchy and the ones who wanted to be physically active. Gym class also had nothing to do with building the habits required for physical fitness - it was checking off a box on getting kids active and allowing them to burn off steam. Getting bullied for your weight does not magically inspire you to change, no. Because changing like that takes hard work, wit… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Chances are "he motivated so many people to go to gym"is used to defend a YouTuberIt might also have been a more general stance towards RP YTers who are physically fit, but I assumed it was a dig at that particular one. I just naturally love to exercise, and not being able to for so long for medical reasons, while also dealing with more pressing matters, has made it hard to find even one day to force myself back into that habit. But I can totally understand how people can struggle with it, and why they'd need to hear that message from someone other than Goggins or Willink. He… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 05:52 AM |
| 1 | why do some men think birth control is a choice for women but they want to have sex with us without having children too?I wasn't downplaying it at all. You can help someone who's suicidal, you can't help someone who's dead. It's an uncomfortable point but it's an important one. An immoral experiment performed on unwilling and/or unknowing individuals is not an ethical trial and not what we're talking about. I don't even know why you brought that up. It's horrible that it happened, but it's not relevant to the point of when a trial should be stopped for moral and ethical reasons - because it was never being guided… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 05:44 AM |
| 0 | I've watched quite a lot of red pill and don't agree with what is said, but the girls body count topic messed me up.I never said I personally judge people with high body counts - what I did say is that if you're going to do it, it shouldn't be a double standard. The woman I love has slept with a double-digit number of people. I don't think less of her for it. And she doesn't say it was because she was lied to or that it was a decision outside of her control. Lies that are blatant are lies that are obvious. I'm guessing you meant being lied to and finding out after the fact? You "vet" people's honesty by havin… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 05:35 AM |
| 2 | why do some men think birth control is a choice for women but they want to have sex with us without having children too?Agreed. Wouldn't ask my partner to get it done either. Using the other methods isn't that horrible. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Some glaringly obvious points about the Red PillPoints 1-4 are irrelevant - most people are cisgender and heterosexual. Just because LGBT minorities are yelling at the top of their lungs does not mean they're the majority of people - they're 2-5% of the population. Point 5 - it's not antiquated in the slightest, and it's very much alive. The only reason alternative ways of relating and living exist so commonly now is because first world society has advanced far enough that we have that luxury. Point 6 - Marriage and children are most people's… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Why are modern men called weak?It's absolutely a bad thing. There's a reason you keep your military running even in peace-time. Because you're gong to need it when it's time for a war. Part of the reason men are starting their careers so late is the absolute deluge of options. And everyone thinking they can be a content creator, without understanding how truly difficult it is to monetize creativity successfully. The other part is being raised to think you can get above average results with average effort - and not understandi… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Why are modern men called weak?Because life as a man is tough. You're expected to not only be self-sufficient, but to be able to take care of other people. And you don't get that by having someone else do everything for you. Women don't want men they have to take care of constantly. Yes, you can go to a woman for gentleness from time to time, but they don't want to be your mother - always telling you how great you are and that it's going to be okay and you can do it, etc.. You have a mother for that. Men are tough on each oth… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | why do some men think birth control is a choice for women but they want to have sex with us without having children too?No. IUDs are non-hormonal BC. Women aren't allowed to get their tubes tied unless they've had a child or she's past a certain age, because it's irreversible. People change their mind about having kids all the time. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | why do some men think birth control is a choice for women but they want to have sex with us without having children too?Condoms break. Vasectomies are effectively permanent, because you're never sure if they can actually be undone. People change their mind on wanting kids. It's why women aren't allowed to get their tubes tied unless they've had a child or are past a certain age. Having the female be on the pill or an IUD or implant is another option that's far more reliable as long as they're used correctly. Feeling like a woman is obligated to be using BC on her end is stupid, but it's absolutely a viable option… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | why do some men think birth control is a choice for women but they want to have sex with us without having children too?The difference is men will actually carry out suicide/homicide in a manner far more likely to succeed. There's a difference between someone who's suicidal and someone who actually killed themselves. I'd want a female BC trial stopped if a woman killed herself, too. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with redpill againLife is suffering. It's a hard thing to accept, but there's a reason it's the first and central tenet of Buddhism and every other religion points it out at some point along the way. Don't expect you're always going to be happy. You won't, and that's normal. When you are sad, or feeling hopeless, write out why. Then write out what you can do to change that. And just like working out doesn't get you overnight results, understand that the changes you're making won't be overnight either. What's impo… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:19 AM |
| 0 | I've watched quite a lot of red pill and don't agree with what is said, but the girls body count topic messed me up.If you've slept with more than a few people, that's not victimization, that's a choice you made again and again. I'm all for looking negatively at a long list of sexual partners regardless of gender, if that's your view. And just like men can fail to properly vet a woman's character, the reverse can absolutely happen as well. And sometimes it just doesn't work out long-term. But people with even low double-digit body counts (forget 20+) are not trying to have meaningful long-term relationships. … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Chances are "he motivated so many people to go to gym"is used to defend a YouTuberSupercars, cigars, multiple women, and chess. I think that should help you figure it out. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Chances are "he motivated so many people to go to gym"is used to defend a YouTuberUh, no, most people don't tell guys to go to the gym. Why do you think so many of them are out of shape and overweight these days? Especially when you consider that the average American and UK fitness level is obese or overweight. Those aren't the kind of people who encourage others to go to the gym. And most people are lazy and don't want to put in work - to say nothing of how far Western society has come in being unable to delay gratification. Or how personality might play into being unwilling… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism?It's refreshing to see someone thinking critically about this. If you have a deluge of content saying "men are evil", "kill all men", "men are what's wrong with the world", etc. .....you're gong to get the stronger-minded individuals pushing back, and it's going to attract people to them. And then blanketing an entire movement without paying attention to nuanced differences is like saying "feminism" is bad because of the toxic examples. I don't understand why it surprises people. Well, I guess I… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Am I the only one who has noticed that Redpillers, MRAS, MGTOW Men, and Incest are super hypersensitive to any criticism?There's certainly value to be found in RP messages but you have to know what to take and what to leave. The best people in that space have a more holistic view than the bitter ones who think it's about only about money and sex. It's not, and people who only consume RP stuff are doing themselves a disservice. If it can inspire men to go to the gym, try hard things, and make more money, that's great. What I hope it doesn't inspire is for men to forget that they need to bring more than that to a re… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels diedYes, finally I've found this kind of comment after scrolling through this thread 11 months later. I found his content shortly before he died and I wish I'd known of him sooner. People so often forget that when people call into streams like this, they need to be kept on the topic that's being discussed. Which women (and men who think with a more open/lateral thought process, which is what it's really about) will more often do because of basic gender differences. And that they're the ones calling … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels diedIt absolutely can. A coworker of mine a decade back told me when he was in the Marines there was a guy in basic training who drank Monsters daily, more than one. Had a reputation for always drinking them. One morning during a group PT run he dropped dead of a heard attack. Caffeine increases your heart-rate, among other things, and energy drinks are loaded with it and other stimulants. It's putting additional constant strain on a muscle that will eventually give out if you live long enough or pu… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?It absolutely exists. Sadly, people will take advantage of it when they're immature. In a healthy, emotionally mature relationship, it's recognized for what it is, treated appropriately, and reflected back to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:53 PM |
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