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Need Support_BELEAF_/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 02:12 AM
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Situation is reversed. She is the money maker. And she makes avg 900k per year, the past ten years. She will be fine. But yes, she has undervalued the house before. We bought it for 400k back in 2007. We've put half a million into it over these 18 years. And just laid a new 68k driveway. It's beautiful and on 23 acres, connected to another 40 acres we bought over the other half country mile of river and forest, and farm field (which generates income). Bought for 120k back in 2011. Built a 50k ba…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 12:40 PM
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Ok thanks. She is the mean thing sayer. I am the mean word sayer after she starts shit. But going to totally focus on my calm.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/25 12:12 PM
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This is horrifying. I will watch the video.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 02:37 PM
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Hah. Hope you make it through ok.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 02:35 PM
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Geez. And man...that's an awful feeling to wonder about recording.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 02:34 PM
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Thanks for your take. She is at times cold. And controlling. And manipulative. When things are not as she wants them. It's gone on so long I don't even know what to make of it all, now that we are at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 01:33 AM
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Keep those two wheels down, my friend. =) Stay safe.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 01:30 AM
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Thanks man. Super happy for you. It's a huge deal.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 11:32 PM
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Facing divorce myself, and this is an option for me and my sport bike and trailer. Glad to hear you're out there soaking up the road. And thereby soaking up life. I am in a tough time at the moment. But this gives me a little hope beyond the ring.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 10:38 PM
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Wow. That is fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 10:30 PM
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Thank you for this. Understood. I don't think this is really where we're at. It was just alarming/hard to hear. She's always the one to begin shit. Arguments. Putdowns. Being controlling. Eveything is fine as long as everything is fine with her. And while I've thrown the odd thing over the last 20 years, or said some means words or slammed a door to just get my frustration out over something...I have never assaulted or threatened her. In fact, I've absorbed it a couple times before. And shoved h…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 09:54 PM
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Thanks for all of this. At least I knew what grey rocking meant. =) So appreciate all your time.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 08:47 PM
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Ok. Thanks for everything. Especially your last sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 02:12 PM
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Understood. Thanks so much for this.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 01:56 PM
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I mean we've had plenty of arguments. Voices raised. But she's always the one to start a fight. Which doesn't excuse how I act on my side. But it has at times gotten to the point where I am like, wtf? And I've thrown things in frustration a few times. Not at her. I think she means doesn't feel safe in a relationship sense. 'Not cared for', 'bearing the main load of working and responsibility', etc. I just don't know how it would land in a divorce process or court. I mean, she doesn't feel safe i…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 01:27 PM
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Ok. Yup. Arguments are off the table. Just trying to sort through things and talk about things in this difficult as hell time. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 01:19 PM
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Ok thank you. What is a DV claim?
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 01:17 PM
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