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This guy is a massive edgelord narcissist and he clearly only writes here to prop himself up as the most red-pilled, alpha of all. All his posts are thinly veiled attacks on the 'spergs' that make up this place. I don't even know what the point of this thread is.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 09:01 PM
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Uhh yeah, that's because those problems affect MEN on Tinder. This kinda catfishing affects WOMEN. If women get catfished and have a bad time they leave the platform, and if there are no hot women then the app dies. Thirsty men are gonna pay for whatever app whatever the bullshit as long as it has girls on it. Making sure women have a good time is their number one priority which is why they did that lame fucking male-shaming info campaign and the drink-throwing emojimation and all that shit. The…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:39 AM
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By the time you're swiping then all the right swipes that people have done on you will have already been deleted by Tinder. This is an old trick and they're super focused on shutting down exploits of this kind. When you overhaul your profile like that I'm almost sure they purge your match queue to prevent this kind of cat-fishing. They have a pretty sophisticated system set up to prevent gaming them. I can't be 100% but you shouldn't be counting your chickens just yet man. I'm pretty sure you're…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 10:34 PM
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This is old news, this strategy has been around for a long time. I'm almost certain that the people behind the matching algorithms on Tinder are aware of this trick by now and they will remove your old likes and place you at the bottom of the queue if you completely overhaul your profile like this. They're working around the clock to prevent you from gaming the system. You should have waited until your matches rolled in and confirmed, you jumped the gun here brah.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 09:24 PM
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Yeah, for sure. In my blue pill days I managed to fuck my oneitis, an easy 8 or 9, after a long time of being friends. I wasn't a bad looking dude but too beta to land other girls of this caliber, it was a fluke and a one time thing. My beta tendencies pushed her away after a while of dating, and I had to go back to 6 and 7's at best. Other women were ruined for years after that. Even if I was over her, I would still compare them to her. Can't settle with something worse than what I've gotten be…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:09 AM
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Lol no... If you don't lay the good pipe they'll find someone who does. Good genes get you in the door but if you wanna hang around you gotta learn to perform.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:04 AM
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Obviously the answer is both. Your argument rests on the assumption that we have to choose one of the two, while this is not typically the case. Obviously we're not gonna commit to either one, because bad girls are unstable and starfishes are just boring as hell. You want a cute shy girl who is a freak. That means that you can, and probably should, just fuck both.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 11:59 AM
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Men don't give a shit about Women being sluts This isn't really true. We don't shame them for it but we don't commit to them either. We like fucking them and throwing them away. We certainly pass judgement on them, because we treat them differently than the girls we perceive to be innocent. If nothing else simply because of the shame and social stigma that comes with dating a slut. Sluts have a purpose, but it's not the purpose that most women want to have. They want to be fucked but moreso they…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 11:57 AM
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IMO TRP is needlessly scared of mate-guarding. I think it's because they're scared of making it seem like they care about a woman. My girl wants to be mate-guarded to some extent. It shows that you care about her, and that you're not gonna put up with any disrespect. Of course you shouldn't need to watch her, it's more about showing her that you're not gonna take any shit or let anyone step to her. It's important that you don't let her think you're threatened though.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 08:58 PM
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I haven't read that garbage but my take on it is that he's the male unicorn. Highly successful, high status, can be presented to friends and family, rich, etc, but also violent, controlling, aggressive, dominant. Basically the desirable traits of alpha and beta, as you say. Plus, the wilder he is, the harder he is to tame, which makes the achievement greater when she tames him. Think back to the hero myth, this is like a man slaying a hydra, but the other way around. It's the pinnacle of female …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:13 AM
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Yeah, the ones that make it that far north aren't refugees, they're economical migrants looking for a free payday. Why else cross all of Europe...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:40 AM
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Where is this magical fairyland and will you take a Swede?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:45 AM
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An element of control and protectiveness is necessary. If your woman makes a point of hanging around a bunch of men she has no reason to hang around that's a shit test. Of course male friends are okay to some extent (although we all know what they're up to), but certain situations absolutely are not. Going out clubbing with a bunch of guys for example, if my girl wanted to do that I'd tell her no way. It's like a kid pushing his limits, seeing how much dad will let him get away with before he ge…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:28 PM
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Because despite all your social standing, money and influence, when two men are alone in a room together and one of them can rip the other's arms off, they both know nothing else matters in that moment. Physical power is, in some sense, absolute. It's why any girl will cheat on their CEO husband with a prize fighter. They're universally recognized as the ultimate top dogs. And if someone else has physical power over you, you don't have as much power over yourself as you think.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:42 PM
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Reckless and dangerous are two different things. Restraint is the mark of a truly dangerous man.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 01:37 PM
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It probably did, but how do you stick to your guns after being caught cheating? I know a lot of the guys here advocate it, but how do you spin it to wifey when she confronts you, what can one say?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 07:31 AM
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No, it's known as rationalization. It's a well documented psychological phenomenon and not something that TRP discovered. I mean yeah we call it hamstering but that's a pretty vague umbrella term for all irrational women-behavior on here.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:08 PM
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It's very simple really. One of two people are to blame. If it's the wife then he has made a mistake and married a whore, he has to leave her and burn his marriage to the ground. Very nasty, brutal blow to the ego and it uproots your entire life. You don't want this. But if it was the other guy's fault, the wife is a good little girl that was tricked into it by this asshole Chad... Then he can stay married and rationalize away that his wife is a cheating whore and carry on as usual. The least pa…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 01:48 PM
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Yeah, I wasn't thrilled... I genuinely don't think she had any ill intentions though, I just chalk it up to female stupidity. I got off clean, told her off and left it at that.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:39 AM
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https://pmc.gov.au/sites/default/files/publications/BETA-report-going-blind-to-see-more%20clearly.pdf We found that the public servants engaged in positive (not negative) discrimination towards female and minority candidates: From an article summarizing the report: The trial found assigning a male name to a candidate made them 3.2 per cent less likely to get a job interview. Adding a woman's name to a CV made the candidate 2.9 per cent more likely to get a foot in the door. "We should hit pause …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:24 AM
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Of course. No one is claiming it's genetic, it's cultural. "Asian" isn't an ethnicity.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 08:16 AM
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In trials where you made CV:s impersonal and hid the gender, women were LESS likely to be hired. It proves that not only is discrimination against women not real, but it's men that's being discriminated against. It also proves that men are inherently more hireable. So no, you are wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:12 AM
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I had a woman pull that shit on me, except she was hiding an uncurable STD and not a kid. I never could figure out how she thought she was gonna get away with it. I guess you're right, she didn't think at all, obviously. Great observation, I haven't made that connection before.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 07:07 AM
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Yeah, these are the girls who are the biggest sluts too. All their girlfriends are equally boring so they're 100% dependent on men or drama for excitement. Either they need a man to entertain/fuck them, or they'll stir up petty conflicts just to have something to occupy them. They're always trouble in my experience. Get a girl with some passions and you'll save a lot of frustration. Those are raaaare though.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 09:50 AM
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I touched on it with the sexual stuff. Basically women feel good when they are of service to a man. I'll give you some necessary background and then move on to examples. Read it all because the background is paramount. First I'll preface this by saying that this is my personal theory so take it with a grain of salt. Prepare for a wall of text, maybe I'll turn this into it's own post eventually, but in the meantime, enjoy buddy. If you think back to our evolutionary history, the things that made …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:39 PM
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It's really very simple, women are at their core incredibly fragile and weak. They know in their subconscious that they have little value on their own, because they're not really good for anything. They usually lack interests, skills, hobbies and any drive or ambition. Most of what they do is sip Starbucks and cheap box wine, of course you can't feel good about yourself with a character like that. Imagine how a NEET male feels. That's how all women feel, deep down beneath their bloated and artif…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:00 PM
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I'll give you a condensed take. For successful men, validation is internal. We set our goals and we feel fulfilled when we meet those goals. A degree, higher bench numbers, fuck X girls, get a raise, start your business, you get the picture. This is because no one tells us good job (except maybe our parents), but we're mostly on our own from the start. We evaluate and validate ourselves, and we don't care much about the opinion of others (if you do you are weak and woman-like). For women, valida…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:53 AM
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If that's true you should probably feel bad for me instead of chastising me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah, my girl won't stop complaining that I don't let her show me off on instagram. It's like having a boyfriend doesn't matter if you can't rub it in your friends' faces.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:23 AM
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Yeah tbh I thought this was gonna be buried at best. It might be a sign that TRP is becoming more mainstream. As it's becoming less of a fringe community it makes sense to see a kind of watering down of some of the more radical stances people take on here. If so, I think that's a good thing. Everyone needs TRP, and it's the best antidote for the scourge of feminism.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 09:16 AM
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That's a very interesting point. While I wouldn't say it's always necessary, I'm sure that it helps to see both extremes. That way you experience first hand how none of them are perfectly congruent with reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 09:54 PM
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Well, my girl is pretty sensible and she generally respects my opinion and tends to follow my lead, she often says as much. So for trivial things like this I can just speak my mind and say "this is how it is", and she knows I'm right on a rational level. Emotionally, perhaps not so much, you make a good point. You're probably right that I could frame my message in a way that's more digestible to her. I don't think punishing her with attention withdrawal or similar over something as trivial as ic…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 10:13 AM
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The meaning behind the acronym is obscure and if you ask 100 RP:ers you will get 100 different responses. The wording, however, is very clear and absolutist. This post isn't really about AWALT, that's just a natural example to use in this sub. But yeah, I agree and your interpretation is obviously similar to mine.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 10:08 AM
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Wow, that's really cool. Gonna look into that guy more closely. I think his name was never publicly revealed because it turned out to ruin his life completely. But there's a radio program about it where I believe they interview one of the doctors who treated him IIRC. Very interesting stuff but they don't go into depth about the neuroscience behind it unfortunately, if you're into that stuff. https://www.wnycstudios.org/story/91642-overcome-by-emotion/
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 08:45 AM
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This post is about binary thinking, not AWALT. Calm down there slugger
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 08:05 AM
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Listen captain Save-a-hoe, I think you're in the wrong sub. This is TRP and we don't do white knighting or moralizing here. Maybe you should fuck off back to safe-space reddit where you'll find some ideas more in line with your feminine sensibilities.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:40 AM
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Well look at the balls on this one. Not to rain on your parade but someone made that exact same comment already. Look, if she wants to have ice cream I'm not gonna pry it out of her hands. It's more like we're at the store, and she says can we get ice cream, and I say "no we're not eating that shit, it's not good for you", and she says "okay daddy you're right". Sometimes if the sun is out we'll have a popsicle, I'm not a goddamn tyrant. It's not about the ice cream, it's just the first example …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:20 AM
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Always getting the upper hand isn't worth much if you're miserable all the time because of the joys you sacrificed to get there. Pumping Iron is such a great movie, what a character he is.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:26 AM
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Not sure what you're referring to but I'm not advocating for a middle ground. You should be able to move up and down the scale as necessary when it suits your goals.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:20 AM
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Although you took it a lot further than I ever did, I recognize that combative mindset from how I used to be. It doesn't matter how well it works, because it's no way to live. Thanks for sharing, you don't often hear about people who come back from that place. There is a lot of anger and toxicity in TRP, but also a lot of good, insightful stuff. It's just not always framed in the most palatable manner. Like any community we have all sorts. I'm hoping we can make it into something a little health…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 10:29 PM
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It's interesting to think about whether we'll eventually evolve past our unconscious minds into something that's primarily conscious, analytical and rational, kind of like Spock from Star Trek. There's actually a very interesting story about a guy who lost the ability to make emotional decisions due to brain trauma. Eventually he stopped functioning, because he analyzed trivial things like "should I pick blue or black ink to sign this contract" for ever and couldn't get anything done. He'd get s…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:33 PM
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Wow, that was a weird one. The internet huh, what a ride man.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:30 PM
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Yeah I kind of glossed over the ghost part, I agree with that. I don't like burning bridges if I can avoid it, even if someone slighted me. Revenge is petty and doesn't really benefit me in any way. It's an emotional response, not a rational one. It's how women behave. I end all my relationships on good terms if I have the chance.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:22 PM
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Yeah, it's the safest response but it's kind of a chickenshit move in my opinion. You can't really go wrong because there's no risk involved, but of course there's also not much opportunity for reward. It's hard to form meaningful relationships if you drop everyone at the first sign of trouble. That's fair if you're not interested in one, but relationships with women can be very rewarding and fulfilling as long as you don't expect too much from them.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:15 PM
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It's a bit wordy for a t-shirt, don't you think?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:57 PM
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Look, if she wants to have ice cream I'm not gonna pry it out of her hands. It's more like we're at the store, and she says can we get ice cream, and I say "no we're not eating that shit, it's not good for you", and she says "okay daddy you're right". Sometimes if the sun is out we'll have a popsicle, I'm not a goddamn tyrant. It's not about the ice cream, it's just the first example that came to mind. I agree that my behavior is manipulative, but manipulation is not good nor evil. Manipulate me…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:03 PM
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Pick and choose what works for you. What you see to be true and fit within your own frame. And live accordingly Another thing I think we forget at times through this journey is HAVE FUCKING FUN. This is the key, really. My value structure leaves me more open to negative outcomes than a safer stance of assuming all women/people are evil, but it also gives me a higher possibility of a greater reward (more fulfilling and deeper relationships with others). It's not the only or perhaps even the best …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:57 PM
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Unconscious thought is faster, because it requires no deliberation, but sometimes less accurate. If a man is walking towards you with a smile and hands raised he is a friend, but if he is snarling and running he is a foe and you should strike before he does. The price for not acting in time is potentially being killed, while the price for acting in error is less severe. You can't have both speed and accuracy, generally, as with all things, one thing has to be sacrificed for the benefit of the ot…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:54 PM
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That's what I would like TRP to be too, but I find that's often not the case. But I see why people take such an absolutist stance here, they want to distance themselves from their former BP selves and make it easy for newcomers to digest. Unfortunately though, I think that this rhetoric sometimes turns away some of a more sensible and gentle disposition, who might benefit from TRP:s teachings. It's got a kind of almost radicalizing feedback effect.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:50 PM
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I know a weakness of mine is that I tend to take things too literally. Yeah, that's an even bigger issue with women since you should never listen to their words and always try to perceive the intent or emotion behind it. I used to do it too, but you learn. Being a bit more forgiving in your interpretation of the world is difficult and sometimes you get stuff wrong, but I think it's ultimately a happier path than the safer, more cynical one.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:46 PM
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Not that I can think of right off the bat, but there probably are. When I say beta, I mean beta as in a gentle protector and provider, not a submissive, feminine soyboy. I'm sure there are many people who are decisive and assertive while also having more caring qualities.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:37 PM
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You're in the wrong sub. Also, no, there are no ways of dealing with psychopathy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:33 PM
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That's a nice strawman you've got there. I can see how the idea of nuanced thinking seems foreign and scary to you
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:02 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it, I hope your day improves buddy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 03:55 PM
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I know what he's saying, I'm writing to a different audience than what he thinks. I also think he's underestimating the community. Look at the score, it's 90% upvoted with lots of comments in agreement. "Doing everyone a disservice" seems like a misjudgement.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:48 PM
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Men are becoming increasingly feminized, and testosterone levels are dropping. Women and feminists are encouraging men to adopt female sensibilities, and weak men are falling for it. Men are ruled by biology just like women. We can't fight our nature. Just as there are patterns among female behavior, so there are with men. Sometimes these patterns overlap, sometimes they do not. Really we humans are pretty simple and dumb creatures.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:46 PM
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No problem. All women are not like that, but you should not assume you can find one of the exceptions. Plan for the worst and don't be surprised if things go south. Then you won't be bitter either. Have fun and realize that most things end.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:37 PM
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Yes but the morals reign in the sexual desire. There's no point in fighting your urges if they aren't harmful. Otherwise, I agree.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:31 PM
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The gutter trash remark was clearly in jest to you referring to them/us as spergs and retards. You also don't know the first thing about what influences the way people think, we know it's neither all nature or nurture. That's what the whole thread is about, and ironically your every post just reeks of limited binary thinking. You're making a fool of yourself at this point so I'm just gonna call it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:12 PM
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Read the language in my post again. Do you think it's aimed at below 90 IQ retards? It's a friendly reminder to anyone who understands it, because even I tend to fall into binary thinking now and then. You've clearly got both feet firmly planted there despite apparently being far above the rest of the gutter trash here. By all means, stay there if you like, I don't give a shit. And did you really have to throw in a little "u mad" quip at the end there? That's below both our dignities. Why are yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 02:00 PM
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No, my post is about binary thinking. It's right there in the title. I agree there are a lot of spergs, but I'm not telling TRP to stop speaking in absolutes to spergs, I'm telling people, spergs or no, to stop thinking in absolutes because it's harmful. You can speak however you want as long as you don't try to tell me what I mean by my words or what I understand. And there you go again with the "must". I'm actually a fairly intelligent guy and I can determine for myself how I should speak to p…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:47 PM
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Oh she certainly does. But when she's with me she's stuffing her mouth with my dick and not ben & jerries, and we're both happy. This post is not about ice cream or controlling people.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:36 PM
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I agree 100% and I see why things are the way they are here. Still, I think injecting a little nuance here and there is helpful.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:35 PM
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I claimed that it can be the truth, not that it must. You fell victim to absolutist binary thinking, and comitted a logical fallacy of your own in failing to understand what I'm saying.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:33 PM
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I already conceded that strictly leading is preferable in romantic relationships so why are you still arguing the point? You're so dead set on proving me wrong, although you seem confused on what I'm actually saying, that you're just rambling on about inconsequential topics and coming off like a broken record. You're being needlessly confrontational while not really saying much of anything. My post is still not about leadership. I get that this is probably your favorite topic but at this point I…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:31 PM
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Truth is my number one pursuit, but you are hopelessly mistaken if you think it is attainable. Absolute universal objective truth is forever outside of your grasp. You can try to get as close as you can, but there are multiple ways there. You can't know which one gets you the closest, so I advocate to choose a road that gets you reasonably close while also not making you more miserable than necessary.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:09 PM
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Still not talking about leadership, the post is about metacognition and how to think. I also don't think there is evidence to support the fact that 100% leadership is optimal in organizations. In the military and romantic relationships maybe, but certainly not in creative intellectual pursuits. This is a bit of a tangent, but strict leadership hierarchies can lead to worse outcomes when it comes to more cerebral work than factory assembly and the like. I think you are oversimplyfying, ironically…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:06 PM
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I'm not speaking about leadership, but I do agree that leading/following is generally a binary relationship in any given moment. With that said, there's still a big difference between using terms like 50-50 and 1-1 or 0-1, because 50-50 implies the possibility of 25-75 and other blends that may be more optimal but are not possible in a binary representation. It's still more nuanced than saying you're either A or B, which is the point I want to get across without making any suggestions on what th…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 12:43 PM
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I agree with this and if we are choosing between extremes then red (black?) is certainly the lesser of evils. You have to learn the rules before you break them. But nuance is good too, and it's an area where I believe this sub sometimes comes up short.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:31 AM
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I disagree. It's not obvious that "life is miserable and people are shitty" is always the correct interpretation. It certainly is sometimes, but not always. I think you can be realistic, clear and lucid about things without being cynical. Your view on the world has an impact on your happiness, and if being happier comes with a slight risk of being wrong or look like a fool sometimes then I'll take that risk. I see what you're saying but I don't think always assuming the worst is the optimal appr…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:29 AM
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Not sure what kinda people you're hanging around but I'd bet my left nut that the average dude beds 0-1 in 6 months. Do you have any idea how many guys there are out there who aren't getting laid at all, especially if they're single?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 08:32 AM
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No, because porn does not constitute a massive betrayal of trust, risk bringing STDs into the relationship, it's not infidelity, and it does not get you pregnant or any other nunber of complications that arise from cheating. It's really not the same, because there's usually not a strong reason for men to lay off porn unless they have a debilitating addiction.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:25 AM
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Focusing on you is good advice but remember, picking up chicks is a skill like any other. Yes if you work on yourself it helps, but they won't fall into your lap unless you reach total alpha status. You need to hone your skills and practice it. Practice talking to chicks, innocent flirting etc. Don't expect it to go anywhere, but just get used to it any chance you get. Make small talk, get comfortable. That doesn't need to be "concerning yourself" with them. Having basic social skills with women…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:52 AM
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Listen, this is TRP. We speak in broad generalizations about women as a category and how they generally tend to function. Don't be an autist and try to interpret everything literally, of course the stuff you read here isn't 100% applicable to every woman in every situation. Of course some specimen are capable of rational thought, but as a general heuristic for how their minds operate it's pretty accurate. Most of the time they are not operating based on logic, but on emotion. I'll admit it was c…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:37 PM
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Absolutely. If there's nothing at stake and I don't mind wasting my time and energy for whatever reason, like in a relaxed social setting, then I'll have a bit of fun with it too. It's the best when they realize you're not getting sucked into their shit and their entire reality starts to crack and they begin to question everything. Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 10:34 AM
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Yeah sometimes you can definitely sway them but usually it's not worth the effort to me. Either they will get upset, with you or themselves, ignore it or go into full hamster mode. Only rarely is it a positive experience imo, but I agree it feels great when it happens. I'd rather just skip the hassle and change subject, distract her or sometimes manipulate her into feeling bad and dropping it herself. My favorite is introducing some dread, get her working to win back your approval and then hatef…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:53 AM
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The key to this, and it took me a while to figure out, is to not take anything they say at face value, basically ignore every word out of her mouth and look at non-verbal communication instead. Figure out how she is feeling. Is she angry or sad? Why doesn't really matter because women's emotional state is constantly in flux and the tiniest thing can set her off. Just address the emotion while ignoring the incident that set it off, which is what she's probably gonna be yapping about because she d…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:34 AM
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Don't even try to make sense of it. The truth is that whatever we do it doesn't matter. If we make her pussy wet we're good and if we don't then we're evil monsters. Never ever pay attention to what women say because they're not consistent in their beliefs and they are incapable of logical reasoning. It's all emotion. The fault of this man was that he made this cunt feel bad about herself. From that point on they will swarm together and say whatever they need to justify her behavior and vilify h…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:26 AM
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Yeah, that's more of a fault with men than with women though. Still, even in such a mixed group the men are usually more productive anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:31 AM
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For me frame is the robustness of your worldview. The best example is when a girl is making a fuss or starting a fight over nothing. In her world there is a problem but in yours there is not. So what you do is you ignore her perceived problem and address the emotion behind it. Let's say she is giving you shit for not paying her attention, saying you respond to slowly or something. Frame is not acknowledging her interpretation of reality over yours. So you simply ignore it and act like she's craz…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:22 AM
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They're already apparent, look at the productivity differences in academia for example. People don't notice because they don't want to notice. Common folk know which is why most women will tell you they don't like working with other women.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:15 AM
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It's not about wit, it's just about ignoring her shit test. You can do it without coming off as a clown too (not saying OP does), as long as you don't start defending/justifying yourself. Obviously comedy is powerful though because it's disarming and signals clearly that you're not fazed.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 06:35 AM
0

You are correct but there are also men, BP or otherwise, who respond emotionally as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:27 PM
1

Feminists have higher testosterone than normal women. There are clear morphological differences, feminists are often overweight, unattractive, hairy, less feminine etc. Not all women are affected by the cancerous feminism, there is a chance there is a biological predisposition towards this ailment. So it might not be entirely cultural.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 07:12 AM
1

feelings of inferiority not appeased with illusions may lead to violent social breakdown (think past "revolutions") Oh man, the whole picture finally just clicked for me. I could never figure out why the whole system was behind this insanity, but it makes so much sense. Thanks for the insight, I'll check out that link you sent me too.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 09:06 AM
1

We've been an extremely homogenous group until recently. We're all the same racially and ethnically with similar values, which means crime has been low and life has been simple and safe. This has led to an extremely naive view of the world where we think everyone can be friends and get along. This has led to the idea that we should act like some kind of beacon of justice for the world and show everyone the way. It's fueled by guilt because we have it better than everyone else and by us being hum…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 08:00 AM
1

Can confirm, leftist/feminist propaganda is rampant throughout the educational system as well as national public media here. Our country is so heavily left biased that being for immigration restriction is enough to be painted as far/alt right, even if you support public welfare and the like. We're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:55 AM
1

Your message is idiotic, I did critique it saying that you don't know what dirty talk is (since you're presumably a virgin). You can't go around calling people beta rapists and then get your panties in a bunch when they fire back. So much for your talk about "being a decent human being". Either practice what you preach or shut up and get out. Not only are you a little bitch but you're also a massive hypocrite.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 09:10 PM
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I guess you've never heard of dirty talking... Asking if a girl wants to be fucked isn't being an asshole, it's giving her what she wants. If you think dirty talking is being a rapist then I feel bad for the "dozens of women" you've had sex with, they must've been bored out of their fuckign skulls.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:19 PM
1

You've gotta be fucking kidding me
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 06:44 PM
1

That's exactly what my post said, and it was about making it not awkward. Did you even read?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 09:54 AM
1

This is not a hyper literal approach, it's an example. Again, obviously. And of course you proceed on implied consent. You can do whatever you want, but if you want to get explicit consent this is one way to do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:12 AM
1

Yeah, that's a good one too. I guess it's a bit of what you'd call a leading question though, if you've gotta take it to court. But it never hurts to mix things up!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:39 PM
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It's only misogynistic if you think women and men should be the same. I don't mean equal in terms of value, I mean equal in our roles and capabilities. Men are better at some things, women at others. I don't think it's misogynistic for me to want to protect my women. It's well known that men and women tend to respond to stress in different ways, and that they are not capable of dealing with physical threats. And besides it's not about that. Sure women are probably capable of dealing with lots of…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:48 AM
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You want to, but you shouldn't in my opinion. A male female relationship can be modeled after father/daughter, or mother/son love. Parental relationships are the models we learn for love as children, and from our instincts. The father/man is the protector. He is the one who makes her feel safe, makes the bad things go away, takes care of her problems, and makes her feel good about herself. This is why daddy issues makes a woman incapable of having a relationship, she has no positive model for ma…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:53 AM
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Not sure if you're referring to my handle or my post or both, but yeah I agree. Men are visual/physical and women are more about mental stimulation. They get off on emotions and fantasies, which is why erotic literature is so big for women. That's why you keep them in the dark and don't reveal too much, their fantasy is usually more exciting than the real thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:10 PM
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She might leave you because she gets feels for another guy or because she's an idiot or whatever, but it's definitely possible to avoid the reasons you said. And some people really do have happy marriages. You're still in the anger phase, you'll get over it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 10:34 PM
1

Maybe I wasn't clear enough. Crying over the loss of a parent isn't a problem I'd say. Weakness is only a problem when it manifests as an inability to cope with reality. Crying over a dead parent = natural. Quitting your job and stop taking care of yourself because you're crippled by grief = weakness. You can admit something is troubling you, but you can NEVER show that you don't know what to do about it. Always have a plan. As a man, you are the protector in the relationship, and the woman is t…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:38 PM
1

It's just an example. You can't avoid all trouble. Somethis shit happens that fazes you. It's okay to admit you're in trouble but it's not okay to admit you don't know how to deal with it, maybe I should have been clearer on that.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:33 PM
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You mean get into a bad situation? Yeah of course you should avoid it if you can. But sometimes it happens. As a man your job is to suck it up and deal with it on your own. Dealing with your own shit is not being an alpha douche... It's okay to admit you're stressed. It's not okay to admit you're not sure if you can deal with it. The correct response is "I'm under a lot of pressure but I'm dealing with it. We're not gonna talk about this anymore."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:30 PM
1

Lets say you're experiencing a lot of problems at work. You're worried about being able to provide for your family and maybe even paying the rent. Now assuming you've been the stereotypical stoic alpha to this point, your girl hopefully sees you as an uncrackable monolith of strength. Once you reveal your concerns to your girl, or maybe even cries, she will see that this was an illusion. You were not the unwavering colossus she had painted you as in her head. The fantasy is broken. Now she knows…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:45 AM
1

I think the problem is that most men think women are like us. Men are rational and say what they think, so we assume women to be the same way. When someone is BP hears a girl telling me that I'm an asshole they think that's what she thinks and they don't understand why she'll fuck me at the end of the night. When they hear her say "I'm not gonna sleep with you tonight" they think that's what it means and leave. And when they hear a woman say "this is what I want" they obviously think she means i…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:39 AM
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Yeah. As sad as it is, once you reveal your weakness like that they realize that you're not the unbreakable wall you seemed to be. Once that happens it's over, the illusion is broken and they'll never see you the same way. Never show weakness to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:32 AM
1

I don't think it's exactly the same as saying it's okay for women to get fat. The difference is that men know we don't want fat chicks, betas just say it for brownie points or to not get shamed by body positivism nuts. Many women legitimately think they want a feminine, sensitive guy. It sounds good on a rational level. I've had this conversation with so many girls. "I like sensitive men who cry and talk about their feelings". When I say well you're with me and I'm not like that and you left tho…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 01:01 AM
2

Treat them like a child making a fuss about nothing. Don't acknowledge the problem because there is no problem, it's all in her mind. Deflect, distance yourself or just ignore her. Do something else more meaningful. Ask her to join you in it. She's not responding to a real issue, she is responding to an emotion. Make the emotion go away and the problem goes away, so distract her. Never acknowledge the situation. Like a dog that's scared of fireworks. If you comfort it, it knows it's something to…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:11 PM
2

If you're getting flaked often on you might be interesting initially but end up boring girls. Maybe you have bad text game, aren't assertive enough or just are kinda boring. You gotta figure out where you're going wrong after your successful initial interactions. If you were a lost cause there would be no dates to flake from in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:05 PM
1

I think it affects different people in different ways. I've heard similar stories of people studying successfully on it, and some science seems to suggest possible benefits too. If it works for you, that's great. But, there's also a chance you're really gifted and would have gotten 95% off weed. I had similar results as you without it. The strain probably matters too.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 07:52 AM
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That's not precisely how you should interpret those studies imo. The first one is quite small and the findings weren't really conclusive, although quite interesting. But an improvement in a memory game does not equal improved cognition. Also it's just one study versus a whole bunch, so far. The second one was on people who were treated for some deficiency with MMJ, so that's not the really the same as an across the board improvement. They returned to baseline or around, it's not at all certain t…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:37 PM
2

I think you'll be fine, most research states that any adverse effects are limited to periods of consumption. If you were a heavy smoker it should be back to normal in a few months. It's not great to be smoking a lot during brain development though, so if you've been smoking since youth there may be some impact.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 01:28 PM
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It messes up your dopamine levels and reduces motivation. Furthermore, regular heavy weed smoking is associated with cognitive decline comparable to a loss of five IQ points. This goes away once you stop/reduce consumption. For me, I notice significant reduction in mathematical and logical abilities, and improvements in more creative abilities.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 10:41 AM
1

The real lesson here isn't that all women are like this, it's that we're all like this. I'm writing this at the gym bcause I got bored during the two minutes between bench press. Fight the monkey mind and escape the validation and comfort loop.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 08:10 AM
2

You can overcome that stuff man. The only thing that's really crippling you is lack of social skills, the rest is just slowing you down. All you need to pull is some charisma and being able to talk with a girl. They're people you know, you can talk to them like you talk to man, just introduce some sexual tension too. You don't need any cool hobbies or stuff like that. I'm a computer engineer. I do combat sports and am a musician too but I don't tell girls that about myself right away. When I do …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 07:29 AM
1

Get that toxic loser attitude the fuck outta here. Bring it to whatever remains of incels, we don't want it here. Improve or get out.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 07:19 AM
1

I don't really get what your problem is. You said you know what to do but you don't know what to do. You need to phrase yourself better if you want accurate help. Are you having trouble with seducing women in 1 on 1 situations or what?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:04 PM
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Yeah, a big part is psychological for women, much more so than us men. That's why they read porn and we watch it. So talking is really good. Lean in close and whisper how sexy she is and what you wanna do to her. Tell her how hard she makes your cock and press it against her or put her hand on it. Talk dirty, if she likes it tell her she's your little slut and her tight pussy is yours to do with as you like (don't start here though, get her horny first). Keep talking, ALL THE TIME. Don't just be…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:32 AM
1

I wrote a long post in this thread about the sex stuff from my experience, not sure about the book. Don't wait for IOI, assume every girl is interested and flirt with everyone, even the ugly old hag at the infodesk and the fat friend of the girl you wanna fuck. Be a charismatic motherfucker with all girls cause that's just how you are, then they'll wonder if you're really interested. Pre-selection is a big thing, especially in college. If you're known as a guy that girls like then they assume th…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 09:28 AM
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You need to show her something of value first. Have higher social status than her, lots of money, be very good looking, or in my opinion the most realistic approach for most men, have mindblowing sex and give her tons of orgasms. I've found that most guys aren't great in bed and just by laying down solid pipe I can get most girls to stay interested because they're not used to it. If I make a girl cum 3-4 times in a session then she'll usually hit me up again even though I'm a pretty solitary guy…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 11:39 PM
1

Yes, he brings them on for entertainment but he makes it very clear that he doesn't believe in their stories, and he also says that he thinks Alex is an entertainer and a persona. He obviously doesn't want to be lumped into any political conspiracies, and he's avoided taking any clear political stance. Maybe you're right that MR/RP is less controversial IRL though, I honestly hadn't considered that.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 01:54 PM
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He has to testify to public opinion. If he gets caught in a hatestorm that's bad PR that could hurt him. He talks a lot about not having to answer to anyone but he never says anything really controversial and he's pretty careful on incendiary topics. He clearly distances himself from lots of conspiracy theories, anything on the topic of mens rights a la Milo etc, and he panders a lot to female and feminist guests. I don't think he'd include anyone from the RP sphere in the current political clim…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:48 PM
1

Joe won't do it. Any men's rights or RP advocates are basically nazis in the public eye. To the uninvited this would be the same as inviting Hitler on the show. He had Milo on but he is a famous person outside MR circles and widely considered to be a troll, so Joe could dismiss all his controversial opinions as trolling. I don't think he could do the same with a lesser known figure. It'd be great but I don't think Joe will risk tarnishing his reputation for someone with no name recognition outsi…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 10:49 AM
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Interesting is such a hollow, empty word. What does it mean for something to be interesting? It just means that you pique someone's interest. Being passionate is one way to do that. Being insightful or unpredictable is another. "Interesting" on it's own is a useless descriptor. Besides, being passionate doesn't always mean seductive. You can be passionate about your job, music or your favorite sports team.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 10:17 PM
1

That's not complaining at all, that's asking for a favor, negotiating, threatening, demanding, instructing or informing. Complaining is something that is done without any intended effect. It's just for the sake of it. Feel sorry for me. Snitching/confronting someone is done not for sympathy but as a way of controlling/changing a situation, the opposite of what complaining is.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 10:04 PM
1

Why are you so touchy? If it was better you could have gotten a thousand. Don't shrug off valid criticism just because of petty pride. I'm not attacking your person here. You're acting like a woman, that's not what this sub is about.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 11:41 PM
1

Of course. I'm just saying that when you present it like that, more sceptical readers will dismiss what you have to say. "Don't get married because I married someone with BPD" is a weak argument, you lost me in the first paragraph. Don't get married because divorce rape can happen to anyone is a good argument. You don't need to convince me, I'm just giving you a pointer.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 07:31 PM
1

I am not critiquing you or your choice, I am merely pointing out that your argument stands on pretty shaky ground, scientifically speaking. Your selection is very small and also atypical. Of course you're gonna have a bad time in such a marriage, that is not the fault of marriage as a concept. The rest of what you said might make sense, but you should probably have framed it differently. Your experience with marriage is not exactly representative, however your experience with divorce may very we…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:55 PM
1

You married someone with a personality disorder and now you're using that as an argument against marriage? I'm sorry but clearly women with personality disorders should be avoided. Generalizing from that to all marriage/women is just stupid. I am not defending the idea of marriage, I am in fact quite against it, but am I the only one that thinks we should try to hold a higher standard when it comes to arguments around here?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:25 PM
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Of course, that's no secret either. But if you're not so genetically gifted but still possess the mind of an 'alpha', why not pump yourself full of synthetic testosterone and be the best man you can be? It beats being a scrawny nu-male forever...
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:11 PM
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Yeah, everyone who cycles knows this man. You can't really raise your levels above normal with natural methods, only bring them up if you're below your baseline because of nutrient deficiencies. Some people just have lower test naturally too. No one is going to become a freak beast by eating more eggs and red meat. Not saying gear is always the best choice but everyone can't become high t just by eating better and lifting either.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 06:38 PM
1

I'll give it a try, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:59 PM
7

It's a different movement, back squat doesn't carry over to front squat perfectly and vice versa. If you hadn't practiced the movement before then of course you couldn't lift much. I only do front squats and I'm pretty sure they're stronger than my back at this point.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 07:16 AM
1

I have busted knees, train legs at most once a week and have horrible genetics and I can front squat 85 and that's a lot more than I weigh too. It's not much, nor would I say it's unattainable for a chick that actually lifts and doesn't just show off in the mirrors.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 07:14 AM
1

Now I think it's you that's being reductionist. I can have integrity and also emjoy to hate-fuck girls with a stupid personality. It doesn't cost me anything, it's not harmful to me, it's not degrading, why would you think I don't have integrity? If I'm looking to get laid it's well in line with my goals. Sexual fitness from a male perspective has nothing to do with personality, it's purely biological/physical. Again, you don't need to agree with me but I know the OP does. He explicitly admitted…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 05:37 AM
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That is an interesting point but it's very far from what the OP was trying to convey. This post was just about a girl that he thought was high value enough to write about and how him calling her out gave him an opportunity to fuck her. At no point did he mention anything about the dichotomy you brought up, and this post is in no way an attempt by him to grapple with that phenomenon. I am often simultaneously attracted and repulsed by women, but if I get the chance I will still hate-fuck them eve…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 02:14 PM
1

I'm not disagreeing in principle, but in this particular case it's obvious that's not how OP felt. He even low-key lamented not making a move at the end of the post. man thinking about that ass maybe I should've escalated. He was clearly attracted to her. Saying he passed up on it because she was looking for attention or whatever is just rationalizing.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 06:30 PM
1

No he didn't, he said he got a chub just looking at her. He clearly was attracted to her, he thought about her to the point where he made a post about it. The end was just him rationalizing not having the balls to pursue it. It clearly isn't true from the context of the rest of the post.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 05:38 PM
1

Ah, okay that makes more sense actually. Very calculated. She's smart, she knows what I am doing, but because I am doing it she loves me even more, that one I'll never understand. I can sorta understand this, I've met a few rare girls that were smart enough to challenge me on an intellectual level and who actually managed to wind me up. Even though it sorta pissed me off it also made me like them more because I recognized they were sophisticated enough to pose some sort of intellectual threat to…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:03 AM
1

Let me see if I got this right, you mean you softly disqualify the other girl sexually to defuse your partners sense of insecurity and jealousy, but still point out some other qualities to keep appropriately non-threatening competition going?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:24 AM
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Oh for sure, I will be looking after my diet and working out until I die and I fully expect a potential partner to do the same thing. Lots of girls get a bit weirded out when I tell them I don't eat candy and chips and shit, that just tells me they're gonna age horribly and they get plated.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:18 AM
1

Well the guy I was responding to basically did.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:16 AM
1

Oh, I missed the "on the side" part. Disregarding the morality of it, yeah I can see the appeal. It comes and goes for me too.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 08:17 PM
1

Yes, I feel like it could work in theory provided you're both not very emotional people prone to jealousy. If you think about it completely rationally it shouldn't really matter that much, it's in our biology right? But there's still something about the thought of walking on my girl with another man that makes me want to shove his fucking teeth down his throat. Maybe it's just not for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:01 PM
1

Wow, that's quite the outside-the-box approach. Really interesting. I'm not sure I buy the 'all men are competitors'-thing, that seems highly contextual. If a man is coming onto her I doubt she'd see him as competition for some hypothetical threesome partner so I'm not sure if it's foolproof, but hey, threesomes right? I think this could cause a lot of jealousy with some girls, but if it's cool with her then why the hell not. Good for you man!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:50 PM
1

Yeah I think that's probably right, unless it's something she's expressed interest in before I'd be concerned.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:48 PM
1

Well put. Even your favorite meal gets boring if you eat it every day, and then even a greasy $5 pizza might look pretty fucking appealing.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:45 PM
1

Oh yeah of course it's something to strive for and makes a lot of sense, I just want to have a philosophy in place for the contingency in case it's not enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 06:00 AM
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It's a shame you're being downvoted, if it works it works. I'm not sure this approach is for me, don't think I'd much like the thought of my wife going on dates with someone else. That's an interesting setup for sure, hope it works out for you guys. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:56 AM
1

Hah, that's reassuring, good for you! Maybe you're right and I'm worrying for no reason. I absolutely don't plan on letting myself go at any rate. Thanks for the input!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:52 AM
1

Yeah that's what I tend to believe too, I just didn't wanna knock it too hard without trying. Don't you think you'll tire of plating? How long have you done it for?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:46 AM
1

No, not that. I'll still work on myself, my body, attitude, career, being high value basically. But that alone doesn't get you very far. I'm not a social guy naturally, so I still need to put in a lot of work to maintain the social connections required to be successful in dating. The logistics is what I'm referring to pretty much. I don't like the game of it. I don't wanna be dating my entire life. It's tedious and unfulfilling. It has nothing to do with me wanting to get fat and rot away on the…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:13 PM
1

Yeah I'm not really worried about that, it's more that I just don't think I'll want to put in the effort. I already have options and I don't see that changing, it's just that dating is work. You have to work to maintain appearance, work to put yourself in social situations, work to maintain connections etc. That stuff isn't really enjoyable to me, I like women and I like fucking but everything up to that is a chore. I'd prefer to be able to leave all that behind and find something stable if that…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 06:08 PM
1

Yes, this kind of rationalization seems very appealing. "If I act like a real man and fuck her properly then she won't cheat". I'm not so sure it's true though, some people will find any excuse to cheat and if they can't they'll start a fight so they have one. Not that I would ever date a person like that, I'm just not sure it's foolproof.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 06:03 PM
1

No I'm not. Not being able to control things is at the core of the problem in my post. I realize that I can't control my woman to be faithful, I can't control selecting a faithful women, so the idea of the post is to figure out how I should react to what the world throws at me instead. That's why the point of the thread isn't to prevent cheating, the point is to figure out how to cope with cheating since I recognize that I can't prevent it. It's not the emotional reaction I'm having trouble with…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 05:59 PM
1

That's all well and good, I agree and I also consider myself something of a stoic. Vetting for intelligence and rationality is of course common sense when it comes to reducing the chances of being cheated on, but that's still just pretty much closing your eyes and praying for the best. Don't get cheated on is not a solution to the problem of what to do when faced with the possibility of being cheated on. Even with thorough vetting there's still a very real chance of being the victim of infidelit…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:45 PM
1

Yeah, I guess that makes a lot of sense. You're probably right that you have to drop her if you catch her cheating at least, she'll probably never respect you again otherwise so it's already a lost cause. Still not sure if it isn't better to look the other way in some situations though, assuming you have plausible deniability and don't lose face. But what you say about abundance mentality is reasonable. Maybe I'm overestimating the difficulty of dating once I get older. I guess if I'm not motiva…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 01:04 PM
1

Okay look, I agree that it doesn't have to be the same partner. I'm absolutely down with switching as long as it's convenient, I just don't see it as being convenient for me once I get to that age. I doubt I'll have the energy to be on the top of my dating game and put in the effort by then, but this is of course just speculation. But okay, I see your mind is made up and you make some fair points, I'm not going to disagree. However, I'm not convinced it's the right approach for me or even for yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:35 PM
1

I'd like to believe this is true but I think it's wishful thinking. It rests entirely upon defying all odds and finding that one in a million unicorn. Even if they exist they are so rare that most men realistically won't be able to find one (because there is probably at most one of these for each 10,000 men or something along those lines), and also like I outlined in my post even the most meticulous vetting cannot guarantee that she will be loyal, you'll never know.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:30 PM
1

I think you are overestimating the influence of nurture and underestimating the impact of biology and inherited instincts when it comes to determining behavior. Most people on here would say that hypergamy isn't a learned behavior but rather one that has been selected for over countless generation and that is ingrained into female biology.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:22 PM
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Yes, my perspective has shifted in a similar way. I'm not sure if that kind of attitude gets in the way of having a real connection to a woman though, I feel like it sort of makes you cynical and detached in a way but maybe I just haven't fully accepted the conditions of the game yet. Perhaps that is still the lesser of evils, and we just have to accept that there are no ideal relationships like we were taught and in the end we will never find that perfect togetherness. Maybe a cynical and detac…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:18 PM
1

Well, yes, but that market DOESN'T EXIST. If you have some inside information, please enlighten me as to the source of these magical loyal women.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:15 PM
1

You're right and I absolutely agree with a lot of your points, the problem is that what you're proposing is not really a solution. I know I can jump from woman to woman without a problem now in my youth, but the older I get the harder that gets. Just finding a new girl isn't a realistic solution for most men once they pass 40 or maybe 50. I'm not looking to be on tinder when I'm 60, which is why I want to find something more long-lasting. If you're suggesting to just make a bunch of money and sp…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 12:13 PM
1

Yeah the proof is in the fact that no fitness chick will ever try to talk you out of lifting. If it was just based on personal preference there should be fit chicks who like dad bods, right? There aren't. Fit chicks aren't intimidated and so they don't have any trouble being with a fit guy. It's always the slobs.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 09:03 AM
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Science suggests that men who are physically strong or successful in society, as in have a high position in social hierarchies, are more likely to vote right. The reasoning seems to be that if you are weak and can't compete then you are drawn to an ideology that will protect you even though you have little to contribute. I was a lot more left leaning in my weak, beta days. So there is probably some truth to her statement, but not because TRP has anything to do with politics. TRP breeds strong me…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:14 AM
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Absolutely. And it's not just about looking good either, I want to be strong because i feel like a certain level of physical fitness is required so I can look after myself and my loved ones (women, obviously).
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 06:59 AM
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I'm the same. Masculinity is mostly viewed as something toxic and dangerous that should be suppressed, but this is a place where you can be unapologetically macho. I'm successful with women and in general, and was before I found this sub. I just want a place where men are allowed to be men.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:55 PM
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Thankfully all societies aren't completely fucked yet, though you might be right about the US.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:43 PM
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If you decide that something like marriage isn't a viable path in life based on 'reading a sidebar' then you're probably an idiot. I'm not saying it's necessarily a good idea financially but it's a big deal and you'd do well to think about it and make up your own mind in the matter.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:28 AM
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It took you very many words to make a couple super basic points. Do psychedelics Talk to people, it's good for you Being social is a learned skill You really need to work on condensing your writing. You can express yourself decently but your text is all filler and no actual content. On the surface it seems like you know what you're talking about but you're not really saying anything. Less is more. Half your text is trying to convince us why you're qualified to speak about this and the other half…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 02:05 PM
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Not sure if you mean by denying them cuddling or just by seeking FWB:s in general.. As long as you're open about your intentions there's nothing wrong with seeking fwb:s imo. I also don't think holding back on cuddling and that type of activity is necessarily hostile or pushing them away. Those are activities that promote pair bonding, two adults going into an fwb relationship should realize that it's risky and can lead to undesired emotions and as long as you can talk about it I don't think it'…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:37 AM
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If she's determined I think it's better not to reveal your hand unless you're confident it would scare her off. Doing that would only give her a chance to tailor her story around it. A girl shouldn't be that malevolent though, most are not that crazy. If so you've missed a few major red flags I think, or done something very stupid to piss her off.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:06 PM
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Yeah of course. If she doesn't know you recorded it then this will probably dispute her story though. Having her sound like she's enjoying herself on audio should be sufficient unless she really thought ahead.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:44 PM
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Solid life advice in general
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:00 PM
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I'm definitely guilty of this. What can i say, i think it's fun.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:57 PM
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Definitely not all women are that fucked up. Screening is probably the best way to avoid it but that's a topic of it's own.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:56 PM
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Thanks. Yeah, the self esteem is an oversimplification i guess. Often I think they lack a healthy model for how a positive relationship should be with a man. Either way, they're often insecure or otherwise damaged I believe. You make good points.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:54 PM
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True.That's actually literal psycho stuff though, that is in a league of it's own. Guess I was a little hyperbolic in including that in the title.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:06 PM
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That's true. I don't think denying your girls from orgasming is a good general approach, though, because it will devalue your reputation, lower the quality of your sex life and make repeat business much less likely. But if they seem like clingers or extra crazy, then yeah, it might be wise. I don't think I'd do it personally, but then again I try not to associate with that kind of girl anymore either way.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:15 PM
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Yeah, there is a risk involved with cuddling too much, especially if you've made her cum one or several times. Flooding her with oxytocyin in that situation increases the chance that she'll develop strong feelings towards you over time which obviously isn't ideal in that situation. I've had that happen with FWB:s. It keeps them hooked for a while but it's not a stable situation and also it's a bit cruel if you care about that sort of thing. A shower might be a better idea if you want to keep her…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:52 PM
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Oh trust me friend, I've had my share of sluts and mild disgust. It's part of the game, if you play it then you know that could happen. If it's a problem for you then I think you should man up and power through, and if you can't then I think you should re-evaluate some of your choices, step your game up and stop fucking disgusting slags. You're right about them becoming emotional if you make them orgasm. But I don't think it increases likelyhood of rape charges. Maybe if she's batshit crazy but …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:48 PM
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He specifically said sex without orgasm, not cumming though. But yeah otherwise I get it, even though it feels more satisfying when I actually bust but maybe I just haven't mastered it properly yet.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:35 PM
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You're an idiot so stop posting pls
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:21 AM
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Yeah I believe in the covert contract of being a decent person and treating others how you'd wanna be treated, you know the cornerstones of western civilisation. Keep being a dick if you want but that will get you nothing more than shallow relations and meaningless sex with damaged girls. If you think getting a blowjob from a girl who's so ugly you don't even wanna fuck her, kicking her out and then sitting alone in your apartment is winning at life then go ahead. You can be a decent person with…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:15 AM
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Lol you fucking serious? That's like going to the kitchen, making a sandwhich and then not eating it. I can see how it might help for pair bonding but jeez, that seems extreme. Why even bother with ONS at that point?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:18 AM
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The game is fucking garbage man. There are some points to it but that's not a good philosophy to live your life after. From what I recall that dude didn't end up particularly happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:17 AM
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You're being immature and your reasoning is that of a childish woman. "He is within his rights to be a dick, feminists are retarded and change their minds on a whim so we should too". No, fuck that dude. We're supposed to be better than that. Anyone who is not an idiot knows that after busting you're not gonna be interested in sex. She went out of her way to take his load in her mouth, the decent thing to do is to at least finger her a bit. Either plan ahead and make her cum first, or power thro…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:11 AM
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Yeah that's just poor manners. At least fingerblast the chick, cmon. Quid pro quo. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes OP
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:37 AM
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I'm not sure you went too far. It's all about how you say it. If you don't know when you're being rude you can't play it off with a smile/laugh/joke to show her you're playing if she seems offended. I often say horrible shit to women but I know they're horrible and they know I know they're horrible so I get away with it. If you just completely dead-pan tell women "you're an idiot who's made terrible life choices" and you believe it and you don't think you're wrong in saying it then you'll seem l…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:10 PM
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That guy is full of shit. You were 100% being rude. Sometimes it's good to be rude, but make no mistake criticizing someone's career/life choice like that and saying they're not bright is most definitely rude in most people's eyes. You are right in your observations but that is certainly a rude way to phrase yourself. It works, I do the same thing and I'm not saying you were wrong to do it, but you should at least be aware that you're being rude and try to come off at least half-jokingly imo. So…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:53 PM
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Yes but if her funds could be going to a man with twice the potential then that's clearly a problem. Of course women should still be allowed in as long as their merits can justify it, but quotas are extra destructive in a field where resources are limited and women tend to underperform.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:01 AM
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I shit you not, a university in Sweden took some heat last year by a pair of retarded feminists who complained that the school was sexist for focusing their engineering on 'practical and functional' design, since these are tradtionally masculine attributes. They basically wanted engineering degrees to promote useless design in the name of equality. The school complied and added gender based design classes to their engineering programs (or at least publicly claimed they were going to, I didn't fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 10:48 AM
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What is the podcast you're talking about with Jordan Peterson? I'd like to hear it
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:38 PM
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