_Benny_Lava Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Beta head trash took me by surprise. Damn!		_Benny_Lava	/r/askTRP	25/04/14 12:54 PM
0	Auto-Fellatio gender comparisons		_Benny_Lava	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 10:41 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	A woman who makes her husband “earn” sex is not a wife. She’s a prostitute. Likewise, a husband who does tasks hoping to Curry favor for sex is also prostituting himself.	/r/MensRights	20/02/26 01:35 PM
1	If a spouse sacrifices 18 years of their career to rear children, what is an equitable payout during divorce? Hopefully having well adjusted kids is the payout.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 02:28 AM
5	Uncomfortable facts about men's health I try to bring this up in a very subtle way when I know a new couple is having a baby boy. So far it is always falling on deaf ears. So unnecessary and so sad and so barbaric!	/r/MensRights	20/07/24 11:53 AM
1	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? To answer that question all you need to do is look in the mirror and ask yourself am I a predator? Do you have a dad or an uncle or a grandfather who's not a predator? If you do then you can extrapolate that not everyone is a predator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 03:10 PM
1	Have you noticed that some women get hysterical if an employer asks them to wear a bra or to shave yet men don't get offended if they're asked to shave or to wear a suit? Almost all HR departments are run by women. I don't think they think policies are "guidelines."	/r/MensRights	31/08/23 08:46 PM
1	Have you noticed that some women get hysterical if an employer asks them to wear a bra or to shave yet men don't get offended if they're asked to shave or to wear a suit? I would seriously complain if my employer asked me to shave or wear a tie...let alone a suit. Not sure what you are talking about.	/r/MensRights	31/08/23 08:44 PM
-4	Can someone help me understand as a black conservative why do white female liberals hate white men so much ? Most white female liberals would probably say that the biggest oppressor currently is women's lack of bodily autonomy. The removal of Rowe Vs. Wade and the states that have made abortion illegal was a serious blow to women's rights and freedoms.	/r/MensRights	01/08/23 08:24 PM
-3	First date ran me through Are We Dating The Same Guy. I'm conflicted. My response is a little bit different than most that I've read here. I have a feeling that she was just going along with what her friends do as far as being heavily involved in social media and using the tools that they think will give them an advantage. However, as she's getting to know you she's realizing that you are outside of this b******* game and she is reevaluating her reliance on it. I think I would give her another chance. Edit: I just read the original post to my wife and I read her m…	/r/MensRights	28/05/23 02:48 PM
1	Women using mens restrooms. I absolutely don't care at all. I will use theirs if it is available, they can use ours if there is room...it just doesn't matter to me at all! Sometimes I will use the women's restroom (if it is a single seater type restroom) and I will get some dirty looks from a woman who may have gotten in line after I was already in there. I just smile and say, "next!"	/r/MensRights	22/03/23 01:54 PM
2	LWMA Lounge Same. It is terrible the amount of auto-banning that happens whenever posting anything against the feminist hive mind. There are some feminists who understand nuance, but I don't find too many on reddit!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/02/23 03:28 PM
6	I sent 100 applications as a man and a woman. It's MUCH better being a woman If that were true every business would only hire women. So, clearly that's not true.	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 12:14 PM
1	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating You don't do it for the girls...you do it for yourself!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 01:37 PM
3	Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected against It seems that the movie Idiocracy was a documentary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 04:46 AM
4	This Exercise Makes You Irresistible You don't have time you make time.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 02:49 AM
4	How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?” I'm a guy and I would never ask that question. How rude!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 06:21 PM
-5	A woman barges into a busy men's room at Disney World and uses the toilet because she did not want to wait in line to use the ladies room. This is a complete non issue. Restrooms shouldn't be gendered at all.	/r/MensRights	08/09/21 05:17 PM
3	My encounter with a feminist co-worker of mine I think you are wasting your time arguing with her.	/r/MensRights	20/08/21 01:41 PM
13	Do you believe single, straight women between the ages of 18 and 35 actually know what they want? Do you really believe that you can put all single, straight women between the ages of 18 and 35 in the same bucket? Really???	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 06:07 PM
1	What would you suggest to a person who doesn't need money, women or any kind of relationship? Volunteer to go to Mars.	/r/askTRP	11/06/21 03:38 PM
4	Dentist told me to consider braces at the age of 35. Not confident about it. Do it. Your confidence will go up when you get your teeth fixed. Its only temporary and the benefits last the rest of your life.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 02:13 PM
-4	Gf [23] meeting up friend she used to sleep with for walk No, but you also do not need to destroy someone like a complete sociopath. I know people go through an anger phase...but shit man, there is no reason to destroy someone.	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 05:05 PM
0	Gf [23] meeting up friend she used to sleep with for walk You need help.	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 02:01 PM
0	What steps should one take to achieve happiness in their 20s? Nobody "Achieves" happiness in their 20s.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 12:52 PM
5	My first and only girlfriend really messed my head up - does the pain ever really go? Work in progress. Not everyone is a fucking robot.	/r/askTRP	21/09/20 11:58 AM
1	What's the best strategy for a man who wants kids but doesn't want marriage? Get a dog	/r/askTRP	18/09/20 02:13 PM
3	Red Pill recommended movies? Lighten up Francis.	/r/askTRP	14/07/20 06:08 PM
1	Just quit vaping after 6 years, feel like a different person I went through the same emotions and challenges when I quit chewing tobacco. I quit 17 years ago and the nocotine gum was a tremendous help to me. That feeling of needing something to do with your hands will take a few years to go away...but it will. I thought about quitting for years before I finally did. It made me mad to realize what I slave I was to nicotine. It feels good to be free.	/r/askTRP	08/07/20 01:12 PM
3	Can anyone recommend any good books on parenting? A book that changed our parenting style completely was "Redirecting Children's Behavior." Fantastic and very practical!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/20 03:38 PM
2	Podcast recommendations Podcasts are a great way to spend time when you are doing things that do not require your full attention span (like driving or working on the car).	/r/askTRP	06/02/20 02:42 PM
0	LTR and trip to vegas. First red flag in 1.5 years +1	/r/askTRP	10/10/19 05:51 PM
2	My condolences on your forthcoming ban by Reddit Where is the backup in case this sub is shut down?	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/19 11:37 PM
4	Guess which one claims to have their childhood stolen? What a bunch of word salad. Most ends are uncertain, and we know what we are going to get if we do nothing. People will be impoverished if we continue on our current path.	/r/MGTOW	30/09/19 03:52 PM
22	Guess which one claims to have their childhood stolen? It doesn't matter what is "stale" or not. The facts according to climate researchers is that we have a limited time to make changes. The presentation is getting more drastic because the reality is more drastic. It is proportional!	/r/MGTOW	30/09/19 02:18 PM
2	Is it just me or is TRP being run over by incels? Faggots?	/r/askTRP	23/09/19 01:04 PM
2	How do I stop taking things so personal? I find myself resenting people when they point out a rule I'm breaking. Read "The 4 Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz. Changed my life in this area.	/r/askTRP	09/08/19 03:51 PM
6	What are the major red flags to notice on a girl? Bad-mouthing ex boyfriends. Shows immaturity and a lack of self confidence.	/r/askTRP	31/07/19 09:15 PM
0	Today I faked it to avoid a potentially BAD situation. And I am glad I did. How old do you think is enough to understand?	/r/MGTOW	26/06/19 01:13 PM
-2	Today I faked it to avoid a potentially BAD situation. And I am glad I did. I just watched it and took a look at the comments. What does that have to do with this story?	/r/MGTOW	26/06/19 12:54 PM
1	Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationship I agree	/r/askTRP	30/03/19 01:59 PM
2	Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationship I did. Not that hard...just read.	/r/askTRP	22/03/19 01:13 PM
1	My date asked what is my age and I responded with "Old enough to fuck". That was quite immature. TRP is not an excuse to be a rude and offensive human.	/r/askTRP	14/02/19 04:50 PM
1	So has anyone seen these women’s only parking spots? Some parking garages have these in front of the handicapped spots, you know, the ones for people with disabilities who actually do need special treatment... I'm too over all of this to even make an "how I want to identify today" type of joke. Whatever...	/r/MensRights	10/02/19 02:09 PM
1	How much I care about your fucken opinion or problems Cunt Anger Phase!	/r/MGTOW	07/02/19 07:07 PM
1	What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience? Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 05:08 PM
1	What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience? Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 05:08 PM
1	What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience? what does "MC+" mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 04:24 PM
1	Is there something like "lifting weights" for your soul? Meditation.	/r/askTRP	30/01/19 05:15 PM
1	I feel like unless I got a vasectomy, there's no way I could ever trust anybody in a relationship if it comes down to contraception. What to do? Then get a vasectomy!	/r/askTRP	13/01/19 03:57 AM
18	Q4Women: What would it take for women to be like Mary Poppins sans the magical element? I am referring to her demeanor, her charm, her wit, her compassionate empathy but also her clear hardheadedness. To many men, incl. me, she's the ideal mother or even wife figure. Don't confuse fiction with reality!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/19 02:52 PM
1	Single men are more attractive to women than married men (especially men married for a long time) I don't see this as a problem. Some things just are what they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/19 02:32 PM
1	Why do I lose all my confidence and momentum after jerking off? You must feel as if you are doing something wrong.	/r/askTRP	06/12/18 04:00 AM
1	What to do after losing everything over false rape allegation in highschool? Move to a different state and just start over!	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 03:46 PM
-3	Sexist? Whatever! Do some pushups and get over it.	/r/MensRights	19/11/18 06:47 PM
10	Q4M: What are the common problems you've run into with women in LTRs? They will do all sorts of awesome sexual stuff when you are first dating...but once they think they have you "hooked" then alot of that ends. Its like false advertising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/18 04:22 PM
1	How bad is looking like a boy in your mid 20's? The fellas would LOVE you in Afganistan!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/18 10:44 PM
-11	How do you make peace with a girl's history? Oh, fuck off with that. What are you, 12 years old? If having a sexual past makes her a whore then it makes him a whore also. How bout acting like a grown-up and just acknowledging that we all have a past and moving on.	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 02:34 PM
1	I thought that this needed to be here I see your medical training is paying off!	/r/MGTOW	16/05/18 01:12 PM
-5	Sexual harasser Katy Perry is paid double what her male co-stars on American Idol each get. When do the feminist protests for equal pay start? Dude...relax.	/r/MensRights	04/04/18 05:21 PM
1	Quickest ways to become more attractive as a man Nope, not parroting. All I am saying is quit processed sugar. I have done it myself. Now, it is really, really hard to quit (and not to ever cheat)...but I sure feel a lot better physically and mentally without it! I still do eat fruit...I'm talking about anything that has white or brown sugar in it at all.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 08:46 PM
8	Quickest ways to become more attractive as a man Okay, if we are going to be pedantic...just eliminate all processed sugars. Cake, candy, ice cream, most desserts, most processed foods, most fast foods, sodas...you get the idea.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 01:46 PM
2	Quickest ways to become more attractive as a man Not really...as long as you are not already diabetic and don't overdo them.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 12:53 PM
4	Quickest ways to become more attractive as a man True...True.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 12:23 PM
38	Quickest ways to become more attractive as a man Stop consuming all sugar. Completely eliminate sugar from your diet to improve your mental and physical health. It will take a couple of months for the cravings to subside...but it will change your life.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 12:07 PM
0	Friend zoning hot girls who are attracted to you is hilarious! You are playing the exact same game that we despise when women do it. Sounds WAY Beta to me.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/17 02:05 PM
4	Marilyn Manson to #MeToo movement: ‘Say it to police, not to the press’ No One "deserves" to be raped for ANYTHING you fucking tool!	/r/MensRights	25/12/17 08:13 PM
2	What are some of the most red pill jobs that doesn't involve being a corporate drone? Well...	/r/askTRP	15/10/17 01:44 PM
1	Guys, it happened! I got banned following my famous "Clutching at Pearls" comment!	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/09/17 05:41 PM
1	Q4All: If a man and a woman both get drunk and have sex, why is it that the man is declared a rapist and the woman bears no responsibility? What happens when two drunken men have sex? That is not true. According to our current social contract rape IS a spectrum. Some people will claim that only forced penetration is rape while others will claim that merely suggestive language or even marital relations can be considered rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/17 01:27 PM
2	How to respond when female tells you they have anxiety and take pills for it? On the one hand, common belief is that we should offer words of encouragement. But the other perspective says we shouldn't act too "soft," because women want someone who's unfamiliar with fear and only knows strength. Respond however you want. Nothing you say or do will help with the issue at all, so just say what is on your mind. Now, if the real question you are asking is, "What is the correct response to give so this girl who takes meds for anxiety will continue to have sex with me?" In that case just know you are setting yourself up for lots of drama. The sex comes with a big emotional price tag. If you don't want the drama, get away from the girl.	/r/askTRP	29/08/17 11:50 AM
4	" Better to bust a nut with an iron eagle hand grip, than put your Yinjing in dem bitches" Master Wong Life aint nothin' but bitches and money! -Gandolf	/r/MGTOW	25/08/17 07:53 PM
1	I feel like I'm asexual Just chill man...whatever! You do you.	/r/seduction	15/07/17 02:14 AM
1	CMV: It's better to be beautiful than smart in this world. Maybe when you are young...but once the beauty fades you better have a backup skill set!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/17 11:40 PM
11	Circumcision Its okay bro. Focus on the things you can change, not the things you can't. Have a cup of tea...chill.	/r/MGTOW	03/04/17 11:52 AM
1	Get rekt I love the head tilt when she knows her logic is failing and she needs to go into spin mode.	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/03/17 12:39 PM
–	Got a single mother twice my age pregnant Sorry Dr. Phil...that is just not going to work.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 01:34 PM
1	I have some discipline issues when it comes to diet. Any tips? Food can be an addiction as much as anything, especially sugar. Here is a blog post that explains this concept: http://movingstronglyforward.typepad.com/moving_strongly_forward/2009/03/real-food-sugar-addiction-and-freedom.html	/r/askTRP	01/11/16 11:31 AM
1	Woman comes with a fist towards a cop Does nobody study proper footwork anymore!	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/10/16 08:16 PM
2	What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand? Correlation does not equal causation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/16 03:33 PM
1	Tips on emotional state and how to push through the BS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY	/r/askTRP	24/06/16 01:28 PM
1	So many guys fall for the packaging That, alcohol, and guys who are also average.	/r/MGTOW	08/06/16 11:11 AM
1	Why you should never feel bad for women in bad relationships. Dude, if you want to have a beer...have a beer. If you don't, then don't. That simple.	/r/MGTOW	31/05/16 11:40 PM
-2	Why you should never feel bad for women in bad relationships. 12 step programs have done wonders for thousands of people. It should come as no surprise that some people with addiction issues would become "addicted" to 12 step programs. The experience of "your entire family" is not the experience of everyone.	/r/MGTOW	31/05/16 11:46 AM
3	Jesus Wept... This is why I'm anti-human.	/r/MGTOW	08/05/16 12:44 PM
10	Fuck it, I'm buying a motorcycle Don't get a Harley	/r/MGTOW	04/05/16 11:03 AM
1	Anyone notice (from a RP perspective) the dynamic between Ronald and Nancy Reagan? Okay, I googled Nancy Reagan Blowjob...and I retract what I said and stand corrected. Wow...had no idea!	/r/askTRP	09/03/16 12:50 AM
1	How can you get your girlfriend to wear makeup more often without verbally saying anything? Okay, I agree!	/r/askTRP	09/03/16 12:48 AM
2	Anyone notice (from a RP perspective) the dynamic between Ronald and Nancy Reagan? No. Have you read anything of substance about this couple? You are completely off base here.	/r/askTRP	08/03/16 12:44 PM
1	Good Places to acquire plates? Cost Plus	/r/askTRP	08/03/16 12:37 PM
5	How can you get your girlfriend to wear makeup more often without verbally saying anything? Anyone can look better with makeup, even guys. Male actors and television personalities all wear makeup to look better when they want to...but would you argue that men should use "lots of makeup?"	/r/askTRP	08/03/16 12:30 PM
1	MGTOW, you're going to love what just happened to me(not really, you'll rage, like I am.) This SO did not happen.	/r/MGTOW	22/02/16 01:02 PM
1	Kesha swore under oath in 2011 deposition that Dr. Luke did not sexually abuse her Who is Kesha? Who is Dr. Luke? This is like standing at the grocery check out counter line and looking at the magazine covers...I have no idea who any of these people are...and why should I care?	/r/MensRights	21/02/16 02:48 PM
4	To have another child or not? hamster...hamster...hamster...	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/02/16 03:16 PM
5	What's the most Machiavellian way to deal with broken girls? Just leave her alone dude. Avoid the crazy and keep your life simple(r).	/r/askTRP	16/02/16 03:35 PM
1	What are the pillars that make up a successful life? Take a look at the 4 Agreements. I first learned about them from a hippie chick so I thought it was just Woo and ignored them...then 10 or so years came across them and it has really improved my life. Be sincere and truthful with your word. Make no assumptions Always do your best Don't take anything personally. There is a book by this name...and lots of websites.	/r/askTRP	23/11/15 12:54 AM
1	TRPers: What do you like about women that is not sexual? They smell good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/15 04:58 PM
1	What are some simple, to the points tips you could give to someone who is trying to be more masculine? Don't grow a beard....that is just window dressing. Lift Weights. You will increase your testosterone and confidence.	/r/askTRP	05/07/15 01:15 PM
10	Since people are becoming fattys. How do you think this will affect the dating market? It will cost more to take a girl out for dinner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/15 01:34 AM
1	TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this? Live a little...once is okay! They are fun until the crazy gets to be too much. And you never forget them!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/15 01:52 PM
-1	Scientist Bill Nye Buying Feminist Bulls**t: "50% of the people are women, so 50% of the scientists ougt to be women." Bill Nye is a player...he's just in it for the chicks!	/r/MensRights	13/04/15 01:13 PM
2	Teach me how to use my anger to improve Lift. Use that energy in the gym...it is a perfect win-win.	/r/becomeaman	06/04/15 12:27 PM
1	Two ears and one mouth for a reason: listen twice as much as you speak. (Some advice please?) Your mother is wrong. You have two ears for identifying the direction that sounds come from. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binaural_fusion	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/15 12:43 PM
1	You probably could've Or she could've been a complete nut job and not talking to her was the best thing you've ever done.	/r/seduction	12/03/15 11:35 AM
1	What was a totally beta move you made that you thought would impress a girl that backfired in your pre RP days? Offering to just cuddle without "trying anything." Never worked...not even once.	/r/askTRP	02/03/15 01:04 PM
1	Is TRP really about gaining power over others? I think we are saying the same thing. I don't think women are inherently inferior...men and women simply evolved to have different traits and skill sets. I do not know if there is an official TRP Canon...if there is I have not seen it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/15 02:55 PM
10	Is TRP really about gaining power over others? Middle aged male here. For me, TRP is about gaining power over myself and maintaining my power while interacting with others. Sometimes I am a benevolent dictator, sometimes I am firm and unyielding, sometimes I bend in the wind as I see the situation dictates...but my power is never given away. If others see maintenance of my power as trying to "get the upper hand" over them, that is their interpretation and not my intention. There is a huge percentage of our population (USA) who do not know wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/15 04:36 PM
1	I HELD A DOOR OPEN SO I AM A SEXIST WTF I was once chastised in SF for holding the door open for a woman. She remarked, "What, do I not look capable of opening the door?" My Blue Pill self at the time did not think to shut the door on her as she was walking through.	/r/MGTOW	16/12/14 02:37 AM
1	Please explain to me what frame is. I am not the OP...however, point taken!	/r/askTRP	10/09/14 03:54 PM
-1	Please explain to me what frame is. Explain to me why you are a dick. We were all new here once. Asshole!	/r/askTRP	10/09/14 02:12 PM
1	Beta head trash took me by surprise. Damn! No, never did.	/r/askTRP	25/04/14 05:41 PM