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I always pay. If they object twice, I’ll let them pay.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 04:03 AM
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I get it. I bought her a coffee while I was getting one. We were at the pumpkin patch with the kids. I handed it to her and I said I got you this platonically. She rolled her eyes. It only matters if you think it does, Id buy anyone a coffee. Im sure youd cook me eggs too bro
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/25 01:11 AM
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Unless you’re looking for something specific out of the divorce, bringing up infidelity is pointless
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 09:29 PM
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Women vs accountability episode 3928462936452836
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 01:10 AM
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This is so true. One of my exs close friends is having her husband‘s baby so that both of her children have the same baby daddy before she divorces him. The fact that I know that and I’m not even close to them is disgusting. Life has taught me to stay out of peoples business, but if I did know him, I would say something
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 04:51 AM
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Damn I lived that moment too. I could tell the therapist was on my side. I remember how it felt that I could do nothing right, and everything was my fault and when it’s her fault, it’s my fault for creating the conditions that led to her mistake although she would never call it that. She would be passive aggressive and poke at me until I blew up and then highlight how I reacted. You can’t fix a relationship with somebody like that. Contempt, lack of accountability, and a level of dishonesty and …
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 02:34 AM
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Cant do it. Too much of a liability and it’s gonna screw you in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 02:54 AM
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When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 02:50 AM
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Too much of a man to accept help, moving everything in myself up 3 flights of stairs
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/25 11:36 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I can’t imagine the timing and abruptness of it. Im sorry your marriage has ended here. We’re here if we can possibly offer advice or insight from his perspective
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 01:24 PM
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First thing to remember is that women are always looking for a reaction. I dated a girl once that would try joking about my size every now and then I would just ram it down her throat a little harder next time. It’s just talk.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 01:49 PM
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Dogs don’t have boobs
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 12:59 AM
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Thanks for sharing. It reminds me of the time I put icy hot on my dick
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 05:31 PM
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You’re not alone. I felt the same way for the last year, stuck in a loveless sexless marriage. Neither one of us wanted to face it because we have two young kids, but I reached my breaking point at the beginning of the year and I told her I’m done. It was hell to go through and ended up deciding to give it one more shot because of the boys. Things were great for about a week. I admit, I dragged my feet and focused on myself waiting for her to come around and eventually she did in July. We passed…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 12:55 AM
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She’s gone, my man. Whether there’s somebody else or not, it’s over. If you go snooping just be careful. Don’t go looking for snakes if you don’t wanna find one. Personally, I have to know, consequences be damned. That’s how I’ve caught emotional/physical cheating in the past. Women don’t tell you this shit but they will gaslight you into thinking you’re a terrible person for not doing XYZ.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 03:07 PM
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Your wife has shown you who she is. If it wasn’t him, would have been somebody else. It may be tough to hear, but you’ll eventually get to a place where you’ll be grateful that he came along.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 06:35 PM
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This is it right here. I’ve planned to do the same. You owe it to your children.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 06:33 PM
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Divorced women
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 04:43 AM
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I'm in a somewhat similar situation, going through a divorce and we had all our finances tied. The sooner you can separate money the better. I would deposit 100% of your money into your own account. If you can, I know it gets a little tricky with bills. Luckily mine is amicable, but I know how messy it can get really quick. I'm sorry you're going through this. Consider contacting a divorce attorney for a free consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 01:55 PM
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Whenever I find it Im going to sell it back to the same jeweler. Should pay for a boneless couch for the single dad apartment
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/25 01:54 AM
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We're getting divorced after six years, our boys are five and two. I understand the timeline. We've been on the rocks for the last few years Covid and kids wrecked us. I was blamed for so long for everything and then when I started seeing a psychiatrist and got my meds sorted out, she couldn't stop hating me for all of our previous arguments. I also started to see that she was a huge part of the issue because she had a shitty attitude and gaslight me and blamed me for everything, she could never…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 03:57 AM
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Just my two cents, but I think what we're touching on here is the algorithms responding to the user. Trash in, trash out. My STBXW doesn't like TikTok nearly as much as me, but she would listen to all those relationship podcasts and she's surrounded by divorced women so she had enough of an echo chamber to support her
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/25 06:28 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. You desperately need a free consultation with a local divorced attorney. Think of all the divorce attorneys in the area, you can talk to them for free one time.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 01:13 PM
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🤣
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 01:02 AM
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Divorce can be decided for you. Im sorry. Im separated, in VA we have to wait a year. Lucky for me it's mutual
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 04:58 PM
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My ex wife did the same. She was an absolute smoke show when I fell in love with her. We had 2 kids and her attitude of not giving a shit about what she eats or working out regularly caught up with her as she gained weight. I always felt so guilty about losing attraction to her, I never said anything to her about it. I used to look at her every day and I would think how lucky I was. Now I look at her and I just think, who are you? I never mentioned it to her because it felt cruel although I know…
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 05:16 AM
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Yeah sounds like a dead-end. Fwiw lamictal was a game changer for me. I hope she gets the help she needs, if not for herself then for her child.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 01:26 PM
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Yeah that's tough, that would probably seal it for me. Im sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 05:02 AM
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Resonates with me. 38 and that sounds very similar to my marriage that just ended. Ups and downs make it really hard to feel more confident about the decision. For what it's worth, I would lose my shit a lot after the first kid. Now Im on a few psych meds and I dont remember the last time I had to patch a wall. She may need some help.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 02:29 AM
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Have you tried couples counseling? She sounds avoidant, counseling can help bridge the communication barrier if she's willing to be vulnerable.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 02:24 AM
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