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You guys are using really bad examples, drugs and video games. Anyway, I agree that “chasing” gets old after a while and the amount of effort I’m willing to put in for pussy is way lower than before (ain’t nobody got time for that), I flake on girls when I don’t feel like meeting, leave them on read if things don’t go smoothly etc. The mindset that “if it happens, it happens”. And it still does. Anyway, OP was hinting at marriage, kids etc, leaving strange pussy behind… forever.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 03:50 PM
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You’re forgetting one thing. Sex itself is really really really fun. It’s not about proving you can get laid after a while (if it ever was).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah, you guys didn’t understand a thing from what I said. They may get girls, but it’s not the same primal attraction that good looking guys experience. Primal attraction happens in a split second, it’s not “won” with personality or game lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 05:22 PM
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Thing is… cope all you want, but all the game in the world won’t make you experience the primal attraction a woman would have for you if you were good looking. Most guys know this, that’s why they complain. It doesn’t help them, but it’s understandable.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/23 10:12 PM
1

80kg @ 10% is probably a good estimation. +- depending on your body type
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 05:09 PM
22

My first thought when seeing the post was: “this mf just used dancingbear as a real life example”
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 05:07 PM
9

Of pathetic men. But they don’t want the pathetic men. And whatever you say, even if they still get attention after the wall, the quality and the number of men drastically decreases. This happens even to the hottest ones, moreso to the average Karens.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 05:09 AM
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A man who fucks an ugly girl (5s and below) is not top 10% period. Even if he’s got everything to be in the top 10%, mentally he’s not.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 05:06 AM
3

It works like with every other addiction
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:00 PM
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This. OP is on point with mostly everything, except the fact that this lifestyle gets old really quick. For me it’s been fun doing it for like 2 years before the 2020 pandemic, after which I just wasn’t in the mood anymore for those kind of numbers. Neglected a lot of things during that period, hobbies, friends, self-improvement. And I didn’t even have OP’s numbers, it was more like 30 per year. But talking about hoarding pussy, at some point I was constantly seeing 8 girls at the same time (FWB…
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:45 PM
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It’s true that chasing pussy impairs your determination and productivity. Securing a few FWBs is the way to have both and it’s definitely doable if you look above average. I found out that lack of pussy can mess up your focus too.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 06:11 PM
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The sad part is that there is no such thing as a Vietnamese girl above 7 lol So the 7/10 are 10/10 in their country and will still be in the 10% locally. Colombia is a better example, as well as some other countries from South America. Eastern Europe and Southern Europe as well. And that’s pretty much it.
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:11 PM
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True to some extent, but in the end it’s still easier for an average girl to get sex than to a very attractive guy.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:40 AM
0

For women, relationships are way harder to get than sex. If she had sex with you, chances are that in her mind she also considered you for a potential relationship. That’s not true for most men that can get sex, men may want to have sex with a lot of women, but would only consider very few of them for an actual relationship. Women can be confusing to men when it comes to sex and men can be confusing to women when it comes to relationships. But once you understand the reasons above, it all makes …
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:30 AM
7

Damn, this hit too close to home. Using your dick and sexual energy to bring random sluts to other realms is the only experience that makes you feel like meeting God. Add some drugs in the mix and you can meet the devil as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 04:42 PM
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Popular instagram girls are like tourist traps. There will always be a restaurant that’s cheaper, not as crowded and as good as the tourist trap, you just have to look for it, as it’s not advertised.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:14 PM
9

Brah, you really swallowed the simp pill right there
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:05 PM
28

In all honesty though, Scottie Pippen was just a goofy guy who happened to be very good at basketball. There are plenty of better examples of high value guys getting cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:06 PM
5

That and “say yes to anything” territory.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 08:38 PM
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Your whole advice just communicates that you’re ok with her wasting your time. “Let me know if anything comes up” is basically inviting her to come up with an excuse. OP’s method is better because it holds frame, you change the time on your own terms while finding out if that lukewarm girl is really down to hang out.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 07:14 PM
3

Based
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:55 PM
9

Nice. But in the end it all comes to this: we have limited free time and so many things to do and there are so many girls that it’s just stupid to waste too much on a single one.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 01:38 PM
28

This. Everything other than a hell yes should be time better spent on other things.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 12:59 PM
1

Quality advice that can be applied in all areas of life. Doubting yourself and self-sabotaging are probably the most frequent causes of failure. Now, to put all this advice into practice is the tough part… our mind’s our biggest enemy.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 04:00 PM
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You expect too much from the app, it’s complete strangers behind the phone… The conversion rate of matches to dates will make you question if it’s worth it. That said, I’ve had over 100 dates since mid 2019 and probably only talked with like 25% of my matches. It’s a numbers game and it tires you real quick, so I had to take several breaks from it and just spend time with existing FWBs. But yes, it used to be better before the pandemic and significantly better like 5-6 years ago from what I’ve h…
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:14 PM
9

Stay? Wtf. No decent guy with half a brain would even touch or swipe right on that hambeast. Even if I would become insanely ugly overnight or end up in a wheelchair I still wouldn’t want her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 10:14 PM
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This is as accurate as it gets. A guy can be interested in fucking a girl 1-2-3 points below him, especially if it’s with little effort. Sometimes even keep her as a fwb if she fucks good and acts right. But the girls somehow trick themselves into thinking they can keep one of these guys for good, though they really can’t. Why would a smart, funny good-looking cool guy settle for you, bitch? “If it feels too good to be true, it probably is…”
/r/TheRedPill16/02/22 07:05 PM
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The sky is blue, water is wet
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 07:49 AM
11

This post feels raw and real, nice. There is no greater feeling than being content with yourself and life, it’s almost like a high. Wish it’d happen more often to me, but hey, that’s the goal.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 10:10 PM
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That depends. They would secretly fuck the plumber if he was jacked, handsome and had game. They would even help him financially using the billionaire bf’s money.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 05:29 PM
7

4D simp chess
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:13 PM
2

Pretty good vid, but this is nothing new at this point.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 11:03 PM
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The best of the ONS are really really fun and full of adrenaline. But you’re basically gambling your time and effort for some potentially very unsatisfying starfish sex. That said, a great fwb relationship can still lose its charm after a while. So, do a healthy mix of both.
/r/seduction16/12/21 11:39 AM
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Yeah, I get it, I also give the girls my insta instead of asking for theirs, it shows value. If she follows through, great, if she doesn’t, no big deal. But unless you’re semi-famous, it doesn’t bring THAT much value. Like you said, it’s much more in your attitude/how you present yourself rather than your profile…
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:42 PM
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This. If she’s interested, there’s a 90% chance you’ll get the phone number. The other 10% of girls will be uncomfortable doing that. But at least you know where you stand. If you get her insta, it doesn’t mean much…
/r/seduction11/12/21 01:39 PM
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Eh, it’s ok to have in order to post some cool stories or pics of yourself, but it’s very easy to go into cringe needy territory. Also, getting a girl’s number instead of her insta shows a much higher interest from her and I always had a lower flake rate with this approach. Plus, it leaves an air of mystery and shows that you don’t care. Of course, some may think it’s strange. It’s polarizing, but honestly, I prefer 2 high interest girls than 10 that are lukewarm.
/r/seduction11/12/21 01:33 PM
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“Real alphas”. There’s a lot of room on the scale between 100% beta and 100% alpha. Keep coping.
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:54 PM
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True, unfortunately very few women are fuckable after 40, so it’s a low supply high demand situation.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:10 PM
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It sounds misogynistic only because of your white knight perception. Didn’t say men are not equally lame at flirting, they probably are. You just don’t need to force stale conversations, that’s it. Leave the bores connect with eachother by talking about the weather, or work, or other normie shit.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:59 PM
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These guys are coping hard. Their little beta hearts cannot even imagine something like that happening. I actually feel bad for them.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:36 PM
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I cringed at “the one girl for you will come”. Yeah, and you won’t know how to handle her.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:48 PM
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9 out of 10 women are boring though and don’t know how to flirt. It’s a two way street. Stop being a jester and trying to impress everyone.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:41 PM
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This. Giving a girl too much attention can hurt your chances more than not giving her enough.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 08:00 PM
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So there's no "game" My profile is good bro, I've gotten a lot of dates and lays from Tinder/Bumble, that at certain times I had to take breaks from it because it was either exhausting or just not exciting anymore. AND YET, I still feel that overall the fact that people call it a waste of time and energy is not too far from the truth. Yeah, some amazing experiences, some hot and fun chicks, some stories to tell. But the flakes, the attention seekers, the mind-numbingly boring ones, the ones who …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 03:47 PM
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Give us some examples of how to play the Tinder game properly, what worked for you. Because most of the time I see guys advising to put in more "effort", their example of effort is just some sort of simping or some cringefest PUA opening lines. I'm genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 11:10 AM
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Some girls need more than a few messages to be comfortable enough to go out with somebody. However, the attention seekers ruin it for everybody, so it's pretty safe to just apply the rule above. I don't know if it's just happening to me or just in my country, but I feel that lately there's been an epidemic of attention seeking whores on dating apps. And I'm talking about girls who write first, who clearly show a lot of interest, then give a bullshit excuse when it's time to meet. I guess their a…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 10:55 AM
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This gotta be satire. It was pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/21 08:21 AM
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A lot of people would be needed in order to move the price on even the shittiest of the shitcoins Trust isn’t really the biggest issue here, you could start with small bets if paranoid. #1 is the tough one: gathering lots of people to dump your pre-bought coins on Plus, it would have to be super organized: well maintained Discord channel, scripts to take care of lots of stuff, advertising, privacy/secrecy. And somebody knowledgeable in discord/crypto to lead this. It sounds like a lot of effort …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 04:51 PM
1

PnD would be amazing. Pretty tough to organize from scratch though.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 04:09 PM
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Vacations? Brah...
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:00 PM
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10/10? Doubt. You guys need to be more conservative with your ratings.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:14 PM
1

100% this
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:24 PM
1

Ignoring stings more than blocking tho, that’s what I’m saying.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 05:11 PM
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But it’s even better to just ignore her message. That way, you can show yourself that your frame is solid and you were able to avoid being tempted into more bullshit without taking the easy way out (blocking).
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 02:57 PM
1

She forgot about step 3.5. “Nah bitch”, pulling out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 10:51 AM
0

Indeed. A fantasy for edgy wannabe badboys to indulge in. Even Narcos has more realistic characters and they’re still hardly believable.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:14 PM
2

Yeah, but the show is overall exaggerated and cringe as fuck. Wannabe edgy shit for teenagers. Watch The Wire, Mad Men or Sopranos instead. Poor man’s Boardwalk Empire
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:10 PM
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Good job on not getting defensive to a stranger on the internet busting your balls (no homo). Good frame bro. /s ->I think it’s needed
/r/askTRP11/12/20 01:50 PM
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For somebody who was diagnosed with NPD, but became very functional after therapy, this post came as a reality check. So thanks for that, I need to go back and reflect on some things I thought I got fixed. As for narcissistic women or simply just women with fragile egos (most of them), they may like that personality in a guy in the beginning, but eventually they’ll try to quit while they still feel they’re ahead. Or try to end it like they’ve won the “game”, as they can’t cope with a loss. A goo…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 09:28 PM
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It’s because: There are way more men than women on these apps Most men are thirsty coomers who would compliment even the most rancid piece of pussy
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 11:10 PM
1

Underrated comment. Should be pinned somewhere.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:59 PM
2

100% this. Chasing pussy to fill some kind of void in your life can easily become exactly like a drug, alcohol or gambling addiction. Same mechanism.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:52 PM
2

You’re a major simp, bro. You need so much advice that that you’d be better off by starting to go through the resources in the sidebar. But for now, yeah, stop contacting her and ignore her if she contacts you.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:20 PM
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I'm only 13 but my mind is old And when the things get for real my warm heart turns cold Another pussy gets slayed, another story gets told It ain't nothing really, ayo dun, spark the Phillie
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:06 PM
1

You like eating pussy?
/r/askTRP26/11/20 05:01 PM
1

It is not an oxymoron at all. Most things in the universe are average and as you get closer to the extremes, they get rarer. So, it's only natural.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:59 PM
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Great post, especially the last paragraph. You might feel like meeting with lower SMV chicks just for the sake of abundance, to bump up your numbers, or worse, because you're feeling bored. This is ok and will actually help you improve your game and sex skills if you're a novice, but after you get the hang of it, stop. This is the signal that you have to start being selective, you'll know when it happens. Otherwise you'll become like a drunk that will basically drink anything, just to get his fi…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 07:48 PM
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Same. Most long posts feel very tldr to me, but the fact that I read this all without even thinking that and proceeded to click the link and finish reading it means there's a lot of quality information, albeit repetitive in places. Keep 'em coming.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 07:36 PM
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Wrong. There are women who like to chase.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:09 PM
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+1 on the Myth of Sisyphus, the most singular book when it comes to existential matters
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:29 AM
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"Good". You mean Godly.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:18 PM
1

Gotta be honest, I LOLed, nice trolling. Give me her number, I'll talk her out of it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:15 PM
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You done goofed. Gold doesn't boost you at the top of the stack, but having a new profile does (for like the first 3 days). Gold just offers some perks, like no daily swipe limit, passport, and seeing who already swiped right on you etc.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:12 PM
1

Spot on. It's either that, or "arrogant".
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:05 PM
1

Right back at you
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:54 PM
2

Mad Men, already mentioned multiple times here. And as far as I remember, Sergio Leone westerns, even though they don't have the "women aspect" in them too much, which is probably a good thing. I'm talking about the Clint Eastwood ones (A Fistful of Dollars; For a Few Dollars More;The Good, the Bad and the Ugly) and Once Upon a Time in the West.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:53 PM
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Can confirm lol
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:11 PM
2

Reminder for everybody to make sure they have trp.red bookmarked when this subreddit goes down for good.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 03:47 PM
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Point #3 is not stressed enough around here. After you get a taste of success for a few weeks/months in a row, suddenly going through a rough phase of one week or more will seriously mess you up if you're not mentally strong. And then you'll start looking for that rush in other places... it's basically an addiction like any other.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:55 AM
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You kinda messed up the "experiment" when you decided to swipe right on everybody. Girls don't really do this. Even I, as a guy, would feel a bit nauseous swiping on ugly girls and matching... But the rest is pretty common knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 04:38 PM
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Nice. Reads like a passage from a postmodern novel. Which is what the world has really become and will continue to do so in an exaggerated and accelerated way, until we won't be able to tell truth from lies/fabricated/just perception.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 04:33 PM
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Wrote this shit down, not gonna lie. Gonna add this mf in my vocabulary.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 09:04 PM
4

Same. I drink a shitload of milk and this might be a bummer if true.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 07:14 PM
13

Stop responding quickly, best if she asks you a question, that's the perfect time to go dead and DONT open her message. She will see that you didn't open it. Over the next couple days make sure toq post a couple stories of you out with friends, especially girls, having a great time. I promise, it's like clockwork, the first couple stories she will be the first to view. Then she will try dread gaming you by not viewing any of them. Good guide, but going out of your way to impress some specific gi…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 03:42 PM
3

Fuck, l’esprit de l’escalier is so real it hurts. When the perfect witty answer hits you long overdue, it feels even worse than if you never thought of it.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:30 AM
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Well, it’s not as bad as in the US/UK etc, but the influence of western culture, and especially social media is quickly getting to them. Prague isn’t the porn capital of Europe for no reason. Point to take here: I can’t imagine what complete disasters your countries are if you’re considering Eastern Europe to be this heaven filled with innocent angels. I’ve been to a few countries, with the UK being the worst in terms of women, but I’d say there’s not that big of a difference as you imagine to b…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:00 PM
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Eastern Europe here, can confirm we’re not US level yet, but we’re on our way, don’t worry...
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:45 AM
2

The fundamentals don't change, play it the same way.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:30 PM
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The only correct answer. Sounds like you're too cocky, but now that you know how much she cares, you can tone it down a bit. You gotta give her some glimmer of hope, especially since it looks like she did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:07 PM
1

LMAO. They probably drank some Coronas ironically too.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:54 PM
1

A set of 10 or 15 kg adjustable dumbbells is like 50$, so you can get the plates from one and have a heavier dumbbell if needed. So, along with bodyweight exercises, you could add bicep curls, shrugs for the traps, dumbbell rows for your back and split squats... It's not optimal, it's very limited, it's not that gym feeling, but it at least keeps the hormones, mind and discipline in check. On the other hand, not doing any kind of exercise for at least another month? Ugh.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:47 PM
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Today, you hard nexted her. It's only hard nexting if you can keep it this way...
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:10 PM
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Nah, this shows weakness. Start spinning some plates and observe her behavior.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:04 PM
1

Cannot stress this enough. I know a few people that do this and it's really off-putting.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 05:56 PM
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LMAO, this. Shit is too fast paced now, it's very easy to get distracted with other stuff. Sure, they may feel a bit down and think about you for a few days, but the "I need to find out" part is just very wishful thinking on your side.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:06 AM
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Not only did he shit where he eats, he ate the shit too.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:39 AM
2

I'm guessing he was also probably busy studying...
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:50 PM
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Bro, based on the numbers you mentioned, the wall is not coming, it’s been 2-5 years since that already happened...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 01:42 PM
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Nice. This is like the sane version of the OP’s post.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 01:42 PM
1

Now's the best time to see how outcome independent you are and not desperate for pussy. Basically, do what you feel like doing and not give a fuck I guess, because the rules are a bit different during times like this. Personally, I would keep texting to a minimum or none, especially if you already built the tension, she will still remember that and you can pick it up from where you left off when this is all over.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:41 AM
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If she initiates, of course you can go back and forth a bit, but keep it short, you don't want to be penpals. If she doesn't, you could drop her a text once a in a blue moon and keep it short/clever/intriguing. Maybe tease her about something. That is, if your text game doesn't have a needy vibe. If you're afraid of appearing needy, then it's probably best to wait it out.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:18 AM
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Think of it as your mission, there certainly must be some sense of pride in doing what you're doing. And get your motivation by thinking how inspiring it would be to step up to this challenge vs. giving up. Not to mention that you'll feel better prepared to tackle most obstacles that will come in your future, they'll seem like pieces of cake.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:59 AM
0

Fitting username.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:44 AM
2

Great writing style. I just discovered this and going to read all of the posts at some point. Anything else similar to this blog?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 09:38 PM
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Not that good for fighting...
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 08:55 PM
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The most accurate response in this thread.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:36 PM
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I'm not talking about getting rejected, I'm talking about not actually going for the kiss on the 1st date. Plenty of reasons for that, although you should rarely do it (I'm mainly thinking coffee dates, dates in the middle of the day etc.).
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:30 PM
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This shit is too high school style in my opinion. Depends on how you "pack" the post, but most decent girls will see right through it. But if you happen to be really young, go for it.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:29 PM
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I think a decent rule of thumb is you should go for the kiss on the 2nd date max and for sex on the 3rd date max. But this can differ depending on the vibe and context. It's important to read every situation differently, not follow rules like a robot. Either way, if you went for sex twice and got rejected, I'd move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:24 PM
0

"Ask" is not the right word though. Make them want you enough, then they don't mind you "taking" it.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:47 PM
3

This tbh. But I kinda feel bad for them, whenever a girl thinks she "snatched" me, I eventually get bored and I drop her. :(
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:45 PM
1

36.5 actually
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:51 PM
3

Haha, I'm actually starting to wonder if this is a legit concern with some of them. Met some shy/anxious girls.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 05:46 PM
3

What's the idea of telling them you're gonna text them at some point? Just schedule the date and leave it be, respond if they message you in the meantime or continue the previous conversation if you feel like it. Either way, that's an overreaction on her part and you don't need to stress too much over it. I'm also not a fan of too much texting, but I try to calibrate the asking out part just when the conversation is going into the right direction. If I get the know you better shit test, generall…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:28 PM
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Specifically for older women? Links please, made me curious.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:27 PM
2

This is 100% accurate shit right here. I can confirm there's a correlation between watching too much porn and not being able to enjoy or even get a proper erection when with a girl. Happened 2 or 3 times to me too, exactly after periods of watching too much porn. So it's a combination of both physical and mental factors. But from not enjoying sex as much to reaching that level of cuckoldry... damn, you'd have to be mentally pathetic.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:02 PM
2

Fuck her one more time and send the pics to the other guy. Then block her out of your life. Imagine if the other guy would do the same, it would be LOL and her head would explode from not knowing for sure why. But this is too much involvement, idealization etc. So, just straight out block her out of your life.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:17 PM
1

This is a bit odd when it happens the other way around. I've had good reactions from girls, but I also had this: was in a club with some friends and a plate, and this cute chick with a kinky look on her face touched my face while passing through us. The plate looked at me and shrugged it off. We fucked that night, but the next day we had a lame discussion and things between us really cooled off. We haven't met since.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 05:59 PM
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Makes sense. Gonna do that, the shitty thing is I only have one other plate atm, down from 4 last month. Working on that. I'm also quite vengeful due to my NPD, and this hurt my ego a bit. Will try to push away these thoughts, last time I got attached, I ended up in a 5y relationship and she ended up on meds.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:25 AM
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That's what I was looking for, thanks. Didn't really consider hard nexting, just saw some people suggesting this in similar threads, savage unnecessary stuff. 3 months, short time. I didn't intend to consider her for LTR, but she confused me with her actions. I can't be the only one thinking that was confusing.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 05:34 PM
1

Yes, it's pretty clear. But she had odd behavior. Usually girls don't do that shit when they want to keep it casual. I know for sure I don't do it. More interested in the next action in cases like this.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:30 PM
1

dessicator lol
/r/askTRP07/06/19 04:40 PM
2

In this kind of situation, when lacking a quick good response, I found out that laughing or shrugging your shoulders with a grin on your face works pretty damn good.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:43 PM
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What makes you think it's a good idea to tell her? Don't mention it. I assume you didn't use a condom the first time, so you better come up with a good reason for using one now, otherwise it will just look very suspicious. Anyway, better to not fuck than spread it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 02:37 PM
2

This. Have your fun with her and look elsewhere for a LTR.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 12:34 PM
1

Yeah, happened 2 or 3 times for me too. The last time, recently, I was with this new girl and we were both really really into eachother. However, we had a couple of glasses of wine which I suspect was the cause and I even had the damn flu so I could hardly breathe. We laughed it off when initially I didn't get hard, but I managed to gave her a decent fuck after all. Choking, slapping and hair pulling helped when I wanted to waste time while trying to get hard again haha. I should definitely quit…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:10 PM
2

This. I used to "withhold interest" all the time in the past and it was definitely due to a lack of confidence. To be honest, I couldn't just try and do it, had to improve all other aspects in my life, as I also had some general anxiety at that time. In retrospect, cockblocking yourself like this is the dumbest thing, as it's rarer for a woman to blatantly show interest first.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:34 PM
1

Already doing that. The issue is with the ones that are interested, but back out when asked for the actual hangout.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:38 PM
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In the elevator, I started regretting not responding to her “about to go shower” with a “What a coincidence! I’m about to go shower too, we should save some water and shower together”. There's a term for this, happens all the time: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L%27esprit_de_l%27escalier But yeah, it was a good moment and you should've at least suggested a drink or something.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:04 AM
1

Creed Aventus is my favorite perfume too, but there's no need for that, given the price. Better go with decently priced designer brands, but try to avoid the 5-10 most popular perfumes, as you'll end up smelling like every other chump.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 05:52 PM
2

Bill Burr or Patrice O'Neal standups. Partially RP.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:17 PM
1

That just sounds really strange to me, I was thinking more like not RP enough, lol, as I just read some advice a really long time ago.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:46 PM
1

Except she was hitting on me and I just reacted.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:44 PM
2

I'm also curious about this. In some cases I'm well aware that I am not that distant and she's just pushing for more attention/affection to see if I crack, but sometimes I can't tell if I am indeed too cold/uninterested and might scare her off if I don't tone it down. I tend to naturally be like that, so it's hard to tell.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:16 PM
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