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| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.They aren't starting any movement. They are just going to breed themselves out to a stronger intellect of male. They're undesirable AND motivated to hurl their bad combo of genes out of the gene pool??!? FOR FREE!?!? Sounds like a problem that will solve itself. Women 3 to 7 generations from now will have to read about incels in history books because not many of them will have a fuckton of descendants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.Spoken like a true "former" incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 77 | Woman (19F) is dumped by her BF (19), who "wanted space to figure out if he loved her". She immediately texts & kisses another guy 2 days later. BF comes crawling back, is desperate to "get the love of his life back". LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!His post is a HOT MESS, but it's filled with FDS gold, affirmed by a male dumper, straight from the horse's mouth. When a woman is dumped, a VERY effective way to make the ex regret it, and come crawling back, is to literally move on ASAP and not give a single fuck. This chick waited 2 days. 2 DAYS! She's single, after all. Look how fast he dropped his ego and his "idk if I love her or if I was just lonely" bullshit. That bullshit went away REALLY quickly the SECOND she introduced male competiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:32 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Stop going on PPD. You have nothing to gainI agree, 100% with this. Sometimes I'm "clickbaited" into fighting over there and dismantling their stupid redpilled views, and I'm disgusted by what I see. It has turned me off of Reddit. But I'm curious AF, unfortunately. I try to be aware of what men are saying out there, and what strategies and tactics they are using on women so I CAN SPOT AND AVOID THEM, and learn red flags. i also happen to go there to pre-emptively block motherfuckers so I don't get to see their bullshit all over my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | What are the signs of a gold digging man or a LVM who is trying to marry up ?Actively seeking out pickmeishas. Attitudes that align with the red pill and incel ideology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:08 AM |
| 7 | Being single for years doesn’t mean you’re unlovable or less worthyThe happiest I ever thought I was, was with my ex who paid for everything, including my housing, so I was free to accumulate a fuckton of money. It wasn't until this year that I discovered that I really loved the money and the things he gave me and not him. I'm fucked up, I know. I got a raise at work that essentially paid me what he used to cover and my standard of living is now essentially the same, except I have less chores to do, now, and I get to meet new men and go on exciting dates (bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:03 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who play Animal Crossing...LOL!!! I legitimately lawled! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:58 AM |
| 2 | If these #NotAllMen types were genuine, they would attack the MRA/MGTOW/Incel/Pro-Male/Etc. subs instead of harassing feminist subs with their gaslighting tactics. But they do not want to stop toxic masculinity - they just want to stop us from talking about toxic masculinity!Yup. I have a lot of male friends and this has been the majority of my adult life. I don’t invest as much in those friendships because you don’t get much back. I just finished cutting off 1 male "friendship" and slowly fading and ghosting another male "friendship". I'm doubling down on my female relationships too. The problem I'm finding is that friendships with Pickmeishas are just as lousy as friendships with men. So I'm doing a bit of "spring cleaning" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:35 AM |
| 10 | If these #NotAllMen types were genuine, they would attack the MRA/MGTOW/Incel/Pro-Male/Etc. subs instead of harassing feminist subs with their gaslighting tactics. But they do not want to stop toxic masculinity - they just want to stop us from talking about toxic masculinity!They also don't do the work of maintaining their friendships. All those years of dodging, ducking, dipping, diving, and dodging calls/texts/offers to hang out with their male and female friends leave them alone and lonely. I've personally witnessed an uncle of mine who's now complaining that nobody's hitting him up during quarantine and nobody's answering his calls. Dude, that's because you didn't make any effort to call folks back, to initiate or sustain friendships, and you only responded to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | If these #NotAllMen types were genuine, they would attack the MRA/MGTOW/Incel/Pro-Male/Etc. subs instead of harassing feminist subs with their gaslighting tactics. But they do not want to stop toxic masculinity - they just want to stop us from talking about toxic masculinity!Sis they barely even call or text each other back. Male friendships are very very razor thin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | This gave me a good chuckleLol!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 31 | Unironically."Don't neglect that posture. 17 hours of video games / day can produce quite the hunch." "TOOTHBRUSH, MOTHERFUCKER. DO YOU USE IT?!?!?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 06:44 PM |
| 177 | If these #NotAllMen types were genuine, they would attack the MRA/MGTOW/Incel/Pro-Male/Etc. subs instead of harassing feminist subs with their gaslighting tactics. But they do not want to stop toxic masculinity - they just want to stop us from talking about toxic masculinity!That's because they typically ONLY care about men, men's rights, and how men are perceived when this position/argument serves as a distraction from women's rights and women's issues. It's like those men who complain about "International women's day" (March 8) saying shit like "Why is there no international men's day?", and you kindly remind them that there IS an "international men's day", and it's on Nov. 19th. They didn't know that because they didn't care about "international men's day" or "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 06:40 PM |
| 11 | We are lonelier then ever because everyone is disposableI've gone on a dates where a purposely pick a guy who is 5/10, in hopes he won't be some sort of Chad. And these men, somehow, do think they are Chad! DING DING DING DING! The men on TRP and on this subreddit (and incels) will lead you to believe that less attractive men are magically more generous, kind, sweet, humble, romantic, committed, caring, etc. etc. etc, than hot men. You've just discovered what most women already know. That unattractive men are just as entitled, just as ghosty, just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?How would such a woman feel comfortable with a chaste man? bored. Why do ya'll assume "chaste men" are some sort of coveted prize?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?Yep. Women who've slept around know what men are doing, and they know what they're doing. They'll spot male bullshit within MINUTES and nip it in the bud quickly. There's a commentor above who says "if you went around and got lied to, cheated on, and manipulated while young, I don't need your trust issues". That just seems like he's saying "i don't want a woman who knows how to spot red flags and respond to them appropriately. I want to be able to lie, manipulate, and cheat on a naive person i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | If you have had sex with a lot of women, and have a high body count, why is it a turn off for you when your potential partner has a high body count as well?I’m not pursuing shit. Men of all ages throw themselves at me and I allow the younger ones in. Why are you checking hoefax?? Creepy AF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Women attracted to younger guys is more common than we realize, I feel many just don't act on it?Jason Momoa is a heart throb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?I can't believe I got click-baited into this but here I go. No, I don't agree with this. If you were to classify women using the narrow redpilled language,... then "beta-females" would be what FDS describes as "Pickmeishas". These are the desperate, needy, insecure women who initiate, pursue men, and agree to become bangmaids for men who offer little to no commitment in return. When dumped, they cling onto their dumper and continue to pursue and are often stuck on these men for years. These wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Women attracted to younger guys is more common than we realize, I feel many just don't act on it?My current FWB is a 23 year old personal trainer who used to be a lifeguard throughout his teens/ college life. I've been with him consistently for about a year now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Women attracted to younger guys is more common than we realize, I feel many just don't act on it?Is it basically only hair that is your criterion when you're comparing fit guys? Men under 20 look like teenagers to me, which is a turn off... idk. t's just a personal preference. They do make the hottest porn, though. I can usually tell when I'm watching amateur porn if a man is under 25, because when he cums, it's forceful, and it shoots out and flies across the room, and there's tons of it. I would never actually sleep with a guy under the age of 20 because a LOT of them lie about their ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Women attracted to younger guys is more common than we realize, I feel many just don't act on it?They're RARE, few and far-in between. They're mostly bald and fit, or very rarely fit and with a full head of hair. For a mid-30s guy on Tinder to be fit and still have a FULL head of hair, as in not thinning, balding, or close to it, is RARE. Like out of 10 "fit" guys, maybe 3 of them aren't bald or balding. In the 20 something men, up to like 27 or 28 there are a lot more "fit" men who aren't bald, balding, or have thinning hair. Like maybe 9 in 10 men in their 20s who are "fit" have a full … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 0 | If you have had sex with a lot of women, and have a high body count, why is it a turn off for you when your potential partner has a high body count as well?My "n count" is 8. With 2 of them being LTRs that lasted over 3 years. I was in a relationship for 10 years and I fucked that guy daily, at least 6 times / week on non-period weeks and gave spontaneous blowjobs on period weeks on a daily basis. I loved sex, he loved sex. It was a great match. I'm very very very good at sex. My exes loved it and I have a very high sex drive. IMHO, the women who love to fuck and suck and have wild sex lives are the ones with more body counts. Men who say they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Women attracted to younger guys is more common than we realize, I feel many just don't act on it?I'm in my mid 30s and 20 something men look waaaay way hotter than most men in their mid-30s who are balding and fat, lol I match with college men who are at the peak of their physical form and they're sexy as fuck but they are so freaking immature. OMG | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 3 | When someone is talking about traits they want in a partner, isn't "attractive to me" usually assumed to be one of those traits?Too many guys think that if they connect with a woman and there's sexual attraction there, that things will just flow along, but that's how you end up in the so called "friendzone". this is the WORST advice I've seen given to men. That if you're good looking enough, women will throw their vaginas at you. No. Just no. Most women with options won't escalate. They won't initiate. Either you're initiating and pursuing or someone else is. If she can attract one good looking guy... she can attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 12 | Coronavirus quarantine has proved the 80/20 rule of the casual sex marketMost women will have like 1 ONS max. A lot of what women describe as casual sex in public for reasons of bravado isn't Over 30 gal here. I've had one ONS and it was when I was 24 with a swedish male model. Lol never again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 10 | I start to think that There is actually no recipe for relationships. It’s more a matter of luck, hazard and good timing than anything else.Just like I saw average looking chicks in their 30’s and 40’s, that are single moms, with tattoos and a high n count landing decent looking high quality men. I swear to God, that’s what I noticed. The most promiscuous girl in my high school ended up marrying the best man and making the rest of us look like idiots. She has 4 kids now, is happily married, earned her MBA, and her husband just bought them all a new house and a new SUV to celebrate the new year. She got a new puppy for her birthday. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?I was brought up in a healthy household with both parents present. my father spoiled me and gave me everything I've ever wanted. my boyfriend's also spoil me and give me everything I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?A pretty, interesting chick isn’t going to bother hanging out with you if you’re not interesting yourself ding ding ding DING! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?Can confirm. The ones who make grandiose statements like that are horrid bores. There's a reason women don't attempt to keep the convo alive and look for a way to get outta there asap. He just doesn't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?then they make up sooo many bullshit reasons as to why women are literally the devil I see this a LOT. They sit there and wait for women to make the first move. They insist that women initiate romantic contact with men, if a man is good looking enough which is not the case in most situations. Most women never need to initiate contact, and beautiful women almost never initiate contact with men, ever. Idk where they even get their info about women. It's laughable to thumb through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?foaf I've never seen this term before. What is a "foaf?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?NGL, dude, but I just haven't seen it in my life. My friends who are single moms with kids have dudes lining up to date them and are rarely single themselves. It actually gives me a lot of hope. It's really not hard for most women who want to find love to actually find it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 11:57 PM |
| 15 | Why do these guys care so much about tinder? Why not just meet girls through their friends/acquaintances?Pretty women especially, become quite particular and deliberate in how they spend time and it quickly becomes a feedback loop where access to all of them is only for top level men. They aren't hanging around malls or intermural sports teams or discussion groups, they are hopping from venue to venue, insulated from the general public. and when out in public doing normal chores, avoidant of advances. This is ENTIRELY accurate, 100%. Most beautiful women are relentlessly pursued online and offlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 10 | Lordt.LOL!!!! r/SuicideByWords | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?I don’t care, there’s so many of them. So many! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?This. I don’t have to do shit except exist and look pretty and ... that’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personI doubt that. People have been telling me I'm going to end up unintentionally alone for the past 10 years and it hasn't happened yet. I don't think it'll ever happen for as long as there is internet on this planet. You are delusional if you think it will happen to me. I see what you're doing, though. I'd be bitter as fuck too if I were so irrelevant and replaceable and low-value in this world. Do you. Let it allllll out. bite,kick, scratch, write, scream, go your own way, and cry about it. It st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?Dont listen what women, watch what they do. it doesn't matter. There's a difference between the men who get dates, text backs, sex, and girlfriends and the ones who don't. There are too many higher quality guys out there who are willing to do the work of courting and being impressive to women for us. Not many women with options are going to ignore high quality guys for guys who offer the bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 10:40 PM |
| 13 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?level 2baldingeboyScore hidden·3 minutes ago ??? everything is locked down and we're in a straight up recession. you're telling every guy to get into the top 10% of wealth? like around 25%~ of this country lost their job recently. 35% of my country lives with their parents and no one can afford a house, let alone a car or monthly insurance payments. this is the minimum to find any sort of intimacy? this post is on crack I'm actually glad you mention this. A LOT of men seem to think that negging … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 10:20 PM |
| 19 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?I just checked mine... 61 new messages since I checked last night :/, about 38 new messages on OkCupid, and 15 on Facebook Dating but I haven't really been swiping or paying attention to it. I haven't paid for "match" and just deleted it after finding out women are required to pay in order to reply to messages and I'm not paying. This is all with minimal effort. Like I seriously only swipe for about 5 - 10 minutes a day Maaaaybe twice a week and I can go weeks without swiping or replying. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 37 | Back on the dating scene during trying times, help me decide if this man is a dud or a dime?I don't smoke or drink but he smokes weed, he has a decent job from what he tells me but always seems to have no money. His house was far from clean when I visited him, the vehicle he drives belongs to a family member, he doesn't have access to his car due to outstanding circumstances. He complains about having to use condoms during sex. Weed is expensive :/ If he has money for pot but not for his own car, his priorities are fucked up and as soon as he thinks he has you in the bag, he will dro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personAbsolutely nothing is wrong with me. I'm just pointing out the dating realities which exist out there for most women, ESPECIALLY the most beautiful women. It's not some high pressure job. The men I've been with have been tremendously happy and so have I. Having said that, I would NEVER EVER EVER date a man who didn't have those basic things I outlined in my list above, and I have legitimately left men who no longer had those items on the list because better men are out there and sorry. Again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personthere's ALWAYS a man willing to do the work. There's no shortage of those. Men who aren't willing to do the work don't ever get my time... So it's just a matter of "compatibility". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personI'm actually glad you brought this up because it's pretty important. Umm. Women aren't obligated to sleep with you. We aren't obligated to fuck you or any other man. We don't have to choose you, and most beautiful women know they've got options. The ones who don't yet know they have options figure it out quickly. I'm not going to sugar coat it. Most women have options. The most GORGEOUS women have even more options and men compete with each other for our time. Yes. MEN are competing with eac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 11 | Update on my last post: he was cheatingYou're just teaching him to hide his cheating better. You just gave him a head's up about how easy it is to catch his lies. He's going to go clean up his shit and be back and better at cheating. The next girl he fucks over will have a harder time catching his lies because you taught him where he fucked up. Become a ninja. Next time you experience something like this. QUIETLY screenshot his dating profile, then screenshot his "relationship status", then send her an anonymous email/google voice … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 21 | Which one should I follow? I like the advice on this sub and was wondering which of these posts would be more beneficial for me in the dating scene. Personally I'd feel bad if someone judged me on looks.There's a book called "the rules" and another one called "not your mother's rules". Read them both. This is the unfortunate reality of dealing with men. Each man has a physical "type". A look he's attracted to. MEN CANNOT GET OVER THIS. IT CONSUMES THEM IN THE WORLD OF DATING. THERE'S NO GOING AROUND IT. This is discussed in these books and it's unfortunately true. This is why it's never a good idea for a woman to initiate. If she's not his type, he will NEVER EVER EVER "change his mind". He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:08 AM |
| 12 | Just wow! Cut your losses sis. He dont want you!He is a piece of shit, and it's FANTASTIC for her that she's finding out that he is a true piece of shit NOW, before they've had kids. Better to find out now while she's able to ghost his ass than to find out 5 years later, 3 kids later, and all sorts of legal entanglements later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:46 AM |
| 9 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personIt's the truth! He would bring me lunch at work during my lunch breaks. Would pick and drop me off at work. He would randomly fly me out of the state so we could have romantic dates at historical sites. He worked hard to get my friends and family to like him. He would buy me shit all the time, randomly, because he wanted to make a good impression. He tried SO HARD to convince me to move in with him and it was sweet. NONE of this info made it to his social media. Again, men like to look like ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 10 | Discussion: But seriously, why isn't anyone dispensing red pill dating advice without the over the top craziness? You know, do the same fundamental thing, but like a normal personIn my honest opinion. Men need to ask women what men need to be doing to attract women. Men should seek the advice of women so they can learn how to best attract them but they aren't. I also suspect that a lot of men already know what they need to be doing to attract women, but don't want to do it because it's not sexy, easy, flashy. It's not outrageous, or dramatic and it's mundane and usual. To attract most women, men need to: Be attractive. That means give a fuck about your appearances. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Never be like the third girlI meant to add “producer” to the list but forgot 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Yeah it does, doesn’t it? This is eerily familiar. A LOT of women have been treated like this by men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Consider abstainingUSE CONDOMS DURING THESE COVID-19 TIMES!!! a lot of abortion clinics have either closed their doors or had their nurses & medical staff summoned by local hospitals and compelled to work there to assist with the increased demand for hospital/clinical staff. YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO GET AN ABORTION! SO PLEASE ABSTAIN OR USE CONDOMS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Loser man can’t even be bothered to give his girlfriend a free drink at the place he works at 🙄 or pay for it himself after charging her for EXPIRED foodShe doesn't have a boyfriend. She has an EMBARRASSMENT. this is WORSE than being single. This is SO MUCH WORSE than being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 32 | Never be like the third girlMy best friend dated a man who "wanted to become a musician" ... AT 43. It was the worst thing I've ever been through. OH GOD, PLEASE LADIES! PLEASE PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM RAPPERS. DO IT FOR YOUR BEST FRIENDS, PLEASE!!!! THINK OF THE BEST FRIENDS WHO HAVE TO HOLD YOUR HAIR WHILE YOU DRY-HEAVE FROM CRYING FOR 9 HOURS STRAIGHT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 13 | Husband uses Wife's sexual history against her... she's a SAHM to two of his children under 3.Damn. It got deleted. Here's the post: " I 25f have a colourful sexual history that I'm not proud of but regardless it's in the past and not a day goes by I don't regret it. I'm with 30m and we have two children. Being a SAHM of two under 3 is hard and my sex drive is non existent these days. 30m takes this really hard, he knows about my past and uses it against me. He says with how I've been in the past I should freely give him sex when he asks or wants it. I disagree heavily and I'm at a point… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:47 AM |
| 81 | Never be like the third girlThose of us who have ACTUALLY dated "rappers" will tell you that these words are like the kiss of death for the relationship. It slowly dies a painful and dragged out (and embarrassing) death. Those of us who were unfortunate enough to date a man who "wanted to become a rapper" know that FIRST he will acknowledge that he wants to be a rapper. Then he's going to drop $3,000 OUT OF THIN AIR on fucking computers, and speakers, and mics, headphones, and software, clothes, jewelry, and dumb shit like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:35 AM |
| 8 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?and the man changed course and stopped lying and cheating and starting putting his wife and his children first? Has this actually happened or is that just a fairytale or rom com? :( I don't want to be "that girl" but it's not just a fairytale or rom com. IT'S COMPLETE BULLSHIT BECAUSE IT ALMOST NEVER HAPPENS. Sure, some guys might change their ways but it's not because they saw some sort of moral light or had an epiphany and suddenly began to give a fuck about their wife/kids... it's because t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!happy cake day!! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!When I saw this post, I HAD to get off of Mobile. Man, I was retired and gone from "stressful posts on reddit from toxic subs" and this ... this was the post that dragged me outta retirement. So much entitlement and male bullshit. I... Oh my god you guys. Oh god! I need to sit. NO WOMAN ON FDS SHOULD BE TAKING ANY KIND OF SHIT FROM THESE MEN! NO WOMAN SHOULD PUT UP WITH THIS LEVEL OF SHIT FROM MEN, EVER, PERIOD!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!All the while he's biding his time, baiting you, getting more out of you before you finally give up and call it quits or he runs away with his side cick. Recovery is impossible in most cases! It will only work if the mistakes are made in the beginning and then corrected, or on a generally ok and decent man who made a mistake but has proven he's usually not like that and you can talk it through etc. I see this in so many posts on FDS from women who want to know "can he change?" "How do I get him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!This!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!So many women put up with SO MUCH BULLSHIT from men when it's utterly uncalled for, ESPECIALLY in 2020 where they can get on an app and receive better treatment from higher quality men within minutes. It hurts to watch this shit playout all over social media and Reddit. I can't believe we're still putting up with male bullshit in 2020. I CAN'T BELIEVE IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Have ya'll read "why does he do that?" by Lundy Bancroft?? This man is literally "Mr. Sensitive", "The demand man", and "The victim", with a bit of the "drill sergeant" and "water torturer" sprinkled in there. It's a hot mess, and he's an experienced abuser and emotional manipulator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!When she's nice and does everything he wants her treats her like shit. When she's no longer interested he wants to treat her well. And men are out here complain about being dumped, ghosted, and used for their shit. WELL DAMN. YOU TREAT US LIKE GARBAGE WHEN WE TREAT YOU WELL. I say some of them deserve to be strung along, ghosted, and used. It's what a lot of them get for being so shitty to us in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 20 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!It doesn't matter how many times they promise to change it doesn't happen and they're full of shit. It is COMPLETE shit. It's their #1 lie and strategy for trying to get you back once you've had enough and left. They'll promise to change, promise to stop cheating, promise to stop lying, promise to try harder, do better, graduate, contribute more, etc, etc, etc. and IT ALMOST NEVER MATERIALIZES! It's just a last ditch effort to squeeze as much time out of you as they can. Men will squeeze as much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 11 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Gosh, having a boyfriend is sounding more and more like training a dog. Maybe it's time to rewatch some Dog Whisperer. Dogs are loyal, they learn from mistakes, and are eager to seek your approval. They'll stick by your side when you're sick and will add value to your life. Not all men will do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:30 PM |
| 12 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Don't let them walk over you and show them how you want and deserve to be treated from Day 1! Take no hostages and don't engage in negotiations! They're for the weak! And once you go down that path you set yourself up for failure by setting a precedent that does not benefit you! Men respond to boundaries, clear and hard lines, expectations, standards, assertiveness and consequences! ALL OF THIS!! I've seen too many posts on here from women who've already fucked up by allowing him to get away too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:29 PM |
| 25 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!He said it himself: he wants to fuck her and control her. This is just the next page in the playbook. funny how that works, isn't it? I hope she stays strong and meets someone new | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 38 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!really hope this woman stays strong and cuts him off completely, these tiny trickles like still responding to texts mean his lies can get through. Me too. Isn't it eerily familiar to what's happening to a lot of women? It's almost as if treating women like shit and being an asshole is some sort of male dating strategy. THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I TELL YA'LL TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN. LET'S STOP WASTING OUR YOUTH IN MISERABLE, HIGH-ANXIETY RELATIONSHIPS PUTTING UP WITH THIS LEVEL OF BULLSHIT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 16 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Idk why men are like this. This is learned behavior! Who’s teaching them to be like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:12 PM |
| 38 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!He was completely selfish and comes across as a narcissist. He sounds like a thoroughly therapized narcissist. She dodged a missile tbh. I’m glad she didn’t have kids with him. Made it a lot easier to cut ties | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 11 | What. The. Fuck.This advice is OPPOSITE to that which works. Male authored dating "advice" aimed at women achieves ONLY ONE PURPOSE: To get the man in the situation laid. That's it. ALL MALE AUTHORED DATING ADVICE GEARED TOWARDS WOMEN WILL ONLY SERVE TO GET HIM LAID, NOT LOOK OUT FOR HER BEST INTERESTS. in this situation, there is NOTHING she could do to get him back. She needs to leave. Its over. She needs to leave immediately and hopefully set up dating profiles that same day and be seen with another man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!But it's seriously making me consider deleting all my social media. And removing every picture of myself possible from the internet. It's seriously too late, lol. The only way to be safe from this is to just never go outside, and live off the grid. Seriously. If you've ever been walking on a sidewalk and someone took a photo of you on their phone, they can use that :/ We've opened Pandora's box with deepfakes, it's seriously impossible to disappear from the world and be safe from them. Unles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!This is actually giving me a headache trying to consider. It's legally a gray zone. It's a tangled hot mess of shit. On one hand, folks are arguing exactly what you've just said: that it'll feed into a psychopath's sick and twisted lust for children (or rape, or sadism and murder), and on the other hand, folks are arguing that deepfake porn of rape, murder/snuff/sadism will give these weird fucks a safe place to channel and help them manage these urges since they could then wack off to deepfake … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!Actually there are mixed reactions to the use of deepfakes in porn. If they were used non-consentually or in a revenge-porn way where someone's face was used without consent... then I agree with you. It's awful and the process of checking if the footage is a deepfake versus a legitimate consentual video is challenging. However, some people are arguing that deepfakes will allow the porn industry to create real looking porn without having to ever pay for any actors or footage from amateurs, ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!There's creative uses for it. For example, if you're an Instagram model and you want to create authentic looking footage of yourself sky-diving because you can't actually afford to sky dive, you can use a deepfake to make yourself look like you're skydiving. Children in the year 2060 will be able to download the Tik Tok AI app to create stunning music videos from scratch using AI generated sounds, people, crowds, buildings, etc. It'll be like the Sims, in real life. You'd be able to create art… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!They can google your name and use the photo your LinkedIn profile has. They can find your Instagram page and screenshot your photos and use those. Any picture they can find, they can use. It’s actually terrifying technology and you could have footage of you out there robbing a bank, dealing drugs, or raping a child, or vandalizing property and it would look authentic enough to fool a judge. I’m actually surprised more people aren’t freaking out about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:36 PM |
| 22 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!It’s an AI that can take anyone’s face and attach it to anyone’s body. Or it can take anyone’s face and create a body for it. It can take your face and create real looking video of you assassinating Vladimir Putin but as you guessed it, men use this tool for taking a woman’s face and using it for porn. Google the website ThisPersonDoesNotExist and look at examples of randomly generated faces of people that aren’t real. They look convincingly real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:34 PM |
| 72 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!This poor girl. You’re right... it’s probably not even her and it seriously could be a deepfake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:57 AM |
| 76 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!On reddit, they're anonymous and they don't even worry about hiding how they objectify women :( Its' sad. She probably thinks everything's going great between them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 142 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!I can just see it... a post on AITA "I left my JOB for this man, and was there for him through his CANCER treatments! I PAID FOR HIS STUDENT LOANS!!! and he's on tinder. AITA for expressing slight discomfort at the way I'm being treated??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!:D Thanks ^_^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:53 AM |
| 144 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!I am so tired of seeing this. AS SOON AS he finds a better job, a better car, some inheritance, or wins the lottery.... he begins to immediately look for upgrades. Women shouldn't feel bad for gold digging at ALL under these circumstances. Men aren't loyal. As soon as their life situation changes, they begin looking for new women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:34 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020Thanks for doing this. I love this place!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:38 AM |
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