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This is solid advice. Thank you for sharing. I've heard the "I've had my fun and I'm ready to settle down" line, too, and it freaks me out every time. Someone with such a shallow and superficial view of matrimony should not be married. I love how you worded it in the 3rd paragraph. Just perfect.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 06:18 AM
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"Also, rape victims are twice as likely to get pregnant: Gottschall. In fact, rape may induce ovulation in women: Tarin, Hamatani & Cano." That's insane if true. I almost want to research it. Either way, the dehumanizing nature of the article is quite grotesque.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 08:19 AM
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Sounds like Knights of Columbus or Freemasonry. I've basically been in groups like this that are just men who are friends meeting up to train boxing or just hang out.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 05:34 AM
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Lmao, it's funny you mention this. I remember that when I got a therapist in the Navy (very common environment for men to receive therapy), I purposefully went for another man. I intuitively knew that he would be able to identify with me better. It is quite odd that many think that therapy would involve just talking about issues. In my mind and experience, I always viewed it as seeking advice on how to better do things that would help me out. Though all my therapist really did was talk to me. I …
/r/MensRights16/10/24 07:38 AM
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I appreciate your take on the matter. The whole "men just need to talk more" line is infuriating to no end. The only guys I typically trust with those kinds of talks are my priest or very close friends. Both men and women will shame men who are too emotionally open. Personally, I have done it myself without even really thinking about it. IDK, I just think that men need those close bonds that come from sports and church to be able to have guys to open up to.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 07:22 AM
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I love all of this, and your first paragraph is spot on. You worded the disconnect between success and relationships perfectly. I do want to ask a question regarding your 5th point. How exactly do women get mad when men deal with their own shit?
/r/MensRights16/10/24 06:02 AM
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Agreed. All things considered, as long as she puts effort into her appearance, being down to earth and emotionally mature are amazing characteristics.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:49 AM
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Respect. Self-improvement is awesome. I had so much trouble with motivation at the start, but once I saw improvement, I got addicted to new hobbies that I love and are far better compared to what I'm doing before. Having friends from a group with similar interest that can hold you accountable on it really helps, too.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:23 AM
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Is this why Star Wars eroded the way it did? I'm afraid that this is now happening to 40k.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:21 AM
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Combat sports gyms/groups and church have been great for this in my experience. I still remember back in high school when we had a men's bible study, and the women at church just respected it and knew that we needed our own time together. It is interesting that the groups where I find that I self-improve the most are all-male spaces. I used to be such an individualist, but there really is something to improving yourself alongside friends who challenge and guide you. Iron sharpeneth iron, so a ma…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:19 AM
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This is very interesting to me. I was watching a video from a Christian woman on why so many more men seem interested in Christian theology despite women outnumbering men within Christianity. One comment mentioned how more women attend non-traditional parishes while the gender ratio is more balanced (still mostly femalle) in traditional parishes. One of the comments mentioned that men don't seem to follow women, but women seem to follow men to some extent. Im starting to wonder if there is a sim…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:54 AM
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Honestly, yeah, I was on board with what OP said, but you absolutely nailed it with those first 3 paragraphs. And I kinda agree with the last one, too, as blackpilling of a fact as it is.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:27 AM
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Imo, average-looking women with a polite demeanor and actual personality are better relationships material that women whose only defining characteristic is being hot.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:24 AM
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I like the points the author makes in her article, but I agree with this statement
/r/MensRights10/10/24 10:10 AM
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I think I get what you mean. People have forgotten that romantic relationships aren't always butterflies in your stomach. That there is often a lot of hardship. That both people must sacrifice for the good of the other. Seems if women don't get some kind of vague, emotional feeling that many just leave. I guess in the old days, they suppressed that by prioritizing the children and having a stigma around divorce. Seems like a strong cultural component that we are missing. I think that there is to…
/r/MensRights04/10/24 03:06 PM
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Im kind of in a similar boat, though I found that I've become a little less cynical and more empathetic. It's kind of like a bell curve, but upside down. Idk, maybe my self-esteem is just better since I got better at socializing. I definitely understand where you're coming from, though. I'm still fairly cynical when it comes to relationships. Now that I've had the opportunity to get into a few, I often wonder what the point even is. I've seen a lot of my friends get cheated on, and I think that …
/r/MensRights04/10/24 06:58 AM
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This is awesome. Collective shit test is such a great way to put it.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 05:59 AM
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Came to this realization, too.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 05:52 PM
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Interesting! Thanks for the insight. That seems quite poignant now that I think about it. I think that women do desire men, but also want to dominate them. But they're not happy when they get what they want. I appreciate your response.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 07:02 PM
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I'm not entirely sure what you mean by God's curse. Is it that since Eve wanted knowledge and ate the fruit, God punished her by making childbirth painful? I like and agree with the rest of your input. I'm glad that I'm not the only person that noticed this.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 06:40 PM
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I almost forgot about that part. Lmfao. As if that's the ONLY thing that women had going for them 😂😂😂
/r/MensRights21/09/24 09:15 AM
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Wow, this is incredibly depressing. The use of the term to the effect of "moral obligation" (don't remember the exact word) is downright appalling. https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/who-s-the-daddy/ The third link is also grotesque and disturbing. I knew the dating market was bad, but wow, this is horrific.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 08:20 AM
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Lol, love that last part. Keep the energy up, bro. Love you.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 06:37 AM
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I feel this. I wonder what God has planned. I think about this fairly frequently. Society and our culture are deteriorating fast. I like how you word that line about not experiencing what past generations took for granted. I want to say that that's a thought I've been thinking without articulating it well to myself. I will pray for you. I wonder what God has planned for me on the daily. Even if I find the right woman that I am compatible with (a huge if), I have no idea how I'd ever be able to a…
/r/MensRights21/09/24 06:32 AM
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I've thought about the irony behind this before. It is so odd and weird to me that following women's advice will make you less attractive to them. Do any of them realize that this results in less desirable men in the dating pool? I used to think people who say that women don't know what they want were just pessimistic, but I now think that it's true.
/r/MensRights21/09/24 06:23 AM
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Ngl, I get this, too. Idk, but I think that we have some kind of instinct to protect them and proving them wrong kind of triggers a conflicted feeling in us. At least that's my hypothesis.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 02:01 AM
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This statement always weirded me out, considering how upset people get when a man has standards
/r/MensRights09/09/24 02:55 AM
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I agree. A poor economy and culture are terrible things to deal with.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:46 AM
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It's interesting to see other people bringing these issues up. I wonder where things will go or what our culture will look like in the future.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:46 AM
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Man, this feels crazy. It's really interesting to see people touching on the social AND economic aspects of our current situation. It's something that's been going through my head lately, but I recently got thinking about it even more after seeing someone comment on the Catholic subreddit about how some people never marry because they don't meet someone. Between how difficult the current dating situation is and the terrible economy on top of that, I really wonder what to do sometimes. Feels like…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:44 AM
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I feel this. Lol
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:40 AM
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Exactly. I was just about to comment how I've struggled with this, too. Even if my coworkers that I like seem interested, I feel nervous initiating conversation. Just feels too difficult to meet people and also deal with seeming like a creep/bothering someone.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:40 AM
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Dude, this article is insane
/r/MensRights01/09/24 04:20 AM
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I think that we live in interesting times. Social dynamics and many aspects of life that were historically normal for humans have been altered. Thinking about what the future may be like is fascinating to me. I feel like things have to normalize at some point, but I'll admit that I have no solid evidence to believe that. Whatever happens, I think we're going down hill and won't return up until after our lifetimes.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 10:44 AM
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I love this question. Things will have to normalize at some point, right? But I'm honestly not counting on it to happen any time soon. Best to prepare for my own economic survival. Investing in cat food may not be a bad idea.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 10:30 AM
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This is the conversation that I find really interesting
/r/MensRights27/08/24 10:29 AM
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Ty for sharing this. I find advice like this helps with being more assertive.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 05:10 AM
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Same here, bro. This post feels like I could have written it
/r/MensRights25/08/24 04:54 AM
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Honestly glad to see someone bring this up. I definitely think that identity politics is something that's forced from on up, not grassroots.
/r/MensRights25/08/24 04:53 AM
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I feel this, man. Idk what to do, either. It's a roller coaster for me.
/r/MensRights25/08/24 04:50 AM
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Nice post. Ty for this
/r/MensRights25/08/24 04:49 AM
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Love this channel. I wish he streamed more often.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 11:06 PM
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I like watching him. Interesting fellow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/24 07:47 AM
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The notion of using time or money for another cause is odd to me. Idk, just because I'm not having luck with a family doesn't necessarily mean I feel like donating/volunteering. I think I'd rather just dedicate more time to hanging with friends/family and pursuing hobbies like boxing, hiking, and traveling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/24 06:56 AM
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I am curious where you know this guy from. Was he a childhood friend? I've moved around so much that it seems difficult to keep in touch with IRL friends for years. I'm interested in how you maintain this friend group. Edit: just thought I'd add that I'm interested in this story. I don't often hear about guys making it out of this instead of just going MGTOW. Could you share more?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/24 06:26 AM
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I feel likewise
/r/MensRights19/08/24 01:43 AM
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I love this take. Ty for sharing
/r/MensRights19/08/24 01:43 AM
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I used to struggle with this quite a bit
/r/MensRights19/08/24 01:43 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing this!
/r/MensRights15/08/24 03:56 AM
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Tysm man. Reminds me of the Navy. A ton of bad habits thst build up. I think I'll try my hand at electrical, as I have a background in that. Hopefully, I avoid the bad parts. Tbh, my sleep schedule has been messed up sinceI joined, that job is not easy on you, but I'm hoping to improve on that. Idk, I want to own a home and have a family one day, and I feel that trade will enable that. I live in the South, where they don't quite make six figures, but it still seems like a decent field to get inv…
/r/MensRights15/05/24 03:42 PM
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I know this. I think I built more brotherhood in Boy Scouts than in the Navy, but we couldn't even have that.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 02:28 AM
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I still find this funny. I think this conscription is highly immoral and needs to be done away with, however, this comment makes me at least see a silver lining in it. I guess it's still a good thing that Korean men have become smarter due to it, it just sucks that it took something so inhumane in thr first place to do it.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 11:48 PM
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Love to see a Catholic post on here. Will pray for you op 🇻🇦📿
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:19 PM
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I love both of y'all's comments. Shit's white pilling. I genuinely feel hopeful for this time and new group of great men to come.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:08 PM
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Lol, right? Even if I get my career in order and my apprenticeship goal goes as planned, I still may not even have enough for raising my own children. How am I supposed to raise another man's kid(s) on top of that? Obviously, making my own children takes priority. These idiot weirdos just have no clue how to take a man's perspective on life.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 05:23 PM
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Yes! I have known the first part for a bit now, but I hadn't considered that limiting time with parents enhances the ability of the government to indoctrinate them. I had made some kind of a connection with the deconstruction of the family unit, but focused more on the corporate aspect of driving wages down by getting the full adult population to work. I guess at the time, it made to sense for a family to just make more money. But now it's like "we'll what's the point" but we're still stuck with…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:32 AM
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Ty for mentioning this. I noticed that part of his post, too. I think I would have said a similar thing at a time when I was less aware.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:38 AM
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I can sympathize. I hate taking blame for people that aren't me and it gas-lit tf out of me going up. I no longer accept blame for actions that aren't mine. In my admittedly simplistic opinion, the answer is to fight stupidity and to not care what idiots think.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:37 AM
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Yeah, I'm skeptical of having female friends. Idk, there's a few that I was cool with, but I never really hung out with them. The idea of going over to woman's house alone with her just to hang out like with a male friend sounds very odd to me.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:29 AM
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The fact that men are expected to provide while many women now earn more money is what gets me. They specifically designed a system to fight against human nature. I feel like it will have to fail at some point, but who knows?
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:25 AM
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This! I have struggled so much with this. I just feel like there's too many roadblocks for this struggle to be real. First, I need a decent career to have a chance to ever afford a home. Second, I need to find a woman who is wife material (feels nigh impossible in this country. One of my dad's friends is from Peru and he constantly asks us to come visit. Hopefully i can find someone there, but who knows). Third, I need to accept the fact that I COULD LOSE all the fruits of that difficult career …
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:23 AM
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Please do not do this. Children aren't that dumb. Eventually, your child will hopefully realize who was right and did the right thing in this situation. On a side note, I hate hate hate our fucking rigged system that drives men to these extremes just to feel an ounce of peace. If it means anything, I was in the Navy, and I think I get it. The sense of hopelessness and despair. This world is so cruel to the wrong people, and our fucked up gynocentric culture and government only make this conclusi…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:19 AM
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I love that last paragraph. I'm all for conspiracy theories. I've already seen others theorize that women have been given so much disproportionate power because they are easier to control and are more consumerist.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 07:01 AM
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Any idea how this will affect women? I don't see how this phenomenon will ever affect women, tbh. Maybe if enough women have men in their families who commit suicide, but even then, that's the only way I possibly see this as becoming a "societal" issue. I feel it's more likely that a lack of worker-drones will cause people to try to force more work on men, but I don't even really see that leading to a response to the male suicide epidemic.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:59 AM
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I fear this. I have an idea that male suicide and more men refusing to work will just be viewed as economic problems. Any "solution" will most likely do nothing even remotely helpful. Who knows where this will lead? I feel that our culture may eventually rebound and normalize, but who knows when/even if that will happen? How is this all going to end up in the long term?
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:56 AM
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Slide 7 needs to be shared across every facet of media
/r/MensRights14/05/24 06:53 AM
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I appreciate your perspective. I can't say I've heard anything like it before, but I have wondered myself how those jobs could break people down in such a way. You mentioned how well someone eats and whether or not they exercise as factors and it got me curious. Any exercises you'd recommend for that lifestyle? I'd imagine ab and leg training would be most crucial, but idk 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights11/05/24 04:53 PM
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Exactly. My church had an all male Bible study, and it probably did more towards my growth as a person than even real Boy Scouts. I got to see how sensible and respectable men of my age range behave and conduct themselves while also growing in knowledge of Sacred Scripture. I didn't really "get it" at the time, but things like that are absolutely vital for the development of boys into competent, respectable men.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:42 PM
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I feel this, man. I've been getting that a lot lately. At this point, I should start focusing on working out again or reading more than getting pissed at Reddit misandry.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 11:24 AM
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A lot of churches have all male groups. They're kind of like clubs or extracurricular activities.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 11:11 AM
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Why are they doing this? No one in scouting even wanted this to happen? At this point, the only good environments for boys to develop are in church and sports. Why do they insist on forcing men outside of all-male environments when that was the point in the first place? What's next? Co-ed sports? At least the churches will still be around, but that doesn't really help secularists. What are secularists going to do?
/r/MensRights11/05/24 09:30 AM
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I would also like to add that I don't think that a lot of women really, idk, "know" what they want. So I feel that further discouraging men and demonizing masculinity is a problem that actually also affects women who otherwise could have found a man they didnt really know they wanted. I see a funny paradox in how the misandrist claim is the opposite, in that they're also claiming to help the opposite sex. Except their way of doing involves objectively immoral means that don't work and only benef…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 07:24 AM
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Thank you. I feel that the 4th paragraph is correct and informative. Idk, it just stuck out to me.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:43 AM
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I appreciate your perspective. Bro I'm so lost after getting out of the Navy, I really put my life on hold. I think that pipefitting or possibly electrician will be my trade. I don't like the thought of breaking down my body, but trades really do seem to be the future of stable, decent salary work.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:42 AM
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Does society really see it as a problem when men don't reciprocate? I feel like most people just don't care about men that don't want to date.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 09:54 PM
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Been thinking about this. Going into tech is risky and I see the trades as a safe option. But I'd rather not lower my lifespan and destroy my body for the sake of work. I work to live, not the other way around. Idk, maybe I could become a journeyman and then enjoy college, but I feel like college is something I should do while I'm younger.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 11:56 AM
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I agree with your sentiment, but other than paid maternity leave, what benefits do they demand from the government? PS: I do not support paid maternity leave unless paid paternity leave is included with it.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 07:19 AM
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I love this. It's so weird how women use virgin as an insult. Like, yeah, I'm not married, why wouldn't I abstain from sex? Are you telling me you're unmarried and have had sex? It reminds me of the Tom and Jerry scene where Tom shoots himself with his own double barrel shotgun. Typically asking them about "body count" shuts this down very quickly.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 11:17 AM
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Don't listen to the haters, bro. I'm rooting for you. Also you made a very good point about pay. Most Americans are unaware that teachers in other countries, like Australia, can actually make good money.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:59 AM
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Based. I respect you so much for this. I love this attitude. Why do all the back breaking work for a society that hates you when you could take a chance and do what you really want? I've been shooting down the idea of college over a trade for a bit, but I think thst I may need to reconsider.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:56 AM
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Man, I want to name good money in an office job. Idk if trades are for me. I like the thought of making money right away, but maybe the college experience would benefit me. Idk. Just curious: do you live in a dorm by any chance? What is the living situation in college like?
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:53 AM
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Not a single lie detected.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:51 AM
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I love this. Especially that last touch at the end. Feminists really destroyed and sacrificed the family unit and middle class for the benefit of corporations and our government (lower wages, more tax income). This has all been accomplished WHILE PEOPLE ARE APPLAUDING IT. I'm so disillusioned with western culture. At this point, the only European people who aren't crazy like us are the slavs. At least they're still normal, but they have their own problems, too (Ukraine war, standard of living in…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:48 AM
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Exactly. The only reason I feel some sort of drive to have a successful career at all is to one day support a family. However, I will admit that finding a woman worth marrying is such a daunting prospect that I sometimes wonder "why even try?"" Like, even if I do get a good career going, it doesn't help me support a family if there is no family to support. I've also had the thought of losing wealth from said career in a divorce. At that point, I may very well be happier just not bothering. Too m…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:43 AM
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I've been fascinated with this topic recently. I would like for our culture to realize that it can't maintain how it disenfranchises men. However, I always shot that idea down with "DEI hasn't forced us out of dangerous work like trades." However, I didn't really consider if men just, idk, stopped. Ironic considering that that's kinda-sorta what I'm doing at the moment. Is it really possible that men "going their own way" could lead to some kind of change? Maybe not on its own, but as a major co…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:39 AM
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Lol, I was gonna enter the trades due to a lack of opportunities, but you just might have me convinced to go to college instead. I could pay for it no problem, but I am curious as to the job prospects. Since it seems like you have done some research, what would be a good degree to get for safe, decent paying office work in your opinion? I've been personally considering government work as I benefit from veterans' preference.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:34 AM
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Just curious. What office job did you have in mind? I was considering the trades, but due to veterans preference in America, I may go with government work instead. I am tempted by the money in the trades, however, I don't want to destroy my body just to afford a house. I'm already making ends meet as is, yk?
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:31 AM
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Not to mention how many of these privileged women think that men control everything just because Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates are men. They believe that because the absolute top are men, then all men are powerful.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:23 AM
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You should see Sweden. These same white women are upset that, for some reason, Swedish men now have a penchant for asian women.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:21 AM
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It sucks when you consider hypergamy. How are men supposed to marry women when those same women earn more than them? And those women all want men that make more than them? Will it ever come down to single men not being willing to work? DEI hasn't forced us out of dangerous work. I'd like to think that at some point, men would just give up and not participate, forcing society to have to change, but DEI hasn't forced men out of the most dangerous work in thr country I live in (America). Overall, f…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:16 AM
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I am an eagle scout whose dad is also an eagle scout. If I have a son, he will not be involved in scouting. He will play a sport, and we'll maybe just go on solo camping/hiking/backpacking trips. I always felt that church was better for forming morals anyways. It's a shame. I would have liked to keep the eagle scout tradition growing.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:08 AM
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I've been thinking about that last part, but I think the hard truth is that men are forced to contribute either way. If you want to survive, you need to make money. And DEI has not forced men out of the most dangerous work in our countries...
/r/MensRights09/05/24 10:01 AM
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This is often slept on. Most of my friends I hang out with our men. So when we hang out together, it's mostly just men.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:36 AM
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Try a MTG or Warhammer tournament. Sometimes there are women, but they're not common and fairly chill.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:35 AM
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Fascinating. I'm not sure if this is true, but it is interesting to think about.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:29 AM
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I also feel that this point has gone away, at least in 1st world countries/cultures. Most people are individualistic and care more for self than community.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:19 AM
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This. I've relatively recently learned to speak with both actions AND words. Having assertiveness is so crucial to staying sane. All people will pretty much follow the herd when it behaves a certain way.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 09:16 AM
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This is a good point that I didn't even think of. We already have a problem in the US military with women getting supervisory/managerial jobs while men get grunt work. This could almost be seen as a way to just get more men killed on frontlines. Wow
/r/MensRights30/04/24 05:12 AM
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It is weird how women have chosen to bring polygamy back. I guess in theory they're all competing for the same man, but he's really just using them for concubines. Quite odd
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:57 AM
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Sounds like it's aimed towards me. I ought to give this book a read.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:53 AM
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I respect your take and appreciate the wisdom in your post. I think that acceptance and disregard for these people is the best. Accept that you can't change them, that they won't change, and be happy. I love this post. You make me wanna just focus on my hobbies and what I enjoy and not care what others think.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:49 AM
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Idk, I feel like tabletop gaming is still an almost all male space. It is weird how the Freemasons have gotten flack for being an all male grouo... as a fraternity. And they have female lodges lol
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:44 AM
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Thank you for this. I never really thought about it before. The only all male groups that I know of are sports teams. Even Boy Scouts was somehow changed. Like, why? If I ever have a son, he will not be going. 2nd generation Eagle Scout and I won't put a kid through that. I'd rather he play sports. At least churches can still have all male groups. I guess they oppose Christian circles so much that they don't even see a point in trying to force their way into them? Edit: I just remembered the Fre…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:42 AM
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The passport bros one is what gets me. If the women here don't want the men, why wouldn't the men move to a country where they're wanted? Like, what are they supposed to do? Wallow in misery and not work to improve their lives? It's so common sense that people misconstruing it baffles me.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 04:37 AM
1

Tbf, I've never heard anyone say that men are at fault for homeless women. Though I've also never heard of a homeless woman, lol
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:48 PM
1

Exactly. If I lose the kids to the ex-wife and the house follows the kids...
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:44 AM
2

Any advice on doing this? Would a nice watch and silver chain do the job? Nice car also? I'm not being sarcastic, I am genuinely looking for advice on how to accomplish this.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:07 AM
16

I wonder why governments are so resistant to ban male genital mutilation. I also wonder if the money made from selling foreskin to cosmetics manufacturers has anything to do with it?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 08:22 PM
2

It's so frustrating what marriage has turned into in America in this day and age. For personal reasons, I would preferably wait until marriage. But idk, waiting and hoping on a successful marriage like this just seems unfeasible and unrealistic. Truth be told, I don't think I could feel comfortable marrying in this country.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:29 AM
3

That's the issue. Coming from a Catholic pov, a marriage in this country won't work out. But I'm not supposed to have a pre-nup because the Church views marriage as unbreakable from an ontological standpoint. But idk, a pre-nup just sounds like a straight necessity in this day and age.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:26 AM
8

Despicable. Slavery is immoral and utterly reprehensible. How could an EU nation get away with this?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:04 AM
7

Such an odd, oblivious take. She can't actually believe this. I just made a similar comment to another person who pointed this out. Most women are single by choice and are the ones who don't want to settle down. How could anyone try to pin this on men? How utterly oblivious do you have to be to think that men are refusing to settle down? Especially when it is the women who choose to stay single?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:03 AM
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It's not really a men thing. It's more societal as a whole, but one could easily make a stronger argument that this is due to women not wanting to settle down. Look at no fault divorce, for example. No one can genuinely believe that it's men who don't want to settle down. EDIT: I also just realized that most women are single by choice. Really, how could anyone believe that men are a part of this?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:00 AM
3

This is what I don't get. How do they never realize that their standards are this unrealistic and will lead to this? It's a matter of common sense, no?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 05:59 AM
14

Well that's... appalling. I hope we never see this in America. I don't think we will, but you never know.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 05:57 AM
9

What will be the future consequence of men giving up? Guys will still take dangerous work as the pay can be alright and DEI hasn't forced us out of them.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:43 AM
9

This is the only realistic plan if I ever own a home. I feel conflicted. I want to get married one day, but between the dating market and the risks if I even do succeed, I'm starting to think that marriage just isn't for men these days.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:42 AM
3

Wait, what? I've always heard women complain about not getting orgasms or even faking them. Is this really true?
/r/MensRights25/04/24 12:32 AM
1

You are sorely mistaken if you think that blindly following a draft and getting killed is every single poor man's perogative.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:21 PM
0

My point is that many of these Ukrainian men do not want to die for Ukraine. Why is that? I'm wondering if there is a correlation between Ukraine's corruption and the apparent lack of willingness for men to die for it. The government is acting very entitled to sending these men to war, but what did these men get before the war? Anything to be grateful for? Idk, but I'm guessing there is a reason. In my country, the United States, people typically avoided the draft when they have a problem with w…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:15 PM
3

Who do they think this dude is? Chuck Norris? The average man is not a main character from a martial arts movie. If I see someone getting robbed, I am gonna keep my distance. Especially if the perpetrator is armed.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:24 PM
2

There's no way. There's just no way that single men's tax dollars are being used to fund things like this. They're taking the money out of my hands that I would have used to buy a car. Why aren't more people made aware of this? If this is true, then someone badly needs to make some kind of info graphic about where and who my toxdollars are going to so that I can't afford shit. I already lose too much to "defense" contractor laundering. I can't afford to be homeless just to house women who ditche…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:19 AM
1

I wonder what benefits they've been given to make them want to die for Ukraine in the first place 🤔
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:10 AM
1

I think that it used to be that anyone who just slept around was viewed as immoral. Men were womanizers and women were sluts. Nowadays, I feel that both men and women aren't judged for "committing." I feel as though men who don't want to commit to marriage are "understood" and even applauded for not putting themself into marriage in a climate like this.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:07 AM
4

I see a lot of people pointing out that men ARE disposable. That doesn't seem healthy to me. No human should view themself as disposable. As far as my life is concerned, I am NOT disposable. As a thought experiment, how do we fix this attitude in society? And more practically speaking, how do I live my own life so as to not "be" or view myself as disposable? I should mention that I have an iffy feeling towards a lot of things that would normally benefit men. Just not marrying and having a long-t…
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:05 AM
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Lolol why tf would I give up my seat for another grown adult? I'd only give up my seat to someone who is disabled. Also, what am I supposed to do if I see a woman getting robbed, charge in like Bruce Lee? Do these women think that all bystanding men are martial artists or smth?
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:14 AM
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I kinda agree with the sentiment, but I can't say I've really seen this. In my experience, most women don't really care if a man doesn't want to date them and do his own thing. Maybe they'd care if it got so bad that tall and wealthy men didn't want to marry, but i don't think there'd be a huge fuss about it.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:12 AM
5

I got ao excited when I found a domestic brand with 0g added sugar (Ezekiel). I absolutely despise what our food industry has turned into. So much sugar in everything.
/r/MensRights22/04/24 04:15 PM
1

Does the 2nd option still work if you do have kids? How does that get worked out?
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:32 AM
1

This could never happen in the West. I refuse to believe. Americans ain't putting up with this trash.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 04:11 AM
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Tbf, Ukraine is a more traditional, conservative country. I believe a lot of people fail to realize that Western feminism has thankfully not had as drastic an impact on that country. That being said, it is a glaring issue that Western countries completely ignore this case of what would be discrimination in our own countries, especially America. I guess the salient point is that we say/do nothing about this. I would like to say thank you to this sub for spreading awareness and making me reconside…
/r/MensRights18/04/24 06:19 PM
2

A church I used to go to had male only Bible studies. There are also male only group chats that exist, granted it may be difficult to find one unless it's related to a certain topic. I'm sure there's probably Warhammer and sports dedicated discords that are almost exclusively male. I know it's not really a fix, but I think that's about as close as one can get for most men.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 12:46 AM
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Lolol that fake wedding ring idea is ingenious! I feel so silly for hearing about the benefits of one but never thinking about wearing a tungsten one myself. It's not even necessarily dishonest as you're never claiming to be married, just wearing a ring 😂
/r/MensRights18/04/24 12:19 AM
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I'm applying for refugee status in Russia. I'd even let them use for me propoganda to explain how bad America is.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 11:29 PM
2

Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. It's kind of idk, "black-pilling," but it goods to know as I discern my vocation. I've always kinda wanted to marry, but it sounds like a nightmare to deal with. Maybe I'll just be celibate, idk. The whole situation just makes it suck to be a man in this country. It can't be like with the Church in countries like Poland, Hungary, and in Latin America (at least not all of it). Abject times to be a man in America.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 01:35 PM
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I've thought about that before. Since the power that women have over men is based around sexual desire, it makes sense to use these terms as insults as they imply a lack in "power" to get what they want from women.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 12:53 AM
1

I feel that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:54 AM
1

Dang. I just realized how much despair I feel from reading this. I've done those things, but probably not to an extremely impressive extent. Still, I've struggled with that sense of not really being here for anything for so long, and it's really been catching up with me lately. Especially what you said about your brain getting fried by setbacks and let-downs. Man, it almost sounds like I wrote this. Thank you for posting this. I mean it, you expressed yourself quite well, and I can identify with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:54 AM
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Bachelor tax? That's a thing that people have thought of? I already thought it was weird that married couples get tax breaks, but they could also potentially just tax men for being single? How could that become legal anywhere? Maybe Europe, but I don't think even the US would stoop to that level. That sounds like a good way to unite a diverse range of men into a solid political block in opposition. Edit: now that I think about it, if it ever came to this I am totally marrying a friend or smth 😂.…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:47 AM
2

That is so fucking cracked! Reminds me of a lot of other nonsense German pseudoscience from the likes of Hegel and Marx. Those morons will never learn to quit making shit up rather than taking an Aristotelian view of the world around them. Now that I think about it, my grandpa, who was born and raised in Magdeburg, had some queer beliefs, too (professed Lutheranism but denied the existence of hell)
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:42 AM
2

Why homophobia towards gay men? Wouldn't they be less likely to rape and catcall? That doesn't make any sense at all. Unless she feels threatened by them because they can't be controlled by lust as easily? Or maybe she resents that a lot of gay men befriend women?
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:11 AM
1

Im intrigued. How did you find out about this? I'm not disagreeing, just interested in learning more.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:55 AM
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Another black-pilling thought. I'm not knocking you for it, it's pretty much what I figured would happen, too. I don't entirely see how it would only affect single men, however, as most women work, too. The only direct correlation I can see is how many men are screwed out of nicer paying office jobs. Now that I think about it, we're already seeing the effects of that. I wonder how they would/could screw single men even more. Could you expound further on how this burden would be shifted onto sing…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:16 AM
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Wow, this is so absolutely depressing. It definitely seems like a logical conclusion, but the thought that the single mom epidemic AND aging population will make the economy EVEN worse is just so black-pilling. Do you think that the government would ever clamp down on divorce if the single mom problems becomes too much of an issue? Or would it be more likely just to use them for votes?
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:12 AM
1

I love the speculative comments like this. Always gets people thinking and brings interesting conversation.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:06 AM
1

Are they granted citizenship and family reunion? For breaking into a country? Sounds like I need to "migrate" to Europe and get my folks some free healthcare.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 01:15 AM
1

Wait, that makes no sense at all. She couldn't get extradited to the US after being reported to American authorities?
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:04 AM
2

I never thought of this before. It doesn't really make sense. Maybe they expect men to just get on board with other issues?
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:01 AM
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I heard they even tried to stop that in Sweden. I wonder what the thought process was behind it. I think some of those guys would rather not marry than take a Swedish woman if a SE Asian wasn't available. I wonder if they thought about that. Or asked, "Why are Swedish men choosing foreign women?"
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:49 AM
2

I like to think about/ponder that checking out part at times. If society needs men to work/support it, how will that be forced? Will it have to be forced as long as people still need to work to live? What would change? It's an interesting thought experiment that has only recently been commented on, but without much discussion/guessing
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:39 AM
2

I always get sad/angry whenever I remember that this happens.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:34 AM
2

To be clear on what I meant so that there is no confusion, I believe that everyone may have a "right" to marry, but not a "right" to a spouse if that makes sense. If you do not want to marry a specific person, the Church can not force you. Although discerning God's will is absolutely necessary. I also believe that this goes for both men AND women. A woman should absolutely be able to deny marrying a man with a dubious past. Yeah, sadly, a lot of cradle Catholics are not catechized very well, alt…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 04:34 PM
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I'm not married. I was speaking more from the perspective of a single man looking for marriage. There is quite some pressure for guys to just "ignore" a woman's past regardless of what she was up to. Granted, I admit that most men are not much better, but there is a lot of pressure to marry women who slept around. This is something that I am quite appalled by as choosing a wife is an important matter, and someone's past is quite indicative of future action. Yes, people can change, but there are …
/r/MensRights13/04/24 04:26 PM
1

Thank you for the advice. I think I needed to hear this. The only problem I see has already been mentioned, in that most women your age will most likely not be wife material.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 12:52 AM
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The Church has been in worse times. Research the pornocracy. It is often during the most heinous times in the Church that we get the greatest saints (St. Francis, St. Ignatius of Loyola). GK Chesterton had a great quote about the saints in various times swinging the pendulum where it ought to go.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 12:19 AM
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Disclaimer: I have not yet completed RCIA, so I am far from an authority on these matters. I think what he is saying is that sin affects us in 2 main ways that we can distinguish. There is a spiritual forgiveness for our sins so that we may enter Heaven and a temporal punishment. Idk the best way to explain it, but I think that "temporal" means the consequences of our sin. An example I was given is "God may forgive you for murdering someone, but you should still do jail time and not be trusted w…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:59 PM
2

I'm conflicted on what you say. On one hand, it does make sense; but on the other, it conflicts with Catholic teaching and what the Bible teaches. I do believe that men as heads of their households held spiritual and material authority over their families. Sure, women managed but the money, but weren't the big expenses typically up to the men that made the money?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:52 PM
1

I can not speak for my church, as I am still quite new there due to moving recently. The church I went to before I moved seemed to treat men quite well, but I didn't spend that much time there either. These churches are all Catholic, btw, as I have been going through the process of RCIA. I will say that the online Christian community can be quite dismissive and brutal towards men, but these are typically very liberal discussion boards (r/Christian). Typically, I find the Catholic subreddit to be…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 10:39 PM
1

I agree that society doesn't care, but it should not be that way, and I don't understand why it isn't talked about more. Obviously, if the rates of women in high prestige jobs are being increased artificially, then it begs the question: what about trades and the military? Why would we expect men to make up the backbone of the military if men and women are equal? Obviously, I refuse to participate in a draft that discriminates in such a manner. It would also be EXTREMELY dumb to push against masc…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 11:17 PM
1

I mean, you don't have to inform the world how you raise your teenage son.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:48 AM
2

Excellent post. I especially love that last paragraph. The thought of modern men people asked to "stand up" is intriguing to me. I wonder how propoganda would need to be spun to spur anyone to actually do that. The example I've been most interested in is "sacrifice." Sure, we have a decent standard of living now, but what happens if we need something that requires men to sacrifice themselves for some greater good? Probably no one would sign on for it, which leads me to wonder what could hypothet…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:39 AM
1

I don't quite know how to put this, but I like how you word things. Idk, I guess it's your "prose" but I also find your takes interesting. Maybe I'm just so starved for hearing/reading basic common sense that I find it enjoyable tp see someone who hasn't lost their mind. It's kinda a cess pit on the "Christian" parts of reddit. I've seen dudes get shamed for worrying about finding a woman with a clean past. Maybe something in your comment just resonated with me, especially the parts about social…
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:32 AM
1

I don't think any men are getting shamed for this. Even feminists know and agree that it is reasonable for men to not want to date/marry someone who has slept around. This is something that everyone from every culture has always known.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:24 AM
2

This is hilarious! Thank you for sharing it, I love it
/r/MensRights10/04/24 10:06 AM
1

I wanna check out their subreddit at some point, but I'm currently going down the rabbit hole with this one. I heard Korea was bad but saw nothing on theirs. If it's so bad that you can tell/see it from their country's subreddit then it must be fucking awful.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:56 AM
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Number 1 is what gets me. How does that become legal anywhere? As an American, that is just so asinine. I can't comprehend how anyone in any country could come up with that.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:50 AM
1

I want to conduct a study or something on this. What is going to happen if they attempt another draft? How bad would things need to break down for it to even be considered?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:44 AM
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I've been thinking about this quite a lot recently. The standard of living in the West better stay high because not a lot of men will be willing to sacrifice themselves when such a thing would be needed. Which begs the question: If men are not going to willingly sacrifice themselves, what happens?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:43 AM
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Men can absolutely have an opinion on modern women's behavior. A lot of us have been led to believe that that is wrong, but it isn't. Ik what your point is and agree, but idk. I feel like it's important to fight and correct that notion.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:31 AM
1

How is this so clear? Just from the article? I'm not doubting, but I would like to learn. I am skeptical that India could be this bad
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:12 AM
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In Inda?! Really? I had no idea that India was this bad. Aside from Korea, I had no clue that issues could be this bad in Asia. Is it really that bad for men over there?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 09:11 AM
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Was about to post a comment just like this when I noticed you had already done it. I couldn't have said it better. It's honestly just sad that his own mother is lying to him like this. Hopefully the dad is around to tell him how it is.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 08:06 AM
2

This reads like poetry. I love it
/r/MensRights10/04/24 08:03 AM
1

Can women legally receive more social assistance than men? And how are men paying for education of children that aren't theirs?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:59 AM
1

I wonder what happens when a man paying child support takes his own life? Obviously, any life insurance is out the window (that's how it works in the military). Does the government just foot the bill?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:58 AM
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I didn't even think about how messed up this is until I read your comment. Considering who builds all the roads, buildings, power plants, water treatment facilities, etc. I kinda just assumed that it was a given that you need men to sacrifice for a society to function. It's weird how this is admitted so nonchalant. Why couldn't women just sacrifice instead?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:44 AM
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I could not imagine how disastrous and unsuccessful a draft would be right now. They would have to pump the propoganda into overdrive because ain't no one putting up with that. Especially not now.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:40 AM
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I love your synopsis and this post, but I would say that men and boys actually ARE being discouraged from traditional gender roles. One example you gave was the military. In the US, the military does not really care about recruiting men and even discourages it in advertising. We had an army recruitment video a few years back about a girl with 2 "moms" enlisting. This is deliberate. The US government is aware that it is discouraging men from enlisting. It is purposeful.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:39 AM
1

I've thought about this recently after reading someone's comment about it. The whole thought that civilization is the natural state of things and just "happened" is wild! People are way too comfortable taking the back-breaking labor of their predecessors for granted. It's just so weird when I stop and think about it. People fought and died to get us where we are today and people just want to ungratefully raze it all to the ground?
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:31 AM
1

I had forgotten about this!
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:24 AM
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I had a friend in the navy who used to say something like this. He said his mom told him he was unlucky for being "black, male, and tall." Edit: it is weird how common of an experience this is for black men. I feel for the struggle that y'all put up with.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 07:03 AM
1

Murder still happens even though it's illegal. Just because people are going to do something evil does not make it okay to legalize said evil.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 06:59 AM
1

What's with all the Gaelic in this subreddit? Are there just a lot of Irish people here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/22 02:11 AM
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You mean sigma? Never heard of sugma before, is that like a Greek letter or something? What is sugma?
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