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OP I am Christian, not Muslim, but Christian wives are also commanded to submit to their husbands in everything barring sin. However, talking to a spiritual leader (for me a pastor, for you an imam) about the specifics of your situation is very important, if you haven't done so already. I know that if I told my pastor about my husband wanting to let his sex offender brother around our kids, my pastor would immediately intervene and talk to my husband. Your husband may not be explicitly telling y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 06:22 AM
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Do you think a wife should be tailoring her respect/disrespect meter to what other people around her view as respectful or to what her husband views as respectful? The husband, since he is the one receiving the respect/disrespect. But if hers doesn't, should she be held to you/your husband's standard? No And is it fair to judge other women based on your standard? Asking whether it's disrespectful is one thing. Automatically calling it disrespectful is another. Herein lies the issue. I don't know…
/r/RedPillWives30/11/22 04:26 PM
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Oh and sometimnes, I have demon children that absolutely take after their father. How does this not directly oppose the spirit of this sub? I get it's meant to be a joke, but it's a disrespectful one at best.
/r/RedPillWives29/11/22 05:27 PM
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Yes it was hard. Many people didn't make it past their first year, either because they failed one of the core classes or realized it wasn't the right major for them. There were a few classes where I was earnestly praying I wouldn't fail because the final tests were so brutal my confidence was shot. (Imagine getting a 40% on the final and waiting a week to learn what the curve is!) My last year was especially difficult, in part because of the final courses I had to take and in part because I just…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 02:24 PM
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Computer Science
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 02:10 AM
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Mother of hamster! This is quite possibly the longest post I have ever read here. Er, half read half skimmed. OP I say this because I am guilty of doing it as well: this is not the place to post your diary. The amount of times you vacillate between wanting to be with him and not wanting to be with him, even within single paragraphs, tells me that you have a lot of stuff personally - internally - you need to work through. The fact that you were on a dating app and offered yourself to a man for a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 02:24 PM
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This is morphing in to my own, personal, "WTF are these dopey broads even THINKING?!" thread. What is "fascinating" about it? This makes exactly zero sense to me. Because you know was would be even better? Not winding up as the plot of a "Lifetime Channel" movie. Is it bad that I've chuckled at your comments throughout this thread? Maybe it's because I'm a woman, but the answer seems obvious to me: it's just a feelz thing. OP justifies wanting to stay in her position because she's "good at it" a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 07:23 PM
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Unfortunately it is not
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 02:05 AM
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Disagree hard with Created to be His Helpmeet. She has some good advice but she also says stuff that is downright unbiblical. For example: " God has provided for your husband's complete sanctification and deliverance from temptation through you, his wife." (Chapter 2 under "The Desperate Wife") Even the good advice she gives can be found in better detail in books like Fascinating Womanhood
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/22 01:06 AM
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I've faced that temptation too, sister! I know what it's like. But I was intentional about the man I chose to marry. Although I wanted to sleep with him I didn't. And he wouldn't have let me if I tried because he took his faith seriously. We got married as soon as we could so that we wouldn't sin. It is far, far more important to flee sexual temptation than to continue sinning - sleeping with a man who hasn't committed himself to you in marriage. (And, truthfully speaking, one that might never m…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/22 02:28 PM
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OP, as a Christian woman myself I have to ask, and I ask this very genuinely: do you know that sleeping with your boyfriend before marriage is a sin?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/22 11:15 AM
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You can be honest with him without being disrespectful. There are things my husband shares with me that I don't like or don't enjoy, but I try to express it in either a feminine way or reframe the situation to make him the center of attention. Feminine way to address unnecessarily cruel things (assuming they aren't moral or boundary issues) could be by expressing compassion or sympathy ("oh that poor X! How could you be so mean?") Reframing, on the other hand, would be expressing how his excitem…
/r/RedPillWives21/03/22 12:41 AM
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Because women can't be held to standards, that's sexist! 🤡 I wish stuff like this would surprise me, but I've seen this going on for years. It's why communities like this are so radical and appalling to most people. Men can't have standards, can't have preferences, can't have power, can't have a voice, can't have their own spaces away from women because anything that remotely resembles the exclusion of women or anything that doesn't force women to be 100% equal to - or better than! - men is a pr…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 01:57 AM
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Ah yes, Part 3: Levin featuring the Peasants I jest but the chapters about Levin and life in the countryside were actually my favorite in this part. In Part 1, like u/taytaymonay0108 , I tried to categorize characters into certain "RP stereotypes" if/when appropriate. Vronsky I assumed was the typical RP guy, since he appeared to be focused on his career in the military (mission first) and knew how to get what he wanted from women without letting himself get distracted by them. Even through Part…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 08:32 PM
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Have you already looked at the newsletter linked directly before that? "perhaps 1000+ years"
/r/askRPC24/02/22 07:17 PM
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So I'll go against the grain and say that Alexey is not as cold as Anna or the reader might initially think. I've met a few guys like him in the churches I've attended throughout the years. These kinds of guys are highly efficient, high achievers, busy, and to the point. Their stoicism comes from a "time and place" mentality. If it's not the right time or place to express certain emotions, then unless those emotions are uncontrollable, they set them aside for a later time. They may be very cold …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 01:26 PM
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No problem! I didn't mention this in my original comment, but from a purely utilitarian standpoint, if you want to marry a guy relatively quickly, you want a guy who sees marriage as important (if not essential) to his worldview. A guy who's not serious about his faith may be wishy-washy about marriage/commitment, as well as will be more likely to pressure you into sex and/or co-habitation. Yet another reason not to pursue guys who doesn't take his faith seriously. If you'd like more advice abou…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 07:39 PM
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Hello fellow slightly weird Christian girl! Haha. So, before getting into dress/style, there's one piece of advice that you likely won't find on here that is absolutely crucial to your faith. i would prefer a christian man, or at least someone who believes in God even if he isnt a hardcore christian. You absolutely do not want to be with a man who takes his faith lightly. If you marry, your husband will be the leader of the household, including and especially your spiritual leader. Do you want a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 02:46 PM
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And by your explanation Levin didn't have a strong frame when it involved Kitty because he wanted to be invited into her frame... You're right, I actually misspoke here. So, Vronsky is perfectly content to find happiness wherever it is, and he acts accordingly. He knows Anna is married and yet pursues her anyway. I have yet to see an instance where he isn't "being himself", or acting in a way that would surprise or confuse the audience. Hence, he has a strong frame. Levin does the same in all ar…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 08:48 PM
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maybe if Levin hadn't been so beta in regards to Kitty, she would've chosen him... I see "beta" thrown around a lot for a wide variety of guys, but as I understand it, beta guys are the ones who try to covert contract their way into desire. "If I treat her like X/Y/Z, then she'll want to have sex with me/be in a relationship with me." I'm not persuaded that Levin falls into this category. If anything, he's closer to a "blue-pilled alpha", or a man who has alpha traits but believes it is how he t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 07:45 PM
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I started listening to the audiobook while driving to and from work this month and, honestly, I'm having a lot of fun with it. Especially talking with my husband about specific moments or characters. For instance, one afternoon I was just turning onto the last street before our house right when the narrator was explaining how Vronsky was not at all interested in marriage and I yelled "I knew it!" Normally I pause wherever I am when I get home but I continued listening to it until my husband got …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 01:50 PM
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When I was about 15-16 I prayed that God, if He was willing, would guide me into a marriage while I was young. At the time I was thinking college age. I ended up getting married at 22 to a man better than what I honestly thought I would end up with. But that only came after I worked on myself in all areas of life: appearance, personality, skills, maturity, education, and, most importantly, faith. Being seen as a "silly girl" actually might be a good thing depending on the context. If the context…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 07:03 PM
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In terms of guilt and judgement, my husband and I are preparing for me to become a SAHW/SAHM within the next few years. Some women in my life who have heard about this assumed my husband was "holding me back", abusing me, or otherwise "forcing me into a 50's lifestyle." As if I don't have my own desires and agency lol. You have to understand that many women who say this are either jealous or assume your husband is some sort of malevolent puppet master. The way you let go of guilt and fear of jud…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 01:18 PM
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my ex used to "ghost" me for a day or two if I did something he didn't like and it always made me worry so much. I guess that I associate time not talking to him with those bad memories, which is really unfair to him That's great that you know, at least for the most part, where the root of your problem lies! Seriously, trying to find these roots can be a real challenge. So, my next question is: have you told him? If not, this could be a really great way to foster intimacy and vulnerability/openn…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 10:34 PM
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I was in an LDR for several months until I was able to move to the same city he was living in. First thing: Do you guys ever video call (or just regular phone call) together? Even if it's once a week, that helped us a lot. Second thing: Is he a texter or a talker? My (now) husband is not a big fan of texting. It's mostly utilitarian. He much prefers calling over text. A result of that is that he either responds quickly if it's something that only needs a few words over text, or he doesn't respon…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 05:54 PM
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Did I write this? Reminds me why I've written as much as I have about purity culture and it's toxic effects on how Christian women relate with their own sexuality. (I don't know if you are Christian, so forgive me if I assume you are.) I haven't struggled with porn, per se, but daydreaming constantly about sexual encounters might as well have been. Likewise, I was a virgin (until I got married) and even panicked when one of the guys I dated asked to hold my hand. Imagine that! I was so out of tu…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 03:41 AM
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r/RPCWomen is what you're looking for! Come on over :D
/r/RPChristians07/12/20 05:31 AM
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First of all, take a few deep breaths. I say this as a woman almost exactly in your position, just without a boyfriend. It's very easy to fall into apocalyptic thinking. I was guilty of that following election night. But your analysis of medieval times is romantic at best. Sure, they didn't have Facebook and Google tracking their "every" move, but it didn't take all the king's horses and all the king's men to track the few moves they could make. For most, it was a yearly battle to figure out how…
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 04:20 PM
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To add to u/UpTanks first point, as a woman myself, we inherit far more from our mothers than we conciously realize. When she says she doesn't want to repeat her parent's marriage, she is probably looking at just a few specific things her mom has done, rather than the entirety of their marriage. Remember that you have a much more objective view of their marriage than she does because you haven't grown up into those marriage ideals. I've been fortunate enough to grow up in a household where, desp…
/r/RPChristians16/10/20 01:37 PM
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OP after reading your posts and comments, you remind me a lot of the demon possessed man (Mark 5:1-20). Nothing could bind him to normal society. Not norms, not community, not even physical chains. He lived a totally free life and could do whatever he pleased. But when Jesus arrived, he threw himself down at Jesus' feet. He begged Jesus not to torment him. How would, could, Jesus possibly torment him? Because Jesus was there to heal him, to being him back into his right mind and into control of …
/r/RPChristians20/09/20 05:40 PM
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Hey I totally get you! I'm a Christian woman myself planning on remaining a virgin until marriage. It is absolutely worth it. God is willing and able to forgive those who have sex outside of marriage, but the physical and emotional consequences will persist and will become an obstacle in your future marriage. It helps to remember that because of how powerful sex is, Satan will try every trick in the book to encourage sex before marriage and prevent sex within marriage. All those Christian woman …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 04:48 PM
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Thank you so much for this! I'm going to start applying it immediately. As a side note: This reminds me of Matthew 15:11 "What goes into someone's mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." I know here it's specifically talking about words, but it applies in the broader sense of what originates within us, temptation. Seeing (not watching) porn or attractive people or other similar things is not sin. It's if those stimuli lead to thoughts and action…
/r/RPChristians02/09/20 12:06 AM
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As a Christian woman who is a virgin myself, most of the comments here I would only be repeating. In my own response, but I do have some advice. What stuck out to me was that you said you wanted a "purer" Christian virgin woman. What does that even mean? We're all sinners, and all our sin is equally wrong before God. (That is to say, no matter the sin and the amount of sin, the consequence is the same). She may be self-righteous, but you might have sexual sin in your past. Or lying or stealing o…
/r/RPChristians31/08/20 03:42 PM
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Thank you for the clarifications. I'm trying to practice inviting correction by vocalizing my thoughts. I wasn't 100% sure I was correct, but I was hoping someone with more knowledge would bolster and/or correct my points if I went ahead and engaged in conversation.
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 03:23 AM
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Without the negative connotations, yes "fundamentalist" is actually a pretty good descriptor. And at its core, RPC is finding that harmonious relationship you describe. The primary issue is, then, what does a harmonious relationship look like? Many Churches, across sects and denominations, teach that a harmonious relationship is one of equal weight in decision making a leadership. That is, it looks something like the saying "a relationship is two yeses or one no". RPC maintains that because a ma…
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 09:04 PM
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Since you've been replying to several comments in this thread I assume you saw mine about being new to RPC. So take what I say with a grain of salt, but unfortunately I believe these guys didn't read your whole post (or if they did, didn't read too far into it) and jumped to conclusions. Red Pill is a philosophy centered around dating and the sexual market place (think along the lines of "good looking people date good looking people"). Combined with Christianity, RPC becomes a framework for men …
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 07:50 PM
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I feel like the main problems here weren't directly because of the standards. It was that the boyfriends were trying to claim husband privileges without having the covenant to back them up, and they weren't acting out of love. Standards are of course fine to have, but I think they should be expressed rather than enforced during the dating phase so that both parties know what they are expected to uphold when married. Do you see any flaws in how I'm interpreting this?
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 07:13 PM
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I'm still new to RPC so I was wondering if you could point to some of the comments (not the obvious ones like the thirsty 15 year old lol) and explain why they're BP?
/r/RPChristians03/08/20 06:51 PM
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