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| 93 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems. | discussion | _Hedaox_ | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/25 01:10 PM |
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| 1 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?“Single motherhood and STDs prove the fence is still needed” doesn’t square with the numbers. Nordic nations let adults manage their private lives so much that over half of all births are outside marriage yet homicide sits below 1 / 100 000 and life-satisfaction leads the world. The U.S., which pours millions into abstinence-only grants, has six-times Europe’s syphilis rate and far higher teen pregnancy. Where access replaces bans, results flip: Colorado’s free-IUD program cut teen births 40 % a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?You’re not reading between the lines: see Chesterton’s fence. Sure, but Chesterton’s point is “find out why the fence was built; if the original reasons no longer apply, dismantle it.” When tight sexual rules first went up, the world had no reliable contraception, high maternal-mortality rates, no way to prove paternity, so inheritance fights could wreck families. Those problems have modern fixes: cheap birth control, safe childbirth, DNA tests, and inheritance laws that rely on written wills, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?Part of your argument was: “It’s good because it’s been around forever and lots of people did it.” No matter what you want to defend with that, it's still appeal-to-tradition fallacy. Just because something is widespread and long-lasting doesn’t make it right. If you want to defend it, you need more reasons and popularity and age aren’t valid ones. I agree we treat people like kids in some parts of society, and that’s a problem. But piling on more sexual rules only repeats the same mistake. Tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?Just because something is widespread and has been around for a long time doesn’t mean it’s good or the right thing to do. For example, slavery and racial segregation were accepted and legally enforced for centuries in many parts of the world, yet they were clearly unjust. I think some conservative restrictions come from good intentions, and I can respect that. But we shouldn’t force those things onto people. Adults should be treated like adults, capable of thinking for themselves. They should fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | The best way to attract women is to not try.I think it's what he was trying to say. Not that you shouldn't try at all. But that you shouldn't be desperate ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessIntimacy is also about holding hands, cuddling and kissing. I vividly remember when I was feeling very alone, wanting those things more than anything, and a lot more than sex. I've never equated intimacy with only sex. Hell, at the time I got my first girlfriend, I was ok to never have sex with her if she wanted that (she was unknowingly asexual). Today I know, I'd rather be with someone that like sex like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterI don't know about that. If women are generally better at teaching children, why not just let them do it ? As long as everyone is free to choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?I wasn't there throughout the whole history lol. I think women and men shouldn't do casual sex in general because it's bad for both, and society in general. I don't think casual sex in any way and form can solve the problem of intimacy for men anyway. I'm not pretending the opposite and I agree with you that it's not acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?I'm not from the US, I definitely can see how bad it is getting there... But yeah that's I agree with you that's contradictory. Men want to have a lot of sex with different women, but at the same time prefer women that didn't have a lot with different men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?It's a different problem. You can feel lonely because you have no one that desires you and zero intimacy, even though you have a lot of friends and family. It's true for men and women (see the studies I have showed on femcels). It's just rarer for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterSome people want to. I don't think encouraging it is a good thing too, but it's clearly not as bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterYeah I agree that any job can be done by any genders. I also agree that most of the reasons why jobs are gendered is because of cultural and historical reasons. But I think the biological and evolutionary reasons shouldn't be ignored too. In the end, I think that the most important thing is that everyone is free to do whatever jobs they want. Edit: What I want to say is that I don't think forcing a 50/50 female/male ratios on every jobs is a good idea. I think you can challenge gendered stereoty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 07:29 PM |
| 6 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterI agree that men are less and less the providers in relationship in western societies. I think it's a good thing as this let women with the ability to be more independent, and men with the ability to become househusband if they want. Though I disagree that men created a world where they are needed. I personally think both were and are totally needed for society. When some extremely essentials jobs are done 90+% of the time by the same gender, you would be in trouble if one gender would disappear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 06:52 PM |
| 8 | I like this communityThis. Every ideology should accept and welcome criticism, or else they should just be honest and call themselves a cult that have the absolute truth. However none should accept opposition to people just because of a gender or anything that represent their identity and have no control of. Sadly we still see too much of that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Even if they blame the wrong thing, they are still suffering and should be show compassion. Doing otherwise will just make everything worse, and they will keep blaming others. I repeatedly said that women should not gives sex to any men just because they are asking. Please stop with this argument, it's becoming ridiculous. I have more than enough intimacy in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?I'm not for that at all. I think it has more to do with being religious? However, data shows that there exists a bottom% of people that are not having sex with anyone. So I can understand that some people would prefer casual sex to be limited, it seems more fair to everyone, as every person could have someone else to be with, instead of having a lot of people on the same people (generally attractive people together). But I don't think having less protection is the right thing to do. I personally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?You can't put every men in the same bag. There will always be men that wants intimacy with women, some that don't. I think the majority clearly want it though. Sorry you have to experience $lut $haming, this is not acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?It's not insane. You can see it a lot in r/malementalhealth for example. Large, converging samples show roughly half to two-thirds of male involuntary abstainers think about suicide and about one-quarter have attempted. Peer-reviewed work on women who want sex but never manage it is still scarce, yet every study that probes mental health reports shame, loneliness, and frequent suicidal thoughts. I think women still manage it better because they generally have more social support and do more help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?It seems you disagree with me. So you think involuntary abstainers women that suffer because of lack of sex shouldn't be shown compassion and helped ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 07:34 PM |
| 12 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.I've definitely witnessed the opposite perspective too, where men are portrayed as "useless." I've seen many young women respond with "no" when asked, "Do we need men?" At the same time, I agree that it's all too common to see femininity equated with weakness. Both of these attitudes are harmful, and we should be pushing back against them. But I don’t believe it helps to argue over which gender has it worse, that only fuels a pointless gender war. What matters most is that we all recognize these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.It’s not just “don’t hit or don't be awful to women.” The expectations placed on men go far beyond that. From a young age, many of us are conditioned to conform to a narrow definition of masculinity, one that suppresses vulnerability and enforces performance. We’re repeatedly told, directly or indirectly, things like: “Don’t show any emotions, especially sadness or fear.” “You must be strong, stoic, and never ask for help.” “Your value comes from how much money you earn.” “Your career should com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub?The issue isn't with women as a group, it's with specific actions or behaviors exhibited by certain individuals. It's important to make that distinction. Criticizing an entire gender based on the actions of some is not only unfair, but also intellectually lazy. If there's a behavior you find problematic, address that behavior directly, regardless of who is engaging in it. Generalizing leads to prejudice, not progress. Focus on principles and actions, not identities or groups. Same thing with men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Yes, I read all of these studies. Took me awhile to get back to you. Yes, sex can be all those things, and most of those studies were about couples in committed relationships. That is where sex works best. The Teng et al., 2024 study shows that sexual frequency < 12 × yr predicted a 2.3-fold higher 10-yr mortality. The fully-adjusted model controlled for partnered status, so the effect is not limited to married or co-habiting couples. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-024-83414-3 But you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Many of these articles are opinion without real peer review studies. Six of the seven articles I have mentioned are part of high ranked peer-reviewed journals, last one (Bény 2020) is a graduate thesis. The only thing you are giving me is your opinion. They are only looking at one aspect and focusing on one outcome. For example the abstract by Johanssen is focused on women who actually desire sex. It does not take into account those that do not. So if you do not care about something in the first… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionAnd also that the ones that say it doesn't matter are lying anyway. You can't win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessYes it's too big a hill to climb, for anyone, to do a sexual act on someone they are not attracted to. And if a woman had to pity me for having sex, I'd rather not do it all. The problem with men is not exactly that they are not having sex. It's that they can't find anyone that is desiring them. If you think pity sex will solve it, that means you understand nothing about the sexlessness problem with men. I'm still wondering if you'd apply your own logic with your gay friend and do him a bj ? Com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessYou're arguing with the Oxford definition right now, not against me. Compassion is not about doing something you don't want to do. But I can take your wrong definition, I don't mind. Let's say your best bro just admit in being gay, and is frustrated because he can't find someone to have sex with. Would you be the compassionate one and do him a favour by letting him peg you even though you're not gay and/or not attracted to him at all ? You can at least give him a bj, after all It's what your ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessOxford Definition of compassion: sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others. It has nothing to do with doing something you don't want to. What is your point exactly ? You want random women to go see any men that are asking for a bj and do it even when they don't want to ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 07:30 AM |
| 6 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessDamn lol. I don't think it's something he'd want. But following his logic, he should at least do the deed for gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:40 AM |
| 6 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessit's not about who has more money. But about doing something you don't want to. Have you heard about consent ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:38 AM |
| 9 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male loneliness"If you were really compassionate you'd give your money to every poor women you meet" is the male equivalent of what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:28 AM |
| 15 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessThis. There are things like intimacy, that you can't get from friends and family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:21 AM |
| 9 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessSeriously, who hurt you ? I agree that dating apps are a problem, and being an involuntary abstainers is hard. But do you really think that it's viable socially to ask women to provide sex whenever ? Is it love and compassion to force a woman to have sex when she doesn't "selected" it ? Sounds like rape to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Again you are not reading, and I'm starting to think you are having too many discussions with different people on the subject. I know sex, is not a biological need. The problem is when someone want it and can't get it at all even when trying. People that choose on their own to not getting it, but could of, if they wanted to, are totally fine. And AGAIN, I'm not saying women or anyone should have sex with these people, I already recognise the risks, and that's totally not my point. My only point … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 27 | Just a random thought: instead of saying 'men are bad at sex,' why not say that women take more time and effort to reach satisfaction?Yeah I always felt like women complaining that they can't finish, is often because they have sex passively. They are just waiting for you to give them an orgasm. I think women would be a lot more satisfied in bed if they were interacting more, and trying more to satisfy their body by themselves. Found that if they go on top and have to move by themselves, it yields better success in them having an orgasm. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/25 01:17 PM |
| – | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.As a man living in Europe, that's definitely my experience too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?The issue is that you don't understand the difference between voluntary and involuntary abstainers. For someone who chooses not to have sex, voluntary abstainers, it's usually not a problem because it's their choice. But for those who want intimacy with another person but are unable to achieve it despite trying, that's a real hardship. It's not just about a biological or mechanical need for sex. It's about feeling desired as a person and being able to experience intimacy with someone else when y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Wtf are you even reading ?? I told you multiple times already that this is not about women giving sex to men ! It's about acknowledging that it's hard for men. I know sex is dangerous, I know you shouldn't do it with anyone, I know people should do it only with a person they are attracted to and feel safe with. I 100% agree with all of that. I agree that men that are using women for sex when she was looking for a relationship is something really bad. It happened to me, so I know how it is. Not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 07:04 PM |
| -2 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?You don't need sex for intimacy. It's not only sex sure, but it is still important in intimacy. But a lot of men don't get any other form of intimacy anyway. And men need to stop trying to find any excuse to justify wanting to use someone else for their pleasure. It's not about them wanting to use someone, it's about the fact that it's really hard to get any intimacy as a man. Women can have that easily and men can't, and it's getting worse for them. It's like saying "And women need to stop tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 09:52 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Yeah both men and women do that. A lot of men recognise the problems women are facing without doing anything themselves and vice versa. I think the least we can do is showing empathy, so that the problem is recognised by society as a whole, and some wholesome people can try to solve it. I don't think it's reasonable to ask everyone to try and solve the problem by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Following your logic: so women shouldn't complain when men aren't paying for dates, aren't doing the dishes, doesn't want to be the bread-winner, doesn't want to be in a relationship with them. How dare they complain about something they need to use another person for ? Can't women solve their own problems themselves? Of course, I don't agree with any of that. Women should complain! And people should listen and at minimum recognize the difficulties they are going through. And honestly not enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.He did not say that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceMen are socially expected to make the first move and at the same time a lot of them are scared to be creepy when approaching women, so the best alternative is to use apps. Currently half of the new couples formed are made through the apps, so it's working for some people. But when you have to be in the top 20% of men's profile, it's understandable that a lot of guy just give up. It's not just the algorithm that is bad, the whole swiping idea is trash, and apps are mostly only attracting men. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceI've never assumed that. I'm just saying dating apps have impact in real life. When women only like top 20% of men in dating apps, this have an impact in real life. I'm not saying it's women fault though. I think the app are badly designed. And all of that is causing men to be massively single, and with delay women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side piecethere are no links Here you go, Education Level and Mating Success: Undercover on Tinder https://docs.iza.org/dp11933.pdf What's The Biggest Challenge Men Face On Dating Apps? A Q&A with Aviv Goldgeier https://web.archive.org/web/20190719163307/https://hingeirl.com/hinge-reports/whats-the-biggest-challenge-men-face-on-dating-apps-a-qa-with-aviv-goldgeier-junior-growth-engineer/ Aspirational pursuit of mates in online dating markets https://arxiv.org/pdf/1808.04840.pdf Popularity Bias in Online D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceNote that dating apps was not mainstream at all when you were 20 too. Dating is getting harder, and online dating is one of the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceYeah and you probably wasn't as good when you were younger. Show how age is important, because it gives you experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceBeing older make it easier to date people of similar age as a man. 6ft is not average, the average height is 5ft9 for a man in the US Being very outgoing etc is really important for dating, and that make you better than average. I think you have great assets going for you, so could explain why you have more success than most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceAlready listed them in another comment: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ScYBKWvRWH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceYeah online dating is really bad. When half of the new couples are created online, you can guess the effect must be important. Male singleness and sexlessness coincide with the years in which dating apps went mainstream (post 2012). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceWasn't talking about this specific study, more recent studies show the same effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceI've never said that women in real life only want the top 20% of men. It's like that on dating apps because people can only judge on photos. But the effect is still visible in real life but just not as brutally extreme. On speed dating, for example, women can go with others factors than just photos. Also when women get to know someone they rate their attractiveness more in a similar way as men rate unknown women. When women on dating app only want the 20% of men, this has effect in real life as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceIt's less strong with real life, but the effect is still here: • Kurzban & Weeden 2007 – 10k US speed-daters; women yes 34 %, men yes 49 %. • Fisman et al. 2006 – Columbia speed dating; women’s selectivity ↑ with more options, men’s ↓. • Eastwick & Finkel 2008 – 3k dates; women yes ~37 %, men ~53 %; top men most sought. • Role-reversal experiment – when women approached, gap flipped (proof chooser = pickier). • NSFG 2015-19 – 28 % of men vs 13 % of women report 15 + lifetime partners (US). • Har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 11:19 AM |
| 7 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceOf course there is others evidences: Tinder field experiment (2019, Neyt et al.): Created fake profiles to measure swipe behavior. Women liked only ~4.5% of male profiles, while men liked ~62% of female profiles. Clear evidence that women are vastly more selective – essentially only the top few percent of men were consistently swiped right. (Sample: 3,600 profile ratings, age 23–27; peer-reviewed study.) Hinge internal data (2017): Analysis of hundreds of thousands of Hinge “likes.” Top 10% of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceIt's also true on other apps. Most people meet on apps now, so it mostly applies in real life. I agree that people meeting in real life won't be this selective. But when you see how the rate of single people is evolving, it makes you wonder. Putting physical attractiveness with photos as the first criteria for meeting someone might not have been a great idea I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 09:20 AM |
| – | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceWell based on dating apps studies women only choose top 20% of men. So even slightly attractive guys don't get to have that much sex with women, so it's reasonable to think that a lot of them will date down in order to have sex with unattractive women. They probably think it's better than not having sex. But they know they will never commit to a relationship with them. Some are honest with that, some are just lying or unsure. When the unattractive woman suddenly want a relationship, the guy will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do PPD men tell women to ignore red flags then turn around and complain that we date criminals and bad people?Women I spent a lot of time with that I appreciate. I can't like a woman that I just met on a first date. I only paid because of social expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Why do PPD men tell women to ignore red flags then turn around and complain that we date criminals and bad people?Honestly I had a lot of dates with women, and every single women where I proposed to pay, they ended it after the first or second date, even the ones that explicitly said they want a man that pay. And every women where they wanted to pay for me ended in sex, relationship or good friend. Splitting got me mixed results. So now I'm always going for the split. I'm only okay to pay when we are no longer strangers and I appreciate you enough. My guess of why it's like that for me is because I'm in Eur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comeThat's only first impression based on photos data. It goes to 50% too when women get to know you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableThe vast majority of people would have time for someone they are interested in. The guy had time for creating a profile on an app, to match with her and talk to her. My guess is that he was just more interested with someone else, and work was an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 07:30 PM |
| 4 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesIsn't it strange than men feel more safe when they are more likely to be victim of violent crime ? Is it because women are more likely to be victim of small crimes, like street harrasment ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 05:44 AM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyWell no food you will die, diseased food depends on how bad it is, you could die or survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?I think the comparison is much closer than you realize. Not so long ago, sexual assault wasn’t even recognize, only rape was. Imagine yourself living in that time: what would you have done to make sure sexual assault was acknowledged too? Would you have argued that pointing out rape is worse was redundant? Sexual assault began to be taken seriously not because people started ignoring the severity of rape, but because experience taught us that sexual assault can also cause real harm. That’s the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?Yes, reproducibility matters. Yes, there was a 30%-40% replication rate in 2015 and it was bad. No, it doesn’t mean every failed replication means the study was wrong. Nowadays many Labs 2 got ~54–62% replication. Is it perfect now? Nope. But it’s way better than 10 years ago. Science self-corrects through this kind of work, and that’s what we’re watching happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?Replicability is important yeah, but a p-value isn’t a 95 % replication guarantee. A p < 0.05 only says: “if there really were no effect, we’d see data this extreme ≤ 5 % of the time.” It says nothing about how often a true effect will show up again. The American Statistical Association issued a statement in 2016 warning that “the p-value is not the probability that a finding will be reproduced.” In the 2015 project, many repeat studies still had only middling sample sizes, and some had to swap … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 01:52 PM |
| 3 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?Yeah only about a third of the 100 psychology findings were statistically significant the second time around. But “didn’t repeat” ≠ “bad science.” Replications can miss for lots of innocent reasons: smaller effects than first thought, different participants or setups, or just plain statistical noise. So the 36 % figure signals a real reproducibility issue, but it doesn’t prove those dozens of studies were all flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 12:09 PM |
| 5 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?I agree with you, but sometimes people here will disregards poorly-designed studies in favor of weaker evidence. If someone disregards an RCT or systematic review because it’s flawed (e.g., poor randomization or bias), but then promotes anecdotal evidence or personal stories as superior, then they are not applying scientific reasoning, but rather cherry-picking based on personal bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:05 AM |
| -2 | What’s the point of asking women for their opinions if you’re just going to dismiss them right away?Can you give examples of flawed studies ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?What you’re saying sounds to me like saying that both street harassment and rape should only be forbidden based on the principle of consent, and that because rape is generally seen as worse, all the attention goes to it, meaning street harassment won't be properly addressed. That doesn't make sense to me. We can agree that rape is clearly worse than street harassment, like FGM is clearly worse than MGM. There is some very bad street harassment and not so bad rapes, but rapes is still worse. Reco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?Fair enough, I see now what you meant. The context made it really sound like you were challenging my point about severity. Because you wrote "What is worse depends..." in direct response to my “FGM is much worse,” so I reasonably inferred you were disputing the harm ranking. Here, analogous can easily be taken to mean similar in risk (even if different in others factors). But thanks for clarifying. My lingering question, if we both know the physical-harm gradient exists, why set it aside and fra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?You should inform yourself more on FGM and MGM. Right back at you. You're right that consent is the core issue, but pretending the physical damage is the same minimizes how devastating some types of FGM are. First, yes, the severity of FGM heavily depends on the exact type. Not all FGM is the extreme kind (infibulation/type III). Most FGM globally falls under type I or II (WHO, 2022), and among these, type I (clitoridectomy) is common. However, as you said type I itself has two subtypes: Type Ia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 05:44 AM |
| 15 | Dear women that think, that men should support equality for women, against discrimination of women. Do you recognize discrimination of men? In which aspects? Did you say against it?Female circumcision is much worse. But male one is still bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If men adjusted their standards could this resolve the Successful Woman's Lonliness Epidemic?In this clip a woman makes the observation that "the more a woman becomes successful, the more likely she is lonely. Likely because her dating pool consists of insecure prospects intimidated by her achievements, status, education, and financial independence no doubt." First of all, the data shows that successful women are not lonely and are actually more likely to find a relationship. I agree that there are definitely some men who feel intimidated. They might be insecure, but this can also be ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: If men adjusted their standards could this resolve the Successful Woman's Lonliness Epidemic?Attractive women would easily get x500 more likes than an average man in OLD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner?No, it should just be grounded in reality. I think your example is a reasonable expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What is wrong with modern menNo kidding! I think it was pretty clear what she found problematic No it's not, because she did not mention what part of the text is problematic. And you didn't do it too. Please explain because I'm not seeing it at all. But that's the thing - he never said he was open to discussing it early on. The straw man has struck again. He did here : https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/niSg3vIqHy Yes, I'd say the same thing. No double standards. Okay at least you're coherent here. In philosophy and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:26 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with modern menBTW, nice use of a straw man. She never said she was against the principle of equitably sharing expenses when they both work... And neither did I. I never said that too. I asked to see if this is what was problematic. Apparently it's not that. Okay I will rephrase it again then and I hope you will respond this time. If a woman says this: "If my man wants to work, im all for it, as long as he’s contributing to the bills. Im not going to be paying all the bills so he can live rent-free. However, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 10:46 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with modern menI'm not seeing it like that at all. For me that means that if a person want to be in a relationship with them and want children, they wants the person to take care of the children, because they wants to focus on their carrer. The person can just leave the relationship if they don't want to. And I think it's something fair to ask. I see women as humans, I hold the exact same standard for them as men. Let's me rephrase it and I hope you can respond. So is a man that have to contribute to pays bill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 09:38 AM |
| 0 | What is wrong with modern menSo is a man that contribute to pays bills or a man that take care of the children because the woman wants to focus on her carrer, a walking penis who doesn't get to make his own decision ? Is that the point you are making ? Or is it a double standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingBrother, I respect the personal experiences you’ve shared, seriously. You’ve been through a lot, and the fact that you’ve grown from it is admirable. On that point, we agree: personal accountability and reflection are critical, both in relationships and life in general. Also I have no struggles with women and I had a lot of success in the apps too so don't worry about me please. But that doesn't mean I can't recognise that it's hard for other people. Overall, I think you misunderstood where I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingI said "were" since you're no longer a divorcée. Also, is it just me or is it kind of weird to specify that they're of legal age? Maybe that’s just me overthinking it, English isn’t my first language. Anyway, the idea that most men struggle on dating apps isn't some emotional narrative, it's backed by stats. Tinder is around 75% male and 25% female, so already the numbers are skewed against men. https://www.forbes.com/sites/johnkoetsier/2021/02/09/tinder-is-80-men-as-dating-apps-are-used-differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingDo you said this because you were approached a lot when you were like this ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 06:15 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themYeah in general couples have men being a bit older. But it's mostly around the same age. The average age difference in couples is between 3 and 4y, more like 2 and 3y in western countries. In the US in 2017 only 10% of couples had a 10y+ age gap, 60% of couples are within 3y. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 09:00 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themYeah but people generally date other people that are around the same age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 06:02 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themHe is talking in terms of looks, not in terms of age or anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"?I mean there is a difference between people that say women and men rights should be different and the ones that says it should be the same. I agree that everyone could be sexist based on theirs behaviours because we don't always realise we are doing something sexist, but there is degrees to it. You can't put everyone in the same bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"?This + compaign for people to drive better. This is what feminism is useful for. But for some reason it almost completely exclude non-men perpetrators of the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women?I don't know. People who are blindly following old medieval books can be a little gullible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women?You shouldn't believe what anyone say to you without verification first lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:20 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women?Both are true. Some people do it for attention and some do it for themselves. Some even do it for themselves and for attention at the same time. In the same way people do gym for attention or for themselves or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:19 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women?Depends on your interpretation. For me anyone that auto identify as a muslim can be a muslim. There is no such thing as true muslim. Islamics Terrorists are actually doing everything Mohamed and his companions did at his time when looking at the most authentic documents from sunni Islam. Killing was authorised in a lot of case. It was barbaric medieval times. You were killed for being gay, for being apostate, for mocking the prophet etc... things like that. I can recommend nabi asli channel on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 01:14 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women?Not really, people wear makeup to appear more attractive that they naturally are. Be it for themselves or for others. If the goal is to be more attractive to men in general, you need to go for natural and minimalistic makeup or no make-up at all. If the goal is to feel better about yourself, you can do whatever you want. Most men find you more attractive without the heavy makeup, the amount of effort is not relevant on what attracts men. Would you care or find attractive a man just because he pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are the ones who really settleOf course they do, men do it too when they had multiple partners. Everything being equal everyone would prefer a more attractive and better at sex partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Robert Wadlow the biggest chad alpha of them all <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Sure lol Funny that the alpha is the one that is scared of taller people 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 06:21 PM |
| 13 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Seems like brain missing mentality to me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?I don't know, you can technically do something illegal whenever you want lol. Doesn't mean you won't end up arrested, but you can do it. But no problem, I wasn't really trying to contradict your point, I see what you mean :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Depends where you're doing it. In the nature or in the city is not the same ahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Of course it will never be exactly the same. But it's around the same level of pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 11:07 AM |
| 14 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?I don't know if you are serious lol, but you are making me laugh 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:08 AM |
| 17 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Lol I'm 6'3 and I don't understand it at all. I don't care what height people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?Yeah it's also a number problem. If you get called pretty 100 times a day vs 1 every 10 year, it will not have the same effect. And people have a hard time understanding how it is for the other gender because they are not experiencing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?I mean if it's that big, it can be seen as a flex 😂 but yeah it definitely can be embarrassing especially in tight clothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?There are devices to simulate periods pain if you want to try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:39 AM |
| 5 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?He can, but should he ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:38 AM |
| 23 | Men, what’s something you love about being a man?What the hell? Do you think people are out to get you or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Men are the ones who really settleI think it's strange to think you wouldn't? If one person you had sex with was very good, of course you would compare them with others that were not so good. What you should respond to the men saying that is that physical attractiveness and sex is not all there is to it. You can be with a less attractive person and not "settle" for them, because they have other qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.Who cares about me? Could you please just respond to my points? If I’m truly wrong, it should be easy to refute my arguments. That’s all I’m asking. I’ll be happy to admit I’m wrong. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.No, that’s not my goal. I’d say the exact same thing if the problem were mainly coming from women. My goal is for people to focus on rapists, not on men or women. Yes, the majority may be men, but I also include the rare cases involving women and non-binary people. A rape is a rape, no matter the gender of the perpetrator. I don't need a degree to recognize that. Are you going to rely on an argument from authority fallacy? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.Having a majority of male perpetrators doesn’t mean that being a man is the problem. Men who commit rape or sexual assault are a very small minority. If you want to solve this issue, focusing on “understanding men” as a whole won’t get you far, because the vast majority have no desire or reason to commit such acts. But I feel like you're not addressing any of the actual points I've raised in my post. You're just saying that men are the problem because most perpetrators are male. The problem is n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.That's my point. We shouldn't focus so much on criterias like gender or ethnicity when addressing problems. Even if there is a majority of perpetrators within that category. And more on the exact perpetrators, no matter their gender or ethnicity and treat them the same. And exact same thing for the victims. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerThanks for clarifying. To be fair, I don’t think anyone here is claiming that looks alone will make someone rich, nor that every attractive person automatically ends up successful. I definitely don’t believe there are zero poor extremely attractive people. That would be an unrealistic and overly simplistic view. What I’m saying is pretty straightforward. Being attractive provides a measurable social and economic advantage in many contexts. It doesn’t guarantee anything, and yes, plenty of attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 06:28 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerJust to clarify, I wasn’t equating personal preferences with calling women “heifers” or “boss bitches.” I already told you, I agree those terms are degrading and shouldn’t be used. My point was simply that wanting a younger or more domestic partner isn’t inherently cruel, it becomes harmful when it’s expressed with contempt or used to devalue others. I think it’s important to separate how preferences are expressed from the preferences themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 06:12 PM |
| 6 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerYou’re making the classic mistake of thinking that if an advantage doesn’t guarantee success, then it must not be real. That’s just bad logic. Pretty privilege absolutely exists. It’s backed by decades of research in psychology, sociology, and economics. Attractive people, especially women, tend to get more attention, more help, and better treatment overall. That includes everything from job opportunities to legal outcomes to how strangers treat them. If you care about sources: Dion et al. (1972… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:50 PM |
| 4 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerYou've never heard of pretty privilege? Most people will go above and beyond to help a poor but attractive woman. Many men will try to marry her or spend money on her simply because of her looks. These women often gain financially because men want them in their lives and compete for their attention. On the other hand, very few woman would spend money on a man just because he is attractive. This is not an universal truth, but it's a real trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:23 PM |
| 5 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI disagree with the person you just responded to, because I believe women should be free to wear whatever they want without being openly objectified. I also agree with you that people shouldn't use derogatory terms when expressing their preferences. However, I think you're going too far by saying that men's preferences are degrading. Wanting a younger, fit partner who is family-oriented and doesn't have children from previous relationships isn't inherently degrading, it's simply a personal prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?I agree that there are scenarios where people might mistakenly perceive their partner as abusive when that's not truly the case, such as your example of a partner who simply refuses to submit. There can also be ambiguous cases where it's not entirely clear if a situation is abusive, like a partner who contributes financially but does nothing around the house, or someone who completely refuses intimacy. However, some situations are clearly and objectively abusive. For instance, when a partner phy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?That's the thing, you don't always realize you're being used. Sometimes people find themselves trapped with an abusive partner, yet they stay because their love is genuine. Only years later do they discover they've sacrificed everything for someone who gave nothing back, or worse, took advantage of them. I don't think we should love a partner the same way we love our kids. A romantic partner isn't family at first; they become family gradually, with time. Your child, however, is instantly your fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?I don't know. I feel like I started with exactly that kind of thinking and it made me miserable. Wouldn't that exact thinking lead to lot of people being used ? I feel like a higher form of love is one where you can love yourself as much as the other, and aim for both happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?There is that, but to me it's not true love. If you have true love for someone and they don't want you of course you wouldn't want to be with them if that makes them unhappy. But you can have a case where you don't even know, and you just don't even try because you think the person you love would be better with someone, else. It's here where I think you need to be a bit selfish and still try and ask them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?I think everyone should be a bit selfish and a lover at the same time. And that only selfishness or only true love is bad. If you have a 100% true love for someone. Wouldn't that mean you would try to find them a better partner than yourself, so they can be happier ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenA certain number of women being single means an equivalent number of men are too. Because you need two to tango. Red pills say the exact same thing: "Men are going away from relationship because women suck". If everyone around you suck, maybe it's you the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenThinking anyone or any ideology is 100% right is stupidity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:54 PM |
| 2 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenRelationship benefits both men and women. Otherwise no women would want to be in a relationship. But I agree that men does benefits it more in terms of emotional support and mental health. Single women often report higher overall life satisfaction and even sexual satisfaction compared to single men, suggesting that women may be less dependent on a romantic partner for their well‐being because they typically have stronger support networks. Men doesn't have the same level of support networks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenSure I agree. It's not something that only one gender can solve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenWhile, yes, studies based on declared preferences indicate that men place greater importance on looks, research involving speed dating and actual partner choices suggests that men and women value physical attractiveness similarly when actually choosing a partner. These studies demonstrate that people generally choose partners who closely match their own level of attractiveness. Even on dating apps, where women are more selective due to the higher male-to-female ratio, the couples formed still te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 3 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenHonestly I think there is some truth and a lot of bullshit in every pills. Well studies definitely show that women looks for financial security in a partner more than men. Depends a bit on the location, but it's really true for the US. I hate people that are earning money using people's loneliness, that is exactly what OF and some Pills content creator are. What is Briffault's law ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 11:43 AM |
| 5 | There's really no proof that men love more unconditionally than womenI don't think anyone should really love unconditionally. I think it's unhealthy anyway. The thing is, studies show that women tend to leave relationships more often than men. I think this can be explained by the fact that men more often that not do the approaching, so it's often easier for women to find a new relationship, while it's harder for men. So men will more often try to stay in relationship because they know they can't easily find another. Does that mean men intrinsically love more unco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 11:32 AM |
| 2 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.Honestly, it depends on where we're talking about. In Europe, statistics show that only 20% of women care about a man being the breadwinner, while in the US, it's 70%. I'm from France, so I definitely don't see this in my everyday life. I think the problem is that the US lacks strong universal and egalitarian ideals. Gender roles seems to be much more rigid there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:00 AM |
| 16 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.Okay, so you think it's unfair for men to expect women to be financially dependent on them. So the issue isn't so much with women who want a provider, but rather with men who want to provide, since that can put women in a worse situation. In this scenario, women are the victims. I’d also like to challenge your perspective. When it comes to having a home and raising children, don’t you think someone needs to take care of it? If both parents are financially providing, wouldn't that mean you'd have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 06:52 AM |
| 10 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.And if a woman asked you to do all of that while she is providing for the house ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 06:33 AM |
| 17 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.You didn't answer the question. Using your logic, is a man that want a women to be a nurse, cook, maid, baby-sitter and sex provider all at the same time, gross and unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 06:23 AM |
| 4 | It's sad that women have been conditioned to be self serving and overly interested in men's money and resources.As a man I don't think it's necessarily gross or unattractive to want a provider. It is only unattractive when the woman doesn't offer anything back in return, but if we both equally bring something to the table I think it's perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 06:21 AM |
| -2 | Discrimination against involuntary celibates is Discrimination against menYes. That's what I'm saying, some people can be involuntarily celibate without expressing extreme resentment and hostility. They wouldn't really be considered incel in that case. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Discrimination against involuntary celibates is Discrimination against menI think the idea is that when a man is not having sex with a partner for a long time (1 year) they are considered involuntary celibate, in the sense that they would most likely would have sex if they had a partner but can't find anyone. Also there might be a confusion between being incel (with the incel ideology) and just being involuntary celibate (that doesn't mean they necessarily follow incel ideology). | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Discrimination against involuntary celibates is Discrimination against menIt's more likely to be 1/3rd | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Discrimination against involuntary celibates is Discrimination against menChatGPT answer with source : "According to a study reported by Indiana University News, nearly one in three U.S. men aged 18–24 reported no partnered sexual activity in the past year—with inactivity increasing from 19% in 2009 to about 31% in 2018—and similar trends were seen among men aged 25–34. This study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, provides a concrete data point on celibacy among young men under 30. You can read more about it here: Nearly 1 in 3 young men in the US report … | /r/MensRights | 27/02/25 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Look, I get that a quick “spark” happens when you first see someone, but our long-term standards aren’t just set in that first moment. Research shows that repeated exposure, whether it’s hooking up with super attractive people or watching idealized images in porn, can shift what we see as normal. This isn’t about asking anyone to ignore their sexuality, it’s about how our experiences and cultural influences reshape our preferences. And yeah, some studies even link these higher standards with lat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I'm not talking about that at all. Just saying that the amount of people being single will increase, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:39 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Of course, they aren’t, but this is just for the sake of argument. That’s great if you find your husband attractive for reasons beyond appearance. I agree that men who take advantage of women aren’t always the most conventionally good-looking. What I’m saying is that they tend to be the most attractive overall, whether that’s in terms of physical appearance, social status, financial stability, or a combination of these factors. It’s not just about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:16 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Yes, I think this applies to everyone. If you're not willing to meet the basic expectations that others have in a relationship, then staying single might be the better option, because finding and maintaining a relationship will likely be difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.If a large portion of women are primarily attracted to a very small percentage of men, wouldn’t that eventually lead to a significant number of women ending up lonely? I can't speak for all men, but my point is: If your standards aren't realistic, you’re more likely to end up lonely and unhappy. I’m not suggesting that women should be attracted to toxic or unappealing men. Rather, I’m pointing out that attraction is shaped by many factors, one of which is the nature of the relationships people e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.If she genuinely wants to date him, it means she actually likes him too. You can't force someone to be attracted to something they don’t naturally like overnight. However, people can reassess their standards over time through self-reflection. It’s similar to a man who only wants to date supermodels because he was once very good-looking and managed to date one in the past. But now, if he’s gained weight and still lives with his parents, yet his standards remain unchanged, wouldn’t you agree that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.In your example, she didn't truly lower her standards, she made a compromise. A woman who genuinely lowered her standards would actively want to be in a relationship with that man, not just settle for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 03:36 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Because there aren't enough people like that to match the number of overweight individuals seeking relationships with them. To find a partner in this scenario, one would need to be either very lucky or have other very good qualities. But all else being equal, this imbalance means that a lot of these overweight people will end up without a match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I want to see more healthy relationships and fewer people being taken advantage of. Sometimes, what people desire can be at odds with that goal, and they may unintentionally put themselves in harmful situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I think more people should prioritize long-term relationships. People in casual relationships should seek partners who genuinely value them, as there is a higher risk of being taken advantage of if someone is not truly attracted to them. I believe that people who engage in 'pump and dump' behavior are the most harmful in these dynamics. While women are often on the losing end of such situationships, they can still make choices that protect their own interests. That said, a key step toward change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:30 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.No, because the goals are different. Lowering your standards for the sake of casual relationships is not the same as adjusting them to build a long-term partnership. I believe that long-term relationships tend to be healthier than casual situationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:13 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I agree. Still, attraction plays a key role in relationships, and people who are on a similar level of attractiveness often have a higher chance of experiencing mutual attraction. This mutual attraction can contribute to building a healthier relationship. I care about this because I want to live in a society where people have fulfilling and healthy relationships. If someone says they 'lowered their standards' for a partner, it often means they still hold high standards but have made a compromise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:56 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I'm discussing attractiveness with the assumption that all other factors are equal. Of course, someone may not be highly physically attractive but still have other qualities that make them appealing, allowing them to attract more conventionally attractive partners. This is fundamentally a matter of dating dynamics and the differing priorities of men and women. In general, more men than women seek casual relationships, while more women than men prioritize long-term commitment. As a result, some m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:41 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.Some highly attractive men may choose to date women they don’t find as physically appealing in order to establish relationships on their own terms more easily. This often involves an attractive man seeking out a partner who is less conventionally attractive for the sake of convenience, particularly when it comes to casual relationships. In some cases, women may interpret this attention as a sign that they are on equal footing in terms of attractiveness. However, they may later feel used when the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 12:57 PM |
| – | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I think it's more of a matter of being realistic and understanding who you can attract. It's good to have standards for others, but if you don't meet the minimum standards that others expect from you, you shouldn't complain that people aren't interested in being with you. For example, being overweight while refusing to date someone who is also overweight (all else being equal) or wanting a partner who follows traditional gender roles but not being willing to do the same yourself. It's also about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.Yes, for me, when analyzing data, we shouldn’t focus on which gender faces the most problems, but rather on which individuals, regardless of gender, suffer the most. This is because people experience suffering the same way when facing the exact same problem, no matter their gender. Moreover, I’ve demonstrated that gender-blind solutions are inherently more inclusive. Yes, I’m familiar with utilitarianism, and I agree that, on its own, it can lead to ignoring minorities for the well-being of the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.I completely agree that we live different lives and we have different needs. My point is that gender does not make people fundamentally different in the sense that, when facing the exact same problem, solutions should vary based on gender. Instead, solutions should be based on the actual circumstances people experience. Your gender does not guarantee that you will always have a different experience from another gender. For example, men can also be raped and need just as much support when it's th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.I'm not saying that different genders or ethnicities don’t experience different challenges based on these factors. What I’m saying is that, realistically, all humans can face the same specific problems regardless of gender or ethnicity, even if statistically, some groups are more or less likely to encounter them. Giving money to the poor was a simplistic example to illustrate my point. Of course, it doesn’t account for the complexity of reality, as you’ve very well demonstrated. But that wasn’t … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.What's funny is that I'm actually saying that mentioning genders does exactly what you think not mentioning them does. I believe gender is 100% a social construct and exists on a spectrum. It is often based on the sex a person is born with, so it kind of works, but it is not optimal and can make some people invisible in the solutions. Instead of saying, "women need maternity leave," I think we should say, "people capable of giving birth need leave." The second solution includes people who were b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/25 07:26 AM |
| 14 | Genders should often not be mentioned when discussing solutions to social problems.If I don't get banned from their subs, haha. But the criticism also applies to men's rights, which sometimes take the same route as feminism on that front. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/25 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about?I think, if they are using dating apps, yeah they probably have very good profile to have this kind of reactions. You should try creating a guy account on a dating app, maybe you will understand how it is for them, or just ask men in your life, how is their experience with the apps, especially if they are not very good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:10 AM |
| -5 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?That's not exactly true. If "better driver" means safer, then women statistically fit that definition. If "better driver" means more skilled in handling a vehicle, then men tend to perform better. Men have a higher first time pass-rate than women for driving test. Men drive more miles on average too, which also increases their exposure to risk. In the end men tend to causes more fatal accidents, while women causes more minor accidents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.People that are confident, attractive and kind at the same time most likely are already in a relationship. So when trying to date, you most likely won't find a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingI don't necessarily agree with OP, but that was not the point OP was making at all. He said that they raised their standards in terms of physical and financial attractiveness, not in term of personality. That they are going more and more for the chad type (regardless of if he is trashy or not). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 08:40 AM |
| 1 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingI don't understand what you all mean by "decent". Is it tall, rich, handsome ? Or is it kind, brave and honest? Or everything at the same time ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.But the original post did say it was their (the person without the crush's) responsibility to create, maintain, and enforce a boundary. How is that not saying they have the responsibility? I’m not OP, but I agree that it is their responsibility. What I’m saying is that it is not ONLY their responsibility. Both sides share this responsibility. Why should the person with the crush not be figuring out what their own boundaries are? How is another person supposed to predict what works for them and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:48 AM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.I never said that only the person without the crush has this responsibility, nor did I say that they should decide how long the break should be. What I’m saying is that if you find yourself in a situation where a friend has a one-sided crush on you and they lack the emotional maturity to end the friendship themselves, then it becomes your responsibility to address it. You should be the one to end the friendship properly and communicate it clearly, rather than just accepting their feelings and do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.To me, if you tell me you have a crush on me, it is no longer a true friendship. Even if I try to be the best friend I can, I know I could never be on the same level as someone who is in love with me. So, either I reciprocate your feelings and we start a relationship, or we find a way to return to a normal, platonic friendship. In my opinion, the best way to achieve this is to take a break from the friendship. However, depending on your level of emotional maturity, this process could take a long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 06:46 AM |
| 2 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.Sure, I know that some people want to remain friends while harboring romantic feelings, but I don’t think that is a truly healthy dynamic. By definition, when one person sees the relationship as romantic and the other as platonic, there is an inherent imbalance. This creates unequal expectations and can lead to one party unintentionally or intentionally taking advantage of the other’s kindness or generosity. For a friendship to truly work, both people need to approach it as equals, without one p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 6 | The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation.It's manipulation when you keep seeing someone as a friend when you know they are in love with you. If you really value the friendship, the correct move is to do a break with them, or even block them if they can't understand. It's even more manipulative if, you know the person is in love and you accept gifts from them. However, if you don't know they are in love, I'd argue it's not manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.Yeah most people don't know what the wall is. I'm 28M, I have success in the apps, but I have a hard time dating women under 24. Sure I find them more attractive, but most of them don't know what they want and we don't have a lot in common. I'm a lot more at ease with women my age. Guys that want to date very young women are either only doing hooks up or are not very mature, or sometimes, the woman is very mature for their age, but that's really rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 11:26 AM |
| 7 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?Some men may feel insecure about ambitious women because it is sometimes shown to them that women are more attracted to wealthier and more capable men. In my case, and I believe some men would agree, I feel proud if my girlfriend or wife is very ambitious and can make a lot of money. However, her ambition doesn’t make her more or less attractive to me. What truly makes her attractive is her personality and appearance. That’s why I often tell women: if you’re ambitious, do it for yourself and bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?It's not by staying silent that I can make a difference in this world. I believe most people here have good intentions, they’re sometimes just lacking a bit of empathy to understand what others are going through. That's why it's important for everyone to share the difficult things that happen in their lives. Thank you for discussing this with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I see where you're coming from, but I think there’s a key difference between encountering married women and having romantic feelings develop in a close friendship. When you meet someone who’s married, there’s an obvious and external boundary, she’s clearly unavailable, and that’s widely understood from the start. There’s no emotional closeness to complicate things. In a friendship, however, the emotional closeness is already there, which is exactly what can lead someone to develop feelings in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I agree with a lot of what you're saying, especially that attraction can’t be negotiated, and that it’s wrong to manipulate someone into mistrusting others or trying to “obligate” them into a relationship. That’s controlling and disrespectful. However, I think the idea of "girlfriendzoning" oversimplifies things. Yes, friendships between men and women can bring social benefits, but not everyone’s motivation for friendship is networking or social proof. Sometimes, feelings develop unexpectedly, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I hear your concerns, and I agree that manipulation and emotional sabotage are harmful and unacceptable. But I feel like you're projecting behaviors onto me that I’ve never advocated or condoned. We can condemn the toxic behaviors you mention while also recognizing that genuine emotions and respectful communication exist. Conflating the two only makes it harder to tell the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I understand that you’ve likely seen or experienced situations where men have been manipulative, and I’m not denying that this happens. However, assuming that every man who confesses feelings operates with hidden agendas or uses underhanded tactics dismisses the possibility of honest communication and genuine emotions. Not all men who express feelings for a friend are playing a long game of “manipulation.” Some of us genuinely value the friendship and struggle with emotions that develop despite … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I think you're misunderstanding my point. I never said or implied that a woman being single makes her "fair game" or somehow obligated to reciprocate feelings. In fact, I explicitly stated that if she says no, he should respect her decision and take distance to process his emotions and move on. Respecting someone's autonomy means acknowledging that she has the right to be uninterested, just as he have the right to take a step back to protect his own mental health after being honest about his fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?No I don't. I believe "single" means "someone can ask them out" ( considering they don't know if they are attracted to them). Can you cite one phrase I said that make you believe I think "single" means "available to me" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?I really don't understand what are you implying. Sure she is not available because she is not attracted to him, but how would he know in advance without asking or her telling him directly ? He didn't choose to just fall in love and the signs that she is not attracted are not always 100% clear. What is a man that falls in love with his single friend supposed to do ? In my opinion, he should just ask, and if she says no just take some distance and time to move on. You think he should just keep it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?Oh okay you mean the woman in the tiktok ? I just read the reddit post and didn't watch it, so I didn't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?You keep bringing special cases like those, while the discussion originally was just a man falling in love with a woman friend that is not interested romantically. Nothing was said about the fact the woman was already taken and especially taken by a relative of the guy. If you need to bring in the world's biggest asshole to prove your point, you need to start questioning your reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?Love requires an equal consideration of her feelings. He is infatuated and manipulative. His feelings are not more important. There is feelings that are stronger than others, and yeah love is a stronger feeling than friendship. If you consider he should stop loving for her wellbeing, why don't you consider she could temporary stop her friendship for his wellbeing ? Can't you see how one is a lot easier than the other ? If he cares about his friend’s happiness, he will want her to date someone sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?In my example I'm just talking about a man that is in love with one of his woman friend. I'm not giving anymore context like you and I suppose he is in good faith. If for winning the argument you need to make him a manipulator, go for it. But you're not really debating with me. Loving someone almost always begins as something beyond our control, but yes continuing to love and how we love is largely shaped by conscious choices. And the best way to stop loving someone is to create distance, allow … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?It's more complicated than that. I agree you can choose to some degree, but sometimes the feeling is just here without you doing anything for it. You can sometimes fall in love with someone you 100% thought you were totally unattracted by them. One of the best way to stop feeling that way is to step away. Stop being manipulative, and let people choose to step away for their own sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?Correct, his are selfish and immature. No, his are feelings of love, and her is feelings of friendship. I let you choose which one feeling should be considered more important. Why does he expect to get his way, doesn’t he care about her happiness at all? There are four billion women in the world, he can pick one who is mutually attracted. I don't really understand when you say he expects to get his way ? Of course he cares about her happiness, but would he really make her happy by staying and se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?Not everyone is strong enough to just easily manage a one sided feeling. You don't choose who you love, and it generally takes time and distance to manage it, especially if it was a strong love. It's crazy you can't understand that. To you it's more important that she doesn't lose temporarily a friendship (that she didn't have btw because he loved her, she was not his friend in his eyes), than the guy continually suffers by staying next to her like nothing is happening in his heart ? That makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?He asks her to puts his feelings above hers because they are not the same. In this situation, there is two possible outcome : She chooses to refuse having a break with him : On his end he keeps suffering by seeing her with other men, keeping contact, risking to continually falling in love with her and being obsessed/jealous etc... On her end she keeps a friend, that doesn't really see her as a friend, with all the drama that situation can create. She accepts and respect his choice to take a brea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?You don't really have to do anything, but if the person is truly your friend, you know it's best for them to take some time away in order to stop feeling that way. I think it's really evil to continue seeing someone knowing they love you and you will never reciprocate, the person will only suffers. Let them move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?There is nothing wrong to confess when it's one sided. What is wrong is to continue entertaining a friend relationship after the confession, like if nothing happened. If both side are mature, they know they should stop seeing and talking to eachother for a while. I know people can lie sometimes, but if they are telling you they are okay to stay friends right after a confession, don't believe them and ask for a pause in the friendship no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?Hey we can have a balanced discussion about that. I agree that we can't blame someone to catch feelings for their friend and I dont think u/Sharp_Engineering379 meant that. We can blame them however if they start becoming manipulative, jealous and dishonest. If you fall in love with a friend, just tell them and if they don't see you like that, just leave them alone for a while so that your feelings for them can stop, it's not easy, because I know how hard it is to find someone, but it's the righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 07:11 AM |
| 14 | Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a strangerI did some stats some times ago on the same source that was used to say that 1 women are killed every 10 minute by a relative. Turns out men are more often killed by a relative, 1.34 men are killed every 10 minutes by a relative. https://np.reddit.com/r/Feminism/s/6ONZ5bM51R The problem is more that women, if killed, are more likely to be killed by a relative, than a stranger compared to a man that is killed. 58% for women compared to 19% for men. But men are killed so much more, that, in genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Lol you can't even accept it when it's in front of your eyes ahah, I don't know why I should keep talking to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?"Stress" girl finished last | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?I would definitely take a boring girl other a psycho one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Nope we don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Totally agree with you. Find it very cool when I have a woman that know how to do stuff, while being kind-hearted. Sometimes "nice" with the quotes, is used in a negative way, like a person that says themselves that they are nice, but in reality is very emotionally unstable. Works with women and men. Check r/nicegirl and r/niceguys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?They're just lacking maturity and ready to be with crazy, if she's hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Yeah in that case, like you say, they stay with them because they are hot. They are not staying with them because they treat them like trash, that make no sense. Generally when one is shitty in a couple, the other stay because there is attraction and they lacks maturity, not because they like that they are shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?I represent ALL the men that responds to this post and actually agree with me that they are not interested in drama at all. Not saying there isn't some men that are into that, but they clearly are the minority. And even if they are the majority, you shouldn't want to deal with mentally unhealthy men. So in your mind we are all lying ? Or at least lying to ourselves ? Like we say that we hate drama but actually like it ? I don't know, personally everytime a woman I date is being dramatic for no r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Yeah English is not my first language, so I don't really see the difference between the two. But I think I get what you mean. Yeah liking challenges, doesn't mean we like counting grains of sand in the beach because it's hard to do. Challenges need to have some benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?You don't understand. Of course, as a competitive guy myself, I love the competition, I love when things get difficult, because this is what makes us stronger. The ONLY exception is relationships, this is the place where we want peace, because a difficult relationship generally doesn't make us stronger, it just complicate things and waste time. We are not interested in skills to manage emotionally unstable women. We don't have the time for that. Most studies show that most people, including men,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?A guy that has success and is competitive has no time with drama. He only wants a woman that can bring him peace of mind. The ones that seems to like drama are either emotionally instable themselves, or too much interested in physical appearance to care about the rest. But I can tell you they don't make for good long term partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?No definitely not. We hate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?To respond to your question as a man, I prefer a woman that is peaceful but know how and when to communicate when there is a problem. If she stress me out all the time for fake problems, I will 100% hate it. There is a balance to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Men are held to a higher/more rigid standard of masculinity than women are for femininity.Testosterone and lack of physical touch would make anyone like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 10:20 AM |
| 15 | 'Thrown on a bus and sent to hell': Videos show Ukrainian men being hauled off the streets by army recruiters. OP: Gender equality?You're not making any sense. These men that are sent to war is not equal to the men that are in power. So NO those men in particular that are victims are not responsible for making the system. Women in general are not to blame either. What is to blame is the fact that a war is happening and the ideology that only men should be sent to war. Meaning even a women that would be a better soldier than most men would not be forced to war, while a man that would be a bad soldier would. This ideology is … | /r/MensRights | 19/11/24 05:56 AM |
| -2 | Former Bond Girl Gemma Arterton slammed after suggesting the word feminism 'excludes men' and has 'divisive' connotationsYeah I could call myself an egalitarian too. I agree that it's a good thing to have groups focused in problems specific to one gender. I actually think feminism and men's rights movements are a good thing because it's a good way to highlight the problems men and women are facing. But like this woman said, the problem with those terms is that it's excluding and divisive. Just check the feminism and men's right subreddit, it's always "Everything is the fault of the other gender" kind of bullshit, … | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 12:47 PM |
| -2 | Former Bond Girl Gemma Arterton slammed after suggesting the word feminism 'excludes men' and has 'divisive' connotationsAren't we doing the same with MEN's rights ? The logic should apply in both. Shouldn't we just be all humanists ? The focus on only women problems, without looking at men's was what triggered me to criticise feminism. But I'm afraid we are doing the same here... | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Loyalty Is Not FeminineYeah in France, they are like more focused in your intelligence and manner, rather than your salary or physical attributes. What you need in France though is really good texting game. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Feminist logic: Blame all men for the actions of the minorityDon't, we need to stay in public space and talk with them, confront theirs ideas and continue to use our free speech. The goal is not to convince them, but the ones that are looking at all this and are not sure. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/24 04:49 AM |
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