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CMV_Helicopter/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:39 AM
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To be honest, for attraction tips, women would rely on the best fashion and beauty bloggers not women who are unsuccessful in dating. There are millions of those all over the Internet. Women would come to FDS to read about red flags and problem solving common issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:51 AM
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I think people should be authentic in a relationship. Sometimes that includes telling your partner what you genuinely think. Everybody wants to be appreciated. But if you are with someone and then obviously you like them. so there should be something you appreciate that can be communicated. Acting dumb and helpless and fake praise when you don't mean it is idiotic. (And exhausting)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:45 AM
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Yes they can be. No, alpha women means they dominate whether you like or dislike it it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:20 PM
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Lol what wall? There is literally no wall that exists... It remains business as usual Men get a bump in value because women want to settle down not because their worth has gone down. I am not denying what I said earlier. But the concept of wall is wrong and to be honest it reflects badly on those who believe in it. It speaks a way lot about them rather than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:40 PM
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The wall is a revenge fantasy because it says that women start looking bad at 30 so can't get anyone. That's not the reality. I know a lot of early thirty women (and men) who can pass off as twenty somethings. There is no magic reduction in looks till maybe late thirties or early forties. It's only that women who decide to now look for a partner increase the demand for men in the dating pool. So men get hyper about the new found importance and start shitting at women the first chance they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:43 PM
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Women have time stamps in their head. Marry by 25, first kid by 28, second kid by 31 blah blah When they aren't married by 30, they begin to worry. Biological clock is the main and only reason. This is also the age when you really start to want kids. I'm 29 and trust me the mother nature calls out. There is a sudden urge to have kids. It's true. I never wanted to have kids till now, it used to freak me out. I never thought ill think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:08 PM
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"Girls" just don't naturally date older men. You must be talking about arranged marriages? Because in a free environment, women behave similarly and are most attracted to 2-5 year older men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:02 PM
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"Good little boy" isn't a good personality. Its an agreeable personality which is a turn off for me atleast. I don't want a servant in waiting or a "little boy" When women say good personality they mean things like Charming Good with words Happy and optimistic Funny Good at communication Confidence Smart and intelligent Quick wit Passionate Entertaining Driven Empathetic Etc Etc Good personality is a huge turn on, it's not a lie. You just think good personality means being a good boy like your m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:34 PM
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Women might find a specific look attractive. But there are traits other than looks women are attracted to. But looks are important because that's how people form a first impression about anyone. Even your financial status can be judged by your shoe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:24 PM
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he got what she had to offer in the beauty department Past tense isn't motivating a woman to loose weight today. He got her when she was skinny, so no reason for a middle aged woman to loose weight post wall. And she will only get worse looking with time. It's so stressful. Meanwhile cakes and burgers are stress busters. I used to wonder why women let themselves go after a point and stop caring, like my mom did. But now I see the social messaging and male preferences and it's obvious how it may …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:52 AM
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Every woman wants to be the ONLY center of attention. The man you described is not a "HVM".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:05 PM
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So? This doesn't matter unless you wait until you hit the wall to settle down. In this case we are taking about a woman who married young to a man who wasn't successful. The man Got successful, Found someone younger hotter and left her. There are too many examples of this in real life. Especially once a man become powerful and can actually pick who he wants. Leonardo Dicaprios girlfriends don't age beyond 25. Elon Musks wives/girlfriend don't age beyond 35. I watched titanic when I was 5 years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:41 PM
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Yes I agree with that. But i seen cases of women with kids who also are solo bread winners. They go mad with responsibility and overwork. They also let go, become fat and cranky. I don't think they give good sucks any more. But I do know a couple where the man raised the kids and the woman climbed the ladder and she is filthy rich- it worked very well for them. So as long as no one is over worked it is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:42 PM
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To be honest, women are judged for beauty every where, every day. It's tiring. Rather just chill like a hippie on a beach for the rest of your life. And women will hit the wall anyway for men. Its a game that we are meant to loose in. So why put in the effort? All investments are made for future, and this investment (beauty) has diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:37 PM
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I remember reading so many times here that "men don't care about your profession or success." But they want you to be bread winners when things go downhill. It can't work both ways unfortunately. Either the woman's profession matters or it doesn't. You choose one. Only then I will care to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:29 PM
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Lol the starter gf is the reason why men shouldn't complain about "women waiting at the finish line" They complain because it's in the woman's interest not theirs. It's actually a good strategy for women tbh. I had never heard of it till I landed on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:22 PM
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This is significantly less shallow than the scourge of female breadwinners who file for divorce due to status leakage. You realize these wives we are talking about were the opposite. They stuck when the man had nothing. The new wife is more likely to be a gold digger. But guess you you think should take the heart break. The one who got fat. Not the gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:20 PM
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Noone dies of avg sucks. People die of hunger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:14 PM
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Yes it's just a hang up I had since my school days. Because younger guys were literally babies then. But then it stuck on because I never questioned it until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:34 PM
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Been in a lot of love triangles if that's what you mean. Usually it would be a good friend of my love interest or an acquitance who liked the same guy as me. But best friend tried to crash into my boyfriends bed once, "because she had no where else to stay". She had a place to stay !!! My boyfriend told her No very categorically and I stopped hanging out with her once I found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:51 PM
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+/- 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:55 PM
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Looks and physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:22 PM
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As I'm growing older, I've realized Maturity isn't age dependent at all. Maturity is just realism and having shit together. Some people are like that from the very start. Some people are immature into old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:14 PM
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I dont like young guys for one single reason. When I see a human smaller than me, I want to mother them. For me that alone make it a bit eww. Like if I know someone is smaller than me even by one year - it will trigger all sorts of feelings of motherly love and guidance. By that standard alone I can't imagine dating someone younger than me. But that said, I am not blind to hot people, and I can appreciate hot men younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:57 AM
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After a certain age, maybe 25 - 28 years, career paths are more or less set. Some young people already earn more than their seniors. So age matters less if you want to settle down as everyone will have some level of financial stability. But before this age, age matters more because less than 25 year olds are broke as hell that's why women in that age group seek a bit older if not the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:32 AM
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Fit people look better at any age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:11 AM
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This exactly why I don't find men too much older attractive. Too stuck up. Younger guys know how to chill. They crack jokes. Care less about supposed roles. And are always looking for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:00 AM
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I have higher sex drive than my husband , I bug him a lot lol but still I don't desire random men. The person matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:53 AM
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Women can wait. Wait a lot. Months or even years. Men want it now. That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:39 AM
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Men and women push it on each other. So it that way it becomes natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:22 PM
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This article talks about women wanting multiple partners. I'm saying that women don't like to share partners. They want exclusivity. If a man pays more attention to some other woman, it's enough to drive jealously amongst women. Women steal men, but they don't share men. Hence monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:22 PM
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They would be less angry if they consider opposing characteristics of a woman's nature. Need for monogamy balances hypergamy Need for relationships balances high standards It all works out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:08 PM
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I know unattractive woman who married a very good looking man/ earns well as she is a 10/10 personality wise. She attracts people to her regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:48 AM
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Women can decide for themselves depending on what they WANT. They go to gynecologists to plan babies. They don't come on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:14 AM
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Btw Read what I wrote. So now it's about the nuance of ideology. Oh my. I can't stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:46 AM
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I won't be surprised if you aren't even a doctor. Because I am from a family of gynecologists and I've grown up hearing cases of women conceiving naturally in their 40s. Take your narrative else where.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:43 AM
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Which medical professional? Are you trained in gynae? What is your designation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:41 AM
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You mean because he has money 💰 since his age group is already losing their looks I'm sure he starts out with being successful over his peers. But he can't compare to a guys in their 20s. That's what all the girls in 20s route for. There is a reason why average age gap is only 2 years. You don't have to believe me just look at age gap statistics. Go to the fan pages of the likes of Justin Bieber and you don't have to rely on me for information.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:38 AM
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No 52 is the average age of menopause. That's not how numbers work. So many women have children beyond 35. Read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:21 AM
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A woman's uterus stops functioning at 52. By that time she has her own army of adult kids and can still escape that shit. they have to face competitiveness, aggression, toxic masculinity and other competitive tricks people play to keep others small Tricks that men* play
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:38 AM
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40% of all relationships are in 3 year plus age gap relationships Thats 60 percent of the 20s dating their age. Mostly the hot ones. And the one left might date 3 or 4 or 5 years older. But more than 5 years it would see an extremely steep decline because women value looks. They like men who can keep up with them. More than 5 years means the man will be way more slower than you. Slow = boring. Ofcource you will see a minority of women who don't mind large age gaps. But they are a minority. Thats…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:34 AM
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Menopause doesn't hit women until 52. Men and women BOTH are more fertile during their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:14 AM
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Then why does this thread cry about CHAD full day and night? You change the narrative whenever it suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:12 AM
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You need to go back to 2nd grade. Looks like your math sucks due to autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:11 AM
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Lol that exception is JEFF BEZOS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:09 AM
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Many 25 year olds get PCOD. My aunt closed her tube at 22 after a birth complication. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:08 AM
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An older man has more money than a younger man. A young man will have money tomorrow if not today. But an older man is past his prime and will never look hot. Women in 20s like men in 20s. We are not thirsting for 35 year olds. Get your facts right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:06 AM
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Women aren't whores that they will go with old men just because they have money. SICK!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:39 AM
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Do you think that women would be interested in guys like Jonah Hill, Steve Buscemi, and Seth Green if they didn't have fame/money? Do you think their wives/girlfriends only love them for their money and no other reason? Jo Buscemi stayed with Steve until she died. Clare Grant and Seth Green have been married 10 years. They're all just faking it? I just searched Jonah hill and he is not physically appealing. I'm sure he has his loved ones in his life. I'm in my 20s so I don't find 38 year olds at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:10 PM
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Men have more partners at 30 because women's libido starts to increase post 28. Peaks at 40. Women have more options at 18 because that's when their counterparts are peaking sexually. And men peak at 26 looks wise. The sudden attention at 26 makes them think it will last forever. It won't. Women prefer men around their own age through out their life. It will stay the same. Unless you put bucks on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:01 PM
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Women in 30s aren't fertile? Who taught you biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:54 PM
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Jason's face looked more symmetrical in 2012. And he looked quite mature 9 years ago not a "boy band". Now his face shape has changed to oblong He seems to have dropped 2 points looks wise - but he is rich - so he will always have women. Taylor has dropped half a point I would say still looks almost the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:51 PM
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Thank God women are educated. The crap men throw at us !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:44 PM
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Dna of a child is 50 - 50 percent male and female. Stop blaming DNA damage on women alone How sexist can you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:42 PM
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15 more years? So women are hot till 37? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:39 PM
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Guys peak at 26 - looks wise then downhill . Now just because you got attention from 3 22 - 30 - 4 years plus and minus from your peak - you overinflate your worth and expect it to increase for ever. Here is a reality check for you. Women in 20s think men in 30s are old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:37 PM
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I was cat called from 14 - 16 Groped tons of times from 17- 22 Not missing any of it - it made my life hell and I remember feeling like shit during my "prime"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:28 PM
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Those 27 year olds have 27 year old boyfriends and don't want to date 37 year old oldies. It looks like men have a wall if they want a bride. Women have a plethora of fertile male options to choose from. This only creates more competition amongst men because their fertility holds no meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:19 PM
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How old are you and how much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:16 PM
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They want to look prettier. Yes. But it's irritating that RP mem think they look good in their middle ages. I'm almost 30, I won't date 35 above nope, too old. I still think 26 year old guys are the hottest. Everyone should try to look young and cute. But men refuse to see how shitty they look in their middle ages and that cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:13 PM
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Most women will live the last decade of their life alone. That's because we have longer lifespans. And if they marry older, that gap will only increase. So what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:07 PM
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Jeff bezos is dating a 51 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:04 PM
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For every lonely woman there is a lonely man. Because they are equal in number
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:03 PM
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Average age of menopause is 52. Are you even educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:01 PM
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But chad puts in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:53 PM
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You know chad got old and wrinkly. And most women don't date younger. So the normal flips for men Post 40, the Beta Bux is the new alpha. And chad is a janitor somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:57 PM
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You can add 1 inch using heeled shoes, another 1 inch of height through a fluffy hair style
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:10 AM
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Then why does the society troll 30+ unmarried women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:05 PM
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Yes, average woman has options. I get messages on reddit with explicit offers very frequently. I don't even bother replying to them. My husband is enough for me. I believe average woman is not fcking around. Promiscuous women are a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:03 PM
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Not outliers. I've dated both. The one that stuck around was because of compatibility. The one that didn't was because we didn't have any chemistry. I didn't blame him because I didn't feel it either. When sparks fly, both can feel it. Both commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:47 PM
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Even women don't like bitches TBH. But women are better at judging each others character than men. Too often men end up flocking around bitches exclusively. They ultimately realize who the better ones are but they take their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:44 PM
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I agree. I always liked athletic guys. Well I got best succes by actively taking part in sports throughout my life. My husband and I literally played table tennis for months before we actually started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:37 PM
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This is what wrong with you all. He asked you to say something sexy on a date. You went on saying you can't say sexy things at an office. If you can't distinguish between the two. The woman who is interested in you vs the woman who is just doing her job, then you just lack social IQ. That's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:40 AM
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I'll tell you how men work. People born in rich households are good looking. Statiscally, Children to rich people also become rich when they grow up. Richer and good looking men get social affirmation to become self assured Alphas. Well raised RAS are also loyal or bad boy RAS can reform with age and become good husbands a bit latter on in life. RAS come together as a pack. L is a 50 - 50 chance 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:18 PM
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Lol I have already married my rich sexy alpha from my top tier B school. He is empathetic and and the last time he was single he was 12 years old. He is extremely loyal to me. He absolutely loves me and I love him. My dad is also a rich sexy EMPATHETIC alpha. So stop stereotyping people. People are more than just alpha - betas, they are human beings with stories and emotions. Lol all of my friends were super hot, all of them landed themselves RALS. Get out of your delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:20 PM
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This is just a list of ways men can be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:45 AM
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You obviously aren't married
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:42 AM
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I think a woman's intrinsic worth comes from having a uterus, a child incubation center. Men's intrinsic worth used to come from being strong and having muscles. It's going down because machines have been able to replace men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:36 AM
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Children yes. Marriage no. One can have children without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:23 AM
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Most women will end up single in the old age because of two reasons. Women tend to live longer + husbands are older than wives. A woman will spend her last 10- 15 years alone with cats. All women will. That's when you need company the most. Middle aged women don't need company. And you can have kids without marriage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:20 AM
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Most women will end up single in the old age because of two reasons. Women tend to live longer + husbands are older than wives. A woman will spend her last 10- 15 years alone with cats. All women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:19 AM
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My SO went out of his way to woo me. It's not always about money. Most of the time, it was just thoughtfulness. Dinner dates at the forbidden rooftop of our college, him getting me meals for me when I was hungry since morning running between job interviews. Remembering my favorite dishes. It all signaled HVM!!!! I knew I could never let him go!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:17 PM
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Yes because mostly richer people are more good looking. Richer people are also more educated. Most hotties are in middle class - upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:09 PM
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I know someone who did this, highly educated guy married a high school dropout. And now they aren't on the same page when it comes to communication. They don't relate. Even their families can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:07 PM
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I would match guy 1 with woman 1 - those type of guys want a pretty girl and he has enough money for both I would match guy 2 with woman 2 - hopefully she can put her ambition into him. She is anyway not planning a family soon. She wants to take decisions and the guy 2 doesn't seem like the decision making type
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:04 PM
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Except that the guy 1 is Alpha bux and second is just the nice beta
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:01 PM
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It would depend on our compatibility. I'm go to the gym, and work out regularly, I am an entrepreneur and I work my own time. So guy 1 sounds good on paper. But if he has too many exes who are way better than me, I'll wonder how much he is into me, or will I have to compete constantly with his social circle, throw tons of money to keep up my looks. Such people can also be airhead which is the least attractive trait to me. The second guy sounds sweet, but I would wonder how much of a slacker he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:52 PM
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I think you aren't appreciating a man's contribution in keeping the civilisation going. Anyway women are doing both the raising kids and working now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:49 PM
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Sport stars are confident because other boys respect them. Boys bully each other for not having a certain type of manly hobbies that can cause low self confidence. But all boys who engage in any sort of sports/competition are confident. No doubt. Fishers who can have fun outting with their friends will have higher confidence than those who stay at home and do nothing. A boy who shows any sort of caliber would be appreciated by other boys growing up. That creates a sense of confidence later in li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:29 PM
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So you wanted someone who wasn't attracted to you. she said no, right? So don't pursue it further with her. Don't try to convince her otherwise. Don't try and warm her up to the idea. Rather spend your energies on someone who is as enthusiastic about the relation as you. It simply doesn’t vibe with me. I can’t trust a woman to actually be attracted to me unless it’s apparent from the beginning. Yes that's logical. You know what to do and what you want. But Problem is that you don't think there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:17 PM
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No, this is a wrong way to put it. You are just making excuses to beat your self up and starting a self fulfilling prophecy of low self confidence and rejection. Relationships based on looks alone don't last very long. Everyone wants an emotional connection. No one is that heartless. I've seen so many extremely good looking men and women with average looking partners who had amazing personalities. Everyone I've met responds to human emotion! Everyone craves meaning in their life. People are unha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:23 PM
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Most things are just part of being a functioning adult and good human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:58 PM
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When you think in terms of making and raising babies both make sense together. Read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:46 PM
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The good: in a healthy setting, a woman who decides to marry someone won't marry them unless there is some threshold of attraction based on something that she sees in him. Some women hold certain criterias so dearly that it can be enough to create attraction like him having control over his life, job, finances, his life story, sharing a political opinion, seeing him display affection towards babies or weaker people. A lot of time, men, no matter how Beta they are paint grand claims about themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:15 PM
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Women have been naturally selected over a million years to get attracted to particular traits that help increase the survival rate of their offspring. Here's what millions of years evolution didn't think of - abortions and condoms. So women don't have any instinctive bias on those topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:32 PM
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But we are biologically geared to always think of children. More than you would imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:53 PM
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My SO has a car similar to Honda Civic. I actually hate bad financial decisions because they reduce quality of life. We took a loan 4 years ago learned it the hard way. It looks like you are describing women interested in you but not emotionally involved in you. No LTR will expect this. It's a red flag. at the very beginning, if you sport a BMW you will get more attention but expect some drama when they find out you got broke in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:52 PM
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Then they are just being shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:42 PM
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They like how he looks. You think women aren't aware of good looks? Good looks are associated with positive traits for men AND WOMEN alike. That is a valid issue on a societal level across demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:41 PM
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They must have other things going for them like looks. No person can attract a mate based on shitty personality alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:37 PM
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If you buy a Mercedes with high payments and interest to show off to women then your gold digger GF will leave you the moment you go broke with your bad financial decisions. Good thing you got a Honda civic. You are smart. You ain't going broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:35 PM
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Women know exactly why they like someone. They might not want to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:33 PM
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That said there are gold diggers who aren't thinking of family and only want blings and luxury for themselves. In that case men need to be smart enough to discern genuine money concern and gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:31 PM
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Yes but sex is a way to reproduction. If you want sex, biology implies children. And you can't leave children hungry without a roof so.... money is important. You don't need to be filthy rich. But just someone who can take care of a family and is serious about his future. A person who is fooling around his life will be fun to date ofc but soon after the marriage he will be a burden on his wife. Soon after kids he would be the reason for his family's misery. Reality check please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:30 PM
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With that ideology you are exactly who women don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:25 PM
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So it shouldn't be how she feels? What are you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:23 PM
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In their early life, those good in sports or those with early success in any hobby / academics are confident and find success with women. Entering dating scene without achievements seems to kill confidence in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:22 PM
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This can go two ways. Either the man has self confidence issues and insecurities so he can't fathom how his partner likes him OR he is with someone who is taking him for a ride and doesn't love him. This can only be discerned on an individual basis and can't be generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:14 PM
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Relationships based on lust alone don't last very long
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:09 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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