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FDS SUCCESS!_Hellchic_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:00 PM
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SEEKING ADVICE_Hellchic_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:15 PM
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DISCUSSION_Hellchic_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:33 AM
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Absolutely ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 01:01 PM
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You've barely been 3 months sober from gambling lol but your wife is the problem and awful because she wasted years trying to help you with a problem you solely caused and were responsible for but you don't want to get therapy for yourself because.... I'm glad you're divorcing her because at least she won't have someone throwing away money. I mean fuck even your kid is babying you. Horrendous.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 05:49 AM
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Honestly it scares me how willy nilly women are having kids. Every other reddit post I see venting about a dude is "my boyfriend is like super bad i got pregnant and he got worse but i stayed. Now he does nothing am i right to be angry". I don't understand how even as a pick me there's not even a lick of sense. They're popping out kids to boyfriend bad boyfriends at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:39 AM
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That's what I'm thinking???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:38 PM
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Yeah i wouldn't go there for a first date, maybe after we are together it can be a nice activity to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:54 PM
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I love zoos and aquariums though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:44 AM
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No you just used a gendered insult against another woman. That's not what we do here. You can disagree with her points without swearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:01 AM
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I lowkey wanna hear how he's gonna spin this into not bestiality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:40 PM
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I left my own horror story lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:43 AM
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Okay i am so interested in what you saw on his phone. And what did he admit to that was worse?! Also congratulations for being so strong and kicking this loser out to the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:23 AM
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This is scary I can honestly say i have never met or know of a high value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:07 PM
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If his username is anything to go by it explains everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:37 AM
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FDS posts aren't talking about factors you cannot physically change. They're talking about things you can absolutely change and be better at yet a lot of guys refuse to do the bare minumum. For example let's talk about physical appearance. Are you in good health physically and mentally? If not then you should focus on improving that to be a healthy and stable partner. Do you take care of your hair? Your teeth? Physical hygiene?. Are you wearing clothes that look good on you? Are you actively doi…
/r/askFDS30/08/20 08:39 PM
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That is currently what I'm doing (studying) whilst also looking for work. Its really the lesser of two evils atm my parents are a million x worse than the nvm. Whilst he's just lowkey annoying. My degree will take 3/4 years and that's why I need nvm because I'll probably need to be out before then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:49 PM
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Thank you so much for all your resources!!! I'll look into these!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:45 PM
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Thank you for the advice. It's hard to overcome and I don't know why they try to make me out like I was commiting mass genocide or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:44 PM
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I joined it! Hopefully it'll be really handy for me. I'm already on a few others like insane parents, asian parents etc which is helpful to see toxic behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:43 PM
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I really hope so I can't deal living like this forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:37 PM
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Yeah. The trauma is real and I'm gonna need therapy for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:25 PM
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I'll definitely take your advice on and get on this train. It's so painful to sleep and having an aching face sucks. I'm so happy that you have found something that works for you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:24 PM
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NHS waiting list takes awhile. Especially now with covid. Oh yeah I'll do that. Thankfully I've never had any bad interactions here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:23 PM
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Yep but I have grown up with this. Every birthday I've had my dad's managed to make me cry or feel upset my criticising every single thing I've done wrong in life. I front of my grandma and aunts. Now because I've gotten a lot heavier everyone comments about my weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:21 PM
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Sometimes i can't belive this is my life. I just wish they'd be better because the sad thing is they're not all bad and they have done nice things for me and it makes it that much harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:20 PM
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I'll probably feel that way when I get older. But I'm on a limited time frame. I need to be stable so I can leave my family otherwise they'll pressure me to marry. Which i don't want. I know if i stay long enough i won't want to leave because its all I know. Thank you for your kind words, i know I'm impatient and I wanna see results immediately even if that's not how real life works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:09 PM
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It's not even necessarily about men it's just all aspects of my life. I totally understand that I have insecurities about my body even when I was a size 8. But I feel a lot more unhealthy this size which is also why I wanna change it. My family constantly remarks about my size and i just wanna lose weight so they'll stfu. This is really good advice I'm definitely going to look into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:06 PM
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Thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:03 PM
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Thank you so much for all this advice. I love that this place is so helpful and it's not just shady comments and nasty remarks. It means the world to me that you took time out of your day to write such a thorough response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:03 PM
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Thank you so much for the acne advice it's extremely damaging not only mentally but it hurts a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:01 PM
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Thank you this is really comforting to hear. Sometimes my depressed feelings make me feel like I'm trapped and I can't get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:00 PM
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I think it just hurts to have such a family yet to also still love them and not wanna disappoint them. I know what they've said has affected me immensely and I'm going to get therapy to help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:00 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind message it really touched my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:04 PM
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Where is the group? Thank you for responding I just feel ao anxious and so behind on everything it makes me feel sick. All aspects of my life are in shambles and I just feel so lost as to where to start
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:04 PM
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Honestly just reading the posts has shifted my views dramatically. Its kind of insane. I will religiously read the handbook. My issue with this is my toxic homelife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:02 PM
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I see they are shallow traits but I don't feel feminine if that makes sense. And I would like to be able to have that ability to better my appearance. My family isn't nice to me and they say I'm evil and awful so I just feel like maybe I'm not a good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:01 PM
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The sad thing is I just don't know. I was brought up in a sexist, religious, abusive household where being seen as less than is me thats what my family says and well i guess in a sick way i believe that too. I guess i can be funny, caring, empathetic, kind, loyal. I don't really have anything else I feel totally stunted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:59 PM
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I already have a nvm I'm with and yes I know its bad. But he's well behaved and I've set great boundaries with him and he seems to be following them. Unfortunately I need him as my living situation with family is precarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:56 PM
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A lot for me unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:54 PM
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I was in group therapy but that didn't do much. I'm on the wait list for therapy again bc covid keeps shutting shit down. I'm in a toxic family situation and it just feels like I can't heal fully due to still being there yknow. I know it sounds stupid and maybe self pitying but I feel so behind and I don't know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:54 PM
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I can't see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:03 PM
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How come she was with him for 5 years and no engagement etc or anything but she's doing all this for a man who's not even her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:48 PM
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I can't see the screenshot for some reaosn I can never see things like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:58 AM
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Keanu is a god tier level man tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:40 AM
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I get that I do but why is it a bad thing to promote being safe, taking precautions, arming yourself etc. Ofc it's entirely the disgusting ass scrotes fault for trying such a disgusting thing always will be. But why aren't more people advocating precautions to make sure women are safe. Ofc it's up to men but they're not going to stop so why not encourage protecting yourself? Doing certain things etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:03 PM
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How does being so aggressive and gross help him? But at least he's honest so we can avoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:30 PM
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Why is perceived as negative when I tell a woman to make sure she's careful, not vulnerable, armed etc???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:25 PM
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I always struggle with the kink thing... If its something that's pleasurable to me, something that makes me orgasm, turns me on a lot more idk why it's a bad thing. I've read how it's the patriarchy and men pushing stuff on you but I've been into certain kinks before a man has ever been with me. I'm not trying to promote or encourage I'm just genuinely confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:37 AM
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But can we talk sense into them??? I know I was raised in a bad way and it makes me sick to think what my parents want and to imagine what her possible upbringing was like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:47 PM
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I'm grateful that although I've had low standards in the past I was never this desparate enough for a man that I'd ever do that or put up with that. I do feel sad for her but it's partially her fault for even entertaining such a thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:23 PM
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Rn looking for jobs. There arent that many to go around thanka to corovirus bs but yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:23 PM
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I know but that's hard to do in a controlling and abusive household. Hes my backup plan and he's been doing good so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:23 PM
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Oh definitely but I feel like when you're a mom it's just a lot more crappier. I definitely don't want kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:40 AM
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I don't think so.... I just wish i could be independent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:37 AM
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Well honestly we're more than incubators and why have kids when everyone shits on you 10x as a mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:36 AM
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I'm wanting to be child free. He has no kids and doesn't want them either thankfully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:35 PM
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Honestly I'm scared I won't be able to leave the abusive household. My parents don't drink or use drugs, they're low key religious nutters. They're good in certain ways but also bad too. It's just so confusing and hurtful. I still don't wanna hurt them. I really hope life gets better because I can't live like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:34 PM
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Are we really suprised tho??? Her brother is a pedophile and she paid for his wedding. She has made songs with 6ix9ine who has also been charged for abusing (sexually) minors and her husband is also a sex offender. Oh and she's best buddies with drake the guy who got a porn star pregnant then hid his own son and has been displaying shady behaviour to famous teenage girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:22 PM
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Thank you i just like piling on lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:29 PM
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Link plsssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:45 PM
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Could you link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:10 AM
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High-key wanna mess with him and bait him and then waste his time for having the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:07 AM
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Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 12:43 PM
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Is it wrong not to always wanna go to high class places??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:26 AM
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Man I wish we could all get keanu level men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:16 PM
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I'm a lil confused. I get what this is saying. But can you not enjoy certain things just cause men like them? Like what if you do like certain things that this post says are you a pathetic cool girl? (new lurker)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:29 PM
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