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social media_HighJack_/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 02:20 AM
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The behavior of other women, same as men. Mainly imo their enabling and incentivizing of horrible men doing horrible things, for their own benefit. Also using men as tools for morally dirty work (not saying the men themselves are absolved). Good women don’t often understand that toxic women really are like the negative stereotypes that idiots apply to all women, ie emotionally manipulative, underhanded, backstabbing, shallow, disloyal, dishonest, opportunistic, and callous. And because these are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:44 AM
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Mcfucking proving the point 🤦🏻‍♂️ do you completely lack self awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:07 AM
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I have a similar backstory just opposite way lol. My first dose of T my constant suicidal urges stopped dead and I haven’t had another since. It’s been 2 years last month. I’m even off almost all my other psych meds now :) happy you’re in a better place and hope things continue to get better for you sis <3
/r/EverydayMisandry16/07/26 03:46 AM
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I feel like they should have just updated the girls’ program to include more camping and stuff, and then held joint events
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 03:04 AM
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That’s not how I interpreted the comic. I interpreted it as he has insecurities about being male, and copes in a really unhealthy way by being feminist. I went and read the whole thing and found it really relatable. It’s kind of disappointing to see the flippant comments here like “well what was the dumbass expecting.” He wasn’t expecting anything. He identified the issue as being stuck on trying to cheer up his mom from when he was a little guy. Dismissing men’s genuine emotional experiences wi…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/26 05:33 AM
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I think the point is people yelling at him to donate while he already does, while also yelling at him to make more comics gets to be a lot.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/26 05:21 AM
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I mean, it’s literally “human with penis definitely wants to rape me” so yeah lol. But it’s widely considered misgendering to say a trans woman experiences misandry. Not so much so to say a trans man experiences misogyny. Most chronically online people know the word “transmisogyny,” but will also tell you that misandry doesn’t exist. And like yo, something not being systemic, or not as systemically prevalent as misogyny has been, doesn’t meant it just doesn’t exist. Trans guys tried to make an a…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/26 02:27 AM
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If Trump tried to initiate the draft, I feel like a lot more people would start caring VERY fast lol. The problem is it isn’t happening to them/us, so they don’t think about it. Now that I think about it I kinda hope he does try, because that would likely get rid of it for good with how unpopular the war on Iran is. It pisses me off so much honestly how people dismiss this with “the draft hasn’t existed since Vietnam” and then when you say “umm Ukraine?” there’s crickets and nobody has any ideas…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 12:58 AM
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Fr. You can look at Afghanistan to see what happens when a majority of the men decide women aren’t worth anything. It pisses me off sm when some western feminists will bring up oppressed women in other countries as a gotcha, then do nothing for them. Like that’s literally stolen valor lol stop acting like women in Afghanistan are deeply affecting you when you’re not doing anything about it and the only time you bring it up is to get a man to shut up about his own problems. That being said, I 100…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 11:12 PM
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Huh. Y’know that is really fucking odd. You’d think banning child marriage would be priority numero uno
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 10:48 PM
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Yeah because only interacting with robots is totally gonna teach guys how women want to be treated 😑
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 10:47 PM
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Bc “slavery” is the way it’s always been. Men would be essentially labor slaves, women would be essentially sex slaves. Men produced things, and women produced more people to make more things and people. The ruling class owned us. Women have made progress, at least in developed countries, to the point nobody could reasonably call your average female life sex slavery (obv that still happens sometimes). Now they’re wage slaves like all the rest of us; they just haven’t caught on yet. I hope more o…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 10:45 PM
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Similarly, I had a trans woman tell me awhile ago that both trans AND cis women can experience misogyny AND transmisogyny, whereas trans men can only experience misogyny. Oh and there’s no such thing as misandry so we can’t experience that either lol. Cool sis, definitely don’t unpack why you’re grouping yourself with cis women to say you all experience oppression from *checks notes people who don’t always read as male and spent half their lives dealing with misogyny and often get mistaken for y…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/26 02:18 AM
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I was like “oh this isn’t that bad” until I got to “believe that women who are victimized deserve it.” ??????????????? That’s 100% a non sequitur. Where are they getting that? Saying “who hurt you” is maybe a little rude when someone is crashing out yeah, but it’s because of the implication that they’re showing their trauma in an unflattering way. It’s rhetorical. It’s not like, asking fr in order to then victim blame? 😅 ETA every slide of this is just misunderstanding the common intent behind f…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/26 01:35 AM
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I’ve been seeing a fair number of people switching to “believe all victims,” which I think is a much better sentiment, if circular logic lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 11:39 PM
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God what shitty miserable people. I hope their little sons never find out they said these things, though that’s not going to save them from feeling the contempt.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/26 07:17 AM
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The only one I can think of is Sade’s “Young Lion,” apologizing to her trans son for not respecting him as a little boy. I can’t listen to it lol it makes me cry every time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:49 PM
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Her one vote is negligible compared to the oligarchs that buy elections. Don’t let them distract you.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/26 10:11 AM
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It’s interesting; growing up my dad complained constantly while my mom was mostly quiet and rolled her eyes. That has NOT been my experience as an adult though lol. My best friend is a nonbinary woman and good lord, I swear complaining is her native language 😅 she can go on for a full minute or two just bc a traffic light turned red when she wasn’t expecting it. I think this might be partly a generational thing, bc we’re both zillenials and I’ve mostly observed boomer/gen x men whining. My guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:01 AM
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I’m not excusing the UN post at all, but a lack of functional bathroom facilities does more strongly affect those who can’t piss standing up and also bleed for 25% of the month. What pisses me off is they said the rescue attempts. They didn’t talk about prioritizing bathroom facilities in order to help women and girls in the aftermath which would have been completely reasonable just due to biological reality imo; they were straight up talking about the rescue attempts. Fucking disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:04 AM
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The upvotes on this are concerning. Leftists are progressive. This is a progressive space. Tf??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:57 AM
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Yeah it’s to be a human man. I don’t need women to do anything in order to be who I am. Some of them like me, some don’t, and there’s not a single one I ever forget is a fucking person when I see their skin. You’re a weird dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:59 AM
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Low IQ? High testosterone men actually tend to respect women more bc they’re less insecure about their place in the world. There’s been studies. Look it up, and then either quit being a weird horny loser or quit tagging yourself purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:45 AM
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100% agree! This is basically the TL;DR of what I said lol. Damn you’re good at summarizing ideas bro! 😊
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 04:51 AM
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You remove yourself from learning environments that contain excessive misandry :P you’re clearly a good person who wants everyone to be treated equally and fairly, or you wouldn’t keep trying to learn when people keep discouraging you. You don’t deserve to be treated like the enemy. It doesn’t have to be that way! That’s just some of the loudest most mainstream spaces bc controversy generates interest which somehow transmutes into money and/or power. Have you tried the purple pill debate subredd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 04:47 AM
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Yup. Fucking yikes. He should just move to Afghanistan already 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:02 AM
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That’s not power, it’s influence. Power is force. Influence is negotiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:58 AM
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This dude would probably just straight up say “I want to chuck this can of tuna fish at your face so bad rn” 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:57 AM
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No, not every man. Stop saying that shit. It’s not true and I’m sick of being lumped in with you degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:54 AM
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“If a man looks on a woman with lust, he has already committed adultery in his heart” “If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out” Jesus thinks you’re a sexist moron and should rip your eyes out if you can’t control your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:47 AM
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Okay? So it’s whining AT women. That changes nothing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:29 AM
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Okay ik this isn’t the point, but is anyone else super interested by the fact that there seem to be fewer extreme height difference couples on the opposite side as well? Like what’s going on here?? Any of you fellas understand statistics better than me and want to explain?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 04:58 AM
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Y’know, condolences ring a bit hollow when followed up by “fuck off and die” lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 04:02 AM
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It’s a great system if you enjoy being by yourself I guess. Seems lonely to me. And before you start, don’t come at me about wanting women I can’t get I’ve been with my bf for years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:26 AM
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Then they should stop. Seriously. Strike. They’ll magically learn to clean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:21 AM
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You’re both idiots. Fight the trillionaires, not each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:19 AM
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It is not an extremely rare occurrence. I have at least 3 male friends whose first time having sex was rape by women. 2 statutory, and one at college got literally drugged. I myself have been raped by both men and women. I know plenty of other men who’ve been sexually assaulted. Men don’t report it usually, bc you think the cops don’t take it seriously when you’re female? Try being an average size dude and going “this 5’2 120 lb woman raped me.” Nobody takes it seriously because either they don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:10 AM
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And by “a walk” you mean “a scroll” lol. People online are half bots man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:58 AM
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Anonymous anecdotes on the internet which may or may not be true. Nobody’s arguing that men aren’t shitty to women. They’re arguing that a constant steady diet of stories about the worst case scenarios (which are unverified and NOT in the news) is probably affecting your view overall. Like if all you do is watch videos of car crashes, you’re probably gonna be nervous to drive, even if statistically it’s unlikely anything bad will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:49 AM
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Wowwww that’s a lot. I’m sorry dude. That’s not fair to y’all and also doesn’t seem like the best idea for addressing women’s sexual oppression in India, bc it’s going to make the men who usually do that sort of thing feel even more resentful and entitled. Whose idea was it to make this gendered instead of universal? Can y’all vote them out? I’m not sure how your political system works over there, please excuse my ignorance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 10:38 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ. Do you know what would help a lot with the liberal women birth rates? People like you to stop saying shit like “accept that it’s part of your life to become pregnant and bear children.” Stop calling it “sacred” and “wonderful.” It’s not your place to label it that when you’re not the one paying the price. It’s a life threatening medical condition that often results in permanent disfigurement or disability, and always results in someone being sliced open. The part that’s dem…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 09:01 PM
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Well I mean not having DOGE gut most of the functional parts of our government would’ve been a start 🥴 them cutting children’s cancer research still fucking hurts every time I see one of those St. Jude commercials with the cancer kids. TBH though, any one specific thing being underfunded is kinda the least of our problems at this point in the US. All of it together is part of a larger whole. I think they’re actively trying to do enough damage that we can’t have a secure election that everyone ag…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/26 05:06 AM
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Oh mb I didn’t realize that I was supposed to somehow intuit that the people at the main place queers hang out aren’t part of the conversation about the modern rainbow umbrella and who’s under it and their mental health. What are they talking about then, smart guy? :) Because I could’ve sworn social isolation due to homophobia, excessive alcohol consumption, and experiencing abuse correlate heavily with increased rates of male suicide. You’re either talking out your ass bc you’re straight and kn…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/06/26 04:52 AM
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But like why does that matter and who cares? Even things one sex/gender is better at on average, there’s still gonna be outliers that make everyone feel some type of way. Like the time that bodybuilder chick half my size bruised my knuckles beating me so fast at arm wrestling 🥲 humbling lol. She was a certified beast. And it kind of depends on what society values at the time, who gets considered “better.” When everyone is well and truly scared, machismo gets lauded for the role of protection mac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:23 AM
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Disingenuous people make life so hard. There are so many men like that who are just looking for an angle on sex, and mixed in among them is dudes with actual trauma who need literally anyone to give a tiny shit in order to feel worthy of doing so for themselves. Not even sexually; I’ve had friendly conversations with other dudes online where just giving them simple genuine compliments encouraged them enough to work on other things. I think maybe women don’t want to do that bc they don’t want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:56 PM
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If she was married to a woman she would also be Mrs.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/26 10:34 PM
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If it’s not you then why are the rest of us doing fine? I just had a really cute woman at the bar come up and ask me for my info last night. She didn’t seem at all repulsed by the notion of my sexuality, if her giggling and touching my arm was anything to go by 🙃 I’m gonna ask her out! This is distinctly a you and people who behave like you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:38 AM
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The fact that it’s not at all true. It’s like saying the sky is a tv screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:11 AM
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While I do think the framing is meant to inflame for clicks, particularly bc the sources of funding are different, endometriosis research is chronically underfunded and it’s a REAL problem. Not only bc of the 10% of women with it, but also they’re finding out now that (rarely) even cis men get it, which makes it technically a female and male problem, in the same vein as breast cancer. I don’t see this underfunding changing while we still have president child rapist in office though, seeing as ho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 10:50 AM
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I literally have no idea where you’re getting that gay men have been “kicked out of the rainbow umbrella.” I was just at the gay bar last night and it was at least 2/3 men
/r/EverydayMisandry21/06/26 09:10 AM
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Women do have testosterone lol, everybody has both to an extent. It’s almost always <100, but it’s there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:55 AM
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You can’t even spell misogyny correctly. Like are you trolling? “It’s actually insane how misogynistic y’all are” fucking really? Because we’re tired of thought stopping cliches that add literally nothing to the conversation except “men bad”? Tell me you’ve never experienced actual misogyny irl without telling me 🙄
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 08:33 AM
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Bro this is a thing of beauty. I fact checked several things where I was like “now hold on a minute” and it was all true. Thanks for your hard work, seriously. You helped me figure out why some stuff I believed wasn’t sitting right lol. I’m surprised you didn’t bring it around to where the oppression is actually coming from though, since this is a left wing sub. I noticed in all your examples it was the people hoarding wealth and power that made it so that men and women had to coerce each other …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 08:19 AM
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Why the fuck are you commenting on her looks? Nobody gives a shit what she looks like, we’re talking about her words.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/06/26 06:17 PM
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I mean, I definitely think we’ve changed some. But the catalyst for most change is necessity, and it just hasn’t been necessary for men’s behavior to change all that much since around the Industrial Revolution. The biggest change I think is how much less we work while producing more. Whereas if you compare average women in say, 1915 with women in 2015, the differences in their behavior are pretty stark bc back then they didn’t have access to like half their rights. They couldn’t have bank accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:07 AM
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Look, you can either listen to normie women about what they like to do with boyfriends? or you can listen to grifters who make their living off of you turning to their YouTube channel to get tips on being romantically successful. Hint: there’s no profit for them in helping you succeed; they would have to do something else for money if their advice worked bc they’d have no dedicated viewer base in short order. But hey, your call.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:17 AM
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Np, and yeah 😅 sorry a lot of the loudest ones are inadequately educated and/or unpleasant to interact with. I’m bisexual so I get my fair share of em too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:57 AM
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Good? Men should change. Women did! They wanted careers and bank accounts and shit and they got em. If men want relationships, maybe put the work in. Watch rom coms. Read girl dating magazines. Learn to cook. Go to therapy and learn how to help others manage their emotions. I’m serious lol. Women picked up a bunch of new skills in just a couple decades, and I think men haven’t kept up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:21 PM
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Dude you’re hella funny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:18 PM
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You conveniently ignored the emotional reciprocity part lmao, good job on wiping your ass tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:14 PM
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I believe she was talking about the myth of the Black seductress, a really common form of victim blaming in the Jim Crow South. White men would attack Black women because they had little to no protection and could get away with it. Then of course when their wives found out, it was always the victim’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:28 PM
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Uhhhhh….. sexual revolution? Advent of the pill? Legalized abortion? 🤨 literally all of those things directly lead to more men getting to have sex with more women, bc there simply aren’t as many life altering reasons not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:19 PM
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People didn’t really marry for love so much back in the day. Women had extremely limited options without a husband, and men had no prospect of children/continuing the family line without a wife. You NEEDED to find someone, FAST, if you wanted to have a decent rest of your life. Very utilitarian. None of this modern dating dozens of people and breaking up if they like, do laundry the wrong way or buy sweet pickles. Also you’re forgetting that women have been treated more or less like livestock in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:06 PM
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To preface, lest I come off too sympathetic to assholes. I got banned from the abusive relationships subreddit just for being in this one, by a power tripping feminist mod. They said I was participating in a subreddit that endorses hatred of women, and that “the very concept of men’s rights in a patriarchal society is misogynist.” 😐 I was there bc I’ve been in sexually abusive relationships with both men AND women, oh and coincidentally guess which ones are always taken more seriously? Guess whi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 06:30 PM
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It’s literally all about consent and what individual people want. None of those things are bad on their own, nor is wanting to be gentlemanly to ladies. A lot of guys do those things because they think it’s expected of them, and then get angry if the girl doesn’t respond with effusive gratitude or says “I don’t actually like that.” Because yo why am I not being treated like a good boy if I put in all this work and did the stuff like I was supposed to? That’s not fair! Lol. In reality everyone wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:39 AM
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Dude, knock it off. A virgin Christian girl is not giving “disinterest and negativity” when she’s looking at men and hoping they ask her out. She’s giving hopeful and probably the “make eye contact, blush, look away, smile” thing that girls do when they’re too shy to talk to you. You’re just looking for shit to bother her over bc you’re mad you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:19 PM
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I wasn’t actually speaking to you, I was speaking to the person whose comment I replied to. So if you examine the context, you’ll see that that person made a statement assuming the default arrangement in a one night stand is that the woman is getting taken advantage of. They never provided any explanation for why that would be the case and just continued saying shit like “hmm telling.” It’s not telling, when we’re asking for an explanation that isn’t being provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:41 AM
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Good for you? I refuse to believe you don’t know that’s not normally the case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:24 PM
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Men are pretty much guaranteed if they get to stick it in they can cum. Women are not guaranteed that. You say “look for men who are good at sex and avoid men who are bad at it” as if that doesn’t mean you cycle through having sex with A Lot Of Men, which is dangerous for starters, plus a high body count is often considered less attractive for women. They can’t win when they follow your logic. So yeah, we “ought” to be doing our best to give our sexual partners a good time, and the fact that I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:22 PM
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Fucking THANK you. I’m a trans guy and it’s always been the biggest mindfuck to me that the stereotypical way men are viewed isn’t considered wildly rude and insulting the way it is for women. Like, neither option is great, but if it comes down to it I’d much rather be kind and weak than abusive and strong? Idk, being told “men don’t experience love, they just fake it to get sex” was probably just as personally damaging to me as “if you won’t have sex with your husband whenever he wants you’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:14 PM
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How is having one night stands where both people agree on the parameters “dehumanizing”? If neither person wants a relationship and they just want to fuck, who’s dehumanizing who? Like bfr ETA I’m bisexual so I’m coming at this from a multisexual perspective. I frequently see hot men, and sometimes would like to sleep with them. Sometimes I do. Everyone is satisfied by this arrangement. Why would this be different by gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:57 PM
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Where did he imply that? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:55 PM
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“Owed amazing sex every time” you’re barking up the wrong tree bud. Most of the time men have an orgasm. Most of the time women don’t. That ought to get fixed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:53 PM
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A lot of cis men seem to think that dildos are the most popular sex toy for the female anatomy, and that belief alone should account for the orgasm gap lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:50 PM
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Trans guys get this all the time and pretty much universally see it as misgendering. It kinda makes me laugh bc the point of transitioning is to appear more like the sex you see yourself as and most of these people ID as progressive, so if they thought for 2 seconds before talking they’d know better. We already did this a few years back where everybody had to learn “you’re not like other girls” is insulting; apparently the lesson didn’t stick? Like, your dumb rude ass is not complimenting me at …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 05:32 AM
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I would agree with you if not for the existence of project 2025, which last time I checked the tracker website was 50% complete. Trump isn’t the threat; his administration is. They planned all this and they’re prepared, bc they know they’re never getting power again if they don’t keep it now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 05:11 AM
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I used to admire him too, but that started changing when he called that guy a pedo for not liking his stupid submarine idea. There isn’t really a way I could explain that other than he’s a concerning level of petty and insecure, and insensitive enough to flippantly bring up pedophilia out of context. Really put me off. With everything that’s transpired since then, I don’t believe for 5 seconds he ever wanted to actually do all those great things. His only real ambition is to get attention and ac…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/26 04:38 AM
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Yeah no it’s not lost on me that a 12 year old is nowhere near “a man.” It’s a little boy, and almost all little boys’ criminal behavior is due to abuse and/or neglect. They just usually turn it outwards more compared to girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/26 07:48 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. I’ve replied to several atp with “you get that you’re painting yourself as a prize for men for good behavior right? Is that really the world you want to live in?” and they never have a response. I’m starting to think we should just go for the throat emotionally speaking when talking to these people about this shit? Like immediately hurt their fucking feelings to snap them out of it Full disclosure I used to be one of them bc I had to watch my dad be shitty to my mom…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/25 11:54 PM
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What is this shit I keep seeing where women don’t want to open doors? It’s a fucking door, not the sealed tomb of Christ 🤨
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/25 11:33 PM
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If she’s hot, which it seems like may be the case due to getting flown places and whatever, they will. Half the problem with modern dating is that men put up with way too much bullshit to get pussy, and the other half is that women put up with way too much bullshit to get good dick. If we all stopped letting these people get away with shit things would improve so much so fast
/r/EverydayMisandry27/12/25 11:32 PM
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Children have the right to care, but they don’t have the right to care from specific people, as evidenced by the fact that parents give them up for adoption all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:30 AM
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The fuck is this take? You need resources to build a baby which would usually be used by the mother, so it’s kind of by definition a sacrifice
/r/EverydayMisandry17/12/25 01:57 AM
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Women increased in trades 30% the last couple of years. The main deterrent most of them cite to more women entering “dirty jobs” is being treated terribly by their male coworkers. Don’t pretend there aren’t plenty of women who would love to have an active job at $50+ an hour if they didn’t have to deal with sexual harassment the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:53 AM
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Nobody’s arguing that. We’re arguing that if you decide to keep a fetus the other partner does not want, he shouldn’t have to pay you to do it. Quit being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:51 PM
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I’m ftm you insufferable, condescending bitch, I do have a uterus. It’s not right to force someone to have a child they didn’t consent to have, period. If you’re so desperate to have someone’s kid and they don’t consent, you shouldn’t get to force them to pay you and do it anyway. That’s fucking heinous. I guess comprehending morality must be a real struggle for you because you keep defining this in LEGAL TERMS as if abortion isn’t against the law in some states as we speak. Something being the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:03 AM
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What part of “you can do whatever you want with your own body but I’m not paying you for it” do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:40 AM
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And it should be the dude’s choice whether he wants to participate, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:38 AM
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Cis women specifically. They made the trans women stay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:28 AM
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You didn’t dismantle shit you condescending twerp. “You could get hit by a truck leaving the house so why would the hospital treat you” is a false equivalence and a ridiculous fucking argument. Almost anything could happen to a person outside their home, literally nobody regards that as consent to have random unknown horrible shit happen. When straight sex is had either one partner will get pregnant or they won’t. Sex is only had for pleasure and reproduction so those are the only outcomes you n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:38 AM
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Those women should get abortions if they can’t afford a child on their own, not raise a kid in poverty bc they fucked the wrong man and decided they could make him pay for them to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:20 AM
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How do you get that money without using your body? Does slavery not violate bodily autonomy? Forcing someone to use their body for something they don’t want to do and never agreed to do is literally the definition of violating bodily autonomy. If sex isn’t consent to pregnancy then it’s not consent to fatherhood either and you shouldn’t get to make that decision for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:17 AM
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Idk what planet you live on but women complain about men constantly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:05 AM
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That’s a shitty response. You seem low empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:59 AM
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Lmao you’ve got a lot of nerve calling him insecure when you lost the argument so bad you became the stereotype all the red pill men on this page think women are. “You disagree with me! Short! Angry! Bad!” 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:29 AM
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No, you are not saying what’s true. I’m ftm and no less empathetic than I was before my t levels were >1000. Everyone is different and making generalizations the basis for rules and laws is gonna hurt a lot of people. ETA - “ignoring reality is woman shit”? Dude, I think I speak for a lot of guys here when I say casual misogyny isn’t welcome and sybau
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 01:21 AM
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The bear thing was never a slogan tho, it was a survey. Everyone keeps repeating and treating it as some great offense that Women the Monolith knowingly committed against Men the Monolith by comparing them to bears when really, they were asked “would you rather encounter a bear or a human man out in the woods alone?” and they answered, and that’s what the results were. The women weren’t trying to be malicious, they just answered how they felt. I haven’t seen anyone talk about the fact that the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:41 AM
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Thanks man! Personally I think the missing piece of the gender war is economics. Women only compare themselves to high status men, and men only compare themselves to the kind of women who make millions on onlyfans lol. When in reality, the thing that determines how you get treated more than anything else in the world is how much money you have, and those two groups of people are probably just thinking about how much easier it would be for them to make money as a man/woman. If you take off the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 AM
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The first part, yeah absolutely. I kind of love the feeling invisible though bc I spent the first two decades of my life walking around being stared at and harassed everywhere. It’s not much nicer to hold doors open for women that don’t acknowledge there’s a person standing there, but still. The second part, my “quirks” were never cute, bc they were me behaving too much like a dude for the package I was in and people did NOT like it lol. One of the first things my college roommate said to me was…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:03 AM
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Yeah, I really expected to be able to avoid the loneliness bc I’ve always been good at making friends and the press is that men just don’t try to have close relationships like women do. In reality it’s significantly more difficult as a man, because women think you might be a threat and other men are competition, and if you’re too friendly everybody thinks you’re a pushover, or gay 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:10 AM
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It’s not her fault you’re illiterate bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:48 AM
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You have a way with words my friend I’m someone who’s lived as both a woman and a man (I’m ftm trans). I didn’t expect my life to get easier with transition, but some of the ways it got harder just due to being seen as a man surprised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:47 AM
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First of all, you can pretty easily die without a home. Shelter is on the bottom of maslow’s pyramid. Second of all, I was specifically referencing the comment that referred to women looking for actually enjoyable sex as “a luxury” compared to men looking for any sex. I have a long term bf so I’m outta the game rn, but I’d be willing to bet most men are not trying as hard as they do to have sex that doesn’t result in any significant physical pleasure for them. Average straight bro wants to cum i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:34 AM
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Terrible thing to wish on 7 children lol
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/25 10:56 PM
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Nope, I’ve seen shit like that just on general subreddits more than once. Do the women who are sick of men’s bad behavior intentionally go to spaces where psychos reside too? Bc I don’t see men behaving like that, it must be niche and those women must be seeking out a tiny minority that are psychos in order to have something to be upset about right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:11 PM
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Eh, most of the time, but there’s nuance. I know guys who have experienced abuse from pregnant women threatening to abort their babies if they don’t do everything they say perfectly. Literally like “I asked for cheese pizza not pepperoni. I’m getting a fucking abortion, you’re so goddamn useless you can’t even bring food home right and babies deserve better dads than that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:00 PM
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Nah dude I’ve agreed with you on everything else but men are guaranteed that if they get to have sex it’ll be at least a little enjoyable bc they’re leading the experience. Women do not have that and also don’t have a prohibitory mechanism like limp dick, so if they aren’t enjoying it it’s just unpleasant until the dude stops. Also penetration doesn’t make most women cum, and most men don’t know that 😐 sex is not a need, but if it were, the equivalent of having someone jam a finger up your nose …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah no she’s just enjoying pissing people off. I’d ignore her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:59 PM
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She didn’t say she couldn’t handle it, she said it was hard and she needs to be able to discipline kids in class in order to be effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:56 PM
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I’ve had both done. Honestly I hated being forced to penetrate more, because it felt like my fault. Like I should be able to just push her off me but I froze bc I wasn’t expecting it. I have another guy friend, same story with both types except his rapists were both male, but he’s the opposite of me. I think everyone reacts differently to and has different least favorite parts of an event like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:40 AM
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Your entire theory relies on men 1) going after the person they find most attractive first 2) only asking/going out with one person at a time 3) asking in order of desirability (were we supposed to make a list??) instead of spontaneously when they meet someone cute 4) never meeting anyone new that might be cuter than the rest of the previous options and 5) thinking like you do about partnership and reproduction in the first place. It would never cross my mind to think of someone I loved as “sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:07 PM
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No, the bear thing was not saying all men are naturally violent. When they want to say that they just say it outright lmao. Nobody’s stupid enough to rather fight a bear than a human. You’re reaching because it hurt your feelings. You could try empathizing. Most women understand it’s unpleasant when they’re visibly nervous but they’ve been told over and over and over and over that they need to be; they can’t just shut it off like the tap. It’s not about wanting or not wanting to get side eye. It…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/25 07:41 AM
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At a certain point, if other people claiming to be feminists repeat a behavior enough, this becomes no true Scotsman fallacy. If I can’t trust that someone who says they’re a feminist won’t act like that, what’s the point of making the distinction?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/25 01:29 AM
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Eh, while I’d agree that more feminists engage in casual misandry more often than men do misogyny, I think the sexism expressed by misogynists is more intense and dehumanizing (this is observed in many other areas too, like IQ, where women as a group have a higher average and men as a group have higher upper and lower limits). Did you ever go on the main incel website back in the day before it got shut down? Nasty stuff. Death threats abounded, and talk of rape was ubiquitous. There was a common…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/25 01:19 AM
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Worth it to continue living with being objectified you mean, or do you mean getting older and watching men be less interested? (Huh I guess they’re both sort of objectification. Yikes.) If it’s worry about getting older, please don’t :) good quality people will love you for your whole life even once you have wrinkles and grey hair. If it’s hating being objectified… yeah I got nothing that really helps that stop, sorry. Just try to remember that’s them being low tier trash humans, and doesn’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:49 PM
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Would certainly help explain some of the sexual dysfunction that seems to plague younger gen z 😐
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/25 02:55 AM
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Okay between that and the Giselle Pelicot thing, wtf is going on with France??
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/25 02:43 AM
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Rape isn’t about sex or impulse control; it’s about power and dominance. If it were strictly about sex, paying is easier and far less likely to result in jail time; and if it were about bad impulse control we would actually see it occur in society on a day to day basis, rather than rapists almost always getting their victims alone. Theoretically, anyone that feels really threatened could act out on others in this way as a coping mechanism. Testosterone doesn’t affect your willingness to decide t…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 02:16 AM
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You’re reaching a bit to assume bitterness on the part of all those women, when it stands to reason that a lot have more lived experience than the young women and are trying to call out things that have harmed them to protect others. It’s rarer but I also see people do it with much older women and younger men, like when Taylor Swift at 23 was dating 17 year old Connor Kennedy and spent $5 mil after maaaybe 2 months of dating to move in down the street from him. Obviously creepy af if you reverse…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:41 PM
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Well, you do need to actually win :P I’m jk. Things that are better than sex though? Fuck yes! Garlic toast, a perfect workout where you hit all your goals and walk out the gym with crazy endorphin levels, speed testing your brand new car on the 405 in the middle of the night, fresh in-season fruit smoothies, sound systems that are tuned so beautifully it gives you a little chill, having a little animal that really loves you more than anyone else, watching a movie you’ve loved since childhood, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:21 PM
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I’ve spent my entire life around women, and as the general rule literally none of that is true. I’ve met maybe a handful that are like you describe and I’m getting really sick of this propaganda fucking everywhere. Most women are just trying to live a happy life and they are NOT thinking about this stupid sexual marketplace value age limit hypergamy Chad looksmaxxing fuckboy theory y’all invented to explain why it’s valid that you’re never out talking to girls. They just wanna go out with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:00 PM
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In all the dozens of times I’ve seen men bring up the draft as proof that feminists are hypocritical, I’ve never seen one single person opine that men should continue to accept the draft and women should continue to not. Not one. Ever. Incidentally, you can’t register for the draft as a woman, even voluntarily. I clicked “female” on the page to see what would happen and it just loaded another page that said something to the effect of “women are not required/eligible to sign up for the draft” wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:03 PM
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“Teen” is the biggest category on like every porn site. There’s only two years that’s even legal. She gotta major point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:44 PM
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It’s a bit crazy to compare the societal negative impacts of romantic rejection and sexual trauma. Like. Dude. Cmon. I’ve had both happen to me and the sexual trauma is hands down FAR worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:35 PM
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The man in your scenario is assuming the homeless person is addicted to drugs and responsible for their own situation. That’s neither empathy nor logic; it’s plain prejudice. How do I know it’s an assumption? Women don’t often willingly go near obviously drug addicted homeless people. It’s dangerous. Men like that really need women to be “worse at everything” in order to feel adequate, because they either are or feel like they are inferior to other men, and want to feel that someone’s beneath th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:55 AM
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It’s actually becoming way more common for men to wear makeup, at least where I live. Not like bright colors and highlighter and lipgloss and mascara, but tinted sunscreen to even out the skin tone, concealer for zits, and facial contouring to give a more “chiseled” appearance to cheekbones and jawline and forehead. You just gotta be sure to blend it in really well so nobody can tell! I know a guy who had to start drawing an eyebrow on bc he had an accident with Nair once; now it’s grown back, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:55 PM
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Am I like the only guy on earth that doesn’t find Sydney Sweeney that attractive? The facial expression she usually wears is so empty looking and it makes her seem boring
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:45 PM
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I agree with you, but they’re not really trying to achieve anything. They’re lashing out because they’ve been severely abused and are in pain and terrified. Anger is almost always a cover for hurt or fear. And I would point out that it goes both ways; misogynist men repeatedly damage women and then those women share their experiences with others for safety and commiseration. Which helps create misandrists. By the time you’re an adult female you’ll already have heard or witnessed dozens of storie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:47 AM
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Media celebrates women for opting out of traditional roles, because corporations want more wage slaves. The more workers, the fewer hours they have to give and the less they have to pay. Men and women not getting together means paying for two households. Men and women divorcing means paying for two households. It’s more profitable for them if we hate each other. Follow the money and stop blaming other poor people just trying to get by for the fact that you hate your life, or aspects thereof. Ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:10 AM
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I’ve reexamined some preferences before, but I have a really hot boyfriend ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:53 PM
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I mean I don’t know your experience, but the people that have put me down for being empathetic have always been men, and the people telling me women only value rough mean dominant men have also always been men, and all of them have been weak insecure little bullies too scared to emotionally connect with anyone outside themselves. I think they purposely tease better men into being too scared to approach women with confidence, because it makes them feel better about themselves to watch quality guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:02 PM
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That doesn’t make any sense to me. What do you mean “doesn’t work for sexual desire”? Why would the mechanism that makes a woman go “poor kid” be the same one that controls sexual desire??? Do you mean women don’t want to fuck guys they feel badly for? Cuz that’s broadly true, but pity isn’t the same thing as empathy. Empathy is the ability to put yourself in another’s shoes and feel what they’re feeling; pity is feeling sorry for someone and is kind of condescending and transactional. Empathy m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:52 PM
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Ding ding ding ☝🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:00 AM
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I disagree, because men are actually more likely to fight with other men than they are with women. In that sense it would be a negative sex based bias, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:59 AM
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This is a really insightful comment and refutes some of my own thinking about the subject. I wonder if intersectionality could be expanded on as a concept to include situations that are more a person vs several overwhelming negatives than man vs woman, black vs white, which one has the power. The duality seems unnecessarily polarizing, and now that I’m thinking about it the model breaks down in other places too. If a Black man and a Latino man of equal financial means and a similar skin tone com…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:53 AM
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It kind of is though? An equally rich and attractive man and woman don’t have equal power, because the woman will still be taken less seriously, and also is most likely less physically strong. Also, it’s debatable whether man privilege is decided on the basis of gender or sex, because I came out and started transitioning female-to-male and immediately became The Enemy to a substantial subset of “feminists” lol. I don’t pass so I don’t actually get any of the male privilege benefits, but I still …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:03 AM
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Okay so, if that person has a “female POV” and they find value in a man specifically for having empathy… doesn’t that negate your entire argument about it not working for men in the first place? It sounds like you’re just making excuses for why you’re inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:38 AM
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Okay you’re being ridiculous. I know 0 people who have signed a prenup, let alone agreed to get nothing in a divorce. You’re pissed off because your ex cheated on you and it’s not a good reason to project that onto everyone and everything else. And before you say it, I lasted 25 years as a woman before transitioning. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:33 AM
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It hasn’t been my experience that most straight men don’t give a damn about women not conforming to their standards, rather the opposite. I’ve met so many dudes that think their own attraction is more or less identical to all other men, and that therefore means there’s an “obvious” and objective human female beauty standard. The number of times I’ve heard conversations that start along the lines of “this land whale” or “that no tits chick” or “you remember butterface I was dating two girls ago?”…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:01 PM
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It must be incredibly difficult to find male partners that have never watched porn. I’ve literally never met a man that hasn’t at least tried it once or twice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:29 PM
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Yup. Extreme age gaps with a younger partner are not just harmful when it’s a young woman either. One of my best friends got baby trapped at barely 20 by a 31 year old woman who already had kids. She’s a horrendous person who sits on her ass and refuses to better herself while berating him as he tries. He’s spent the last 10 years trying to get her to be an adequate partner and mother, and it seems like now he’s given up. He bought life insurance and is speed running drinking himself to death 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:20 PM
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Dude… no? Orgasm releases calming chemicals. Orgasm with a partner releases calming AND antidepressant chemicals. This is true for literally everyone, it’s just typically more intense the more testosterone you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:01 AM
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“So a girl the day she reaches woman status” which is when exactly, to you? Bc I know multiple chicks that grew tits and started their periods before 10, and had 30 year old men justifying hitting on them. Predictably, they have some issues with men! :) so do the ones that started puberty 2, 4, or 6 years later. Nearly every young woman is threatened with sex before she makes it out of high school. That might have something to do with why the dating climate sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:08 AM
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The most sexually prolific dude I know has women approach him all the time bc they’re so comfortable. He’s 5’9 and Hispanic living in America, so it’s not that he’s your stereotypical Chad. It’s literally good guy vibes I don’t know how else to explain it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:14 AM
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Bingo. Trying to perform femininity and “failing” at it by not being attractive enough is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:01 PM
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No, imo they really don’t have merit. I’m a trans guy, so I’ve lived as both a woman and a man. Yes as a woman I was treated “more gently” but that was by people who already were never going to hurt me, so it was materially irrelevant, and also I deeply fucking hated it. Idk if women in general appreciate being coddled any more than I did, but my instincts say no lol. I don’t think people like seeming incapable of taking care of themselves without assistance. There’s also a significant contingen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:42 AM
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Female serial killers Female rapists Female cult leaders I used to say things exactly like you. Humans are humans and we’re all capable of the same crimes. There’s nothing about having a vag that makes you a better person. Edit for formatting, and to add I think you know this is a shitty and unfair viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:07 AM
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Why the fuck do you care if women are more educated if men make all the money still?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:58 AM
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75 million votes is not performing poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:11 AM
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Bro like only 25% of government is female; that’s no matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:02 PM
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Okay so if a man is raped by a woman, and she becomes pregnant, he has no rights in that situation. He still has to pay money to someone who raped him. That’s slavery. Your entire last paragraph assumes that it’s always men raping women, that there is no possible way for a woman to rape a man, and that men suffer no ill effects from sex forced on them. You must see how fucking wrong that is? ETA the draft still exists. Every male has to sign up for it at 18. You may think it’ll never happen but …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:57 PM
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Why are you talking so much then? You don’t have kids. Shouldn’t you stfu by your own logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:47 PM
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Oh that’s interesting! I’ve never seen a man get shit for wanting a “sugar momma” either; maybe it’s the opposite gender stereotype that defuses the situation? Like, woman wanting rich partner = gold digger, man = quirky, confident, and probably not serious. Man wanting hot partner = shallow, woman wanting hot partner = “yeah gurl don’t settle; get yours”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:03 AM
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Why do you assume she’s not getting anything out of the arrangement? Women like sex too. What else besides dating are you going to call going out with someone and also fucking them? Like homie that’s literally dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:35 AM
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