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I don't believe in "out of your league". I believe that people who say that are just not confident. If you're dating the person you like, and they like you, it's because they like who you are. It's not because they're out of your league. Everyone is different and like different people for all kinds of reasons. I've dated really shitty pretty girls and really cool not as pretty girls. I prefer the fun not so pretty girls. Of course attraction is physical. So what I've found out is sometimes I'm n…
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:46 PM
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In a couple of days, send her a gif of an animal being cute, or baby goats or something. Say, "I thought you should see this". Just have a few conversations with her via text for now. Also, don't respond right away when (or if) she responds to you. Edit: gif
/r/seduction17/03/20 06:13 PM
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Not only this, but in a few weeks you can contact her. You can tell her you're doing something and that she's welcome to join you because you thought she'd enjoy it (not a movie). If nothing, don't contact her again.
/r/seduction12/02/20 12:29 PM
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You actually should invite a girl to be a part of something you already do. If you're interesting enough, and you should be, you TELL her that you're going to be doing [whatever activity at such and such a time] and you think she might be interested in it. So if she's available, she'll join you. If not, you'll be doing that activity anyway and you can tell her that you'll catch up with her another time and go from there.
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:33 PM
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Tell her you read palms. Best that she doesn't know anything about palm reading. You have her palm in your hand. Read the lines of her palms while you rub the lengths with your finger and make shit up about her being successful and happy and shit. Edit: some words
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:52 AM
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You just say, "Hey [Jane]!, what's been going on? Good to see you!" and give her a high five. You gotta smile and give high fives. Does she have a new watch or bracelet when you give her the high five? grab her hand and look at the watch/bracelet and compliment her. Ask her, "who gave it to you, your boyfriend?" Tease her about having a boyfriend. I ALWAYS tease girls about having boyfriends. They usually actually don't plus it lets down their wall. They think you're non threatening and you frie…
/r/seduction11/01/20 07:01 AM
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You match what she's doing. She's telling you about her day so you let her. You can ask her questions about her day. Of course you don't respond all the time right away. Just do that for now. There is no rush in to going out with her. DON'T ask her out again. You need to up sell yourself. You need to start making yourself interesting where she wants to hang out with you. At some point you can tell her something YOU'RE going to do. Something you do by yourself normally but you can still invite he…
/r/seduction11/01/20 06:42 AM
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Thanks! Good luck! Just have fun
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:05 PM
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No. That's why saying "What are you guys up to today?" works like you just met them or if you've known them for a long time. It's a generic statement that opens the door. Then you can embrace your lack of communication after they respond. Once they answer you, see what they say. Answer their questions. After that, you can say something like, "We've been here this long and we don't know our names yet. I'm pandacrusher, nice to meet you!" and then they'll all give you their names. And then you can…
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:01 PM
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Doesn't matter. You could ask anyone in the group. Just talk to people like they're your friends. If you're at a hostel, that must mean you're traveling. So much to talk about and ask.
/r/seduction05/01/20 01:40 PM
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Just say, "What are you guys up to today?"
/r/seduction05/01/20 01:35 PM
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Why did you drop out of college? The first rule of seduction is get your shit together and have a good education
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:58 AM
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Ah, well you need to get the fuck out of there. What is/was your school situation? What about online work?
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:52 AM
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What do you mean "working class"? Get yourself in a position to get out of there. There's nothing wrong with being single, but certainly don't just get with anyone becuause you are.
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:47 AM
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Can you leave the country and travel? I'm serious. If they're not in the area that you live, you're going to have a tougher time. That's just the fact.
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:42 AM
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Ask an opinion about something you want to buy.
/r/seduction28/11/19 02:12 AM
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Think about this: If you're in the back seat and driving the car, you HAVE to be a really good driver.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/19 02:06 PM
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Well you can lie and then ghost them. But maybe you can go after older women? I wonder why it's so difficult for you to find women that just want to have a good time.
/r/seduction13/11/19 06:34 AM
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You really need to mention something about their profile when responding. You don't have to go with the regular crap they're used to, but they'll know that you're paying attention. I like your idea, but I really don't think it will work for the most part.
/r/seduction10/11/19 08:37 AM
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You should never consider a girl out of your league because if you do, then they are and you put them on a pedestal when you shouldn't. And those girls who you think you are out of THEIR league are the real deal who have been through shit. Maybe they think YOU'RE out of their league and you want one thing so they're smart enough to reject you.
/r/seduction03/11/19 01:16 PM
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Don't worry about it. Nothing you can do. Just learn what to do for the future.
/r/seduction02/11/19 06:03 AM
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To really get her number fast, first you have to have some kind of common ground. Or....you could say something like, "I'm really enjoying this conversation but I have to get going. Put your number in my phone and we'll catch up!" and you give her the phone. Don't ASK for her number. Act like it's not a big deal to get someone's number and she won't think it's a big deal either. You're in college and you're socializing meeting people. It's normal and cool. And if she tries to bring up the "boyfr…
/r/seduction02/11/19 06:02 AM
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Don't worry about it. You didn't screw up. At least you didn't do anything to fuck it up. In fact, it probably helped you. It shows you're not eager. It shows you're not desperate. Nothing has to happen right away. I know there are masters of seduction, but I tend to play the longer game.
/r/seduction02/11/19 05:55 AM
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Well, first of all, never be afraid to get their number. Don't worry about if they have a boyfriend. At this moment, I would just go on about my life. If, and WHEN you see her again, just say hi and ask how she's doing. I'm also interested to know what other people would do.
/r/seduction02/11/19 05:49 AM
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Don't ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. That puts her guard up as well as gives her the option to have one if she doesn't.
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:24 AM
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Part of seduction isn't always the score, it's being quick on your toes and dealing with rejection as well.
/r/seduction21/09/19 03:49 PM
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If someone responds that way, you should learn to play it off. You could just respond with, "Hi, I have a boyfriend, my name is...) or just say "Do you always answer questions you're not asked?". Not everything will work, but you could try some things and see where they go.
/r/seduction21/09/19 03:41 PM
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, just because you're "talking" to one girl doesn't mean you shouldn't be talking to others. The more girls you're talking to, the less you'll care when some stop talking to you. You can have friends and you can have friends that are attracted to you. When the girls see that you have friends that are girls that are attracted to you, the girl you want will be even more attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:07 AM
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She's busy. She's active. She has friends and assume she's talking to other guys. That's what happened.
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:01 AM
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Yes. It is disappointing, but move on. It won't be the last time, but your attitude depends on your future relationships. Maybe something will happen, but you want to be known as the "down the earth chill guy". People talk. At the moment, she knows you as a cool, chill guy. She'll meet other people and could talk about you. Don't ruin it
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:54 AM
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It does not matter. This is the way it is. People are weird. She's testing you. Don't bug her. Just don't care. If you don't care, it gives you the upper hand. Keep yourself available and find others.
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:50 AM
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You would sound too desperate. Good thing you haven't contacted her yet. You do have one more shot though. Don't act like there's any issue. Tell her about a place you want to check out a certain time. If she doesn't respond, move on. She could contact you anytime in the future. If she does, don't reply right away and don't ask him anything about what happened. Just move forward from there. Just say hi and ask what's been up. Edit: one more thing; if she does respond or seems indifferent or not …
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:44 AM
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You talked about your major, home town, and how long you danced. That's technically boring. You need to show them that you're interested. You need to bring up something interesting they can agree with and then you high five them. You need to get them to smile, flirt, and be different. Tell her her hand looks small and compare it to yours. Now her hand is touching your hand. There are so many things you can do. Avoid the common conversations.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:58 PM
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Any move you do make, you have to be confident about it. If she feels awkward or anything, just tell her that she doesn't need to be afraid and that she's not ready for [that]
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:18 AM
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