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_Jake_The_Snake_/r/seduction30/10/15 04:18 PM
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_Jake_The_Snake_/r/seduction20/10/15 12:09 AM
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start meeting her, develop feelings. 2 months later she stops texting INFO - what does "start meeting her" mean? Did you date? Did she know it was a date? How did they go? Did you hook up? The easiest answer is that she was interested and you didn't escalate or just have a lackluster personality. There's nothing inherently wrong with oneitis (unless you are fundamentally opposed to monogamy) but you need to be sure you're ready to invest feelings into the person. That's where the issue is. Someo…
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:19 PM
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but OP said she was really self-aware!
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:02 PM
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you're right. I was on board with this post until I crunched the numbers. It comes out to $1.29 per viewer for the men's team, and $0.175 per viewer for the women's team. That's 7.37 TIMES more money per view. If it was really just more views = more money I wouldn't see the problem but nearly 10x as much per view? Seems like there's more going on here.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/19 11:40 PM
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the way I try to think of it is that you saw your potential the whole time, they didn't. It would have been nice to have met someone who liked you without all of the other stuff because at your core, you aren't those externalities that they seem to gravitate towards--you are the internal machine that made it all possible. And that's true, full stop. ​ The reality is that it didn't happen for you (likely more due to the fact that you were busy with other things and self-admittedly were shy, and p…
/r/seduction11/05/19 08:45 PM
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i know right?
/r/seduction18/03/19 02:02 AM
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Swingers Baby you are so money and don't even know it
/r/seduction17/03/19 05:56 AM
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Be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/seduction14/02/19 05:33 PM
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it's only the first and second rules of r/tinder
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:08 AM
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Well why does it matter? Do you want someone that's going to do ALL of the work? Let's forget about the guys/girls, male/female roles thing for a minute. The person who is interested will make an effort. The person capable of making an effort will do it well. Even the person who clumsily does it is at least trying. It doesn't matter who it is. The downside to being approached all of the time is that you don't really develop the skills to be able to hold your own in a social situation, and from m…
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:05 PM
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First, ask more questions. When you ask questions, the person you are talking to will usually reciprocate. That will give you a chance to start talking about the things you like and are interested in. Don't cut yourself off or think that it will not interest them. If women are complaining that they are talking too much, that means they genuinely want to hear what you have to say. Secondly, when you ask a question, follow up: why did you ask that question? Talk about why their answer was relevant…
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:03 PM
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I mean you could consider this a shit test but you should not invest in this girl at all. If someone started saying that to me I would ask them why 'flirting' is so important to them. How is that even an accomplishment? They didn't even have sex... what's there to brag about? That's just the tip of the iceberg: They didn't even date. That tells me she was in a position to date a high value guy and she didn't have the looks, personality, wit, humor, intelligence, whatever--to land a guy like that…
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:51 AM
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Yeah, especially asking "Do you mind if I talk to you?". The correct answer is "no". but that doesn't sound good to start off on "no". Ask a question they will say yes to! People like to say yes! "Hey , would you be up to chatting with me?" is 10x better an opener than "Hey, do you mind if I talk to you". Because people are much more likely to say yes than no. Even though they yield the same result. The second thing is that "mind if I talk to you" comes off as sales-pitchy and selfish. As in you…
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:06 PM
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Think about why an older woman would date a younger guy: Less baggage. More energy. More passion. The world is full of potential and through your eyes still bright & shiny & new. Plus you are physically attractive in ways that older men are not. Do not dress like a teenager, but don't rock a button-down on the daily either. You want to look put together and nice, but age appropriate above all. Women don't want a man to be dating them as a sign of how "mature" they are because that is a major sig…
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:02 PM
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What are YOU doing here?
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:17 AM
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Actually especially if their post history is filled with constant talk about sleeping with hundreds of women.
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:58 AM
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Trying to change others is a recipe for disaster. I wish I learned that sooner. What others do is not a reflection of you, it is a reflection of their reality. It's not necessarily the truth of what you are. Everyone is the main character of their movie, they don't think about you that much --they think about themselves a lot.
/r/seduction03/02/18 07:44 AM
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It helps to keep in mind that people do not do things as a reaction to you, they do it as a reaction to their own reality. While you might be messing up, it only matters that you feel like you are messing up. The likely chance is that you are not a very skilled or interesting person, so why would someone else (girl or not) think that you are? Even if you aren't an interesting, skilled person, at least be someone that people want to be around. You sound insufferable. You sound like you have a "wo…
/r/seduction01/02/18 10:35 PM
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Day 1. "Hi" Day 2. "Hi, nice seeing you again" Day 3. "Hi, I noticed _something you noticed. My name's SirPassi" get her name. Remember it. Day 4. "Hi her name, literally anything you'd like____" It's helped me to not try to put all of my energy into one singular meeting. I like to go slow. Sometimes you're only at a bar for an hour and have no idea if you will ever see that person again. It changes things, but even still I go slow: start with eye contact, a smile, a friendly remark, maybe come …
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:07 PM
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When you let them. Everyone you see with success has failed more times than you have even tried. You need to use your "attempts" as opportunities to grow. It's a conscious part of learning and doing. Don't half-ass anything. And if you aren't motivated to full-ass whatever it is in front of you, find out what you do want to give your all for. There's some wild dream in you, no matter how ridiculous and far fetched you think it is. Don't concentrate on the end goal, concentrate on the process. If…
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:09 PM
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I appreciate the honesty. Try therapy. I can't tell what your real problem is from just this. The way I see it it could be one of the following: you think women are too good for you, idealization you don't think you are good enough for women, low self-esteem you put too much pressure on each interaction you internalize negative experiences and do not have a positive growth mindset when you 'fail' you don't have a firm understanding of the control you have over your destiny and your ability to ch…
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:11 AM
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CRINGE. OK here goes: You might not be. I'm not here to give you a pep talk, lots of people are average and below average. You might realize that the only choice you have if you ever want to be a person of value (or in your terms: "worthy" (cringe) of having(?)(cringe) that beauty)(CRINGE) is to first believe you can be. If you don't believe women can see you as equals, or as-beautiful as they are (or some other transactional relationship by which you exchange the things you offer for the things…
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:30 AM
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What were the things that you did to work on yourself in those other ways? Those same strategies will work if you just concentrate them on meeting, talking with, and getting to know girls. Having the rest of your solo-life together is only one part of the whole thing. Unfortunately, it doesn't mean much in terms of getting women if you are really weak in crucial areas. It will make it easier for you once you develop the rest (and make you a more attractive partner), but it's far from everything.…
/r/seduction08/12/17 06:13 AM
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OK. I'm not sure what you'd define as defeat, then. Giving your best effort and doing everything in your power is the only way you'll ever get what you want, but it's not a guarantee that you will get what you want. Does that mean you are defeated? IDK. Of course you should get back up and try again no matter how you define it, but thinking that you will meet death before defeat is foolish. It's about accepting defeat and continuing on in spite of failures.
/r/seduction01/12/17 09:35 AM
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You're going about it all wrong. I can't do a good job but check out what buddhism teaches about desires. You don't have to be that extreme but it will point you in the right direction, instead of being a needy entitled being. Number two is that you haven't tried all of the possible ways of getting what you want. You might have tried a few. More likely you have tried a few bad ones MANY times. Odds are you know some strategies you've been curious to try but are just too scared to do it. Why that…
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:58 AM
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The other side to this coin is that when people do do these things, it's because they genuinely want to. Not because you manipulated, begged, coerced, or forced them into it. You've given them the ability to make the free choice for themselves, and some will make different decisions than you would, but the ones that don't are doing it for the right reasons.
/r/seduction30/11/17 08:44 AM
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When someone tells you they're ugly, you believe them. At the very least I can tell you think you are ugly and you think that matters. It doesn't. Especially not for guys. Be interesting and moderately successful at the things you do and I guarantee you will not end up alone. The problem is that you don't think you deserve girls. As is, you might be right. That means you have standards and you want better for yourself. Don't try to game the system by "leveling up" in this one area. You're going …
/r/seduction25/11/17 07:28 AM
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I agree, plus I think it would be helpful for the "always be approaching" attitude: knowing you could report back often with regular check-ins on progress.
/r/seduction17/11/17 07:59 AM
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I totally can see how this could be a problem. Ultimately, if you are a catch, the right guys will see that and respond positively. I will give you the same advice everyone gets in this sub: if you are interested in someone, approach them and initiate a conversation. A good chunk of this problem might just be in your head because you haven't gone up and put your theory to the test. Your FWB sounds insecure and not like the majority of guys. I think you should also check out Matthew Hussey's vide…
/r/seduction26/10/17 06:31 AM
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I told him that if I had the chance I would fuck Brad Pitt (i was serious but I probably wouldn't do it in the end cause i love my boyfriend too much to jeoperdaze our realationship It's like doing something fucked up and then claiming it was just a prank. It's PPD because she was dead serious about sleeping with Brad Pitt if given the chance, claimed it wasn't serious (to us, not to him) and then he said he would fuck her best friend so she got some perspective on what she just said. A normal m…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/10/17 04:22 AM
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Nah that's equally as stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/10/17 04:10 AM
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Nearly sidebar material right here. I'd like to see something confronting nice guys in denial. Like a call to better themselves. Some guys will look at this and think, oh so I need to act more passive aggressively or more like a rude jerk who is just speaking his mind and asserting himself. Thats up to debate but I think going into that deeper will clear up some of the questions people have about how to act and react to others.
/r/seduction28/08/17 04:37 AM
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One day you're going to die.
/r/seduction19/04/17 01:57 AM
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Solid advice on where seduction should be heading. What guys don't realize is that they are exploiting some weaknesses because they have flaws of their own. Fix the flaws and you won't need to exploit anyone else. Second, when you do this you are glazing over some characteristics of the women you are picking up. You could get the insecure woman by negging, but then you're getting involved with someone who's insecure. If you want to try to make it work with someone like that, 1. You are insecure …
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:44 AM
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It can be, but with some girls that's not enough. Because shit testing has evolved, too. Girls are expected to shit test guys like crazy. And to get laid, you just let it bounce off of you completely or control the situation to your advantage, the easiest of which is to neg: deflect back the shit test. But the kind of girl that shit tests you is guarded. Because she's either insecure or has something worth guarding. It takes a keen ear to be able to decipher that from the kinds of shit tests the…
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:25 PM
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No, guys are on here to get laid because they couldnt. Its a self serving bias to ask this group if they dont want game anymore--its why we are here. Now, why we are here varies. Id say half are the type that got 0 action (or not enough in their eyes) and hated it, so they just wanted validation through sex. Im a man because I fuck chicks. The other half are the type that were just lonely and wanted some companionship and maybe even thought they could turn something into a relationship. Those gu…
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:50 PM
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"resisted" and "tried to fight it" are perfect examples of how not to think about sex. You sound like a creep at best. She probably smelled your desperation and you choked because this is how you view sex; as soon as you meet some resistance you become a try-hard. You should be leading the two of you to the mutually beneficial and mutually desirable outcome of sleeping together, not trying to argue/persuade/fight with her to sleep with you.
/r/seduction11/09/16 07:42 AM
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I like this one a lot, thank you
/r/seduction20/10/15 01:03 PM
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The second biggest non-verbal que (besides smiling) is touching. If you grab his hand and smile or put your hand on his hand/arm I doubt he will leave anytime soon, even if you're not saying a word. This is also a great interlude to pulling out your pen and pad to start the conversation.
/r/seduction25/07/15 05:57 PM
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