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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	CoParent with ex who HATES you Feel your pain. My STBXW and I are extremely high conflict and I've definitely done parallel parenting without even realising that was a term (until I read it on here!) Have two boys, 8 and 10, never speak on the phone, all communication is done via OFW but still doesn't stop vitriolic messages. She is doing an excellent job of alienating the youngest from my new partner who I've been with for 2.5 years and absolutely dotes on the both of them. Had periods where he refused to stay over at my hou…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 11:45 AM
2	How many went from co-parenting, conflictive to parallel? I have two boys (8 and 10) and I live very close to my STBXW, most exchanges happen via school drops off which is helpful (I dread school holidays) and football training on a weekend. I attempt to see her as little as possible. As poster below said, I do my thing with them when they are with me and let her do her thing with them when they are with her. We are very high conflict and have been going through the divorce process for 2.5 years with multiple court visits (only relating to financial, n…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 11:34 AM
1	Biggest Fear? The effect it is having, and will have on my kids. Older one is doing better than the younger one but their mother doing a good job of laying all of the blame at my feet and alienating them from my new partner. I'm a high earner, and whilst I'm not in debt, I have burned through every bit of cash I have (had) on legal fees as well as paying for both houses, all the bills, all the things for the kids etc	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 02:20 PM
1	Told the kids today Needed to read this today. Been going through a separation and divorce for the last 2.5 years. Spent over £60k in legal fees (UK based). Got two young sons who are taking some time to adjust, largely because of their mother doing her best to alienate me, playing the victim and attempting to get them on her side as well as criticising my new (wonderful) partner to them who they love. Birthdays and Christmases, as well as school holidays are still big points of conflict that often sees multiple me…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 02:00 PM

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