| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 23 | Dating DownHow are you feeling now? I hope you're in a better place! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 11:18 PM |
| 103 | Dating DownThe only problem I have with the term "gold digging" is that it implies getting financial benefit in excess of emotional, physical and/or social benefit provided. I mean, look at the dude that made a famous song about gold digging - how long was Kim helping him keep his shit together? (Also, as a profession, the exit strategies for a gold digger seem constrained - no 401(k) plan) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenOur appalling insistence that we're actually human and actually have rights is rubbing them the wrong way, I suppose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenThis is brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 51 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenOMG, now it HAS TO BE Gravy Train. And I'm definitely stealing that if I expand to dinner-based meetings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 12 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenTheir favorite pillow-girlfriends must be in the wash... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:54 PM |
| 27 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenI've never had this much scrote attention on one of my posts. Its like I'm back on OLD again... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 17 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenLove these, thank you! I read them all together on my phone and thought you were suggesting 'Currency Crooners Solvency Sisters Retire Early Matrons' and I kind of adored that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 111 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenI just thought about 'Ladies with Liquidity' after reading some of the excellent suggestions here. My audience at the moment is definitely women - right now I'd start small with just friends, but depending on how it goes, I'd love to take the idea to women's shelters. I know that you can't budget poverty, but *some* money management can't hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 26 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenThank you! I love those options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)Thank you, I really appreciate it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 12 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)You're being such a great pet parent!!! Its so hard when our furry friends are sick - you are definitely stepping up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 29 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)Yes! I've been thinking about joining a new gym but my brain is afraid I'll do it wrong. Well, I'm going to go down today and just ask for a tour. And then give myself a big-ass party for making the effort. What about you? Any new and fabulous things you want to try? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 19 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)Perfectionism! Agh! Our brain loves us enough to keep us alive and somehow we got the message that being perfect keeps us alive. I love that my brain loves me that much, even if it got the message a little garbled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)That's great! I love that you were already giving yourself praise - you're pretty amazing (I mean, I don't know you, but you seem pretty amazing from what I can see). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 9 | Strategy - Celebrate the Wins (no matter how small)Oh no, I hope your day gets better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 32 | Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you WantThat takes practice too, right? Its so hard not to equivocate at first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 154 | Learning to Say "No" and Learning to Ask for What you WantThis rings so true. Especially what this guy was asking for help with didn't make sense. (Also, getting murdered on my morning walk would have definitely sucked) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:43 PM |
| 17 | Rant - Floating Like a Cork In the Water and the Bullshit of "Letting Go"Ugh, AA is such a mess for women. If you don't find a good women's group, you're opening yourself to being preyed upon in your weakest moments by the Scrotiest of the Scrotes. Men who are almost all NVM and think they're being introspective by spouting self-flagellating monologues each week. AA is like a training ground for abusers - it gives them alllllll the right words. And don't even get me started on the Big Book and the King of all Scrotes that helped write it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 17 | Reminder: You do not have to "play act" through shitty sex. Get up and leave.I learned this one in therapy - practice saying no to the tiny little things in life. The stupid little things. Do it with the purpose of getting better at it. I used to try to say "no" to 3 things a day to practice. It got easier with time. Practice when there's no pressure so the skill is more accessible when there's pressure. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 35 | Does Anyone Else Do an "Arm's Length" Calculation in Public?I should be able to get a damn burrito without wondering if someone's going to harass me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 10:12 PM |
| 5 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)Nope, you sign up for free. They even give you QBO to track your business activity. All they ask in return is that you bring them lots of work. https://quickbooks.intuit.com/accountants/proadvisor/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 8 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)Good news - the fundamentals of accounting haven't changed - you're well on your way! Also, I'm not sure what jobs you were denied, but there has never been a degree requirement for bookkeeping if you start your own practice. There may have been some jobs that required an Associates in Accounting, but like I mentioned (and some other folks mentioned), Intuit will take on anyone to provide customer support/bookkeeping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:55 AM |
| 14 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)Of course! There are young folks like you out there starting businesses that want someone that understands them. Check with yourself about whether YOU feel that you're capable of taking care of their books. If not, it might be worth your time to practice your pitch to your friends (fake it 'til you make it). And sometimes you'll get judged for your age, but those aren't your clients anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 28 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)It can be, yes. But in the US there's a wide range of what is considered "accounting". So bookkeeping is essentially the recording of a businesses transactions but it usually leaves out the higher-level accounting practices like finding lenders for debt and profitability analysis. (Although, if a bookkeeper can learn those skills and help their clients, they will be 100x more valuable than just recording transactions). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 39 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)You can get professional insurance - it doesn't cost that much annually. Certain services are more high-risk than others, for example Payroll or bill pay vs just tracking income and expenses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 108 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)Oh, should I have posted it there instead? Edit - thanks for the suggestion - I crossposted it there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteYes, in your case, its your waiting/planning time. I don't think any of us that got out were able to walk away the next day - it took me over a year to have a plan in place. But it gave me hope and something to look forward to. This summer you should start receiving the advanced payments on the child tax credit. That will be extra money in your pocket that you can stock away. Also, one of Biden's most recent proposals is for free universal preschool and funds to pay for childcare for families un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteTherapy is a lifesaver, isn't it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteYou are totally correct - I was mixing my metaphors and all of that. But, yeah, put down the blueprints... xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteI'm sending some good vibes your way! Fear and shame are the two biggest things that get in our way. But you got this - you are a survivor already, right? You know how to make it happen already, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: Mamas, you CAN do this alone - you don't need that ScroteAww, YOU'RE the Sistine Chapel, sis - go get some frescos! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?Love it!!! I have to set an alarm on my phone to go to bed on time, otherwise it just gets to be midnight and I don't know how it happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?That's wonderful! (Adriene is amazing, isn't she?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?Congratulations! You're leveling up double-time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 4 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?So much pollen.... Sounds like a great plan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?That's incredibly cool! I hope it helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:55 AM |
| 15 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?That's great that you keep putting it out there. Its really hard to get those rejections, isn't it? I'm sending good vibes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:52 AM |
| 15 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?Love it! What are you going to do instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 21 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?What a great gift that you're sharing with those women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 9 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?I love it, taking one thing at a time! What a great realization! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 18 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?Making your own safe space - such a great project! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 14 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?That's so wonderful that you're taking care of yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 21 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?That's awesome! Weight training feels so amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 31 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?I love that - good girlfriends are the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨Yes, I'm figuring out my life as a permanent single lady and its really freeing. I'm not "waiting" for anybody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 25 | Never go to therapy with your abuser. You're just getting more and "improved" abuse and they get more excuses and ammo to use against you.Truth! I went to therapy with my NVX and the therapist eventually told us that he couldn't help us until my ex took care of his own mental issues. Of course my ex refused and we never went back to therapy because it was just "me complaining about everything he did". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Realizing I Was a PickmeYes! They don't care if you're "perfect" but if they sense any uncertainty about your "perfectness", they will use it against you. It was such a weird process shifting my attention to what *I* think is perfect and moving towards that. So much bullshit brainwashing out there that we only exist for other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 23 | Its Scrote-Blocking Season AgainIts true, most scrotes don't come back. And the ones that do are about as appealing as microwaved fish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 35 | Its Scrote-Blocking Season AgainI would love if we talked about this more as a group - where do we find those elusive girlfriends. But I also know (for myself) that if I put the same amount of effort into building my lady-relationships as I did in "finding a man", I'd probably get it figured out. I imagine it takes practice and learning. We need something like the ladies-only clubs they had back in the day - except less focus on how to be the "proper wife" and more focus on how to handle a chainsaw or do cat's-eye eyeliner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:35 PM |
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