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| 1 | How do you know if a girl you're not into is into you? What should one do about it? | Conversation | _LilDuck | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:15 AM |
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| 3 | Talking to a girl that has a friend that got dumped by her bf. The friend (third) was up for a threesome but now the third is considering going back to her ex? What to say or do to prevent the third going back to her ex (or leave him for good)?So wait is it threesome or nothing? IDK I think there's gonna be at max 2 ppl in that bed | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Where do you find single girls?OK but that's messed up. Don't try to be a homewrecker. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 10:23 AM |
| 8 | Stuck in a Triangle of Love & Need Help Choosing Between 3 WomenAlso ngl this reads like you shoved it into ChatGPT | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Stuck in a Triangle of Love & Need Help Choosing Between 3 WomenGoddamn how long did you work on this | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 09:11 AM |
| 20 | 8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23MUh I don't think you're ready to get back in the game yet bud | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention.If a girl does both of those things then she's basically useless for your needs. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:37 AM |
| 16 | All my friends have girlfriends expect me and people date within friend groups. What do I do in college?Look man, you're prob 21, you're not a teenager anymore, why should you give a shit about if other people know? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | All my friends have girlfriends expect me and people date within friend groups. What do I do in college?Like, talking to people. Be chirpy. Talk to anyone and everyone. Etc. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 15 | how do I get a different hookup everyday?Damn this dude wants a perfect Year | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Finding a boyfriendI think it's also a conditional probability thing with this discussion. I could also be wrong or tired | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:54 AM |
| 19 | Finding a boyfriendHonestly it's probably both. Hear me out, that may sound stupid. But since people generally are monogamous and (we'll assume) enter long term relationships for the purposes of being with the person for a long time, we can therefore conclude that its not really a case of "some good proportion of friends become spouses" but rather "just find one friend who becomes your spouse" if that makes sense. This is further supported by the fact that people, unlike long term relationships, have more than one… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Going out solo is a great way to filter out girls that wanna "just dance" and filter in girls out to fuckIt may be a flawed dichotomy but it is an accurate assumption that girls not doing shit for men are probably not the best targets for one's efforts. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Limiting belief that nobody has ever been into meNote like, relationship material as in like you went on some dates and shit and are pretty convinced she's good long term. Not just like, look at a girl and think you could have a relationship with her | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 06:30 PM |
| 3 | 21M University student What should I do?This is the play. Maybe flirt a little | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls Instagram at mall at her work (Ik I should of got her # ) dmed her, texted 4 a little not very much then asked when she’s available to meet, no response in 2 days. It doesn’t say she opened my dm but Ik she read it. Did I ask to quickly?I agree with the other guy, chill a little. Girl is prob busy. There's other girls you can shoot for too | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?Yeah same | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 9 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?Ooh this sounds interesting, maybe I should read it | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | 21 year old virgin need pointers.Woah when we're talking out of shape are we talking like fat or just not super muscular? Cuz I'm in this early 20s not knowing what I'm doing demographic and I'm out of shape but I'm thin (more out of shape in the athletic sense ig) | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:44 AM |
| 2 | A girl I am interested keeps accidentally referring to me as a girl. Like hey girl are she will be telling me a story and say girl you won’t believe what happen lol. She still flirts with me hard thoYeah... Also assuming you're a guy, it feels really emasculating. Which feels kinda counterintuitive to your goals in the relationship | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Dating after Nuclear war?Might be a good thing | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itNGL I thought you got it with a 9 yr old | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?Honestly social media as a whole | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!You sure they're not just walking off cuz they've got something else going on? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 0 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Ok so when you are out in the wild and you see a girl, most of the time they're actively disinterested? Or just normal levels of not caring? If the former, then you're probably kinda boned. If the latter, congrats you're fucking normal. Maybe like do a little situation manufacturing so it's easier to start a conversation and then steer it as you like | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Like not interested in meeting you? Or you meet them and they get turned off | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 4 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Probably not true | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!Hmm... Not desperate could be a start? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | I Kissed a Girl On the Cheek and Feel DumbAgree. I'd bet on the awkward stuff too. This just feels like a really weird interaction to me haha | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How should I (26M) approach this girl I frequently see at my gym?I mean, I'd probably start by talking about how I feel about the equipment, hope the girl picks up I'm talking to them, then introduce myself and go from there? But I'm not really in the "pick people up at the gym" business. Then again I'm also not in the "pick people up" business atm | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How to start a convo with a coworker you’ve seen multiple times but were too shy to say anything at the time?I just realized today that I need to do this with girls in general. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I met this girl which in my opinion is way out of my leagueAh ok it was a typo. Just seemed weird with the comma between the numbers | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 07:39 PM |
| 11 | I met this girl which in my opinion is way out of my leagueWait did this guy just say he's under 2cm tall? | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 07:28 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Also idk bout y'all, but I swear some girls only look pretty online and some only in the flesh. Idk why. It's weird | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not?Ngl for the latter one I was like, "wrap your arm around her shoulder and then feel her lower back? How do you even physically do that????" And then I realized you're not keeping your arm on her shoulder | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask this girl out?Yeah don't use the number, go with the insta. That being said I think it's nice the friend hit you up but yeah go with the insta | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Hot Girl Shit Tests: Barely RespondingYo any tips on doing this? Like things to pay attention to, etc. Additionally things you can do to help determine what sorta girl you're dealing with? | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I win my ex girlfriend back?Let it go. Get a new girl | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | How do you not lose your shit when talking to a 10?Unless you also think you're a 10 | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]In the long run, probably not. You're 17 my dude. Just put the work in, take your shots and it should work out | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | ask a girl on a date ? your toughts on her answerTwo things 1) whatever you do, do not set any sights on this girl. Odds are you are going to get ghosted for no reason so be ready for that. In fact I'd recommend hitting on some other girls 2) If she does respond, then I'd take the date | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?Not necessarily that common experience. I mean more like the stuff going on around you. Like the environment around you, what you're doing, etc. If you're talking face to face with someone, there's always some commonality just from the fact that you're next to each other. I get where you're coming from bc I also don't do half of those things, but I can still at least hold something of a conversation just off of those things. And if you need do, don't be afraid to probe a little once you're a lit… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 12 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?How to not be a virgin Step 1) don't worry about being a virgin Boom. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?Hmm... Well I'd probably talk about common experience, if that's possible. I also think it's useful in conversation to go in with some confidence and a fun attitude. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:26 PM |
| 26 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?You don't have to eat cake alone. You can go to a restaurant or something. No, it won't be awkward. And don't worry about not having a foundation built or whatever. A lot of people don't have that going out of college. Now is your time to build it. That last part may sound scary, but it is 100% worth it. It's all about putting yourself out there. I'm working on that myself. I see it as taking a leap of faith. I believe in you, fellow redditor. Go make some moves. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?First things first, get yourself out of this utterly self-deprecative state. It's generally undesirable in the dating market, so you probably won't get far with it. I'd recommend getting a job, making friends, or just enjoying life because right now it doesn't sound like you are. Just remember there is always hope till you drop dead. It's just a matter of delivering on it. The ball is purely in your court -- if you want to get a girl, you need to put in the work. Then, get out of your home. Go t… | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Hooked up w girl at her place, and she dissapeared and I’m still here, what do I do XDDon't forget to cancel your other ride at 9 if you're home. It'd be pretty awkward to have them pick up nobody | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Instagram Girl Nice but always "busy" for meeting upIt's a very subtle thing. The first sentence gets the message across, but it makes it sound like she's a part of the reason why you're going to the bar. The second sentence makes it clear that you are going to the bar irregardless of her answer, because you enjoy going to the bar. Theoretically it's a more successful way of asking girls out to places since it makes you look more like a leader, although I don't have personal evidence to validate this | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | when to know if you’re exclusive with someoneDon't think it's that big a deal for you to pop the exclusivity question... Although I would definitely meet in person before you do that | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 03:28 PM |
| 85 | disbelief someone is interested in meBro, don't worry, everything's gonna be all right. Just go get her man | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 03:22 AM |
| -3 | Masculine v. Effeminate menNice | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | It sucks to be a guy with a girl in my dmsThere's a lot going on and I'm not figuring it out | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps staring at me in library, should I make a move?Yes, go for it | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 07:03 AM |
| 6 | Finally gonna make my move!Third time's the charm. Seriously though, next time you see her, talk to her. It's looking p good my dude | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Is dating my best friends sister a bad idea?It may be a good idea to let your friend know if you haven't and he seems to be good about it | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How to isolate a two set with you on one girl and your wing on the other?Hmm cool, alright tysm! | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate a two set with you on one girl and your wing on the other?Cool, are there any recommended techniques to get it? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate a two set with you on one girl and your wing on the other?Yo what exactly is isolation? P new to this | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 12:49 AM |
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