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Also, that % of people within one's criteria has to find them attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:37 AM
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losing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:59 PM
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They aren't culturally left at all. They are media arms of heavy industry, defense and energy sector conglomerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:28 PM
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Get good, settle, check out, or live in delusion. Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:52 PM
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They are corporatist Neo-Liberal leaning. Which is center-right authoritarian. There hasn't been an effective leftist movement or political locus in the United States since the organized labor movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:28 PM
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No, dark triad is narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. OP is saying use or fae charm, charisma, and mysteriousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:25 PM
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"it" factor = charisma, which should be added to looks/money/status list.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:22 PM
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This woman has a lot to say about the "manosphere" and its indictments about what people think about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:00 PM
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MGTOWs. Angry divorcees pissed they have to pay child support for their own kids while their ex-wife is spending it on the new boyfriend's truck-lifts, a vacation with him to Cabo, and new handbags instead of food for the kids or their college fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:56 AM
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Not you specifically, I think he meant a generalized "you".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:48 AM
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No, your morality is tied to your value system, which everyone else doesn't subscribe to. You're free to judge others based upon it, but don't get too butt-hurt when you're judged by it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:12 PM
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As I said, "not caring too much", as in: a little, not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:24 AM
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Part of confidence is not caring too much about the opinions of those around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:20 AM
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The women here aren't interested in helping you achieve your sexual goals. They're interested in reinforcing their world and social views. Should be taught to every young straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:34 PM
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"Wow, sounds like a lot to deal with. To be honest, I don't think any of this is my business, and you should probably talk to your __________ about these issues." Wait for her for a few moments (about a minute or two) to process what you said and commit to her response. No matter what she says, immediately say the following "Oh my gosh, I'm running late for an appointment I spaced out on. Sorry, but I really gotta leave now!" Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:20 PM
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I got standards bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:04 PM
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Prostheletizing proselytizing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:01 PM
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Splitting and stacking firewood is pretty good test of character, resilience, and endurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:00 PM
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but only the most shallow are fixated on that alone. The thing is, based on their behavior versus their claims to the contrary, people are shallow when it comes to initial attraction. Very few people statistically are actually as virtuous as they claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:03 AM
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Doesn’t this sentiment show that society should probably do something about this? No. Let the market be free. Filter out women just as harshly as they do men. Like what you like. You can't force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:03 PM
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I'm trying to understand where you're at in life to further understand your claims on who's worth what at what age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:38 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:23 PM
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It's shockingly white.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:32 AM
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Good for you , for having good standards. Downvotes anyway Never change, reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:10 AM
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What exactly are the standards that they speak of ? Guess I'll have to repeat this until the heat death of the universe: Relatively easy-going Reasonable life-goals A sense of humor Doesn't treat people expendably Fiscally literate Responsible with money Athletic Hygienic Self-aware Possesses a curious mind An actual attraction to me Exhibits all or most of these attributes consistently throughout her life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:51 AM
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The women on this sub would say grass is plaid if a man said grass is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:48 AM
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Try to match with non-Americans then. Or, go after charismatic, good-looking, wealthy, not- creepy, funny, loving and responsible Americans. Even globally, there's not a lot of this type of man, even though you may believe you've earned the right to be with one. Remember, Mr. Right still has to desire you too. Get really good, settle, check out, or live in delusion. Those are the choices. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:40 AM
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I am confused if the guys here just want women to date whoever pops up first? Without regard to looks or social status? TLDR: Date who you want with whatever filters you want, but the statistical realities of finding someone who fits all of your criteria may force you to adjust your valued criteria. Long-winded answer: igotstandardsbro.com is good illustration of said rough statistical realities of women's varying requirements for a suitable mate/partner/boyfriend/husband. The value judgements a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:02 PM
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Sorry, I really meant the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:00 PM
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1 out of 5 ain't bad actually, given the conditions of the world currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:56 PM
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Once more, with feeling: Relatively easy-going Reasonable life-goals A sense of humor Doesn't treat people expendably Fiscally literate and responsible with money Athletic Hygenic Self-aware Possesses a curious mind An actual attraction to me Exhibits all or most of these attributes consistently throughout her life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:06 AM
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My advice to men has always been to stop caring about what women want. Women don't even know what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:41 AM
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Mediocrity hates excellence even more than it hates the underperforming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:35 AM
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Intelligence ideally should be measured by an ability to learn, adapt, and improvise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:54 AM
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You should use some of your money and be a patron for some artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:41 AM
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As of 2020, I think, but I can't imagine the resultant numbers would much different with a 2022 dataset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:24 AM
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I got standards bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:59 PM
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(Most) Women have issues when confronted by their less than perfect behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:15 AM
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Do you mean sexually involved with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:55 AM
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Hate who?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:54 AM
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While I agree with you, and I'm sure pretty much every man who's experienced dating since time immemorial, don't think for one second that average women will acknowledge, empathize, or admit to anything like this or anything that paints them as something less than completely virtuous. Accepting the accountability and reason demanded by merit and competence countermands their preferred infantile narrative of simultaneous empowerment over men and subjugation by men. It's a rare woman (and man, for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:31 AM
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LMFAO My "Source?" reply was a copypasta and you bit down a bit too hard on the bait. Perhaps you're trolling to my troll? Also, in my experience, mentally unstable women are definitely more freaky in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:37 PM
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Source? Do you have a source on that? Source? A source. I need a source. Sorry, I mean I need a source that explicitly states your argument. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make inferences and observations from the sources you've gathered. Any additional comments from you MUST be a subset of the information from the sources you've gathered. You can't make normative statements from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in that field? A college degree? In that field? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:53 PM
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Surely reading stuff that makes you feel "above average" in their parlance should cheer them up? I'm not sure I understand this question. Should cheer women up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:09 PM
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Whether we're actually deserving of women's unbridled scorn and contempt in the bedroom, or in general, is something for philosophers, anthropologists, sociologists, and historians. I agree that foreplay is essential to satisfaction in the bedroom, and it's tragic that young men seemingly aren't taught this, or seem to either ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:57 AM
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Because a lot of women on here say men are terrible. At everything and just being. Including, and especially, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:31 AM
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...when i was dating, every woman had at least 10, no smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:12 AM
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I'm talking about romantic relationships, not friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:02 PM
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Even if what you said is true (I'm highly skeptical) single Dads are still more compatible with single moms than guys with no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:58 PM
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The most compatible people for single parents are other single parents. Fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:28 PM
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Imagine being into a reddit sub where your father, grandfather, brother(s), and son(s) are considered "scrotes".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:21 PM
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Can you even serve in combat as an E-1? Isn't that a recruit in all branches?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:06 PM
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Until I'm blue in the face and the universe dies of heat-death: This is what men are generally looking for, regardless of her station, education, social status, and income, but I argue this list is pretty much gender-and-orientation-neutral: Relatively easy going Reasonable life-goals A sense of humor Doesn't treat people expendably Fiscally literate and responsible with money Athletic Hygenic Self-aware Possesses a curious mind An actual attraction to me Exhibits all or most of these attributes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:50 PM
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if all men want to bang all women All men don't want to bang all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:50 PM
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Who cares? This is a debate sub about dating and relationship dynamics between people. No one cares. But they want to talk about it because that's the point of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:16 PM
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Because the world is actually pretty fucking safe? Far from it. Though you may be privileged to be more sheltered than most, this is a naïve opinion, and a risky assumption to make. However, contrary to OP's assertions about women, everyone's personal safety begins and ends with the individual in question, regardless of what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:06 PM
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Naive take. You're very sheltered. Violence and predation are closer than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:00 PM
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So women bare bear (transitive verb definition 3a) children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:57 PM
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At the very least, a sociopath, if you don't feel remorse for manipulating like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:28 AM
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She's BPD and histrionic.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/22 03:38 AM
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A plutocracy is a type of oligarchy. A plutocracy (from Ancient Greek πλοῦτος (ploûtos) 'wealth', and κράτος (krátos) 'power') or plutarchy is a society that is ruled or controlled by people of great wealth or income. Oligarchy (from Greek ὀλιγαρχία (oligarkhía) 'rule by few'; from ὀλίγος (olígos) 'few', and ἄρχω (arkho) 'to rule or to command') is a form of power structure in which power rests with a small number of people. These people may or may not be distinguished by one or several characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:29 AM
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I don't presume to know what the average guy here is like. I have met a lot of dudes in bands with struggling dating lives. Some women too, who struggled, but had success in playing music. My anecdotes serve as substantial evidence that keeping romantic life and social life at least little separate is a good idea for success in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:15 AM
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Getting men/women within your social circles or work circles is perilous. I am pushing 40 and I have many close friends through several social circles. However, I met my wife on tinder, when my band was touring a few years ago. I am a living example of having success while keeping dating and social groups separate, while not being a "social shut-in", as you call it. Once again, keeping your dating life and your social life at least somewhat apart is sound advice because of the likely negative bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:52 AM
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More of a plutocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:30 AM
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Pitbull: the "musician" or the dog breed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:28 AM
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You can use an emotion to your advantage You're a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:16 AM
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Social circle to have friends and have fun with them. Definitely not required to meet people to date in the contemporary era. In fact, dating within social circle is perilous for a lot of plausible negative outcomes that affect other people you care about. I liken it dating co-workers. Don't shit fuck where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:02 AM
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Huh. I met my wife on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:55 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:03 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:47 PM
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The state needs them to stave off violent revolution due to war-mongering plutocrats hoarding of wealth and resources and their constant dilution of the value of currency. This is not just the US, but the entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:59 AM
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Assuming you believe in social-contract theory and consent of the governed within moral and political philosophy, if the state violates its duty and fiduciary burden to the citizenry, taxes from an illegitimate government are indeed a theft of resources and a violation of an individual's sovereignty. Has the US government violated it's duties and forfeited its legitimacy? I argue yes, time and again, throughout history, but I also know they'll put me in a cage for the rest of my life if they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:53 AM
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Antagonism between the sexes is an evolutionary trait, an adapted survival mechanism to defend oneself from the Jungian "other", in this case the "other" isn't a member of a different familial group/tribe/clan, it's a man or a woman, respectively. Internally within an individual, it's a denial or struggle against one's own anima or animus. There will never be a "reconciliation" between the sexes. At best, there can be only a tepid détente between the more rational and responsible when confronted…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:36 AM
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Here are attractive gender-neutral traits of a quality person: Relatively easy going Reasonable life-goals Has a deep sense of humor Doesn't treat people expendably Fiscally literate and responsible with money Athletic Hygienic Self-aware Exhibits all or most of these attributes consistently throughout life Here are some general pro-tips for dating to find said quality person: Don't smell Don't be "rapey" (desperate/creepy/needy/etc.) Hit the gym Have some cash (enough to cover your own ass) Ya …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:42 PM
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Point is that everyone's hyper-solipsistic survival imperative impedes their sense of contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:55 PM
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Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:51 PM
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Educated (predominantly) white women primarily in NATO countries, aged 28-55.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:31 PM
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Perhaps the young don't exist in this trope, but I'd be a rich man if I had a dollar for the number of elder millenial, Gen X, and Boomer women who resent their husbands, their children, and pine for the ripped dude they used to bang on the side before "wanting to settle down".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:37 PM
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According to them, no one is worth it anymore. Men are bad at relationships, sex, and life. Except for the ones they like. I'm not saying it makes sense, I'm saying this is what is being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:34 PM
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The "wall" is the age where you completely "let yourself go". Results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:43 PM
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A you a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:18 AM
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I recommend this book a lot on this sub. Testosterone by Carole Hooven. Men have anywhere between 13x to 50x testosterone to that of a woman. A women in the highest 99th percentile of test in her body is still orders of magnitude lower than the amount of test found in 1st percentile of men with the lowest testosterone. There exists no biological state where women can empathize with men in terms of our sexual drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:46 AM
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no one cares they win or not And yet, "where are all the good men?" is what some ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:30 AM
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That's for them to decide, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:30 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:37 PM
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No. Let the market be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:34 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:09 PM
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And finally, someone needs to tell women that competing for the top 10% isn't realistic. If they aren't with a tall, handsome, athletic, wealthy white guy there's a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:34 PM
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Why not have a relationship where you don't have to live together?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:23 PM
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Don't settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:46 PM
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Dear Jesus, Me me me me me me me me me me! Gimme gimme gimme gimme gimme! Love always, Everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:45 PM
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I guess now that means, to you, all men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:32 AM
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Dominant butch lesbians are hands-down the most bluntly red-pilled people about women and their dating habits I've ever seen, and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:48 AM
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Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:30 AM
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Have you ever been in a fight or combat?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:29 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:01 AM
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love it if men could for a second try to see beyond their dating issues and stop minimizing the shit we say all the time. I wish women could for a second see that: *That men women purport to care about don't deserve to be crucified for the sins of our fathers. *And that women aren't the sublime creatures, descended from on high, that they make themselves out to be. *That women aren't simultaneously all-empowered and completely oppressed. *That hypocrisy and hubris knows no gender, and other peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:44 AM
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This right here is a version of codependency: Because I pick someone that needs me too. Because I want to be needed. Wanted is not enough. I seriously hope you're not in a relationship currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:19 AM
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Potential, certainly. But not guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:29 AM
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and with an ego of a mountain of an ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:17 AM
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I think he's asking how do you do well regarding sex, dating, and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:13 AM
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Would I trade it for being a real man with real responsibility and real love hell no. I don’t think I’m the only one who believes this. Though this value system works for you, plenty of others consider it banal, deluded, and a condition to use to virtue-signal and condescend to those who think marriage to be a fool's errand. (I am married too, for what it's worth.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:32 AM
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No one is truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:16 AM
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Oh, right. The Hitachi wand. yeah, she ain't hygenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:06 AM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:54 PM
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Ironically, when I did give up on dating at the peak of my misogyny in 2014ish, women's attention towards me increased by an order of magnitude. After a few years of aloof indifference towards them, is when I met my gem of a future wife. Hence, my personal take for young hetero men is to not date, at least feign indifference towards them and try to live life beyond the banalities of your social programming and traditional pair-bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:15 PM
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Most women never admit how mercurial they are. And when they actually do, they consider it to be a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:01 PM
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Let's get something clear. Career/social status? Not at all. Reasonable life goals combined with financial literacy and fiscal prudence/responsibility? Abso-fucking-lutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:31 AM
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Again, until I'm blue in the face: (Most) women can’t own their own bias here because it would require they admit to possessing an inherent trait that is less than virtuous, which they will never ever do. The more women convince themselves that they are perpetual victims at the hands of all men, the easier it is to not only dehumanize men, but to feel justified in dismissing any and every issue an individual man may face. Once women have sufficiently convinced themselves that all men are inheren…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:41 PM
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You didn't learn shit from me. Yes. I called a few guys on here making the same claim as sexist too. Because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:20 PM
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Unless I'm misunderstanding the cliché, extending its inclusion to all men from some men is prejudiced and sexist. To be clear, it's legal to be sexist and prejudiced in a free and open society, but it's also legal for me to call you an asshole for being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:12 PM
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You're sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:55 PM
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When he said "fiefdom" he reminded me of Negan from The Walking Dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:52 PM
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"All women are sluts." "AWALT" Yes. It's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:50 PM
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I have been. They're sexist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:48 PM
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*most women who are worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:48 PM
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sex is a “need.” True, but the need has to be fulfilled with someone we actually want to fuck. The "need" comes from men's much larger testosterone and progesterone levels. Even taking that into consideration, "any 'ole hole" isn't enough. Even in high school, where hormonal imbalances are off the charts. If you're implying we want to fuck any woman, no matter her qualities, you're wrong, condescending, solipsistic, and sexist for implying that. Every woman is not sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:47 PM
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sexist af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:17 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:57 AM
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*Smash with women who are worth it, not just any person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:49 AM
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Because it's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:47 AM
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If men are so 1-dimensional as you claim, and the Christian dating site was full of sex-obsessed men, of what use will going back to church serve (assuming you're looking for a partner there)? Wouldn't the men at church be just as sex-crazed as the Christian dating site?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:47 AM
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Rational men don't want to fuck any woman, even accounting for the fact that beauty is completely subjective and not limited to physique and visage. Your comment serves as a perfect example for men to not take most women's opinions on PPD seriously, and not value them much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:38 AM
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Image consultant? In this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:36 AM
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Kill him quick. He'll use you for your cows and give you nothing but "protection" which means killing you quietly when you least expect and taking your cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:27 AM
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How long do you make them wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:20 AM
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"Trust, but verify."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:14 AM
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Amen! Women are just people. Good advice to men could be, "temper your expectations about her qualities based on how you view people, generally speaking."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:13 AM
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B-b-but... men bad! Wahmen bad! We're here to hate virtue signal, not to be pragmatic!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:18 AM
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What? Why? Oh yeah. "Men bad. Men have no emotions. Men violent. Men simple. Men dumb. etc." Right, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:22 AM
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If your pussy tastes like Pepsi, I suggest you see a gynecologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:19 AM
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Telling men not to respect women and making is unfashionable for men to "white knight" is just making women less likely to want to date you. True respect can only be earned. "Don't simp" means don't automatically put a woman you're attracted to on some pedestal to be worshipped. Evaluate her qualities as dispassionately as possible. The phrase is used to prevent Madonna-Whore Complex from taking hold, which is a benefit to all parties. ​ Should we really follow advice from men in a community wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:15 AM
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Unless you're also implying that more women wind up in front of the business end of a gun (which is false), what you said doesn't mean anything. Are you implying we should disarm men en masse? Well, ironically, to do that you'll probably need a lot more men behind the business end of a gun to prosecute such a mandate. Some of those who help you might even feel disenfranchised and not have luck with women, as you put it. Are you implying more women should have firearms to disarm violent/psychotic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:49 AM
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Jung would probably say that a cause for hatred of, aversion to, or prejudice against women is due to an unwillingness of the misogynistic man to admit the existence of or confront his fear of his own anima, the dark feminine inner personality, as present in the unconscious of the male.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:46 PM
6

Women and men aren't fundamentally evil. Women and men aren't angels either. Women and men are just people. More than half of people are solipsistic, hypocritical, lyng, self-aggrandizing, arrogant, deluded, sociopaths who add nothing to efforts to elevate the species towards a better future. Women are a part of that group. Therefore, more than half of women are assholes (yes, along with men). Thus, men should be careful and vet women as harshly as they are vetted. After all, people are just try…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:37 PM
2

(Most) women can’t own their own bias here because it would require they admit to possessing an inherent trait that is less than virtuous, which they will never ever do. The more women convince themselves that they are perpetual victims at the hands of all men, the easier it is to not only dehumanize men, but to feel justified in dismissing any and every issue an individual man may face. Once women have sufficiently convinced themselves that all men are inherently guilty of some imagined cruelty…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:07 AM
1

Franz Kafka has written some gems! Also, Lacan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:02 AM
3

Every functionally normal adult is responsible for their safety. To imply that only men are capable of unjust aggression, manipulation, and predation infantilizes women, is sexist, and attempts to absolve them of accountability. If such a claim is accepted by a society, that society leaves itself vulnerable to women's predatory behavior and recidivism. He should be more careful around men people. They are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:18 AM
5

Some are, most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:39 AM
6

I guess Bukowski was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:55 AM
5

"In the flight of life, two engines are better than one, but one engine is better than two that are mis-timed and malfunctioning." Some Guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:26 AM
1

Whoah... the surrogate child was from Elon Musk? Good God...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:56 AM
1

she has that stupid alimony from Musk They were married? I thought they only dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:52 AM
2

Source? Do you have a source on that? Source? A source. I need a source. Sorry, I mean I need a source that explicitly states your argument. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make inferences and observations from the sources you've gathered. Any additional comments from you MUST be a subset of the information from the sources you've gathered. You can't make normative statements from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in that field? A college degree? In that field? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:48 AM
3

No, not quite; it's about the proliferation of dystopian societal conditions that create unhinged desperate people with easy access to firearms. Curtailing access to guns has diminishing returns when society is inherently sick and not conducive to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:14 PM
5

unless all men harbor a secret desire to whip and choke women. Actually, that’s probably it. Ah, yes. Here we are again with the tried and true, "All men bad everywhere, all the time, mmmkay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:41 AM
17

Most women are disgustingly passive and lazy. Too many have inflated perceptions about their performance in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:25 PM
3

Until management tells you to fuck off, starts their own firm, leaves with industry knowledge, and eats your lunch. All because of this "cat-birding".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:09 AM
1

Once more, with feeling: This is what (reasonable, well-adjusted) people are looking for in a partner: reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life relatively easy going possesses a curious mind financially literate & independent athletic & hygenic doesn't treat people expendably a sense of humor an actual attraction to their partner self-aware consistently exhibits all or most of these traits throughout their life This is what the "Pill" ideologies say: - Blue Pill: "Women aren't ______. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:37 PM
1

No. But when I wear that costume occasionally, I parrot Lacan and Camut rather than Foucalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:43 AM
1

u/AloneOnTheStrange explained it very well. Your perception of an "average" man may be an "above average" man in actuality. When a woman refers to average men, she meens average men she knows. She knows men that are in her social circle. That means men that are boyfriends of her friends, or men that are attractive enough for her to want to be around. In other words, she means average men among attractive men have no dating woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:38 PM
1

Being a "Marxist" is a "silly social construct".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:08 PM
2

🎶 We don't need no thot control... 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:21 AM
2

"ChEcK YoUr InTeRnALiZeD mYsOgYnY, hUn 💅"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:07 AM
1

Do you have a partner currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:19 AM
2

Long-term value investing however tends to rise above these games. I agree. TLDR: I hate this country's people and their love-affair with the idea that extreme wealth automatically equates to virtue and a right to make up the rules with impunity. The "games" are illegal and are used to destroy companies that don't fall into market makers' agenda. More importantly, reveal the farce of the "free market". The only way out of the massive cluster-fuck headed our way (again) because of these "poker pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:46 AM
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I wondered about your background given the assumptions your making with these so-called "unsocialized men in STEM" and their relation to men on this subreddit. Do you have a partner or are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:10 AM
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Now post what you just typed in r/TwoXChromosomes. Grabs popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:16 AM
2

Where you promoted from a technical position? Do you have any prior experience in a purely technical position?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:06 AM
2

I too wish I had carte blanche ability to naked short my way to billions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:02 AM
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Don't dox yourself, fellas. ​ renders them incapable of understanding women in real life There's a myth that women's motives, desires, prejudices, and values are fickle and inscrutable. A man, employed in any field, who possesses a curious mind and genuinely wants to "understand" women need only watch and listen to them when they talk about other women when they think no one else is listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:57 AM
1

The 5 (Basic) Pillars of Attraction Don't smell Don't be "rapey" Hit the gym Have some money (at least to cover your own ass) Ya gotta bring the funny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:00 AM
2

Whatever you do, don't settle. No relationship is far better than a shitty one. Please excuse the unsolicited advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:19 AM
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She's very solipsistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:31 PM
2

Lol I do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:33 PM
4

Nah. Where I come from, women approach men, if you're approachable. You must come from a repressed, closed-off culture. I've lived what you claim is fantasy. And I'm not alone. You'd be surprised where amiability, hygiene, and a kept physique can get you without trying too hard. But, believe what you want, ace. Obviously, "aLL tHeSe MeN aRe LiArS". The real fantasy, though, is your infallible authority on the scope of human behavior and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:44 AM
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What was always revealing to me was F to M trans people's comments on how their sex drive was dramatically increased after increasing their testosterone and progesterone during transition. I think a lot of people don't understand just how weak women's libidos are versus just how strong men's are (on average, excluding outliers) due to the fundamental differences in our evolutionary endocrinology and our conscious experience of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:50 AM
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Are you a naturally funny person? Humor, I argue, is a massive aphrodisiac, assuming hygiene and physique are sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:31 AM
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Your myopic interpretation of your experience doesn't reflect the reality of many men worldwide. Like, u/Niaxee, when I go out with my friends (35-43ish, 38 myself) to catch up over a few drinks, we are approached by women in their late 20s and early 30s a lot. Ironically, their interest escalates especially when they find out we're already married. Not all of them, but enough to notice the trend. Women's behavior in reality countermands the narrative of their unbridled antipathy for middle-aged…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:22 AM
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The conditions for pair-bonding aren't favorable for success due to the dystopian environment endemic to our contemporary era. It fuels distrust, cynicism, nihilism, and scapegoating. If you want better conditions for successful outcomes between men and women, unite and dismantle the bureaucracies, ideologies, and orthodoxies of techno-feudalism that the oligarchs sponsor and foist upon civilization. The gender war is a proxy for the only war that's ever mattered: the class war. \The opinions ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:03 AM
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Along with every woman. Sorry to be pedantic, but evolutionarily, we are all the descendants of the most successful predators, in a manner of speaking. What I think you mean specifically, is that men statistically are the largest physical and psychological threat to women. In turn, women's instinctual response is to treat everyone as guilty until proven otherwise. This exacerbates the entrenched problem of people's cynical nihilism in this era, and logically makes pair-bonding very difficult. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:26 PM
1

Contraception and condoms are a thing. Vasectomies too. Plus, sex is fun (if you're good at it); wanting to share that intimacy often with your partner is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:57 PM
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I'm a heterosexual man and your claims infantilize us, and are overly reductionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:49 PM
4

And ectopic pregnancies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:45 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:16 AM
1

Did you settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:47 AM
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I wonder about the vigor of your hardline stance in cases of ectopic pregnancies or rape, especially if it was a loved one or spouse. Or perhaps you really are incapable of compassion, and the inherent cruelty is and was the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:23 AM
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Because it's better for the species for there to be dominant males who take the majority of the resources. The competition weeds out the weak. Very Malthusian. If your (hypothetical) son was "weak", should he be "dominated" by "stronger" males who take the majority of the resources in order to be "weeded out"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:46 AM
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Men are simple No, we're not. ​ If you want to know we do something the answer is always “for women” No, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:43 AM
1

I already am in a relationship and don’t have casual sex. So, once a year on the anniversary or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:29 AM
5

Are you married? Do you have a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:26 AM
6

Puritanical virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:16 AM
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B-b-but men bad! Wahmen bad! I just wanna hate virtue signal!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:41 AM
4

Then I'm glad I never got into that style of slang. Makes you sound dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:39 PM
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She’s pretty meh. 100000%. Never understood the appeal. Pleasant personality though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:26 PM
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You very rarely see good looking men dating ugly women. In my day to day? All the fucking time. Not that "homely" women don't bring anything of value to their more attractive boyfriend or husband. I just want to say physically attractive men "date down" all the time, at least here in the midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:22 PM
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What does that tell you? Their sense of taste on aesthetic beauty is different than the public's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:16 PM
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What do you mean when you type, "Like?" after every point you make? It makes it very difficult to understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:13 PM
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I agree, and I'm happy someone said it. She's not an ogre, but I fail to see what's to write home about her. Way more aesthetically pleasing women within city blocks of me, let alone Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:09 PM
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38.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:39 PM
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Fuckload of jukeboxes in bars everywhere. Old ones with vinyl. Newer digital ones. Everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:51 PM
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so they can get people on their own message board to make money There's big $ in promoting and disseminating hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:15 AM
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Out of touch billionaires already have monopolized social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:09 AM
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Screen hard but with magnanimity. Or be prepared for blowback from the unhinged (e.g. social media meltdowns, doxxing you, melodramatic outbursts, wall of text messages, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:47 AM
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No one wants to sweat to the oldies anymore and it's going to put them in a double-wide grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:27 AM
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It does help with that, and other airborne disease vectors. Diet and exercise also help. Both are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:26 AM
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And we're talking about people, not dogs or armadillos. A point of order: genetically, we share more with dogs and armadillos than in what we differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:24 AM
3

Are you clinically "obese"? Is your partner? His friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:20 AM
2

I know. Hard to see but the "i" is crossed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:31 AM
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u/HairRevolutionary128, I'd argue this a pretty comprehensive list of what men of reason and means tend to look for (in no order of importance, save the last which is arguably the most important): reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life relatively easy going possesses a curious mind financially literate & independent athletic & hygenic doesn't treat people expendably a sense of humor an actual attraction to her partner self-aware consistently exhibits all or most of these traits throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:55 AM
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I didn't downvote you, but I disagree. I think the compatibility percentage is higher, closer to 50%, but lasting attraction and commitment are at about 10%. Perhaps less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:56 AM
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I believe I am one of the lucky ones as well. But I also do believe the situation about genuine attraction and commitment in contemporary society is indeed this dire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:54 AM
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It's more like 10% of men are with women they genuinely care about, and who genuinely care about them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:00 AM
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I would say about 15% (~585 million women globally) are most definitely abusive assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:32 PM
4

Magnieto-was-right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:05 PM
2

Close 2nd may be F to M to F ex-trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:53 AM
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Ah yes, the confederate 8-head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:08 AM
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JFC You are sexist, to both men and women. "The % of women who abuse is too small to matter because men are socialized to be aggressive and they do most of the abusing so it's 'incel propaganda'." Gotcha. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:57 PM
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Do people deny that some women are like this? Yes, and the number who do is too damn high. I had eye opening experiences on the depth of people's aversion to accept a woman's culpability in my situation. There's an implicit bias to not believe men when they're abused. Especially if the man is physically fit or "successful". I think you are conflating people saying "since men are socialized to be aggressive and women are socialized to be passive, more men are violent than women" I don't know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:40 PM
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Yes. Denying or ignoring women's potential and/or penchant for predatory behavior infantilizes them and seeks to absolve them of accountability. Women are human beings. Which means sometimes they aren't angels descended from on high, but can be capricious, abusive, spiteful, and gaslighting predators to men, women, and children. I'm speaking as a survivor of abuse from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:31 PM
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Millennials are slowly working their way into their 30s. Laughs and cries in elder millenial pushing 40
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:59 AM
1

it is men’s responsibility Is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:56 AM
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just quit giving a shit A simple solution, yet incredibly difficult to implement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:55 AM
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u/Hoosker-Doos (OP) is completely wrong about "abundance" for both hetero men and women. I can't comment on homosexuals' prevalence of options because I'm not one and haven't any experience. There's a scarcity of people who: don't treat others expendably don't smell aren't desperate have a patient, easy-going disposition have a well-developed sense of humor have an athletic physique have financial literacy and stability have mental fortitude have an inquisitive mind have a sense of urgency to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:21 PM
1

Yes, but for one's self. Not for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:41 AM
8

"Why aren't you sacrificing yourself and providing for someone like I am? Make the same decisions as me so I can validate my life."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:32 PM
4

I'll say it until I'm blue in the face: Blue Pill: "Women aren't ______. Be your best, and let her decide if she wants you." Red Pill: "Women aren't what they say they are. Be your best, but don't be afraid to cut your losses quickly." MGTOW: "Be your best, but if all you want is women, you'll lose." Also, let's face it: it seems math and science aren't strong areas of competency among the denizens of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:51 PM
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In the contemporary era, a lot of women are developmentally-stunted, manipulative, sociopathic liars who demand reason and accountability from men and their fellow women, but only offer hypocrisy, incompetence, avarice, contempt, and apathy. A small percentage have the integrity to be who they say they are, earn the respect they demand, and execute in living a life beyond the banalities of their genetic and social programming. I'm fortunate enough to have married one like this and know other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:35 AM
1

Yep. Definitely does not love cupcakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:23 AM
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The number of invertebrate protoplasmic mouth-breathing shit-heels in this sub who don't know how to interpret the Pareto Distribution and its implications is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:58 AM
1

K+
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:58 PM
1

Not your bro, brah. And, no, you don't need an editor. Just some light punctuation for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:54 PM
1

Judging by your last two statements before this one, it's more like "I'm not into punctuation at all." Which we've gathered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:48 PM
2

A period or comma, now and then, is too much for you. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:47 PM
1

Use some punctuation so people can interpret what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:15 PM
2

Not a fucking chance. They had an arranged marriage. They're divorced now and despise each other. They should have never gotten together. My brother and I should not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:31 AM
1

We must earn our survival, and be allowed to free ourselves from the burdens and cycle of life should we choose. To believe that we deserve to be in the chain of life de facto and that human life is any more valuable than other forma is vain hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:05 PM
2

Humanity's irresistible sin, and the source of its hubris: the solipsistic vanity in the belief of their significance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:24 PM
0

This place has been a rolling dumpster fire ever since I got here. Fuck em. Despite your abrasive cynicism, I agree with your position. But I love my nephews and nieces, and they don't deserve my indifference. Their trust in me negates the allure of nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:20 PM
2

In person I've not seen so much. Because in person, women would be held accountable for their words and their manner in expressing them (in theory).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:14 PM
1

Just that the "just leave" advice seems to be heavily targeted at women. Who's doing that "targeting" predominantly, in your estimation? I think it's women telling other women that. If it matters, I personally would try not to give unsolicited advice about whether someone should stay in a relationship. However, I actually think being alone is infinitely better than being in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:11 PM
1

What the fuck part of his response is "over the top"?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/22 09:33 AM
1

I will say unitil I'm blue in the face. Get good, settle, check out (MGTOW/WGTOW), or live in delusion. Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:32 PM
1

Once you understand this about women, you won't be disappointed by overly high expectations. The perils of our futures being unilaterally determined by avaricious and malevolent oligarchical plutocracy are more pressing to me once I look beyond the triviality of toxic gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:04 PM
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No, it isn't. It's a statement about power dynamics between groups of people. Because I am pointing out an obvious subjugation and oppression of a large swathe of global society by a tiny exploitative and avaricious group of people does not mean I advocate for a communistic economic system of trade and value generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:39 PM
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Oligarchs are not the ones cockblocking me. They are helping to cockblock everyone by creating dystopian societal conditions that aren't conducive to successful relationships. Also the United States isn't an oligarchy. Yes, it is an oligarchy, in practice. But, "on paper", it's a federal republic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:31 PM
1

so sometimes I try to have fun with it. See? You can provide your own fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:03 PM
14

I am not a communist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:51 PM
1

JFC Look, you made the clown-shoes claims, not me. I'm responding to what you typed. First, I can't easily discern sarcasm or seriousness through text, due to the lack of body language and vocal inflection. Don't get butt-hurt because you come off as a clown by your own words, whether you're "serious" or not. Thank the gods that my wife isn't as insufferable as you and can pRoViDe FuN for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:04 PM
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Please. We will never love you, We know. but we will always love fun. As I implied earlier. I don't want a woman that wants me as their court jester. It's insulting, and this claim of yours infantilizes women. "dAnCe FoR mE" = "dance for me until I'm eventually bored with you, then on to the next" Most women are ruled by capricious whimsy and avarice, and will never grow up. Fortunately for them, there's no end of simps and thirsty suckers to fleece. By all means, entertain yourself with your gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:17 PM
1

No matter what you meant, it's a ridiculous premise either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:04 PM
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There's societal decline due to the immense stranglehold the oligarchs have over economic resources, information, and political power. The gender war is a proxy for the only war that's ever mattered: the class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:33 AM
4

I think it's more like women are sexualised so much that other women start doing it too. Yeah, totally. Women kissing each other is definitely men's fault. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:01 AM
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just provide us with fun. You'd be better at that than we could ever be. Also, that statement comes off a lot like, "Dance for me, slave."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:57 AM
3

Ukrainians and Russians (due to sanctions) are suffering because of the decisions of old, creepy dudes. I'm not cleaning up a mess after creepy men. These men started it, they should finish this. The way you said it sounded like you believe Russian and Ukrainian "creepy old men" are responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:19 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Zelensky is not a "cReEpY oLd DuDe" who started this war. There is a morally just side to this conflict, and Putin is the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:56 PM
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Oh, for fuck's sake. There's nothing "women should do". It would be helpful and compassionate for radical feminist women to sometimes publicly acknowledge a double-standard about who is generally forced to fight and die in armed conflict, and the inherently smaller value of a man's life. But they don't have to acknowledge anything in a free and open society, which ironically has largely been bought with the blood and sacrifice of men, militarily speaking. Furthermore, do you honestly think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:52 PM
0

I married someone from Northern Europe because the US healthcare system is a farcical tragedy and the easiest way to legally stay in the same country together is via marriage. We have a prenup. We would not be married if the circumstances where different. Practicality is vital amidst the hubris of contemporary "civilization". Other than my own scenario, however, I also don't see good reasons for men to be married. The perils vastly outweigh the rewards in this economy. Especially the United Stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:57 PM
3

They’re not stupid. One can tell if they are stupid based on the selection of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:11 AM
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Get good, settle, live in delusion or check out (MGTOW, not suicide). Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:20 AM
1

"More from lying liars and the lies they tell at six."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:03 PM
1

Whoever asks first, pays first. Then alternate or split it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:06 AM
1

The wall is roughly when people stop moisturizing, hydrating, and exercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:29 AM
3

It happens more than holier-than-thou women will ever admit. Men en masse need to realize their vision of a loving partner for life who'll have a genuine lasting sexual attraction to them is largely an illusion. Women are just as capricious as men, even though so many of them claim otherwise. Super glad I brought up this subject to my wife and had a real talk about how long she really thinks she'll love me before we got married. Pre-nups can at least mitigate the financial tumult when things fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:27 AM
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Wrong. From the article: Although most people in sexual partnerships end up facing the conundrum biologists call “habituation to a stimulus” over time, a growing body of research suggests that heterosexual women, in the aggregate, are likely to face this problem earlier in the relationship than men. And that disparity tends not to even out over time. In general, men can manage wanting what they already have, while women struggle with it. The last sentence in the article: So when we speak of desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:14 AM
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One would hope, but not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:07 AM
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Clearly you don't bother reading the article. Andrew Gotzis, a Manhattan psychiatrist with an extensive psychotherapy practice, has been treating a straight couple, whom we’ll call Jane and John, for several years. They have sex about three times a week, which might strike many as enviable, considering that John and Jane—who are in their 40s—have been together for nearly two decades. Based on numbers alone, one might wonder why they need couples counseling at all. But only one of them is happy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:58 AM
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I applaud your altruism, though you as a solitary example doesn't disprove my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:10 AM
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I would argue that we've always been a disposable commodity, and it's to our benefit to realize it as early in life as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:12 AM
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I have a very similar story except a bit opposite. We met when I was touring through Europe with my band. Stuck together long distance through the years and finally made it happen. I'm going over there due to far superior health care system. I have to be honest though. Dating and eventually marrying someone who's not an American was radical breath of fresh air at the time (early 30s). Even if my marriage tanks, I don't think I'll ever subject myself to the US dating scene ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:51 AM
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I'm one of those "several" (wife is in the Netherlands), and yet I'm still retaining US citizenship. Despite the ridicule and disbelief, there's a lot more than "several" of us. JFC, even this gets downvoted. Never change, reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:22 AM
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Judging by the replies, women's argument seems to be, "men are trash globally and we don't need them." I don't agree with that, but it's pretty clear "men bad everywhere" is the party line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:21 AM
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I'm doing this. But, do to business interests I don't want to divest from, I'm retaining US citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:09 AM
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What you will find (generally) in answer to this and similar questions is people saying heterosexual men are awful creatures and not worth the time. You will then find men balking at the thought and try to disprove how "terrible" they are. Then will be the response from women saying, "See, you're just proving our point." The cycle of accusatory and cynical point and counter-point will continue ad-nauseum. We're genetically and socially conditioned to achieve a "fairy-tale-ride-off-into-the-sunse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:29 AM
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When searching profiles, the first thing a guy must answer to the woman is: how is this guy going to entertain me? "Dance for me, slave."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:31 PM
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The number of people who misuse the word "literally" is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:35 PM
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I am married. I was firmly a MGTOW due to my parent's horrific divorce before I met her. I will go back to being a MGTOW if she turns out not to be the unicorn I thought she was/is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:25 PM
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I'm trying to convince people that the gender war is a (failing) proxy war for the class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:43 AM
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Once more, with feeling. Blue Pill: "Women are not _______. Be your best, and let her decide if she wants you." Red Pill: "Women are not what they say they are. Be your best, but don't be afraid to cut your losses." MGTOW: "Be your best, but if all you want is women, you will lose."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:41 PM
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I think there's a very specific dynamic that's emerged since about 2014-2015. People are finding out what other people are really like when they have (relative) anonymity on the internet, and that has bled into their normal gamut of perceptions, prejudices, and anxieties. People IRL, more and more, seem to be waiting for some portion of their would-be partner's darker persona on the internet to reveal some aspect of the damaged core of who they're actually talking to, and it's added an extra lay…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:45 PM
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For me? I don't know. I've never been with a virgin save my first time, and we were both bad IMO despite it being a positive shared experience. I'd imagine a few times (maybe 5 or 6?) with either the same or a few different partners to figure out their preferences, strengths, and weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:04 AM
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Experienced, reasonable men don't actually desire virgins as they are terrible in bed (through no fault of their own).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:23 AM
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Women are not as visual as men, you know. This woman thinks you're wrong. Is she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:16 AM
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Yeah. Sort of like All the things you'll want to warn your daughter about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:28 AM
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And only that? Surely, your mother saw more than that in your father?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:25 AM
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In the United States, the economic and social platforms and policies of republican president Dwight Eisenhower would be considered as "radical leftist agendas". I would argue the same for Richard Nixon. The contemporary American conservative establishment and theocratic right have more in common with the antebellum dixiecrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:06 PM
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He said he already did in therapy at 22-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:19 AM
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You're insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:56 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:50 AM
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I am married. To repeat myself: FDS women are radical feminists, who distrust male to female converts and consider women who convert to men as traitors to their gender. They also profess to want a very specific type of "high value" man. Hence, they are a varietal of a TERF. My opinion is based on their language and behavior on their subreddit and in real life. Edit: TERF means "Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist", u/Wonderdul-Farmer-763.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:06 AM
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I would rather warn my daughter to be wary of people. Women are capable of instinctive violence, a lack of self control, and base evil same as men. By denying, downplaying, or ignoring women's dangerous capabilities, it infantilizes them, absolves them of accountability, and makes my said daughter vulnerable to their predation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:03 PM
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I'm 38. I've encountered FDS types at both ends of the economic strata. To me, it's deeper than just dealing with a poor selection of partners. Poetically, the women of FDS personify the destructive feminine archetype of goddesses and characters of antiquity. Lilith. Hera. Kali, of my own Hindu tradition. They embody the anima of the rage-fueled woman who's wrath is so great that it will destroy the world. She will embrace her apocalyptic thirst for vengeance upon man, even at the cost of her ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 AM
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What is our nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:28 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:49 AM
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It means something to people who equate love with sharing all money, assets, and resources, and who also want the state to enforce it on pain of imprisonment and/or violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:54 AM
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To the state, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:43 AM
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in your opinion.which is not fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:50 AM
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if you plan well, and itemize medical instruction based on the laws of your state, it most certainly does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:49 AM
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it's about commitment money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:46 AM
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Lets bring masculinity back. A few questions, and no need to answer if you don't want to or don't have time: How do you define masculinity? If it's "gone", and needs to be "brought back", why did it go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:49 PM
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she will sleep with you regardless of how you look. The number of people that peddle this platitude tripe as insightful truth is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:46 PM
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You are categorically wrong about climate change. Empirically, the Earth's mean temperature has been increasing disastrously since the scientific community has been keeping track. There are 100 companies which produce 71% of global greenhouse gasses. Don't forget about the destruction of oceans and water systems. The mass die-offs in aquatic life and algae (which produces most of the oxygen on Earth) is not negligible thing for our species' survival. Hubris and hypocrisy aside from "activists", …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:55 PM
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I see. To echo the sentiments of other commenters to your post, and to try and answer your question, most people can be judged by the pattern of behavior they exhibit to others besides you. Did/does this guy go out of his way for other friends? Often? Is he conscientious with everyone or just you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:17 PM
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INFO: (About) how old are you both?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:52 AM
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Sorry, just "thinking typing out loud", so to speak. I don't want to change your opinion, we just disagree. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:57 AM
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Sorry, just commenting "out loud". Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:24 PM
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👌 Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:22 PM
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👌 Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:22 PM
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👌 Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:20 PM
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Ok...? Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:17 PM
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When I was younger, I would have agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:43 PM
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Risk-management is not solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:48 PM
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Your condescension notwithstanding, not everyone can afford therapy where I live in the United States. Therapists are people too and just as prone to manipulation, coercion, and corruption as others. These are not infallible living saints. People will absolutely find much more utility in processing intense negative emotions like grief, betrayal, rage, and despair without prying eyes and ears; the stark mirror of self-reflection does wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:53 AM
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Emotions that demonstrate strength, compassion, and empathy ...are "fear-based" behaviour? Perhaps expressing strength as bravado, but the other two? What is the hypothetical man is fearful of when emoting compassion or empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:49 PM
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but never letting them out is a disaster recipe imo. Letting intense negative emotions out in front of someone or people without being prepared for blowback is ill-advised and should be avoided. They will be used against you. Save it for solitude. It's safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:40 PM
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Opening up to anyone completely without preparation for blowback-back is a no-no, especially women with some sort of sexual involvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:33 PM
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On this, we agree. Even the smart and funny ones are boring. Not all, but too many. My wife hates it when I say it, but she agrees with me too. She finally admitted it after I asked why she doesn't do "girl's night out" anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:27 AM
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Apparently, expressing the expectation of accountability and physical prowess in one's partner elicits down-votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:00 PM
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Because of illness? Obviously not a deal breaker. But I won't have sex with them. They don't look appealing. Because of pregnancy? Obviously not a deal breaker. But I won't have sex with them. They don't look appealing. Because of laziness and a lack of discipline, and won't take steps to improve? Bye. I told her before we got married, if I can hit the gym consistently, you can too (barring extraordinary circumstance). Edit: I guess this is an unreasonable position to hold. Se la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:45 PM
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300,000 years of evolution Millions of years of hominid evolution and inherent sexual dimorphism of speciation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:36 AM
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Men have only ever protected women from other men. And other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:35 AM
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as they should be They shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:26 AM
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Combat reveals a lot about who people really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:21 AM
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Men have a moral obligation to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:55 AM
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If you’re going to apply stats to a human relationship you should at least include the other person in the conversation. That's what's implied when I said "adults discussing or considering" Discussion implies 2 people. If 1 person isn't capable of having a sober discussion, then a rational person will have (probably a very short) consideration of statistical probabilities of success or catastrophe about involvement with the other individual, at least at a subconscious level. The ape mind is evol…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:33 PM
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For initial non-casual (e.g., business related) interactions with individuals, a working knowledge of game-theory has more utility than applied statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:07 PM
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If we're discussing success in initial courtship, I'd agree nominally with you. If it's adults discussing or considering: legally binding unions finances regarding said union children healthcare management within the union retirement planning real-estate management any other areas that potentially affect other people besides the couple themselves ...then I completely disagree with the premise of ignoring a statistical and/or an analytical approach in determining whether beginning or continuing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:05 PM
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Ah, I see. u/bees-and-stuff, I apologize, I didn't realize your age, and I'm sorry I commented so antagonistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:53 PM
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u/bees-and-stuff, I don't have the time or interest to go through your post history to figure out where you're coming from, but have you ever taken an applied statistics course or have any relevant training in the field? This comes off as one of the most tone-deaf, unexperienced, uninformed, and laughable posts I've ever come across on this sub, and this place is usually a flaming shithole of gaslighting, bad-faith argumentation, and malformed statistical analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:08 PM
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"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:17 AM
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Yes, you certainly radiate empathy and sympathy and are a paragon of virtue given what you've said and how you've said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:37 PM
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I do think most men genuinely care about women and most women do genuinely care about men. Despite my firsthand observations and experience to the contrary, I applaud your optimism and sincerely hope you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:49 PM
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I feel all the sympathy for individual male innocent victims. They should be cared for equally to female victims. You don't have to pretend to care. It's pretty clear you really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:37 PM
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Not only is the empathy gap real, judging by the evidence OP has generously gathered into one place, the comments of this thread show that men are ridiculed, gaslit, and attacked for daring to point it out or even agree with its premise. Sometimes it's very difficult to not wish for the human species die in a caustic puddle of its own hubris, despite the love I have for some people in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:55 PM
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I refuse to believe you actually love cupcakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:38 PM
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Their cries of innocence and oppression are perversely grotesque in the face of the well-documented history of their demographic. It was primarily wealthy white men driving the vehicle of oppression during the colonial era, and even now, but it was wealthy white women who were whispering in their ear about where to go, and how fast to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:24 PM
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Clearly, you are; it does, sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:11 PM
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A few areas of interest, off the top of my head: Start by reforming divorce and child custody laws (at least, in the US), make women sign up for selective-service for the same scholarships, make women adhere to the same physical requirements for physically demanding professions. Basically reforming society to make women beholden to the same responsibilities and level of accountability as well as the same rights that are afforded to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:09 PM
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Loose Lose the ability to get easy sex Loose Lose the ability to get validation just by having a dating app Will loose lose their close friend network Will loose lose validation and will be attacked and shamed for speaking out about issues. I disagree. Some women will adapt. The majority will not. Most will succumb to a deep, unrelenting depression for the rest of their life. The rate of suicide will mirror that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:55 AM
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The people in this place defend obnoxious vanity as if their life depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:34 PM
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He always looks like he's trying to chew Doritos quietly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:12 AM
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Who's "we"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:00 PM
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Who's "we"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:53 PM
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Boy howdy, that'll solve problems. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:59 AM
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Everyone. What everyone says: "No one."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:34 PM
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Based and why-do-I-need-you-again-pilled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:57 PM
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I care because it takes two incomes to meet my financial goals in life in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:51 PM
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Once more, with feeling! In no order of importance, save the last point, which is the most important (to me): reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life relatively easy going possesses a curious mind financially independent athletic doesn't treat people expendably a sense of humor an actual attraction to her partner self-aware between the ages of 25-45 (for my personal age bracket) consistently and genuinely holds all of these attributes throughout her life (save the age one, obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:45 PM
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That was indeed a nice laugh, so thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:03 PM
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That's what prenups are for!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:58 AM
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How dare you suggest AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:54 AM
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I'm feminist and a gender abolitionist but I hate echo chambers. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:30 AM
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As I said, I found my unicorn and got extremely lucky. She's experienced her own trauma and remains poised and well-adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:33 AM
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Easy to please = Easy going and not too demanding. "Relatively" is the key adverb here. I also said possess a curious mind too. And as I said, I already found someone like that, and has all those other traits. I got lucky. Being financially independent, having a beautiful face and body, possess a curious mind, and able to be easy going simultaneously is possible, just rare. My wife is just that. I don't consider her a "dummy".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:27 AM
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So, who are these women that are swamped with LT offers from HVM? In no order of importance, save the last point, which is the most important (to me): reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life relatively easy to please possesses a curious mind financially independent athletic doesn't treat people expendably a sense of humor an actual attraction to her partner self-aware between the ages of 25-45 (for my personal age bracket) consistently and genuinely holds all of these attributes throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:18 AM
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As a (bad) joke. That's why it's in quotes. I do believe they ("mixed" babies) will be the majority demographic in a few thousand years, if humanity survives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:23 PM
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I was born in the United States. I'm married to a Dutch woman. I have residences in the US, the Netherlands, and in India. As I said, it's a far more complex issue than what my lizard-brain "gut" response wants to make it out to be. In general, but purely biologically speaking, I'm in favor of more "cross pollination" between different ethnicities to diversify the gene pool; on a large scale, it will cater to more mutations that have more potential optimal adaptations for survival. My future hyb…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:54 PM
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Construction workers get taxed to pay for the roads they build.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:54 AM
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I am not putting my head in the sand. I would like to think I'm preparing for catastrophe individually as best I can. Trying to get a global society of 7+ billion people "rowing in the same direction" is virtually impossible. Trying to get enough of them to form a critical mass of change necessary to avert said catastrophe is insurmountably difficult given the current rhetoric of those in power politically, economically, and militarily, and the enthusiasm of the generation that supports them. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:29 AM
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My thesis is to only prepare for the inevitable train wreck because it's not preventable. The authoritarianism required to prevent the train wreck will only exacerbate and create an even bigger train wreck. The problem(s) was/were made incurable far before I was born. It would require an unbelievable amount of conceit to think that my solutions wouldn't entail catastrophic amounts of resistance, no matter how sound, peer-reviewed, and well meaning they were. I never underestimate people's avaric…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:30 AM
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Being a brown person, and considering the history of my people's interactions with people of European descent and their exploitation, fetishization and commoditization of my people's culture and way of life, their comparatively lower birth rate in our era is a justified comeuppance. It's far more of a complex issue. But in the face of the nature of patronizing supremacism typically found in the behavior of those of European descent, my instinctual lizard brain reaction to "There's going to be le…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:15 AM
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What is the "white world" in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:58 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:47 AM
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And where do you think homeostasis is achieved for humanity? What does that look like when our species' sustainable energy production and waste management systems get better? Are more people "allowed" within the optimal boundaries of homeostasis? Who is "allowed" to make these decisions? How are they to be enforced? Seems easier to let people do what they want and let the natural world wipe us out or sustain us than any one person or group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:46 AM
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Yes. According to the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:17 AM
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She is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:58 AM
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The fact that OP is a woman "shouting out the quiet part"... chef's kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:53 AM
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They'd never admit it, but yes, they most certainly are if the guy is handsome and is skilled at seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:43 AM
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I think it's interesting that OP is a woman and uses terminology like "frame".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:40 AM
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Her contempt for men is only slightly outpaced by her utter contempt for most women. Finally, a pragmatist!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:39 AM
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You're generous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 06:56 PM
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Ah. I see, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:47 PM
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decision
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:25 PM
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What's an "ioi"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:20 PM
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Men do not deserve women. And yet, without solicitation, women keep asking for my and my friends' number, attention, and time when we go out. Sometimes even more aggressively when they know we're happily married! Hetero women's actions and behavior IRL countermand the narrative of their unbridled antipathy towards hetero men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:59 AM
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a lot of women are lonely very true ​ and will pretty much date anyone. doubt that highly. perhaps when they're younger but I'm compelled to be skeptical. I think people are a lot more picky than in previous eras. for good reasons too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:05 AM
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WGTOW & MGTOW are both perfectly valid lifestyles, so long as they get over the self-defeating "red-pill rage" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:11 AM
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You should ask: Prove average women people are rational Corollary: Exceptional people, by definition, imply rationality and competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:51 AM
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That's my point. It's not easy. You need better attributes than everyone else who is trying to get with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:23 AM
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Women shouldn't. Just find that handsome, successful guy who wants a long-term commitment! But keep in mind, gotta have attributes to land someone like that. Attributes better than everyone else vying for that prize of a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:43 PM
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You guys want to be Chad. Yes, male or female, most people at a surface level would love to be the ripped, supremely confident and competent, elite-tier "Chad" or "Stacy" version of themselves who's desired by everyone. Was that supposed to be a "gotcha"? 99.999% of men will never be that guy. Average women simp over and stay with wierdos and losers with jawlines and abs all the time. Same with average guys and dysfunctional and incompetent women with tits and ass. There're whole sub-reddits dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:03 PM
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Both of you are correct actually. The real debate is what percentage of "hawt guys" are "bad boys" and what percentage are "good dudes". That's what people here don't agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:59 PM
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I'm repeating myself, but it needs to be said: Poetically, the women of FDS personify the destructive feminine archetype of goddesses and meta-characters of antiquity. Lilith. Hera. Kali, of my own Hindu tradition. They embody the anima of the rage-fueled woman who's wrath is so great that it will destroy the world. She will embrace her apocalyptic thirst for vengeance upon man, even at the cost of her own children, particularly her own daughters. The collateral destruction of her offspring by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:47 PM
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In psychology, the dark triad comprises the personality traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. They are called dark because of their malevolent qualities. For those, who, like me, didn't know what the "dark triad" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:54 AM
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Seriously. Why even go for a woman with all that baggage in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:27 AM
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Liars always think they're good at it and no one can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:23 AM
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Indeed. Risk management is vital. But... Fear is the mind-killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:59 PM
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cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:51 PM
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No one can change their sexual orientation, without severe trauma. But given the premise of u/buyanavocadotree and many women who agree with her, it would be obvious to me to experiment in order to receive some sort of sexual pair-bonding while avoiding men, if we're to take the idea that men are manipulative psychotic sex-obsessed barbarians. If men are as terrible as people purport and are unwilling to change, and one can't change their orientation, surely the loneliness of celibacy is prefera…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:42 PM
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Not prevent completely, obviously. Just drastically reduce the frequency if men are the primary threat to your safety and contentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:26 PM
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"What I consider reality and what's best for me is the way the world works and should work because I can't possibly be mistaken or narrow-minded in the slightest." The average person is an asshole and a moron, and half of the rest are worse. Quality people are rare. And yes, I'm aware if the irony that "this is what I consider reality and the way the world works." Believe what you want. When it comes to relationships, sex, and children, I think people are generally awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:45 AM
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I would never enter a marriage without a prenup that had a "no alimony" clause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:32 AM
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"Garden-variety".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:31 AM
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They barely see us as human beings Ever consider lesbianism? Or celibacy? Edit: If men are really as bad as this person says, wouldn't these be the two obvious logical options for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:03 AM
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She doesn't have to fuck you anymore to keep you. Yes she does, if you have a spine. Edit: In the hypothetical, she doesn't have to fuck me, but I definitely don't have to stay if she doesn't. No one has time for r/DeadBedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:01 AM
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Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:51 PM
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BP: "Women aren't _______, they're people; be the best you can be and let her decide if you're worth it." RP: "Watch what and who women do, not what they say; be the best you can be, but don't be afraid to cut your losses." MGTOW: "If all you want out of life is a woman, you will lose."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:38 PM
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kind of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:41 PM
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The answer to everything is as always the immortal science of intersectionality. That makes more sense, grammatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:25 PM
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Aaaaand here comes the flood of gaslighting, deflection, and denial! Lol, right on cue. Called it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:23 PM
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There’s a study that established, humans admire people who had natural talent much more than those who worked hard to get what they got. Please link it, if you have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:07 PM
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I agree. I'm a guy and, hypothetically, would not try to date at all while in therapy, if not already in a relationship. It would dilute attention to both pursuits and would raise the potential of unsuccessful outcomes in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:00 PM
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Ladies want a gay football coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:46 PM
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Finding a "unicorn" that wants you back is difficult, even accounting for anecdotal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:45 PM
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Isn't that what literally everybody else is doing out there? Yes. Once again, believe what you want. This is my testament: To find a person who genuinely has those all those traits (to warrant me not having to "settle") and consistently displays them, also finds me desirable, and both parties are ready and willing for that level of commitment is, practically speaking, exceedingly difficult. People should go for that unicorn of their mind's eye, but be prepared to settle or check out. Otherwise, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:30 AM
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Counterintuitively, those who find utility in RP talking points are not always politically or socially conservative. Before I met my "unicorn" of a wife, I was not really red-pilled per se, just MGTOW, which has a lot of elements of red-pill philosophy. My parents' horrific divorce, specifically my mother's behavior and attempts at manipulation of family and friends during it, and the stresses it put my younger brother and I through influenced that choice. Now that I'm married, I would recommend…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:19 AM
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Again, to use your words, "normal, responsible" (and simultaneously attractive, witty, compassionate, and interested in me) women are exceedingly rare. You, along with, "mainstream society", overestimate the "garden-variety" person's level of competency. How do I know? Years of experience in my career, traveling, and trying to date "garden-variety" people. Believe what you want. Living in delusion isn't illegal or anything, but I wouldn't recommend it. Edit: Yes, she's "smokin' hawt", talented, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:54 AM
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That's what your problem is. Your perception is not reality. What seems to be the truth to you is not. You're perfectly within your rights to believe what you want, but I am telling you, from years of experience, given your question of "how many unicorns are there?", you are wrong if you believe quality marriageable adults are "not all that rare". To find a person who genuinely has all those traits (to warrant me not having to "settle") and consistently displays them, also finds me desirable, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:27 AM
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Well, “how many unicorns are there?”, is what we’re asking. How likely is it that you’ll run into one? u/Mrs_Drgree once asked, "What do you consider to be a quality woman?" I answered with the following list (in no particular order): reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life relatively easy to please financially independent athletic doesn't treat people expendably a sense of humor an attraction to her partner self-aware These attributes are that of what I'd call a "unicorn". I married a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:55 AM
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Like many have said, women will just opt out of the market. I know. That's why lesbianism can be a potential "new market" if: Men barely do anything to make themselves attractive. But then you say: I don't have a problem finding guys I think that are hot that want me? Seems contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:32 PM
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No, I meant: are you so sure you'll find a man a with suitable attributes to your liking to bear a child at a sperm bank? Or will you skip looking at their profiles and pick a random donor? (Also, not "you" specifically, the woman in your hypothetical.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:44 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:34 PM
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I meant in terms of you finding more choices for a suitable partner. If most men are unattractive to you, why not try lesbianism? Women may be more aesthetically pleasing to you, and you'll have a lot more potential mates who find men equally as undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:30 PM
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Women who have financial means and want children will just go ahead and have them (sperm bank etc) if they can’t find a suitable partner. Are you sure that you will perceive the type of men who donate to a sperm bank to be of high enough value to accept bearing a child with their DNA?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:56 PM
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You married that loser in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:49 PM
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There's always lesbianism!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:45 PM
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What you want, what you deserve, and what you think you deserve are not always the same, objectively. Many times, people paradoxically overestimate their worth to others and undervalue their own self-worth. Being self-aware is important to building relationships on trust, and, to me, an desirable and attractive quality in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:13 PM
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Women are going to have get used to be the ones pursuing and initiating going forward. "Chad" or not, for better or worse, the legal risks are too high for men to begin courting or initiating intimacy in today's environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:03 AM
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Women are going to have get used to be the ones pursuing and initiating going forward. "Chad" or not, for better or worse, the legal risks are too high for men to begin courting or initiating intimacy in today's environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:03 AM
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End-game? Not get consumed by people and a society that deems men as expendable resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:34 AM
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I built the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:32 PM
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One day, you will use a different emoji at the end of your comments, and the Earth will reverse its rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:01 PM
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It's everyone for themselves. I assert that this has always been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:59 AM
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The definition of average is what half of a group is below, and what half of a group is above. That would be the median.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:58 AM
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People of high value are rare and tend to only want relationships only with other people of high value. Get good, settle, live in delusion, or check out (MGTOW/WGTOW). Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:16 AM
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I'm trying to understand the depth of inclusion when you say "men see women as meat". It's a bold claim. All men? Most men? Some men? A few men? Old men? Young men? Boys? Your family? Your friends? Your partner, if you have one? Americans? Asians? Africans? Europeans? What men? Basically, qualify or quantify your position. If you want to, and have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:04 PM
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As in, your mother and grandmothers weren't able to divorce your father and grandfathers respectively?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:34 PM
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it was too late I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:27 PM
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Even though I'm out of the game now, I agree with the sentiment. I have to say it again, women are going to have to get used to approaching first now. "Chad" or not, for better or worse, the dating environment currently doesn't seem like it allows for men to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:22 PM
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Butthurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:58 PM
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Sorry, typo. Would it be safe to say your father and grandfathers saw their partners as people rather than "meat", as you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:57 PM
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Is it safe to say your fathers and grandfathers as people rather than "meat", as you put it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:35 PM
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Everything I listed, I've seen when lurking FDS. Your gaslighting doesn't change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:33 PM
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Thank you for sharing. ​ Tell me, are you 100% sure that neither of you is secretly harboring feelings? Are any of them single ? Of my wife's friends of the opposite gender, I think 1 is single. Of my friends of the opposite gender, approximately half (4 people) are single. Of those 4, I think 1 has a clear crush on me. Unspoken about, but I believe that she knows I am aware of it. No boundaries have been broken, but she does flirt when drunk and we're at a gathering/party/out. Hard to say with …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:39 PM
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they don't advocate for physical violence. Not quite. #KillAllMen #NeuterAllMen "If he got hit, he deserved it." "Just cut their balls off and be done with it." etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:50 PM
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I have severe distrust of male female friendships as a result of my experiences. While your partner is okay with abiding by your terms, as you said, are you open to any sort of therapy that can help heal your past trauma and allow for the possibility of unsupervised platonic friendships with the opposite gender for your husband or you and another hetero male? Or is it a complete categorical denial as a possibility for you? Interested in your view due to the fact that I have many friendships with…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:37 PM
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So you're kinda damned if you do and damned if you don't. I think it's high time (hetero) women start making the first moves because based on the way people speak, there's no "appropriate" scenario for male-initiated courting anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:08 PM
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I will never ever be friends with a man again (unless he's the friend of my husband or husband of a female friend). Is it then correct to infer that you believe platonic friendships between hetero men and women are impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:05 PM
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men see women as meat. What do women see men as, in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:02 PM
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I didn't make that site. That doesn't make the assumption you claimed. As I said before, the system isn't including parameters such as personality and physical appearance beyond obesity. And most importantly reciprocated attraction. The site's purpose is not convince women to have zero preferences. It's to cross reference different basic preferences and show how it narrows the selection of available men drastically as standards increase. The point is to highlight the difference between people's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:55 PM
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So that comes out as 9.5%. That's roughly 1 out of 10 men (rounding up) will be your "type", not counting your attraction to their features (facial structure, physique besides obesity, hair, etc.) and personality. Also, they have to be attracted to you back. If we're generous, I'd say that cuts the 9.5% down to ~5% of men in the US would be eligible. So, being conservative with guesses and based on what you put, 1 in 20 men in the US are your "type" and would be interested as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:41 PM
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As per the website: The Female Delusion Calculator processes statistical data from two sources. Income and marital status information is derived from the 2020 Annual Social and Economic Supplement (ASEC) of the Current Population Survey (CPS) conducted by the Census Bureau of United States. Height and body mass index is derived from the 2017-2018 National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS). The 2017-2018 data was used in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:52 PM
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Actual sense of humor = Able to laugh at abstractions and oneself. I never said anything about rape jokes or dishwasher jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:42 PM
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Perhaps this handy calculator can give you some insight on the prevalence of a man who fits your ideal criteria for a partner. What this calculator doesn't factor in is personality type (which is, of course, difficult to quantify) and the fact that this hypothetical person has to also find you desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:04 AM
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I'm gonna say it loud for the people in the back: THE "GENDER WAR" IS A PROXY-WAR FOR THE ONLY WAR THAT'S EVER MATTERED: THE CLASS WAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:00 AM
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It's good risk management to trust, but verify. Hence, watching what people do compared to what they say is advisable, and is genderless wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:29 AM
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That would be my choice too. However, I stumbled upon a unicorn of a lady back in 2016. But certainly, my luck doesn't extend to everyone. Ya gotta do what ya gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:52 AM
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After a 2nd look, I think u/acornfroggie was trying imply that I'm terrible in bed, but I'm not sure. It's early where I'm at right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:44 AM
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Reposting my comment to another user, because it makes for a decent reply to OP's question in general. Poetically, the women of FDS personify the destructive feminine archetype of goddesses and characters of antiquity. Lilith. Hera. Kali, of my own Hindu tradition. They embody the anima of the rage-fueled woman who's wrath is so great that it will destroy the world. She will embrace her apocalyptic thirst for vengeance upon man, even at the cost of her own children, particularly her own daughter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:58 AM
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As I replied to another, it's an ideal to aspire to. Your results may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:55 AM
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Can you point me to the article that supports that, if you have time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:41 AM
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It's an ideal to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:39 AM
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Guess ya gotta settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:38 AM
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No, it's a reasonable goal, if she has reasonable standards for finding a partner who simultaneously finds her worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:55 AM
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Unchecked avarice destroys the environment and accelerates the risks of unbridled economic growth. Better technology also gives tyrants new means to expand their their sadism. Moral integrity has been dangerously outpaced by technical capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:52 AM
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That's why sex robots can't come fast enough; they'll "satisfy" the oceans of men who didn't and won't get picked by women. Women don't have to deal with "low-value" men, "low-value" men can get some action. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:43 AM
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reasonably able to adapt reasonable goals in life reasonably easy to please financially independent athletic doesn't treat people expendably an actual sense of humor an actual attraction to her partner self-aware
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:30 AM
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I wouldn't want to have sex with a virgin because my instincts tell me they're terrible in bed. Marry one? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:16 AM
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Poetically, the women of FDS personify the destructive feminine archetype of goddesses and characters of antiquity. Lilith. Hera. Kali, of my own Hindu tradition. They embody the anima of the rage-fueled woman who's wrath is so great that it will destroy the world. She will embrace her apocalyptic thirst for vengeance upon man, even at the cost of her own children, particularly her own daughters. The collateral destruction of her offspring by her own hand only causes her to commit wicked deeds f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:06 AM
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"Dance for me, slave."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:05 AM
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Talk is cheap. That's why rational people "watch what you do" to see if your words match your behavior and are as authentic as you claim to be. That quality in a man or woman shouldn't be a red flag, unless you're averse to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:39 PM
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Not facts; just my opinion. No man is entitled to "emotional support". No woman is entitled to a "rock". No one is entitled to someone "opening up". No one automatically requires unsolicited advice. Working through your own mental pathologies is just one more dimension of the individual struggle of managing the sometimes very unjust burdens of life. Having support is nice, but don't expect it. Plan for being alone through your journey; accept a willing partner who will support you as a pleasant …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:42 AM
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If a man thought I was hot, he’d be delusional Well, at least you're self-aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:52 AM
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Socialist economic systems are not immune to corruption and greed. That was the entire point of Orwell's Animal Farm. When the animals toppled the Farmer, the pigs never gave up and distributed control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:52 PM
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Because they think a crumb of pussy is worth the sociopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:47 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:55 AM
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I never once said reddit is strictly for Americans. As I actually said, it's like going to Paris freely, complaining about all the French people speaking French and doing French shit and then having the nerve to complain about all the French people calling you dumb for doing that. And then, accusing them of saying "Paris is only for the French." Yes, it's pretty difficult to make your own Paris. It might be easier to just deal with the fact that there's a lot of Parisians in Paris. My position i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:50 AM
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Reddit was invented by young men in their 20s with very little capital. It wasn't a venture by large corporate interests (at that time) or the US government. You're confusing your antipathy for American foreign policy with your prejudice against Americans. There's nothing stopping you from making your own forum based in your own country. And if your country's government won't allow it, I am reluctant to believe that American hegemony is responsible. In fact, several codebases on how to make simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:00 PM
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If I signed up for a forum hosted and headquartered in France, full of French people talking about French things, I wouldn't be an idiot and bitch about why everything and everyone was so Franco-centric. When nationals from outside the US complain about Americans talking too much about American things on reddit, they remind me of that old snaggle-toothed British lady complaining her holiday in Spain was ruined because there were too many Spaniards there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:46 PM
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Reddit was invented by Americans, maintains its headquarters in the US, and has a predominantly American user-base. Why other nationals are so annoyed at all the Americans talking about American things on a website hosted in America that's full of Americans, I'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:37 PM
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What is "emotional protection"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:02 PM
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I'd have to take your definition on what a "normal sex drive" for someone my age is seriously. You haven't presented that, nor any evidence supporting your claim. My position is that while testosterone levels do decrease during the aging process causing a drop in libido in both human males and females, your claim about when that happens simply doesn't match reality. It happens, just later in life than you think. Libido starts really tanking after 55 roughly, when men who don't stay active lose e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:45 PM
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The gender war is a proxy-war for the only war that ever mattered: the class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:58 PM
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"If all you want in the game of life is women, you will lose."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:34 PM
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You might have an uninformed opinion about when sexual drive is reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:02 AM
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Yes and no. Depends on how much you're willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:20 AM
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Women are independent people, and generally speaking, claim to know what they want. If they want you, they'll show you. If they want you, and don't show you, they're not good communicators and not worth it. Their libidos are very different than men and diverse in intensity. They have no problems making some people wait and others to not have to. And that's well within their rights No one is entitled to sex or commitment. The only things a man has some control over is his time and effort. Don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:11 AM
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I don't know if this answers your questions well. You must act in a way that fits your goals in life and speak in a way that's authentic to your personality. My instinct tells me that "telling them off" is a fool's errand. Other men may disagree. I've only done that in relationships when I was younger, thought I was in the right, and felt I needed to prove something. The precise question from me to the hypothetical woman would be, "what makes you think the way your acting is acceptable?" If thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:12 PM
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Do you think a competent man that you're attracted to would even need your "emotional protection"? What is "emotional protection"? It sounds like coddling someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:49 PM
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What (heterosexual) women say they want and what they do and choose are very different things. They almost will never admit it, but they want sexy, chiselled father-figures that unapologetically call them out of their default mindset and behavior of an angsty, insecure teenager with _________-issues. A "bad boy" is an unflappable, competent, good-looking man who demands reason and accountability from them and others in their life. He has a plethora of other options and will exercise them quickly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:31 PM
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Will you protect him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:02 PM
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They want a bad boy father-figure who's only nice to them who demands reason and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:52 PM
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This is true, paradoxically from both a sarcastic and a literal interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:51 PM
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Sex drive doesn't fall off a cliff when you think it does. Your perception differs from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:15 AM
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I'm not the other commenter. I am 38. Women are still fucking and want to fuck. You are completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:53 AM
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If all you want out of life is relationships, you're going to have a bad time. There's more to your existence than other people, but you have to actually want to explore a life beyond the mundane and banal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:49 AM
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The judgement has always been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:14 AM
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What does your doctor say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:05 AM
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Editors and senior journalists "decide". Sometimes they're bribed. Sometimes they push their own agenda. If one has any sense, they're looking for primary sources. Very few companies have no-frill reporting anymore. All one can do is sift through vitriol to find actual rigorously tested information and form their own opinions or make decisions. Or spend the time and invoke the scrutiny to become a primary source themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:56 AM
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a peaceful life where men and women actually try to empathize with and help each other That's what people of actual "high value" actually do in real life. It's sort of a contemporary take on Voltaire's "horticultural quietude".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:45 AM
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Maybe when you prove yourselves to not be inconsiderate selfish bums and would actually give a fuck about your wife's feelings, your sanctimonious proposition would be more believable You wouldn't believe the oceans of sanctimonious women out there who think they're entitled to rational, well-adjusted men with decent hygiene when they're just as disgusting, selfish, and solipsistic as the slovenly mouth-breathers that they complain about and get into and stay in relationships with in the first p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:43 AM
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So, I read your comment and I asked my cousin, a physician, if, during medical school, she heard a superior or instructor mention: to prepare for the husband to abandon their sick wife She unequivocally said no, and that whatever instructor would say something like that would be heavily scrutinized, reprimanded, censured. She said that in the few times someone "leaves" in the case of illness, there's not a noticeable difference in numbers on whether it's the woman or the man. She's been practici…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:28 AM
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"Genius intellect" who's an American varietal of a "conservative Christian".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 06:01 AM
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Yes. That's why wise people click on the link to the actual peer-reviewed journal article.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:54 AM
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They're capitalist constitutional monarchies with robust social welfare policies in order to propagate better outcomes in their capitalist economies. A lot of my fellow American countrymen/women don't know what socialism and capitalism actually mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:54 AM
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Point me towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:13 PM
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To you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:33 AM
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victors and its spoils losers Spoils, legal-dictionary-wise, are the profits or prizes someone takes during or after a war, either legitimately or illegitimately, as in the case of looting. In this context I think you meant losers, though I could be misinterpreting what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:22 PM
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The sooner men stop seeking validation from women, the happier they will be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 09:47 PM
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Anarchy > Patriarchy. No masters, no slaves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 08:40 AM
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Self-respect and self-discipline are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:48 PM
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I can't afford the healthy lean protein intake required to put on another 15lbs to defeat my runner's build. Inflation on food is through the nose. I eat cleanly now and it already costs me an arm and a leg. I am not 6'2". I am not "scrawny". I am not you. I feel great and can still run, bike, swim, along with weight training with ease. I want the extra weight but I don't need it. My BMI is within healthy tolerance and my blood pressure is good. My doctor said 145 is perfectly fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:41 PM
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I am not "skeletor". I'm within normal weight profile for my height. But do want to bulk a tad bit more. It's been a caloric intake issue for me. I want to push it to 155-160 lbs but the caloric intake required is hard for me to keep consistent even with weight training. I think it's the chemistry of my metabolism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:36 PM
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Let the human race die in a caustic puddle of their own hubris.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 09:04 AM
1

learn to be funny A subtle, yet vital, art in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:47 AM
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It's not about "looking fuckable" at the end of the day, if we're talking about optimum-for-life. It's about "do I respect my health enough for it to be a positive contribution to my disposition and personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:44 AM
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They (the fit ones) are my guidepost. My fellow "average" American countrymen of European descent are examples of what not to do in terms of diet and physical fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:39 AM
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Slim and toned Indian-American guy here at 5'10" (178cm), 145 lbs. (65.8 kg). The only women who are where I'm at physically at age 38 are from (mostly) South America, Europe, or the Middle East, or whoever doesn't gorge on giant portions of fried food all the time. I realize that not everyone will magically control BMI through diet, exercise, and discipline, but JFC, my American counterparts have a serious problem with portion control and regular strenuous physical activity. It's hard not to la…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:28 AM
3

big brain make peepee feel small
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:57 AM
3

Why do big word make you insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:37 AM
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I can tell. Sure there's better jobs than others, but it's always been obvious to me. And it will never be as attractive as natural lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:37 PM
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Lip-filler. Rhinoplasties. Butt implants. Breast implants. Hair extensions. Eyelash extensions. Drawn-on eyebrows. The underlying reason is because women demand authenticity, and everything about your appearance is fake. These women don't even look like humans anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:09 PM
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"brang"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 07:51 PM
5

The "gender wars" are proxy wars for the class war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:09 AM
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Anyone dumb enough to join the military should be allowed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Alpha-Widowed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:12 AM
1

please dont move the goalposts But that's the meta of every "good faith participator" in this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:09 AM
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I have been for years, and, counterintuitively, it only elicits more attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:40 PM
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What is the reality you're trying to peddle that's supposed to "sting me a bit"? Yes, the Tinder study is bullshit. What is an appropriate confidence interval of the surveys? 1%? 2%? 5%? Quantitatively and qualitatively significant sample size and makeup would have to include people in relationships of any sort, not just marriages. Polyamorous couples too. Couples of all age groups and geographic regions. And more couples in general. I'm simply critiquing you for twisting survey results to fit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:27 PM
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Women are a lot less enthusiastic about dating than men are, which is fine, they don't owe men anything, but men have to decide for themselves if they want to put in all this effort in order to woo a thoroughly mediocre and indifferent partner. THE SOONER MEN EMANCIPATE THEMSELVES FROM THEIR NEED TO BE VALIDATED BY WOMEN, THE HAPPIER THEY WILL BE.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:14 AM
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Then don't. You are the one who posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:24 AM
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The sample sizes of the studies are woefully small to have any sort of confidence in their "conclusions". Selection bias is important to consider the weight of veracity in findings. The fact that you don't address this in your OP or your replies to people reveals your severe lack of training in applied statistics. It's not possible to take these studies or your inferences seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:20 AM
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That they all think and want the same thing and naively think that any differences are completely reconcilable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:07 AM
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The number of people who openly show disdain, disgust, and outright contempt to men who cry about the loss of a loved one or friend, the trauma of sexual any sort of abuse, or even tears of joy/relief is too damn high. The number of people who who believe they're entitled to my time, effort, affection, and wallet without any reciprocation just because they asked me out instead of me asking them is too damn high. The number of people who believe men are sex-obsessed, sociopathic, psychopathic, em…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:21 AM
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It's been admitted by men themselves that they're less likely to want to see a hookup again and more likely to cheat just because the opportunity presents itself. Like I said, you're the one living in a fantasy world. Source it, or it's just your own fantasy world that your projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:12 AM
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Most women don't really like men. It's nothing personal, they just don't like men. Most women will lie about whatever it is you think that women lie about. Yes, "buddy". That's why I said "Lying liars will lie." Hypothetically, I won't get mad at a venomous snake biting me in the wild. It's their nature. It's natural for people to lie to their partners, their peers, and themselves about what they want (especially in relationships). Still doesn't negate me from not wanting to be lied to; that's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:32 PM
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My mistake. It was u/LadyM2, not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:03 PM
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Does he share the same opinion that "most men are misogynists"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:59 PM
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I'd like to try I'm Getting Called Out and I Haven't Any Real Thoughts Besides Ad Hominem Snark for 500, Alex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:44 PM
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I mean, try it! You may like it! And the best part? No misogynist men for you to sift through anymore, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:41 PM
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Oh, certainly not angry. A bit taken aback by the degree of hypocrisy from time to time and silently noting the trait, but far from bitter or holding on to resentment. (Hetero) Women gonna women. It is what it is. However, I have seen variants of that statement before on this sub in the past. I personally don't think it's a completely unfounded accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:39 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:26 PM
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I think OP's argument is that women shouldn't lie to men on PPD, as in his title of this post: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT" Personally, I wouldn't want women to lie to me about the true nature of their desire, but that's a fool's hope. Lying liars will lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:08 PM
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most men are misogynists anyway. There's always lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:04 PM
5

Until you get syphilis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:15 PM
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Will the guy at the left pay for all the dates? Why should he pay for all the dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:15 PM
3

Break the wheel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:40 PM
2

Ad Homininen Hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:39 PM
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which are more about 'technique' or form than a deeper understanding of the topic This is what is known as "Sophistry".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:37 PM
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To be fair, some men have worked their asses off for everything they have. Source: I have worked my ass off for everything I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:31 PM
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Why do you need men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:30 PM
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Women: "God, why are men so obsessed with n-count, virginity, sex, vaginal tightness, and other contrived bullshit!" Also, Women: "Triggered much, incel virgin?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:25 PM
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Every single one of my (38/M) male friends is more fit than their wife or girlfriend. Anecdotal, I know, but I'm compelled to comment that my experience just doesn't match the over-arching trend in the statistics you cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:14 PM
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I'll take Gaslighting for 300, Alex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:39 PM
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The one on the right. I already clean and cook. I have a modest amount of self-respect and self-love. If she cheats, I end it. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:19 PM
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I'll take Clinging to an Over-used Joke Format so Women on PPD Will Pick Me for 200, Alex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:06 AM
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How dare you accuse women of having an awful sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:01 AM
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Do these women know how unattractive it is when they say shit like this? Either they're unaware or they don't care. I can't tell which.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 09:23 AM
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I AM LILITH'S CRUSTY HITACHI
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:58 AM
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Women are as individualistic as men. LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 PM
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Keeps things lively.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:04 PM
2

Read what you just posted, and then tell me you're not an incredibly damaged person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:03 PM
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For smart people, "dealing with their crazy" is fun when you've excess time and patience. For most of life though, it's straight up "move bitch, get out the way."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:01 AM
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Oh stop making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:49 AM
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When sex-bots get better than all women at sex, the dating pool will be empty. Which is great for lesbians. And then female programmers can install a feature to kill all the men right at the point of climax, ushering in the rad-fem's utopia of a world completely without men. And then, as the last woman dies, our species goes extinct. Unless, like the frogs and dinosaurs in Jurassic Park, life... finds a way... But at least at the end, all men will die cumming uncontrollably, and women get their …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:46 AM
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Nah. We don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:33 AM
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STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:29 AM
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Seems to be a troll account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 03:26 AM
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Only with envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:04 AM
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Doesn't make what I said false.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:01 PM
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You're not wrong about getting out there. I too have travelled a lot. The more I see, the more I realize most people are the same basic-ass, self-absorbed, self-righteous, know-it-all NPCs who can't wait to infect everyone and everything with their suffocating mediocrity. It's a rare gem of an individual who dares to take life by the neck, but still retain a measure of balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:27 PM
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100000000%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:22 PM
1

Why a Big Red Stick? Why not green?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:08 PM
1

Ein Volk! Ein Reich! Ein grammatikalisch korrekter Pontifikator!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:21 PM
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My kids are my first focus and priority and they will never compete with my romantic endeavors. This right here is why other single parents are more compatible. They aren't competing with your children. Both single parents are seconded to the priority of raising their respective children, and both parties understand why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:13 PM
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Huh. Not my experience. I've asked some women to get tested with me beforehand. I remember this one girl got super offended. To the point of yelling at me and trying to slap me for insinuating their glorious perfect little hoohah might kill me, to which I noped the fuck outta there. Called me later apologizing but still didn't want to get tested. Didn't want me to use a condom either, but would let me watch her swallow her birth control pill. Probably the most bizarre of those incidents, but yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:36 PM
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I completely and strongly disagree. Other single parents are the only ones who can understand the burden of being a single parent. I've a friend who has kids. He switched to only dating single women. There are firm boundaries between themselves and their respective children in the beginning of the relationships. There is a camaraderie in the journey of being a single parent. He's in one now. They don't parent each other's kids. They make time and plan for dates around their parental obligations.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:28 PM
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Would rather be single for life than to be raising someone else’s kids. But presumably, if a relationship with you is successful enough to be married, that man without his own children would be obligated to raise or, at the very least, look after yours. Or will you never marry? Were you married to the father of your children? To what extent is a man who has no children and dates you long-term/marries you obligated to your kids? If you expect a childless man to be with you long-term and help rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:18 PM
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I'm calm as the Buddha. I'm saying temper your arrogance, and don't be over-hurt when Americans correct your grammar on a predominantly American website. I wouldn't expect less speaking your native language on a website based at wherever it is you're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:06 PM
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Reddit has a predominantly American user-base, and was invented in the US and maintains its headquarters here. People speak and write the American varietal of English. Corrections in grammar are common, and should be taken lightly. The "imbeciles" are looking at your "finger" because your "moon" has already been observed and dissected philosophically and it's made of paper. You haven't revealed anything profound. Being a slave to sexual desire puts one at an extreme disadvantage when dealing wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:58 PM
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I'd die thirsty before drinking poisoned water. Dating is definitely a desert in terms of well-adjusted, fiscally responsible, physically-in-shape, and situationally adaptable women who have reasonable goals in life though. On that, I will agree. Doesn't mean I'm desperate to fuck whatever's available. Not having a relationship is infinitely better than having a bad one. My estimation is that at least 75% of men in dating ages agree with this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:43 PM
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Tell that to the women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:32 PM
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Plenty of reasons. She could be fugly, give off skeezy "I've got every STD possible" vibes, an aura of desperation, her breath could smell like ass, crazy-bitch vibes, etc. Just because she's got a vajay and she asked me out doesn't mean I'm gonna put my weenie in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:28 PM
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On the issue of dating people with children, I've said it once, I'll say it again, a million times: The most compatible people for single parents are other single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:34 AM
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Well, it matters at the very least in determining one's potential exposure to STDs and general discretion towards intimacy. If your dates were with supposedly rational men of means, I've no doubt they'd be at least wondering about yours, if not asking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:27 AM
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No, it's really about not contracting STDs; that's why body count matters for me, a little bit. Also, it says something about a person's discretion in intimacy, which could be an important factor in the compatibility of personality. If people were smarter/had patience, they'd demand test results no older than 1 day, or something like that, before getting down. Wishful thinking and impractical, so the next best thing could be inquiring about the number of previous sexual partners to get an estima…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:23 AM
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NPC
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 12:52 AM
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Most people are completely unaware of how much they're a slave to their hormones. Studying the limbic system, among others, can give one profound insight and awareness about the motivations behind their behavior and psychological disposition, and lead them to mental tools to assert dominance over what is normally their inescapable neurochemical prison of behavior patterns. If you're really only 16, by studying and understanding your own hormonal development and in primates in general, you'll att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:39 PM
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But in that same vain vein
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:37 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:18 PM
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A nuanced "cosmic" perspective can affect the perception of and change one's "realm that matters" positively as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:13 PM
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Finding women to flirt with in the house of the lord seems risky given the history of the subject.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 03:17 AM
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In the context of my post, coping would be to try for LTRs with high-value people with your current attribute sets even though you never attain it, and self-soothe with psychological mechanisms to keep playing the game for the highest possible "prize" despite failing. All of this instead of improving, settling, or giving up on dating altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:39 AM
5

MGTOW or WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:31 AM
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High-value people are rare and tend to want LTRs with only other high-value people. Get good, settle, cope, or check out (M/WGTOW, not suicide). Those are the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:27 PM
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So, looking through your lens, are all men lying, manipulating, and shirking fatherly duties at astronomical rates? Or are most men sexless or have few and infrequent options? Those statements seem contradictory. Perhaps you mean, "the few men who get sex and have options are lying manipulators who skip out on raising their kids." Can you clarify?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:50 PM
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Men, are you okay with your female SO watching porn? And for the sake of argument let’s say she’s not watching lesbian porn. Let’s say she’s into raw “fuck me good daddy” “big dick” “masculine dude” hetero porn. Yes. I'm away from her and out of the country for long periods sometimes. Better she watches porn and/or uses toys than find another man. ​ Do you guys watch it together? No. Though I wouldn't be bothered by that. ​ Would you feel a way if you saw what she watched and how much she watche…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:14 PM
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Or (and this is undeniably the best option) I can meet women that are completely separated from me and my friend groups. Precisely the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:49 PM
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I always let men ask me out bc otherwise it feels rapey it's so uneven. I don't understand what you mean by "uneven", and why you asking a guy out would feel "rapey". Edit: Forgive me for being dense, but after re-reading your response a few times, I'm still having trouble connecting your bad relationship(s) to the conclusion that "any man would fuck any woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:59 AM
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War only validates vague arbitrary notions of "masculinity" to those who've never fought in one, nor seen its effects first-hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:54 AM
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Their moral determination of what acceptable male sexual desire and personal sexual satisfaction is the only one that should be valid in the world, and that anyone not complying with that infuriates them. Abundance of partners and mates for a man is revolting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:53 AM
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Physical attributes certainly compose an important pillar of attraction for women, but in my experience, the more important pillar is having a cultivated talent (e.g. music & fine arts, sports, telling jokes, writing, cooking, sewing, fishing, hunting, carpentry & home improvement, fashion design, medical acumen etc.) Being good at something and becoming outstanding at it is an effective aphrodisiac. That can be hereditary, certainly, but one can only be outstanding, and therefore noticeable by …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:35 AM
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while somplace like China had a bit more stability. If you think this, I urge you to look up Chinese and Japanese military history and try to prove that it's anywhere near the definition of stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:41 PM
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How many times were you used by men to justify this position? Was it one guy? Five? Ten? At what age(s)? What type of men did you allow to be intimate with you? What attracted you to them enough to lower your guard to intimacy? You don't have to answer those questions certainly, nor would I expect an honest answer from a stranger on the internet. But "Any man would fuck any woman for the most part." strikes me as a bold claim on 3+ billion people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:32 PM
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Because any men would fuck any woman for the most part. How did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:49 PM
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Can't tell if you're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:32 PM
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Ok, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:49 PM
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Moral judgements aside, the pattern continues. The best we can do is manage risk and look out for that pattern of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:48 PM
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People are not commodities. I respect your sentiment, but people have been "commoditized" by their peers and social groups since the beginning of civilization. A human being was the OG "livestock" for those retaining or seeking power over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:55 AM
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The most compatible people for single parents are other single parents, and for some reason, all the single parents can't seem to figure that simple fact out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:51 AM
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This sub is full of broken people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:29 AM
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Woah Woe is me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:10 AM
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BLOCK. AND. RUN. THE. FUCK. AWAY.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 02:32 AM
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Just don't be butt-hurt by their behavior. It's a waste of time, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:26 AM
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This is a long-winded way of saying that American women are stupid and ignorant. They're more so ignorant, than stupid per se. In the rural South? Definitely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:16 AM
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Bravo network's whole game plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:33 AM
1

Many men (certainly not all) suffer from Madonna-whore complex. Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:25 AM
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Here ya go. Also, this is another reason why I think our "culture" is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:47 PM
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I know this question is for Europeans, but I'm compelled to chime in. American dating culture, I've found, has such a toxic and sinister underpinning to it that I had to "import" and find a partner in Europe lol. And we're going strong, even separated by the pandemic! To me it's not just dating, it's a cultural/economic phenomenon. Why I prefer dating a non-American as an American? Too many of my fellow citizens have tunnel vision on the state of affairs and what the world and other peoples are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:47 PM
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Women don't have time to "string you along" You're underestimating people's propensity to manipulate others, especially regarding sex and relationships. ​ You've got scissors, cut your own strings. Now this is solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:40 AM
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I am analyzing if your interest is reciprocated enough to make me cutting off my other options be worth it. Exactly. Both genders do this. All sexual orientations do this. I won't make a claim that this is good behavior or bad, but it's what people do, and to waste life being butt-hurt by the realization of being someone's "option" instead of sole interest is a fool's errand. At least for now, in contemporary times. But then again, I'm 37. I must remember that it might not be such an obvious tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:31 AM
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beta qualities ability to acquire resources
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:23 AM
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This feels fake. Like, it seems too "on the nose" to be an actual situation, almost as if it's someone's fantasy of an "alpha-widowed" situation. The internet is destroying my capacity to take anything at face-value.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 06:16 AM
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I don't know why you were downvoted. When you're relatively physically, mentally, and fiscally stable, you become attractive in your 30's. I'm also a musician, love humor, and confidence while talking to women has never been a problem, even when I was a teenager, so I do have some historical advantages. When I was younger, the solicitation was "nice". At this age, it's tedious. In recent history, I'm asked out mostly by women I'd never want to pursue or have any sort of association with whatsoev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:21 PM
3

jealous envious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:08 PM
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Nothing. It's not my life to "save". No Lives Matter<sup>TM</sup>.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:08 PM
1

Only rubes need a fucking "pastor".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:54 PM
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As a hetero dude, I'd want a woman who's soft to me, but can throw the fuck down if needed. Let's face it, it pays to have a team mate in violent conflict. Assertive behavior in the face of threats is attractive to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:19 AM
1

There is no "god", or at least in the way that a human mind historically conceives of a deity. What I mean is that once a MGTOW/WGTOW matures and evolves past their initial stages of despair, rage, and a sense of betrayal, they tend to not be too concerned with "proclamations" or engaging in "gender wars" online, and only focused on their own edification.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:00 AM
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Not universally true. From my (37/M) own experience, I get approached for dates or "hang-outs" by women more than I've asked them. However, for the majority of men, I'd wager they're not getting asked for dates by women too often, so maybe it's indeed almost always the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:52 AM
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The person who asks initially is obligated to pay for the 1st date, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:25 PM
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In your eyes. Not to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:26 PM
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The people that are truly "going their own way" are going their own way already, not posting online about it, and usually avoid talking about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:18 PM
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No, being single as opposed to being in a bad relationship is a success no matter what is between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:12 PM
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Snarky Puppy is far superior, depending on your taste of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:31 PM
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An expensive compliment, to say the least. Have you seen prices on quality hoodies lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:26 PM
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Your comment reminded me of an old saying. Old sayings are often dumb, and taken out of context, so their worth is always suspect. But here it goes: "A lot of women want bad boys who are only good to them alone. And after a while, even that becomes boring to them."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:05 PM
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And you look great doin' it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:28 PM
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(Bare Bear with me on this okay)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:04 PM
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Another theory being posed by the (growing) minority with serious issues, as you put it, is that even though a woman may settle for an "average" dude, she will dump said guy and jump at the chance for one of those gifted men. Hypergamous behavior has no social taboo associated with it anymore, and I'm uncertain if it ever really did. I don't know what the answer is because I feel the only brake on it would be to reintroduce a social stigma about it, but I'm not prepared to advocate restricting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:24 AM
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I gotta commend you on tellin' it how it is. I also think a lot of those men aren't considering how much time they actually have to date, or their locale either, assuming everything else is pretty sorted out in terms of attractiveness to women. From a male perspective, I feel the same way as you about women in my experience, not all, obviously. Even the ones I thought were diamonds in the rough initially. It'd be one thing if I didn't have anything to offer, but I developed myself. Got a graduat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:20 PM
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The theory being posed by many is that women nowadays only want gifted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:49 PM
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And if you fix your weight, income, and appearance, don't automatically assume you're going to or deserve to get laid, no matter how much you've improved. Sexual attractiveness is almost completely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:44 PM
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No, you're wrong. He illustrated the just world fallacy, using a hypothetical response to someone having cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:20 PM
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Again, you're succumbing to the just world fallacy. Your personal experience doesn't reflect real-world issues for many men you haven't encountered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:12 PM
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dope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:40 AM
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What is going on men, are you ok? We're fine. What we want from a romantic partner is: honesty empathy ("don't treat me as expendably as the rest of society does") an actual sense of humor an actual physical attraction fiscal responsibility to hit the gym consistently ("if I can go on the reg, you can too") an ability to adapt to changing circumstances a set of reasonable goals for your life You know, THE SAME SHIT YOU WOULD WANT OUT OF A PARTNER.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:18 AM
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Honestly, hard to round up a diverse set of rants about their life over listening as the unmarried friend over the years, but there's 2 that never left me after hearing them (and I'm paraphrasing) confide in me at around age 35: From a female friend: "God, I could've done so much better. I mean, look at him. He's so boring. Same shit. Year after year. Ugh, and my kids are half him too. Gross. What was I thinking?" From a male friend: "Is this really all there is? Holy fuck, how fat is she going …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:35 PM
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I'm a child-free elder millenial (37), and a disturbing number of similarly aged peers (I'd estimate over 50%) and friends regret getting married and having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:52 AM
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See: Madonna/Whore Complex Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love." Some women do this to men as well. A woman wants a bad boy who's only good to her, but gets bored of even that after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:38 AM
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Nice Spineless guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:35 PM
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bare bear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 AM
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Only a sith deals in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:00 AM
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The more men and women emancipate themselves from the need for validation from one another, the better this world will become.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:46 AM
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