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Debate_Reptilelover/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:58 AM
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It's the era of tarrifs dude, if they play oversmart we'll play it back very well too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:03 PM
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Hypergamy ensures most women with a working braincel will only choose to marry someone who earns more than her or has higher social status so in 99 % they're the only ones eligible for the money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:01 AM
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Let me be honest with you bro , the investment both financial and emotional is higher for men even for this 'dating' thing doesn't make sense to invest , like someone said I could just put it in some high quality escort instead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:56 PM
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Women , they get paid for divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:54 PM
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There is something like that finasteride, but It is really dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:41 AM
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Oh ok that was insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:41 AM
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I don't need a partner I need a kid that is my dilemma and I have to depend on women for that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:11 AM
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Most of them with options are like this itself if they don't have options and at the bottom of the barrel who wants them the best option is to do a holistic review of other traits like status , education, career level while making a decision and it is always better to stay a voluntary celibate than settle for anything less you're not missing out on anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:09 AM
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Yep , nice points but the last paragraph kind of contradicts the above a lot Learning how to be an equal and respectful partner will put you miles ahead into achieving a successful relationship. I don't think so , if I am an equal partner then defacto hypergamy causes the woman to lose interest to me , respect is also questionable since I have to manage both respect and showing high status at the same time which Is really tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:05 AM
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Emotional investment, legal issues , emotional investment is much higher for men in relationships that is why men take much longer to recover also monetary risks , loss of children and property
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:57 AM
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Just divorce him then , if he' the wrong person, they're incentivized for that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:55 AM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:52 AM
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Voluntary celibacy is the solution, i believe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:52 AM
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Lol , you just said my point , those women who earn as much the guy wouldn't be attracted to them , that is the basics of hypergamy , and that is the question here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:50 AM
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Reddit is mostly male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:49 AM
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No thanks , I will stay voluntary celibate instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:48 AM
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How about spending money on researching a drug that safely and effectively reduces male sex drive , that would be good too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:46 AM
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Yeah , but the issue is settling with the wrong woman comes with financial costs for men as divorce is almost irrecoverable at a later age , plus losing 50 % and kids will make me less attractive to other women in market too Also my question is why even settle for anything less than your ideal why even give low value men or women a chance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:17 AM
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First of all , great write up , I know plenty of ugly and broke men in relationships. The pressure to be “good enough” is for thin, young, beautiful women, who let’s be honest, are out of most guys league. Average women want average men. Below average women want below average men. Outliers are just that - outliers. Don’t look at insta baddies to see what “all women” want Yep there are not a plenty of them but a fair few of broke and ugly ones in relationships but it is mostly those college kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:13 AM
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Nope , do you think you'll be happy alongside a 3 or 4 out of 10 , if you're a 6/10 , you should look for 6 or 5 s at best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:45 AM
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And most of them end up in divorces, because hypergamy leads to women having delusional ideas about their own attractiveness leading to average women not being content with the average man Women are still being 100 % discriminated against Where , is this your fantasy or something ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:41 AM
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Loss of a long term investment especially in most relationships men will invest more than women , unless you have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:18 AM
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See it like this , women are no longer discriminated and are now even performing better than men to the extent that the woke culture has pushed it , that almost 70 % of people graduating from colleges are women , and they grow up to use the DEI or any other broken system to improve their social status and then expects a higher ranking guy , this is really unfair and puts a lot of pressure on average dude , what would you do if you were an average man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:22 PM
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Hustling to reach there but I am willing to learn and put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:15 PM
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How does guys lowering standards help ? Hypergamy is in female instincts and it is going to stay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:15 PM
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Do you think the top 20 % men are just settling with any women ? They're not monogamous at the least
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:13 PM
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Hypergamy exists regardless , there are top tier women expecting even higher ranked men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:13 PM
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You're right competition is increasing these factors are becoming more relevant than ever and yes I think these are a part of the bigger problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:12 PM
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But as y'all age she'll probably find someone who will marry her and leave you anyway. This is what I am afraid of , not her leaving but leaving me at a bad position
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:10 PM
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Long term relationships are a one time investments also it is better if we get everything from a single person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:04 PM
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Social media and comparison never did the amount of validation seeking mostly by women is at all time high , alll thanks to desperate lonely men , even the top 20 % have changed we are no longer thinking of our immediate neighbourhood but at a global level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:57 PM
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I think most dating problems stem from higher individualization to the point of isolation paired up with lower social skills, worse work and life balance, a lack of communities and third spaces etc Female perspective this may be true but not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:44 PM
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So basically accept the reality that you won't get a complete package and be happy with what you get , right , that your relationship will be at best unsatisfactory and unfulfilling ? Or what about going for a surrogate and avoid this hassle altogether by hustling ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:26 PM
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Are we consumers or products in this market ? Can you please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:13 PM
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Agreed but given the current scenario, let's say you enter a relationship with a woman of similar or slightly lower social standings and you marry , eventually your wife gets a better guy or a guy with a higher social status she leaves you takes half of your wealth , final result she uses the wealth to improve her status , how do you tackle this scenario ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:12 PM
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But this is the dilemma , can you come up with a strategy that doesn't compromise on women' quality while tackling hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:06 PM
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Yep , you keep proving my point again and again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:02 PM
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Yeah , those "standards" should be realistic, right know it is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah , you proved my point , that is exactly what I was saying too , men are being too chill and easy on themselves when they should be hustling every living hour,. competition and hypergamy is at all time high
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:56 PM
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Wait until you experience it in real life , it will fry you out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:54 PM
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You call yourself a red pill man and say this ? , like hypergamy is not in the decline in the west it is at all time high, like western women are basically as successful as men , how can they find men that they are attracted to due to both man and her having similar social status
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:53 PM
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most of them are useless beings with a superiority complex who's only good for sex, Barely, Most of them are not good at sex , they just lay there and act dead , I don't know how is that arousing That's when they see the difference between useless over-confident women, versus the useful humble women. Which ends the hypergamy in his life. But here is where the issue comes in yes we can find such quality women but it comes with compromises like we may have to compromise on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:44 PM
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